Yea they are calling him! He has a women calling from New Zeeland,Jamaica, UK ,south Africa calling into his show. If they ain’t calling, they sure are listening to his show. Kevin Samuels has the same message as Shahrazad Ali was saying in 1989-1990 that black Women are out of order an no one can tell them anything. Kevin Samuels is 100% that a black man who has his ish together has more options of women than just black women. KS pointed out that black women have this self entitlement issues thinking they deserve a husband, y’all better compete for that man
@@blkghostxx MOST women are not calling him and most women are not listening to him. Give me a break quoting all the white supremacists narratives on black women. It's divide and conquer and you and the Kevin Samuels crew are doing exactly as they wish. The focus should not be on competition or doing what someone says to get a man or woman. But in being healthy whole healed individuals that are able to navigate life and relationships in a positive way. Then we would not even be having these conversations. Whether I agree or disagree with Kevins philosophy has no real bearing on my life. And yours either because I am sure you are not the high value man he is directing 98% of his philosophy to.
@@acolley96 deflection and shifting the blame on why black women aren’t getting married ain’t working anymore. American black Women just don’t know how to act feminine, they rather be masculine instead. Kevin Samuels is still getting daily callers, I don’t know what you mean by most women are not calling him? The man has women that listen to his show because he speaks the truth
@@blkghostxx never said he didn't have women calling him. Never said he doesn't have women who listen. I know some that do. He has not said anything I haven't heard before from others. Black women not getting married is not as simplistic as Kevin would have you believe. Is there some truth to what he is saying, sure. But it's one sided and only tells a part of the problem. As someone who critically thinks and researches different resources and not just one, marriage in the black community does not solely fall at the feet of African American women. That talking point is false. Do we contribute sure we do. Is it for the reasons Kevin suggests? For some yes but not for all. Black men AND black women have work to do to heal and be whole people. ALL OF US should hold ourselves accountable for the mess we bring or don't bring to the table. This is coming from a single woman who was raised by a mom and a dad who have been married for 52 years. Accountability and healing in both sides is how our community gets stronger. All this placing blame and fighting about masculine/feminine energy crap is pointless. And is a distraction. Just be the best you you can be. That's it.
April is ignoring the fact that women are willing to have the children before being married. She is trying not to hold the women responsible for their lifestyle decisions.
@@acolley96 i have shot up the club a couple of times in my life. I was never responsible for opening the door to let me in! Yall have a voice when it comes go birth control use it.
And you don't have to walk thru the door or even ask for it..as stated EVERYONE has ownership. I do agree that women need to realize we have more power ( I hate to use that word) than we actually use. There are many reasons why we don't exercise that power more. But that's a whole other conversation.
@@acolley96 speaking from my own experiencing i know the feeling of wanting to have kids and have no interest in being a father. I think that mindset is typical yet women seem to think the man they deal with is different. Isnt that just cognitive dissonance?
OF course, Black women have an issue with the way Kevin Samuels talks to them. He's the only one that talks about them having accountability. Something no one has ever told them. Beta Black Men certainly won't tell them what they need to hear, and other Black women won't
Idk what you listen to but I hear black men and black women holding each other accountable in a non destructive way. This narrative about lack of accountability for black women is so false.
Black women are tired of unevolved clowns like yourself. Black people need to become the person they want to attract, and this has nothing to do with finance or superficial stuff. Expand your mind. Get into spirituality and you will understand women. We're all the same deep down.
@@davruck1 dude men and women are different and have vastly different world! Most men are logical thinkers and women are emotional when they make life decisions. Men and women have to understand gender roles when it comes to relationships.
@@acolley96 no they don’t! There’s a segment of black women that never grew up with a father in the household so they don’t know how to have health relationships with a man.
The average man has taken on the high value principles and is using them on average women. Which causes so many problems in the dating pool. For some men if you disagree with them then you have masculine energy. Or when you ask them follow up questions you aren't being friendly or feminine. If you don't cook and clean then you aren't as valuable to average men.
This was such a great episode! I agree with both April and Claudia. I like listening to logical arguments even ones I disagree with but I struggle with Kevin's approach. The truth is Kevin doesn't portray someone with integrity and care for others which impacts his approach. But I understand why his approach is popular. Good job breaking this topic down guys!!
ok no hate to these 2 but they really have to spend some time to watch some of the full videos Kevin does. They can't just throw all this 1st impression hate towards kevin like most people (especially women) and act like he doesn't help people find love. April just admitted that she doesn't watch him enough times to accurately assess his work but here she goes and says what he is doing isn't helping black culture. They both also ignore a lot of glaring issues that keep black women single, and were ready to rebuttal to Claudia when she mentions how kevin gets on black men's who are full of themselves. The KS hate is strong with these 2.
This girl host begins every sentence with i feel like, instead of listening to or dealing with the points claudia makes. And shr is commenting about kevin without watching anything mote than video clips.
The guests argument for why blacks aren’t getting married at the rate of whites is unlikely to explain any of the variance in the racial marriage gap because the issues she’s raising about the time it takes to get financially stable aren’t unique to blacks.
Kevin Samuels been talking to black men for 3 to 4 years before he got known! he got known when he started talking to black women. But he really got no when he did that average at best video! That's when he really blew up! He been talking to black men to level up to not punch above their weight as well they only should be dating women that's within a reach and marrying women that's in a reach not above just like he's telling the black women that's average stop punching above your weight stay within your weight class.
Kevin Samuels speaks the TRUTH!
In real life, few people get everything they want, all the time. The real question is what are you willing to accept and live with?
Also the women that call his show is just a small segment of black women. Truthfully most women ain't calling him.
Yea they are calling him! He has a women calling from New Zeeland,Jamaica, UK ,south Africa calling into his show. If they ain’t calling, they sure are listening to his show. Kevin Samuels has the same message as Shahrazad Ali was saying in 1989-1990 that black Women are out of order an no one can tell them anything. Kevin Samuels is 100% that a black man who has his ish together has more options of women than just black women. KS pointed out that black women have this self entitlement issues thinking they deserve a husband, y’all better compete for that man
@@blkghostxx MOST women are not calling him and most women are not listening to him. Give me a break quoting all the white supremacists narratives on black women. It's divide and conquer and you and the Kevin Samuels crew are doing exactly as they wish. The focus should not be on competition or doing what someone says to get a man or woman. But in being healthy whole healed individuals that are able to navigate life and relationships in a positive way. Then we would not even be having these conversations. Whether I agree or disagree with Kevins philosophy has no real bearing on my life. And yours either because I am sure you are not the high value man he is directing 98% of his philosophy to.
@@acolley96 deflection and shifting the blame on why black women aren’t getting married ain’t working anymore. American black Women just don’t know how to act feminine, they rather be masculine instead. Kevin Samuels is still getting daily callers, I don’t know what you mean by most women are not calling him? The man has women that listen to his show because he speaks the truth
@@blkghostxx never said he didn't have women calling him. Never said he doesn't have women who listen. I know some that do. He has not said anything I haven't heard before from others. Black women not getting married is not as simplistic as Kevin would have you believe. Is there some truth to what he is saying, sure. But it's one sided and only tells a part of the problem. As someone who critically thinks and researches different resources and not just one, marriage in the black community does not solely fall at the feet of African American women. That talking point is false. Do we contribute sure we do. Is it for the reasons Kevin suggests? For some yes but not for all. Black men AND black women have work to do to heal and be whole people. ALL OF US should hold ourselves accountable for the mess we bring or don't bring to the table. This is coming from a single woman who was raised by a mom and a dad who have been married for 52 years. Accountability and healing in both sides is how our community gets stronger. All this placing blame and fighting about masculine/feminine energy crap is pointless. And is a distraction. Just be the best you you can be. That's it.
April is ignoring the fact that women are willing to have the children before being married. She is trying not to hold the women responsible for their lifestyle decisions.
Right
So they got themselves pregnant? How about the men having kids outside of marriage. Men and women are equally responsible.
@@acolley96 i have shot up the club a couple of times in my life. I was never responsible for opening the door to let me in! Yall have a voice when it comes go birth control use it.
And you don't have to walk thru the door or even ask for it..as stated EVERYONE has ownership. I do agree that women need to realize we have more power ( I hate to use that word) than we actually use. There are many reasons why we don't exercise that power more. But that's a whole other conversation.
@@acolley96 speaking from my own experiencing i know the feeling of wanting to have kids and have no interest in being a father. I think that mindset is typical yet women seem to think the man they deal with is different. Isnt that just cognitive dissonance?
Marry before carry solves the problem. We need to tell black women to require marriage before they have kids for their man.
So therefore we need black men to start asking women to marry them. Start being more family minded instead of wanting to be playa playa
Never heard of this man, nor has anyone in my circle. I meet a great cross-section of women as a traveling teacher.
OF course, Black women have an issue with the way Kevin Samuels talks to them.
He's the only one that talks about them having accountability. Something no one has ever told them.
Beta Black Men certainly won't tell them what they need to hear, and other Black women won't
Beta black men??? LOL you are a funny guy
Idk what you listen to but I hear black men and black women holding each other accountable in a non destructive way. This narrative about lack of accountability for black women is so false.
Black women are tired of unevolved clowns like yourself. Black people need to become the person they want to attract, and this has nothing to do with finance or superficial stuff. Expand your mind. Get into spirituality and you will understand women. We're all the same deep down.
@@davruck1 dude men and women are different and have vastly different world! Most men are logical thinkers and women are emotional when they make life decisions. Men and women have to understand gender roles when it comes to relationships.
@@acolley96 no they don’t! There’s a segment of black women that never grew up with a father in the household so they don’t know how to have health relationships with a man.
The average man has taken on the high value principles and is using them on average women. Which causes so many problems in the dating pool. For some men if you disagree with them then you have masculine energy. Or when you ask them follow up questions you aren't being friendly or feminine. If you don't cook and clean then you aren't as valuable to average men.
Good point!
This was such a great episode! I agree with both April and Claudia. I like listening to logical arguments even ones I disagree with but I struggle with Kevin's approach. The truth is Kevin doesn't portray someone with integrity and care for others which impacts his approach. But I understand why his approach is popular.
Good job breaking this topic down guys!!
ok no hate to these 2 but they really have to spend some time to watch some of the full videos Kevin does. They can't just throw all this 1st impression hate towards kevin like most people (especially women) and act like he doesn't help people find love. April just admitted that she doesn't watch him enough times to accurately assess his work but here she goes and says what he is doing isn't helping black culture. They both also ignore a lot of glaring issues that keep black women single, and were ready to rebuttal to Claudia when she mentions how kevin gets on black men's who are full of themselves. The KS hate is strong with these 2.
There’s a super strong correlation between declining black marriage rates and the increased rate of black male incarceration over time.
Man I thought that was Scottie Pippen
And most women that have a child with a man would strongly consider marrying him or at the very least remaining in a committed relationship with him.
This girl host begins every sentence with i feel like, instead of listening to or dealing with the points claudia makes. And shr is commenting about kevin without watching anything mote than video clips.
I think both women exist. The one Claudia is talking about and the one April is talking about. What I have seen is more of who April is talking about.
Marriage has no purpose in life. We only need each other for childbirth and sex. Besides that we don't need each other
Please invite Dr Tommy Curry to your show. He authored...THE MAN NOT.
Does he have a TH-cam channel? If so, tag us
Without doing a probability based survey, the guest has no way of knowing if samuels guest are representative of all black women.
The guests argument for why blacks aren’t getting married at the rate of whites is unlikely to explain any of the variance in the racial marriage gap because the issues she’s raising about the time it takes to get financially stable aren’t unique to blacks.
Kevin Samuels been talking to black men for 3 to 4 years before he got known! he got known when he started talking to black women. But he really got no when he did that average at best video! That's when he really blew up! He been talking to black men to level up to not punch above their weight as well they only should be dating women that's within a reach and marrying women that's in a reach not above just like he's telling the black women that's average stop punching above your weight stay within your weight class.
Why you stop the instrumental your intro is whack