The Golden Ten: Skills That Will Change Your Life Forever
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Thank you for watching - I really appreciate it :)
Much love,
Evan
#Believe
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Thank you very much for the appreciation, love and support dennis. :) #BTA604 Shine
Evan Carmichael I have only one problem with skill #7 is that not all people can control thoughts and change emotions because some people have mental illness like deppresion, anxiety, ect. Yes, it actually thous skills are important, but people with that illness have a lot of problems with getting thous skills.
Hi GLeb, I believe it isn't and easy path to follow for anybody. Some people can be affected by other physical/psychological pathologies and become depressed, anxious etc..
Mostly, it's a matter of "living the moment" and working with thoughts, eat healthy, exercise regularly and get enough sleep. All of this must be done CONSISTENTLY.
There are plenty of clicnical settings willing to help people with special needs.
Hope it help.
Andrea
For those that want to know the skills, *and don’t have time to watch this amazing video* :
1. Speaking up (Public Speaking)
2. Being honest with yourself
3. Having confidence
4. Listening
5. Managing your time
6. Stop whining
7. Staying present in the moment
8. Being consistent
9. Getting enough sleep
10. Having empathy
❤️ *edit*
❤️ *edit again* thanks for your kind words, hope everyone is well ❤️
Thanks for posting and for watching. #BTA618 Shine
Amal Maow thanks
Good summary. thanks
Amal Maow thanks man
Thank you... But the speeches are the best part of the video, is a pity to skip it!
1- Speaking up - public speaking
2- Be honest with yourself
3- Having confidence
4- Listening - be the last to speak, first understand what others are saying
5- Managing your time
6- Stop whining (this is the one I struggle the most)
7- Staying present in the moment ( this is the one I think is the most important)
8- Being consistent - success is a journey
9- Getting enough sleep
10- Having empathy #BTA1
Lucas H Maia saved my time....
Lucas H Maia Yesssss
Lucas H Maia Thank you 😊
Lucas H Maia Thank you
Thank you.
The skills that I most remember now are
1) Learning to speak up
2) Learning to listen
3) Being confident and that confidence is something that we have to build
4) Getting enough sleep
5) Focusing on the present and appreciating what is there now instead of thinking of the future or the past
6) Being empathetic
7) Persistent work is what pays
8) Managing time
9) Stop Whining
10) Being honest with yourself.
That's a great list, thanks for sharing and watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
13. Forgiving and 'letting it pass' if you've done what needed to be done.
Great lessons here!
Glad you liked it, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
1. public speaking comfortably, 2. honesty with one's self, 3. having confidence, 4. listening, 5. managing your time 6. stop whining, 7. staying present in the moment, 8. being consistent, 9. getting enough sleep, 10 having empathy.
Highly motivational
dsthorp thanks ☺
dsthorp saving me lots of time, thanks champ
The hero we need not the one we deserve
dsthorp Thanks
Be the last to speak that's powerful and sooo hard. That's my challenge I'm going to work on
Monica Osborne-Johnson I agree, very difficult to do.
Me too.... Taming the tongue 😆😆
Yes, I agree. I used to be a treasurer on a few local clubs and often the treasurer]s report was the last on the agenda. I made notes throughout other peoples reports and when it was my turn, I could tell what ideas were good or bad and the reasons behind it. I found it helpful to be last to speak but also to have your notes and ideas written up in advance too.
@@joanramsey4002 noted
@@joanramsey4002 Great addition! I can see how taking notes could be helpful in many ways, Especially for people that have trouble concentrating, like myself. A good way to maintain focus as well as jot down questions, ideas, etc.
Thank you Evan!
What a great way to start my day!!!
As my mothers full time caregiver I am proud to say that I’ve achieved a respectable level on many of these points except sleep, but I’m getting there. I would add Balance to this list. By balance I would mention taking the time to take care of yourself whether it be through meditation, exercise, journalling our anything that makes you STOP what you do for others and take care of yourself so that you can continue to be your best self for the ones that need you most..I believe the best gift you can give to those you love is to take radical care of yourself so that they don’t have to worry about you. Thanks again! This video really gave me a great start to my “effective” day. ♥️🙏♥️
You're much welcome. 😊 #Believe - Feb
My favorite one was the quote of “living in the present.” Living in the past makes it difficult to move forward, and constant living in the future keeps you guessing.
Glad to know that, thank you for sharing Jay. 😊 #Believe - Feb
#1 Speaking
#2 Being honest with yourself
#3 Having confidence
#4 listening
#5 Manageing your time
#6 Stop whining
#7 Staying present in the moment
#8 Being consistent
#9 Getting enough sleep
#10 Haveing empathy
Thank you for writing down the list. I hope that you've enjoyed the video, Patil! :) #BTA755 Luka
Patil Akshay. Most really hard is for me is #3 #6 #7 #8 #9 😡😧😢
U saved my 20 mins 😅👍
Thank you for summarising
Lovely
Being "Present" is what really hit home. as a person I am in the past or thinking about my future, Never in the present. Thank you so much. It was made so simple for me.
Corllenia Underwood you are right
I'm glad that the video was helpful to you! Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. :) #BTA610 Luka
Evan Carmichael
i really don't know how to focus on the present moment ...
Na senpai It take practice, The most simple thing to do is acknowledge what is in front of you right at this very moment. No matter how big or small. To how beautiful the day is or to how good your food is. Stay Present.
I really love this video! even though I know a lot of these things, it puts it in a condensed version of skills everyone would be better to have. . everyone needs to be reminded again and again to make it automatic !!! Thank you so much I appreciate it!
Glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb (from Evan's team)
Thanks so much for these reminders. The “only “problems I have and that I realize they are holding me or hindering me from being successful are:
Time management (have tendency to wonder away)
Living in the past (letting my ex screw my future) is the hardest to accept
Consistency (I start something on my own but I don’t follow through)
I have faith in me that my successful and ambitious self stills lives in me.
You're much welcome. 🤗 #Believe - Feb
"Confidence is a muscle. And like any muscle, the more you focus on it, the more you practice it and train it, the stronger your confidence is gonna grow" That sentence did it for me.
Glad that you are feeling it Shambhu. Thanks for watching. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Me too!
Absolutely agreed with you here . These lines have had quiet an impact on me as well. 😊
Yeah....we do have mutual feelings
I concur this is what quickened in me this is what I need to do 🙌🏼
My favorite is #8: Being Consistent.
Like John Maxwell's "Rule of 5", small actions every day will get you further than a one-time big action. Consistency is powerful. Find the right things to do, then do them every day. There's no way you CAN'T be successful!
Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA759 Luka
Not everybody be succesfull even they are being Consistent!
Which book of John c Maxwell ??
Likewise
I know it is hard to start but i keep on going and learning
A very educational, interesting and practical experience I had, from just listening to this video. It is captivating, for anyone wanting to improve her or himself. Thank you kindly, Evan, for compiling this intriguing article in a video. I now start my day with a different perspective, a more realistic approach, and with rejuvenation. And, with very positive thinking. OH, WOW!! I can only imagine what kind of impact and outcome I will have in my life from now on. I'm going to write out all ten of these life points, and keep them on my person....
ALL THE TIME!!! Thanks again for this booster. Blessings to all. 🤗🤗🤗🤗😃 Have a great day!! 😃😃😃
You're very welcome. Much love 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
I am encouraged as I watch this video. I have found myself regretting and crying continually about something that happened to me in April 2020. Every time that I remember that event I cry, now I have a tool to use to overcome this stifling habit, living in the moment, appreciating the special things with which I am blessed. Thank you for this Evan.
Really glad you have that realization now, thanks for watching! Keep doing great, always remember you are amazing. 😊 #Believe - Feb
There's one thing missing here - stamina. I have been quite close to be successful at more than one thing over the years, and i have most of the qualities in this VDO, but not stamina and that means I can;t compete with people who are physically and emotionally stronger than I am. I have learned to accept this and find ways around it. In fact I am respected in my present niche and earn quite well, but I will never be high roller. People talk about power as if it only comes from money and contacts, it doesn't, it comes from inside. Some people are like dynamos, tireless, unstoppable. They can make mistakes and get away with it, because they just keep trying. Other people are not so strong and if they try to copy high rollers they will get sick (many do just that). The same kind of people succeed, in sports, the board room, the army, music and all the other super demanding professions. My advice to anyone, is measure your stamina and then find your niche that allows you to progress without damaging yourself.
You want to choose power over money.
With power you get money.
I think it's about beeing strong. Have confidence.
SOmewhat what you did say, you're limiting by saying stuff like "I will never be" - but in a way you have a point, but all of this you can do.
There are the right ways and the wrong way to go about this.
They are no strong because they didn't practice enough. I was weak a FUCK, with people and manipulated and stuff like that, with time, took me years, now I'm not.
So you're not out there, the 'damage' you call it, is where you should be persistent and go after this. You will get slammed, people will daut you, who the f cares.
You do you. You give up and so you die short.
I still have a long way to go, but it's not that I'm bad with girls for no reason. People that get girls every night have specific things, just because I might not be as confident or whatever near girls, doesn't mean I can't go there and or perhaps even learn this - because I can learn it anywas.
You don't measure your stamina, why waste time to do that? You rather want to improve your stamina.
Justin Love you will never be a high roller if you believe you don't have the ability to be one.... you admit to accepting this as a unchangeable personal limitation due to stamina? there are many known remedies for fatigue, but to doubt your own ability is counter productive when looking for success!
Lookup David goggins, he can help you with mental toughness
Very few people have the strength to fight their way to the top, and if they try they will burn out. I have seen this happen many times, so nothing you can say will change that experience. This is something the self gurus refuse to admit, but everyone knows is true. Encouraging people to try harder is fine and they may they have some power they were unaware of, but if you have tried found your limits it is best to stick within them and be cool. Know yourself is the greatest wisdom and listening to others the greatest folly.
The people i know who have made become successful from nothing are all obsessive, control freaks. The system favors this type person
"It takes time to be creative. Don't let anyone take away the time you need to do what you are gifted and created to do." Time is irreplaceable, value time. - Bishop T. D. Jakes
Thanks for sharing. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I agree bro what you said.its 100%correect👍👍👍
Thanks Wale
I Agree 💯
So true
Thanks for this video Evan. I think you got me on empathy, I try to be understanding of others, but When Meryl Streep said, crying, I am a cryer. I am not ashamed about it, but I realized that’s something I do when something really bothers me. But it’s like a form of therapy or an outlet. Can’t wait to watch more.
You're welcome, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Thanks for the build. My favorite here is stopping the whining about everything. This will be the first thing I will start consistently doing. All of these are important. Thanks for letting us out. I love these straightening up with self mostly.
You're welcome. Much love 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Need to whine so that You will find answers or you will repeat your mistakes Brothers
#9 is my favorite haha! If you don't get enough sleep, you can 't achieve anything, period.
Health body help us to achieve
Candace H yes. Excuse it only Americans who don't heft enough sleep
A lot of Americans think of sleep like nice work if you can get it. That it's more important to get everything done, there's always something that needs doing, you'll miss the party if you're sleeping, and the truly strong don't need sleep.
whole27 Thanks! That's why we live way longer than you. lol
Karen Z try telling that to Elon Musk. He's the most successful entrepreneur of our generation working a little over 100 hours a week
Rule 4. If you are talking, you are not learning. Best one on the list.
Thanks for watching :) #BTA907 Luka
I disagree - check out point 1.
Jumping Dolphin so true. 50/50. Percentage will vary depending on level of knowledge about the subject matter.
On the other hand, one of the best ways to master a subject is to teach it.
@@EvanCarmichael thank you and everyone else
I do some of things.
1: I always speak up but up last...this way you see who are the fool are.
2: when speak up. Speak up. With Confidence and keep eye contact.
3: NEVER.!!! "Kiss Any Ones Ass" right or wrong own your words and your actions.
4: Never share command or leadership with any one. If your better then get a person jealousy and sabotage happens.
Thank you for sharing that and for watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Thank you very much! For me Giving/Generosity would be 11. Research says Generosity keeps us humble. The creator said "to much is given, much is required." In the same book, it says what you make happen for others, God/the universe will make happen for you. I feel at my highest self helping others, creating solutions for people, and being a teacher/facilitator. I know this is my purpose in my life. Thank you again for the coconut to the head moment.. priceless🤩
You're welcome, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
I loved what Robin said about confidence and Priyanka about Consistency...As my father used to say to me , way back when I used to flunk my Maths classes and used to hate math. My father had said "Success generates Interest! and to be successful you have to be confident and consistent, and once you succeed, the fear will banish and that success (however small it may be) will generate interest, which will kick off a cycle of success -> interest -> more success". And gradually I started to LOVE mathematics! Also, I loved the idea of being the last one to speak! Thanks for this video!
#5 "Managing your time"!!!!
Thanks for the comment AAO FIT TV. :) #Believe #BTA607 Shine
I agree. Managing your time is everything! Without time management it is impossible to get anything done. You can watch a lot of videos on how to be successful, but if you can't manage your time, forget about the advice you get from watching the TH-cam videos if you don't know how to manage your time efficiently.
You did a great job editing these videos and putting them together without losing the details by trying to cut them too short. Thank you!!
You're welcome. Glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I believe in you bro!!! I think you're amazing and I love your channel and this particular episode was perfect and everyone who spoke is my favorite and I wrote it down and I needed it right now. It showed me what I have already down packed and what I can really start practicing more. Progress not perfection and I will say I won't be working on all of them all of the time because that's just not possible. I'll pick one thing to be aware of all day long and then the next day I'll pick another. Mucho love
Thank you so much for the love and support. We appreciate you. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Practice this most important: I love myself that I will protect anyone invading on my body, spirit. Period ( that includes Vaccination on suspicious drugs called Vaccines made in less than two years!!)
So much kindness in your eyes.
1- Speaking up
2- be honest with yourself
3-having confidence
4- learn how to listening ,be the last one to speak
5- knowing the value of your time in a nother way give your time it's value
6- stop whining
7- be present in the moment (the one that I struggle with the most)
8- success is journey !
9- get enough sleep! (My fav😍) seriously being tired is the worst 😑
10- having empathy
If anyone has an example of the last one ,please share it with me.
Thank you for listing the 10 Skills Hallo Je. :) As for having empathy...I #Believe it's more of putting ourselves in the shoes of others...more about understanding the reason why a person does things and trying to see things as per his/her point of view. I hope that helps. Always #Believe in yourself. #BTA617 Shine
Evan Carmichael thanks Evan for the inspiring well done Beautifully detailed videos !! I have been here for about 6 months and actually it did help me a lot!! Like you know that it's just one of the reasons that I got (A+) in my collage this year after struggling with it soooo hard!!! me and lot of other people are here keeping up with everything that you share in this GREAT CHANNEL .
thank you for clearing that more simply "having empathy " I am ganna make sure to remember this one and activate it more when I dealing with others . 👍
To me a person who can't empathize would have a hard time understanding other peoples feelings. Having empathy makes you more open minded and makes you more grounded. Also it gives you a better understanding of other people's attitude and personalities and having that you tend not to create conflict with others. That's how I see It. Also having empathy your able to resolve things in a more positive way, instead of being argumentative.
+Hallo Je You just saved me 20 minutes. Thanks for valuing my time. :)
Always keep learning. Study something that interests you everyday, just for the fun of it, to take in new ideas, to expand your perspective, to be inspired, to make your life experience richer.
Yes to that! "Intellectual growth should commence at birth and cease only at death." 😊 #Believe - Feb
And to make yourself richer/richest financially. And to stop Drs killing you unnecessarily
Love the comment about confidence. First it’s absolutely true. Second it reminds of Winston Churchill’s famous comment “success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.” Also love skill 7: stay in the present!!!
Glad to hear that from you Jefferson. 😊 #Believe - Feb
@@EvanCarmichael great video, made my Easter holiday. Keep em coming
"Hallo Jeil y a 3 mois
1- Speaking up
2- be honest with yourself
3-having confidence
4- learn how to listening ,be the last one to speak
5- knowing the value of your time in a nother way give your time it's value
6- stop whining
7- be present in the moment (the one that I struggle with the most)
8- success is journey !
9- get enough sleep! (My fav😍) seriously being tired is the worst 😑
10- having empathy
If anyone has an example of the last one ,please share it with me."
Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA724 Luka
Example of sympathy: A friend is going through a hard time and since it happened to you once you can relate.
If you haven’t gone through the same situation do all you can to understand what the person is feeling. Letting her/him know that you understand, with actions, emotions (affection). Its like feeling for others.
Thats the best example I could think of.
Good thanks
Rosana Patton nice dear
My take.... Confidence to fire 🔥 me up, Listening & drawings insights from what I heard before responding, Managing time & early to bed for a Good rest at night & effective daytime activities, Staying in the present to control life's challenges, which keeps us in a win 🏆module..... also Thowing away whining
"listening" - - "Be the last one to speak"
Thanks for posting your comment and for watching. :) #Believe #BTA604
It's so contradicting to the first one that says speak up. This video is butt cheeks.
ko0lGuy23 Not really. What matters here is context. A time for speaking up and a time for listening. Wisdom tells you which one to do when.
Stephanie McFarlane ....well said
ko0lGuy23 well you listen to what they have to say first and when you're able to fully comprehend everything they have to say, that's when you speak up right? Not really contradicting to me...
This was awesome, I started writing down my process of evolution immediately. Much love to you for caring about others journey to self realization 😁
Really glad you liked it and it resonated with you, thanks for watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
EVAN, THIS MIGHT BE THE BEST VIDEO I HAVE EVER SEEN!!! - 10 VERY IMPORTANT SKILLS!! TOO BAD I AM NOW 78 YRS OLD!
I need to work on all 10 skills. I'm 73 years old, but I'm alive not dead, and I will get to working on them immediately! Awesome video!
We are cheering on you Frances. 🤗 #Believe - Feb
Great summary.
To add to No.3 CONFIDENCE.
Confidence is acquired by preparation and doing.
And those who over-prepare will always have an advantage.
Thanks for sharing :) #BTA902 Luka
Yes speaking to Warren Buffet 's point
I was going to quit Toastmasters, I'm frustrated with it, but after watching what Sir Warren Buffet said, I'm going full fledge. Let's all become great speakers. Thanks for this message keep sharing it
Lori Favela I'm joining this week.
I did 2.5 years with toastmasters, it was great but I had to move on for probably similar reasons. I now look fire other speaking opportunities.
The thing that resonated most when I attended Toastmasters was, "You are the message long before you say a word!"
It's not easy to lead people. You have to lead yourself. Toastmasters is a great way to lead yourself.
Stick with it, maybe find a different group in Toastmasters, it could just be the one you're in that's not working.
Talent can do what no one else can do
But genius can do what no one can see
💯 #Believe - Feb
Thank you for your inspirational videos, Evan. I would have added, 'Be grateful and show appreciation to others'. I have practiced that in action and speech and you wouldn't believe how many people in 2021 have told me how positively my comments have affected them. Being grateful for what people do for us directly or for people in general is something that should be appreciated even if it's their job to do it. Many people are walking around believing that their life is worthless and their influence null. Not true. Put a smile on the face of someone who makes your life easier or more pleasant.
From this video, Evan, I would choose> 1. Have empathy 2.Stop whining 3. Pursue constant education and 4.Master computer skills (I was REALLY behind but finally just caught up via LinkedIn Learning). Have a great weekend!
You're welcome. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for watching too. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Shortcuts to learn about the 10 skills:
1. 00:37 *Speaking up* - Warren Buffet
2. 01:05 *Being honest with yourself* - Mark Cuban
3. 01:54 *Having confidence* - Robin Sharma
4. 03:57 *Listening* - Simon Sinek
5. 06:13 *Managing your time* - Bishop T.D. Jakes
6. 09:41 *Stop whining* - Iyanla Vanzant
7. 11:15 *Staying present in the moment* - Mel Robins
8. 15:28 *Being consistent* - Priyanka Chopra
9. 16:42 *Getting enough sleep* - Arianna Huffington
10. 17:28 *Having empathy* - Meryl Streep
(20:00 Wrapping up - Evan Carmichael )
#Believe #BTA1601 Veljko
Thanks a lot for summarising this video! i wonder if we could use all of these 10 skills in real life at once? I suppose we need to see the context and employ 1 -2 skills that are relevant to the context
4. Simon Sinek + Nelson Mandela ;-)
I would add that never forget that “respect comes from self respect”. It’s a shield that keeps it all together.
Thanks for sharing! 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon
Yes, totally agree. You can learn a lot about how a person might treat you from how they look and treat themselves and especially where they are dealing with subordinates or waiters, shop workers etc.
Respect comes from honoring other first
OUTSTANDING!!! Thank You.
If you’ve ever been highly abused, and learned to stop that, and to stop the rest of the world who could sense that in you and follow suit with more disrespect... you’ll truly understand the power that this comment above gives.
Self respect surly is a shield 🛡.
Absolutely.
All of the skills here are incredible and important - the public speaking one seems to be the most daunting for me, but the skill I suppose I most resonate with is the Listening one; listening to everyone, staying in background, turning things over in your head, and knowing more about the person speaking, and not drawing much attention to yourself. You're kind of invisible for a time, and when you're invisible, (it's always a good idea to be invisible, for me!) you learn a lot - you see a lot, hear a lot, and think about everything in every angle, point of view, which is a huge advantage, especially if you're accidentally caught up in a heated debate. Then when it is your turn to speak, or better yet the very last person to speak, you've already listened and thought about everything and thus have an idea of what you're going to say that will be agreeable to yourself and everyone; one advantage of the Listening skill is that you have time to turn over what other people think and say and then later start rearranging these in your head - it is still very much their own beliefs and in their own words, but you are redoing it in a way that it's to your own advantage; then when you speak, if all goes well, what you say will be agreeable to everyone... So yeah, it's the Listening one that resonates most for me, maybe because I could've been unconsciously doing it - the Empathy part is my favorite one, because to have that skill you have to be a genuinely good person to be a real empath. I have to work on the Getting Enough Sleep one, hehe... Being Honest With Yourself is not very hard for me to do - as for the Confidence part, I always manage doing so for the most important stuff - great video, I'm really delighted with the mention of Nelson Mandela! God bless~~~
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for watching. Much appreciated. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Thank you for your inspirational videos, Evan. Love them❤❤
You're welcome, glad it resonated with you. 😊 #Believe - Feb
The power of empathy brings out the best of you.
You mentioned empathy twice; you must like empathy.
gerry gunn I have empathy for others. It's what connects us.
I couldn't agree more, empathy is a powerful thing! Thank you for sharing with us, Theresa. Much love! :) #BelieveNation #BTA690 Luka
I very strongly advocate the point on being in the present moment and giving it your best. By doing so we manage to leave the past behind and do something worthwhile to make our future beautiful
That's awesome to hear! :) Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. #Believe! #BelieveNation #BTA709 Luka
That's why I finally came to a conclusion that I need natural intelligence to go by day in day out about everything I set my mind to it, focusing on my vision, mission and always respecting my life blue print.
Thank you for sharing, we wish you all the best. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Theirs so much wisdom gained from always being a good listener and speaking last in most if not all occasions. Bless up...
Really glad to know you were able to get something out of it, thank you for watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
All ten are interconnected. When someone is doing one of these, more likely he does all the other ones too. For example if you do not waist time, you are also are consistence, sleep on time so you would not be tired the next day so that you can stay in the moment . you would listen well. You would not complain or whine because it would be a waist of time.
I love your way of thinking. But it does not apply to everyone
davoud derogar i literally felt like they were describing me lol!
U r 10 years ahead of us, measuring waist with time.
That's amazing
Waist is sometimes confused with waste.
CONFIDENCE IS A BIG PART OF BEING SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE
Agreed :) #BTA880 Luka
Pound 4 pound but that needs a base. Confidence cannot be given, it must be grown 👍🏼
Absolutely true
Practice speaking last. That was my favourite one, and something that I'll be implementing moving forward ✍🏼
Thank you for sharing, much appreciated. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I have empathy
I need to get more sleep, more listening,no whining,more time management , being in the moment and more consistency
That's really nice, keep it up and radiate it with everyone. 😊 #Believe - Feb
till now I never enjoyed my present 😑 always lived either in past of future ....but after watching this ,I realised that now I have to enjoy my present and have to work for my future in my present 😊
S Shaheen 👍😘
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If you will have time read the power of now by Eckhart Tolle
This Whole segment was great!!! What an amazing collection of lessons... huge fan of all of these amazing thought- leaders. Meryl Streep's comments on empathy really hit home, and TD's message of time-management in regards to our creativity was a great reminder, that I'm gonna fulfill my dharma, no matter how long it's going to take. I am currently honing my life story into a cohesive Zen practice of empathy balancing, between self-care and allowing others to be seen/heard, it gets hectic at times. It's been a strange journey, 🤔 A lot of WONDERFUL moments of Joy n Elation mixed with a lot of n humility ❤ ... along with plenty of cringe-worthy mistakes and "omg, y did I say that"s. However, it's all part of the human journey!!! Live, Learn, Laugh, Cry.... rinse, repeat!!! Thanks for these reminders Dear Teachers!!! Thank you Evan n team, for the beautiful compilation 💜
Thank you for sharing this, really means a lot. Glad that it helped you in some ways, indeed just keep going until you get to where you wanted to be, it will be all worth it then. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Thanks for the response. I like your channel, your personal energy and commitment.
My experience has been that in working on concrete, tangible and measurable 'skills', ie. carpentry, writing, cooking, is where you begin to discover the limits of these 'soft' skills. You can't just have confidence. To think that one 'develops' confidence is illusory. You earn it!
You become confident through failure after failure, as one gets their hands dirty from the learning of the tangible skill. Failure is far more important than success! Success in this culture is measured on outward material rewards. That again is not 'confidence' that is Conformity. Living an unauthentic life.
These speakers evoke the 'great' people of the world, but these people all suffered. They went against the very system that the 'success' culture promotes. Their unique origin was failure to promote the the system's they lived in, which by design was, defined as success by the ignorant, conforming masses.
Nelson Mandela did not work on his 'confidence' in prison. He had a profound and painful spiritual experience of self sacrifice of all the shallow/shadow aspects of his character that 7 or 8 of these listed 'skills' promote. It is not so much the behaviours that I am attacking but the culture that is behind this vacuous pursuit of some preordained materialist perfection, brought on by the annoying and I argue shallow pursuit of 'success'.
Not the adherence to a moral code, no matter the cost, which is what all great people model! Then failure and the god of 'success' do not matter, what matters is your commitment to a moral life not success. Success in the end, is an illusion. It is predetermined by the culture which will never lead the way, but promote those thoughts that produce conformity. It just so happens our culture is shallow and material based. So all the heros they invoke would have been perceived as failures or threats to the cultures success.
Cheers
Dougie
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for the support. 💛 #Believe - Feb
I loved this video!! All life lessons I desire to learn and apply to every area of my life. For me the listening, managing time and bring consistent are my favourites.
Glad you liked it, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Point 9 is really interesting. Some people in business say accept 4 hour nights is enough. Found it refreshing about 7 hour sleeping.
I workout and I need at least 10hours of sleep.
Aurelian Spodarec son if you keep that mind set you won't improve unless you're trying to be bodybuilder 😎
I agree that point 9 about sleep is interesting. I wish I were the subject of a sleep study as I sleep much less than most people
I pretty much only sleep 3am-8am every day for the past couple months. I work during the day. Workout at night. Then work on my business after that until 3. I wake up every morning feeling as rested as i would if i had gotten 8-9 hours sleep
I think sleep the number of hours to sleep is so contradicting sometimes because its a necessity of the body. Not everyone's body is the same, people have different eating or dietary habits, as well as lifestyles some people lead more active lives while other have more sedentary lives. I tend to think this can and does greatly influence the number of hours a person will feel rested and is actually rested.
‘Be the last one to speak’ will be the key topic for me to work on.
Yeah..i have to work on that too
@@kennethemmanuel987 I've found my people.
Im going to need a assistive device called duct tape to accomplish this task.
A great video indeed. Thanks Evan for creating such a wonderful and valuable short video with a profound message. Adopting even a few of the ten will transform life for sure in a very positive way. I have saved it in my playlist and it will keep reminding me to stay on course. 👌👏🙂
You're welcome, glad you liked it. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
SPEAKING UP!!!! What a perfect thing to put on this list. This is something I have a very hard time with and have known for years that it is what makes me less valuable as an employee and really makes my work life hell, because I am never speaking my mind, and then holding resentments against management and saying how stupid everyone is (LOL) when I should've voiced my opinion on something. I just absolutely love this! I am walking away with this and it is changing my behaviour NOW! Thank you! 👍🙏🙏🙏
You're welcome, we wish you all the best. 😊 #Believe - Feb
1.Confidence
2.managing time
3.being consistent
Bt all of em are important
Agreed :) #BTA857 Luka
I just cured my deperssion and anxiety from watching this VIDEO!!! Some how idk it just fixed me this is crazy
Glad to hear that! :) #BTA1322 Luka
then you didn't have clinical depression or social anxiety. happy that you feel better, but please don't self-diagnose or use medical terms instead of "sad" and "nervous".
Trey Davis maybe it gave you motivation. Usually depressed people lack motivation. Idk just a thought
Your slate is wiped clean, sir! Enjoy your new life!
It takes constant vigilance, hard work and dedication to fix those things, not watching a 10 minute TH-cam video. That is part of the problem not the solution. Tomorrow you may be doubly depressed when your quick fix that came from outside of yourself turns out to be exactly that.
Not new, but absolutely worth our focus and action! Thanks for putting this together!
You're very much welcome Craig. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Being present in the moment , and getting enough sleep are the two things that I need to work on the most. I also suddenly visualzed myself journalling in bed at the end of the day, and so that as a time of power, whereas I always thought, getting up early and journalling in the morning was the more powerful route. But my morning journals were perpetually full of apologies and dwelling on the past. If I could flip the tables and turn journalling into a focus on possibilities, I think it could unleash power
One thing at a time, you can get there. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Hmm... I think an 11th skill would be how to care for your body. How to eat well for your body. Sleep can only get you so far. You need to fuel your body in order to maintain the energy needed to be successful at what you're doing. (And even to be able to sleep deeply.)
Also, exercising. Some exercise will keep your immune system strong. You'll have better energy and sleep, and won't get sick as often.
And a 12th skill would be taking time for yourself to just relax. A lot of people don't even know how to do that. You've got to learn how to schedule your time so that you can slow down and mentally recharge. So many people just work, work, work until they're burnt out and and emotionally exhausted.
Even if you love your work, it's still for the use of other people. You need to do something that's just for you. Like going hiking, or reading a book, or playing a game.
These two points can be considered skills you need to learn, because they don't come naturally - or people have to learn them the hard way. I've watched it happen repeatedly to people close to me - myself included! Lol The demands of society train these good habits out of people in favor of the illusion that success means complete self-sacrifice.
But I think these skills contribute to a more effective life in which you can be more mentally, emotionally, and physically present while using the other ten skills.
I did really enjoy this video though. I don't find most self-help to be very motivating for me. But I did this one. It made me think. And I did notice some of these skills I have been unconsciously developing. The rest was very insightful and inspiring. Thank you for this video.
Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom Angel. :) Glad that the video is motivating for you. All the best! #Believe #BTA617 Shine
Angel Reeves
true
Angel Reeves yes totally agree
Thank you for this, much love. Merry X
I've had to make positive changes for myself in the last few years just so I could carry on with my life and develop a healthy, positive state of mind in that process. What truly helps me get my day off to a wonderful start is before I even get out of bed, I take a moment to think about 5 things that I am grateful for. 5 things that are blessings which most people forget all about and take for granted. In doing this every morning, it helps me to set my intention for the day and to carry on with a feeling of gratitude, appreciation for all things and people. Its a wonderful way to change ones outlook about themselves and their lives. Thanks for the inspiring video Evan.
I'm glad that you're feeling inspired by our video, it means a lot. Thank you for sharing with us, Sherrie! Much love. :) #BelieveNation #BTA611 Luka
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Wow! No whining Wednesdays💥 This is one of the best and memorable TH-cam videos I have watched in 2021. Glad to have taken the time to learn and reinforce what amazing ten skill sets.
Glad you enjoyed it, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
Thankyou Evan! Your content is truly amazing and has helped me shift from one area of my life to the other. This video has transformed my entire thinking and les brown managing your time is where I was at just a few minutes ago. Now I’m on my way to becoming the biggest comedian in the world. (Mark this comment) as it unfolds right before our eyes. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou!! May god bless your soul 🙏🏾
You're welcome Darryl. Much love 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
I love #7 - "Staying Present in the moment", anxiety of the future especially in these times with a pandemic on the forefront of our minds is the one that reached me the most! Thank you for this video.
You're welcome. Hope you enjoyed it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
My worst because the only time I have trouble adds sleeping. And don’t think just seem to make it worse. I’ve tried so many things . Counting , every app. Just trying to pay attention to my breathing even sleeping pills they work 2 3 nights and unless you want to ruin your life by just keeping upping dose. Listening to fan tv you tube. Just getting back up trying later. Bath….Hard to shut my brain off at night.
I am going to stay in the moment. Because it is the shortest journey in my life. I cannot reach yesterday it's already gone. Tomorrow is a guest that I don't know when it will be arriving or how it will be arriving. I can only prepare for it.
Wuya Bobor Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mistery, today is gift. That's why it's called the present ;)
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Wuya Borbor - nice way of expressing this! 👍
Glad I came across this youtube. Of the Ten, Savor, savoring the moment to keep us in the moment and not falling back to the past and not venturing to future worries.
Glad you liked it, thank you for watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Success is a Journey.
Agree. Thanks for watching and for the comment. :) #BelieveNation. #BTA604 Shine
Success is THE journey
"managing your time" , that's my fave :)
Thanks for watching :) #BTA867 Luka
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Great one👍
Love "Learn to Speak Up". Never thought about this.
11. Become a Reader of Books
12. Respect Self & Respect People
13. Practice Empathy
Thank you for sharing that, glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
This is the best video, I've watched in recent times. I feel real connection and a sense of responsibility with this. Thank you!
You're welcome. Much love 😊💛 #Believe - Feb
"Talent can get you far, but hardwork, can get you anywhere "
Yayyy! #Believe 💛😊 - Dondon
Its logic can take u from A to B, bt imagination can take u anywhere. Bt i too agree on ur point
Ok but where does smartwork get you?
Thinking smart is the best to use as our Reticular activating system works on automode so feeding our subconscious Mind is the most effective way to work smarter.I feel.See Mel Robbins and Marisa Peer.
Hard does not so stop saying that. Many people were told if they work hard they will make it and they get burnt. It is not hard work it is WORKING SMART. TALENT DOES IT GET YOU FAR, BASED ON HOW YOU USE IT. TALENT COMES FROM LEARNING AND WORKING SMART. PEOPLE WHO ARENT ACHIEVING is manipulative the meaning of talent. You can't get talented without working smart. No one is born knowing to do anything a little good in a talented way, everything is learned. So stop making it like talent is born in people, it is NOT.
I need to work on all of the skills listed, but the one that stuck out the most, is to start spending my time wisely.
Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA642 Luka
Shaila Very useful if implied.
Thrusha S l hear you l do read and look at videos but l still do spend time lookin at tv when l could be doing something else constructive...
Thrusha S hi
.... but knowing this - puts you on the next level.
Having confidence I found the most enabling tip, together with being the last to speak. But Meryl Streep's brief talk moved me immensely. It points out something that most of us most of the time are blind to, empathy for each other and for the world.
Thank you for sharing Clarke, much appreciated. 😊 #Believe - Feb
TY for this.
At 65 I have learned most if this. Take away 1. Waiting to speak last.
2. Let go of the pressure to work traditional jobs, and return to my creative arts. I feel I should also proceed work or go for Masters degree. But why?
Maybe I can reach the masses by including knowledge gained thus far in/with my arts.
3. Allow the empathy I hold back due to jadedness once again help me to patiently listen/hear, watch/see, ..,
I have learned when and how to say no to manipulators, players, ...
So here I go. A wisened me.
You're very welcome, thanks for sharing that too. 😊❤️ #Believe - Feb
#7 Love it
,Yestarday was history,tomorow is a mystery.Today is a Gift."
Glad you like it! Thanks for sharing Natalia :) #BTA912 Luka
Natalia Kh. That is very nice
Kung fu panda 🐼
Yes. Amen
Well said
Speaking up! Public speaking is an asset or a liability if you don't.
Great advice from Mr Buffet.
I'm glad that you like it! Thank you for watching. Much love. :) #BelieveNation #BTA724 Luka
Thank you for putting this video together. No. 11....to add on to the Empathy... Be more prayerful..... Pray for other people instead of putting them down with words. Encourage more. Love more. Be blessed
You're very much welcome. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I loved Simon Sinek's impute about listening First as a leader and then everybody will fill heard and when you disagree not your head and then ask questions!
Happy to know that. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Being consistent, get more sleep and learning how to ground myself in the moment. Amazing stuff.
Awesome! Keep going Navneet. #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon
I watched this with a group of my high school students and here is what they had to say....
thanks for the great advice
it was a good reminder to be present
having many different people speak helped to get the point across
That's awesome to hear! :) Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. #Believe! #BelieveNation #BTA709 Luka
Deborah Pride 📚Great!
Thanks for sharing, this is awesomely useful. Embracing the present, staying positive and confidence are my top three.
You're welcome, glad you liked it. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I loved this video, it was great1 I saw a number of points that I will take away with me, but the specific words that will resonate with me was Meryl Streep's, "in our deepest heart's core, it made me know that I AM on the right track, and I really needed that right now, so thank you for posting this video, I loved the way you got right to the subject or subjects, with out the usual bla, bla, bla of 'please watch my video'. I'm defiantly saving this video to favourites.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
I liked time management. That is one thing that can not be bought or replaced.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA639 Shine
The word by Chopra on consistency got me and especially empathy because without it we're not different from robots. Generally, these speakers help to build the full human personally. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching! #Believe - Feb
I enjoyed your videos. The power of appreciation and gratitude. Wake up every day with positive thoughts of gratitude to switch any thoughts of stress.
Happy to know that. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Persistence and determination are omnipotent.
Born to weld. Graduate of Hobart Welding School.
Agreed 😊 #Believe - Feb
good one...i liked priyanka chopra advise...she just cleared the concept.Pushing every time,every day brings that you want.
thanku evan.......keep creating good stuff.
Nishant Sharan
...of course
...because you are Pakistani..
That : you can replace any thing except you time , Is the most effective advice... Thank you so much
Glad you like it :) #BTA855 Luka
I believe everything was valuable. Empathy driving civilized behavior has definitely given me pause as I am the least empathetic person I know.
I don't know what it's like to walk a mile in anyone else's shoes. If you chose to go barefoot, and do it long enough...What are shoes?
I do not understand empathy.
When you look deep enough to have empathy you get back to learning to ask the right questions and learning to speak last. Thank you for putting these speakers together. What a tremendous skill set to develop.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching. 😊 #Believe - Feb
Evan,
For the last few Years...because of "My One Word!" Instead of a "New Year Resolution", I choose a new word to represent what I want to accomplish each year. 2022 - My One Word is: Power!
Thanks Evan Carmichael for the inspiration & Mentorship.
It's our pleasure, we wish you all the best in life. 🤗 #Believe - Feb
CONFIDENCE is great, just as long as it doesn't turn into arrogance!
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ELAINE'S GARDENING AND C0OKING CHANNEL it's not arrogance if you can prove that you can do it right
JOHN T --- I never said it was.
...bearing in mind that "thank you for sharing" is bureaucratic for "Fuck you, what I said was perfect as it was before you came along, creep."
Confidence. The food of the wise and the liquor of the fool.
SPOILER ALERT
Skills that are hard to learn but will pay off forever
1) Speaking up
2) Being honest with yourself
3) Having confidence
4) Listening
5) Managing your time
6) Stop whining
7) Staying present in the moment
8) Being consistent
9) Getting enough sleep
10) Having empathy
Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA717 Luka
I really appreciate how you include so many great thinkers to create your list!
It is to spread positivity and motivation amongst us all. Thanks for watching! 😊 #Believe - Feb
Wow what an Incredible video. So glad I found you. I believe in all these things and utilize most of them. Going to check out your other videos. Thank you for all of your great energy
You're much welcome. 😊 #Believe - Feb