I joined the Navy after High School. I was on active duty for 20 years. I met and married this woman a year after joining, and we were married for 4 1/2 yrs. After we divorced, I questioned my sexuality. I realized I was gay, but because of DADT, I could not be with a man, for fear of being discharged. So, I was closeted, and alone, for 15 years. After completing active service, I came out, and had my first relationship with a man. You are so fortunate to be able to be honest and open about your sexuality. Always remember to be who you need to be.
Charles Woolley I'm sorry you were alone for so many years. I understand your struggle and lack of life. I experienced the same but in a different way. I'm writing a novel based on my life. It's amazing how freeing and healing it is when I read first and second draft chapter's for editing. The mind never forgets that kind of loneliness or longing. Thank you for serving our country, Charles.
As a gay Viet Nam U.S. Army vet, I want to thank you for your courage and candor (and wit). There may be some dark days ahead for LGBT in the U.S. Military and we need to stand together and stand tall. Words like yours help us do that.
I really needed to watch this. I just enlisted a few days ago and I leave the 10th of October for boot camp and I myself am gay. The whole gay thing in the military really did make me a little hesitant on joining but this makes me feel much better. Thank you for the video and I hope that all is still well!
Respect for having the courage to stand up for who you are and not hiding your sexual orientation. A positive role model for those who follow in your shoes.
I'm from PA as well, living in Pittsburgh now. I'm about to start the enlistment process in a week and I've been worrying about all the things you talk about. Thank you for the video and reassuring those of us who are scared out there!
Thanks a lot for this I'm getting in DEP for the navy, 23 as well and that question was on my mind a lot, thanks for clearing the air a bit and giving some insight.
well i am gay in an algerian army.i am so happy for you americains that you get your rights of serving your cauntry liberaly without taking your orientation on consideration.with a hope to be changed in our cauntries we have to live our life secretly is just a coment but you are so good looking
this is so gratifying, you have to be yourself, no matter what hurt you, maintain your head up and show the great person that you are. hi From Dominican Republic.
I really needed this as ive spent 4 years not join cause i was afraid id be ridiculed for been gay... im 23 now and i leave for basic soon (finally) and im hopin every thing will be ok
Thank you for your courage in making this video. I was in the AF in the early 80's before DADT. Had a friend who disclosed his sexuality because his partner was coming back stateside, and he got orders to leave. He was discharged under less then honorable conditions. Me I did the pretend game and kept a very low profile until my term was up. Didn't reenlist. Was always looking over my shoulder. and was approached in what they called witch hunts to out guys. Glad that you can now be open with your sexuality. Good Luck and hope your carrier is whatever you want it to be.
Good video! I joined the Air Force outta H.S. in 2005 during DADT. I slowly started to notice most people I served with were alright with it. Nice to see stuff has changed a bit. Good luck with your Navy career man! Peace, Matt
I guess you're 25 now. But I think that is amazing and honestly you give the right meaning to life and keep it up!! Keep being adorable and sweet! Any guy that has your heart is one lucky guy!
Hey Chris. I have watched all of your videos. They are extremely encouraging and helpful. I am going to a recruiter next week to start my enlistment stuff. Thank you for sharing your experience, you really give a honest perspective into the navy. The shower thing is something on my mind as a gay man but your reaction definitely makes light of an awkward situation. Thanks for your service bud!
I am about to join the Navy and I am gay as well. My sister tonight asked me if i was going to try and keep it under wraps and i told her fuck no. You definitely helped me get over my initial fears of being gay and in the military. Thanks for all your videos! i cant wait to serve my country!
Thank you so much for this video, I'm currently waiting in DEP and watching this video has helped me out so much. I was very worried about what life will be like and you've helped out so much. Btw you are very handsome ;) lol
This is so amazing and incredibly inspiring. You're such an idol to the gay community and it's great seeing men and women who are openly serving for our country reaching out to the community and offering words of advice. Keep up the great work and I hope to see more videos from you(:
Who would have thought a year and 1 day after this video was made that you would get equality. Congratulations, its people like you who have made this happen. Thanks Chris! Hope life is treating you well.
I'm a Korean Canadian gay male sailor. I love the fact that America's military is coming around, its long over due! Thank you for your story! Canada open up full service to gay since the 1970s. DOMA on Canada was lifted in 2004 in Canada. Me and my husband been living on NAS Halifax since 2006. Canadian defense ministry encourage diversity and being who you are!
Lol you're funny! Your attitude is perfect. Being gay has nothing to do with your job and qualifications as a United States Sailor. You must understand that the Navy is a business, and those who serve in the Navy must act professionally at all times during working hours and on duty. Good luck with your Navy career!
Proud of you. Thank you for your service. I just wanted to say that I am surprised that you were bullied from elementary school to high school. You seem very cool, and are very masculine, why did the jerks bully you?
I'm so glad I found this video. I have been tossing and turning on whether or not I should even contact the NR back, about my dreams of joining. Although, I've been "out" my whole life, and I'm flamboyant, the extra "bullying" and the fear of being "gay-bashed" has stifled my interest. In fact, it's really my one of my greatest fears. I have a question, or a few, though. You mentioned in a later comment that a lot of Navy (Men and Women) lose sight of why they joined the service. Why is that, do you think? And, why did you join? I want to join the education opportunities and to sea (get it!) the world. That and I want to challenge myself, both physically and mentally.
I think they lose sight of it because of the crappy side of it all. People just seem to lose motivation but some people dont. Hopefully you wont be one of those people! I joined for schooling, seeing the world, and to serve my country!
I’m gay and I swore into the navy not to long ago and I was really worried about what would happen since I am gay and going into the military so I thank you for this video it really helped and also thank you for your service
Just found your videos, Chris. First, so proud of you joining the Military. Your an honest up front guy, that is awesome. What is your job ? If you can say. Do you get to see your family much? Merry Christmas and have a Happy New Year. I have not checked yet, but hope you are still making videos. Love Ya, Hugs.
+Hugo Davenport in the army we wear a reverse color or subdued flag patch and foreign service badge (patch authorized if deployed whether combat arms or not) but Navy doesnt wear a flag on their blueberries. they have a limited number of accounterments outside of their name and branch which are all sewn on such as anchors/ships/tridents/ranks etc
Awesome video! That's really cool you can talk about it and give advice for others, super inspirational. Great job and good luck on your career in the Navy. Thank you for your service. You're cute by the way.
Thank you for posting this! I wish I had joined when I was younger, but I wasn't very good at passing so I probably would have been discharged. Thank you for your service!
Hey Chris thanks for the video it was very helpful! Like you I am gay and I am leaving for basic training on September 24th for the USAF. I am very excited to go but like you I have had some concerns and questions with being gay in the military and haven't been able to find much online about it so thank you again for the video! I would love to hear any additional tips and suggestions you may have I know the showering thing was a concern. And I was also worried about stricter and more prejudice comments....I know you said most people are chill about it which makes me feel a little better. But it's still one of my fears.
Strongly considering joining the navy... Would pick your brain if you're comfortable with chatting. Great video.. Helps to hear things first hand from someone.
Nice video.You give alot being in the military monetary and the ability to make decisions on your own .Being told what to do not easy either but hope for the best..Your a nice person also..
Thank you for your service and this great video. After I graduated high school, I was so afraid to join the Navy due to my sexuality. I am a gay male, so I didn't know how they would accept me or if I would ever be accepted if I would have joined at that specific time. Let me tell you something, I did not join the Navy. Instead, I went off to college to do something I really didn't have a passion for. Everyone doubting yourself... Please do what it is you want to do and DO NOT let your sexuality hold you back. We need more positive people like you in our society. Thank you!
OUCH! So handsome and charming. I like the way your blue camo brings out your eyes. I hope the situation for you and other G/L servicemembers continues to improve, because change from the military filters into just about all aspects of society.
Hey Chris, great video, I'm also gay in the navy, and much like yourself, some of the folks I work with are very accepting about it. Stay strong brother. Semper Fortis, always strong 😊
Hey Chris, I really appreciate this video....I served in the military (Army) back in the "Don't Ask..Don't Tell" era. So, if I wanted to come out...I couldn't! I joined literally right after high school. I wasn't out..at all. Hell, I wasn't even out to myself...lol. Wasn't until I was at my duty station that I went a gay club....what an eye opener! That night I met my first "gay" friend...Joel, a sexy Filipino guy, who could dance his azz off. Guess that's what initial drew me to him because I (still) am a dancer. We danced til 4am...then went to the local after hours hangout get breakfast and talk...that's I realized how kool he was, is, rather....25 yrs later, we still remain gud friends.... it all started that eventful night in Hawaii!! 😉😜 Oh, I forgot to mention that has four diamonds embedded into his front teeth...caught my eye as we were dancing...heheWell that's my coming out to myself story. Getting to know Joel opened my eyes to this whole new and exciting realm of possibilities....I had a lot of 'first' on that little island...😆
Thank you for making this video. Thank you for your candidness. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for your service to our nation. Thank you for fighting for the rights that every American holds dear. Most of all that you for being you!
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO! It really did cheer me up when it comes to terms of being gay in the military. I'm currently planning to either enlist or do rotc for either Navy or Air Force. It's been a real struggle because I've been terrified about how people would react if they found out (military people in particular). I think I'd like to document my journey on whatever path I take but I do not know if I should omit the fact that I'm a lesbian even though its blindingly obvious. Should I or should I not say that I'm pretty fucking gay?
I know this video has been posted for a while now, but I just saw it and it really helped me out a lot. I am currently awaiting my ship date and am actually scared because I am gay. I am open as fuck and not closeted, but I know that people and word gets around and I'm just scared that I won't make friends. It was hard for me in middle school because I was "different" and people didn't like me being different. Thank you for this video and giving me hope that it'll be okay!
This was helpful info for a relative of ours-thank you! Lastly, you made mentioned a few times about having ADHD. My understanding is ADHD may disqualified someone from enlisting in the Military if on medication. Could you share if this is so- and anything else that may help someone with ADHD enlist ?
you give me courage, a lot of courage. Thank you very much for this video, I'll try to be more visible such as I am. I hope to see you next video. Ihope to see you soon! George hello from Europe, Czech Republic - Prague!
You lov who you lov I'm not gay or les but as long as you are a good person it doesn't matter. I'm honored to watch and honored knowing good people like you keeping us safe. Carry on soldier. *Salute*
Thank you for your service. Don't listen to the haters and know that God loves you.. I haven't felt your struggles but you have an ally. Just remember that the measure of a good man is his courage and commitment to duty, not what he looks like and whom he loves. I hope you have a prosperous career and again thank you for serving.
I'm so happy to see that we can be open and serve now. I wish it would have been this way when I was younger and I would have served but back then I would have been kicked out. Not only that but I had a problem with serving my country and my country not looking at me as being equal to them. Anyway thank you for your service.
I was in 10 years before getting injured , I never actually told anyone I was gay BUT it seemed to be knowledge I was by I guess my views on certain subjects . Now that it is allowed that is AMAZING .
Enlightening video! My fiancé just graduated from BMT and he is in the USAF. During graduation and the family weekend, he would introduce me as such and we were received very well for the most part. Still have a lot of concerns/ questions moving forward, such as living on base and what rights we have, but would you say that is changing? I know we've seen some instances
I wanted to join the Marine Corps when I was 18. Actually I did but backed out just before getting sworn in. And why? Because of the fears you touched on. That was almost 40 years ago. Thanks for your service and thanks for having way more courage than I did.
+Hugo Davenport in army we have reverse flag on right pocket along with foreign service patch (if deployed) but with navy, their blueberries do not have adornments besides sewn on nametapes branch tapes anchor/ship/trident or rank, etc. no flag on blueberries
Gay or straight, I would like to thank you for serving our country
Trieu Do Thanks!
I joined the Navy after High School. I was on active duty for 20 years. I met and married this woman a year after joining, and we were married for 4 1/2 yrs. After we divorced, I questioned my sexuality. I realized I was gay, but because of DADT, I could not be with a man, for fear of being discharged. So, I was closeted, and alone, for 15 years.
After completing active service, I came out, and had my first relationship with a man. You are so fortunate to be able to be honest and open about your sexuality. Always remember to be who you need to be.
+Wolfreign Valenford Your a fucken idiot....But you all ready know that LMFAO....
+Charles Woolley idiot
In your opinion.
Hey I'm looking into enlisting and I was wondering what made you stay in the service for those extra 15 years?
Charles Woolley I'm sorry you were alone for so many years. I understand your struggle and lack of life. I experienced the same but in a different way. I'm writing a novel based on my life. It's amazing how freeing and healing it is when I read first and second draft chapter's for editing. The mind never forgets that kind of loneliness or longing.
Thank you for serving our country, Charles.
As a gay Viet Nam U.S. Army vet, I want to thank you for your courage and candor (and wit). There may be some dark days ahead for LGBT in the U.S. Military and we need to stand together and stand tall. Words like yours help us do that.
Thank you for your service, sir!
I really needed to watch this. I just enlisted a few days ago and I leave the 10th of October for boot camp and I myself am gay. The whole gay thing in the military really did make me a little hesitant on joining but this makes me feel much better. Thank you for the video and I hope that all is still well!
Wait, you're saying there's people in the navy who AREN'T gay?
That's funny
You're great, open, relaxed, cute, humorous & honest.
You're really hot. Thank you for serving this great country
I'm going to be that guy, and say: OMG, you are impossibly gorgeous!
true
Yes, he is. I'm sure those guys don't mind him looking around.
He's so adorable.
So positive to hear you've had a good experience being open in the military, you're an inspiration my friend - good for you!
Respect for having the courage to stand up for who you are and not hiding your sexual orientation. A positive role model for those who follow in your shoes.
OMG .... you are so handsomee!!! beautiful eyess!! beautiful lips... woow... i wanna meet youu!!! :D
Da Di lol thank you.
USNavy Guy hey man, I'm in Georgia too... let me take you out for coffee and hang out
I'm from PA as well, living in Pittsburgh now. I'm about to start the enlistment process in a week and I've been worrying about all the things you talk about. Thank you for the video and reassuring those of us who are scared out there!
Glad I could help! :)
I am really grateful to have had a chance to see this.
I don't think any video such as yours deserves negative comments. I greatly enjoyed listening to you.. Happy pride week/month/year!
I ship off for the Navy next April and this video was very helpful, I was curious on how it was but I'm glad it's not bad at all. Thank you very much
Thanks a lot for this I'm getting in DEP for the navy, 23 as well and that question was on my mind a lot, thanks for clearing the air a bit and giving some insight.
well i am gay in an algerian army.i am so happy for you americains that you get your rights of serving your cauntry liberaly without taking your orientation on consideration.with a hope to be changed in our cauntries we have to live our life secretly is just a coment but you are so good looking
I seriously wish everyone could feel as free as I do when it comes to who I am. :(
this is so gratifying, you have to be yourself, no matter what hurt you, maintain your head up and show the great person that you are.
hi From Dominican Republic.
I really needed this as ive spent 4 years not join cause i was afraid id be ridiculed for been gay... im 23 now and i leave for basic soon (finally) and im hopin every thing will be ok
I love Navy's Digis!!! The blue and black go so well together
Hey! Thank you for this video. I just joined the Air Force and it really helped out a lot and answered my questions. Hope all is well.
Thank you! Glad I could help!
Thank you for your courage in making this video.
I was in the AF in the early 80's before DADT.
Had a friend who disclosed his sexuality because his partner
was coming back stateside, and he got orders to leave.
He was discharged under less then honorable conditions.
Me I did the pretend game and kept a very low profile until
my term was up.
Didn't reenlist. Was always looking over my shoulder. and
was approached in
what they called witch hunts to out guys.
Glad that you can now be open with your sexuality.
Good Luck and hope your carrier is whatever you want it to
be.
Good video! I joined the Air Force outta H.S. in 2005 during DADT. I slowly started to notice most people I served with were alright with it. Nice to see stuff has changed a bit. Good luck with your Navy career man! Peace, Matt
Thanks for this video :) I'm a lesbian and I'm kinda worried about going into the Navy for this reason. You video gives hope that it'll be ok!
You'll be fine! 😊
Thank you for what you do for us! 😇🦋
I guess you're 25 now. But I think that is amazing and honestly you give the right meaning to life and keep it up!! Keep being adorable and sweet! Any guy that has your heart is one lucky guy!
Thanks for sharing this video! I go to bootcamp next week. It certainly gave me confidence.
Rudy Gutierrez Hope boot went well for you.
proper awesome. so glad your experience has been a good one. all the very best 👍
Great video. Thank You for your service Chris from a Fellow Veteran nof the Air Force.
Thank You so much for making these videos! I'm seriously considering joining and your videos have a been a huge help! :)
***** Ahh! I hope you find what you need in the Military or not!! Take what you can from if it you join! Thank you for watching! :)
Thank you for sharing this. I absolutely love your honesty and bravery! Hope to be a future Sailor one day. :)
Hey Chris. I have watched all of your videos. They are extremely encouraging and helpful. I am going to a recruiter next week to start my enlistment stuff. Thank you for sharing your experience, you really give a honest perspective into the navy. The shower thing is something on my mind as a gay man but your reaction definitely makes light of an awkward situation. Thanks for your service bud!
I'm so glad its been helpful!! :)
Thank you for your service and your bravery... lots of love from Oklahoma
I am about to join the Navy and I am gay as well. My sister tonight asked me if i was going to try and keep it under wraps and i told her fuck no. You definitely helped me get over my initial fears of being gay and in the military. Thanks for all your videos! i cant wait to serve my country!
Great video and great to know who you are. Great to know how thing are in you days. Please more!!!!!!!
Thank you, i'll try to keep this up a little more.
Thank you so much for this video, I'm currently waiting in DEP and watching this video has helped me out so much. I was very worried about what life will be like and you've helped out so much. Btw you are very handsome ;) lol
A brilliant and courageous video. Well done.
BEAUTIFUL FACE DUDE.. JESUS
I just discovered your videos tonight. Keep us informed of your progress.
Well im glad you discovered them! I will try!
Awesome video bro! Hope you post more!!
This is so amazing and incredibly inspiring. You're such an idol to the gay community and it's great seeing men and women who are openly serving for our country reaching out to the community and offering words of advice. Keep up the great work and I hope to see more videos from you(:
Thanks for the video!! Inspired!
It was amazing to see this video. Thanks for helping me!!!
Who would have thought a year and 1 day after this video was made that you would get equality. Congratulations, its people like you who have made this happen. Thanks Chris! Hope life is treating you well.
***** Thanks! It's pretty amazing!
I'm a Korean Canadian gay male sailor. I love the fact that America's military is coming around, its long over due! Thank you for your story! Canada open up full service to gay since the 1970s. DOMA on Canada was lifted in 2004 in Canada. Me and my husband been living on NAS Halifax since 2006. Canadian defense ministry encourage diversity and being who you are!
This was an amazing video, very inspiring! I'm sure it will help lots of people :)
Awesome video . Thank you . Really considering joining the navy , def was scared bout it but you def help out . Thanks chris
Bryan Lara thank you! I appreciate that a ton! Everything will be fine!
This helped me a lot! I leave for navy bootcamp in a week!
Lol you're funny! Your attitude is perfect. Being gay has nothing to do with your job and qualifications as a United States Sailor. You must understand that the Navy is a business, and those who serve in the Navy must act professionally at all times during working hours and on duty. Good luck with your Navy career!
George Nguyen Yes sir! Thanks!
Proud of you. Thank you for your service. I just wanted to say that I am surprised that you were bullied from elementary school to high school. You seem very cool, and are very masculine, why did the jerks bully you?
Great Video! You need to post more man!
I'm so glad I found this video. I have been tossing and turning on whether or not I should even contact the NR back, about my dreams of joining. Although, I've been "out" my whole life, and I'm flamboyant, the extra "bullying" and the fear of being "gay-bashed" has stifled my interest. In fact, it's really my one of my greatest fears. I have a question, or a few, though. You mentioned in a later comment that a lot of Navy (Men and Women) lose sight of why they joined the service. Why is that, do you think? And, why did you join? I want to join the education opportunities and to sea (get it!) the world. That and I want to challenge myself, both physically and mentally.
I think they lose sight of it because of the crappy side of it all. People just seem to lose motivation but some people dont. Hopefully you wont be one of those people! I joined for schooling, seeing the world, and to serve my country!
I’m gay and I swore into the navy not to long ago and I was really worried about what would happen since I am gay and going into the military so I thank you for this video it really helped and also thank you for your service
You're very brave for making this video, and I hope more people are inspired to do the same. USN!!
410creole aww thank you!
Just found your videos, Chris. First, so proud of you joining the Military. Your an honest up front guy, that is awesome. What is your job ? If you can say. Do you get to see your family much? Merry Christmas and have a Happy New Year. I have not checked yet, but hope you are still making videos. Love Ya, Hugs.
+Hugo Davenport in the army we wear a reverse color or subdued flag patch and foreign service badge (patch authorized if deployed whether combat arms or not) but Navy doesnt wear a flag on their blueberries. they have a limited number of accounterments outside of their name and branch which are all sewn on such as anchors/ships/tridents/ranks etc
Awesome video! That's really cool you can talk about it and give advice for others, super inspirational. Great job and good luck on your career in the Navy. Thank you for your service. You're cute by the way.
Codi Hogue Thanks!
Thank you for posting this! I wish I had joined when I was younger, but I wasn't very good at passing so I probably would have been discharged. Thank you for your service!
Hey Chris thanks for the video it was very helpful! Like you I am gay and I am leaving for basic training on September 24th for the USAF. I am very excited to go but like you I have had some concerns and questions with being gay in the military and haven't been able to find much online about it so thank you again for the video! I would love to hear any additional tips and suggestions you may have I know the showering thing was a concern. And I was also worried about stricter and more prejudice comments....I know you said most people are chill about it which makes me feel a little better. But it's still one of my fears.
Good video. Thanks for uploading.
Strongly considering joining the navy... Would pick your brain if you're comfortable with chatting.
Great video.. Helps to hear things first hand from someone.
Proud of you Chris and thanks for serving America. Looking forward to more video's from you. Joe, ex Army and proud gay man.
Hey, I'm also 23 and joining the army. I really relate to everything you're saying, and thanks for sharing your experience. You're so cute btw.
I really find your words inspiring
Nice video.You give alot being in the military monetary and the ability to make decisions on your own .Being told what to do not easy either but hope for the best..Your a nice person also..
Thank you for your service and this great video. After I graduated high school, I was so afraid to join the Navy due to my sexuality. I am a gay male, so I didn't know how they would accept me or if I would ever be accepted if I would have joined at that specific time. Let me tell you something, I did not join the Navy. Instead, I went off to college to do something I really didn't have a passion for. Everyone doubting yourself... Please do what it is you want to do and DO NOT let your sexuality hold you back. We need more positive people like you in our society. Thank you!
OUCH! So handsome and charming. I like the way your blue camo brings out your eyes. I hope the situation for you and other G/L servicemembers continues to improve, because change from the military filters into just about all aspects of society.
V Wade Thank you!
Hey Chris, great video, I'm also gay in the navy, and much like yourself, some of the folks I work with are very accepting about it. Stay strong brother. Semper Fortis, always strong 😊
Joseph Graham Good to hear!
Thank you so much! I'm joining the army pretty soon and didn't want to worry as much (btw your really handsome)
Hey Chris, I really appreciate this video....I served in the military (Army) back in the "Don't Ask..Don't Tell" era. So, if I wanted to come out...I couldn't! I joined literally right after high school. I wasn't out..at all. Hell, I wasn't even out to myself...lol. Wasn't until I was at my duty station that I went a gay club....what an eye opener! That night I met my first "gay" friend...Joel, a sexy Filipino guy, who could dance his azz off. Guess that's what initial drew me to him because I (still) am a dancer. We danced til 4am...then went to the local after hours hangout get breakfast and talk...that's I realized how kool he was, is, rather....25 yrs later, we still remain gud friends.... it all started that eventful night in Hawaii!! 😉😜 Oh, I forgot to mention that has four diamonds embedded into his front teeth...caught my eye as we were dancing...heheWell that's my coming out to myself story. Getting to know Joel opened my eyes to this whole new and exciting realm of possibilities....I had a lot of 'first' on that little island...😆
Thank you for this and thank you for your service.
Thank you for making this video. Thank you for your candidness. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for your service to our nation. Thank you for fighting for the rights that every American holds dear. Most of all that you for being you!
Thank you!
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO! It really did cheer me up when it comes to terms of being gay in the military. I'm currently planning to either enlist or do rotc for either Navy or Air Force. It's been a real struggle because I've been terrified about how people would react if they found out (military people in particular). I think I'd like to document my journey on whatever path I take but I do not know if I should omit the fact that I'm a lesbian even though its blindingly obvious. Should I or should I not say that I'm pretty fucking gay?
Great video Man.
You are amazing such a strong young man honest & brave just being who you are...big loves
I know this video has been posted for a while now, but I just saw it and it really helped me out a lot. I am currently awaiting my ship date and am actually scared because I am gay. I am open as fuck and not closeted, but I know that people and word gets around and I'm just scared that I won't make friends. It was hard for me in middle school because I was "different" and people didn't like me being different. Thank you for this video and giving me hope that it'll be okay!
This was helpful info for a relative of ours-thank you! Lastly, you made mentioned a few times about having ADHD. My understanding is ADHD may disqualified someone from enlisting in the Military if on medication. Could you share if this is so- and anything else that may help someone with ADHD enlist ?
you give me courage, a lot of courage. Thank you very much for this video, I'll try to be more visible such as I am. I hope to see you next video. Ihope to see you soon! George hello from Europe, Czech Republic - Prague!
You lov who you lov I'm not gay or les but as long as you are a good person it doesn't matter. I'm honored to watch and honored knowing good people like you keeping us safe. Carry on soldier. *Salute*
Thank you!
Thank you for your service. Don't listen to the haters and know that God loves you.. I haven't felt your struggles but you have an ally. Just remember that the measure of a good man is his courage and commitment to duty, not what he looks like and whom he loves. I hope you have a prosperous career and again thank you for serving.
I'm so happy to see that we can be open and serve now. I wish it would have been this way when I was younger and I would have served but back then I would have been kicked out. Not only that but I had a problem with serving my country and my country not looking at me as being equal to them. Anyway thank you for your service.
Thomas Crowley I wouldn't have been able to do it either!
You're a brave man and a great role model.
I met a lot of gay people in the spanish navy in Ferrol base, and they are all so brave and nice people. You too. Good video
Great video man👌
Nike Dude thank you!!
Nice video, please make more. Are you still in the military?
this guy is fine , funny, and definitely helpful
I was in 10 years before getting injured , I never actually told anyone I was gay BUT it seemed to be knowledge I was by I guess my views on certain subjects . Now that it is allowed that is AMAZING .
I commend you man! Big love and God bless bro! from Newport Beach,CA
Dae
Good video.There's so much more to life than one's sexual orientation.
Enlightening video! My fiancé just graduated from BMT and he is in the USAF. During graduation and the family weekend, he would introduce me as such and we were received very well for the most part. Still have a lot of concerns/ questions moving forward, such as living on base and what rights we have, but would you say that is changing? I know we've seen some instances
Good video. Thanks, Michael
stvdp thank you!!
Very proud of you and our young men and women serving our country.
Thank you! :)
I wanted to join the Marine Corps when I was 18. Actually I did but backed out just before getting sworn in. And why? Because of the fears you touched on. That was almost 40 years ago. Thanks for your service and thanks for having way more courage than I did.
Thank you for your time.
Roman Gonzalez Thanks!
Thanks for sharing your point of view, life is good 🤓
...nice to meet you, Chris...
+Hugo Davenport in army we have reverse flag on right pocket along with foreign service patch (if deployed) but with navy, their blueberries do not have adornments besides sewn on nametapes branch tapes anchor/ship/trident or rank, etc. no flag on blueberries
im leaving for the airforce in a couple months, you really inspired me.
Awesome! I inspired you? That's insane! Take everything you can from the military! :)
you are so cool! i love your videos.