Where has this channel been all my life??? Married to an amazing husband with anxiety and all I've been is fuel for his fire cause I just didn't understand!! This is SO helpful!!! Thank you for sharing this!!
I dont mean to be off topic but does anyone know a tool to log back into an instagram account..? I was dumb forgot the account password. I would appreciate any help you can offer me.
Thanks you for this. My wife is experiencing some very difficult anxiety and it has sustained it over a year now. We have been experiencing a job transition for her that was not planned and could be considered pretty traumatic from an employer that was not accepting of her struggles. This video will help me navigate this alongside her while also ensuring her that she is supported and loved. You rock, brother.
I got Ashwaganda for my husband. He’s been feeling better. It’s an adaptogen (natural herb) that helps our bodies manage stress and restore balance after or during a stressful situation. It helps him. His anxiety is not as intense when it happens. It is mild compared to before. He is sleeping better and even started working out again. He was in a bad place and he is happier now.
These videos are great! So need these. Thank you 😊. Speak truth Dr D. Yes they tell us women that. I knew Dave had wisdom, but it blew my mind he hired a counselor! Just brilliant!
My guy I wish you popped up 9 months ago on my actual feed. Suffering from a broken relationship right now where she broke up with me via text and I wish I would go for help when I actually needed it.
Please help us better understand how we can support our wives in the midst of the Roe v Wade ruling. You can put the politics to the side. At the end of the day my wife feels unsafe and a loss of her autonomy. What tools can be used to better support them?
This described my wife almost exactly. She carries around a ton of stress and anxiety. And I have done, and DO, Most everything advised. The funny thing is that the one who fell into severe panic and an anxiety cycle ended up being ME! And I am not the type of person to take menial things so seriously. I like to just enjoy life. And yet I was the one affected. 😐 It’s like she is so used to living in this anxious state that it is somehow normal for her. But not me.
I wish my husband could understand I tell him my anxieties which he just gets angry at and tells me I’m being stupid and makes me cry. Wish he would understand. He’s otherwise perfect.
He is a better husband than me. My wife has anxiety issues and it doesn't help on top that I have MS. She always looks at me like I am having an attack. Also the meds I am on make me more vulnerable to cancer. So she sees every bump and mark as cancer. This pandemic has also thrown a ton of bricks on her. The big problem is when she is stressed, she lashed out and gets aggressive. I am patient for a while but then I start lashing back. I try to help around the house as much as I can. I will cook and clean too. I am not a "where's my dinner" type of guy. I feel bad to put our kids through this.
I have severe anxiety, panic attacks, and OCD I sound like this, but every time, I have a panic attack my husband takes it as a personal insult he made it happen and gets upset I don't know why. We have 3 grown children and 7 grandchildren then starts acting this way, I feel like I'm gonna break. He was diagnosed with Diabetes, he had 2 heart attacks and heart surgery along with a surgery on his carotid arteries.. so my kids tell me he is not getting blood to his brain and having diabetes he doesn't control makes him not himself. Omg TMI ocd much lol
My husband has neglected me especially sexually and intimately. I am having anxiety because I don’t know if I should stay. It’s been so many years he says we are gonna make it. But the fire alarm is on pretty much all day. I was taking Caplyta and I was getting better. A good week no depression or anxiety. Then we had a fight on Friday and laid out things from last year and the past and we both thrown out a lot of negative experiences. Then of course I said the neglect and the lack of sex has been abuse!!! And then that really started a fire! Even though I had been doing well I am back to major anxiety. And crying spells. Can we make it? is my question? Everyday. Then I cry then calm myself and then 45 minutes I am back with anxiety!!! Please help me.
Im so fucking anxious. It leads to a lot of conflict with my s.o. and me not wanting to be in any loud or noisy places. (I.e. most fun things.) Im so easily overwhelmed, and in these environments, I become withdrawn and tense. I usually stare at my phone or count objects in the space because I'm so uncomfortable.
But how do you not end up lecturing your partner. No matter how nicely and calmly you address it, it still doesn’t get enough through. We cannot fix people that is true, but how do you NOT express to your partner what they’re doing is damage?
I was wondering if you could help me with my boyfriend. He’s had a Very hard life and I’m not really sure how to help him through his current mental struggles. He can’t hold a job (not by choice). I know he’s trying but everyone around him keeps saying that he’s lazy and I know he’s not.. how do I help rebuild his confidence so he can start to thrive again and prove these haters wrong? Please help.
Dude I am so lost with my relationship. I need help. I'm stationed overseas and my fiance is still in the states. She goes for her boards next month, from which she'd be able to work from home. She's never lived away from her family before. She's so anxious about marrying me when she passes her boards to come to my next base with me. She has some trauma from her parents particularly her mother. We don't have children. It's so difficult because I feel as though she doesn't feel how I do about her coming with me. She's constantly thinking about the "what ifs". I don't know what I can do to mitigate this. I can't fix this. I've had depression in my life and I certainly have some PTSD from my time in the force but my anxiety isn't the same as hers.
I just don't know how I can support her because the only thing I can think of is to make decisions for her because that prevents her from overthinking everything. I just can't do this shit man I'm not equipped. I want to help her so bad and it messes me up in the head, stresses me out. I'm in a position where I may be depolyed to a combat zone not long after I PCS, and I have an extremely stressful job as is. So her anxiety is stressing me out. I know she's drowning in what-ifs but holy shit. Lord help me. It feels like my rope isn't long enough to lift her up out of her hole that she digs deeper every time she over thinks.
Where has this channel been all my life??? Married to an amazing husband with anxiety and all I've been is fuel for his fire cause I just didn't understand!! This is SO helpful!!! Thank you for sharing this!!
Seriously husband of the year, sounds like a fairytale!!
Not at all. Takes a lot of work though for sure.
Is it the same for supporting a husband with anxiety?
Listening to some of the advice he was giving this guy, I nearly started weeping.
Me too
As the partner with anxiety, I’m sitting here bawling my eyes out
JD helps me become a better and better person each time I listen to him. I love his very technical and methodical explanations. Thank you sir.
I dont mean to be off topic but does anyone know a tool to log back into an instagram account..?
I was dumb forgot the account password. I would appreciate any help you can offer me.
SOS sounds dreamy, but sometimes my wife dont want to be touched.. but I will try this. taking notes
Thanks you for this. My wife is experiencing some very difficult anxiety and it has sustained it over a year now. We have been experiencing a job transition for her that was not planned and could be considered pretty traumatic from an employer that was not accepting of her struggles. This video will help me navigate this alongside her while also ensuring her that she is supported and loved. You rock, brother.
I got Ashwaganda for my husband. He’s been feeling better. It’s an adaptogen (natural herb) that helps our bodies manage stress and restore balance after or during a stressful situation. It helps him. His anxiety is not as intense when it happens. It is mild compared to before. He is sleeping better and even started working out again. He was in a bad place and he is happier now.
Pray together.
These videos are great! So need these. Thank you 😊. Speak truth Dr D. Yes they tell us women that. I knew Dave had wisdom, but it blew my mind he hired a counselor! Just brilliant!
Husband of the year! 100%
This was truly amazing. What a great husband that guy is!
7:28 I was googling frantically for Iliana Godsky. Came up empty. You said EMILY NAGOSKI. Got it! 👍
You’re changing lives with this advice .
My guy I wish you popped up 9 months ago on my actual feed.
Suffering from a broken relationship right now where she broke up with me via text and I wish I would go for help when I actually needed it.
The question is how to get your partner to comfort you. Especially when your crying
Living with an anxious person is hell. They can be so over controlling that it becomes almost impossible to live with.
You are my favorite member of the ramsey network. (Don't tell Dave :) )
Please help us better understand how we can support our wives in the midst of the Roe v Wade ruling. You can put the politics to the side. At the end of the day my wife feels unsafe and a loss of her autonomy. What tools can be used to better support them?
This is powerful, thank you.
Good luck guys this is the hardest thing ever
Gosh! I just came across your video and this is 100% my reality. Great advice, thank you X
This described my wife almost exactly. She carries around a ton of stress and anxiety. And I have done, and DO, Most everything advised. The funny thing is that the one who fell into severe panic and an anxiety cycle ended up being ME! And I am not the type of person to take menial things so seriously. I like to just enjoy life. And yet I was the one affected. 😐
It’s like she is so used to living in this anxious state that it is somehow normal for her. But not me.
@@jonzerstyle6817 Take some solace in knowing that you ain’t alone! 👍🏼
I wish my husband could understand I tell him my anxieties which he just gets angry at and tells me I’m being stupid and makes me cry. Wish he would understand. He’s otherwise perfect.
*Hugs* I feel your pain.
John just described me.
Wow. Wish I could find a guy like that.
Bro that was awesome. Thank you. Gonna try it.
He is a better husband than me. My wife has anxiety issues and it doesn't help on top that I have MS. She always looks at me like I am having an attack. Also the meds I am on make me more vulnerable to cancer. So she sees every bump and mark as cancer. This pandemic has also thrown a ton of bricks on her. The big problem is when she is stressed, she lashed out and gets aggressive. I am patient for a while but then I start lashing back. I try to help around the house as much as I can. I will cook and clean too. I am not a "where's my dinner" type of guy. I feel bad to put our kids through this.
Is it possible to get counseling as a couple?
Thank you so much, it is really helpful! I am going to re-watch it!
I have severe anxiety, panic attacks, and OCD I sound like this, but every time, I have a panic attack my husband takes it as a personal insult he made it happen and gets upset I don't know why. We have 3 grown children and 7 grandchildren then starts acting this way, I feel like I'm gonna break. He was diagnosed with Diabetes, he had 2 heart attacks and heart surgery along with a surgery on his carotid arteries.. so my kids tell me he is not getting blood to his brain and having diabetes he doesn't control makes him not himself. Omg TMI ocd much lol
Love it great video I was skeptical bc of Ramsey solutions and I love Dave but he does come across judgmental at times. Keep it up!
I wish my husband had Chris’s insight about my anxiety and wanted to take things of my plate to help me
Spot on. This video is really helpful and informative
This is spot on!!!
Preaching Peace🤘🏽
Thank you Doctor 🙌
My husband has neglected me especially sexually and intimately. I am having anxiety because I don’t know if I should stay. It’s been so many years he says we are gonna make it. But the fire alarm is on pretty much all day. I was taking Caplyta and I was getting better. A good week no depression or anxiety. Then we had a fight on Friday and laid out things from last year and the past and we both thrown out a lot of negative experiences. Then of course I said the neglect and the lack of sex has been abuse!!! And then that really started a fire! Even though I had been doing well I am back to major anxiety. And crying spells.
Can we make it? is my question? Everyday. Then I cry then calm myself and then 45 minutes I am back with anxiety!!! Please help me.
Im so fucking anxious. It leads to a lot of conflict with my s.o. and me not wanting to be in any loud or noisy places. (I.e. most fun things.)
Im so easily overwhelmed, and in these environments, I become withdrawn and tense.
I usually stare at my phone or count objects in the space because I'm so uncomfortable.
Spot on, Dr. D. Applies to SO many (present company included)!
I experienced acute anxiety and did not like touch... Same solution doesn't apply to everyone
Should I send this video to my wife to watch or just do the things.
This helped me so much. Thank you 😊
But how do you not end up lecturing your partner. No matter how nicely and calmly you address it, it still doesn’t get enough through.
We cannot fix people that is true, but how do you NOT express to your partner what they’re doing is damage?
This is incredible!!!!!
Thank you man.
Dr. D thank you for the video.
Wholesome and helpful videos as always! Keep it up.
Ty
I was wondering if you could help me with my boyfriend. He’s had a Very hard life and I’m not really sure how to help him through his current mental struggles. He can’t hold a job (not by choice). I know he’s trying but everyone around him keeps saying that he’s lazy and I know he’s not.. how do I help rebuild his confidence so he can start to thrive again and prove these haters wrong? Please help.
More of these!
How would one send an email to Dr. Delany regarding a question, I wonder...
Wife & I recently separated she says I cause her to have panic attacks just talking how can this be corrected?
There is nothing that can be done or you can do.
DONT join her sessions. If you are going to go together see a separate counselor that she doesn’t see individually.
Mu wife is a overthinker and im so broken
I don't see the link ?
Thx
Dude I am so lost with my relationship. I need help. I'm stationed overseas and my fiance is still in the states. She goes for her boards next month, from which she'd be able to work from home. She's never lived away from her family before. She's so anxious about marrying me when she passes her boards to come to my next base with me. She has some trauma from her parents particularly her mother. We don't have children. It's so difficult because I feel as though she doesn't feel how I do about her coming with me. She's constantly thinking about the "what ifs". I don't know what I can do to mitigate this. I can't fix this. I've had depression in my life and I certainly have some PTSD from my time in the force but my anxiety isn't the same as hers.
I just don't know how I can support her because the only thing I can think of is to make decisions for her because that prevents her from overthinking everything. I just can't do this shit man I'm not equipped. I want to help her so bad and it messes me up in the head, stresses me out. I'm in a position where I may be depolyed to a combat zone not long after I PCS, and I have an extremely stressful job as is. So her anxiety is stressing me out. I know she's drowning in what-ifs but holy shit. Lord help me. It feels like my rope isn't long enough to lift her up out of her hole that she digs deeper every time she over thinks.
@@jacobwitt2070 so sorry to hear this. Is it possible to get counseling?
To bad you can’t find the other 2 videos he talked about.
My boyfriend has panic attacks and he takes it out on his girlfriend my boyfriend has I know what to do but I need your help
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Choreplay. Been there and done that.