THE THREE STAGES OF COUPLES CONFLICT || FT Nyambura the Therapist || SEASON 3 EP 6

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2024
  • Welcome to Season 3 episode 6, we about mental health in our relationship and explore key questions on what decisions in our past may have formed our philosophy on how we relate to each other, the possible negative effects of our previous friends with benefits relationships and much more, all with our joyride resident therapist Nyambura.
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  • @sophiejakes6366
    @sophiejakes6366 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Therapy is in this lady's blood !!!
    She speaks so well , and her language! I love her❤

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Ben and Wanjiru I hope you understand the capacity in which you are transforming lives! Your ability to allow yourselves to be vulnerable is not only beautiful but also mind shifting! I mean am just loving to see how you are so willing to work on being better every day n it shows in how you ask and answer questions! Keep up am here for it all ❤we are here for the joyride 🥳

  • @98Patrobas
    @98Patrobas ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The major thing I'm getting from this is how important self-awareness is in relationships. You have to always understand what your strengths and weaknesses are when it comes to relating with other people. Thank you for this Ben, Wanjiru, and Nyambura❤️

  • @bigg1091
    @bigg1091 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Very impressed by the therapist. Sorry, I was a bit critical the first time she was on the show, but today I'm very impressed.

    • @isitgodly3059
      @isitgodly3059 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too ..I felt she was Abit biased

    • @bigg1091
      @bigg1091 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@isitgodly3059 exactly

  • @MercyKinya30
    @MercyKinya30 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Not Ben again sipping water alone😂😂
    I love you guys!❤❤

  • @Shay-yl2vn
    @Shay-yl2vn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just love love real this relationship is... You guys inspire to believe that marriage does work

  • @gracethuku4555
    @gracethuku4555 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Ben and Wanjiru for being vulnerable and allowing us learn from you. In Joyride I get entertained, I learn and my value is added. Keep up the good work.

  • @carolinem3885
    @carolinem3885 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ben is A LOT. I have been floored about his reaction when the kissing question was asked 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Thanks for this candid conversation Wanjiru and Ben

  • @tashtimo
    @tashtimo ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wanjiru's Face when Ben was explaining About The Driving taking advantage 🥺🥺,you can tell she was like ooh noo, i wouldn't want it to look like i am taking advantage of that🥺.

  • @ValaxyRealities
    @ValaxyRealities ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just love this couple and the way they are impacting our generation. Keep doing it Ben and Wanjiru

  • @pesh8980
    @pesh8980 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Ben is actually the king of pettiness 🤣🤣🤣🤣why you mad I left the door open yet you also do that 😂😂😂I'm siding with wanjiru on that one😂😂😂😂

  • @denowesh3696
    @denowesh3696 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One thing I have to give to shiro is that she's super smart and don't get it the wrong way Mr ben, you are also sharp😅

  • @victoriaopoti
    @victoriaopoti ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yoh! This episode is 🔥, so relevant considering the fact that I'm in the age bracket of 18-20,this helps me to keep on standing on my beliefs and principles. This is one episode that will definitely be on repeat for me.Thank you Ben, Wanjiru and Nyambura.

  • @lyds2548
    @lyds2548 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Generally what y'all saying is that good communication is everything. To hear and be heard. Good stuff 🙏

  • @piuskatambo4899
    @piuskatambo4899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Joyride I love the therapy one thing I have been dealing with is friends with benefits even after 4years of marriage, it had affected me emotionally but now through this episode I have the solution to the problem GOD bless you.

  • @lizney_kendi.
    @lizney_kendi. ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What I needed to hear from this episode is" choose your consequences and then make your decisions" 🥂to nyambu

  • @becomingpodcast_ke
    @becomingpodcast_ke ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a candid conversation, I've learnt a lot of things from watching this video, so many light bulb moments.

  • @oliverokello154
    @oliverokello154 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was very educative. How can we find Nyambura? Just thinking, for how long can we be in different stages, someone hurting in the Conflict stage and the other having a good time in the restoration stage, where do we meet so that we move together? must someone go through all the stages, what of someone who for the avoidance of further conflicts rushes to restoration stage. Thank you very much Ben and Wanjiru for being that vulnerable for relationships to be healed.

  • @carol76798
    @carol76798 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the explanation on forgetting in forgive and forget. Profound!

  • @thamiclara2888
    @thamiclara2888 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was educative and enlightening, fun😂 and exciting to watch. Joyride is really THAT PODCAST!!! ❤️❤️

  • @pesh8980
    @pesh8980 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ben's sense of humor😭😍😍

  • @pesh8980
    @pesh8980 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You can tell I enjoyed the show by the number of times I've commented 😭❤️
    You guys are the most amazing duo 😩❤️

  • @isitgodly3059
    @isitgodly3059 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I get Ben,I oftenly found myself calling out my partner when he called me out.I realized that we were not solving anything.It was out of pride that I didn't accept any mistake I did...it is not a good place to be..I realized it was also an issue with my maturity.

  • @alex51559
    @alex51559 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Definitely watch this over and over. ..
    It is the part that Ben says, we love you...

  • @bigg1091
    @bigg1091 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When Ben is happy, I'm happy

  • @anjelinethiongo423
    @anjelinethiongo423 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wanjiru is so happy in this episode ....❤❤

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful conversation. I love it. Thank you so much for your vulnerability. ❤❤

  • @marywaigwa4448
    @marywaigwa4448 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waooh ! That was such a deep conversation and thanks wanjiru n ben for learning with us and being vulnerable with us❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @carol76798
    @carol76798 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks sana for this episode.. really loved it!!! Podcast actually😁

  • @doreenk.arinawe
    @doreenk.arinawe ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wanjiru is soo hilarious 😂. Thanks for the therapy session again guys

  • @mwethyabuzz45
    @mwethyabuzz45 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nyambura's voice is so calming

  • @celestineanyango3926
    @celestineanyango3926 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So happy to be here. I love the joyride so much

  • @louisawambui4475
    @louisawambui4475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was great and Nyambura is an awesome therapist, however, on some issues especially intimacy, I found her analysis to be based off on religion and personal opinion and not text book psychology. Religious based and ordinary therapy is different so its good to clarify what kind of therapy is being given at a particular time as sometimes, issues are analyzed quite differently.

  • @ashleyadewa6593
    @ashleyadewa6593 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Joyride! This one was a heavy one weeuh. It has forced me to take a seat with introspection and I just wanted to run 😭😂 Love it.

  • @mohshii6672
    @mohshii6672 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I could get an answer to this question
    What if in Ben and Wanjiru's case Wanjiru being in the conflict stage is affecting her ability to hold space, rise above the level she's at to act as a unit with Ben. Because yeye clearly she is hurting and if you hurt like any normal person you know acting in a manner that asserts you are hurting is the rule of the game.... So how does that play out?
    Ama sasa ni mimi I need therapy?

  • @Margaret-Wanjiku
    @Margaret-Wanjiku ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this conversations, Nyambura is so calm and collected. This was a great session, it feels like I was in therapy too.

  • @maureenkamau5323
    @maureenkamau5323 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's such a safe space and interesting convo.

  • @mj_gitau
    @mj_gitau 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man this is soo good ....even though am late
    #repair and restoration

  • @calvetmakali98
    @calvetmakali98 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ohkay 🥰
    This channel is so addictive

  • @franciskamau9645
    @franciskamau9645 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Joy ride, I really loved this episode 🥳🥳🥳, had a request can you maybe soon talk about age in a relationship,would help a big deal, #we love you joy ride

  • @zacks_space
    @zacks_space ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's so therapeutic ❤❤❤

  • @debbiecolonel2999
    @debbiecolonel2999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for giving us insight on very many aspects of life love your content

  • @hildamwangi1879
    @hildamwangi1879 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looku ni Safi, Looku ni Moto..🎶🎶. Love you guys❤

  • @josephnduati4344
    @josephnduati4344 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    quite an enlightening episode...... am even sure tushalipa hii therapy session na the number of ads😆😆😆 #notcomplaining🤣

  • @magdalenewambui2460
    @magdalenewambui2460 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great and therapeutic conversation that is beneficial even to the singles, thank you.

  • @NdindaJudy-fg1zc
    @NdindaJudy-fg1zc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am always in love with this podcast 💕

  • @meadow7_556
    @meadow7_556 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only couple that makes therapy fun😂😂♥️♥️

  • @maureeniguanya487
    @maureeniguanya487 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ben : When Wanjiru was talking about the log in my eye or the speck in my eye or the speck in her eye and the log in my eye. Ben where is the speck,? 😂😂😂

  • @yvonnewanjiru3962
    @yvonnewanjiru3962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In a matatu watching this and I cant help but laugh. Hadi the mubaba next to me was curious. He's taken out earphones and put youtube also 😂😂, shout out to people BTS. Do they hit record & run? Coz wueeh, how we cant hear them laugh, they can keep burning secrets😅

  • @Jus_faith
    @Jus_faith ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is indeed therapy 😊.

  • @zackmurithi
    @zackmurithi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not Ben saying "see while I like you,you see through neurones"😂😂😂😂😂

  • @architectyveazar1880
    @architectyveazar1880 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm here early😆... Talk of addictive channels...

  • @carol76798
    @carol76798 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with Wanjiru on calling someone out on the same things you do. I'd have an issue with that too

  • @annkweri9615
    @annkweri9615 ปีที่แล้ว

    This one is fire... Love loveee... Blessings upon blessings

  • @loisejuma184
    @loisejuma184 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy to be listening to this

  • @nancywangari6847
    @nancywangari6847 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this was perfect. Asanteni

  • @joshineosur
    @joshineosur ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waah Ben😂😂. At some point you were so desperate that you borrowed letters from form 2, hii ni funny.
    I love you guys❤️

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey guys siku hizi munashine sana

  • @eunicegichuki7715
    @eunicegichuki7715 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this episode

  • @pesh8980
    @pesh8980 ปีที่แล้ว

    The friend and benefits has a very huge impact 🤣🤣🤣🤣takes a lot of healing as ben said😂😂😂😂💔

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aih Leo it's both of you ni camera ama ni kitu mnajipaka kwa uso zenu?

  • @stellakabuekabuewangui4471
    @stellakabuekabuewangui4471 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so helpful..
    Thank you for the authencity

  • @lizney_kendi.
    @lizney_kendi. ปีที่แล้ว

    Ben will always be funny...eti he can't wait to get in an argument and ask so uko? Repair😂

  • @Jkioko
    @Jkioko ปีที่แล้ว

    Aki Ben si akona chakula nyororo..

  • @mohshii6672
    @mohshii6672 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nyambura I need to look for you...and I will

  • @lilianwamae3973
    @lilianwamae3973 ปีที่แล้ว

    Silent follower#kissing part and all spoons should be sanitized...I love your shows guys😅😅

  • @gracemuthoni6973
    @gracemuthoni6973 ปีที่แล้ว

    Insightful👌

  • @esthermwangi6691
    @esthermwangi6691 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ben is so funny😂😂😅

  • @maryanngithinji6075
    @maryanngithinji6075 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤

  • @laurawaithira15
    @laurawaithira15 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❣️❣️❣️

  • @thedarkroomkenya2021
    @thedarkroomkenya2021 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    sponsored by elianto

  • @isitgodly3059
    @isitgodly3059 ปีที่แล้ว

    The makeup run over...apana Shiru,I get your point but at the same time don't have excuses for it...

  • @sungraciella2308
    @sungraciella2308 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤😅😅😅

  • @ashachemutai7423
    @ashachemutai7423 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Next episode be of kina Milly wa Jesus I hope😢

    • @Anyango31
      @Anyango31 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Ai, no. Hatutaki clout chasers hapa.

    • @Shanshan-fe6cw
      @Shanshan-fe6cw ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Anyango31 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @valentinejakait1562
      @valentinejakait1562 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Anyango31 yooh😅😅😅🤭

    • @mercypaskal3623
      @mercypaskal3623 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅

    • @carol76798
      @carol76798 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nooo

  • @lamuriasworld
    @lamuriasworld ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite people on my screen 💓🧡🤭💙😍💙😍🖤💙🥰💙😍💙💞💜💞♥️😍😍♥️😍♥️😍♥️😍♥️😍♥️😍♥️😍I love you guys so much thank you so much for making a smile on my face 🤍💙🥺😂🥺💙🥺💓😂🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺🖤🥺🖤🖤🥺❤️🥺💓🙈💓🙈💓🖤🥺😘😘💓😭💓😭😭💕😭💕😭💕🔥🔥🔥

    • @lamuriasworld
      @lamuriasworld ปีที่แล้ว

      I swear I needed this therapy session 😭🥺😍

  • @loisemwangi2721
    @loisemwangi2721 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can i get the number of nyambura or their social media huddles i wanna talk to her