FAIL - Fight Again In Life | Dr Tanu Jain | TEDxIIMAmritsar

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  • The journey of failure is not important; important are the lessons one can take away from it.
    Dr. Tanu is currently posted as Assistant Director in the Ministry of Defence. She has cleared Civil services in 2014. Dr. Tanu has authored two books for UPSC preparation. She is Passionate to help, guiding, and motivating young minds esp. civil service aspirants. She's also Associated with many NGOs and social organizations. Also, she's a Mock Interview panelist, speaker, writer, and thinker. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @rohitbhardwaj7132
    @rohitbhardwaj7132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    "Failure pain is not Painful than Regret pain." well said Mam

    • @PoojithaGandikota-is5uz
      @PoojithaGandikota-is5uz ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Failure pain will Carry some hours pain that is upto learn lesson in that but regret pain will carry some years....

    • @sreechithra5025
      @sreechithra5025 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ys that is corrct..

    • @nagmavadodiya6117
      @nagmavadodiya6117 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@PoojithaGandikota-is5uz yes absolutely right 👍🏻

    • @not_your_kareshiiii
      @not_your_kareshiiii ปีที่แล้ว

      "Choose your pain"

    • @RohitKumar-3M-u
      @RohitKumar-3M-u ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nagmavadodiya6117 Yes 👍

  • @Har7hiT
    @Har7hiT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    best example of beauty with brain 🤟

    • @Dear_SSC
      @Dear_SSC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jaya Kishori ji is best example of Beauty with brain 🧠

    • @nani6551
      @nani6551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Dear_SSC 😅

    • @weird9179
      @weird9179 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Dear_SSC she is fraud

    • @roman2424
      @roman2424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@weird9179 you ok dude?

    • @weird9179
      @weird9179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@roman2424 I am talking about jaya kishori not about jain mam she is the example of wisdom

  • @sujaygowda4358
    @sujaygowda4358 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    She is very inspiration to youths because she is not only talk about how to become IAS officer. She is talk about all the other angles to applicable for every person. It was amazing speech I ever seen. I saw this video around 6 to 7 times that much of inspirational for me thank so much Tanu mam and Tedx keep it up

  • @pavankalyan7480
    @pavankalyan7480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Last lesson superb : Don't Judge Yourself for one failure, or one thing...

  • @moonstarlakshmi9843
    @moonstarlakshmi9843 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    FAIL=Fight Again In Life
    What a word
    This word turns each and everyone's life

  • @kingofkings1198
    @kingofkings1198 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    " Pain of failure is better than pain of regret "
    This is the best line for me in this video because I have gone through this..

  • @TheBookOfSammy
    @TheBookOfSammy ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Love and respect for Dr. Tanu’s perspective.

  • @Dr.AnamitraRoy
    @Dr.AnamitraRoy ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I enjoyed every bit of this lecture. What has surprised me is that the speaker is a very successful person, still she has so much knowledge about failure.
    Best regards,
    Dr. Anamitra Roy.

  • @Harryharikrishna8055
    @Harryharikrishna8055 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    What an inspirational words mam...
    FAIL:- Fight Again In Life...👏

  • @matharasivellaisamy9684
    @matharasivellaisamy9684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Beauty with Brain .

    • @myginger
      @myginger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How old is she

    • @Thennarasusaritha
      @Thennarasusaritha 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

    • @ChinnaPandu96
      @ChinnaPandu96 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree with this statement ☺️

    • @nishanigam3363
      @nishanigam3363 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right 👍

  • @RashidAli-zx4jv
    @RashidAli-zx4jv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely correct for saying, The essence of being failure is nothing but Fight again in life.

  • @nagarajmurthy7782
    @nagarajmurthy7782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    More than everything,self esteem is important,people loose it unconsciously In the pain and of failure and lack of opportunities......

  • @nresh2176
    @nresh2176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Everyone sings songs of success but a few legends talks about importance of failure in life. 🤘👍

  • @sumasonle9901
    @sumasonle9901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm listening after I failed bank exams.... And some personal issues with my friend. Your talks help me so much to boost my confidence and continue my studies.

    • @dimpalpatel9685
      @dimpalpatel9685 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      English

    • @aanandshah1682
      @aanandshah1682 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      which bank brother

    • @Karai-ti
      @Karai-ti 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro

    • @Karai-ti
      @Karai-ti 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nivu inna bank exam try madthidira

  • @ChinnaPandu96
    @ChinnaPandu96 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am soo happy to see her face and voice and her face pull my sole from body ❤

  • @shubhashreesubramanian9917
    @shubhashreesubramanian9917 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Omg ! I feel y didn't i see this masterpiece earlier!!
    The way she said the regret of not failing enough just hit me hard ...
    Just fight again in life coz life is too long and beautiful

  • @pitmanshorthandmagicallang9148
    @pitmanshorthandmagicallang9148 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mam your speech is motivating the entire world. Golden words - failure is learning...learning to achieve success. Thank u so much Mam and to this channel 🙏🏻..

  • @Luminousideas
    @Luminousideas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Failures are master, it slaps you harder every time but eventually let you win 👏👏

  • @Positive.511
    @Positive.511 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "success is built by the bricks of failure" ❤❤

  • @MeerRabiya-mo7ls
    @MeerRabiya-mo7ls 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Failure is painful
    But ......
    Regret breaks heart

  • @poojatariyal5747
    @poojatariyal5747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Listening to your ted Talk session in new year Day is motivated me to fight again...

  • @FulDevi-mi5fi
    @FulDevi-mi5fi 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My favourite Real actress Dr. tannu jain Mam ❤❤❤ love you so much mam ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mlptkv7880
    @mlptkv7880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The proper person to be in a tedx❤️❤️❤️

  • @dhruvikoladia3586
    @dhruvikoladia3586 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    after hearing this talk it's feels like somebody as given words to my journey. Each word said by ma'am is so relatable that I want to keep hearing this again and again. Loved the video.

  • @GTUSTUDYMATERIAL-z6i
    @GTUSTUDYMATERIAL-z6i หลายเดือนก่อน

    (A Doctor , IAS Officer and founder of Tathastu ICS Institute)
    F: Fight
    A: again
    I: In
    L: Life
    1. Failure is a *social concept*
    (Society often lables us as failure or sucess but we should ultimately define our own worth )
    2. There is a *horizontal* aspect to life
    ( Balance of all areas like career, relationship, health,etc)
    3. There is a *vertical aspect* to failure
    (Not all failure are equal )
    4.we should not consider ourselves *failure* if we do not reach the peak
    5. We should *analyse* our failures.
    (Understand the reason behind our failures)
    6. The pain of *regret* to greater than the pain of failure.
    7. *Life is to big to judge ourselves on one event*

  • @yoursweetpie8
    @yoursweetpie8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a wonderful speech ma'am. You never fail to inspire us. FAIL: FIGHT AGAIN IN LIFE.

  • @GoluGoluAlam-sy6sl
    @GoluGoluAlam-sy6sl ปีที่แล้ว

    I,m very excited because of this lecture,Any person failed any exam as plz 🙏🏿 don't preduge and failure is first learning.Never give up

  • @sanjayjagtap9593
    @sanjayjagtap9593 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Respected Mam,You are having gods blessings,you are very intelligent,as well as beautiful,i used to see your IAS interview,even though i have crossed 55 ,i haven't to do anything, Keep on doing good work😊

  • @suryavlogs1469
    @suryavlogs1469 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There were a great explanation about the person who feels failure in life or in his profession

  • @durgesh1476
    @durgesh1476 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What a such a great line:- always do what you are best at ❤

  • @rajiblochankar6864
    @rajiblochankar6864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are a saviour for me, always your words charge me to do work hard for my dream,

  • @Luminousideas
    @Luminousideas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Failures are like salt which enhanced the taste of victory. Isn't it?💯

  • @u2studioandgiftszone802
    @u2studioandgiftszone802 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are a wonderful mentor, lady, and your speech is really inspiring.

  • @072s.murugesan2
    @072s.murugesan2 ปีที่แล้ว

    FAIL - Fight Again In Life 💫💥, wonderful abbrivation i have ever seen

  • @LaughingBuddhArul
    @LaughingBuddhArul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is just Glowing 🤗⭐✨

  • @bestudentwidme
    @bestudentwidme ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Essence of life told by ma'am. Huge respect

  • @mano6711
    @mano6711 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow🤩 what a marvellous speech & your speech is inspiration for all people especially me. Yes mam, You are point is 100 percentage agreed. Every one face failure in any situation .Some of them analysis improve their self to be better like Steve jas & Edison etc....but others going to negative feelings & simply avoid that and choose comfortable live in middle class people. Think like this FAIL is "Fight against in Life". Whenever I will face this FAIL I will remember this definition " Fight against in life" & it will give positive with my self. Thank you so much mam 👏👏👏.

  • @sushmasingh-k9d
    @sushmasingh-k9d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Words can change our life....great speech.

  • @chandanmishra9644
    @chandanmishra9644 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nicely said failure is acceptable but failure of regret is not acceptable.

  • @DeepakPatel-st5kn
    @DeepakPatel-st5kn ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad to watch this video when I already have realised the reality of life that life is a beautiful journey and we must not judge ourselves by one event of failure because that's the only way of learning... A lot goosebumps❤

  • @manarshan786
    @manarshan786 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is not just words; it's setting our blood on fire🔥

  • @ramakantapanda4402
    @ramakantapanda4402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Most relatable talk I found on tedex.Thank you mam

  • @tannupriya578
    @tannupriya578 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Right meaning of F A I L_fight again in life,Thank u very much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pavankarthikjalasuthram-bu1ll
    @pavankarthikjalasuthram-bu1ll ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you maam. I have been following your videos. They are truly inspirational.

  • @SumitSingh-uy3bp
    @SumitSingh-uy3bp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    l am inspired mam speech failure is successful but don't regret then ❤❤

  • @BowlingwithTennis
    @BowlingwithTennis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a learning of success❤❤❤❤

  • @VenusPositiveChannel
    @VenusPositiveChannel ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Appreciate your effort to teach a wonderful concept mam.... Truly your words add value to people.... Keep going mam all the best

  • @learnsomethingnew4090
    @learnsomethingnew4090 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got a superb and inspirational video.. i clicked this video only for learning English but i had no idea i learn more from this video not only english as well as speech and talking style or inspired me a lot...
    Thanks for this amazing speech

  • @szaiba7460
    @szaiba7460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Love her smile

    • @myginger
      @myginger 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old is she

  • @pavithranarayanan8348
    @pavithranarayanan8348 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I am from tamilnadu mam.. I have seen your interview videos.i have got so much inspiration from u.. I too failed in my upsc journey.. It's so hard to continue my path.. I missed my passion so much but i am not able to accept this failure..i don't know what to do hereafter.. If u see my comment that also my goodness..

    • @ASPIRANT07.
      @ASPIRANT07. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whats the Difference bw selection mark to your mark

    • @UPAKHOSALA
      @UPAKHOSALA ปีที่แล้ว

      chant HANUMAN Chalisa daily.
      u will never feel depressed.

    • @arasukkt8961
      @arasukkt8961 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      S

  • @kaarthik3775
    @kaarthik3775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tremendous speech ...Never quit learning

  • @deepakkumarparida8159
    @deepakkumarparida8159 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a fantastic life lesson class of Mrs Tanu Mam. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @prashantbetalwar7198
    @prashantbetalwar7198 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks ma'am for your valuable teaching 🎉

  • @jeenedramandloi4225
    @jeenedramandloi4225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Practically true 👌👌💐💐

  • @SadafShaikh-ym3pj
    @SadafShaikh-ym3pj 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I gave in knowledge your lecture failure so that good person in our life

  • @anjalisaini3306
    @anjalisaini3306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Tanu Jain madam 👍🙏🏿

  • @sunithamohan6232
    @sunithamohan6232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FAIL means
    Fight Again In Life👏👏..
    Thanq mam🙏

  • @Entertaining_World23
    @Entertaining_World23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    she is very englihtenment of knowledge and provide us to best motivation to succed in your life. her personaliy is magnificient

  • @shivani3478
    @shivani3478 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is both beauty with brain
    She is always morivate you❤

  • @tomc1266
    @tomc1266 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advise , I needed to hear it today 🙏

  • @579madhukorra8
    @579madhukorra8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything is in our way of mindest

  • @Farhan-1992
    @Farhan-1992 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    best example beauty with brain...❤❤

  • @shashijain5084
    @shashijain5084 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a lovely lady !!!!

  • @WayToAbroad123
    @WayToAbroad123 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely wonderful ..you are inspiring , love you.

  • @shelisinha9653
    @shelisinha9653 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such inspiring words ... The very words needed to boost my moral up.
    M gonna work hard on what I want to achieve

  • @monicarawat519
    @monicarawat519 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My inspiration ❤

  • @wearewarriors5613
    @wearewarriors5613 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything is possible ❤

  • @samiul55
    @samiul55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you so much mam for the knowledge you bestowed on the platform which helping us in many aspects 💞🙌.

  • @Roshan123-o3w
    @Roshan123-o3w ปีที่แล้ว

    Her smile is mind blowing

  • @KPWaranRich
    @KPWaranRich 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good example of Public Administration Model ❤

  • @athul2011
    @athul2011 ปีที่แล้ว

    she always speaks like a teacher ❤

    • @Foodlover30_
      @Foodlover30_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is a teacher now 😅

  • @KambariDeekshithaP
    @KambariDeekshithaP 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't judge yourself...... failure is first step

  • @BibleVachanBible
    @BibleVachanBible ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Acts 4 -10 then know this, you and all the people of Israel: It is by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified but whom God raised from the dead, that this man stands before you healed.

  • @karanwalanjkar6257
    @karanwalanjkar6257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such a beautiful life lesson ❣️

  • @aneeshmohanan3433
    @aneeshmohanan3433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Ma'am 🙏

  • @aakashjain2386
    @aakashjain2386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Literally wow! 🔥

  • @CADDSEEKHO
    @CADDSEEKHO หลายเดือนก่อน

    Failure is not pain but a ladder to climb up to reach your goal.

  • @rakshakulkarni2503
    @rakshakulkarni2503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The IAS interviewer!!! Oh damn...!

  • @NIteshKumar-dd1em
    @NIteshKumar-dd1em 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wonderful oration... And food for thought mantras...

  • @Ratherabrarupsc
    @Ratherabrarupsc ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best speech🎉

  • @reddy-h6x
    @reddy-h6x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The speaker reflects on the lessons learned from failure, emphasizing that failure is often a social construct. Society tends to label people as successes or failures based on external expectations, but only the individual has the power to define their own journey. Life is multi-dimensional, and success involves balancing various aspects-career, relationships, personal growth-rather than excelling in one area alone.
    The speaker also highlights that not all failures are the same. The effort and learning gained from pursuing a goal, even if it ends in failure, are valuable. True success comes from persistence and continuous learning, as exemplified by figures like Amitabh Bachchan, who turned early rejections into strengths.
    Further, the speaker advises to focus on personal strengths rather than pursuing paths dictated by others. Failure is painful, but regret-stemming from missed opportunities-is more painful. The key is to keep learning, even from failure, as it provides valuable insights for future endeavors.
    Finally, the speaker encourages not to define oneself by one failure or event. Life is long, and setbacks are part of a larger journey. Embrace failure as a learning opportunity and "fight again" with resilience and determination.

  • @Basavaraja_NT
    @Basavaraja_NT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Just loved it ❤️. Success and failures are equal measures 😍. Learning and experience matters!

  • @ritiksen2674
    @ritiksen2674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you maam

  • @dhirajjha5323
    @dhirajjha5323 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful speech put simply. Thank you Ma'am

  • @funnywalatag4440
    @funnywalatag4440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ohh great Mam
    Your English is so simple And understandable rather than a native speaker.
    🥰🙏🏻🌚

    • @sanjaiveeran44
      @sanjaiveeran44 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you know that mam

  • @ravindarmeka831
    @ravindarmeka831 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Care of beauty of mind🎉

  • @kamireddyrajasekhar8438
    @kamireddyrajasekhar8438 ปีที่แล้ว

    Self -trust is the first secret of success

  • @Lakshya123-r3w
    @Lakshya123-r3w 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    0:36 1:50 2:11 2:56 4:13 5:42 6:10 7:29 9:02 10:02 10:19 10:24 10:34 11:05

  • @Shankarlal-nz1et
    @Shankarlal-nz1et 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤🎉🎉 remember the best edition for your time 🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @buntymaan151
    @buntymaan151 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thnx 🙏 sharing your views and all mam.. thnx tedx...👍

  • @aryarao6801
    @aryarao6801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People striding for their passion is not a choice for everyone.
    Society dictates us to follow the current social convention, have a profitable job and get married according to your religion or cast many other things.
    To defy these social conventions and do things our way is the privilege only few people could afford. If they strike at the right time and right place then they will be successful then the society will acknowledge your success
    But if we fail then the criticisms will be massive and not many people could handle it well, this is why many people will stick to the usual social convention
    If we become failures by following the normal social convention then people don't criticise that much
    That's why people think it's safe to follow the crowd.
    I think many people will agree with me on this.

    • @lathavkumar5979
      @lathavkumar5979 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really its an agreable argument.I litterally loved the way u took to express this.And the people are judging us by social fronts and not by domestic front.and I feel why these people always expect ourself to be succeed in our life if her son is working in wipro..The most mysterious thing...

  • @Ppvlog897
    @Ppvlog897 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like it lecture mam

  • @superiorthoughts111
    @superiorthoughts111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FIGHT AGAIN IN LIFE ..... I LOVED IT, MAM

  • @abhijitbiswas7144
    @abhijitbiswas7144 ปีที่แล้ว

    After seeing this video I'll definitely consider myself as a fighter 😌

  • @abdullahalamin869
    @abdullahalamin869 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love u ma'am. I am big fan of u from Bangladesh.

  • @kalaiselviganesan2152
    @kalaiselviganesan2152 ปีที่แล้ว

    U Are My inspiration Mam...🤝🙏🏻

  • @Drew0Ranger
    @Drew0Ranger ปีที่แล้ว

    Beauty with brains!

  • @Banker_blessed1111
    @Banker_blessed1111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohm namah SHIVAY
    Thanks shiv for mentoring me❤

  • @gauravsahu3842
    @gauravsahu3842 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is a real beauty ❤

  • @yhwhtv4777
    @yhwhtv4777 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know why,I love you ma'am so much