This really opened my eyes to the shame I have for myself. It's amazing how we all have individual paths, but we can learn the same life lessons to grow from our past choices.
Compliments, Christine, for being so generous to share these powerful educational experiences with all of us! And special compliments to Melissa for being so brsve to show up with her full heart...I do not know how many people could do that. I believe it is one of the most courageous things to do. Looking forward for new episodes!
I love the concept of interdependence. I’ve never resonated with the idea of complete and total independence. We need people and starving ourselves of connection with others ultimately starves us of connection with ourselves. We can have healthy boundaries with all these people in our lives. My challenge right now is redirecting my desire to fix others to helping and not denying myself help. I also really liked the concept of being a good partner to ourselves, I’ve heard that advice before but something about the way you presented it made more sense.
Really interesting session. I am watching your videos to learn from a more experiences coach. I saw a few closed ended questions and guiding which I like, it is just that according to ICF guidelines you are not suppose to guide the client. I heard you say before that we shouldn't be so structured and limited in the way we coach and that we should help the client transform their past events and beliefs that are limiting them, which again contradicts the ICF. Would like your comment about it. Thanks and keep serving people the best possible way!!!
you probably dont give a shit but does anybody know of a method to log back into an Instagram account? I stupidly forgot the login password. I would love any assistance you can offer me
Yes I agree. When she said she knew all of this - well, I dont feel like she had an aha moment because Christine told her all of this instead of helping her with more open ended Qs. I also studied coaching in an ICF certified school.
My history IS myself. Judging my history IS judging myself. THANK YOU I SAW IT AND UNDERSTOOD IT AND FELT IT. Also I made a deep insight on how counter-intuitive it is for me to set expectations for my goals AND constantly beating myself up for not doing it. Because in the end - I associate pain and anxiety with my goals. Its almost ironic, as if - the need and desire to get this work done, actually causes me NOT to get it done haha. I dropped into the sense of "i'm only 19, im chilling, i have all the time in the world" and i just felt a huge relief inside. I wish i could hold onto this feeling of awareness and different perspective, it ends up going away after a while. THANK YOU SO MUCH I LOVE YOU AND I'M SO GRATEFUL TO HAVE FOUND YOU
Thank you so much for this interview.! It helped me see I have a choice about how I treat myself after I had to end a friendship that turned toxic. I don't have to beat myself up for "failing" to make the friendship better, but can give myself a pat on the back for getting out of the situation in a quick, kind way when I realized I really needed to do that.
thank you so much to this sweet beautiful woman! i am her. right down to the end where she says she knows what to do and christine telling her it's the pattern again - woke me right up! i do the same thing. xxxo
Hi Christine, I love you so much, thank you for your coaching session, I will be back shortly. xxx I am very proud of your client, she doesnt know how beatiful she is...............she is so brave....thanks very much!
Letting go of judgment from your past and your choices is part of self care. Judgment and shame puts a hole in the bottom of the cup you're trying to fill. 1. Acceptance of your choices 2. Forgiveness of yourself 3. Watching your inner judge.
Thank you for such an insightful session. I have worked on self-forgiveness and I encourage it with my own clients but after listening to this session I realise that I still have a lot of self-judgement related to past relationships. More work to do on my own self-love. Nameste
Hi i loved this. I am a teacher. Ive been a wellness coach and learning to be a transformational coach and confidence coach. . I hope to learn as much as i can, but my profession has taught me how to relate to all sorts of people and i have grown spiritually. I think you are amazing and want to thank you. As even coaches need to be kinder to themselves and i am so glad i came across your youtube channel. Do you have workshops ,courses? I really found your video very beneficial. Thankyou for your guidance.
My favorite part was when Christine said, you keep saying it's hard and that is a cop out and the aha was she isn't completely there for me. as well as when we judge ourselves we carry around shame and we have shame around the choices we made.
Hi Christine! My name is Taylor and I'm a beginner in life coaching. I was wondering how much do you tie your work into psychology and spirituality? I noticed throughout the session that you kept bringing up getting into alignment with yourself and how Melissa was on the right path to be alone instead of being in a partnership.
The chuckles holding you back, the shame that is the hole in the cup.... this is where and why I feel so stuck, I have had the awareness of how shame keeps me stuck and powerless, and which choices the shame is cinnected to, but no tool for how to brake through my resistance to accept past choices, to let them go. Maybe the way to frame it - to finally figure out how to let go of my shame around bad choices due to codependent patterns and enmeshment trauma- will be to thank those really bad choices for bringing me to where I am today, to see that I had to come so far off to realize the codependency and see that this is a pattern I want and wish to change. Can I use gratitude and thankfulness to the upwakening the bad choice offered, as a way to tackle shame and break the shuckles holding me back?
great insightful conversation. great rapport. i even learned that right now i would like to stay committed to myself and be by myself growing and strengthening my relationship with me. as much as i’d like a relationship with a man, i feel like right now is not an appropriate time to date someone outside of myself, and surprisingly i’m perfectly ok with that, it makes me feel grounded and rooted in myself. and when it’s the season for being with my heaven sent husband, my intuition will guide me right to him, i won’t even have to search and i’m trusting that. so i’m 100% faithful to this journey path that i have been set on. and i’m so happy and grateful for it because each day it feels better and better. it’s a sweet life we have. edit: she has 222 likes. i’m about to make it 223 lol
Does it seem like she answered yes so quickly to everything the coach said. It would be interesting 🤔 how the coaching session would go if she blamed her exes for everything and not herself.
This really opened my eyes to the shame I have for myself. It's amazing how we all have individual paths, but we can learn the same life lessons to grow from our past choices.
A very interesting session C&M, and very good points about self-acceptance and
self- forgiveness..for..!? 🤗👍
19:33 great illustration, good reminder. "I can try but it's just hard." = not committing fully, not giving it priority
Compliments, Christine, for being so generous to share these powerful educational experiences with all of us! And special compliments to Melissa for being so brsve to show up with her full heart...I do not know how many people could do that. I believe it is one of the most courageous things to do. Looking forward for new episodes!
I love the concept of interdependence. I’ve never resonated with the idea of complete and total independence. We need people and starving ourselves of connection with others ultimately starves us of connection with ourselves. We can have healthy boundaries with all these people in our lives. My challenge right now is redirecting my desire to fix others to helping and not denying myself help. I also really liked the concept of being a good partner to ourselves, I’ve heard that advice before but something about the way you presented it made more sense.
Really interesting session.
I am watching your videos to learn from a more experiences coach. I saw a few closed ended questions and guiding which I like, it is just that according to ICF guidelines you are not suppose to guide the client.
I heard you say before that we shouldn't be so structured and limited in the way we coach and that we should help the client transform their past events and beliefs that are limiting them, which again contradicts the ICF.
Would like your comment about it.
Thanks and keep serving people the best possible way!!!
you probably dont give a shit but does anybody know of a method to log back into an Instagram account?
I stupidly forgot the login password. I would love any assistance you can offer me
Yes I agree. When she said she knew all of this - well, I dont feel like she had an aha moment because Christine told her all of this instead of helping her with more open ended Qs. I also studied coaching in an ICF certified school.
My history IS myself. Judging my history IS judging myself. THANK YOU I SAW IT AND UNDERSTOOD IT AND FELT IT. Also I made a deep insight on how counter-intuitive it is for me to set expectations for my goals AND constantly beating myself up for not doing it. Because in the end - I associate pain and anxiety with my goals. Its almost ironic, as if - the need and desire to get this work done, actually causes me NOT to get it done haha. I dropped into the sense of "i'm only 19, im chilling, i have all the time in the world" and i just felt a huge relief inside. I wish i could hold onto this feeling of awareness and different perspective, it ends up going away after a while.
THANK YOU SO MUCH I LOVE YOU AND I'M SO GRATEFUL TO HAVE FOUND YOU
Thank you so much for this interview.! It helped me see I have a choice about how I treat myself after I had to end a friendship that turned toxic. I don't have to beat myself up for "failing" to make the friendship better, but can give myself a pat on the back for getting out of the situation in a quick, kind way when I realized I really needed to do that.
Christine is an exceptional coach. These videos are very insightful. ❤😊
thank you so much to this sweet beautiful woman! i am her. right down to the end where she says she knows what to do and christine telling her it's the pattern again - woke me right up! i do the same thing. xxxo
Hi Christine, I love you so much, thank you for your coaching session, I will be back shortly. xxx I am very proud of your client, she doesnt know how beatiful she is...............she is so brave....thanks very much!
My biggest self love block is I devalue myself. I will value myself, because everyone has value, and I will remember I am equal to others.
This woman is a genius 👏
Letting go of judgment from your past and your choices is part of self care. Judgment and shame puts a hole in the bottom of the cup you're trying to fill. 1. Acceptance of your choices 2. Forgiveness of yourself 3. Watching your inner judge.
Thank you for such an insightful session. I have worked on self-forgiveness and I encourage it with my own clients but after listening to this session I realise that I still have a lot of self-judgement related to past relationships. More work to do on my own self-love. Nameste
Great job!!! Wow, I feel like I need a coach now...powerful
What a beautiful spirit Christine is.................
Hi i loved this. I am a teacher. Ive been a wellness coach and learning to be a transformational coach and confidence coach. . I hope to learn as much as i can, but my profession has taught me how to relate to all sorts of people and i have grown spiritually. I think you are amazing and want to thank you. As even coaches need to be kinder to themselves and i am so glad i came across your youtube channel. Do you have workshops ,courses? I really found your video very beneficial. Thankyou for your guidance.
You are doing such beautiful work! Thank you so much.
My favorite part was when Christine said, you keep saying it's hard and that is a cop out and the aha was she isn't completely there for me. as well as when we judge ourselves we carry around shame and we have shame around the choices we made.
Hi Christine! My name is Taylor and I'm a beginner in life coaching. I was wondering how much do you tie your work into psychology and spirituality? I noticed throughout the session that you kept bringing up getting into alignment with yourself and how Melissa was on the right path to be alone instead of being in a partnership.
The chuckles holding you back, the shame that is the hole in the cup.... this is where and why I feel so stuck, I have had the awareness of how shame keeps me stuck and powerless, and which choices the shame is cinnected to, but no tool for how to brake through my resistance to accept past choices, to let them go. Maybe the way to frame it - to finally figure out how to let go of my shame around bad choices due to codependent patterns and enmeshment trauma- will be to thank those really bad choices for bringing me to where I am today, to see that I had to come so far off to realize the codependency and see that this is a pattern I want and wish to change.
Can I use gratitude and thankfulness to the upwakening the bad choice offered, as a way to tackle shame and break the shuckles holding me back?
Well done Melissa. Wonderful session Christine. Please share Melissa's progress 💙
Wow!
Amazing !! Learned so much from this coaching session.
this is beautiful and educational.
This was a wonderful session , it's an educational experience for me .I love your approach & rapport .Thanks for sharing ..keep shining 💫💫
My compliments from Germany. Very good Job (from a perspective of a pastor and coach) ;)
Thank u so much! K needed this! I'm doing my best is what I needed to change not I'm tying not it's to hard I'm doing my best thank u!
there was a bit of a soft telling in this session, is that how coaching can be done as well ?
Hi. What is soft telling and which one was soft telling? I would love to further understand your question. Thank you.
this video was beautiful 🙌🏾
This in a nutshell is therapy and counselling and inner transformation
great insightful conversation. great rapport. i even learned that right now i would like to stay committed to myself and be by myself growing and strengthening my relationship with me. as much as i’d like a relationship with a man, i feel like right now is not an appropriate time to date someone outside of myself, and surprisingly i’m perfectly ok with that, it makes me feel grounded and rooted in myself. and when it’s the season for being with my heaven sent husband, my intuition will guide me right to him, i won’t even have to search and i’m trusting that. so i’m 100% faithful to this journey path that i have been set on. and i’m so happy and grateful for it because each day it feels better and better. it’s a sweet life we have.
edit: she has 222 likes. i’m about to make it 223 lol
Thank you so much!For this video.
Does it seem like she answered yes so quickly to everything the coach said. It would be interesting 🤔 how the coaching session would go if she blamed her exes for everything and not herself.
Ugh the jargon..but the second half was good. Thank you.
Great!
I lesrnd soooo much ... I have I client weith similar issues
˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ So cute!
I am the real Hassler
I have all my volumes; truck, phone, mic, TH-cam....and you still sound muffled. Totally turned off by your soft spoken voice ...