lyrics: first and foremost, oh let it be said, i was gonna wait for you, so this is not an act of spite, just my visceral coming to, she spoke italian, and thats something that i cant do, but what i can do is spit the truth and it all leads back to you secondly, i know i havent written much, when you know the way i can be, well now im fucking drunk so tonight its all gonna be about me, take a seat, pull up a chair, give me one beat to fill my glass, ive lost a piece of me in you, but youve lost all your past is he better than me? has he seen more to this life? can he smoke more? can he fuck more? are you good enough to be his wife? can he break me? can he break you? oh i dont know what im to do, yes i dont know what ill fucking do ive seen our cafe ive clocked our plans, all what couldve been, if you didnt go and fall in love, and ruin everything. ive seen him ive been him ive felt the same way as him, but now i break against the dirt, along with our cafe is he better than me? has he seen more to this life, can he smoke more? can he fuck more? is he good enough to be your wife? can he break me? can he break you? i dont what im to do i dont know what ill fucking do ive lost all meaning ive lost my sense of hope ive watched him going with you, ive seen what he can do, so touch him and break me, strip naked, embrace him, lose taste in his pace his, stamina and grace im losing face im losing face im losing i dont care i want you here as long as your happy, then i cant care
PSA: the lyric "she spoke Italian" is about his ex he went to italy with a year before they broke up, the song since i saw vienna is also about her. And she's also the girl Wilbur was talking about in one of his streams about someone he had a crush in. (The whole album is about how he moved to London to be with her and through that he got asthma from it and his mental health became really bad)
Y’all laughing about how drunk he sounds with the “is he good enough to be your wife” meanwhile I have literally accidentally sang that lyric almost every time I’ve heard the finished version I literally have no idea why lmao-
the version he actually ended up with seems so much more angry, like he's so pissed about what happened, but this version seems like a more sad version, idk it just gives me sad "slowly but not really getting over someone" vibes. love this version and the one he published tho
I think it's so interesting that he changed "then I can't care" to "I don't care." I feel like "can't" implies a certain permanence or fundamental incapability: no matter what happens, he will always hurt himself to make her happy. It's so much sadder and I wish he would've kept it.
i used to listen to this version quite frequently back in 2019 so hearing it after after the spotify release it was truly a proud feeling, seeing how much he had improved. i'm in love with both versions but i must admit this one holds a special place in my heart.
his album was the first album i actually listen to and loved- this is my favorite song from the album and it’ll always hold a special place in my heart
gonna say it this is better than the finished one more emotions, literally the vibe what you could imagine if you could only see the lyrics. the finished one is more likely to be an unexpected twist. anyways ✨she spoke italian✨
this is one of the first songs I ever connected to on a deep and meaningful level. there's just so much raw emotion in his words it makes me cry each time I listen to it :')
This feels so much sadder than the final version. This one feels like a true melancholic raw sadness. The final feels as though hes angry, still sad but much less than this one. He just feels devastated and lost.
tonight im fucking frunk my brain : look how drunk you are my brain : im not fucking drunk my brain : can you tell the time then my brain : im not fucking drunk
I- I went to the full album video today and realized Losing Face sounded super different and more energetic/less depressed from the one I have on my phone.... Somehow I got the drunk version on my phone and not the final??? How did I do this
@@elle4630 well... I downloaded it. I just don't know how I got the 'wrong' version XD maybe they hacked and made sure only that version would come up.
okay not to be the person who takes the joke too seriously, but am i the only one who doesn’t get why the lyric “she spoke italian” is so funny? like, to me, it seems like a really painful remembrance of someone you miss? i get that it’s like “haha of all things to point out you pointed out that she spoke italian” but like, when you’re really heartbroken over someone, even the small details are painful. so, to me, the line is sad.
i completely agree. i try to take this video not too seriously bc otherwise i think i’d break down lmao- but i think people are thinking of it as funny because it seems like a “drunk version” of the final draft (he spoke italian)
ik im late but back in 2018 he tweeted a different version of this song, it was the original when he wrote it where he was also drunk but not as much as here, and then he replied to a tweet with this soundtrack and said he was "actually fucked beyond belief" here lmao
When ever I feel sad, I listen to this version of the song and I always think about how much I fucked yo this year. How much I missed out on my senior year of highschool, how I will never find the one, how my mental state just keeps declining further and further, how much I miss the people who passed during this shitty quarantine. Not looking for pity but I need one answer to a question I’ve been asking myself. Is it worth it anymore, to keep going when there is so much pain getting thrown at someone all at once? I’ve tried therapy, meds, everything and it doesn’t work. All it does is make it worse because I know that if this is not working, then what will? I’m lost.
okay hear me out (no one will probably know what I'm on about but oh well) in my dsmp script I wrote that me and wilbur are best friend and he will sing me his songs hes working on and whenever im scared or nervous he will sing to me. and this reminds me so much of my dr i wanna shift so bad
hey, i’m curious where you found this? i’ve been doing my own personal research on your city gave me asthma since it’s creation and how it shaped from 13 to 8 to 7 songs is very interesting and how it went from cocaine and breakups to being about london. anyway yeah just curious where you found this
I believe its DUDD UDU (or DUDDUDDU but you play it faster). I found a vid of him playing this in one of his old streams where you can see the chords too, those on ultimate guitar aren't really that accurate. Here's the link if you wanna check it out th-cam.com/video/DhjDX9mbJeY/w-d-xo.html
hey, quick question do you have the high quality version of this, in mp3? I know youtube compresses the quality, so just checking if you have the file uncompressed
lyrics: first and foremost, oh let it be said, i was gonna wait for you, so this is not an act of spite, just my visceral coming to, she spoke italian, and thats something that i cant do, but what i can do is spit the truth and it all leads back to you
secondly, i know i havent written much, when you know the way i can be, well now im fucking drunk so tonight its all gonna be about me, take a seat, pull up a chair, give me one beat to fill my glass, ive lost a piece of me in you, but youve lost all your past
is he better than me? has he seen more to this life? can he smoke more? can he fuck more? are you good enough to be his wife?
can he break me? can he break you?
oh i dont know what im to do, yes i dont know what ill fucking do
ive seen our cafe ive clocked our plans, all what couldve been, if you didnt go and fall in love, and ruin everything. ive seen him ive been him ive felt the same way as him, but now i break against the dirt, along with our cafe
is he better than me? has he seen more to this life, can he smoke more? can he fuck more? is he good enough to be your wife?
can he break me? can he break you?
i dont what im to do
i dont know what ill fucking do
ive lost all meaning ive lost my sense of hope ive watched him going with you, ive seen what he can do, so touch him and break me, strip naked, embrace him,
lose taste in his pace his, stamina and grace im losing face
im losing face
im losing
i dont care i want you here
as long as your happy, then i cant care
PLS LIKE THIS TOOK FOREVER THIS SONG IS VERY LONG
@@vaecant THANK YOU I AM PINNING IT YOU LEGEND
@RhuariTheWolf Yea, not really tho. This is like the first draft and obviously some lyrics are changed. I think you can only look up the final lyrics
“Tonight I’m fucking drunk” really hits different when he’s drunk. He says “drunk” in the same way someone might say “I’m not drunk”
yeah he confirmed it on a stream
This version sounds so much sadder
it totally does
yeah the released version was just filled with so much... spite? almost? just so much more angry and vitriol-filled
@@noticingjournal not spite, a viceral coming to
it’s slower, the lyrics were changed way more in the newest song
oh yeah, definitely
this is more of a silently sobbing song, where as the finished is angry crying
so true-
now wilbur: are you good enough to be his wife
past wilbur, an intellectual: is he good enough to be your wife
he rly is superior
THAT PART WAS SO FUNNY TO ME EVEN THOUGH ITS A SAD SONG AHSUHADG
He was drunk so
*is he good enough to be your wife* sad music
LOL
Fun fact but I’m fairly sure he was drunk when he wrote this song lmaoooo
he definitely was loll- “but tonight i’m fking drunk”
He was- he literally said tonight I’m fucking drunk
@@ethernetcord we should’ve known in the final draft
yes in the tweet were he originally releases this he said smth along the lines of "heres a song i made while drunk" it was in 2018
@@taxicabmessiah tyyy
🕺🏻💃she spoke italian🕺🏻💃
🗣🗣
🕺💃
@@jackkennedyoldsport1450 us dancing to this banger
i literally felt called out cause i’m italian T-T
🤩🤩
2:56 is HE good enough to be your WIFE? Yeah this man was drunk when he sang this for sure lol
lmaoo that makes me laugh everytime
Yep!
I kind of like the lyrics in this version more, especially the "I can't care" instead of "I don't care" at the end,,,, it just hits different man
same :))
i like the “is he good enough to be your wife” better than “are you good enough to be his wife” honestly
@@kadence1424 agreed it feels more genuine
honestly him being drunk gives it more feels, i have no idea why
yea it feels more raw
"Drunk words are sober thoughts"
“drunk songs are sober thoughts”
@@elle4630 indeed
the first draft is so comforting to me it makes me so happy and calm
ikr- it feels less upbeat that the final version
elle yeah but idk it makes it better in a sense:)
@@axe_sel3625 true
PSA: the lyric "she spoke Italian" is about his ex he went to italy with a year before they broke up, the song since i saw vienna is also about her. And she's also the girl Wilbur was talking about in one of his streams about someone he had a crush in. (The whole album is about how he moved to London to be with her and through that he got asthma from it and his mental health became really bad)
wow that’s cool i didn’t know that
I feel bad for laugh when he said she spoke Italian
Y’all laughing about how drunk he sounds with the “is he good enough to be your wife” meanwhile I have literally accidentally sang that lyric almost every time I’ve heard the finished version I literally have no idea why lmao-
lmao i love that
it's because he was drunk
the version he actually ended up with seems so much more angry, like he's so pissed about what happened, but this version seems like a more sad version, idk it just gives me sad "slowly but not really getting over someone" vibes.
love this version and the one he published tho
yea i like them both in different ways- obv bc this is a first draft it feels more raw and emotional
I'm laughing at "is he good enough to be your wife" but at the same time just thinking about how he can write a better song drunk than me being sober
ikr i’m clowning on him like i could make a better song 💀
i will burst out in tears right now
the amount of times i’ve cried to this song is not even funny
This one feels so much more raw to me. The one on Spotify is fantastic and one of my favorites in the album. But this right here I can feel the pain
i totally agree-
I think it's so interesting that he changed "then I can't care" to "I don't care." I feel like "can't" implies a certain permanence or fundamental incapability: no matter what happens, he will always hurt himself to make her happy. It's so much sadder and I wish he would've kept it.
wow i love this! i agree, it does add a certain permanence to the statement.
everyone’s laughing their arse off at is he good enough to be your wife but i can’t help myself at “is he betterthanme”
ikr- you can totally hear him slurring his words sometimes
when he said embrace him 😭 i feel so bad
@@JessKoek same omg
“i’ve lost my sense of ho~.. .”
yo wtf i read that and it came on
i used to listen to this version quite frequently back in 2019 so hearing it after after the spotify release it was truly a proud feeling, seeing how much he had improved. i'm in love with both versions but i must admit this one holds a special place in my heart.
aaa i love that
this one is so much sadder, you can hear the emotion. The album version is much angrier I just
I love his music so much
his album was the first album i actually listen to and loved- this is my favorite song from the album and it’ll always hold a special place in my heart
I come back to this video literally everyday
same tbh- i added it to my yt playlist cause i love this version
Ahhh yes, she spoke italian
he was so drunk lmao
This makes me so depressed bye-
same- 🥲
personally it makes me sadder knowing he was just drunk and sad and decided to say fuck it and write about his ex :(
in the final version it sounds like he is fighting and trying to change things, here it sounds like he just gave up
yea i agree the final version sounds more positive
gonna say it
this is better than the finished one
more emotions, literally the vibe what you could imagine if you could only see the lyrics.
the finished one is more likely to be an unexpected twist.
anyways
✨she spoke italian✨
agreed- the finished one (although still sad) feels a little more upbeat
alright, wilbur has no right to make feel so many emotions all at once i-
fr 😭
I really like this version. Honestly it seems like this version is more about acceptance while the other one is more angry
yea that’s so true
this is one of the first songs I ever connected to on a deep and meaningful level. there's just so much raw emotion in his words it makes me cry each time I listen to it :')
i’m glad you found it
thinking ab how he wrote this while drunk and crying at 3 am
same ong
the inner workings of wilbur
pls
the one person who disliked this is wilbur HAHAHH
fjsjxjjv trueee
for some reason, i like this version more than the original lmfao
Same
i do too
“is he good enough to be your wife” definitely drunk
the way this makes me emotional but so, so happy
same omg
this is in fact my new comfort video
same 😭- half of the views are probably me
This feels so much sadder than the final version. This one feels like a true melancholic raw sadness. The final feels as though hes angry, still sad but much less than this one. He just feels devastated and lost.
I like the tune of this one more
But why did I lowkey wheeze when he said “she spoke Italian”
And I cant- “is HE good enough to be your wife” 😭
tonight im fucking frunk
my brain : look how drunk you are
my brain : im not fucking drunk
my brain : can you tell the time then
my brain : im not fucking drunk
lmaoaoaoa ive been living in a household with LOTS of drunk ppl and this seems so normal... absnhahshdhs
loll stay safe :)
@@elle4630 yes its okay dw! they weren’t violent, just funny. but they were all singing and thats why i was saying this :D
@@mariad6601 haha that sounds funny asf :)
@@elle4630 jzhsdhhs ur such a kind creator like answering everyone thats rare :D thanks for being like this
@@mariad6601 godoxkkfkfglglrsk tysm 🥺 i’m just glad ppl like it as much as i do loll
I like this one more, but it’s just personal preferences
same- i love the final version too tho
I- I went to the full album video today and realized Losing Face sounded super different and more energetic/less depressed from the one I have on my phone....
Somehow I got the drunk version on my phone and not the final??? How did I do this
the only logical explanation is a wilbur soot fan hacked your phone and the only thing they did was download that song onto ur phone :)
@@elle4630 well... I downloaded it. I just don't know how I got the 'wrong' version XD maybe they hacked and made sure only that version would come up.
i share this song with my best friend and i love her so much. she's helped me through so much lately so don't mind me crying in the back
oh my god this is so cute :,) wish you two the best
The fun fact he is singing it drunk
ikr- and you can tell 😭
“Is he good enough to be your wife?”
wow 😍
🕺🏻💃betterthanme🕺🏻💃
do your lil dancey dance
going straight into my chill and cry playlist
makes me cry
is it listen to this on repeat until i fall asleep very uncomfortably on my desk being really sad type of night? yes.
facts 👆
hey lol im back im making a bracelet for my friend :)
this first draft is so comforting like yeah
i knowww it’s so chill
I love this omg
tysm !! i like this slower version too
the thumbnail is just glorious
thanks 😭
the best song, just in general
this song is my favorite from his album tbh
this version is so much sadder :(
ikr :,)
PLZ HES SO HAMMERED
GLRLDKGO IKR
i feel comfortable here
i’m glad :)
i shouldn't be laughing 😭
same 😭
okay not to be the person who takes the joke too seriously, but am i the only one who doesn’t get why the lyric “she spoke italian” is so funny? like, to me, it seems like a really painful remembrance of someone you miss? i get that it’s like “haha of all things to point out you pointed out that she spoke italian” but like, when you’re really heartbroken over someone, even the small details are painful. so, to me, the line is sad.
i completely agree. i try to take this video not too seriously bc otherwise i think i’d break down lmao- but i think people are thinking of it as funny because it seems like a “drunk version” of the final draft (he spoke italian)
i like how slow this is
Give me one beat to fill my cup-
You’ve lost all your past
Cup, past... okay...
lmaoo
i died when i listened to this thank you
np i’m glad you found it :D
Turn this up to 1.25x
ayoooo slapsss
s h e s p o k e i t a l i a n
LMAO
This is just sad 🤧🤧😭
it does have a much more depressing vibe then the final
"is he good enough to be your wife?"
im sorry, what?
he was drunk lmaoo😭
I think the more high pace version of the song fits better with the album because this song is him going past caring for this girl.
i agree- i feel like this version is him convincing himself to move on
thank you 😊
np :)) i hope you enjoy this version-
@@elle4630 yes ofc I've been looking for it since I don't have soundcloud
The one dislike is from Dream
trueee
@@elle4630 the man's voice is too powerful
@@Cultivate_UAE dream can’t handle it 🥱
Do you know where this is from? Just wondering lol, cause I know he's sung some of these songs on stream but I've never seen this one!
i’m not sure- probably his twitter? i got it from a link on tiktok so idk
most of his songs are on Spotify under the name "Wilbur" and the album is Your city gave me asthma
@@alexackary-hawthorn3672 yep- this first draft of losing face isnt on spotify tho sadly :/
@@elle4630 I think you can find this version on his soundcloud tho
ik im late but back in 2018 he tweeted a different version of this song, it was the original when he wrote it where he was also drunk but not as much as here, and then he replied to a tweet with this soundtrack and said he was "actually fucked beyond belief" here lmao
*Why does this make me sad- His voice though- Wilby no :^;*
mans was in his feels
When ever I feel sad, I listen to this version of the song and I always think about how much I fucked yo this year. How much I missed out on my senior year of highschool, how I will never find the one, how my mental state just keeps declining further and further, how much I miss the people who passed during this shitty quarantine. Not looking for pity but I need one answer to a question I’ve been asking myself. Is it worth it anymore, to keep going when there is so much pain getting thrown at someone all at once? I’ve tried therapy, meds, everything and it doesn’t work. All it does is make it worse because I know that if this is not working, then what will? I’m lost.
'is he good enough to be your wife'
love that
i remember seeing this on soundcloud and i was pret confused w/ the change of lyrics
I need 1hour loop D :
if ur on the website, you can hold down or right click and it will give you an option to loop :)
If you mean like hold down on phone, then it doesn’t give me an option to loop it ):
@@tufbur425 i think you have to be on the desktop version- maybe i’ll make a one hour loop :)
Haha, thanks if you do >:D
Very drunk
very true
okay hear me out (no one will probably know what I'm on about but oh well)
in my dsmp script I wrote that me and wilbur are best friend and he will sing me his songs hes working on and whenever im scared or nervous he will sing to me. and this reminds me so much of my dr i wanna shift so bad
good luck!!
_when did you change the thumbnail oh god-_
you love it, right 😉?
@@elle4630 it is _spectacular_ :))
hey, i’m curious where you found this? i’ve been doing my own personal research on your city gave me asthma since it’s creation and how it shaped from 13 to 8 to 7 songs is very interesting and how it went from cocaine and breakups to being about london. anyway yeah just curious where you found this
haha cool- i found this through a link on tiktok a while ago, but i think he posted it on his twitter at some point
Ooo
tysm :))
she spoke Italian
😭😭
wait am i missing something or am i just stupid lol why is 'she spoke italian' so funny what-
idk man it’s funny to me too-
If u put this at 1.15 it sounds like the actual losing face
the final draft is slightly faster which i feel gives it more of an upbeat version
I REALLY WANNA LEARN THIS VERSION BUT THERES NO TUTORIALS 😭
RIP IM SO SORRY
has nobody seen the video of him sat on the floor singing this?
i’ve seen that video- this is a different audio but that vid is so good !!
listen to this at 1.25 speed
i wanna laugh but i also wanna cry fhfhfgdvdv
the ppl who find this video agree :,)
does anyone know the strumming pattern
i dont- someone else was searching for it but lmk if you find it
I believe its DUDD UDU (or DUDDUDDU but you play it faster). I found a vid of him playing this in one of his old streams where you can see the chords too, those on ultimate guitar aren't really that accurate. Here's the link if you wanna check it out th-cam.com/video/DhjDX9mbJeY/w-d-xo.html
@@lhtvz U R A LIFE SAVER TYSM
@@idfd3z no problem :D
U can hear him messing up alot in parts
How the fuck did he play guitar drunk i cant even do it sober
same it’s so impressive
@@elle4630 honestly drunk wilbur is an idol how is he so talented while being absolutely wasted
@@cold5529 fr
where did you find this?
i got it off a link on tiktok, but apparently he posted it on his twitter a while ago :)
isn't this him trying to sing it while he's sad drunk?
yea it is haha
is this version anywhere on spotify
sadly no :/ if i knew how to upload stuff on spotify i would
@@elle4630 LOOK IT UP JUST PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
@@anettehoovelsoo5323 i did its not there :( maybe i’ll upload it i’ll let you know if i do
its not on spotify but theres one on soundcloud :)
Give me one beat to fill my car??? 1:17
idk man he was drunk
Where did you even get this?
i got it off tiktok but i think wilbur posted it on his twitter a while ago
where did he post this :O
on his twitter a while ago !!
anyone have strumming pattern?
lmk if you find out
DUDU-UDU (tbh i’ve been using this stunning pattern and it sounds fairly decent)
this is for the main parts of the song ( the rest, idk )
@@rivur._ tyyyy
Is he good enough to be your wife
hey, quick question
do you have the high quality version of this, in mp3? I know youtube compresses the quality, so just checking if you have the file uncompressed
no sorry i don’t- you can try and look on twitter for a better version i think you can find it there
@@elle4630 alright