AITA For Telling My Sister To Stay AWAY From My BABY? | Best of r/AITA Reddit Stories | Full Story
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- They told her to apologize to keep the peace.
This is what her sister did to her 11-month-old baby - www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8BJsrU6/
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She should press charges
yeh she literally dropped a baby into a lake without proper flotation which could have caused her to drown
For real, like oh my god
For real
Exactly
Yeah, she should, honestly... Dear God, I'd press charges too.
That’s assault on a child, who thinks she’s in the wrong for being upset and protecting her child shouldn’t be alone around children.
Those are three charges she could go to prison for life for, child endangerment, attempted murder and kidnapping, and since there were witnesses and a video of the whole thing she would easily go to prison for life even if the kidnapping charge was dropped.
Two things I wanna know one: Who made the first damn tik-tok of dropping the baby in water second: why the hell would she think that would be funny/safe.
this proves this TIktok is bad
@@KugoVR Indeed it does that baby could have died.
Sierra should be reported to CPS and the police. What she did was absolutely unexcusable.
We would be going to jail!!
Her for almost killing my child and me for beating the hell out of my sister
YOU FEEL ME!!! Sister would’ve been turned every way but loose 🤧
@MoJones9919 I've only ever heard my family and I word it that way. It's nice to find a kindred spirit 🤣🤣🤣
She would be catching theses hand 🤜🤛
Honestly, I would drop the man if he seriously is okay with sister being in charge of the baby after that. Like… not only did she purposely almost kill your baby for laughs she hid it because she knew it wasn’t actually okay and thinks it’s fine and therefore would do it again. Even if sister apologized now it we be that she regrets getting caught. I can kinda sorta understand that the ops mom is trying to get her daughters to be okay again but to be okay with your baby being watched by a child abuser is just F’ed
The bf is clearly screwing the sister if he cares more about her than his own child's life.
Yup ofc after sister threw in water cousins laughed and mother opposed it's bf that should go boy oh boy if you have bf or husband poor guys are miserable i wish to have drink with them so they can vent out
Being gaslight and manipulated! No child is safe around ANYONE who disregards their safety for any type or kind of trend. Infact I'd be worried about animals, elderly and anyone or thing that can't protect themselves honestly. If the baby would have drowned, I'm sure the investigator would have loved the " But it's a tiktok trend officer, it worked on the internet"
"was i too harsh"
You weren't harsh enough.
If it was me, immediately after i see that video i would save it, (screen record incase they delete it from the internet) and call my lawyer and take the sister to court.
Its not just the fact she dropped a baby in the water, but let her sit there for 7+ seconds, but also there are many ways that could have gone wrong. Baby could've drowned, the baby could've hit its head on the deck, the impact of the water could've easily hurt the baby, there could've been dangerous things in the water, or the baby could've cause a cold or disease. Babies are very sensitive.
Dont listen to any of your family when they say "just keep the peace with your sister"
She tried to kill your baby for views. And if she follows one of the stupid trends for views and doesn't see anything wrong with it, she WILL do it again.
The fact that you have video proof of child endangerment is a completely valid reason to press charges on her, shes lucky youre being kind.
Nope NTA! Your sister can actually be charged with child endangerment as she Intentionally did it to recreate a tik tok video . If anything had happened to your child ….
Stand your ground no longer allow your sister to be alone with your child . Do not apologize.
True, the sister must fixed her wrong because in some or in all areas child endangerment is wrong and an unlawful to thing to do.
That’s child endangerment. She needs to be charged since she willingly put her in danger.
File a report and show the video as evidences op could also probable sue for endangering her child
Hell no, she damn near killed your baby
The mammalian diving reflex kept the baby from drowning so she was kinda safe but who in their right mind who do something like that for shits and giggles? Nta that woman is dangerous and their mother is an enabler.
She never said what state they were in but clearly they were fishing in the lake so it was a lake with am eco system, so it's absolutely possible that it had alligators, catfish, tiger fish, pythons, etc.. all of which are things that are more than capable of ending a baby with one quick bite.
@@lillypharaoh5945 And there could have been a curent that could carry the baby away and make it impossible to find her in time
Mammalian diving reflex?? Amazing that anyone drowns 🙄
@@moxee33 only infants have it 🙄.
News flash unless you’re constantly taking your child to swim sessions from birth that reflex fades over time. Babies instinctively know how to swim at birth because of amniotic fluid so if they haven’t been to a pool or anything like that they forget it within the first year of life. The only thing that anyone remembers vaguely is to kick. A 1+ child isn’t going to remember to hold their breath
Nope. My sister watches my son for my partner and I while we work and if she ever did something like that, I would lose it. I probably wouldn’t even be able to look at her anymore if I’m being honest. My baby boy is #1 and you would risk his precious innocent life to recreate a TiKtOk ViDeO? Hell no. Protect your babies at all costs.
As someone who had a drowning scare when I was young, I can confidently say mom is NTA. I almost drowned when I rocked my diaper style ring floaty the wrong way down, with my legs kicking up in the air. My whole body was suddenly underwater and the floaty was keeping me stuck there. I was only under for 4 or 5 seconds but I was so confused and scared I immediately inhaled water. Luckily, my parents did not find the situation funny and immediately dove in to get me out of the pool. My dad pulled me out and patted my back real hard until all of the water came up. None of the kids ever used that floaty again. I was maybe 3 or 4 and that was terrifying enough without someone RECORDING IT FOR LIKES ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO LAUGH AT THE SITUATION?!?? This aunt is in her 30s. Keep the peace without compromising on the fact what she did was dangerous.
Of course some people are lenient with family but what the sister did was not only cruel putting a child in danger for “fun” but also filming a child without a parents consent. (I know there are those lessons where you put the kids in a pool to learn how to float and all that but that’s in a controlled environment with people experienced near by)
For me as a mother of two it would’ve either been the police get involved or she gets her tail beat. That baby could’ve died and they sat there laughing while the baby sank under water. I couldn’t imagined the fear that baby felt in that moment.
Press charges against your sister AND take your baby to the hospital immediately!!! If your baby breathed in any water, it can become encased in their lungs and cause a potentially fatal infection. Your sister should be charged with reckless child endangerment at the least!
Press charges
Why do the other people in these sorts of stories always have loose wiring upstairs? They’re all saying “it wasn’t that bad, you should make the peace.” WHAT?! You don’t throw a baby into a body of water and then watch and laugh as they sink, wtf?!
That is unforgivable to just drop the baby off into pool for a TikTok video and to literally to be forgive her from her bf and her mom
Could have caused the baby brain damage. And to watch something happen like that as a mother knowing you couldn’t have done anything in the moment is infuriating. The one thing she can do is not let it happen again by not letting her sister around her baby. Gives me a lot of anxiety listening to this story.
She never said what state they were in but clearly they were fishing in the lake so it was a lake with am eco system, so it's absolutely possible that it had alligators, catfish, tiger fish, pythons, etc.. all of which are things that are more than capable of ending a baby with one quick bite.
THAT WOULDVE BEEN SO FUNNY LMAO
@@jakwq8994 no but you know what would be funny you going to jail will that very comment taped to your back what would happen then would be so hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
I would not ever leave a child with her not even a pet.
Her excuse was she had 2 cousins there to get her… do those cousins happen to also know child CPR if it were necessary or the protocol for a drowning baby?
Unless that child had been receiving swimming lessons by a licensed professional, it should not have been dropped in the water for any reason.
Also, instead of the cousins diving in for her why were they not already in the water ready to get her if they knew she was gonna slip out.
All 3 of those “adults” should be taught a lesson
I would forgive tye sister only after pressing charges and letting tye law take care if her.
No fucking way I’d let someone who dropped my child (especially an infant!!!) in a lake anywhere near her again
Thank you! Those were my exact words when I listened to op being worried about being ta. Fuck No
Honestly I’d press charges she put the baby’s life in danger and without the parents consent then without the consent further went into posting this video on tiktok I mean some things are funny but that’s fucking sick and what’s even more sick is the fact that some people find that funny. The fact everyone is against you must mean your sister is that manipulative that she then forced your family to believe her and said that she knows what’s best because she spends more time with the baby then the parents, the mother probably won’t want to hear that anyways. I’d be so fucking pissed that anyone who’d side with her then I would completely ghost them
She and anyone else doing that tread needs to be locked up in jail
There’s literally no chance in hell a 32 year old would EVER be alone with my child again or even see them if they did some dumbass stunt for Tiktok.
Even if she had people there to grab her she could have drowned and if the people want fast enough, she intentionally endanger a child
Call the police. if there's evidence, get it and file a report.
NTA what the sister did is child abuse, and the fact she can’t see that makes me hope and pray that she never has kids herself
The sister sounds impulsive and like a sociopath. You made the right decision.
As a former lifeguard of the boys where there to get her they would be in the water right beneath. They shouldn’t do it period
That was literally a crime.
No. I’m not a mom, but I’m a proud aunt. What she did was insane and most likely traumatized Abby for life. She could’ve died, contracted pneumonia, or otherwise become sick from ingesting or inhaling what was in that water as she went under. The aunt should only see her when supervised until she matures enough to recognize what she did wrong. She’s lucky she lived to argue about it.
HELL NO! Protect your baby. That was incredibly dangerous, at 32 she should know better. And she isn't the mother so it doesn't matter how much time she spends with Abby she doesn't get to decide what is and isn't okay for her. Baby sitters follow rules. I'd call the police if it were me. And the cousins were teenage boys following an adult they trusted. Also laughs should never be at a child's expense, a baby is even worse. She's not even 1, she can't even walk.
Never underestimate your first instinct as a mother!
This is a toxic dangerous individual and you should never allow her to be alone with your child.
She’s also sneaky so unfortunately I would suggest that you never allow your mother to babysit. I guarantee you she will allow your sister access to your child. Don’t let this happen.
This person endangered your child for a freaking prank video. Anything could’ve happened! That’s on top of the fact that immersion in water at that age can cause brain damage not to mention death.
Have a lawyer document what happened and also put in writing that this woman is never to be allowed to be alone with your child or even around your child make sure your mother and any other relative get a copy.
If anybody leaves your child unsupervised with that woman you go scorched earth !
That baby could've literally died from dry drowning due to the amount of water she most likely inhaled. Sister should've been reported to the police. Let's see how much everyone can act like she isn't a monster for doing that to a defenseless baby when the law lets her know it is very much illegal.
“helicopter mom”??? ITS AN INFANT!!! every good parent is a “helicopter” parent when your child is too young to literally do anything on its own other than sleep! she put someone else’s child in grave danger for “laughs” and the fact that she refuses to see the mom’s side shows that she should NOT be allowed to care for a child, and neither should any of the family members siding with her. as a parent your job isn’t to people-please and keep the peace, it’s to ensure your child is safe and well taken care of. the mom 100% did the right thing
this sounds like a court date
She literally almost killed your child. Charges should be pressed and she should be arrested.
She nearly drowned and infant and donst think it a big deal ? You are not wrong your surrounded by crazy people. And your aisnter ahould be in jail
I think I know the video they talking about recreating. That video was of a family that lives and breaths water and the kids are started as babies with basic swimming lessons. So even though the kid is young, but way older than eleven months, she is a great swimmer. They made the video to show that you don't trust water wings. You need an actually float vest or life jacket. OPs sister tossed an eleven month old that can't swim into water that they may not even know well to recreate a scenario that had been planned out by parents who actually did know their kid.
Hell no and she don't want to Apologize don't be scared to kick out people out of your life even if they're your family
If that was my kid she would be picking up her jaw off the concrete
So basically, she committed attempted murder on an infant child. Whilst also putting other children at risk to "retrieve" her. That's just disturbing and sad. And the lack of remorse from the rest of her family is pathetic and sad.
yeah. fuck that. if that was my child and my sister did that, id straight up tell her if she values her life, she better stay away from my kid otherwise she realise the true meaning of pain.
I'm pretty certain the risk of drowning counts as dangerous, especially since they left her underwater for 6-7 seconds before getting her out.
Sister literally tried to 'accidentally' drown the baby for laughs. Sister has lost her mind if she thinks OP is over-reacting, if anything OP is under-reacting.
If she’s willing to do that to her niece let cps know so if any kid is unlucky to have her as a mum can be protected
Nta i find it mind boggling that your mother is taking your sisters side it doesn’t matter if the cousins were involved sis was the one responsible for baby at the time she will need to re earn your trust and she is the one that needs to apologize
NTA anyone who says do this to keep the peace is an absolute terrible person! Opie is 100% in the right for feeling uncomfortable leaving her baby with her sister! Baby could have drowned
NTA!!! NO!!! Do NOT let her alone with your child!!! She doesn’t see the issue with what she did & wont accept responsibility for HER actions. She’s LUCKY you didn’t press charges. And your lucky it wasn’t reported to CPS & have an open investigation. Would she be okay if you did that to her baby? Would she be willing to do that to her own child? She’s an IDIOT.
NTA Eff your families feelings and your BF for wanting to brush this away
Oh heck no, take your sister and two cousins to court. Sorry, but what if the child didn't make it?
That’s child endangerment you should press charges holy shit
What would SHE do if someone done to her kid? Would she press charges or stand there and funny at her own kid?WTFH
so, have to wonder, what if the "joke" ended up with her being put in the hospital, or getting brain damaged somehow from near drowning? also, dump the BF since he apparently isn't smart enough to realize the kid was in danger also
Dude, he's clearly screwing the sister if he cares more about her than his own childs actual life
You should sue her like that’s child abuse plus I think you should separate with your family despite them being teens it just shows who they’ll be and I don’t trust there was no peace to begin with and you should keep Abby in daycare and get your own place soon as possible
You’re absolutely nta. What the person’s sister did to the baby is assult. Press charges.
The sister is absolutely in the wrong, if you do somthing and can be considered as assault and have the possibility for the child to drown willingly then you shouldn't be around young children and even guilt tripping the mother is honestly cruel and manipulative
Restraining order immediately
Frankly not harsh enough. I would have called the cops.
FUCK NO- NEVER LET HER TOUCH YOUR BABY AGAIN
Even if it was physically safe (it wasn't), this is treating a helpless baby person as a prop. You are putting a baby in the position to feel like they are unsafe with their caretakers, which can be upsetting, or even cause lasting mental health problems if it becomes a pattern.
Count out 6-7 seconds.
Now imagine a baby sinking under water that whole time.
F every family member insisting OP get over this. Wtf is wrong with people?
Well hell no. She could've killed your baby doing crazy crap like that.. Just because she didn't, doesn't mean you give her a pass..
NTA. keep that maniac away from that baby. idc if she "knew it would be safe" or "the boys were right there so i knew shed be fine" or any other excuse. i dont even care if its dangerous or safe. she did something that would make that baby miserable and uncomfy "for laughs". you dont do that to anyone especially not someone who cant object or articulate their discomfort. like imagine pranking a baby with like spicy food or something, yeah its "harmless" but your still doing something to a baby to laugh at their expense. its especially fucked up to do that kind of thing when its dangerous and even worse when you dont admit it was your fault and a terrible idea. if you cant take responsibility for your actions as a grown adult you arent responsible enough to be in charge of a child/baby.
Not the asshole. OP's sister is a adult and should act like it. OP should tell her sister that she will press charges on her if she doesn't apologize and respect her wishes.
Unless you’re training with a professional to teach your baby how to swim, and only at certain ages, you should never let a baby sink under the water! Some lose the nose and mouth reflex and will straight up swallow or breath water. There has been cases of babies and toddlers drowning hours after coming back from the pool…
Nta. Her sister is treating her as if she’s a concerned stranger online and not yknow ABBY’S MOTHER?? Also the bf is a spineless wimp of a father he cannot be trusted.
That could be considered attempted murder. How dare she throw a baby off a dock with Floaties on and then laugh they go ha ha ha the babies drowning. That’s just disgusting. I would’ve pressed charges she belongs in jail. If you’re not being nearly harsh enough. I think she’s getting off flight with you just saying you can’t see the baby anymore. The fact that the mother and the boyfriend are siding with the crazy child abuser is just insane. I want to reconsider who you’re dating. If he’s so OK with letting someone almost drown his child he’s not a very good father. And the mother he’s perfectly fine with her grandchild almost being drowned that’s sick
Keep your sister away from your baby. She’s dangerous
I stopped listening after “I’m beginning to feel guilty.” Ain’t no way anyone is dumb enough to feel guilty about protecting their child from irresponsible and dangerous people.
So basically tldr aita for protecting my daughter and being a good mother
She knew to lie about it this proves she knew it was wrong no she is never allowed alone with the baby next time she might end her life
I would report her for Attempted Murder. If that trowing went wrong and they could Get her in time she would have died
NTA in fact I would say everyone involved in the initial act, and anyone saying you should apologize and move on are the AHs.
She has responsibility over abbey. therefore, the whole situation is SOLELY her fault.
is that how it is? keep the peace with the safty of your baby.? that would be a huge Hell No. She can do that stuff with her own baby.
NTA, any mom would never trust anyone who puts her baby in danger again whether they are their real siblings or close friends, and cherry on top is showing no remorse for their wrongdoing
*THIS WOMAN SHOULD BE IN PRISON*
The sister, for clarity, not OP
Absolutely not! Sierra is more than twice the cousins' age, ffs.
your telling me this ladies own sister just dropped her baby into water and NOONE sees it as a problem .. drop everyone there is no "just keeping the peace" when a baby could of drowned. disgusting
She purposely risks the baby girls life for fun and for fame on TikTok not because she cares about the baby girls well-being and everyone who is trying to make it seem like it’s not a big deal is an awful person who shouldn’t be around children.
No??? Your baby could’ve drowned and they think YOU’RE the one being harsh???
Nope! Not the AH , don’t forgive her and don’t let that b near your child EVER
She is being wayyyy to fucking nice
No ahe almost killied ur kid move out cut contact break up with bf
Did the boyfriend do something wrong?
@@Kellie_martin he csideed with everybody telling her to apologize
Bro put your kid at risk you don’t need to apologize
Hell no she isn't the ah. I had a cousin who drowned at age 2 and his father was the one to get him out of the pool he accidentally fell in. It is an absolute terrible thing to purposefully throw a baby in the water, the sister should be ashamed as should ops mother and bf if they aren't willing to make that brat own up to her stupidity
How’d your sister feel if you pushed her psycho self into a body of water wtf. I still get nervous at those baby swimming class videos when they drop the babies in 😩
CRUEL ? WHAT DO YOU MEAN CRUEL ? SHE NEARLY KILLED A BABY
I would never do that to my siblings children, especially for a stupid video. Unless I’m told they can swim, I wouldn’t even feel comfortable being near any body of water without their parents being there :/
not only do i think she isn't over reacting, i think she was under reacting. her baby could've died and she isn't pressing charges??
That child endangerment what is wrong with these people lotbof things could have gone wrong
What is this family 😭 they literally let a kid drown and made fun of it😭😭
See, I don't know what was worse what happened or my thought of "Oh shit she just baptized this kid without consent" like they are booth awful but they are awful in vastly different ways.
YOU TRY TO DO THAT TO MY BABY SISTER BROTHER IDC IN THROWING THESE GODDAMN HANDS YOU AINT DAMNNNN TRYNA DROWN MY BABY AND TRYNA DO IT AGAIN MAN WHAT THE HELL