Amen! Same here. Jesus saved me in 2016 and in 2017 and beyond has helped me SO much by giving me strength that otherwise I didn’t have and peace that surpasses all understanding. Philippians 4:6-7
I can understand when you talk about your identity being intertwined with your spouse. But know that your viewers watch for YOU! YOUR vision for your family and home, personality, decor...YOUR touch. I hope you view yourself how we see you! Apart from being a mom and wife, your indentity in how Christ views you, his child and your talents make you uniquely yourself. And YOU are enough ❤
I couldn’t agree with this comment more! In my opinion she carried Thomas. He was good at what he did but she has the design eye and makes what he does perfection.
So very sorry to learn of this devastating news .I so understand your pain and everything you have referenced today .I am nearly 25 years down the road now and can say life does get better .Don’t look back because we cannot change the past ,only learn from it and look to the future with hope because the future is bright . Stay close to the Lord.He is mindful of your situation and needs and will never give you more than you can deal with .You are a strong , dignified resilient lady and because you have been courageous in sharing your experience you will have helped so many people . I wish you much love and happiness as you progress through this very difficult journey of loss and yes it is like a bereavement but worse in many ways because the other person is still alive and progressing in their journey and that hurts ,I know 😢 As one door closes another door opens and the next chapter in your life story begins .Stay strong lovely lady .Sending love and prayers to you and your family and wishing you all the very best for the future .Rest assured you will get through this 💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😀
I am so sorry, Ashley! I was very sad to hear this news. I will continue to support you and your channel. My prayer for you is that you and Thomas can get to a point where you can both co-parent very peacefully together. If God brings you to it; he'll bring you through it. Praying for you all! ❤
I watched a movie where the man left his wife and young children. When the wife went to tell her daddy he left them, her father said “I never liked him. I knew he was weak”. It’s so true only strong men stay and do whatever it takes to keep his family together.
I know Thomas and I can tell you he is not a weak man . There are always two sides to every story . It is heartbreaking for their family to be going through this .
There's a whole lot more to this sad story. Just do your research, it's definitely out there. There's even a nasty video on youtube. This family needs prayers! Also, don't be too quick to judge Thomas.
Wow, this is so scary that this can happen to literally ANYONE. I know we only see what’s posted on TH-cam or Instagram and we all assume the families we watch are perfect in every way. This is a wake up call right here. It’s honestly scary, even thinking of my own marriage. How things can feel amazing even if you have been together for years and years but you never know the outcome. It’s honestly one of my biggest fears, to be left by the one I love 😢 I’m so sorry this has happened to you, you don’t deserve it. I pray you can feel peace.
I’m so sorry to hear this news. My parents separated when I was 10. It was awful. I was angry. My parents couldn’t even do the weekend exchange without harsh words. I never thought they could be in the same room again without verbally slashing each other. But as time passed and their anger passed. Things did get better. It’s nice to say that special days were celebrated with both my parents. I do hope you both can work through this difficult time in your lives and make sure the kids know they are seen and loved and important. And I know this might be too much because you’re young. But adding new family members during this time is not what’s best for the kids. Having been through it as a child feeling replaced is an awful feeling.😢
I met you many years ago in Utah when you were in It Works!. I signed under Collette. It hurts my heart to see you hurting. I am so sorry. I have been in the season you are in and it really feels like a physical breaking of the heart. I pray that you will lean on God. Find comfort in God. Cry out to God as He truly is lifes best counselor. I understand you when you say you have found your identity in your husband. I can relate to that so much. You will be on my mind and my prayers. You know children are a most wonderful distraction while going through seasons such as this. Let them see you feel as they learn from us how to regulate their own feelings. Father God, I lift Ashley up in prayer, I ask father that you comfort her and give her a sound mind so she can be present for her children while she navigates this new season in her life. Lord, you know her heart. Give her the comfort that only a heavenly father can provide. Lord you are a good good father and I know that living in your blessing is the safest place to be. In Jesus name, amen. God bless you sweet soul.
Heartbreaking!!! Hope he realises what he has lost!!!!!! You are so beautiful and amazing!!!! Love you sweetheart !!!!! Obviously you are so deeply hurt!!!!!!!🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻💕💕💕
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Divorce is a living hell. It is so hard to think about all the things you have to decide on and the division of assets BUT please try and think of the future you have with your children. Don’t let emotions rule the practicality of separation. Your kids will be okay as long as they have two parents that love them. It’s hard to see the end when you’re in the midst of it all but you’ll be okay. Keep your faith and when it all feels too hard , lean into it 🙏❤️
Praying for you and your family. This is a hard time. My family had to go through this and we survived but it's a process. Take care and give yourself grace.
Definitely sticking around! I love your videos!!! The house is so beautiful, especially with all the changes you have made. I hope you are able to stay there 🙏🏼
Much of what you said hit home for me. I was in that season 6-7 years ago. You’re right to say that there’s no good way to describe that pain and that feeling of loss, unless you’ve been through it yourself. Truly something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Some days are still better than others even now. Some days I’m still learning and feel like I’m doing it all wrong. I know you’re doing your best, and I know you have this online community who loves you, and who will be praying, loving, and supporting you through whatever comes next. I know I’ll be here for whatever your content looks like moving forward, because it has YOU at the heart of it. Sending you the biggest virtual hug and all the love. 🤍
I went through this too and it took me a few years to come out of. But I did eventually pass through the grief, grow stronger in myself, and find a life partner who turned out to be my greatest blessing of all time. I had no idea this was where I was headed because I was very steadfast to my first commitment of marriage. But I am grateful that through loss came a life better than I dared wish for previously. And I wish you the time to heal, the space to grow, and the possibility of a future partnership even better than you have ever imagined, sweet human. ❤
This made me cry to see the pain in you. If it is Gods will I pray that you and Thomas can come back together and you be stronger from all this. Praying for you 🙏🏼
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I too went through it gosh 2007. We split up after 37 years of marriage and didn’t divorce right away but we did five years later. It was so hard and I understand all the emotions. Just know it will get better but you take the time you need to get through it and don’t feel like you have to rush yourself to get over it because I agree with what you said it’s like a death and it truly is. It took me a long time, but I found out that it was the right move for me and I am such a better person now. So much happier, not stressed out. Obviously, you have little children. My daughter was grown and married and two children. Your friends and family will be there for you. Lots of love and prayers to you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I was cheated on and left for someone else by my first husband… it was so painful and I thought it would be the end of me! I clinged to God & my faith …and felt his peace through the entire painful process. Shortly after, my husband now came into the picture…We’ve been married 10years now, 3 kiddos later😊 we have been blessed with a beautiful life! God took my deepest pain and devastation and turned it into the best thing that ever happened to me. I’m praying for you tonight! God sees you, you’re not alone! You’re going to get through this ❤
You are so sweet and protecting others privacy and reputation honestly will serve you well in the long run. I know it’s hard you just want to stand up for yourself. Hang in there. I was 35 (LDS) and my marriage ended too. You are right, you can’t explain it and at the same time you hope others never do find out what it’s like. 6 years on and my kids do have the extra Mum and extra Dad and an extra sibling and they do feel extra love around them. Just keep praying and follow the Spirit. You can do hard things 🤍🤍
Oh I’m so sorry 😢I’ve watched you guys for so long. I’m also in Utah. I can see your heartbreak. But just know this is gods plan. What’s meant to be will be. You’ll make it through girl ❤
I went through this and all I wanted to hear was “you’re going to be ok”. Well I’m here to tell you that you’re going to be ok. As a matter of a fact you’re going to find out how strong and deserving of happiness you didn’t know you needed. Your description of how you wake up in pain that never goes away hit me right in the heart. I’m so sorry you’re going through this but you will emerge a better version of yourself. I went to bed many nights crying to God for peace and one morning I awoke and had a peace about me that I know was divine. Keep the faith! Prayers and well wishes for you and your children. ❤
I appreciate your honesty. We are concerned about you, Thomas and your children. Like many others, I want to suggest that you find your comfort and guidance in Jesus Christ. He will bring you peace. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
First, I want to say how much courage and strength you have to get on YT and discuss this. I also want to tell you, you are not alone. At 42 (I am now 57) I found myself divorce and living by myself for the first time with a toddler. I cannot say it wasn’t difficult but I can tell you one always perseveres… with full time job, my child sport events etc I did it! And now I remarried the same man 😂 but what helped me was having faith in the lord and my family and friends. One advise, do not speak ill of each other, as children do remember although ppl say kids are resilient they are , their emotions especially negativity stays with them. So.. show respect to each other, and your kids will be fine. Sending hugs 🤗 and prayer’s 🙏 Your YT fans will be right here ❤
Thank you so much for being so brave and sharing your story. As a child of divorce and also one of my own from a 20 year marriage I can assure you that it all works out for the better. You are completely right when you say there will be more love. In both situations we are happier and healthier than we have ever been. It is a process but you will get there. Put God first and he will take you places you cannot imagine. You are so talented and gifted and I will always continue to follow you!! 🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️
🙏💕 I am so sorry you are going through this. You and your boys will be in my thoughts and prayers. May this next chapter be filled with so many good moments and blessings!
This was SUCH a brave post to make. You've got this, time will heal. Glad you are surrounded by so much love and support. My Mum and my sister have both recently been through this too, it's truly heart breaking to see. Sending so much love.
Oh honey, I am so sorry. My husband passed away last year….we were together 40 years. And, I perfectly understand you trying to figure out who you are. That was my issue too. You are beautiful, strong and smart. You will get through this! One day at a time, honey. God bless you all. ❤
😢 I’m so sorry Ash {hugs} Satan is ALWAYS trying to break families apart & cause irreparable damage to families & the children (even the best of divorces cause lifelong damages) …. I’m so very sorry , as it is never God’s plan for marriages to end … & Satan always knows how to work on our weaknesses, or even our own egos to make at least one in the marriage think they would be better off divorced & although there are absolute reasons God permits divorce (abuse & infidelity) , the majority are over at least one in the marriages own self importance issues, ego, pride , lust …Satan knows human behaviors & weakness all too well 🥺 Stay strong Ash YOU are WORTH more than RUBIES Proverbs 31:10 & I’ll pray that someday you will find the man who lives up to that ! ❤❤❤
I’m so sorry you’re going through this hard time right now. Us subscribers will still stick around cause it was you we are drawn too. I’m a big believer in people are in your life for seasons at a time. You’ll always love him & he’ll always love you, I hope you both can heal & be at peace in your decision. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Wow…that was so heartbreaking to watch. I’ve always loved your videos and loved watching your family. It’s hard to believe this is happening. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through, but know that prayers are being said on your behalf and you have viewers who are rooting for you and hoping for the best for you and your boys. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I hope things start getting a little easier for you as quickly as possible. Best wishes for you and your boys….❤️
Okay I didn’t see that coming , We’re not always going to understand why things happen. Trusting God when life doesn’t make sense. God promises that if you stay in faith he will take what was meant to harm you and use it for good. Stay strong you beautiful young lady we are praying for you.
Ohhhhhh honey, never apologize for what you're going through. All I can say is "one day at a time" I've been through this and everyone is different but I can read between the lines and my guess is this isn't your doings. Just focus on your boys and they will be your biggest thing that will get you through this. Lean on your family too.
So sorry Ashley that this has happened to you and your boys. Please remember your self worth. You are so gifted on this channel with your decorating. Please don't give it up. It is something to focus on and help you heal. Your boys will also help because you are a great mom and you will care for them as you always have. May God give you His peace as you move forward! God bless you and your family! 🙏❤🙏❤🙏
We’re not going anywhere! I know I’m not ❤ love you and love your content. Especially, the content personal to YOU. You’re so inspiring, I think your following is following you for Ashley. Everything in addition was a bonus. You are an amazing woman 🫶
Hated to see and watch this! I hope you’re getting stronger with every day that goes by! I’ve been watching your videos for years! You’ve given me so many ideas, and we’ve replicated with our own twist a few of y’all ideas. Makes me sad to ever see a married couple go separate ways! All I hope is that you can rise above this pain and new adjustment for yourself and your boys! Y’all deserve a life of happiness and love!
I'm really sorry about this. The best thing to do is stay civil to each other. If that does not work, you Mama need to set emotion aside. You need to focus on you and the children. Supporting them and being the strong woman I know you are. Sometimes life is better and healthier apart. There's no shame in that. Try to not let the pain taint your self worth. You are the Mother, the caregiver and the Matriarch of your family. Stay strong. You've got this. Stay civil but you need to keep emotions under control. Speak to a therapist to help you navigate. Get help. You've got this Mama! I believe in you!
Many years ago, I went thru a divorce. We agreed to nvr speak bad about the other parent to the kids and keep adult problems between us adults. We’ve both since remarried to wonderful spouses, and have been friends for many years now. I was just recently speaking to my eldest son, and he told me that he didn’t appreciate what a gift it was then that we didn’t bad mouth each other when the kids when young until he’d grown up. He told me thank u for making it so easy to for him and his siblings to see their dad and love their dad and his side of the family bc it really made them grow up so well rounded and free of any ickiness. I’m so very glad that my ex and I stuck to our guns and nvr said a bad word to the kids bc it really does matter esp when they grow up and have kids of their own. I wish everyone who gets a divorce could remember that it’s the kids who r the most important, and how u handle the hard times will matter A LOT in the future when they’re grown.
Oh Iam so sorry for you. I thought you had such a strong bond. You both made your home so beautifully. I hope you heal and your boys too. I hope you find happiness again.
I’m praying for you and your kids, your home life. I hope you don’t feel bad for having a lot of your identity with him like you said. I think that is natural to do as a married couple. And I think it’s natural that in stepping away from a marriage that it would take some time to find a new identity-to find who you are as a single woman in a different stage of life than the stage of life you were in last time you were single. Much love and many prayers.
Awe, Ashley 😢 my heart hurts with yours. I have followed you guys since 2015 it works conference. I have loved watching your family adventures and growth. I am so sorry you're going thru this. I will be praying for each of you and that God will bring beauty from the ashes and bring healing. He can do those in a way that shocks the mind 😊 I am always here if you need a friend! I can send you my number and will be happy to pray with you over the phone. You're gonna be ok young lady! Even if for now it doesn't feel that way. Big hugs, lots of love, and prayers for you all! Much love from NC 😊💜🙏🏻🤗
It’s hard to see it now, but you will find you are stronger than you ever imagined and that your children are much more resilient than you could have hoped. Give yourself grace and patience. We’ll all be waiting here with open arms.
So sorry….may peace, comfort and light surround you and your family. Much empathy, please get support from a therapist who can guide you through your pain and grief.
Praying for you and your little ones! You got this momma! Stay strong. Do not lean on your own understanding but lean on God’s! He will show you the way, just trust his process. ❤
Oh Iam so sorry for you. I thought you had such a strong bond. You both made your home so beautifully. I hope you heal and your boys too. I hope you find happiness again. 💖
Praying for your heart ❤ we’re here for YOU and your content is always so fun with decorating and fun finds. No need for big renovations! You can do decor and themes no matter where you are. We’re along for the ride ❤
I remember a video you both did talking about how he broke off engagement and you had to cancel wedding and thinking as I listened… this could come back to backfire on her again. Sadly, guess it did. A shame people feel helpless to find resolution to stay together especially when the children end up pay the biggest price. Blended and or bonus families are never easy for kids to acclimate. Ultimately, feelings get hurt. Wishing you the best with this difficult transition. 🙏🏻
I feel like I was watching myself back in 2016! I'm so sorry life has brought you here. Everything you are feeling right now is normal, and part of the grief process.Take care of you, as best you can, before anyone else. Your littles need you more than ever. I would set aside time to cry everyday, mostly while in the shower. My identity too was wrapped up in my relationship. It's called codependency. Talk therapy and support from my friends and family worked wonders to find myself again and break that cycle. Wishing you peace as you navigate this next season. You can and will heal with time... 🫶🏻
I’m so sorry to hear this . Stay strong and we will pray for you and the family ❤️💗🙏💗❤️ The Lord will guide you sweetheart. Just pray I’ve been there. God bless !
Sending all of you so much love and so many hugs ♥️ I definitely recommend for all of you to talk to a professional to learn healthy ways of coping and healing. Wishing you the best ♥️
🙏🏻 for strength and courage, I’ve been there my kids were very young.. And I focus on them it’s also good to talk about it.. it will take time but it will come. We will be here for you!
Ashley, I am sending you and the kids so so much love and all of my prayers. Divorce is not easy for anyone but you will come out stronger on the other side and the kids will too. I'm praying for you to find your happiness and especially yourself again. I along with many other people are here to support you with whatever you may do your strong and you will get through this!
I’ve only been with the channel for a short time, but I feel so very sorry for your split. I can still see how raw it is, but in the short time I’ve seen your channel. I believe I see a strong, loving mother in person I wish for your heart to heal and eventually find peace as you heal. Your TH-cam community has got your back girl, try and stay strong.. hugs to you and the boys!🫶❤
I am so sorry you are having to go through this, it is such a hard sad thing. I went through it about 12 years ago, you are right when you said with time it gets better. In my experience, I look back and can't believe where my life has lead me and it's amazing to think that if I wouldn't have gone through so much pain, I wouldn't have found the happiness I have now. Keep going, you are strong and such a good mom!
BIG HUG!!!! Aww sweet girl! I wish you and Thomas the best! You do have a beautiful family together or not that will never change! You guys created something wonderful together. It’s okay you guys went your separate ways! You got this!
Oh Ashley I’m so sorry! I don’t knew what more I can add to all these beautiful comments but we are here for you! Unfortunately you have many of us here on the other side of your story that were blindsided in our own lives and it doesn’t feel like it now but you and your boys will get through this. Kids are so resilient. Brighter days are ahead of you, keep your head up and take one day at a time!
You are right, it is like a bereavement. You are grieving for the lofe you thought you were going to have. Thats totally normal i would say. You have a whole community rooting for you girl ❤
I'm so sorry you are having to go through this but I have watched you do amazing things and you will never be alone. Thank you for letting so many people be a part of your journey. I hope we meet in person someday cuz I would love to give you the biggest hug 💔 I will still be here to hang with the Hughes when you are ready to be back.
We love you . And we are here for you. The good thing is Halloween is right around the corner and I know how much you love to decorate and come up with crafts
Praying for you my friend 🙏🏽 just continuing your channel and keep moving forward with your beautiful kids ,yes it's ugly feeling 😢 but you are such a beautiful person keep your head up and keep moving forward,God Bless you 🙏🏽
I am SO sorry to hear what you are going thru! 😢. I SO UNDERSTAND!!! About 20 yrs ago, I was exactly where you are at. It's a Hard Season!😢 I felt very much wondering who I was? All I was familiar was being a Wife and a Mom. The thing that I found helpful was going to a Program called "Divorce Care". They became my Community in Walking the Journey with me! I could Cry, Share and know it was not going to be held against me. I found my Faith being Challenged but I also felt God's Comfort during those Long Nights and long weekends. 🙏 I will be praying that God would Lift you up, give you Peace and Strength as you Rediscover yourself! 💕. PS. I am now Remarried to a WONDERFUL Man! 20 yrs ago, I never imagined that for my Life. I have a beautiful Family and am Encircled with 4 Precious Grandchildren!! 💕💕💕💕. May you find Courage to be a Beacon to many!! 🙏
We really feel for you. This is tragic and we will pray for you. You are a delightful lady and don't deserve this. This wont be easy but you will get through
I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. I’ve been through this myself. It broke me but it also brought me closer to God. My son was 4 when that happened and now he’s 15. It may not seem like it right now but you’ll get through this. Just cling on to your faith. I’m sure I speak for all of us when I say we’re all here for you and will continue to support you and ur channel.
Te sigo desde Mexico, amo tu canal, tu contenido, a ti y a tu familia 🫶🏼 He pasado por esto antes y se lo que sientes, está bien no estar bien y no tienes que dar explicaciones de tu vida a nadie, pero está bien que lo expreses, eso te ayuda mucho. Todo va a pasar, ese dolor va a desaparecer, garantizado! Enfócate primero en ti y después en tus hijo, si trabajas en ti, tus hijos van a estar bien también.. si necesitas terapia, búscala y vive un día a la vez. Y cuando te des cuenta notarás que la oscuridad en la que te sientes ahora ya no estará y brillas muchísimo más que antes. Desear lo mejor para Thomas habla de la maravillosa mujer que eres y Dios te dará lo mismo a ti y a tus hijos multiplicado.. Dios tiene el control, el mueve las piezas del rompecabezas, El lo ordenará todo, confía. No estás sola, y te admiro, eres una mamá y una mujer increíble y valiosa. Déjate sorprender por Dios, te envío un abrazo grande 🤗 Todos ustedes están en mis oraciones 🙏
I saw your post back in January and was shocked to read the news. Time heals. Having been through a divorce with a child is never easy and as long as the children feel safe and loved you will both get through this. But remember to take care of yourself as well. That is just as important. Your TH-cam followers are not going anywhere. Take the time to heal.
I’m praying you and your family. Divorce is like a death , I’ve been there. But there is light and love on the other side of this. It’s okay to not be okay right now. I’m praying for you and the boys and Thomas as well. ❤ I’m definitely sticking around and I know that you will bounce back. ❤
I pray for you. I hope you 2 can work this out. If not you are a great momma and you got this ❤️. It's never easy but you are a strong woman. You got this ❤️ 😊
I’m so very sorry. I have walked this path. All I can say is it will eventually get better. Be gentle with yourself. You are amazing and valuable and strong.
I’ve been through this heartache too. Remember all you can do is all you can do. Take one step at a time. One day at a time. Sometimes 1 minute at time. Cut yourself a little slack. Know you will heal eventually. Yes it is like a death but never final. My girls are 38 and 35 now. They were tiny when it happened. Yesterday on my birthday I went to lunch with oldest daughter and ex! I still feel awkward. What I did for my girls was to ensure they had both parents was to include him every birthday Christmas etc. I probably over compensated to make sure they didn’t miss out being in a single parent home. That backfired as they both put themselves first now. So advice don’t over compensate. Let your children have limits. The only thing to worry for the future is that you have financial security. Now just put one foot in front of the other as best you can and eat properly. Things have a way of sorting themselves out over time. That quiet mind - meditation as you try and go to sleep- breathing exercises. It will hurt less eventually. Neither of you can take all the blame. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work and you both have to want it and both work on it. In my case I blamed myself for not doing enough. Friends that saw said no and showed me how really he wanted always to be on his own. So don’t take all the blame and don’t try to fix everything yesterday. Cut yourself some slack and just get through each step at your own pace. If you need counselling please reach out for it. Divorce doesn’t mean you are a bad person. Sending love and hugs all across the ocean from Australia 🇦🇺.
In the depths of my despair is when I found Jesus and clung to Him ♥️He is the source of all comfort, strength, joy, and peace♥️
Amen!
Same here. Jesus saved me in 2016 and in 2017 and beyond has helped me SO much by giving me strength that otherwise I didn’t have and peace that surpasses all understanding.
Philippians 4:6-7
Amen. I felt these feelings before. Be strong and lean on to Jesus he will get you through it!
I wish you the best! My prayers are for you to find peace in your heart.
This is so true!
Yes! Thank you for sharing this!!
I can understand when you talk about your identity being intertwined with your spouse. But know that your viewers watch for YOU! YOUR vision for your family and home, personality, decor...YOUR touch. I hope you view yourself how we see you! Apart from being a mom and wife, your indentity in how Christ views you, his child and your talents make you uniquely yourself. And YOU are enough ❤
I couldn’t agree with this comment more!
In my opinion she carried Thomas. He was good at what he did but she has the design eye and makes what he does perfection.
Amen, well said! ❤️🙏🏻💕 I could not agree more!
So very sorry to learn of this devastating news .I so understand your pain and everything you have referenced today .I am nearly 25 years down the road now and can say life does get better .Don’t look back because we cannot change the past ,only learn from it and look to the future with hope because the future is bright .
Stay close to the Lord.He is mindful of your situation and needs and will never give you more than you can deal with .You are a strong , dignified resilient lady and because you have been courageous in sharing your experience you will have helped so many people .
I wish you much love and happiness as you progress through this very difficult journey of loss and yes it is like a bereavement but worse in many ways because the other person is still alive and progressing in their journey and that hurts ,I know 😢
As one door closes another door opens and the next chapter in your life story begins .Stay strong lovely lady .Sending love and prayers to you and your family and wishing you all the very best for the future .Rest assured you will get through this 💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😀
So beautifully spoken!
So true
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I am so sorry, Ashley! I was very sad to hear this news. I will continue to support you and your channel. My prayer for you is that you and Thomas can get to a point where you can both co-parent very peacefully together. If God brings you to it; he'll bring you through it. Praying for you all! ❤
I was 38 when I went through this. It is hard and heavy. Cling to Christ and he’ll lead you through it. Praying for you.
Baby girl I am so sorry. Lord wrap your loving arms around her.
I watched a movie where the man left his wife and young children. When the wife went to tell her daddy he left them, her father said “I never liked him. I knew he was weak”.
It’s so true only strong men stay and do whatever it takes to keep his family together.
AMEN.
I know Thomas and I can tell you he is not a weak man . There are always two sides to every story . It is heartbreaking for their family to be going through this .
@@britneytracy1634He isn't weak but I get other vibes.
@@cleansweep1074Do you think he is gay?
There's a whole lot more to this sad story. Just do your research, it's definitely out there. There's even a nasty video on youtube. This family needs prayers! Also, don't be too quick to judge Thomas.
You are so strong and will be for those boys. Prayers to healing and moving forward.
Wow, this is so scary that this can happen to literally ANYONE. I know we only see what’s posted on TH-cam or Instagram and we all assume the families we watch are perfect in every way. This is a wake up call right here. It’s honestly scary, even thinking of my own marriage. How things can feel amazing even if you have been together for years and years but you never know the outcome. It’s honestly one of my biggest fears, to be left by the one I love 😢 I’m so sorry this has happened to you, you don’t deserve it. I pray you can feel peace.
I’m so sorry to hear this news. My parents separated when I was 10. It was awful. I was angry. My parents couldn’t even do the weekend exchange without harsh words. I never thought they could be in the same room again without verbally slashing each other. But as time passed and their anger passed. Things did get better. It’s nice to say that special days were celebrated with both my parents. I do hope you both can work through this difficult time in your lives and make sure the kids know they are seen and loved and important. And I know this might be too much because you’re young. But adding new family members during this time is not what’s best for the kids. Having been through it as a child feeling replaced is an awful feeling.😢
Take care, Ash. We love you! Looking forward to your new vlogs.
I met you many years ago in Utah when you were in It Works!. I signed under Collette. It hurts my heart to see you hurting. I am so sorry. I have been in the season you are in and it really feels like a physical breaking of the heart. I pray that you will lean on God. Find comfort in God. Cry out to God as He truly is lifes best counselor. I understand you when you say you have found your identity in your husband. I can relate to that so much. You will be on my mind and my prayers. You know children are a most wonderful distraction while going through seasons such as this. Let them see you feel as they learn from us how to regulate their own feelings. Father God, I lift Ashley up in prayer, I ask father that you comfort her and give her a sound mind so she can be present for her children while she navigates this new season in her life. Lord, you know her heart. Give her the comfort that only a heavenly father can provide. Lord you are a good good father and I know that living in your blessing is the safest place to be. In Jesus name, amen. God bless you sweet soul.
We’ve got you babe! God has you 🙏🏼
May you be comforted by your family & all your loved ones! Bless your 4 little boys 💙
Heartbreaking!!! Hope he realises what he has lost!!!!!! You are so beautiful and amazing!!!! Love you sweetheart !!!!! Obviously you are so deeply hurt!!!!!!!🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻💕💕💕
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Divorce is a living hell. It is so hard to think about all the things you have to decide on and the division of assets BUT please try and think of the future you have with your children. Don’t let emotions rule the practicality of separation. Your kids will be okay as long as they have two parents that love them. It’s hard to see the end when you’re in the midst of it all but you’ll be okay. Keep your faith and when it all feels too hard , lean into it 🙏❤️
I’m so sad to hear this. 😢 I’m so sorry. Keeping you both in my prayers.
Praying for you and your family. This is a hard time. My family had to go through this and we survived but it's a process. Take care and give yourself grace.
Definitely sticking around! I love your videos!!! The house is so beautiful, especially with all the changes you have made. I hope you are able to stay there 🙏🏼
Much of what you said hit home for me. I was in that season 6-7 years ago. You’re right to say that there’s no good way to describe that pain and that feeling of loss, unless you’ve been through it yourself. Truly something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Some days are still better than others even now. Some days I’m still learning and feel like I’m doing it all wrong. I know you’re doing your best, and I know you have this online community who loves you, and who will be praying, loving, and supporting you through whatever comes next. I know I’ll be here for whatever your content looks like moving forward, because it has YOU at the heart of it. Sending you the biggest virtual hug and all the love. 🤍
I went through this too and it took me a few years to come out of. But I did eventually pass through the grief, grow stronger in myself, and find a life partner who turned out to be my greatest blessing of all time. I had no idea this was where I was headed because I was very steadfast to my first commitment of marriage. But I am grateful that through loss came a life better than I dared wish for previously. And I wish you the time to heal, the space to grow, and the possibility of a future partnership even better than you have ever imagined, sweet human. ❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ THIS.
This made me cry to see the pain in you. If it is Gods will I pray that you and Thomas can come back together and you be stronger from all this. Praying for you 🙏🏼
Praying for you. So sorry to hear this. May God heal your heart and give you the strength to get through. You will survive and thrive❤️
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I too went through it gosh 2007. We split up after 37 years of marriage and didn’t divorce right away but we did five years later. It was so hard and I understand all the emotions. Just know it will get better but you take the time you need to get through it and don’t feel like you have to rush yourself to get over it because I agree with what you said it’s like a death and it truly is. It took me a long time, but I found out that it was the right move for me and I am such a better person now. So much happier, not stressed out. Obviously, you have little children. My daughter was grown and married and two children. Your friends and family will be there for you. Lots of love and prayers to you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Bring us with you girl we are virtual best friends in your corner cheering you on!!!🫶🏻
I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You are an amazing mom and woman. I wish nothing but the best for you. Peace and love!❤
I was cheated on and left for someone else by my first husband… it was so painful and I thought it would be the end of me! I clinged to God & my faith …and felt his peace through the entire painful process. Shortly after, my husband now came into the picture…We’ve been married 10years now, 3 kiddos later😊 we have been blessed with a beautiful life! God took my deepest pain and devastation and turned it into the best thing that ever happened to me.
I’m praying for you tonight! God sees you, you’re not alone! You’re going to get through this ❤
We will absolutely stick around. Sending all the love. I hope you can find some happiness.
Much love to you and your boys! God will take care of you✝️💜
So sorry... I always loved your family! I will keep you all in my prayers 🙏❤
You are so sweet and protecting others privacy and reputation honestly will serve you well in the long run. I know it’s hard you just want to stand up for yourself. Hang in there. I was 35 (LDS) and my marriage ended too. You are right, you can’t explain it and at the same time you hope others never do find out what it’s like. 6 years on and my kids do have the extra Mum and extra Dad and an extra sibling and they do feel extra love around them. Just keep praying and follow the Spirit. You can do hard things 🤍🤍
Oh I’m so sorry 😢I’ve watched you guys for so long. I’m also in Utah. I can see your heartbreak. But just know this is gods plan. What’s meant to be will be. You’ll make it through girl ❤
I went through this and all I wanted to hear was “you’re going to be ok”. Well I’m here to tell you that you’re going to be ok. As a matter of a fact you’re going to find out how strong and deserving of happiness you didn’t know you needed. Your description of how you wake up in pain that never goes away hit me right in the heart. I’m so sorry you’re going through this but you will emerge a better version of yourself. I went to bed many nights crying to God for peace and one morning I awoke and had a peace about me that I know was divine. Keep the faith! Prayers and well wishes for you and your children. ❤
I appreciate your honesty. We are concerned about you, Thomas and your children. Like many others, I want to suggest that you find your comfort and guidance in Jesus Christ. He will bring you peace. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
First, I want to say how much courage and strength you have to get on YT and discuss this. I also want to tell you, you are not alone. At 42 (I am now 57) I found myself divorce and living by myself for the first time with a toddler. I cannot say it wasn’t difficult but I can tell you one always perseveres… with full time job, my child sport events etc I did it! And now I remarried the same man 😂 but what helped me was having faith in the lord and my family and friends. One advise, do not speak ill of each other, as children do remember although ppl say kids are resilient they are , their emotions especially negativity stays with them. So.. show respect to each other, and your kids will be fine. Sending hugs 🤗 and prayer’s 🙏 Your YT fans will be right here ❤
Thank you so much for being so brave and sharing your story. As a child of divorce and also one of my own from a 20 year marriage I can assure you that it all works out for the better. You are completely right when you say there will be more love. In both situations we are happier and healthier than we have ever been. It is a process but you will get there. Put God first and he will take you places you cannot imagine. You are so talented and gifted and I will always continue to follow you!! 🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️
🙏💕 I am so sorry you are going through this. You and your boys will be in my thoughts and prayers. May this next chapter be filled with so many good moments and blessings!
This was SUCH a brave post to make. You've got this, time will heal. Glad you are surrounded by so much love and support. My Mum and my sister have both recently been through this too, it's truly heart breaking to see. Sending so much love.
Oh honey, I am so sorry. My husband passed away last year….we were together 40 years. And, I perfectly understand you trying to figure out who you are. That was my issue too. You are beautiful, strong and smart. You will get through this! One day at a time, honey. God bless you all. ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss, may God bless you to stay strong ❤
I'm so very sorry for you both. Many prayers for you and your family during this very difficult time.
😢 I’m so sorry Ash {hugs} Satan is ALWAYS trying to break families apart & cause irreparable damage to families & the children (even the best of divorces cause lifelong damages)
…. I’m so very sorry , as it is never God’s plan for marriages to end … & Satan always knows how to work on our weaknesses, or even our own egos to make at least one in the marriage think they would be better off divorced & although there are absolute reasons God permits divorce (abuse & infidelity) , the majority are over at least one in the marriages own self importance issues, ego, pride , lust …Satan knows human behaviors & weakness all too well 🥺
Stay strong Ash YOU are WORTH more than RUBIES Proverbs 31:10 & I’ll pray that someday you will find the man who lives up to that ! ❤❤❤
I’m so sorry you’re going through this hard time right now. Us subscribers will still stick around cause it was you we are drawn too.
I’m a big believer in people are in your life for seasons at a time. You’ll always love him & he’ll always love you, I hope you both can heal & be at peace in your decision. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Wow…that was so heartbreaking to watch. I’ve always loved your videos and loved watching your family. It’s hard to believe this is happening. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through, but know that prayers are being said on your behalf and you have viewers who are rooting for you and hoping for the best for you and your boys. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I hope things start getting a little easier for you as quickly as possible. Best wishes for you and your boys….❤️
I’m So Sorry, GOD IS WITH YOU!Wrap your arms around her and her family. 💕🙏🏽💕
Okay I didn’t see that coming , We’re not always going to understand why things happen. Trusting God when life doesn’t make sense. God promises that if you stay in faith he will take what was meant to harm you and use it for good. Stay strong you beautiful young lady we are praying for you.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing 🙏🏼🫶🏼 blessings and love for everyone. It’s never easy but it’s a journey into a new season. Much love 💕
God bless you and your boys! We were all here for you and will support you and your channel! Love you Girl!
Ohhhhhh honey, never apologize for what you're going through. All I can say is "one day at a time" I've been through this and everyone is different but I can read between the lines and my guess is this isn't your doings. Just focus on your boys and they will be your biggest thing that will get you through this. Lean on your family too.
Praying for you 😢 I have been through this it was so difficult 🙏🏼
Praying and crying with you Ashley, the pain is so deep. Lord be with your daughter and comfort her as only you can 🙏🏻💕
I am so sorry for you and your kids ! Sending you all the strength and comfort and prayers ❤️🙏🤗
So sorry Ashley that this has happened to you and your boys. Please remember your self worth. You are so gifted on this channel with your decorating. Please don't give it up. It is something to focus on and help you heal. Your boys will also help because you are a great mom and you will care for them as you always have.
May God give you His peace as you move forward!
God bless you and your family!
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We’re not going anywhere! I know I’m not ❤ love you and love your content. Especially, the content personal to YOU. You’re so inspiring, I think your following is following you for Ashley. Everything in addition was a bonus. You are an amazing woman 🫶
Hated to see and watch this! I hope you’re getting stronger with every day that goes by! I’ve been watching your videos for years! You’ve given me so many ideas, and we’ve replicated with our own twist a few of y’all ideas. Makes me sad to ever see a married couple go separate ways! All I hope is that you can rise above this pain and new adjustment for yourself and your boys! Y’all deserve a life of happiness and love!
I’m so sorry for your loss! God Bless you and He is with you!
I'm really sorry about this. The best thing to do is stay civil to each other. If that does not work, you Mama need to set emotion aside. You need to focus on you and the children. Supporting them and being the strong woman I know you are. Sometimes life is better and healthier apart. There's no shame in that. Try to not let the pain taint your self worth. You are the Mother, the caregiver and the Matriarch of your family. Stay strong. You've got this. Stay civil but you need to keep emotions under control. Speak to a therapist to help you navigate. Get help. You've got this Mama! I believe in you!
Many years ago, I went thru a divorce. We agreed to nvr speak bad about the other parent to the kids and keep adult problems between us adults. We’ve both since remarried to wonderful spouses, and have been friends for many years now. I was just recently speaking to my eldest son, and he told me that he didn’t appreciate what a gift it was then that we didn’t bad mouth each other when the kids when young until he’d grown up. He told me thank u for making it so easy to for him and his siblings to see their dad and love their dad and his side of the family bc it really made them grow up so well rounded and free of any ickiness. I’m so very glad that my ex and I stuck to our guns and nvr said a bad word to the kids bc it really does matter esp when they grow up and have kids of their own. I wish everyone who gets a divorce could remember that it’s the kids who r the most important, and how u handle the hard times will matter A LOT in the future when they’re grown.
I'm sorry for what your going thru I know its painful. Gods love will protect you and help you as you find your way. Will continue to support you.
Oh Iam so sorry for you. I thought you had such a strong bond. You both made your home so beautifully. I hope you heal and your boys too. I hope you find happiness again.
I’m praying for you and your kids, your home life. I hope you don’t feel bad for having a lot of your identity with him like you said. I think that is natural to do as a married couple. And I think it’s natural that in stepping away from a marriage that it would take some time to find a new identity-to find who you are as a single woman in a different stage of life than the stage of life you were in last time you were single.
Much love and many prayers.
Awe, Ashley 😢 my heart hurts with yours. I have followed you guys since 2015 it works conference. I have loved watching your family adventures and growth. I am so sorry you're going thru this. I will be praying for each of you and that God will bring beauty from the ashes and bring healing. He can do those in a way that shocks the mind 😊 I am always here if you need a friend! I can send you my number and will be happy to pray with you over the phone. You're gonna be ok young lady! Even if for now it doesn't feel that way. Big hugs, lots of love, and prayers for you all! Much love from NC 😊💜🙏🏻🤗
It’s hard to see it now, but you will find you are stronger than you ever imagined and that your children are much more resilient than you could have hoped. Give yourself grace and patience. We’ll all be waiting here with open arms.
So sorry….may peace, comfort and light surround you and your family. Much empathy, please get support from a therapist who can guide you through your pain and grief.
Praying for you and your little ones! You got this momma! Stay strong. Do not lean on your own understanding but lean on God’s! He will show you the way, just trust his process. ❤
Oh Iam so sorry for you. I thought you had such a strong bond. You both made your home so beautifully. I hope you heal and your boys too. I hope you find happiness again. 💖
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Praying for you & the boys.
Praying for your heart ❤ we’re here for YOU and your content is always so fun with decorating and fun finds. No need for big renovations! You can do decor and themes no matter where you are. We’re along for the ride ❤
I’m so sorry sweet girl. You are an inspiration to so so many. We are all here for you and will be praying for you and your sweet kids daily. 🤍
I remember a video you both did talking about how he broke off engagement and you had to cancel wedding and thinking as I listened… this could come back to backfire on her again. Sadly, guess it did. A shame people feel helpless to find resolution to stay together especially when the children end up pay the biggest price. Blended and or bonus families are never easy for kids to acclimate. Ultimately, feelings get hurt. Wishing you the best with this difficult transition. 🙏🏻
You are a strong beautiful woman & you WILL get through this! ❤
I feel like I was watching myself back in 2016! I'm so sorry life has brought you here. Everything you are feeling right now is normal, and part of the grief process.Take care of you, as best you can, before anyone else. Your littles need you more than ever. I would set aside time to cry everyday, mostly while in the shower. My identity too was wrapped up in my relationship. It's called codependency. Talk therapy and support from my friends and family worked wonders to find myself again and break that cycle. Wishing you peace as you navigate this next season. You can and will heal with time... 🫶🏻
I’m so sorry to hear this .
Stay strong and we will pray for you and the family
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The Lord will guide you sweetheart. Just pray I’ve been there. God bless !
Sending all of you so much love and so many hugs ♥️ I definitely recommend for all of you to talk to a professional to learn healthy ways of coping and healing. Wishing you the best ♥️
I’m so sorry. Praying for you and your sweet babies ❤️
It does slowly get better! Keep focusing on your littles, it helps.❤
I’m so very sorry, Ashley! You are an inspiration to many. Hold fast to the Lord! I will be praying for you all. ❤
🙏🏻 for strength and courage, I’ve been there my kids were very young.. And I focus on them it’s also good to talk about it.. it will take time but it will come. We will be here for you!
Ashley, I am sending you and the kids so so much love and all of my prayers. Divorce is not easy for anyone but you will come out stronger on the other side and the kids will too. I'm praying for you to find your happiness and especially yourself again. I along with many other people are here to support you with whatever you may do your strong and you will get through this!
I’ve only been with the channel for a short time, but I feel so very sorry for your split. I can still see how raw it is, but in the short time I’ve seen your channel. I believe I see a strong, loving mother in person I wish for your heart to heal and eventually find peace as you heal. Your TH-cam community has got your back girl, try and stay strong.. hugs to you and the boys!🫶❤
I am so sorry you are having to go through this, it is such a hard sad thing. I went through it about 12 years ago, you are right when you said with time it gets better. In my experience, I look back and can't believe where my life has lead me and it's amazing to think that if I wouldn't have gone through so much pain, I wouldn't have found the happiness I have now. Keep going, you are strong and such a good mom!
BIG HUG!!!! Aww sweet girl! I wish you and Thomas the best! You do have a beautiful family together or not that will never change! You guys created something wonderful together. It’s okay you guys went your separate ways! You got this!
Hugs 🤗 I am praying for you Ashley and your littles. God’s got you!
Oh Ashley I’m so sorry! I don’t knew what more I can add to all these beautiful comments but we are here for you! Unfortunately you have many of us here on the other side of your story that were blindsided in our own lives and it doesn’t feel like it now but you and your boys will get through this. Kids are so resilient. Brighter days are ahead of you, keep your head up and take one day at a time!
You are right, it is like a bereavement. You are grieving for the lofe you thought you were going to have. Thats totally normal i would say. You have a whole community rooting for you girl ❤
I'm so sorry you are having to go through this but I have watched you do amazing things and you will never be alone. Thank you for letting so many people be a part of your journey. I hope we meet in person someday cuz I would love to give you the biggest hug 💔 I will still be here to hang with the Hughes when you are ready to be back.
We love you . And we are here for you. The good thing is Halloween is right around the corner and I know how much you love to decorate and come up with crafts
Praying for you my friend 🙏🏽 just continuing your channel and keep moving forward with your beautiful kids ,yes it's ugly feeling 😢 but you are such a beautiful person keep your head up and keep moving forward,God Bless you 🙏🏽
I am SO sorry to hear what you are going thru! 😢. I SO UNDERSTAND!!! About 20 yrs ago, I was exactly where you are at. It's a Hard Season!😢 I felt very much wondering who I was? All I was familiar was being a Wife and a Mom. The thing that I found helpful was going to a Program called "Divorce Care". They became my Community in Walking the Journey with me! I could Cry, Share and know it was not going to be held against me. I found my Faith being Challenged but I also felt God's Comfort during those Long Nights and long weekends. 🙏 I will be praying that God would Lift you up, give you Peace and Strength as you Rediscover yourself! 💕. PS. I am now Remarried to a WONDERFUL Man! 20 yrs ago, I never imagined that for my Life. I have a beautiful Family and am Encircled with 4 Precious Grandchildren!! 💕💕💕💕. May you find Courage to be a Beacon to many!! 🙏
We really feel for you. This is tragic and we will pray for you. You are a delightful lady and don't deserve this. This wont be easy but you will get through
I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. I’ve been through this myself. It broke me but it also brought me closer to God. My son was 4 when that happened and now he’s 15. It may not seem like it right now but you’ll get through this. Just cling on to your faith. I’m sure I speak for all of us when I say we’re all here for you and will continue to support you and ur channel.
Sending so much love to all of you during a really trying time ❤
Te sigo desde Mexico, amo tu canal, tu contenido, a ti y a tu familia 🫶🏼
He pasado por esto antes y se lo que sientes, está bien no estar bien y no tienes que dar explicaciones de tu vida a nadie, pero está bien que lo expreses, eso te ayuda mucho.
Todo va a pasar, ese dolor va a desaparecer, garantizado! Enfócate primero en ti y después en tus hijo, si trabajas en ti, tus hijos van a estar bien también.. si necesitas terapia, búscala y vive un día a la vez.
Y cuando te des cuenta notarás que la oscuridad en la que te sientes ahora ya no estará y brillas muchísimo más que antes.
Desear lo mejor para Thomas habla de la maravillosa mujer que eres y Dios te dará lo mismo a ti y a tus hijos multiplicado..
Dios tiene el control, el mueve las piezas del rompecabezas, El lo ordenará todo, confía.
No estás sola, y
te admiro, eres una mamá y una mujer increíble y valiosa.
Déjate sorprender por Dios, te envío un abrazo grande 🤗
Todos ustedes están en mis oraciones 🙏
I saw your post back in January and was shocked to read the news. Time heals. Having been through a divorce with a child is never easy and as long as the children feel safe and loved you will both get through this. But remember to take care of yourself as well. That is just as important.
Your TH-cam followers are not going anywhere. Take the time to heal.
I’m praying you and your family. Divorce is like a death , I’ve been there. But there is light and love on the other side of this. It’s okay to not be okay right now. I’m praying for you and the boys and Thomas as well. ❤ I’m definitely sticking around and I know that you will bounce back. ❤
I pray for you. I hope you 2 can work this out. If not you are a great momma and you got this ❤️. It's never easy but you are a strong woman. You got this ❤️ 😊
I’m sorry that you’re going through this and only wish you peace and strength. Will be praying for you and your family for an amicable outcome..
I am so sorry to hear about this Ashley, but you are so strong! I see your strength, I will pray for you and your family. ❤
I’m so very sorry. I have walked this path. All I can say is it will eventually get better. Be gentle with yourself. You are amazing and valuable and strong.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. I’ve been there myself. Keep your faith. Trust me, it will get better and you and the kids will be just fine.
We love you ! So sorry for all this heartbreak. Keep your head up, Halloween is coming up and we can’t wait for your videos
I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sorry you have to go through this. ❤
I’ve been through this heartache too. Remember all you can do is all you can do. Take one step at a time. One day at a time. Sometimes 1 minute at time.
Cut yourself a little slack. Know you will heal eventually. Yes it is like a death but never final. My girls are 38 and 35 now. They were tiny when it happened. Yesterday on my birthday I went to lunch with oldest daughter and ex! I still feel awkward.
What I did for my girls was to ensure they had both parents was to include him every birthday Christmas etc. I probably over compensated to make sure they didn’t miss out being in a single parent home. That backfired as they both put themselves first now.
So advice don’t over compensate. Let your children have limits. The only thing to worry for the future is that you have financial security. Now just put one foot in front of the other as best you can and eat properly.
Things have a way of sorting themselves out over time. That quiet mind - meditation as you try and go to sleep- breathing exercises.
It will hurt less eventually. Neither of you can take all the blame.
It takes 2 people to make a relationship work and you both have to want it and both work on it. In my case I blamed myself for not doing enough. Friends that saw said no and showed me how really he wanted always to be on his own.
So don’t take all the blame and don’t try to fix everything yesterday.
Cut yourself some slack and just get through each step at your own pace. If you need counselling please reach out for it. Divorce doesn’t mean you are a bad person.
Sending love and hugs all across the ocean from Australia 🇦🇺.
All I can say is that I am so sorry you are going through this but you are stronger than you know. Sending you lots of love and hugs💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Very sorry to hear this! You will recover, give yourself time and be kind to yourself.