Top 5 Reasons Why Your Erection Leaves During Sex

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  • @p.kgaming6838
    @p.kgaming6838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Thanks for knowledge sir appreciated your work

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks and welcome

    • @TheBully010
      @TheBully010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BrianAyers23 Yo, bro I overheated in this summer while having sex. I cooled down then went back at it. because the AC didn't work properly. Is that normal?

    • @selwynsmith7956
      @selwynsmith7956 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too much sugar in the diet

  • @AAMM101
    @AAMM101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    Sex is a mental thing too. Your mind and your member are connected. If she's not your type or if she has the wrong attitude in bed (toxic, belittling, demanding.. etc) or she does something that turned you off..your member will be turned off too.

    • @Damedra4u
      @Damedra4u ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I can't say enough, how true this is... This is very very true

    • @MichaelRobertsreloaded
      @MichaelRobertsreloaded ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sounds like a diagnosis of my problem

    • @BIGSuperstar-or4vx
      @BIGSuperstar-or4vx ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🎯

    • @sureimhappy
      @sureimhappy ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It’s 90% mental for me, lol.

    • @blkbrand
      @blkbrand ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

  • @lukevic3051
    @lukevic3051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    Stress is number one problem.

    • @zibrildelaine7189
      @zibrildelaine7189 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So true

    • @charlesfountain3946
      @charlesfountain3946 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Its the wife who wont let the man be a man to satisfy... Unless it meets her expectations... So she deserves what she ain't gonna get..

    • @deuceswild6350
      @deuceswild6350 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happened to me. I thought about killling my self. I’m like I was a sex magnet all my life and at 41 my shit left in like yooooo…glad I’m the only one ain’t suffering. For the culture.

    • @TAJSINGH88
      @TAJSINGH88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@zibrildelaine7189 is true but working out will help

    • @tommypearson9260
      @tommypearson9260 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Anxiety and Stress Bro

  • @weakweek85
    @weakweek85 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I’ve had this issue often for nine years. I think it’s been a combination of low testosterone, obesity, and being in a bad marriage.

    • @oluakinwale4859
      @oluakinwale4859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You mentioned some of them.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve struggled with getting hard or keeping it! That’s why I seen two different urologist! One put me on cileas! Those took away my optic nerve! All I have is my prefer!! The other had me try those shots ! It’s not sexy to ask my wife to jab my penis to get hard! Not sexy

    • @GarenteedTires
      @GarenteedTires ปีที่แล้ว +20

      bad marriage would do it to you

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +16

      A bad marriage in particular can lead to relationship ED in the worst way. The marriage can lead to eating bad food which amplifies everything else. If you are going to stay married what are you going to do differently?

    • @really8930
      @really8930 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If you are overweight you may have diabetes or pre-diabetes. This is a disease that tends to affect blood circulation and the strength of flow blood to the penis. Affects elections.
      There are cures. But you would help yourself immensely by losing weight, intermittent fasting, cutting down sugar (ie fruit juices, white flour products, dairy products) and eating mostly:
      - green leafy vegetables
      - oily fish (wild salmon, mackerel)
      - okra
      - nuts (unsalted)
      - avocados

  • @pennypablo1268
    @pennypablo1268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Happened a few times, was diagnosed with prostate cancer.Glad to be alive 5 years later.

    • @matthewtonna1
      @matthewtonna1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Get well soon 🤞

    • @YTMMS-hy6mz
      @YTMMS-hy6mz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You still alive?

    • @pennypablo1268
      @pennypablo1268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@YTMMS-hy6mz Still batting almost 7 years later after surgery.

    • @aaronhenny
      @aaronhenny 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pennypablo1268 u good

    • @pennypablo1268
      @pennypablo1268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@aaronhenny Yes I

  • @TheMontbry59
    @TheMontbry59 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    This happened to me 2 nights ago. Fortunately, I didn't panic because I had done some research. I just inserted myself and started kissing her. Through all that passion, I was focused on her and my friend showed again.

    • @bethanyray6316
      @bethanyray6316 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stuffed her..

    • @oluakinwale4859
      @oluakinwale4859 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There was a reason.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I did that too! Sometimes it’ll work ‘ sometimes it doesn’t

    • @wilsonfisk4741
      @wilsonfisk4741 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is your man squeeze ugly cause that'll fo it too ,??

    • @saranyuvi5539
      @saranyuvi5539 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Any pro tips

  • @syedaliabidi1346
    @syedaliabidi1346 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Stress and performance anxiety is the number 1 problem which often gets mixed up with ED when ED is not the problem

  • @dave1d.
    @dave1d. ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Don’t underestimate the effect of porn in bed. Fellow gentlemen leave porn and masturbation it gives you a false narrative of what real sex should be like

  • @TommyVercetti187
    @TommyVercetti187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Seriously running everyday and kegals. Also, lift some weights and you’ll be fine. It takes abt a solid month to see the results of your hard work, but seriously do it and you’ll be rock hard slangin pipe. Additionally, the details in the video are very pertinent as well. Heed this man’s word, but make sure you RUN HARD!

    • @JohnnyReb1976
      @JohnnyReb1976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Don't go too crazy running. It increases cortisol levels, which is a testosterone killer.

    • @diegogeneral1217
      @diegogeneral1217 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🏃🏿‍♂️💦💦💦💦💦 I run loads

    • @derickgaius8525
      @derickgaius8525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you still have sex during nofap like about in the 4th day?

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 ปีที่แล้ว

      I walk as much as o can’ i lift weights every day ! I’ll do some pelvic exercises! It’s not working! I believe it’s my blood flow Or my 29% clogged arteries

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I used to run everyday up to 17 miles! All kinds of races! Then I got arthritis in my hip! I needed surgery

  • @malbcrazy3697
    @malbcrazy3697 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Brother, I don't know how I stumbled on this video. I'm so glad I did. I've had this issue throughout my 40s, and it sucks. Thank you for the information.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so glad I could help. if you don't mind my asking, which one of the challenges are you experiencing and for how long?

    • @malbcrazy3697
      @malbcrazy3697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @BrianAyers23 Thanks for responding. With my girlfriend, I get anxious during intercourse. If I'm not performing well at a moment, I'll lose interest. Once that starts, the erection is over. I'm good for the first three minutes, then it goes down hill after that.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What is your number on the sexual performance scale? This will better help me to assist you with a plan.

  • @ShinOwen2
    @ShinOwen2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Thank you! I don't have any problems, but knowledge is power. Thank you Mr Uncle B!!

  • @samdzveta6552
    @samdzveta6552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    One guy telling the truth

  • @sebastianjones2014
    @sebastianjones2014 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Most erection problem is psychological, and thats what i found. I am person who has sex, maybe 6 days out of the 7 days of the week. And we go nothing less than 3 rounds. One day i was so tired and it was giving trouble, and i got worried, and i realized that all i needed was rest. Some times its the mental part

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True that!

    • @EdwardoR-fu4yn
      @EdwardoR-fu4yn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel like that same thing is happening to me because In like November 25th thru December 11th we would go like 3-2 time a day through that time frame an now I just can’t get up fully outta no where n she starting to think my thing not attracted to her which I don’t get that I think I just need a break bc my body isn’t even into it atm still

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I believe you have to optimize your body's stamina. Commit 3 to 4 times a week in the gym. Drop all habits like alcohol or smoking (if you smoke) and especially sugar in any form (This will ne be easy because sugar is in everything). Also, try to get as much green food and less meat in your diet. Do these things and keep us posted on your results.

  • @PlayZGamer
    @PlayZGamer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I can't thank you enough for what you're doing. I'm serious, this knowledge is so helpful and encouraging it's damn near heroic of you to put your wisdom out there. Thank you so much for this channel and this content. I really mean it.

  • @calebcicero7727
    @calebcicero7727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    not even gonna lie there’s times i’m super into it and i’m enjoying myself but just out of no where i go soft and idk why

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Go through the library of TH-cam videos, you have a very good chance of finding a solution there.

    • @jayw2798
      @jayw2798 ปีที่แล้ว

      have you got your blodo test done?

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jayw2798 I seen two different urologist! Neither had me tested! Just had me tr stuff! Like cileas! Now o lost my optic nerve vision

    • @ZeroGHome24
      @ZeroGHome24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@jayw2798 what's a blodo test my guy?

    • @creativ3vision
      @creativ3vision ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZeroGHome24Testosterone lvls.

  • @lilproto9876
    @lilproto9876 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your explanation makes a lot of sense chief. Bless.

  • @dextermathura1946
    @dextermathura1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Is almond milk better to use..

  • @heykrazy5436
    @heykrazy5436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I believe it does help. I honestly think the 4 play does work and just thinking about the person your with has helped me alot

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for sharing Jake From State Farm! What kind of pants do you have on LOL?

    • @heykrazy5436
      @heykrazy5436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@BrianAyers23 ehhhhh......khakis?

  • @jefbiggs1583
    @jefbiggs1583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Some of the best tips I've ever heard in one video

  • @KhalidElBadar
    @KhalidElBadar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😢😢😢 men go through the hardest things in life but when things go will we have the best times

  • @ad2858
    @ad2858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thinking of buying African Fly...is it accessible in India.

  • @philipm.bjimmy5402
    @philipm.bjimmy5402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Uncle B, thanks for the teaching for this has been for many of us but your teaching helps a lot

  • @richhaseltine646
    @richhaseltine646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I always enjoy your videos. Thank you.

  • @aadmonishmentt8467
    @aadmonishmentt8467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Uncle B another great video, makes me glad I subscribed!!!

  • @MichaelRobertsreloaded
    @MichaelRobertsreloaded ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is exactly my present situation. It makes me feel so bad. My mind wants to go long but I just can’t keep up. My private will just die like something was switched off

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now you know, so make that change!

    • @magicmedia7950
      @magicmedia7950 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she is proberbly giving you pressure to perform

    • @simonpierre6716
      @simonpierre6716 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just get a viag

  • @sneakybidder4584
    @sneakybidder4584 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It happened to me once , I couldn't tell her why because it was her weight 😂 needless to say it never happened again after I figured out my weight limit 😂 sad but true

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You have to be transparent to yourself first! What is your height and weight limit?

    • @gamworldworldwide673
      @gamworldworldwide673 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sneakybidder4584
      @sneakybidder4584 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @BrianAyers23 170bls is my limit , anything over that transfers me to softtown, I'm 165 lbs myself and a woman who weighs as much as my grandmother is a major turn off. Don't give me wrong, I love my grandmother but I can never picture myself with a women her size.

    • @lethal1415
      @lethal1415 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sneakybidder4584😂😂

    • @WWambition
      @WWambition ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @pontiacGXPfan
    @pontiacGXPfan ปีที่แล้ว +16

    stress, exhaustion or anxiety. post-nut clarity is a thing

    • @Mikegee63
      @Mikegee63 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Especially if you think you might not have pulled out in time!!!😂

  • @sedrickgranger428
    @sedrickgranger428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you take African fly if you take high blood pressure meds?

  • @mbembajaiteh8334
    @mbembajaiteh8334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    African fly where to buy

  • @jesusaviles1909
    @jesusaviles1909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was really worried dude, but I just so happened to do everything you’re not supposed to do in one day

  • @mandlakubheka5129
    @mandlakubheka5129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I experience this currently, and tell me what causes inflamatory deseases and how to avoid them

  • @gieanmossmann3942
    @gieanmossmann3942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes it happen to me am still recovering I had to quit coffee it gives me anxiety , I practice meditation to reduce anxiety

  • @JamesRao-e2u
    @JamesRao-e2u 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks, very understandable, like that you hit on mental part.thinking can kill ..ur good 👍

  • @ahbghab2535
    @ahbghab2535 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks 👍 a lot. I just subscribed. Good info. Kudus man. 👍

  • @michaelrooney2216
    @michaelrooney2216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really appreciate you and your channel great advise as always thank u

  • @seansmiley345
    @seansmiley345 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    UnC you just hit upon everything I know about my mind and body and also my partner connection !

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am glad I could help!

  • @johndavis6719
    @johndavis6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm currently going through this situation stress and bills are stressing me out right now.

  • @controlavirus9839
    @controlavirus9839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Easy to say don’t get stressed. But when your lady is like, “what is wrong with ME?” and no matter what I say to her she still thinks something is wrong with her Now that crap stresses me out. Then the next time I’m constantly worried that it’s gonna happen again. Then I get super stressed. Then repeat

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Keep your stress low and relax.

  • @heatley1
    @heatley1 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m never taking my socks off ever again!

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOL. Don't take it too far!

    • @heatley1
      @heatley1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BrianAyers23 I still haven’t now it’s like good luck lol

    • @malwinterjer6753
      @malwinterjer6753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂

  • @CTDisqoTeck78
    @CTDisqoTeck78 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Outstanding video post, I appreciate your advice.

  • @albertoomar819
    @albertoomar819 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If she stresses you out. Your Winnie will be disappointed! Our Winnie does have feelings also. Don’t let them tell you otherwise

  • @netxzero3993
    @netxzero3993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just came across this and definitely i learned something. Sugar and weight kills it.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How would what you learned help in your personal life?

  • @ibeonu913
    @ibeonu913 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for this. the Diet one really caught my eye! I had similar problems which i didn't understand but I found out after drinking water i don't really have erection problems during sex

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Which diet got your attention?

  • @YassDavid
    @YassDavid 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alcohol thins out your blood not good for blood flow, also magnesium helps out with testosterone level. Being hydrated also helps out a bunch.

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the craziest part! I don’t smoke nor drink! I gave up fried food too! And soda! I was eating burgers and pizza for years! I just now gave them up! I actually switched over to plant based ! Recently

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you tell the difference?

  • @vherlekar
    @vherlekar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many Thanks, "African Fly" !! ♥🙏

  • @YamamotoKazuo
    @YamamotoKazuo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He's right about the meal part. When you are full less than 3 hours before sex you do get drastically weaker than normal.

  • @diegogeneral1217
    @diegogeneral1217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I beg to BLOODY differ am not at my hardest in the morning I prove this over and over . I don’t know 🤷🏿‍♂️ maybe it’s the woman but early morning not for me

  • @jaykatalina3727
    @jaykatalina3727 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely good advice definitely learned a lot the eating n drinking definitely a lesson I never new

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh yeah. When it comes to your erections there is a lot to know.

  • @Rio522Bass
    @Rio522Bass ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aye. Where might I find some of that “tAbacco” it sounds like it is good.

  • @nazzsharma9010
    @nazzsharma9010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    GREAT video, thank you!

  • @emel1706
    @emel1706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you send me a link for that African fly please . I want to try it

  • @thepresence2095
    @thepresence2095 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Then what can you eat every food causes a level of inflammation, or should you dive in fasting?

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fasting is the the solution for inflammation.

  • @RoninJoegenji0085
    @RoninJoegenji0085 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative information just subbed. Thank you. I'm learning a lot.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for joining. I am curious, what do you find most interesting?

    • @RoninJoegenji0085
      @RoninJoegenji0085 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @BrianAyers23 well the details that wasn't really elaborated on in school. You broke down the natural science of men. How detail an memory plays a part. You talked about things I just didn't think of.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am glad I could help!

  • @MrDavidoriol
    @MrDavidoriol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    shit I only need to hear the word sex and I'm ready 3 to 5 time per day that's me at 34 age the key is to make sure you have to right woman

  • @silvernblack8317
    @silvernblack8317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for the knowledge more mental boost

  • @henrykoroma9120
    @henrykoroma9120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Uncle B, pls one quick question with the alcohol issue. Are you saying give it up altogether or don’t drink some before sex. Really appreciate ur advices! Thanks

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For the short-term, don't drink before having sex. For the long-term stop all alcohol drinking.

    • @henrykoroma9120
      @henrykoroma9120 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BrianAyers23 Thank u so much uncle B🙏🏾

  • @tomgregory7479
    @tomgregory7479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tom Gregory how do you use African fly for it'll work properly. I lost a lot of wait still try to get a 6 pack .still not performing. Help!

    • @athreeboy2700
      @athreeboy2700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go see a doctor

    • @seckoya
      @seckoya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤔

    • @seckoya
      @seckoya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Try to detox your system first. Then try again. Less starchy food more water fruits and vegetables. Basically change up diet all together. As we get older our body can't accept the process and junk food anymore. To do a full detox fast for like 24 hours then start drinking apple cider vinegar with water to dilute the taste then process that for at least 2 weeks then start trying the African fly again.

  • @youngenola1394
    @youngenola1394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Uncle B! I live in China, how can someone get the African fly?

  • @pauldiaz4273
    @pauldiaz4273 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best advice on youtube! Thanks 🙏

  • @datkiddjophat4290
    @datkiddjophat4290 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u for the information

  • @robertdore9592
    @robertdore9592 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Another way to help performance is to left HEAVY weights at least twice a week.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lifting heavy is one of the best ways to increase testosterone!

  • @sifisomshengu2616
    @sifisomshengu2616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Brian do you have a video about Circumcised VS Uncircumcised sensation? ??

  • @shadreckkmuwanga50
    @shadreckkmuwanga50 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    men your guide really worked am great full

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am grateful that the guide was helpful!🙂

  • @nelsonoliveira1007
    @nelsonoliveira1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just started Shock Wave Therapy this week and am going with 6 treatments to see how it does. I have been having problems the last 10 or 15 minutes like being in 7 inning and not getting to 9 with a homerun. Cialis works great but willing to try this Shock Wave Therapy and see how it works out. Usually 6 sessions will do it and willing to add more if needed. Most guys start with 12 sessions. I think I only need 6. I should know within 1 to 2 months.

    • @chrisadams7820
      @chrisadams7820 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did it help!

    • @nelsonoliveira1007
      @nelsonoliveira1007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chrisadams7820 Yes. I noticed after my second session. The way you notice is morning wood but it happens all night. They say you should go in after 2 years for a few more. I agree with this theory. I'm going back in August for 2 sessions. Made a big difference for me. Feels like 20 mg Cialis all the time. I'm 57 and feel like I'm 20. Lol

    • @deerose2335
      @deerose2335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you get into shock therapy and where should I start

    • @nelsonoliveira1007
      @nelsonoliveira1007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@deerose2335 See if Shock Wave Therapy is available in your city. It's been 2 years and still 90% effective. They say to go in for a few extra sessions after 2 years . I still recommend it.

  • @jhonsmith2150
    @jhonsmith2150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was a good vid, keep up da good work! For me its mind over matter, once n a blue moon 🌙 it happens to me, n i jus take a Quick break an breath sip alil water let my girl no, n things come bck quickly, an im da man after wrds 💪👏👌👍😉😎

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love that! Thanks for sharing Mr. Smith!

  • @zeebest1004
    @zeebest1004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never had that problem, until now!

  • @durell1986
    @durell1986 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pelvic floor health is a big issues most men don't know about

  • @ranhat2
    @ranhat2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great tips and plenty of.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @SonicBoomC98
    @SonicBoomC98 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a lot of good information, but I've been reviewing a lot of research that says red meat might not have the negative effects that we think. I have been with some that I'm ready to go whenever, but with others I have to do the kissing and foreplay. The break can be helpful. I will look into some of these supplements

  • @MichaelLuken-i2g
    @MichaelLuken-i2g ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is African fly

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good question, go to africanfly.com.

  • @aigotala2946
    @aigotala2946 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It happened to me and I increased the duration of foreplay and it returned and very harder. Then we did it

  • @Cheeeseyk
    @Cheeeseyk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I had a situation to where a guy blamed me for him not having a erectile dysfunction 🤦‍♀️

    • @kddalivest2340
      @kddalivest2340 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It could’ve been the case. Maybe something you did or said turned him off, but he still tried to hit but his jimmy wasn’t in agreement wit it. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @education654321
      @education654321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea sometimes women are a turn off but guys don’t have sex as much so he tried to bust a n.t

    • @ZeroGHome24
      @ZeroGHome24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sometimes it's just the fact that he's so embarrassed that his piece is failing him, that it's easier shifting the blame.

  • @diegogeneral1217
    @diegogeneral1217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    STRESS that’s why no one tell me nothing or there’s not much foreplay, not much fire 🔥 in the belly 🧐😀

  • @hix9306
    @hix9306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Never had this issue now I get anxiety before and during and it’s hard to relax not present at all . I don’t think about sex like I use to . 32 years old

    • @jayw2798
      @jayw2798 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      it happens as we age man. we arent 18 year old jack rabbits anymore withoout thinking about anything

    • @hix9306
      @hix9306 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jayw2798 good to hear man that gives me some insight on things any other life lessons would be great

    • @vonmcknight
      @vonmcknight ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😪man tell me about it.

    • @ILikeFoodToo-is4qu
      @ILikeFoodToo-is4qu หลายเดือนก่อน

      Out of my last 3 performances.. I went soft on ALL 3 girls. My 2nd performance was the best. My 3rd i failed at first but made up round 2. The 1st chick i failed miserably :/

    • @ILikeFoodToo-is4qu
      @ILikeFoodToo-is4qu หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also I woke up Sept 12 2023 hearing voices out of nowhere. Didn't happen until I started reading bible scriptures.

  • @bantukomanisi9203
    @bantukomanisi9203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    awesome info bro

  • @RichardSmith-pb8qk
    @RichardSmith-pb8qk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the coaching!

  • @josiahtlaka2585
    @josiahtlaka2585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes you are correct, sugar is one of the problem.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! What do you eat to replace your sugar consumption?

    • @josiahtlaka2585
      @josiahtlaka2585 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BrianAyers23 actually I just avoid sugary foods.It's not easy.

  • @user-pg4eb6uw6l
    @user-pg4eb6uw6l 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wht happens of you are below 5 on the African fly marker

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are in the unreliable zone. What other health challenges are you experiencing?

  • @amarabundu7634
    @amarabundu7634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can I over come this problem

  • @blackbird3244
    @blackbird3244 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That is old school player move keep your socks on 😂

  • @paulsamuels3143
    @paulsamuels3143 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I'm struggling with this issue very often but I'm now 58yrs old

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude, I feel you! It's tough dealing with this issue, especially as we get older. Hang in there and keep fighting the good fight!

  • @robertkirk4677
    @robertkirk4677 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stress because someone may have been in there a few hrs? days? weeks? Ago? For years passed and to come??? That will do it!!!!???!!!!!! 💔

  • @thomastheram5331
    @thomastheram5331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I disagree with sugar. Sugar is the primary fuel source for every cell.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      instagram.com/reel/CxqaLZiOnmw/?igshid=M2MyMzODVINW==
      Any questions?

  • @LanceKingHeart
    @LanceKingHeart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I got a question, I live a pretty general healthy lifestyle, but I do smoke marijuana right before doing it and it wouldn’t stay hard. Could that be a reason?

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely!

    • @jetlido6383
      @jetlido6383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BrianAyers23 damn I love weed

  • @rkingfarmer
    @rkingfarmer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Does African Fly work for this? Thinking of buying a bottle

  • @aaronhill443
    @aaronhill443 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video was a blessing. I do a lot of things wrong according to this video. I also believe that it has to do with women that I have been with. I have an ex that I was/am head over heels in love with and I could get hard at the drop of a dime with her, but other women it takes a lot more effort and sometimes even pills and that doesn't always do the trick.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I curious, what other things not mentioned that you did wong?

  • @gpnations
    @gpnations 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Uncle b thanks so mush I leant a lot

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad to help.

  • @felixwalcott5218
    @felixwalcott5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Brian can you send me link where I can order this from am from the Caribbean island of TOBAGO?

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can order African Fly online at:
      africanfly.com/

  • @deputy3690
    @deputy3690 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are so many factors that even Doctors can't pinpoint the problem.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In your opinion, what do you think could be the problem?

    • @deputy3690
      @deputy3690 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @BrianAyers23 Somehow blood flow is escaping even after taking the pill like 50% of the time. I also think a large prostate is part of the reason .

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We first have to address the enlarged prostate. The first thing I need you to do is a detox cleanse and NOT a fast. You have to flush your body clean. After the cleanse, go green (Plant based diet) as much as you can. Add Alkaline water and raw ginger root to your diet. Start this plan today and reach back out to me in 30 days. Good luck and keep me posted.

    • @deputy3690
      @deputy3690 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @BrianAyers23 Thank you I will give it a try

  • @muhammadmustafaloya
    @muhammadmustafaloya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is animal protein

  • @remuspierre
    @remuspierre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good advice

  • @jimboshiesty2831
    @jimboshiesty2831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wanna talk to a woman about my problems but i feel they just laugh and won’t understand idk I get 🪨 wen nobody around den I get 🪨 wen a girl comes to my house but the moment I wanna do it I get soft 🤣 I be like whyyyy I have anxiety bad so if that’s why

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey SheistyJimbo, Here is the link to the book "Go Hard", The Peak Sexual Performance Guide For Men. You will get the best of this channel down to under 100 pages.
      class.africanfly.com/hero-page1607987678128

  • @RaphaelMutale-r2j
    @RaphaelMutale-r2j ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Uncle b thank you so much

  • @bkrempit
    @bkrempit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when discomfort

  • @henryyoung181
    @henryyoung181 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The other item that need s to be address is psychological. Thinking about things other than what's going on or wondering if she will change her mind...or wondering why she is so open that you can't feel the walls. Start thinking like she's more promiscuous than you thought.

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I belive in this case, meditation is key. The meditation can get you to a relaxed and focus zone before sex. Try it and let us know your results.

  • @eliezermercado1040
    @eliezermercado1040 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can l get yor product

  • @geraldrusoke43
    @geraldrusoke43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That sounds great!

  • @m.b.smoshitoa8325
    @m.b.smoshitoa8325 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I heard you discouraging milk. I experienced ED. I am exactly 40. I went to doctor and diagnose low blood pressure on me , of course I was heavy drinker. I immediately stopped drinking and instead I drunk lot of milk mixed with water. Just tell what's wrong about milk

    • @BrianAyers23
      @BrianAyers23  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good question. Milk is produced from Cows. Cows are given a bunch of chemicals, steroid and growth hormones. These levels are unhealthy and overtime will adversely impact you.

  • @bahamianjedi6372
    @bahamianjedi6372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Uncle B have you ever heard of the Cerasee Plant (Momordica Charantia ) and any benefits it can have in aiding ones sexual health..