The funny thing is, this is exaftly what the Bachelor/ette party was creared for in the first place: to test the couple's loyalty & fidelity to each other. Something she clearly failed at, quite spectacularly.
Power move to do that in front of her parents. No chance for her to spin things, to gaslight him, to using herself as the victim. Bravo 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Great move taking her back to her parents. Like returning a broken appliance to the store. Parents: What is the reason for the return, sir? OP: She lacks loyalty, honesty, integrity and will power. Parents: I see sir. All vital qualities in a wife. Perhaps we can repair her and you can take her back? OP: Nope. She'll never be as good as new. I'll just find a better one elsewhere. That folks is how Cynthia ended up in the customer returns and factory seconds bargain bin. Only thing is she isn't a bargain. Paying even as little as a penny for something worthless is not a bargain.
@@annsheridan12 I'm surprised it's as low as you say; I would have thought it was more like 98 or 99 percent. IAC, it's important for men to realize that these things are not spontaneous spur-of-the moment occurrences -- they are carefully and shamelessly planned. When these women say "just having fun, nothing serious", what they mean is "just raw-dog ph*cking a guy for the org@sms, no emotional complications".
"Experience the last night of your freedom"....and what about the 5 years of the exclusive relationship you're in right now??? What a bunch of utter crap. These parties are the dumbest thing together with girls night out to nars and clubs.
Well bachelorette parties do separate the good guys from the hos. Another trustworthy guy dodged a big bullet. Maybe they are great to have but should be done earlier to save some money. Stay single men!!!
It's not your last night of freedom. You're not going to prison in a dark dungeon, you're getting married. You're becoming someone's legal life partner. It's not you're last night being single either. That was the day before you agreed to monogamy some months or years earlier.
No man in his right mind marries today. Average marriage only lasts 8.2 years so she is not tying herself to him for life. Are women really this stupid? I really like these stories where the man has balls.
She did not see the wisdom of boundaries. If she could not say no to her friends while sober about having a bachelorette party how will she say no to the activities they push on her after drinking. She had no guilt or remorse whatsoever and this one activity would set her up to cheat in the future had she not gotten caught.
Well. It is good to hire a PI for a bachelorette party. It would be the final test before wedding. It could save a lot of pain and money in the future. :)
My ex-wife went to a bachelorette party for a good friend. The girls hired strippers and paid them extra to seduce the bride and give her a BBD before the wedding! Well nine months later she had a black baby and the marriage was over! When it all came out, three of her married friends also were soon divorced since they also had the BBDs!
Funny how at the end of her first monologue she says maybe she should have listened to him. Knowing what happened and how it turns out and "maybe" she should have listened to him? He definitely dodged a 304 bullet. Hope she thanks her "friends" accordingly.
We did not have bachelor/bachelorette parties. I consider them vulgar. Regardless of what is going on there your thinking would be like you are going to prison by marrying your love and you have the last chance of experiencing freedom. Pathetic. People with this mindset should not get married.
whats the harm in cutting loose, getting "a little wild", and creating some memories? why dont women apply this same philosophy toward a man that cheats? what's the harm right? My advice to men - if the woman you plan to marry challenges your lead or agrees with your decisions and then is easily swayed by her friends to change her mind, think twice about that marriage plan. if she doesnt have full and complete trust and faith in you dont ignore that, save yourself some heartache.
Marriage is just a pre ceremony sex party, a ceremony, and an opportunity for to get stuck for your paper. Why men even do puzzles me. No fault divorce. Questionable paternity. It’s a failure.
Nothing cheapens the value of marriage llke someone arguing a batchelorette party has to happen because it's the bride's "last night of freedom". People with that kind of attitude should never get married.
HOW ABOUT HER FOCKING FEELINGS? CRYING BEGGING SHE SOUNDS QUITE INDIFFERENT AND THE END WAS SIMPLY PATHETIC. I'M GOING TO BLOCK THIS CHANNEL THE END OF THE STORIES IS PATHETIC.
"One last night"? Aren't you already living together? You haven't been single for a while, so why would you consider a night to betray your spouse, when you're already together?
This is why you do not want to get married nowadays
Western women want bachelorette parties to cheat.
Joel warned her several times what happens at bachelorette parties but she continues to insist and cheated. She got what she deserved
The funny thing is, this is exaftly what the Bachelor/ette party was creared for in the first place: to test the couple's loyalty & fidelity to each other. Something she clearly failed at, quite spectacularly.
A fiance asks for a bachelorette party, cancel the wedding.
And these gals wonder why no man wants to get married 😂
@@jeremybethea5747 especially with knowledge of pair bonding eg: with BC If 20 odds of divorce 80+%
She cheated so easily. When she said "doing thing Joel would never find out about", I don't think this was the first time.
I agree this wasn't the first time
Power move to do that in front of her parents. No chance for her to spin things, to gaslight him, to using herself as the victim.
Bravo 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Single women keep women single.
@@NotSleepy-r5y or”misery loves company “
@@annsheridan12 Yep,both facts
And single women make married women single.
Crabs in a bucket. Every time one tries to climb out of the muck they get dragged back down by the others.
100%
It wasn't an accident, she was into it.
Great move taking her back to her parents. Like returning a broken appliance to the store.
Parents: What is the reason for the return, sir?
OP: She lacks loyalty, honesty, integrity and will power.
Parents: I see sir. All vital qualities in a wife. Perhaps we can repair her and you can take her back?
OP: Nope. She'll never be as good as new. I'll just find a better one elsewhere.
That folks is how Cynthia ended up in the customer returns and factory seconds bargain bin.
Only thing is she isn't a bargain. Paying even as little as a penny for something worthless is not a bargain.
Single women friends + Drama + Batchelorette party + Booze = Death of relationship
Some people just never learn.
No one wants to hear this nasty bop's side of her story. Cheating garden tool is gross.
85% chance of infidelity at bachelorette party.
More like 99,9%
According to the strippers themselves.
@@annsheridan12 I'm surprised it's as low as you say; I would have thought it was more like 98 or 99 percent. IAC, it's important for men to realize that these things are not spontaneous spur-of-the moment occurrences -- they are carefully and shamelessly planned. When these women say "just having fun, nothing serious", what they mean is "just raw-dog ph*cking a guy for the org@sms, no emotional complications".
95%
"Experience the last night of your freedom"....and what about the 5 years of the exclusive relationship you're in right now???
What a bunch of utter crap. These parties are the dumbest thing together with girls night out to nars and clubs.
Well bachelorette parties do separate the good guys from the hos. Another trustworthy guy dodged a big bullet. Maybe they are great to have but should be done earlier to save some money. Stay single men!!!
It's not your last night of freedom. You're not going to prison in a dark dungeon, you're getting married. You're becoming someone's legal life partner. It's not you're last night being single either. That was the day before you agreed to monogamy some months or years earlier.
Yes mental gymnastics to justify her actions
MGTOW Gentlemen, it IS worth it!
No man in his right mind marries today. Average marriage only lasts 8.2 years so she is not tying herself to him for life. Are women really this stupid? I really like these stories where the man has balls.
That's too long.
Between 3 - 5 years and marriages are falling apart. It's all about events not marriages
Dont forget the 20% of husbands in sexless marriages, and now the 4b movement
Have a IRONCLAD Prenup and a P.I. in your back pocket for your well being
There is no such thing as an ironclad prenup, especially when judges can toss it out for being 'inequitable' (read: unfair).
Best prenup in the world is to stay single.
Authority of a man, privilege of a woman and accountability of child hold true all the time....
She did not see the wisdom of boundaries. If she could not say no to her friends while sober about having a bachelorette party how will she say no to the activities they push on her after drinking. She had no guilt or remorse whatsoever and this one activity would set her up to cheat in the future had she not gotten caught.
Man, you would think all the women have mastery at gardening in our times!
Well. It is good to hire a PI for a bachelorette party. It would be the final test before wedding. It could save a lot of pain and money in the future. :)
3:16. She just doomed her relationship.
My ex-wife went to a bachelorette party for a good friend. The girls hired strippers and paid them extra to seduce the bride and give her a BBD before the wedding! Well nine months later she had a black baby and the marriage was over! When it all came out, three of her married friends also were soon divorced since they also had the BBDs!
Famous last words ( What could possibly go wrong ? ).
Girls trips and Bachelorette parties are cancer toma relationship. The end.
Funny how at the end of her first monologue she says maybe she should have listened to him. Knowing what happened and how it turns out and "maybe" she should have listened to him? He definitely dodged a 304 bullet. Hope she thanks her "friends" accordingly.
OP dodged a bullet. Dump her, cut off all contact and move on.
She couldn't resist women always say don't you trust me SMH
We did not have bachelor/bachelorette parties. I consider them vulgar. Regardless of what is going on there your thinking would be like you are going to prison by marrying your love and you have the last chance of experiencing freedom. Pathetic. People with this mindset should not get married.
Yep he did the right thing 👏 drinking makes everything come to light she wanted 2 do it got what she deserves
Joel to Cynthia: F**K YOU, I WAS RIGHT!!! F**K YOU, I WAS RIGHT!!! F**K YOU, I WAS RIGHT!!!
You dodged a bullet. She showed her true colors. Take the loss and move on. Find a woman who understands real commitment.
Rules for Thee and not for me. If he had done this she would rained righteous fire on him. Such a double standard game they play.
whats the harm in cutting loose, getting "a little wild", and creating some memories? why dont women apply this same philosophy toward a man that cheats? what's the harm right? My advice to men - if the woman you plan to marry challenges your lead or agrees with your decisions and then is easily swayed by her friends to change her mind, think twice about that marriage plan. if she doesnt have full and complete trust and faith in you dont ignore that, save yourself some heartache.
5:36 Vanessa wants Cynthia to remain single. She will get her wish. Single women keep women single.
"What can possibly go wrong?" Famous last words.
Lmmao her Bachelorette party 😅😅😅😅 sure
The men with his word and self respect.
The last night of freedom is the night before you get engaged.
So she disobeyed her future husband and destroyed her future!
Girlfriends always try to keep their friends single!
Marriage is just a pre ceremony sex party, a ceremony, and an opportunity for to get stuck for your paper. Why men even do puzzles me. No fault divorce. Questionable paternity. It’s a failure.
Nothing cheapens the value of marriage llke someone arguing a batchelorette party has to happen because it's the bride's "last night of freedom". People with that kind of attitude should never get married.
0:40 no
Poor Cynthia 😅😅😅😅😅
I wonder if she was humming when she was throating him?
06:23. Let your hair down? I thought you girls are mostly shaved down there these days?
HOW ABOUT HER FOCKING FEELINGS? CRYING BEGGING SHE SOUNDS QUITE INDIFFERENT AND THE END WAS SIMPLY PATHETIC. I'M GOING TO BLOCK THIS CHANNEL THE END OF THE STORIES IS PATHETIC.
These kinds of storys are entertaining but VERY unrealistic. Good women dont cheat that easily.
Good women won't cheat at all and these stories are not about good women.
Dude is soft when he acted like he cared about the flower arrangements, tell her you don't give a fuck about the flowers
Getting on one knee to propose is the initial simp move.
"One last night"? Aren't you already living together? You haven't been single for a while, so why would you consider a night to betray your spouse, when you're already together?