Telling people you have Multiple Sclerosis

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  • @jenniferroshto7377
    @jenniferroshto7377 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have gone through lot of the things you mention here. Luckily I was already married with 3 kids when I was diagnosed or I don't know if I would have had all of them. The unknown is scary, but ignorance truly is bliss!
    My dad tells me the reason I'm so tired all the time is because I don't do any hard work to tire myself out and get a good night's sleep. My aunt tells me I could do this job, that job, she has lots of job ideas for me. If it wasn't for MS, I'd be a high school English teacher, something I worked my butt off getting twenty years after graduating HS, but my first symptoms showed up while student teaching, and I wasn't diagnosed for 1.5 years later.
    Another relative told me I needed to use my brain more because the brain is a muscle. When I told her, no... She insisted it was. Unfortunately my brain muscle has too many lesions to work properly because I don't do enough hard work, I guess!
    Sorry to vent. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Ive been taking Rebif injections 3x weekly and have had no new symptoms or changes on MRI for 8 years, but still have vertigo, balance issues, cognitive issues, extreme fatigue, etc, etc. 😇

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have similar symptoms taking rebif
      My husband wants to leave me
      No support except for my 2 kids n their narcissist father gets jealous if they help me😢

    • @jenniferroshto7377
      @jenniferroshto7377 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry you are dealing with this! Have you tried counseling? I'm thankful for my supportive husband, but MS has definitely strained our relationship. I have faith in God to help me through. 😘

  • @Dawncaller
    @Dawncaller 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was diagnosed with MS 2 months ago, and it was a pain in the arse to figure out what i had, i only had two flares, one was last year, that one basicly i woul have a spasm in my whole body in one side only, but i couldn't do mutch about it, it was like, literally every 2 to 5 minutes i would have a spasm in my body in one side for like 5 to 10 seconds.
    I was checked several times, did a bunch exams to everything, and well, everything was good and no one knew what i had, fast forward 1 month of half body spasms every 2 to 5 minutes and one day, i woke u and everything was fine.
    Just like that i had nothing.
    1 year later i felt like the spasm were about to come back (I could feel them coming) and i was taking my driver's license, so i stopped my lessons and yeah, surely, they came back, full body spasms again, but on the other side of the body, i went to the emergency again but this time, after checking a bunch of stuff and everything was fine, one doctor asked for a MRI scan, and i went and did it, when i came back from it i heard another doctor saying maybe it would be better to do a lombar puncture to be sure and i turned around and was like "well, if you wanna do it right now go ahead since i'm feeling good at the moment." well, little did i know what that was, anyway, i find the MRI worst, although that was very painfull, anyway, i took corticosteroid for like 5 or 6 days, but man, this year was way worst then the year before, i couldn't do anything, could barely get up, i couldn't eat by myself, my speech failed me every couple minutes, i got EXTREMELY tired all the time, i couldn't even take a shower by myself, i could not do anything alone, had to ask my lovely wife to cut my food, my hand coordination was terrible, i wouldn't be able to type all this like i am doing, could not type on my phone, sometimes i was swallowing and i felt like, my tongue would push the food downwards but it was just stuck there because my muscles did not work, sometimes i wanted to get up but my legs didn't work, again, my leg muscles just did not work, i got fecal urgency, i got a slight urinary incontinency, it was just terrible, absolutly terrible, when i heat up a bit my vision got blurry and the spasm would come back with the speech problem, i had psychosis, i heard and saw stuff that was not there, not happening, again, just terrible i am almost back to 100% again, but i realised that the vision in my right eye is bad, i think this will be permanent, but we will see how it goes, and honestly alot more, i have so many symptons i could actually make a pretty considerable size list of them.
    I am 30 years old by the way, and apparently this is a bit unusual, specially for my age.
    So yeah, just found out about this, apparently i have a pretty active case of MS, i am already on Ocrelizumab and yeah, i guess we will see how it goes, currently watching videos and learning about MS so, thank you.

  • @lifewithjenniferb
    @lifewithjenniferb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No too many people know. The only reason I don’t tell people as it’s hard for me to answer their questions and I still get a little choked up talking about it. Also, I don’t like hearing all the medical advice from non-doctors, like “you should just exercise and eat better”, which for sure plays a MAJOR part, but mentally for me, it’s a monster to deal with. I should talk about it more with people but I feel no one really gets it unless they get it.

    • @m.sletstalk8500
      @m.sletstalk8500  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its so true, if they don't have to deal with it they don't understand. I get that, I struggle with the same thing. So then I'm just quiet about it a lot.

  • @dscott2387
    @dscott2387 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes it is exhausting having to explain all the details again and again

  • @Chelle0729
    @Chelle0729 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for posting your videos and giving others who don't have multiple sclerosis a little understanding of this disease. I was diagnosed December 2022

  • @shannonciaramella7599
    @shannonciaramella7599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hell yes.... speak it.... amen this video hit home so much thank you

  • @heyvg
    @heyvg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this. They just found I have lesions in my spinal column and have suspected ms for years. I’m about to have a spinal tap, I am scared about that pain but ready to find out for certain and move on down the road. I appreciate your video and you.

  • @Chelle0729
    @Chelle0729 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I do want ask, the more ocrevus infusions you have? Do you feel better? I'm on ocrevus as well

  • @lifewithjenniferb
    @lifewithjenniferb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every little weird feeling puts me on edge as I start to worry about if something’s about to happen.

    • @m.sletstalk8500
      @m.sletstalk8500  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LITERALLY!!! Omg yes, if I feel anything out of the norm..which what is normal anyway. I start to panic a bit

    • @Sabba4life
      @Sabba4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

  • @bestnana66
    @bestnana66 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know how i came upon your channel, but im glad. I know this video is 3 years old, but im wondering how you are now. I hope you are well! Thank you for sharing

  • @roadrunnerfromhh3162
    @roadrunnerfromhh3162 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your videos. Best from Franziska from Germany

  • @AndreaNeubrand-x7v
    @AndreaNeubrand-x7v 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for posting! I have a hard time with taking a shower especially if I have to wash my hair. It totally wipes me out. I only do makeup now then I go somewhere which doesn’t happen very much. I used to be so active, totally into bodybuilding, on my feet all day and enjoying it.

    • @Christianna271
      @Christianna271 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same! If I have a shower and wash my hair, I have to lay down on the floor for a good while after. It's exhausting. I also used to compete in body building and am thankful for the skills and knowledge I gained about exercise and nutrition to help deal with this. However, it sucks to be so much weaker now. MS is a rough ride!

  • @quansue1480
    @quansue1480 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've had it for 16 years my I told all my friends and family that I had it

  • @skatinginfloridamyself5181
    @skatinginfloridamyself5181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry, you and I have so much in common. I used to Roller Skate and I was the best Skater in the United States and I have proof of that on a DVD I as well was a Cosmetologist.

    • @m.sletstalk8500
      @m.sletstalk8500  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s such a hard change, adapting to this new way of life. I’m so sorry to hear that for you too. How are you? I haven’t made a video in a while and maybe today is the day. I have been feeling better with the meds but going through crazy mental/emotional up and downs more then before. I reached out to my neurologist to see if that’s normal. Other then maybe it’s just the wholes in my brain that have been damaged causing me to feel crazy. Idk

  • @mykamorgan5287
    @mykamorgan5287 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just confirmed yesterday that I have ms. I’m not for sure if I want to tell anyone yet.

  • @lifewithjenniferb
    @lifewithjenniferb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh yeah, another great TH-camr is Damian Washington, his channel is now called No Stress MS. He has videos going all the way back to his first Ocrevus infusion. His videos really give a full view of the infusion process.

    • @m.sletstalk8500
      @m.sletstalk8500  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Than you!! I will definitely check him out. I plan on doing a live or something day of infusion too just so people see the process and maybe help understand what we deal with.

  • @Superchick.Marie777
    @Superchick.Marie777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where are you now friend? I have RRMS and just found you! I pray you’re ok!

  • @scmassa
    @scmassa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said

  • @dscott2387
    @dscott2387 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not everyone who has ms has someone to fall back on. Once your sick it seems people slowly disappear

  • @candice1152
    @candice1152 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!