We have to return to the UK leaving Noel (& Roy) behind | EP044
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2024
- Sid and I return to the UK and leave Noel and Roy behind at the Hidden House Ireland. It's heart-wrenching, but necessary and we know it's only temporary. Knuckle down, toughen up and keep your eye fixed on the goal!
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One of your best videos today to date! My heart aches as I remember leaving Ireland every time I say goodbye to my brother in the summertime and I have to come back to the states. Ireland gets in your bones especially when your ancestors are Irish 100%.. thank you for sharing your thoughts and reminders to be grateful every moment of every day for the luxuries we have in the western civilized world. You are a treasure 🙏 🫶🏼
@@muireannin09 Ah you are a treasure for leaving such a lovely comment. Thanks Marie Ann, Yes there is something about Ireland, you can’t explain it you have to experience it. Being off grid somehow enhances it too. Not sure of the Irish word but they call it a ‘thin place’. 😊🙏🏼🙌❤️
My now husband and I spent just over two years with him living in London whilst I was in Scotland over 40 years ago. Well before internet and mobiles. It was hard but we survived and looking back it seems such a short blip in our time together. You do what you need to and both you and Noel will see this to the end. You are so passionate about this project. Your passion will see you through these more difficult times. Just imagine what is at the end of this tunnel. Time will be flying by before you know it. Hold onto those wonderful memories of the wonderful countryside.
@@eleanorb1400 Thanks so much for sharing this Eleanor. London to Scotland is quite a hike and 2 years is probably around the same timeline as we’ll be looking at. You had it much tougher than we do because internet really does make a difference. We speak three or four times a day when busy and sometimes more so still feel very connected. Saturday evenings and Sundays are probably the worse because that’s when you want to chill out and have down time with your family. I think that’s when we miss each other most. But the rest of the time we’re all busy doing our own thing. I appreciate what you say about perspective. I have a vision of us sitting out on our decking on a golden sunset evening reminiscing about the good old days when we peed in a bucket! 🤣 All will be well. Thank you for your beautiful words of encouragement and for your kindness. 😊❤️🙏
A beautifully video of your land, thought's & gratitude. Many blessings.
@@bernadetteoconnor3666 Thank you Bernadette (I’m wondering if it was you who Noel met and took a selfie with in the car park?)
You’re such lovely people; sharing your self-build progress and story is such a privilege. Thank you.🇨🇦
@@valeriemulholland4282 What a kind comment. Thank you Valerie. ❤️
The area around your house is so beautiful! Love watching your updates on how you’re getting on with it ❤ safe travels
Thank you Aisling, looks like you’re having fun with your stone walls. Noel’s repointing at the moment and it’s taking ages. Boring but necessary. 😊
Dearest Jill... such a beautiful soul... focusing upon the little things to be grateful for... and in awe of the beauty of nature. 💜 As always... enjoying the view. Warms my heart. May you be Blessed beyond measure.
@@juliem660 I love you Julie! 🙏❤️❤️❤️
It is so sad that you have to leave your hubby and beautiful dog behind for so long. It must feel like a bereavement when you leave? But as others have said on here, we do what we have to do for the good of our future. It does make us appreciate each other and our surroundings more, when they are not taken for granted. Keep healthy and keep well all of you. Blessings from Jilly & Madge the rescue greyhound, from West Devon, England. xxx
@@jillychandler Hi Jilly and Madge, you are just down the road from me and I feel among friends already. In truth we are very lucky that we are both in good health and most of the time good spirits too. We keep each other going and speak often during the day. Keeping busy at work is definitely the answer. Time flies and before we know it he’ll be home for Christmas. 😊🙌❤️🐕🦺
@@TheHiddenHouseIreland Thank you for your message. Yes, the time will go so quickly between now and Christmas, and it will be so special when he comes home then for you both. xxx
Beautiful wonderful life ❤
It’s definitely a simpler, happy life. 😊🏡
Do so appreciate your videos! Until the next- do take care!❤️💚
@@susanneekelund1309 Thank you Susan. We really appreciate that. 😊🙌❤️
Parting is such sweet sorrow .Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Cant think of anymore.
My Husband was in hospital for four months and boy did I miss him.
I feel so much for people who have lost their partners.
I'm sure you will have lots to do and you will be together before you know it.
Don't forget to tell Noel to lag every pipe he can on the caravan before winter sets in.
Hugs to all.❤
@@denisepeters8551 Ah Denise I so agree with you regarding people who’ve lost their partners. I feel so lucky, and although Noel works hard I don’t worry about him because I know he’s in his element and loving every minute. Four months is a long while to be hospital visiting. I hope your husband is fully recovered and keeping well. I’ll pass the message on about lagging the pipes. 👍😊🙌❤️
Lovely video and chat - Roy's cameo was a surprise haha, sweet Roy. What some dogs will do to get a cameo! It's amazing what we can do when we're reasonable people - although you'll miss Noel, his presence at the house will move things along all the faster. November is not that far away actually.
Thank you, Tracy. You’re right and depending on what is happening it might be a little earlier. We have plenty to keep us busy here in Cornwall and keep in touch regularly. 😊🙌❤️
Jill you're such a lovable soul 💖 The children you taught at school must've adored you! 💗 Good to hear you're safe in the UK 🙏 Well wishes for Sid's studies ✨️
Such a kind comment, thank you so much: I’m not sure about that as I could be pretty strict at times but I think they knew I loved them! We’re excited about the prospects for Sid, it’s more promising than if we stayed in Cornwall for sure: 😊👍☘️
My first hubby worked away for ten months when our three kids were small repairing bomb damage in London we had only moved in two weeks when he had to go but you get on cis your homebis what you want so wish you well tc the oldies 😮
@@annjarvis9300 Thank you Ann 😊❤️
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Declan and I had to live apart for the first year after Eoin was born waiting for a VISA to bring him to the US. We only were able to visit every few months. Then, when we were all living in the States, but had this house in West Clare, Eoin and I used to spend 2 months in the summer at our house in Ireland and Declan would come for the last 2 weeks. The first year we tried it with Declan coming the first two weeks and then leaving, but it was sad when he'd leave. Having him come at the end was better. It's amazing how things just become a new normal. I understand how hard it is for you to leave the house and the land too, It would always be sad to leave here and go back to Chicago. I felt like the house would miss us!
You'll probably be so busy with the job and Sid with school that the time will fly by until late November. Then you'll have to readjust to being together again! Imagine how nice it will be to go back to Ireland to see all the work that will be done!
I have to add, don't you just love the Obama Plaza?!
Ah of course, you of all people understand the price of love… true love of both man and home. You’re testament to the fact that the sacrifice is all worth it in the end. Yes, work does keep me busy, and Christmas will be upon us soon enough. I wasn’t expecting the Obama plaza - it was a pleasant surprise! 😄🙌❤️
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I loved your video Jill. You'll be so happy there when you are all together permanently. Sorry you'll be sad to be apart from Noel and Roy😢❤
@@patkilmurray4702 Thanks Pat. I’m feeling better now I’m settled in at home and back to work. It just genuinely felt a wrench at the time bc we’re all so happy when we’re together there, despite the off-grid challenges. 😊🙏🏼
Ireland is so much richer having your family in it🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@veronicasmith1147 This comment made my heart sing. What a beautiful big-hearted thing to say. Thank you so much ☘️
Hey Jill, interesting video and I can imagine how torn you are when you have to leave. Loved your summary of what to pack - absolutely spot on 🤣
We're currently at our place trying to mix work and renovating...😬
@@maxiedee Hi Maxie, you’re so near to us. Are you there for long? I’ll WhatsApp you. Would be great to arrange a quick meet up with Noel… he doesn’t get out much, lol. 🤣👍🏡
Great idea! 🙌🏻 Yes, we're around a bit longer and would be lovely to arrange a meet up! WhatsApp is good 👍🏻
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@@veronicasmith1147 At least someone loves us! 🤣🤣🤣 Bless your heart Veronica! 🙏❤️🙌
Sweet sorrow, really feeling for you, I guess you will both keep busy.😢
Certainly. We’re in a routine now doing our own thing but checking in frequently with each other and managing to feel connected. 😊❤️
I found that quite sad! When do you expect to move into the house? X
@@suziebelle1959 To be honest Suzie we can’t move before summer next year. Sid takes final exams in June, then can join Noel as a labourer for the rest of the summer/autumn. I will join later when my work contract is up (possibly spring ‘26). The house may well take longer than 13 months to be habitable but the grant situation is constantly under review as the demand for tradesmen outweighs supply. We’re not worried as we know it will happen, as and when. There’s no question of turning back. 😊🏡
Hi Jill don't dwell on having to go back to England you have work and these things happen in life I agree it is going to take time on renovating and you may have to be apart for a while but it will be worth it in the end you must feel like your in a tug of war and I have no doubt where ever Noel is you will be very nice video take care oh just had to say that view from your Cornish window is so lovely 👋bye bye
@@annregan5330 That’s a lovely sentiment Ann ‘wherever Noel is, you will be’. We are very heart connected and it often shows up as a kind of telepathy, so there’s truth in what you say. 😊🙏❤️.
midgies are prevalent around the type of tress you have around your property.
@@theredhairedchild944 I think it’s the bogland too isn’t it. They’re a nuisance but we’ll learn when to avoid going out lol. 🤣🏡
ye should consider spreading a few cheap boxes of Irish wild flower seeds..
@@theredhairedchild944 We do intend to create a meadow on that top field but it needs a certain process first - I forget the name of it - to prepare it and deal with the reeds before it’s ready to plan with wildflower seeds. We’ll get there though eventually. 😊🌸🌺🌼
but a small heat gun less than £30 and useful for so many things as well as bending plastic pipe.
@@lesliecox-hp9ud Noel does already have one Leslie but without electricity he would have to start the generator up. His solution was more efficient. 😊👍🙌
Hi Jill-and Noel and Sid I enjoyed your exelant video
kind regards Sean
@@seanshannon9910 Thanks Sean. 😊
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You know you have made it when you have a troll😂😂😂go on tick that box and then ignore 😂😂😂😂😂
@@veronicasmith1147 Well it’s funny. I’m leaving the comments up for entertainment value. You either get upset and take it to heart or rise to the challenge, game set and match. It’s all good sport. 🤣
@@TheHiddenHouseIrelandyou should pin the comment and everybody will feel the need to reply to it. Helps with the algorithm. I love that you can talk so eloquently without editing. I also love your mellifluous voice. Great video!
@@HeatherCairncross That’s so kind Heather, tbh when I was filming I felt tongue-tied as though I wasn’t expressing myself very well. I wasn’t sure if I was going to use it. But on watching it back I think it’s an honest reflection of what I was feeling at the time and the vlog is about documenting the emotional journey as well as the renovation progress. The unkind comment came in very early and reflects some emotional blockage and need. Thereafter there’s been only an outpouring of love. 🙏🏼🙌❤️❤️❤️