Aries sun. I end up with Leo sun men. My mercury is in Taurus. IM FOREVER ARGUING with them over petty shit!!! Lmao. But I live for drama as an Aries and so does Leo. They always say I criticise them but my form of communicating is hella basic. How can they not understand. Haha. Fixed mercury to a fixed sun. ✨
i definitely felt judged all the time by the mercury person. he was quite condescending and bullying with me tho he is 10 years younger. was a coworker, he seemed nice with others except me and i developed a stockholm syndrome kind of crush on him just so he would softened toward me. the whole thing was effed up from start to finish and he played me cruelly and said nasty things and if somebody was friendly with me he got on them too. glad it's over, i hope i'll never ever meet him again.
I went through a similar experience with a close relative when i visited them for a few days ...he was very judgemental and extremely nit picky of particularly me to the point even other people felt he was over doing it while I maintained a calm composure.
I had this aspect with a friend as well and i felt being judged a lot in the beginning but gradually as he came to know me things changed and he was very respectful towards me and whenever he wanted to suggest something or point out a mistake he did it in a very calm and respectful way where he didnt force anything. But in the former case it literally felt that he tried to force things on me and was very aggressive and judgmental while suggesting or pointing out mistakes.
I had this with a friend who is no longer my friend after decades of friendship. I was the mercury person and I definitely felt like she took everything in the worst possible way, jumping to conclusions and adding her own meaning to things that I said. She got sick and her cognitive abilities became impaired to the point where there was no way to reach a point of understanding after a misunderstanding. I was always explaining myself in great detail so she wouldn't feel offended. I have done more in the way of acts of service for her than for most of my other friendships throughout my adult life, and I felt that I deserved the respect for her to listen to what my boundaries were with something she was asking me to do to help her. She attacked me in response to me expressing my boundaries and then when I withdrew from communicating with her, she acted insane and made threats. Sorry but even after 20 years of friendship, there is a line that once it's crossed, those bridges are sort of burned beyond repair. I'm a forgiving, caring, committed friend but I don't hang out with crazies. I don't know why she thought she could treat me like that and then was so surprised that I dropped the friendship, which I did by totally ignoring her. If she wouldn't listen to my words, then she can listen to my silence, which now speaks volumes. I didn't have judgement of her, but she always felt insecure that I did. I felt compassion and empathy for her all along, even though I am different than her in so many ways. I learned things from her ideas too. This video REALLY rings true for this friendship that I had which has this square. Good video -- spot on Jewel.
So trueeeee, this guy (Mercury) always complained about my routine, about how I studied, he was so annoying, sometimes he talked about my weaknesses when it was so unnecessary.. I always felt so criticized by him 🙄🙄..
Thank You Jewel =) For some reason the sound has been very low in your past couple of videos. I have everything turned up full volume, but have to put headphones on to hear you properly. I've never had this problem with your channel before, so I'm not sure what's changed... everything my end is the same. Hmmm.
What if its a double whammy square of Sun and Mercury in synastry but Sun conjunct Mercury in composite? With Neptune sextiling Sun/Mercury? Could that help resolve it?
Interesting could this be an aspect found in relationships where there is a language barrier? I often find with the other, that his English is not to the point where I can fully articulate myself and he often does not understand what I'm saying all the time.. I think a lot of the words I use he really does not know the meaning of. I'm the Mercury person by the way.ha!
Had a misunderstanding with my cousin and we have this square one way. His is trine my sun though thank goodness. We'd never talk nor reach a conclusion if it was double.
I've been the mercury person and at times the sun person would make jokes about me that I felt uncomfortable with. I'd tell them and be met with some defensive ass answer. Smh. Yes, they were both stubborn as hell.
I find that Mercury squares are not all that bad. Mercury aspects to me are not that major compared to aspects between other planets. Yes they're annoying but they can be dealt with. Its hell when theres a Mercury-Mercury square and a Sun-Sun square. Its like theres no understanding whatsoever, lots of arguments and disagreements.
Agreed. The worst communication I ever had was entertaining dating someone whose Mercury in Aquarius squared my Mercury in Scorpio at an almost exact orb. He would literally pretend to not get my texts and ignore what I said just to flaunt his massive ego by rambling about what interested him. He responded to things I said or showed him with "fun facts" pertaining to the topic instead of just having a conversation with me. He also frequently changed the subject back to his interests when we talked on the phone. Maddening.
I have this with someone and it feels like they just dont care what i say at all, i dont even feel attacked just ignored?? Weird aspect. I really dont like it but im a gem sun with my 7th house in gemini so mercury is a important planet for me
yeah im mercury Pisces 9th house , and im usually right, not to be bragging and he is sun saggitaris in 2nd house, my Mercurys goes in his 5th house and his sun goes in my 5th house, it's difficult when we are talking about art, because I grew up in Europe and he grew up the rural USA, and I notice I criticize him a lot when it comes to projects and art and spirituality, but I never try to hurt him, its like a weird immediate reaction I have towards his opinion, and he won't talk to me for ages when I criticize, and ill try to patch things up. but he will just avoid avoid avoid, until finally, he will say yeah you were right you just want me to reach my potential, but I realize now that I don't need to voice every opinion ive become MUCH more conscious of it now, before I was very unconscious, maybe its due to my pisces mercury, so at the time I didn't think I was doing anything wrong, I thought we were just comfortable together to just say it how it is, and not sugarcoat it. But yeah I love him too much to try and hurt his feelings, I want him to feel comfortable with me to talk about these things, I don't find him stupid, its more I am realizing we really do come from two different worlds and we just learn differently.
I love how you focus more on the solution more than the problem. Your videos are really informative. Thank you Jewel.
Aries sun. I end up with Leo sun men. My mercury is in Taurus.
IM FOREVER ARGUING with them over petty shit!!! Lmao. But I live for drama as an Aries and so does Leo. They always say I criticise them but my form of communicating is hella basic. How can they not understand. Haha. Fixed mercury to a fixed sun. ✨
Astro honeyyyyy 🤗
Hey Jewel! This was a very assisting video at this point in my life... I also think you have a beautiful face. Thank you for both!
i definitely felt judged all the time by the mercury person. he was quite condescending and bullying with me tho he is 10 years younger. was a coworker, he seemed nice with others except me and i developed a stockholm syndrome kind of crush on him just so he would softened toward me. the whole thing was effed up from start to finish and he played me cruelly and said nasty things and if somebody was friendly with me he got on them too. glad it's over, i hope i'll never ever meet him again.
Very sorry to hear that. This aspect is underrated in terms of how rough it can be.
I went through a similar experience with a close relative when i visited them for a few days ...he was very judgemental and extremely nit picky of particularly me to the point even other people felt he was over doing it while I maintained a calm composure.
I had this aspect with a friend as well and i felt being judged a lot in the beginning but gradually as he came to know me things changed and he was very respectful towards me and whenever he wanted to suggest something or point out a mistake he did it in a very calm and respectful way where he didnt force anything.
But in the former case it literally felt that he tried to force things on me and was very aggressive and judgmental while suggesting or pointing out mistakes.
I think it plays out in a different way depending upon how evolved the mercury person is.
I had this with a friend who is no longer my friend after decades of friendship. I was the mercury person and I definitely felt like she took everything in the worst possible way, jumping to conclusions and adding her own meaning to things that I said. She got sick and her cognitive abilities became impaired to the point where there was no way to reach a point of understanding after a misunderstanding. I was always explaining myself in great detail so she wouldn't feel offended. I have done more in the way of acts of service for her than for most of my other friendships throughout my adult life, and I felt that I deserved the respect for her to listen to what my boundaries were with something she was asking me to do to help her. She attacked me in response to me expressing my boundaries and then when I withdrew from communicating with her, she acted insane and made threats. Sorry but even after 20 years of friendship, there is a line that once it's crossed, those bridges are sort of burned beyond repair. I'm a forgiving, caring, committed friend but I don't hang out with crazies. I don't know why she thought she could treat me like that and then was so surprised that I dropped the friendship, which I did by totally ignoring her. If she wouldn't listen to my words, then she can listen to my silence, which now speaks volumes. I didn't have judgement of her, but she always felt insecure that I did. I felt compassion and empathy for her all along, even though I am different than her in so many ways. I learned things from her ideas too. This video REALLY rings true for this friendship that I had which has this square. Good video -- spot on Jewel.
So trueeeee, this guy (Mercury) always complained about my routine, about how I studied, he was so annoying, sometimes he talked about my weaknesses when it was so unnecessary.. I always felt so criticized by him 🙄🙄..
Keep it up!
Thank You Jewel =) For some reason the sound has been very low in your past couple of videos. I have everything turned up full volume, but have to put headphones on to hear you properly. I've never had this problem with your channel before, so I'm not sure what's changed... everything my end is the same. Hmmm.
+Ad Astra I'll look into it. It sounds fine from my end. I'll use a microphone from now on.
Thank you! No one else has mentioned it, it may just be me. I appreciate you taking a look ;)
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Mayberry Can you do "Natal Moon opposite Lilith" Please?!!!!!!!!!
+Sun Shine I am not doing anything differently. I will use a microphone in the future.
What if its a double whammy square of Sun and Mercury in synastry but Sun conjunct Mercury in composite? With Neptune sextiling Sun/Mercury? Could that help resolve it?
Interesting could this be an aspect found in relationships where there is a language barrier? I often find with the other, that his English is not to the point where I can fully articulate myself and he often does not understand what I'm saying all the time.. I think a lot of the words I use he really does not know the meaning of. I'm the Mercury person by the way.ha!
+Hannah Whitworth That can be the case yes. A language barrier. That makes a lot of sense!
same my his first language is not english
Had a misunderstanding with my cousin and we have this square one way. His is trine my sun though thank goodness. We'd never talk nor reach a conclusion if it was double.
Can this aspect be made easier if mercury is in strong trine with Jupiter?
Yep exactly. You are super 😎 🆒️!
I have so many squares w someone I like. We square our suns, moons, mercury, Venus and Uranus. I’m scared 😢
I've been the mercury person and at times the sun person would make jokes about me that I felt uncomfortable with. I'd tell them and be met with some defensive ass answer. Smh. Yes, they were both stubborn as hell.
Is there a video of Sun opp. Mercury? Can't seem to find much about this one. Please, make a video, if not done one already. Thank you.
This is so on point lol
I find that Mercury squares are not all that bad. Mercury aspects to me are not that major compared to aspects between other planets. Yes they're annoying but they can be dealt with. Its hell when theres a Mercury-Mercury square and a Sun-Sun square. Its like theres no understanding whatsoever, lots of arguments and disagreements.
my best friend and I had sun square sun with other good aspects. We communicated very well.
Agreed. The worst communication I ever had was entertaining dating someone whose Mercury in Aquarius squared my Mercury in Scorpio at an almost exact orb. He would literally pretend to not get my texts and ignore what I said just to flaunt his massive ego by rambling about what interested him. He responded to things I said or showed him with "fun facts" pertaining to the topic instead of just having a conversation with me. He also frequently changed the subject back to his interests when we talked on the phone. Maddening.
It would mean so much if you could do Saturn conjunct pluto in natal.
I haven´t find that much information about it.
I have this with someone and it feels like they just dont care what i say at all, i dont even feel attacked just ignored?? Weird aspect. I really dont like it but im a gem sun with my 7th house in gemini so mercury is a important planet for me
How are things now communication wise? Do y’all try to put in as much effort to make each other feel heard and verbally seen as possible?
Gemini sun and he has a Virgo stellium 😩. My Taurus moon / cancer mercury kinda helps :)
What’s it like for the Gemini Sun squaring the Virgo energy? I’m assuming the dude’s got Mercury in Virgo……
Yes they shud just block one self and then break up, find some one with who they can talk 😂
yeah im mercury Pisces 9th house , and im usually right, not to be bragging and he is sun saggitaris in 2nd house, my Mercurys goes in his 5th house and his sun goes in my 5th house, it's difficult when we are talking about art, because I grew up in Europe and he grew up the rural USA, and I notice I criticize him a lot when it comes to projects and art and spirituality, but I never try to hurt him, its like a weird immediate reaction I have towards his opinion, and he won't talk to me for ages when I criticize, and ill try to patch things up. but he will just avoid avoid avoid, until finally, he will say yeah you were right you just want me to reach my potential, but I realize now that I don't need to voice every opinion ive become MUCH more conscious of it now, before I was very unconscious, maybe its due to my pisces mercury, so at the time I didn't think I was doing anything wrong, I thought we were just comfortable together to just say it how it is, and not sugarcoat it. But yeah I love him too much to try and hurt his feelings, I want him to feel comfortable with me to talk about these things, I don't find him stupid, its more I am realizing we really do come from two different worlds and we just learn differently.