8 dating rules that have changed my life
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ค. 2024
- 10: 8 dating rules that have changed my life
Episode 10 | The Creation of Her
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This was very helpful. I am 30 and still haven’t figured dating out yet after 3 long term relationships lol had a horrible new date experience recently too so I’m trying to learn 😅
What bothers you at the beginning will drive you nuts at the end… this is SO true! Every single break up I went through had the clear red flags right at the beginning. Same issues from day 1 to the end after years of work💀
Oh no! I’m sorry you’ve had to go through all that but I’m in awe that you still have your head held high. But…as you should queen! I hope you keep learning and growing and eventually what’s meant for you will come rushing in ❤
I don’t know why, but this is the second video for girl dating advice I’ve gotten this week. I’m happy to see it! I’m a 25 year-old guy, and I do have one HUGE bonus tip for girls who want to find a good man. Girls never really talk about it, and it surprises me so much. It's to be careful with your own entitlement. Detecting strong entitlement is pretty easy for guys, and it’s a big turn-off. Don’t close yourself off! Several women are understandably taught to be extremely cautious from a young age. I feel like avoiding overwhelming interest is what men should focus more on, not women. If you show interest in a good man, you’ll be surprised how fast things progress!
I promise I’m not trying to toot my own horn, but I consider myself a green flag. I'm Catholic (I’m actually a Hispanic and from Miami too lol), I don’t like to be fast with physical stuff (physical touch is actually my least present love language), I value kindness, and I actually do like to initiate cool plans so that things progress. But so many women will only look for reasons NOT to do things. Be a little open-minded! :D I agree with Mia for the most part, but if you’re canceling a date merely because "it's a coffee date," that's 100% on you, not the guy. A coffee date from a man's mentality means one thing: We want to get to know you more! Saying a coffee date is a red flag is so weird to me. If you cancel, we guys see that as a red flag on your part for being too flakey and/or entitled. The more toxic men will be the ones who complain about it to your face. They’ll double text you and all that. But that’s usually a guy like me will be like, "alright, on to the next." We will chase, but we're not going to do everything for you!
Good luck out there, ladies! It’s tough for everyone. Mentality is everything. If you have a defensive, "boy, bye" personality, a lot of boys will actually be saying "bye" to you too. If you have an opportunity mindset, you’re going to notice a lot more opportunities when they arise! :D All you need to do is find a good person for you! Chemistry and timing. That’s it. And don’t forget to be kind! Of course you need to be careful, but being too careful will lead you to be flakey, and that’s honestly the main issue I’ve faced with women I’ve wanted to get to know more. Coffee may not be your ideal first date, but I wouldn’t say no just because it’s a coffee date. If the dude is a green flag, there'll be time for karaoke, arcades, mini-golf, trivia nights, picnics, walks in the park, and SO much more later. ;) Be a yes person! Dare I say it… showing interest in a green flag who shows you interest is a GOOD thing! It’ll make you that much more of a green flag too. :)
Totally agree! Thanks for sharing your insights!!! :)
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euuum can you make a vid about friendship rules between girlies
yes girl! i love this ideaaa keep em coming 🩷
sooooo goooood
I thought this was all obvious💀what are y’all doing out here