I love that Sean, the hitman, said he doesn’t regret what he did. He helped this woman immensely for her to be able to live a lovely life with Rob. Prayers for the three of them and her daughters.. hopefully her sister came around eventually and saw the sacrifices & just how far Cheryl went for her
Cheryl and Rob have got to be two of the strongest people I’ve ever seen featured here in Crime Watch. I am SO glad that she/they survived this nightmare of their youth and also glad Rob is still with his family. Cheryl’s father can continue to rot in the fires of hell - exactly where he belongs assuming there is a hell. Cheryl endured a hell on Earth….may her remaining days be full of peace and love.
I believe in God after researching his existence extensively although I can’t exactly answer why terrible things happen to good people. I believe there’s definitely a special place in hell for guys like Cheryl’s dad.
I agree! Because most victims feel helpless, but are too scared to take the life of their predator. That’s why I’m sooo incredibly grateful that they didn’t have a harsh sentencing and that their love endured it all after all this time. I’m just sad that her aunt, grandma and sister didn’t believe her. I’m so proud of them and wish them the absolute best.
And it's not even about immediately believing an allegation, it's just about investigating. So many family members CSA kids and are not sitting in prison for life. 🤢🤢🤢
Purgatory is not part of Hell. Christians with some venial sins left on their souls go to Purgatory then, once Purified, go to Heaven. The damned just go to Hell.
How sickening. I can't imagine having to go through that, let alone having to relive it. Absolute agony. Cheryl is so strong and I'm glad she has a great husband.
My ex father in law molested & raped all 3 of his daughters, a grandchild, & idk how many other females in his lifetime. When I was 19, he got super friendly with me. I backed away & he straightened up when someone came into the room. After that, I never let him close enough to touch me. Out of everything he did, he spent only 15 mo in county jail & that was for the grandchild, his son's little girl. He should've been given a permanent prison cell. Apparently, he's changed & has repented. I still avoid him at all costs. My granddaughter's not allowed anywhere near him or his house.
Rob Cuccio is a saint. Cheryl may have bombed on her father, but she scored big-time on her lifelong champion, her husband Rob Cuccio. I hope they are happy together every day for the rest of their lives.
@@Jennifer_j749 that is very sad. The way you wrote the sentence makes me think you are still very young. In any case, find someone to talk to; support group, counselor, friend or their parent...someone you can trust. That is not love...
@@Jennifer_j749 @Jennifer_j749 omg I am so very sorry. If you need someone to talk to let me know please. We are in the boat with the same disgusting monsters of fathers. May God decide their fates in perpetuity. Hugs, big bear hugs, Debbie
It’s amazing how Rob stood by his true Love for all these years. I’m glad everything worked out for the teenager, her boyfriend and I hope the Dad rots in HELL! I hope Cheryl’s is able salvage the relationship with her sister. I can see how an 8 yr old sister would be so angry. I do hope the killer finally got the rest of his money at some point for a job well done!
I pray that all your wounds will be completely healed and I’m so happy you have Rob by your side. Thank you for speaking up on behalf of all the children that have had this happen to them. And I’m so proud of you that you didn’t allow shame to take a foothold in your life. You are an inspiration to me. Thank you for all that you do. ❤
I dont think I’ve ever heard something so twisted and vile as what that guy put his daughter through and then the news cameras and the court system. I cant believe she’s not in a insane asylum
I can’t stand women that don’t believe a man can do something foul like that because he’s their relative. YOU DONT KNOW HIM LIKE HIS IMMEDIATE FAMILY DOES. This kind of thing happens a lot when the mother dies or leaves and there is a daughter in the house. I feel bad for her that she had to endure the loss of her mom, a sick monster father and relatives who accused her of lying. Smh.
It doesn't just happen when a mother dies or leaves, it happens a lot when the mother is still there and the daughter is afraid and ashamed, thinks she is somehow to blame, and doesn't say a word.
Wow the devastation of losing both your children thinking they are safe inside your home on the living room couch… My heart aches for those parents. I pray they receive many blessings after such an horrific tragedy
That is one of the saddest but most beautiful videos I have ever watched. I am so happy that Cheryl and Rob got through the pain and the horror and are still with each other. I wish them both MANY more happy, healthy years together. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤❤❤
I just wonder how that would’ve played out. He would’ve likely gotten a baby slap on the wrist and then probably set his sights on someone else and even possibly retaliate against her. Who know how many more people would’ve been victimized by him. He would probably still be out living in this world being a nasty evil POS. Normally I would never say this, but I am glad that he’s gone! Especially since although their lives were “changed”, they weren’t RUINED. They persevered. I truly hope little sister is doing okay too!
God bless you! I know what she’s going through, I’ve been there, but it was my stepfather! I told my mother after awhile, next thing I know she married him, she never protected me at all, it wasn’t as bad as what this poor woman went through, but it changes your life for sure!
Your mother new and married your abuser. That’s sick. What mother does that? I’m so sorry. I surely hope you longer deal with her. What about your own father?
I get chills each time I hear about a Mother who chooses to disregard her daughter's safety over an abusive man, believes a savage man over their own flesh & blood, truly shocking😢😮
@@tishsharay7509You’re so right! And when it’s all you’ve ever known and you’re in an entire family system that just ignores and makes excuses for abuse, it’s really hard to feel secure in your knowledge that what’s happening is so wrong. I hope everything works out for you.
@@trickortrump3292 yasss thank You so much my therapist advocate is working on helping me relocate this was temporary but dealing with narcissistic parents and verbal and physical abuse you reach a breaking point and it’s truly all some of us know crazy u say that cuz I’m an only child at that but I’ve had my own place twice and yes the knowledge of thinking you need the abuser family of not I pray I never have to come back here when I’m gone I pay bills with my limited income i stay to my self but I will never come back I just felt I had no other options and I’d be welcomed with open arms I wish this young girl could have chosen a different choice but that’s life and I don’t blame her being so young she’s younger then me and her mental felt like the father wasn’t her father anymore definitely sounds like he abused the mother thank u thank u so much for understanding and seeing it from a different place mental health should be a top priority but sadly it never is abuse starts in the home even some kids abuse parents adult and young I’ve seen both in mental wards kids as young as 6 locked up for anger issues 🫶🏽🥹🙏🏾😔
Wanjiru, there is something called ACES that takes on different effects of child abuse. There is attention paid to abuse. There are more books and more research available now. Also, the onus is on you as a survivor to recognize the depravity of your abuser and deal with the abuse. We are all survivors in this terrible club, some of us are alive, some have died, those of us who are alive need fo heal this trauma and pain so that we don't pass it on to our kids. Godspeed sis
If there was a case whereby I feel empathy for the murderer it would be in a case such as thus and those similar. Rob was a gift sent from the universe for her… every woman wants a man like this. I hope you both keep conquering and make it at every uphill battle
God love her!! What a hell she lived through! When she said what she told her mama at the funeral home “mim you’re gonna be seeing things you don’t like but I don’t like it either and I have tried to stop it” imagining her speaking to her deceased mother in the coffin and knowing my own faith, I got the chills and I felt the tears coming!
Awwwwwee Rob is AN AMAZING MAN!!! Wow!! She got sooo lucky with him!! He saved her and her sister!! Wow!! When he said he knew he was going to be with her for the rest of his life my heart MELTED!!!
After graduating from high school I worked with a classmate. This was in the mid 1970’s. She was from a prominent landowning family. One day she confided that starting when she and her sister were young girls, their mother would take one daughter every Saturday and shop. Their father would stay with the daughter at home and molest (rape) the remaining daughter. The next Saturday would be the other’s turn. All of this was done with the mother’s full knowledge and consent. I was shocked and naive. I had no idea things like this went on. It’s a fact that from the earliest times when peasants, and then landowners and the nobility were around, the peasants didn’t have the time, imagination and power to indulge in pornographic acts. They were busy just surviving. However, the wealthy had plenty of time on their hands, the inclination, motivation, and the sense of entitlement to indulge. Thus nothing through the centuries has changed and has only gotten worse.
Hearts and prayers go out to the continued strength of the love between both Rob and Cheryl. As for the second segment, I wholeheartedly agree that a life sentence with no chance of parole be dealt to that stupid 17-yr-old who ended two lives and destroyed a family! As the mother stated: the culprit's mother can visit her in prison but we have to go to a cemetery to see OUR daughters!
So the girl who crashed her car into the house at the end of the video pleaded not guilty? How is that possible? What possible justification is there that she was high, speeding with passengers, careened off the road 100ft and airborne hit a house with such force that neighbours thought there had been an explosion! And two children died in their home watching tv! How is it legal that such an obvious open and shut case can be pled not guilty? This is sickening. I sincerely hope the perp gets the maximum sentence possible.
My heart goes out to Cheryl and Rob, what her father did to her was disgusting! I'm glad Rob stuck by her side ❤️ I don't understand why they sent her to those family members 😪 I'm glad she's physically out of it, but mentally, it must still be awful 💔
I wish these two nothing but the best. The story started ugly, but had a beautiful ending. God has blessed you both. May you keep thriving and may God bless your children richly 🙏🏼
I remember reading the book about this case years ago. It is good to see an update. For those who have never been abused, it is hard to understand. I was abused verbally, emotionally and physically by an alcoholic, hateful bio mom. I too questioned why.
I'm in tears hearing Cheryl's story....That evil monster deserved to be 6 feet under after what he did to poor Cheryl... It's beautiful to see Cheryl and Rob still together after everything they went through
Thus victim blaming drives me mad! Asking a child if they pulled away or said no ? And what if they didn't? So what? The child has NO responsibility to control the abuser. It shouldn't even have been a thought let alone a question.
Wow Cheryl, There are no words. Im 47 years old and I don’t think any other story has ever touched me as much as yours has. To think that society bashed and shamed you makes my stomach literally turn. You were a child living an absolute torture and hell !!! What an amazing woman and human being you are and have become even after all that. I’m so incredibly sorry that have endured everything that you have. God Bless you, your Beautiful Daughters and Rob 😢
I wish more time was spent on the last story. My father was almost killed by a car driving through our house, thankfully he was okay. But this happens more than you would think. I cannot imagine this families pain. They deserved more time spent on that case.
In Julia’s case, I’m glad her brother was a PI & I’m sure he noticed @6:17 that her toilet seat Up was a big clue, since no man lived with his sister 💔 I’m hoping there’ll be fingerprints on the lid… no offense but most men never think about leaving their prints there.. but they’re there …
So happy Rob woke up, sadly I lost my father due to a heart attack and it took 60 minutes to get a pulse back but unfortunately the damage done to his brain was catastrophic 😢. I had to say bye to my father that day and it's the absolute hardest thing to deal with its actually hard to write this . But all I can say is love you mom and dad and make sure you tell them everyday. ❤
Joel 1:6-7 "a nation is come up upon my land, strong, and without number, whose teeth are the teeth of a lion, and he hath the cheek teeth of a great lion." 14:44 He was a mixed breed with that kind. Not full fangs but not regular either.
I can't tell you how many times I blurted out loud to the demonic description this woman explained. Pray you find peace, healing, love and the blood of Jesus mam.
Wow! I can't imagine what that poor girl went through. Her husband is truly her guardian angel. I thought I went though a hard time, not even remotely close to them. Inspiring for sure. God Bless
First, There is no 'god'. I had a father who kicked my dog to death too. I was ten. And a mother who tried to engage me in sex when I was 17 and for the next 29 &1/2 years until she died. Implying all along that she would protect me from that caustic narcissist if I complied. Of course I was angry by their betrayal and wondered 'why me'. I understand this woman's bewilderment and pain and sorrow. It's lonely all alone.
Her father sounds like mine so much. He scared me and beat me, he really got off on being macho. People thought it's a normal farm family. They didn't know females waited on males, and if a female tried to get a piece of meat at mealtime, he'd stab your hand with a fork. He came to the barn when I was doing my chores and show me the bull f'n the cow, then take me up the ladder. I was scared and whispered I don't want to. He would get pissed. Every day of my life is ruined because of his incest. I won't forgive and get over it.
I wish Dr. Phil would do a talk about this family. This poor girl had NO ONE and she and her baby sister should be so glad he is gone. He caused too much pain and horror and this poor girl took the blame. This is so unfair.
People always say “just tell someone”, “tell the police” etc. I was 8 when I was first abused and I told that very day. I was scared and couldn’t even find the words to tell what happened because I didn’t even really know what happened, I was only 8! I just knew it wasn’t right. My mom did absolutely nothing. In fact, I got a whooping for being “inappropriate”. Did you think I went on to tell anyone else and get “help”? No. It’s not on children to have “adult like” responses to trauma that shouldn’t happen in the first place. It’s on the adult to not do that sick mess in the first darn place! I wish someone would’ve saved me. The truth is, too often this happens and nothing is done whether you tell someone or not!
@5:24 “the cops found it (her car) 5 days later, after missing those many days? And only a half a mile from where she lived??? Why’d it take 5 days if it was in a half mile radius from her home? 🤦🏼♀️ ugh!! The keys were in it & all the windows were down (different levels of down but down nonetheless) That screams “take me for a joyride or steal me” so someone else can look responsible for her disappearance !
My father sexually abused my 2 older sisters, he tried to start to do it to me when I was 7, I told him I would tell, he left me alone. He didn't leave them alone. One is forever in a mental ward now, the other is dead at 24 from self destruction drug addiction and alcohol from trying to cope, she died in a meth and alcohol induced car wreck. I'll never understand how or why he could do that to his own daughters
The father deserves no words but I (as a victim of abusive parents) still cannot wrap my head around the idea of this woman having the guts to hire a hitman.
wow! rob stuck by cheryl all these years! amazing guy! anyone knows which is the episode that Sean the hitman was interviewed? I would really like to hear his side of the story...
I lived in a small town all my youth where this was unheard of either it didn't happened or nobody spoke about it then I heard that happened to one of my classmates I was absolutely shocked and disputed how could a father do such a horrible act against their child
There was a man in my community am from Jamaica he had (6) Daughters he molested all (6) the oldest sister was telling ppl in the community but no one would believe her until the fourth sister came out and tell everyone that when everyone started to believe he was arrested and got only (7) yrs in prison he later died but I know ppl don’t want to believe this can happen but it does
This is a heartbreaking, yet heartwarming story! Thank God they were able to overcome the obstacles and horrific circumstances they faced together. I am a survivor of molestation by my father as well. I can honestly say that there are times I hated him so much for what he did to our family, that I could’ve cared less what happened to him. Although his life ended at the age of 48, it was due to his own actions and lifestyle that played a part in his death. I loved my father, but never really knew the man the way a daughter should. In my eyes, he was a monster. To my mother and to my siblings. I have forgiven him, but I will never forget the pain and suffering that he chose to put upon our family.
Dalen Ware buried Julia Jacobson and her dog Boogie in the California desert he was sentenced to 15 years to life, that jerk can be paroled in 15 years! Poor Cheryl she went through so much, her father completely deserved what he got. I'm so glad that she had Rob in her life & is still with him, good guy.
My heart goes out to Cheryl and her husband. I wish them and their family all the luv, happiness and the very best of everything. Her father was an evil monster who deserves to spend all of eternity in the fiery pit.
The fact that she found someone who absolutely adores her and wanted to protect her from her father kinda restores my faith in humanity
Same here❤
Exactly
Wow this is just something else
Absolutely
Wow so murder is okay in white cases? I guess Carolyn Bryant is innocent in Your mind?.....
I love that Sean, the hitman, said he doesn’t regret what he did. He helped this woman immensely for her to be able to live a lovely life with Rob. Prayers for the three of them and her daughters.. hopefully her sister came around eventually and saw the sacrifices & just how far Cheryl went for her
Very sick man hope he in jail the rest of his life
Ew you’re weird asf.
She saved her baby sister. Bless her heart ❤️
and for her sister to not believe her😭
@@mxmmianaxo1160 an 8yo kid being so innocent as to not believe her or understand is actually a sucess in that mess.
Cheryl and Rob have got to be two of the strongest people I’ve ever seen featured here in Crime Watch. I am SO glad that she/they survived this nightmare of their youth and also glad Rob is still with his family. Cheryl’s father can continue to rot in the fires of hell - exactly where he belongs assuming there is a hell. Cheryl endured a hell on Earth….may her remaining days be full of peace and love.
Amen amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 ❤💖💝🤗
There is absolutely a hell !!!
I believe in God after researching his existence extensively although I can’t exactly answer why terrible things happen to good people. I believe there’s definitely a special place in hell for guys like Cheryl’s dad.
They’re actually quite weak going around killin people.
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I wish Cheryl and Rob all the happiness they deserve, their story is true love what a horrific story 💜
This is why molesters get away. No one believes them.
I know a lady who was molested as a child by her father for years. It has ruined her life.
I agree! Because most victims feel helpless, but are too scared to take the life of their predator. That’s why I’m sooo incredibly grateful that they didn’t have a harsh sentencing and that their love endured it all after all this time.
I’m just sad that her aunt, grandma and sister didn’t believe her.
I’m so proud of them and wish them the absolute best.
Oh yes lifetime trauma 😮😢💔💔😡🙏bless her
The big sister saved little sister from a horrible fate
@@ruthmyers2397Unfortunately the little sister is still likely an ingrate.
And it's not even about immediately believing an allegation, it's just about investigating.
So many family members CSA kids and are not sitting in prison for life. 🤢🤢🤢
*That father is a sick piece of 💩 to do that to your own daughter, There is a special place in HELL/PURGATORY for him* 🤬
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He certainly was
Purgatory is definitely not on his eternal travel destination, he's on his express trip straight to a lake of fire.
Purgatory is not part of Hell. Christians with some venial sins left on their souls go to Purgatory then, once Purified, go to Heaven. The damned just go to Hell.
Purgatory does not exist, only heaven and hell.
How sickening. I can't imagine having to go through that, let alone having to relive it. Absolute agony. Cheryl is so strong and I'm glad she has a great husband.
My ex father in law molested & raped all 3 of his daughters, a grandchild, & idk how many other females in his lifetime. When I was 19, he got super friendly with me. I backed away & he straightened up when someone came into the room. After that, I never let him close enough to touch me. Out of everything he did, he spent only 15 mo in county jail & that was for the grandchild, his son's little girl. He should've been given a permanent prison cell. Apparently, he's changed & has repented. I still avoid him at all costs. My granddaughter's not allowed anywhere near him or his house.
@@discobikerAndRosieThat crap is the ROOT of everything that us wrong with this world: toxic masculinity. It’s a GENETIC DEFECT, the XY chromosome.
Rob Cuccio is a saint. Cheryl may have bombed on her father, but she scored big-time on her lifelong champion, her husband Rob Cuccio. I hope they are happy together every day for the rest of their lives.
What a horrific childhood! Rob is an absolute hero and Cheryl is a warrior! Wish them nothing but the BEST!
My heart goes out to this poor woman. Far too many children are badly abused. It’s horrific.
My dad used to sexually abused for years and used to tell that because he loved me
@@Jennifer_j749 that is very sad. The way you wrote the sentence makes me think you are still very young. In any case, find someone to talk to; support group, counselor, friend or their parent...someone you can trust. That is not love...
@@Jennifer_j749 @Jennifer_j749 omg I am so very sorry. If you need someone to talk to let me know please. We are in the boat with the same disgusting monsters of fathers. May God decide their fates in perpetuity. Hugs, big bear hugs, Debbie
It’s amazing how Rob stood by his true Love for all these years. I’m glad everything worked out for the teenager, her boyfriend and I hope the Dad rots in HELL! I hope Cheryl’s is able salvage the relationship with her sister. I can see how an 8 yr old sister would be so angry.
I do hope the killer finally got the rest of his money at some point for a job well done!
Rob is truly an amazing man! My heart goes out to Cheryl! I’m glad she was able to have some peace 💜
It’s heartwarming to know they stayed together through it all. Heartbreaking what was done to her during And after
I pray that all your wounds will be completely healed and I’m so happy you have Rob by your side. Thank you for speaking up on behalf of all the children that have had this happen to them. And I’m so proud of you that you didn’t allow shame to take a foothold in your life. You are an inspiration to me. Thank you for all that you do. ❤
I dont think I’ve ever heard something so twisted and vile as what that guy put his daughter through and then the news cameras and the court system. I cant believe she’s not in a insane asylum
We don't have insane asylums anymore. That's what's wrong with the world. Now they walk free and are responsible for their own medication.
like she said it truly is inspiring for her to go through so much and still manage to have a good life
I can’t stand women that don’t believe a man can do something foul like that because he’s their relative. YOU DONT KNOW HIM LIKE HIS IMMEDIATE FAMILY DOES. This kind of thing happens a lot when the mother dies or leaves and there is a daughter in the house. I feel bad for her that she had to endure the loss of her mom, a sick monster father and relatives who accused her of lying. Smh.
@PaperMario64, Whats worse is that they actually were his immediate family.
It doesn't just happen when a mother dies or leaves, it happens a lot when the mother is still there and the daughter is afraid and ashamed, thinks she is somehow to blame, and doesn't say a word.
No. More like people often judge their partner, ect. without recognizing the signs of abuse and red flags of that perosn being evil
@@laurancurtis5669It can happen everywhere at any time. Mother or no mother.
that is true love right there! i hope Cheryl and Robert are happy and live a long successful life together with their family.
Wow the devastation of losing both your children thinking they are safe inside your home on the living room couch… My heart aches for those parents. I pray they receive many blessings after such an horrific tragedy
How could you as a father do that to your child omg
A subhuman.
Brave woman she saved others for sure sad she had to go to those lengths no child should have to do that 😢
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That is one of the saddest but most beautiful videos I have ever watched. I am so happy that Cheryl and Rob got through the pain and the horror and are still with each other. I wish them both MANY more happy, healthy years together. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤❤❤
Poor girl! She is so beautiful! Shame on the parents for harming this beautiful young girl!
It was the father. Not parentS.
A real shame they didn’t go to his Dad.
3 teens & a child’s lives are forever changed.
Im really happy the love endured it all
I just wonder how that would’ve played out. He would’ve likely gotten a baby slap on the wrist and then probably set his sights on someone else and even possibly retaliate against her. Who know how many more people would’ve been victimized by him. He would probably still be out living in this world being a nasty evil POS. Normally I would never say this, but I am glad that he’s gone! Especially since although their lives were “changed”, they weren’t RUINED. They persevered. I truly hope little sister is doing okay too!
There is a reason he did not go to his father that good ole boy network was really strong back then
I don't blame them. Cops dismiss abuse all the time, and it was way worse back then.
@@carlosmark9840 Still is in same places
@@Valeria-mq3qn The World is def a much safer place to be WITHOUT him in it
God bless you! I know what she’s going through, I’ve been there, but it was my stepfather! I told my mother after awhile, next thing I know she married him, she never protected me at all, it wasn’t as bad as what this poor woman went through, but it changes your life for sure!
Your mother new and married your abuser. That’s sick. What mother does that? I’m so sorry. I surely hope you longer deal with her. What about your own father?
That’s horrific, I’m so sorry.
I get chills each time I hear about a Mother who chooses to disregard her daughter's safety over an abusive man, believes a savage man over their own flesh & blood, truly shocking😢😮
I’m so sorry you’ve had to go thru this!😢
I am so happy for Cheryl and Rob. May their lives be filled with peace and happiness!
OMG, what a story! God bless Cheryl and Rob!!
Glad for the update on Cheryl. I remember this case - I grew up in the town immediately next to Cheryl.
Truly disgusting decision to have her live with the fathers relatives. Of course that would open her up for harassment.
Yes. Why couldn't she stay with her mother family
I don't think her mother had any.@@reneahetrick8142
Nobody speaks about the weight of Children living in an abusive home🥺💔
Or adults it’s not just children adult disabled children go though it as well I’m ready to exit at this rate but keep saying this is temporary 😢
@@tishsharay7509You’re so right! And when it’s all you’ve ever known and you’re in an entire family system that just ignores and makes excuses for abuse, it’s really hard to feel secure in your knowledge that what’s happening is so wrong. I hope everything works out for you.
Nobody? Really? You just aren't paying attention. The media isn't everyone.
@@trickortrump3292 yasss thank You so much my therapist advocate is working on helping me relocate this was temporary but dealing with narcissistic parents and verbal and physical abuse you reach a breaking point and it’s truly all some of us know crazy u say that cuz I’m an only child at that but I’ve had my own place twice and yes the knowledge of thinking you need the abuser family of not I pray I never have to come back here when I’m gone I pay bills with my limited income i stay to my self but I will never come back I just felt I had no other options and I’d be welcomed with open arms I wish this young girl could have chosen a different choice but that’s life and I don’t blame her being so young she’s younger then me and her mental felt like the father wasn’t her father anymore definitely sounds like he abused the mother thank u thank u so much for understanding and seeing it from a different place mental health should be a top priority but sadly it never is abuse starts in the home even some kids abuse parents adult and young I’ve seen both in mental wards kids as young as 6 locked up for anger issues 🫶🏽🥹🙏🏾😔
Wanjiru, there is something called ACES that takes on different effects of child abuse. There is attention paid to abuse. There are more books and more research available now. Also, the onus is on you as a survivor to recognize the depravity of your abuser and deal with the abuse. We are all survivors in this terrible club, some of us are alive, some have died, those of us who are alive need fo heal this trauma and pain so that we don't pass it on to our kids. Godspeed sis
Im so glad they got married and have been together 28 years. ❤
If there was a case whereby I feel empathy for the murderer it would be in a case such as thus and those similar. Rob was a gift sent from the universe for her… every woman wants a man like this. I hope you both keep conquering and make it at every uphill battle
God love her!! What a hell she lived through!
When she said what she told her mama at the funeral home “mim you’re gonna be seeing things you don’t like but I don’t like it either and I have tried to stop it” imagining her speaking to her deceased mother in the coffin and knowing my own faith, I got the chills and I felt the tears coming!
Rob is a rare one. Now that’s what a “man’s man”looks like ❤
Wow. Her husband is amazing. Can't wait to see the interview with Pica tomorrow.
You are both amazing people wish you all the best
So sorry that Cheryl endured all that. What a beautiful love story though.
Thanks for sharing.❤
poor lil dog too...
And I thought my upbringing was rough , what a story many blessings to Cheryl and Rob
Wow, what an amazing story ! I would love to read her book ❤
Awwwwwee Rob is AN AMAZING MAN!!! Wow!! She got sooo lucky with him!! He saved her and her sister!! Wow!! When he said he knew he was going to be with her for the rest of his life my heart MELTED!!!
Everyone go buy Cheryl's book! The one her and Rob wrote.
After graduating from high school I worked with a classmate. This was in the mid 1970’s. She was from a prominent landowning family. One day she confided that starting when she and her sister were young girls, their mother would take one daughter every Saturday and shop. Their father would stay with the daughter at home and molest (rape) the remaining daughter. The next Saturday would be the other’s turn. All of this was done with the mother’s full knowledge and consent. I was shocked and naive. I had no idea things like this went on. It’s a fact that from the earliest times when peasants, and then landowners and the nobility were around, the peasants didn’t have the time, imagination and power to indulge in pornographic acts. They were busy just surviving. However, the wealthy had plenty of time on their hands, the inclination, motivation, and the sense of entitlement to indulge. Thus nothing through the centuries has changed and has only gotten worse.
I love Rob how he stood by her and support her her all these years
None of them should have gone to jail. Just my opinion.
Hearts and prayers go out to the continued strength of the love between both Rob and Cheryl. As for the second segment, I wholeheartedly agree that a life sentence with no chance of parole be dealt to that stupid 17-yr-old who ended two lives and destroyed a family! As the mother stated: the culprit's mother can visit her in prison but we have to go to a cemetery to see OUR daughters!
Beautiful love story. Most of us can only dream of finding someone who would stand by us the way Rob stood by Cheryl. Very inspiring.
So the girl who crashed her car into the house at the end of the video pleaded not guilty? How is that possible? What possible justification is there that she was high, speeding with passengers, careened off the road 100ft and airborne hit a house with such force that neighbours thought there had been an explosion! And two children died in their home watching tv! How is it legal that such an obvious open and shut case can be pled not guilty? This is sickening. I sincerely hope the perp gets the maximum sentence possible.
My heart goes out to Cheryl and Rob, what her father did to her was disgusting! I'm glad Rob stuck by her side ❤️ I don't understand why they sent her to those family members 😪 I'm glad she's physically out of it, but mentally, it must still be awful 💔
I wish these two nothing but the best. The story started ugly, but had a beautiful ending. God has blessed you both. May you keep thriving and may God bless your children richly 🙏🏼
Blasphemous skag
I remember reading the book about this case years ago. It is good to see an update. For those who have never been abused, it is hard to understand. I was abused verbally, emotionally and physically by an alcoholic, hateful bio mom. I too questioned why.
The first case in this presentation has been solved. Her former husband has pled guilty to the murder.
That’s Sad
She should not have been charged or have stayed a moment in prison.
I'm in tears hearing Cheryl's story....That evil monster deserved to be 6 feet under after what he did to poor Cheryl... It's beautiful to see Cheryl and Rob still together after everything they went through
That makes at least two of us, @Rakel6784! Divine Justice, however, will send him straight to HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY where he belongs!
This is real love between Rob and Cheryl. A horrific history of incest and they have grown above it. I hope Sean can be free too.
Thus victim blaming drives me mad! Asking a child if they pulled away or said no ? And what if they didn't? So what? The child has NO responsibility to control the abuser. It shouldn't even have been a thought let alone a question.
Wow Cheryl, There are no words. Im 47 years old and I don’t think any other story has ever touched me as much as yours has. To think that society bashed and shamed you makes my stomach literally turn. You were a child living an absolute torture and hell !!! What an amazing woman and human being you are and have become even after all that. I’m so incredibly sorry that have endured everything that you have. God Bless you, your Beautiful Daughters and Rob 😢
I wish more time was spent on the last story. My father was almost killed by a car driving through our house, thankfully he was okay. But this happens more than you would think. I cannot imagine this families pain. They deserved more time spent on that case.
There's a movie out about this. I watched it. It's spot on exactly how they are saying in this episode.David Schwimmer plays as Rod.
I just looked it up.. A Deadly Silence. I will def watch.
I remember the story, it's regurgitated content. Their honesty is very admirable
Made me happy when they said they’ve been married for 28 years
In Julia’s case, I’m glad her brother was a PI & I’m sure he noticed @6:17 that her toilet seat Up was a big clue, since no man lived with his sister 💔 I’m hoping there’ll be fingerprints on the lid… no offense but most men never think about leaving their prints there.. but they’re there …
He’s were he belongs in hell this is one strong woman i can only imagine the fear and trauma as a little girl damn disgrace
So happy Rob woke up, sadly I lost my father due to a heart attack and it took 60 minutes to get a pulse back but unfortunately the damage done to his brain was catastrophic 😢. I had to say bye to my father that day and it's the absolute hardest thing to deal with its actually hard to write this . But all I can say is love you mom and dad and make sure you tell them everyday. ❤
Thank you for sharing your story Cheryl'l and Rob
Joel 1:6-7 "a nation is come up upon my land, strong, and without number, whose teeth are the teeth of a lion, and he hath the cheek teeth of a great lion." 14:44 He was a mixed breed with that kind. Not full fangs but not regular either.
I can't tell you how many times I blurted out loud to the demonic description this woman explained. Pray you find peace, healing, love and the blood of Jesus mam.
Wow! I can't imagine what that poor girl went through. Her husband is truly her guardian angel. I thought I went though a hard time, not even remotely close to them. Inspiring for sure. God Bless
God bless you Rob and Cheryl ❤
First, There is no 'god'. I had a father who kicked my dog to death too. I was ten. And a mother who tried to engage me in sex when I was 17 and for the next 29 &1/2 years until she died. Implying all along that she would protect me from that caustic narcissist if I complied. Of course I was angry by their betrayal and wondered 'why me'. I understand this woman's bewilderment and pain and sorrow. It's lonely all alone.
Cheryl and Rob are such an amazing couple who went through so much but remained together 😢 that's true love ❤ wish their family well 😊
I'm glad Cheryl and Rob are still together. They seem like an ideal couple. I wish the best for them and hope they have many decades together.
It’s because they walked through fire young. I’m glad they have always had each other.
I remember this story from a long time ago... Thats true love these two share... Thank god for that
Should have had a trigger warning for this video.
Having said that, Rob and Cheryl's love story is inspiring. ❤
Trigger warning? You do know that you're watching a true crime show, right? Isn't that a warning enough?
This couple is what a marriage should be, Rob love the hell out of his wife and he is in it for life which is how it should be.
Her father sounds like mine so much. He scared me and beat me, he really got off on being macho. People thought it's a normal farm family. They didn't know females waited on males, and if a female tried to get a piece of meat at mealtime, he'd stab your hand with a fork. He came to the barn when I was doing my chores and show me the bull f'n the cow, then take me up the ladder. I was scared and whispered I don't want to. He would get pissed. Every day of my life is ruined because of his incest. I won't forgive and get over it.
Rob and Cheryl were still together after all what has happened is the real meaning of true Love.
I wish Dr. Phil would do a talk about this family. This poor girl had NO ONE and she and her baby sister should be so glad he is gone. He caused too much pain and horror and this poor girl took the blame. This is so unfair.
First Case: Her ex-husband, Dalen Larry Ware, pled guilty to second degree murder, and led authorities to her and Boogie's remains.
Of course her father's mother and sister didn't believe her. They were enablers who made excuses for his terrible behavior
People always say “just tell someone”, “tell the police” etc. I was 8 when I was first abused and I told that very day. I was scared and couldn’t even find the words to tell what happened because I didn’t even really know what happened, I was only 8! I just knew it wasn’t right. My mom did absolutely nothing. In fact, I got a whooping for being “inappropriate”. Did you think I went on to tell anyone else and get “help”? No. It’s not on children to have “adult like” responses to trauma that shouldn’t happen in the first place. It’s on the adult to not do that sick mess in the first darn place! I wish someone would’ve saved me. The truth is, too often this happens and nothing is done whether you tell someone or not!
@5:24 “the cops found it (her car) 5 days later, after missing those many days? And only a half a mile from where she lived??? Why’d it take 5 days if it was in a half mile radius from her home? 🤦🏼♀️ ugh!!
The keys were in it & all the windows were down (different levels of down but down nonetheless) That screams “take me for a joyride or steal me” so someone else can look responsible for her disappearance !
Cheryl should not have had to spend any time in jail.
When I hear this lady’s case I realize her hit man was the human embodiment of dirty deeds done dirt cheap
My father sexually abused my 2 older sisters, he tried to start to do it to me when I was 7, I told him I would tell, he left me alone. He didn't leave them alone. One is forever in a mental ward now, the other is dead at 24 from self destruction drug addiction and alcohol from trying to cope, she died in a meth and alcohol induced car wreck. I'll never understand how or why he could do that to his own daughters
You never told tho, you knew he did it to them, but you never told.
Why did you threaten to tell only when he wanted to do it to you, but didn’t tell that he did it to them?
The father deserves no words but I (as a victim of abusive parents) still cannot wrap my head around the idea of this woman having the guts to hire a hitman.
What a love story and a very very strong woman and man! I’m going to check your book. 📕 whewwww JUST AN AMAZING STORY!!!
wow! rob stuck by cheryl all these years! amazing guy! anyone knows which is the episode that Sean the hitman was interviewed? I would really like to hear his side of the story...
I lived in a small town all my youth where this was unheard of either it didn't happened or nobody spoke about it then I heard that happened to one of my classmates I was absolutely shocked and disputed how could a father do such a horrible act against their child
I wish she didn't have to go through this to get rid of him. She should have been able to go to police. Rob is a good man.
There was a man in my community am from Jamaica he had (6) Daughters he molested all (6) the oldest sister was telling ppl in the community but no one would believe her until the fourth sister came out and tell everyone that when everyone started to believe he was arrested and got only (7) yrs in prison he later died but I know ppl don’t want to believe this can happen but it does
This is a heartbreaking, yet heartwarming story! Thank God they were able to overcome the obstacles and horrific circumstances they faced together. I am a survivor of molestation by my father as well. I can honestly say that there are times I hated him so much for what he did to our family, that I could’ve cared less what happened to him. Although his life ended at the age of 48, it was due to his own actions and lifestyle that played a part in his death. I loved my father, but never really knew the man the way a daughter should. In my eyes, he was a monster. To my mother and to my siblings. I have forgiven him, but I will never forget the pain and suffering that he chose to put upon our family.
Bless these people😢
Ppl wonder why the young abused girl didn’t tell anyone . . Because their never believed by the family!
I would have done the same.
Dalen Ware buried Julia Jacobson and her dog Boogie in the California desert he was sentenced to 15 years to life, that jerk can be paroled in 15 years!
Poor Cheryl she went through so much, her father completely deserved what he got. I'm so glad that she had Rob in her life & is still with him, good guy.
My heart goes out to Cheryl and her husband. I wish them and their family all the luv, happiness and the very best of everything.
Her father was an evil monster who deserves to spend all of eternity in the fiery pit.
This story is AMAZING from start to finish.
What’s courage and faith and love. ❤ y’all are an inspiration.