Relationships and MS - Spouse or Partner Perspective

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 มิ.ย. 2024
  • What’s it like being in a relationship with someone with multiple sclerosis (MS)? In this video I interview my husband/spouse/partner Steve to get the partner perspective on how it is living with someone with MS. I ask him questions provided by my viewers. We chat about MS and relationships, support the spouse provides, and support the partner or spouse needs.
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ความคิดเห็น • 39

  • @EvenSoItIsWell
    @EvenSoItIsWell  ปีที่แล้ว

    What other questions do you have about being a spouse or partner of someone with MS or chronic illness?

  • @seinawhite4400
    @seinawhite4400 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A huge thank you goes out to both of you. Thank you to your husband so much for speaking it was great for my spouse to hear another man. It help to really open up the communication line in a deeper sense about MS. Your husband gets a gold star for his time, thank you. 🎉❤😊

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much! I will give him that gold star!

  • @tinabrickley8157
    @tinabrickley8157 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think both of you are such wonderful people and I love to see how health conscious and mindful you both are about your eating habits and how they affect your health. I also love your philosophy and how you approach life's challenges together and support each other so much. You both have a wonderful, positive attitude and I appreciate your both sharing.

  • @NostalgicHime
    @NostalgicHime ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a person who has begun dating someone with MS, your channel and this video have been very insightful.
    It's nice to know that many of my concerns are validated, but there's also an opportunity to live a normal and healthy life. Living on the present is much better than fretting for a future that has yet to happen. Communication is definitely key. So let's see how it goes.
    Thank you so much for the work you both do ❤

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much for watching. Yep, communication and living in the present definitely help us.

    • @saiyaramumin7495
      @saiyaramumin7495 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wonderfully said

  • @lemonpeelangelfish
    @lemonpeelangelfish ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aww you’re such a lovely couple - can feel the love and support! Thank you both x

  • @ernietollar407
    @ernietollar407 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a beautiful video!
    Possibly the most uplifting video I've seen, and I've watched 100's since my PPMS diagnosis.
    Beautiful couple. Thank you both.

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aw, thanks Ernie! Steve says thanks too!

  • @abio.195
    @abio.195 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing Steve 🎉

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  ปีที่แล้ว

      He says “My pleasure.” Thanks for watching.

  • @MysticalDreamFire
    @MysticalDreamFire 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Married 25 years been together over 30+ as well
    I think we also view things in the present.
    I also got diagnosed with a very large brain tumour which was found while looking for MS in 2021. Brqin surgery has progressed my MS alot. However I still support others with MS and run the MS Canada chapter near us.
    I find taking it each day at a time, because MS is always there, when I wake up till I go to bed. I knew I had MS way before I was diagnosed.
    Eachday brings new changes into our lives, some days better than others.
    I would say it has for sure made me think more about myself and what I need in my life.
    Meeting others with MS has been a blessing as well.
    Also found 1 or 2 others whom also had a brain tumour because of MS. It's very rare.
    I thank you both for being so open as i will share this video with my hubby. I strive to be that way as well, as it does come naturally often to me.

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for watching. Sounds like we have very similar philosophies on living with our conditions. Best to you and your hubby.

  • @DrBrandonBeaber
    @DrBrandonBeaber ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video Vickie. Cheers to another 30 years.

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Dr. Beaber! We make a great team.

  • @JB-pd4ni
    @JB-pd4ni ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so happy you two have each other, and trying to stay in the present sounds wise. Thanksfor sharing this.

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching. Living each day to the full!

  • @DoctorGretchenHawley
    @DoctorGretchenHawley ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this! What a great way to hear from "the other side"🧡

  • @dnjmcdonald1506
    @dnjmcdonald1506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video. Thank you for sharing your husband.

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are welcome! I am happy to share.

  • @colormeinfluenced6997
    @colormeinfluenced6997 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Video. How did I not know your name was Vicky?!

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching! I don’t always say my name in my videos. 😉

  • @kathleendonahue5955
    @kathleendonahue5955 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I also have MS and my husband went to Bates college
    I was a massage therapist before, and I help diagnose myself.

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How funny! We have similar lives. Do you ever get back to Bates? We go to reunion every 5 years.

  • @amandawhite4143
    @amandawhite4143 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful. You two are so lucky to have each other. My husband is in denial and just doesn't understand. It's always I'm fine I'm just lazy and nothing is wrong with me. He says he will never believe it because I look fine and I'm not physically disabled. 🥺 He does go to my neurologist with me and does see what the heat does to me. Do you have a video that could explain this for someone like that to better understand?

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for watching. I am sorry your husband is struggling to understand. That can be so frustrating. It can be very hard to explain. I will think about a video on this topic! Keep trying to keep the lines of communication open!

  • @sabirahraqib8666
    @sabirahraqib8666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hope you do a video on plant base food. I not a good cook and do not love vegetables. I need help and suggestions on how to cook vegetables

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching! I have done some videos on recipes and food and will do more in the future. You can find them in this playlist th-cam.com/play/PLOsqG9hDm0Gfb2-kw83xkg293_rmaxHRF.html

  • @tinabrickley8157
    @tinabrickley8157 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What kind of doctor diagnoses MS? I have been having some symptoms I have been wondering about.

  • @kathleendonahue5955
    @kathleendonahue5955 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Do you folks have children ?
    Since you never mentioned it I’m guessing no.
    Just curious.

    • @EvenSoItIsWell
      @EvenSoItIsWell  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes! We have a son and daughter and two grandchildren!

    • @kathleendonahue5955
      @kathleendonahue5955 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@EvenSoItIsWell that’s cool! Thank you for sharing. I’ve been married for 21 years and diagnosed with MS for 20 years we also have two children together.