Honestely at 18 i constructed my future plans around the fear of not being financially secure but also the fear of having a job i hate. I thought about my values and had days/nights where i thought about my concerns. I am now reaping the fruits of those nights (and continuing moments of doubt/worries and then using that to redirect). I found a major thAt balances my interests and security, and whereas people around me are in student debt i got it planned and a good job. Fear and jealousy can be inspiration to plan and create.
Paying for stuff is important! Nothing wrong with that. You can always change paths later... IF you have money! Security is the priority, and financial security is the foundation of that. You can always reinvent yourself later. As Sun Tzu would say, "Live to fight another day." You need money to live to fight for your dreams.
It's so interesting to hear the perspective of being worried that curiosity could cost you a stable career! In my early twenties I didn't allow myself to be curious at all! I decided my path and stuck to it, just 5 years I was burned out by a career that I didn't even want. I feel like we are soooo rushed, when the reality is, that we are going to work until we super old anyways. I thinks it's great that you have so many interests.
WE'RE EXACTLY THE SAME!!, just with different dreams. I used to want to be a doctor since childhood. Last year, a question just popped up on my mind; "what if I become an engineer, what if a scientist or something but a doctor? Why did I even choose to be a doctor in the 1st place?" & I came to understand that it was actually my parents dreams(yk asian parents wanting their children to be doctors & engineers). I found out I don't have that much interest of becoming a doctor but I've curiosity in MANY things. I'VE ALWAYS LOVED MATHS... recently I fall in love with the dream of being a psychologist after understanding doctor is just not my thing(i used to want to be bcz of my parents, society, what others would think, etc). & I never ever felt this way about being anything else. But the love for maths is infinite. I might be a psycologist, but I'll also learn more maths cuz I just love it. I also have curiosities to learn many more things like- becoming a very good chess player, tennis player, learn swimming, ballet, exploring the world, realistic & anime arts & so on. But I don't need to turn out everything as my job, as you taught us- we can do other things without sacrificing the thing that we're doing right now. I'll learn those, but I'll just choose one thing to be my job....Btw, I'm 16 & ilysmm, glad to find your channel this early....💗💗💗 (Don't judge me for my English, i'm not a native speaker)
I watched a couple of your videos and was surprised when I went to your channel to see you just started it a month ago. Your videos are already so good! I love your filming and editing style! Can’t wait to see more from you 💖
You are so well reflected, and I have no doubt that you will grow up to be whoever you want to be❤️ I can relate to alot of what you said, and thanks for reminding me that fear can be used for good.
The video about figuring out your life just popped into my recommendation feed, and I absolutely loved your view on life (and now, fear). I am 22 and trying to figure out my life as well, and reflecting on various aspects of life is what makes me go on, and try to make sense of life, based on my daily experiences. I wish the very best of luck with your channel and hope that it reaches more young folks! Beijos from Brazil!
"Flow with fear"; wow, this is a compelling idea! Allowing my fears to motivate productive action, in hindsight, really has lead to some of my most helpful, fulfilling life changes, but I never had the ability to put the process that motivated these changes into words. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!
also, i can officially say that you are the most relatable person ever. resonate sm with that confusion talk. that dilemma ughh. thank you for sharing with us :)
First of all.. I am having the same thoughts on my life.. about whether where I am right now is the right path or should I change. I'm here after watching your previous video. I relate a lot with you. It's very inspiring.. and you look like Lim Jukyung From True beauty Kdrama.. 😊
i really resonate with what you said. Specilizing is really confusing when you're curious about so many things and im trying to find a common ground lol
I’m so so so lost. I just want to know what next step should I take. I finished hs but I’m not in college yet because I don’t know what I want. I honestly just want to be financially secure, and be surrounded by people I love and loves me back.
You will have to choose a bunch of wrong paths to learn. People who have everything handed to them turn out bizarre and out of touch. If nothing else, wrong turns will keep you cool and likable.
Also, most choices you make in life are going to be, "Well... I guess...maybe..." Just keep going. (Unless you absolutely can't do it, then change plans.)
I'm writing these as I watch this. You don't have to marry anything but the person you marry. Everything else, look through the lens of "what is this getting *me*?" Use it for what it's worth, then move on if you want. Or if you like it, stay! Be disciplined in exchange for what you're getting out of it, not because it's some kind of moral standard. You don't always have to be disciplined. Use it opportunistically, even selfishly, but discipline doesn't deserve a shrine. You're number one, look out for her. Do what you have to do to pay your heckin bills until you find a different opportunity.
I stumbled upon your channel just a few days ago, but I am in love with your content. So refreshing and grounding to take in your words of wisdom 🤍 Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us! I hope to catch up on videos on your main channel soon! P.S. I *love* your hair. Stunning.
Fear is from the Devil. It causes anxiety, depression and the list goes on… the Bible teaches us not the be fearful or worry as everything is in God’s hands ❤️
Now that you've put it out, I realized I have the same fear as you. Thank you for completing my first step towards fear which is just acknowledging it. I'm glad I found this channel
I really admire your attitude to life - how you want to implement discipline and train it every day like a muscle.
Honestely at 18 i constructed my future plans around the fear of not being financially secure but also the fear of having a job i hate. I thought about my values and had days/nights where i thought about my concerns. I am now reaping the fruits of those nights (and continuing moments of doubt/worries and then using that to redirect). I found a major thAt balances my interests and security, and whereas people around me are in student debt i got it planned and a good job. Fear and jealousy can be inspiration to plan and create.
Paying for stuff is important! Nothing wrong with that. You can always change paths later... IF you have money! Security is the priority, and financial security is the foundation of that. You can always reinvent yourself later. As Sun Tzu would say, "Live to fight another day." You need money to live to fight for your dreams.
Fear is a friend who pushes us to do better things. I needed to hear this. I need to change my mindset towards fear.
It's so interesting to hear the perspective of being worried that curiosity could cost you a stable career! In my early twenties I didn't allow myself to be curious at all! I decided my path and stuck to it, just 5 years I was burned out by a career that I didn't even want. I feel like we are soooo rushed, when the reality is, that we are going to work until we super old anyways. I thinks it's great that you have so many interests.
WE'RE EXACTLY THE SAME!!, just with different dreams. I used to want to be a doctor since childhood. Last year, a question just popped up on my mind; "what if I become an engineer, what if a scientist or something but a doctor? Why did I even choose to be a doctor in the 1st place?" & I came to understand that it was actually my parents dreams(yk asian parents wanting their children to be doctors & engineers). I found out I don't have that much interest of becoming a doctor but I've curiosity in MANY things. I'VE ALWAYS LOVED MATHS... recently I fall in love with the dream of being a psychologist after understanding doctor is just not my thing(i used to want to be bcz of my parents, society, what others would think, etc). & I never ever felt this way about being anything else. But the love for maths is infinite. I might be a psycologist, but I'll also learn more maths cuz I just love it. I also have curiosities to learn many more things like- becoming a very good chess player, tennis player, learn swimming, ballet, exploring the world, realistic & anime arts & so on. But I don't need to turn out everything as my job, as you taught us- we can do other things without sacrificing the thing that we're doing right now. I'll learn those, but I'll just choose one thing to be my job....Btw, I'm 16 & ilysmm, glad to find your channel this early....💗💗💗
(Don't judge me for my English, i'm not a native speaker)
We are literally the same🫶🏻from realizing becoming a doctor isn’t for me to wanting to become a good chess player! so glad our paths crossed
I watched a couple of your videos and was surprised when I went to your channel to see you just started it a month ago. Your videos are already so good! I love your filming and editing style! Can’t wait to see more from you 💖
You are so well reflected, and I have no doubt that you will grow up to be whoever you want to be❤️ I can relate to alot of what you said, and thanks for reminding me that fear can be used for good.
thank you, this means so much🤍
The video about figuring out your life just popped into my recommendation feed, and I absolutely loved your view on life (and now, fear). I am 22 and trying to figure out my life as well, and reflecting on various aspects of life is what makes me go on, and try to make sense of life, based on my daily experiences.
I wish the very best of luck with your channel and hope that it reaches more young folks!
Beijos from Brazil!
"Flow with fear"; wow, this is a compelling idea! Allowing my fears to motivate productive action, in hindsight, really has lead to some of my most helpful, fulfilling life changes, but I never had the ability to put the process that motivated these changes into words. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!
Me and you have the same exact fears. All I can say is thank you for this.
You have such a deep insight on things, it's impressive
Damn, that message at the end. Needed this, thank you!
Thanks for sharing your fears so openly. They're exactly the same as mine, so now I feel less alone.
You impacted my life by this video
I love that mindset
6:44 This was so inspiring!!
within the first mminute of your video I have learned something I could pick up and incorporate into my schedule to work on discipline
I like your vibe :) I love stumbling on a video that I didn't know I needed 💓
also, i can officially say that you are the most relatable person ever. resonate sm with that confusion talk. that dilemma ughh. thank you for sharing with us :)
broooooo, i loved your last video sm, i just HAD to come back for another one. new subscriber right here
5:09 Has my heart
First of all.. I am having the same thoughts on my life.. about whether where I am right now is the right path or should I change. I'm here after watching your previous video. I relate a lot with you. It's very inspiring.. and you look like Lim Jukyung From True beauty Kdrama.. 😊
i really resonate with what you said. Specilizing is really confusing when you're curious about so many things and im trying to find a common ground lol
Pushing Me To Improve ||| YOURE A GEMM!
Thank you for these videos ❤
I admire and look up to you
i love the title. i really needed this, thank u~! new subscriber here :p~!!
I love your hair clips, and your videos as well.
love love love your content, you're so inspiring! keep going you're doing amazing. 💘💞
I’m so so so lost. I just want to know what next step should I take. I finished hs but I’m not in college yet because I don’t know what I want. I honestly just want to be financially secure, and be surrounded by people I love and loves me back.
you got it🤍
:)
which episode of the tom ferris guy raz podcast were you talking about?
Ep 304: How I Built This with Guy Raz - Author and Podcaster: Tim Ferriss
@@elizabethcelinechu thank you so much :))
I love your videos so much ;> !!!
whats the song that played on the ride????
Mi Casa - Kota the Friend
Thank you homie
hiii love this sm! btw, where's the intro music frommm?
SlickRick 2009 - DJ Grumble
You will have to choose a bunch of wrong paths to learn. People who have everything handed to them turn out bizarre and out of touch. If nothing else, wrong turns will keep you cool and likable.
Also, most choices you make in life are going to be, "Well... I guess...maybe..." Just keep going. (Unless you absolutely can't do it, then change plans.)
I'm writing these as I watch this. You don't have to marry anything but the person you marry. Everything else, look through the lens of "what is this getting *me*?" Use it for what it's worth, then move on if you want. Or if you like it, stay! Be disciplined in exchange for what you're getting out of it, not because it's some kind of moral standard. You don't always have to be disciplined. Use it opportunistically, even selfishly, but discipline doesn't deserve a shrine. You're number one, look out for her. Do what you have to do to pay your heckin bills until you find a different opportunity.
Can someone tell me what is the song playing in the background at 5:02
Mi Casa-Kota the Friend
Where is the intro song from?
Do you have cold showers everyday? The thought of taking a cold shower scares me so much esp in winter.
Yes, I jump into shower when it’s cold and wait until it eventually turns hot. Def harder to do in the winter but very rewarding
I stumbled upon your channel just a few days ago, but I am in love with your content. So refreshing and grounding to take in your words of wisdom 🤍 Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us! I hope to catch up on videos on your main channel soon!
P.S. I *love* your hair. Stunning.
whats the music u play in your car hehe
Mi Casa by Kota the Friend
@@elizabethcelinechu thank u! i love your vids! sending love from philippines
❤❤❤
hi elizabeth, i would love to have a convo with you someday in life. you are very special
one day!
Love you videos you so Pretty
Fear is from the Devil. It causes anxiety, depression and the list goes on… the Bible teaches us not the be fearful or worry as everything is in God’s hands ❤️
AMEN!📢
Amen!❤
Amen 💕
Now that you've put it out, I realized I have the same fear as you. Thank you for completing my first step towards fear which is just acknowledging it. I'm glad I found this channel