there are many “husband’s gal” everywhere, even in non celebrities, except she won’t be as hyped as a “wife guy” because society doesn’t care for women and what she does. it’s the same as people praising a man for doing bare minimum as a dad but a mom, who literally does the most for a child goes unappreciated because “it’s her job as a woman” after all 🙄🙄
Husband girl are also trolled in public most of these husband girls famous for justifying husband's crimes example slipa shetty is a husband girl that hype her husband raj kundra
Lol again with the victim playing 🤣 Men and women just have different struggles. If a guy breaks down, not many will pick him up as many people would cheer for him when he wins in his field but a lot of people will help a girl willingly and unconditionally when she's broken but not many will cheer for her when she makes it Also a wife guy is probably not financially dependant on his wife (if he is, she's probably exploring options like it happens in most cases) while a husband gal(the non celebrity ones) is most probably financially dependant on him.
I agree to this.. i see this is in relatives as well, they never feel pleased seeing a wife love her husband so much, as if "ya, it's her job".. but if the husband shows that, he either becomes "oh, such a pulchritude" or "joru ka ghulam"
To elaborate on one of your points, so many women give up/ are made to give up or take a break from their careers to start a family or in general, now because that she's married. Isn't that another husband's gal phenomena ?? But it will never looked upon as being supportive or self-less. For women, these are one of the many unsolicited responsibilities she never asked for.
@@apurvabachute3692 exactly. The world is like this since ever. "Eve seduced Adam, at the Eden Garden, to make that mistake. That's why life on Earth started" Adam to bachcha tha na. Eve ki hi to galti h sb.
**All girls are bullshit*** sab natak chalta hai idhar. I listened a joke that a girl's heart breaks. Hahahaha. Girls are queens for breakup initiatives, flaking, looting money. and I still wonder they can even love.
It's the same with men taking care of their own children even if it's for a brief time, someone who'll clean up after himself or if he treats women like fellow beings and doesn't misbehave. While women are compared with those who are better than them, men will be compared with those who are worse than them and justify their actions. The bar for men is so low, it's a tavern in hades.
I would much rather have Indian men aspire to be 'wife guys' than the 'stalker/mard/angry young man' they've been portrayed as for so long. As far as whether its an act or genuine, i feel it does not matter. Everything celebs do is for the public eye, so might as well do something that could have a positive impact on the society. Why women dont need to be husband's gal because that's status quo - hence women are celebrated when they break out of the norm and claim their male-free independence. Thus, overall I do not agree with the arguments here.
The amount of conflicts and dare I say hypocrisy in your comment is staggering On one hand you praise and celebrate "when women break free from the status quo of husband's gal and claim their male free independence" because for centuries due to patriarchy it was not possible ,at the same you look at a wife's guy with suspicion and contemplate "whether it's an act or genuine" . You are celebrating one gender for breaking gender rules and looking at another gender with suspicion for breaking gender rules. And what is your problem with indian men that you blatantly labeled them as someone who aspires to be a stalker/mard/angry young man, implying that you see them as an already bad person who need to better themselves. Imagine if I gender swapped your comment and said something along the lines of I would much rather have Indian women aspire to be a loyal wife than a gold digger/manipulative/sl*t. You would have been the 1st one to call out this sexism
@@Parrot3054 Truth is Indians have an inferiority complex to look for approval and follow western 1rd world concepts without even looking at our culture, history and dharma. Mainly indian women have that. They know to throw big english words which i am sure they can't even translate to their own mother tongue language. Our culture never lacked equality, compassion, morality, ethics and intelligence in any form. Be urself and try to be a dharmic person (follower of ur duty, truth, non-violence, anti-hatred) overall its not that difficult. Indian women online are some of the most garbage white wannabe mental sI*ves i have seen. Be urself, listen to ur parents. Lol.
@@bhavya5692 I understand and respect your intentions but it's not a practical solution. Like a guy judging all girls because some girls are gold digger is wrong(misogyny), same way a girl judging all guys because some guys are mysogynist is also wrong and is actually misandry. Obviously calling out wrong behaviour of any individual regardless of gender is necessary but for a betterment of society not because some girl might judge whole of guys as the onus of judgment will lie upon the girl herself not guys in this case. Have a nice day. Peace✌
@@CR-un4yd well I'm a bit new to this term of a gold digger..can you please elaborate what a gold digger means? Like when someone does not have money for themselves but depend on others for it? What about people who earn themselves and want their partners to earn a decent amount too? They'll be called gold diggers too? And what about people who are forced to stop their income in order to give their time to the family and children? Are they gold diggers too? I'm really confused...can someone please explain?
4:34 The OG was Sharmila Tagore who upon her husband’s loss in a cricket match had to head to safety because people were threatening to burn down the stadium.
In the realm of showbiz, everything celebrities do is part and parcel of their PR to better their professional gambit. The "Wife Guy" trope is just another facet of good PR. So it is asinine to read too much into it, unless one makes a living out of it. A "Husband's gal" wouldn't sell as much as a "Wife Guy" because then society would mistake it for the husband controlling his wife and the wife having no say in the matter and then it wouldn't be good PR.
This is very much unrelated, but I just have a feeling that you’re a good writer… May I get some book recommendations from you? (I know this sounds completely crazy, but please and thank you!)
I totally agree . I always tell men , If u have so much problem , u leave ur house , take the wife's name handle their side of the family and then see what's tough
I always thought it was weird to praise the husband's or boys for doing normal activities.. when my brother cooks it's suddenly a huge achivement while my sister cooks it's not good enough for her to get married 🙄..
*when a women earns money. no one comment whether its low or high. but when men makes small money only he knows how much pain he goes through. people will shame him, he cant show his face to relatives. no girl gonna marry him. and vice versa for girls when it comes to cooking* so we are not same
@@anempath24 yeah.. I'm not saying girls are the only one facing inequality also the lack of expectations like that is also a kind of inequality for girls too because when girls wants to work or get good education most of the time they are not even getting a chance to study they are getting treated like a object that's only for decoration purposes .. but compared to boys girls are always facing more inequality... But the problem is not whose facing more problems it's that we need to break this gender stereotypes in our generation give equal chances nd choices to everyone regardless of gender .. be it a man or woman or any person...
i feel that this 'wife guy' trend is just another gimmick to sell the men written by women trope, now a days we see most of the married male celebrities of India trying to be the same type of men who flaunt their women, Ranveer Singh might be the pioneer of the trend, and seeing this behavior of his being liked, the rest of the male celebrities started following this trend.
@@tinkerbell9282 they are actors, behaving normal is not entertaining, behaving abnormal is. You're fooled by your fav actors. They talk like you, think like you and shit like you every morning.
I think there is nothing wrong in wife guys ..or whatever ..instead it's a welcoming change and wrath against the men cheating seem more positive to me ...because earlier if men used to cheat , nothing happens to him , he was not criticised rather his wife was to be blamed or insulted for not doing enough to keep him ..but yes in Anushka case , that speaks how women are seen as obstacle in male success .....rather than finding a cause of male's failure , suddenly women are blamed .
I think people are just shocked to see how someone who show that they love their wives so much have the capability to cheat, not realizing it's perhaps just them creating a image that will gain them fans that every celebrity has to do. Or a deep psychological reason as stated in the comments before is that making one image as their identity makes every other part of their personality rebel against it and hence leads them to cheat to destroy that image
Husband's gal more of will be like '' she either doing it to please her husband or she's supposed to be like that" according to society we live in, I guess wife guys sell more because we don't often see men's gushing over their wives in public or showing affection in front of everyone, Let's take an example like see if my dad made a tea once in while the whole family praises him for doing it whereas my mom who makes tea everyday we tend find no interest in it or probably it's more considered her job and same wife gushing about her husband more or like considered her job by societal standards!! BTW it doesn't matter how we display our relationship in public we should always be loyal to one though!
Nope, husband's guy won't be hotcake as every women since centuries have taken this role. 'Wife guy' is like the 'nice guy' trope.Every girl wishes for a 'nice guy' but can't see their toxic traits.Wife guy is a similar thing.
why is it that men showing their love towards their wives is the problem and not the internet warriors who will go beyond lengths to blame the wives as in Anushka's case?🙃🙃🙃
A genuine couple is one in which they are just themselves everywhere, not only on social media but in real life. Life is not just about significant events like the Red Carpet; it might also be as simple as going on an evening walk with their partner, stopping at a tea stall for a cup of tea, reminiscing the days when they were younger, without attempting to catch the attention of the media because, they don't feel the need to prove their chemistry, or love for each other to the world, but just to each other. Also, we have plenty of examples of significant icons who have always been entirely raw and honest in their PDA, whether on-screen or off-screen. At the end of the day, we all are humans, and we all do come to know with our intuition whether they are actually faking it or not. 🤔🤔🤔
It's the bare minimum to be respectful to your wife lol... There was nothing wrong with that trope until people found out all these men like ned Fulmer, Adam Levine, etc all their cheating scandals got caught. That was when the trope fell apart because people realise they were just faking to be nice and that was all for the brand, money, and popularity.
husbands gals are a lot more common than wife guys. Its expected for women to be their husbands greatest both in and away the limelight, and nobody bats an eye when they do...But wife guys are rare, so they're hyped and put on a pedestal
@@siddharthmohanty5341 if a guy is affectionate about his wife that's great! Ofcourse it should be appreciated....the question is why aren't husband gals appreciated the same way ? Why is it considered to be a bare minimum?
@@siddharthmohanty5341 they get hyped up because they portray something every women or girl wish for deep in their heart, a little soft and understanding type of men, which many women don't get to experience in real life.
@@osamudazai2377 i don't think so. It is wht they get. Don't tell about olden days it was much worse. As compared to olden days, men are more understanding to women .
I remember long back when Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman were married she was asked in an interview about the best part of being TC's wife and she says the best part of being TomCruise's wife was that she gets to sleep with him everyday. Tongue in cheek but honest and that is a husband gal for me. Just say it as it is. Zyaada hype ya diss karne ki zaroorat nahi
agree max. it also brings spotlight on the husband than the appreciation that the wife is given like in the case of ryan reynolds! why is him being awestruck a big deal? isn't blake lively otherwise gorgeous or is being awestruck some kind of an achievement that it became all about him! did he fight a war or what?! eventually, the point is to glorify none of them and to not set expectations for every other man and every other woman basing on certain public behaviors of affection. and accepting and normalizing pda, love irrespective of the gender and the extravagance/simplicity of the performance of loving. because showing affection is a means of practising love than it is a performance, isn't it? performance leads to a trend of performances competing with each other for validation than coming from the intention of solely acting out of a sense of affection leading to chronic fatigue of performing love.
Ranveer and virat kohli are educated men of today. What they're is normal for them. What's happening around them is basically says a lot about us. Also the reason nick jonas plays sucker for priyanka chopra is because PC is more successful than her husband. In fact she needs to step away from limelight and display her husband even more. Besides nick jonas has a habit of dating more successful women than him. Just ask selena gomez.
Srsly?? Nick Jonas is an international musician.. Whereas PC at the time was just acting in her first hollywood series.. He has been a Disney star since childhood..PC is still known as Nick Jonas wife in Hollywood.. Get ur facts checkd dude
@@proudindian9140 firstly, ranveer singh has a bachalors degree in telecommunications from Indiana University in 2008. Besides the point, men who celebrates their partner regardless is educated in my eyes.
@@swatisaini6447 when they are still in relationship, they are influencers 🤗 When they breakup or divorce, it's their personal life 😌 Yeh log kabhi nahi sudharenge 🤣🤣
I would rather have 4 girlfriends than making a bi*ch happy out of the fear of her befriended someone and cheating, women aren't that special as u think they are
Even if a guy is praising his wife for her beauty, her intellect, her achievements, or any random thing I don't think there's anything to doubt or introspect, even if they're doing this for themselves or if they're mesmerized by her is no wrong, no? I agree this is the basic criteria for a healthy relationship but still we don't see this that much, atleast here in India, even if they're doing this, I guess they are also inspiring men in today's time, I feel🤔
Ok wife guys exist in real life too. My seniors in facebook , Instagram and watsapp show off their beautiful wife to the world . Glorify their wives soo much. They write beautiful long texts about her praising her etc and simultaneously flirt with juniors and subordinates. Try to make them their mistress . They put a facade of a lawfully married family man who has perfect life and children but don't hesitate to send friend request to girls and flirt with them online. They ask for dates etc.
I always used to think this why this is so extraordinary incredibly wonderful when men do simple normal things for their women like people love praise them so much for this and this feel so weird like people praise them for doing bare minimum but not the wives (whom these mem worship) who's doing everything... i mean it's still about the man not the wife and i hate it'. I don't like nice guys too cuz they're not nice in real . Fuck the world.
I am sorry but this was probably the most unintentionally funny videos for me from swaddle 😅😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂 My emotions while watching the video went from -- wife guys, what is that? --To--okay..wife guys is kind of good--To--oh wife guys is also kind of a scam--To--why does "wife guy" tag exists at all😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 Edit: I am sorry guys but no one cares about this wife guy nonsense outside of Twitter and Instagram. Continue with your BAITED series it's one of your finest works👌👍🏻
I think it reinforces the overt celebration for men just doing the bare minimum It’s still a start tho.. considering our society still needs something outside of hard misogyny in domestic violence, marital rape, daily mental n emotional abuse, etc etc
This is really making an issue out of nothing really. Kinda stuff that makes people weary of political correctness and social justice that a lot of them are turning weary of actual and real problems in the society. This is a bit too much.
I wonder who in their right minds think that a wife guy is a real thing. Only movie stars, tv stars and social media influencers do this shit. In real life one can be affectionate or very fond of his wife but he won't to do so publicly in your face type display of emotion. Celebrities are cartoons..they are fun to look at but don't imitate them coz that will end badly for you.
Thank you.From the perspective of mere mortals, is unclear what super famous couple's domestic life entails, and how much of it wife guys participate in.
I always wondered why ''swaddle'' videos has a lot of Hollywood movies and stars' references despite being an indian channel but I am really disappointed and disheartened by knowing the fact that most of their content comes from channels like ''the take''. In academia, we call this plagarism and although you tried improvising it by adding ranveer Singh and kholi's examples but still 70% of the other reference were exactly same as the video on that channel. I thought you were a brilliant channel exploring new dimensions of the changing indian society but I had no clue that all those videos of yours that I was consuming so far was a result of plagiarism!!!
And I am now saying that one cannot seek inspiration from others. There is no harm in taking ideas from others but you know what, copying is also an art and you have failed miserably in it. Even if you have decided to talk about the idea of 'wife's guy', you would have made it by keeping indian society in mind, giving more indian examples rather than giving those Hollywood movies and stars' references whom I hardly know !! Stop doing this westernisation and comparing ourselves with west !! We have enough of our own examples and role models, you need not to justify indian phenomenons by giving western examples!!
Wife guys are different from SIMPS. Do not cleverly mix it. Those celebs you are giving example may end up getting divorce in some time. Maximum time it's their publicity trick.
Soo according to you if a man doesnt give credit to his wife then he is supressing his wife. But if he treats her woman as a queen he is just doing for attention. Do you even read your own script before shooting for the video.
such a shame you guys literally copied the whole video's idea and even clips from my favorite channel, "the take" !!!!!!! "THE TAKE" did it first and months ago
Here is my 2 cents about the topic. It's really strange that if Anushka Sharma has took a pause in her career for husband and kid it's not even noticed or worse scrutinized for being that woman for setting up bad example however if Virat just praises Anushka for being always there and taking a stand for her (however both are jus performing their duties as partners). I didn't knew there is a term for this until now. But damn the amount of attention at times these celebrities give to their wives in public eye definitely feels like a part of branding. Not saying none of them are genuine but most of it feels like PR activity and some of the fan pages use them to subtly influence in thinking they are the best couple too. WHAT a STRANGE ERA we are living in?
The word you are looking for is called SIMP. All sunshine and rainbows until you pay alimony and child support, which is common for celebrities not for common people.
Husband gal?? What are you talking about babe. Most women over the years were forced to base their identity around their husbands and kids, considering they were not given education and the necessary professional support. There are husband's gal aplenty. Ofcourse that is considered their "duty", so no praise or recognition for being a devoted wife there
husband's gal will be named as ' unfeminist ' behavior or taking advantage of his name because society can't accept women just being present with their emotion, either she is not enough or too much
You have a problem with wife guy wow.. I think being a wife guy is way better than being masculine toxic guys..not all guys who appreciate their wife cheats.. U can't generalize everyone.. The video is very one way approach.. Shame
I didn't agree with some of the swaddle arguments, and this is one of them. Of course there is going to be something negative and bad in everything that exists. Some dude cheated on his beautiful wife even while expressing his 'love' publicly, doesn't mean every men do that. For hundred of years, Wife's always mentioned how their husbands are like and they were just 'Husbands Girl'. wife's were not even noticed or heard by society. Now they are, and it's just a new change. and Change will always have both sides, good and bad. What matters is how much it is helping others or whether it's showing more positive results than negative. It's such a simple thing to understand. How can you Swaddle guys not understand this? Don't just try to make some random pointless videos just because you guys need to update on the channel regularly. I'm honestly getting bored and tired of recent videos of SWADDLE Channel!!
researchers have proved that women are more attracted to guys in a relationship. this wife guys are just exploiting taht because most of their fans are women
In the same video, you have said that "wife guys" do the bare minimum which should not be applauded AND said that they are doing this as a trophy wife display with ulterior motives lol. Basically these guys can't win. What a clickbaity pandering take with near zero analysis.
@@anuprabhabansod that's what this feminist are doing here in India. They should talking about ground reality of India other than coping western contents. These Indian feminist are dumb
4:53 oh. Really curious to know about other personal life. And also being judgement, and also promoting cancel culture. Your negative view never be taken by this generation.
She literally just denied to know about their personal lives 🙄 and obviously no one is canceling the wife guys...we do like wife guys. But it's advisable to remove the rose tinted lenses once on a while. This is the view that this generation loves.
@@samtruptimohanty6162 oh really, deny about other personal matter. She is being judgemental of other personal matter if a woman have male friends being judgemental is bad ,but when coming to wife guys. She can be judgement by calling that having secret toxic character.
@@samtruptimohanty6162 nobody is asking to cancel nice guy? So if u have a disagreement with my view do u cancel me? From where did u got this authority? She indirectly support cancel culture which is toxic
@@samtruptimohanty6162 and If i have a view about female who have male friends. had having a relationship with this kind of people is bad. If I say that statement by adding by removing rose tainted lenses ones a while. U will call me sexist. But if it's other gender it's ok👏
When chatur couldn't top on his own, he pulled other down. Similarly here feminist can't accept a happy loving couple in media because it make them feel inferior and since feminist can be happy they're simply blaming happy couples. I would say please inhale copium
Lol you do realize she’s right, the “wife guy” image is nothing but a marketing scheme done by their PR departments. Anyone whose ever worked in the industry will tell you the same
there are many “husband’s gal” everywhere, even in non celebrities, except she won’t be as hyped as a “wife guy” because society doesn’t care for women and what she does. it’s the same as people praising a man for doing bare minimum as a dad but a mom, who literally does the most for a child goes unappreciated because “it’s her job as a woman” after all 🙄🙄
Husband girl are also trolled in public most of these husband girls famous for justifying husband's crimes example slipa shetty is a husband girl that hype her husband raj kundra
Lol again with the victim playing 🤣
Men and women just have different struggles.
If a guy breaks down, not many will pick him up as many people would cheer for him when he wins in his field but a lot of people will help a girl willingly and unconditionally when she's broken but not many will cheer for her when she makes it
Also a wife guy is probably not financially dependant on his wife (if he is, she's probably exploring options like it happens in most cases) while a husband gal(the non celebrity ones) is most probably financially dependant on him.
I agree to this.. i see this is in relatives as well, they never feel pleased seeing a wife love her husband so much, as if "ya, it's her job".. but if the husband shows that, he either becomes "oh, such a pulchritude" or "joru ka ghulam"
To elaborate on one of your points, so many women give up/ are made to give up or take a break from their careers to start a family or in general, now because that she's married. Isn't that another husband's gal phenomena ?? But it will never looked upon as being supportive or self-less. For women, these are one of the many unsolicited responsibilities she never asked for.
@@apurvabachute3692 exactly. The world is like this since ever. "Eve seduced Adam, at the Eden Garden, to make that mistake. That's why life on Earth started"
Adam to bachcha tha na. Eve ki hi to galti h sb.
“Ranveer Singh, India’s Nomination for the Wife Guy…” had me giggling. Not because that’s untrue or bad, but it’s the wording for me 😂
man I see you everywhere lmao
**All girls are bullshit*** sab natak chalta hai idhar.
I listened a joke that a girl's heart breaks. Hahahaha. Girls are queens for breakup initiatives, flaking, looting money. and I still wonder they can even love.
@@janhaveejaware9138 same
It's the same with men taking care of their own children even if it's for a brief time, someone who'll clean up after himself or if he treats women like fellow beings and doesn't misbehave.
While women are compared with those who are better than them, men will be compared with those who are worse than them and justify their actions.
The bar for men is so low, it's a tavern in hades.
The bar for men in India is low. You said well.
@@kajolsharma8840 the bar for everything is low here
@I want Milk😭 That's because 79% Indian men still want them to be unemployed and feed on their husbands, fathers.
True that
@@cauliflowerheadsfather2343 Nah nah! Not for Career
I would much rather have Indian men aspire to be 'wife guys' than the 'stalker/mard/angry young man' they've been portrayed as for so long. As far as whether its an act or genuine, i feel it does not matter. Everything celebs do is for the public eye, so might as well do something that could have a positive impact on the society. Why women dont need to be husband's gal because that's status quo - hence women are celebrated when they break out of the norm and claim their male-free independence. Thus, overall I do not agree with the arguments here.
You are the only one who makes sense here
Truth is we don't care 😂🤣.
I do whatever tf i want. Human Civilisation wouldn't exist if men started looking for women's approval. 😂
Atleast one genuine comments rest are just saying men are bad even if they praise their wives
The amount of conflicts and dare I say hypocrisy in your comment is staggering
On one hand you praise and celebrate "when women break free from the status quo of husband's gal and claim their male free independence" because for centuries due to patriarchy it was not possible ,at the same you look at a wife's guy with suspicion and contemplate "whether it's an act or genuine" .
You are celebrating one gender for breaking gender rules and looking at another gender with suspicion for breaking gender rules.
And what is your problem with indian men that you blatantly labeled them as someone who aspires to be a stalker/mard/angry young man, implying that you see them as an already bad person who need to better themselves.
Imagine if I gender swapped your comment and said something along the lines of I would much rather have Indian women aspire to be a loyal wife than a gold digger/manipulative/sl*t. You would have been the 1st one to call out this sexism
@@Parrot3054 Truth is Indians have an inferiority complex to look for approval and follow western 1rd world concepts without even looking at our culture, history and dharma. Mainly indian women have that. They know to throw big english words which i am sure they can't even translate to their own mother tongue language. Our culture never lacked equality, compassion, morality, ethics and intelligence in any form. Be urself and try to be a dharmic person (follower of ur duty, truth, non-violence, anti-hatred) overall its not that difficult.
Indian women online are some of the most garbage white wannabe mental sI*ves i have seen. Be urself, listen to ur parents. Lol.
Guys who troll Anushka if Virat doesn't perform well and those who praises Virat after he plays a good inning aren't same.
Y'all should call them out then, make those men take accountability. Otherwise all of u will get blamed for a small group's actions too.
@@bhavya5692 I understand and respect your intentions but it's not a practical solution. Like a guy judging all girls because some girls are gold digger is wrong(misogyny), same way a girl judging all guys because some guys are mysogynist is also wrong and is actually misandry. Obviously calling out wrong behaviour of any individual regardless of gender is necessary but for a betterment of society not because some girl might judge whole of guys as the onus of judgment will lie upon the girl herself not guys in this case.
Have a nice day. Peace✌
Exactly.
@@kartikeypandey8957 I agree with you except that its facit truth that most girls are gold digger
@@CR-un4yd well I'm a bit new to this term of a gold digger..can you please elaborate what a gold digger means? Like when someone does not have money for themselves but depend on others for it? What about people who earn themselves and want their partners to earn a decent amount too? They'll be called gold diggers too? And what about people who are forced to stop their income in order to give their time to the family and children? Are they gold diggers too? I'm really confused...can someone please explain?
4:34 The OG was Sharmila Tagore who upon her husband’s loss in a cricket match had to head to safety because people were threatening to burn down the stadium.
In the realm of showbiz, everything celebrities do is part and parcel of their PR to better their professional gambit. The "Wife Guy" trope is just another facet of good PR. So it is asinine to read too much into it, unless one makes a living out of it.
A "Husband's gal" wouldn't sell as much as a "Wife Guy" because then society would mistake it for the husband controlling his wife and the wife having no say in the matter and then it wouldn't be good PR.
This is very much unrelated, but I just have a feeling that you’re a good writer… May I get some book recommendations from you? (I know this sounds completely crazy, but please and thank you!)
I think it's better than a abusive husband
Exactly this!
I totally agree .
I always tell men , If u have so much problem , u leave ur house , take the wife's name handle their side of the family and then see what's tough
I always thought it was weird to praise the husband's or boys for doing normal activities.. when my brother cooks it's suddenly a huge achivement while my sister cooks it's not good enough for her to get married 🙄..
Well that's difference , because someone is doing , which people don't expected will get praised ,
Ya because both are different
The same thing can be said for woman getting a job
Its all about breaking gender stereotypes
*when a women earns money. no one comment whether its low or high. but when men makes small money only he knows how much pain he goes through. people will shame him, he cant show his face to relatives. no girl gonna marry him. and vice versa for girls when it comes to cooking* so we are not same
@@anempath24 yeah.. I'm not saying girls are the only one facing inequality also the lack of expectations like that is also a kind of inequality for girls too because when girls wants to work or get good education most of the time they are not even getting a chance to study they are getting treated like a object that's only for decoration purposes .. but compared to boys girls are always facing more inequality... But the problem is not whose facing more problems it's that we need to break this gender stereotypes in our generation give equal chances nd choices to everyone regardless of gender .. be it a man or woman or any person...
i feel that this 'wife guy' trend is just another gimmick to sell the men written by women trope, now a days we see most of the married male celebrities of India trying to be the same type of men who flaunt their women, Ranveer Singh might be the pioneer of the trend, and seeing this behavior of his being liked, the rest of the male celebrities started following this trend.
But I think ranveer and Ryan Reynolds are genuinely obsessed with their wives. Just like they should be
@@tinkerbell9282 They got problem with everything don't worry
Do that forget wannabe perfect couple and their PDA in insta reels 🤢🤢🤢
@@tinkerbell9282 they are actors, behaving normal is not entertaining, behaving abnormal is. You're fooled by your fav actors. They talk like you, think like you and shit like you every morning.
I think there is nothing wrong in wife guys ..or whatever ..instead it's a welcoming change and wrath against the men cheating seem more positive to me ...because earlier if men used to cheat , nothing happens to him , he was not criticised rather his wife was to be blamed or insulted for not doing enough to keep him ..but yes in Anushka case , that speaks how women are seen as obstacle in male success .....rather than finding a cause of male's failure , suddenly women are blamed .
I think people are just shocked to see how someone who show that they love their wives so much have the capability to cheat, not realizing it's perhaps just them creating a image that will gain them fans that every celebrity has to do.
Or a deep psychological reason as stated in the comments before is that making one image as their identity makes every other part of their personality rebel against it and hence leads them to cheat to destroy that image
but these so called wife guys also cheat. case in point adam levine. its all a scam
Husband's gal more of will be like '' she either doing it to please her husband or she's supposed to be like that" according to society we live in, I guess wife guys sell more because we don't often see men's gushing over their wives in public or showing affection in front of everyone, Let's take an example like see if my dad made a tea once in while the whole family praises him for doing it whereas my mom who makes tea everyday we tend find no interest in it or probably it's more considered her job and same wife gushing about her husband more or like considered her job by societal standards!! BTW it doesn't matter how we display our relationship in public we should always be loyal to one though!
Nope, husband's guy won't be hotcake as every women since centuries have taken this role.
'Wife guy' is like the 'nice guy' trope.Every girl wishes for a 'nice guy' but can't see their toxic traits.Wife guy is a similar thing.
Nah historically bad boys have prevailed over nice guys in preference
So bad guys are less Toxic? Or does your attraction to them make you ignore their toxicity.
@@kerriekupar6466 nobody can build relationships with toxic ppl
*husband's girl
Every girl wishes for a NICE GUY. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Gomez is the Wife Guy I believe in. VOTE FOR GOMEZ!
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Exactly
Gomez for the win 🙌🏻
Idk about ‘Husband’s Gal’ but WAG (Wives and Girlfriends Of) is still a term albeit used in a rather derogatory way.
why is it that men showing their love towards their wives is the problem and not the internet warriors who will go beyond lengths to blame the wives as in Anushka's case?🙃🙃🙃
A genuine couple is one in which they are just themselves everywhere, not only on social media but in real life. Life is not just about significant events like the Red Carpet; it might also be as simple as going on an evening walk with their partner, stopping at a tea stall for a cup of tea, reminiscing the days when they were younger, without attempting to catch the attention of the media because, they don't feel the need to prove their chemistry, or love for each other to the world, but just to each other. Also, we have plenty of examples of significant icons who have always been entirely raw and honest in their PDA, whether on-screen or off-screen. At the end of the day, we all are humans, and we all do come to know with our intuition whether they are actually faking it or not. 🤔🤔🤔
Lessons learnt : To get a wife guy, aka, nic guy, you need to be extremely pretty
It's the bare minimum to be respectful to your wife lol... There was nothing wrong with that trope until people found out all these men like ned Fulmer, Adam Levine, etc all their cheating scandals got caught. That was when the trope fell apart because people realise they were just faking to be nice and that was all for the brand, money, and popularity.
More women cheat and beg for alimony
My Goodness, your articulation, your eloquence, and your narratives are so thought-provoking. Kudos Team !!!
husbands gals are a lot more common than wife guys. Its expected for women to be their husbands greatest both in and away the limelight, and nobody bats an eye when they do...But wife guys are rare, so they're hyped and put on a pedestal
And who does that, women do. You all hype wife guys in one video for being caring and emotion and now you are blaming men 🙄
@@siddharthmohanty5341 if a guy is affectionate about his wife that's great! Ofcourse it should be appreciated....the question is why aren't husband gals appreciated the same way ? Why is it considered to be a bare minimum?
@@siddharthmohanty5341 they get hyped up because they portray something every women or girl wish for deep in their heart, a little soft and understanding type of men, which many women don't get to experience in real life.
@@osamudazai2377 i don't think so. It is wht they get. Don't tell about olden days it was much worse. As compared to olden days, men are more understanding to women .
This trend is not harmful. It benefits the society. Whether celebrities are doing it just for increasing fan base is not what we should worry about.
Wow this is something new. Never saw it from this perspective.
Breaking stereotypes creates more stereotypes.
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I'm glad to see you take up uncomfortable topics constantly, and address it with sensitivity. Genuinely thought provoking.
I remember long back when Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman were married she was asked in an interview about the best part of being TC's wife and she says the best part of being TomCruise's wife was that she gets to sleep with him everyday. Tongue in cheek but honest and that is a husband gal for me. Just say it as it is. Zyaada hype ya diss karne ki zaroorat nahi
agree max.
it also brings spotlight on the husband than the appreciation that the wife is given like in the case of ryan reynolds! why is him being awestruck a big deal? isn't blake lively otherwise gorgeous or is being awestruck some kind of an achievement that it became all about him! did he fight a war or what?!
eventually, the point is to glorify none of them and to not set expectations for every other man and every other woman basing on certain public behaviors of affection. and accepting and normalizing pda, love irrespective of the gender and the extravagance/simplicity of the performance of loving.
because showing affection is a means of practising love than it is a performance, isn't it? performance leads to a trend of performances competing with each other for validation than coming from the intention of solely acting out of a sense of affection leading to chronic fatigue of performing love.
Okay, this is brilliant, and I am questioning everything.
I am a 'husband's gal'! I praise him everywhere!
Good
What? I don't understand this term?
@@ashwinidesai4051 wife/husbands who think their husbands/wives are the only achievement they made in their whole life..
@@anuprabhabansod if husband /wife is rich then gr8
W
Ranveer and virat kohli are educated men of today. What they're is normal for them. What's happening around them is basically says a lot about us.
Also the reason nick jonas plays sucker for priyanka chopra is because PC is more successful than her husband. In fact she needs to step away from limelight and display her husband even more. Besides nick jonas has a habit of dating more successful women than him. Just ask selena gomez.
Srsly?? Nick Jonas is an international musician.. Whereas PC at the time was just acting in her first hollywood series.. He has been a Disney star since childhood..PC is still known as Nick Jonas wife in Hollywood.. Get ur facts checkd dude
both are 12th fail
@@MegaAsh112 you known this guy is dum when he said virat and ranveer are educated ?
@@proudindian9140 firstly, ranveer singh has a bachalors degree in telecommunications from Indiana University in 2008. Besides the point, men who celebrates their partner regardless is educated in my eyes.
Same old story:The Man ,The Boy and the Donkey amd we still are unable to understand the moral of the story swaddle.
Using examples of actors for wife guy? They don't have loyalty in their relationships
They do.they have a lot more options + avenues. Still they are loyal to each other
They are being talked about here bcoz celebrities have a lot of influence on their fans
@@swatisaini6447 plus they are elites
@@swatisaini6447 when they are still in relationship, they are influencers 🤗
When they breakup or divorce, it's their personal life 😌
Yeh log kabhi nahi sudharenge 🤣🤣
Women can befriend anyone they like at anytime husband's should not bother about all these things instead should try to find ways to her happy always
@I want Milk😭 good now get lost
@Somebody stole My penis😡 dont marry a feminist, you will be fine
I would rather have 4 girlfriends than making a bi*ch happy out of the fear of her befriended someone and cheating, women aren't that special as u think they are
Even if a guy is praising his wife for her beauty, her intellect, her achievements, or any random thing I don't think there's anything to doubt or introspect, even if they're doing this for themselves or if they're mesmerized by her is no wrong, no?
I agree this is the basic criteria for a healthy relationship but still we don't see this that much, atleast here in India, even if they're doing this, I guess they are also inspiring men in today's time, I feel🤔
Ok wife guys exist in real life too. My seniors in facebook , Instagram and watsapp show off their beautiful wife to the world . Glorify their wives soo much. They write beautiful long texts about her praising her etc and simultaneously flirt with juniors and subordinates. Try to make them their mistress . They put a facade of a lawfully married family man who has perfect life and children but don't hesitate to send friend request to girls and flirt with them online. They ask for dates etc.
The problem is you're calling them 'wife guys'. They're just guys.
If a guy is wife guy. Credit also goes to his wife for being good with him that he always favours her.
I always used to think this why this is so extraordinary incredibly wonderful when men do simple normal things for their women like people love praise them so much for this and this feel so weird like people praise them for doing bare minimum but not the wives (whom these mem worship) who's doing everything... i mean it's still about the man not the wife and i hate it'. I don't like nice guys too cuz they're not nice in real . Fuck the world.
Like so many other things, this trend is just trying to burn a hole in the pockets of women by exploiting their insecurities.
I am sorry but this was probably the most unintentionally funny videos for me from swaddle 😅😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂 My emotions while watching the video went from -- wife guys, what is that? --To--okay..wife guys is kind of good--To--oh wife guys is also kind of a scam--To--why does "wife guy" tag exists at all😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
Edit: I am sorry guys but no one cares about this wife guy nonsense outside of Twitter and Instagram. Continue with your BAITED series it's one of your finest works👌👍🏻
So true😂🤣Same here😂😂
I think it reinforces the overt celebration for men just doing the bare minimum
It’s still a start tho.. considering our society still needs something outside of hard misogyny in domestic violence, marital rape, daily mental n emotional abuse, etc etc
This is really making an issue out of nothing really. Kinda stuff that makes people weary of political correctness and social justice that a lot of them are turning weary of actual and real problems in the society. This is a bit too much.
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I wonder who in their right minds think that a wife guy is a real thing. Only movie stars, tv stars and social media influencers do this shit. In real life one can be affectionate or very fond of his wife but he won't to do so publicly in your face type display of emotion. Celebrities are cartoons..they are fun to look at but don't imitate them coz that will end badly for you.
Thank you.From the perspective of mere mortals, is unclear what super famous couple's domestic life entails, and how much of it wife guys participate in.
Another future contender for wife guy is Karan Kundra..always showing super affection to his girlfriends.
Thanku ❤ so much swaddle for this video
Alia Bhatt would clearly qualify to be the Husband's Gal, but people don't like it much
I always wondered why ''swaddle'' videos has a lot of Hollywood movies and stars' references despite being an indian channel but I am really disappointed and disheartened by knowing the fact that most of their content comes from channels like ''the take''. In academia, we call this plagarism and although you tried improvising it by adding ranveer Singh and kholi's examples but still 70% of the other reference were exactly same as the video on that channel. I thought you were a brilliant channel exploring new dimensions of the changing indian society but I had no clue that all those videos of yours that I was consuming so far was a result of plagiarism!!!
And I am now saying that one cannot seek inspiration from others. There is no harm in taking ideas from others but you know what, copying is also an art and you have failed miserably in it. Even if you have decided to talk about the idea of 'wife's guy', you would have made it by keeping indian society in mind, giving more indian examples rather than giving those Hollywood movies and stars' references whom I hardly know !! Stop doing this westernisation and comparing ourselves with west !! We have enough of our own examples and role models, you need not to justify indian phenomenons by giving western examples!!
Kuchh nhi bas feminist ki chodi hai
Swaddle. Keep going team. 💕
You can add Chetan Bhagat to that list of examples.
He's a gentleman despite some mistakes
He could've been nominated as the India's wife guy had the ranveer-deepika not happened lol
@@livya5676 like what did he do wrong?? Guy actually acknowledges his mistakes and he's not being holy moly
But then why do we praise women for being self sacrificial for their families or being great partners then?
Wife guys are different from SIMPS. Do not cleverly mix it.
Those celebs you are giving example may end up getting divorce in some time. Maximum time it's their publicity trick.
Soo according to you if a man doesnt give credit to his wife then he is supressing his wife. But if he treats her woman as a queen he is just doing for attention. Do you even read your own script before shooting for the video.
Can someone please tell the name of the celebs at 3:39?
such a shame you guys literally copied the whole video's idea and even clips from my favorite channel, "the take" !!!!!!! "THE TAKE" did it first and months ago
You should not let this go. They have been doing this for quite some time
majority of online content in India are copied
Here is my 2 cents about the topic. It's really strange that if Anushka Sharma has took a pause in her career for husband and kid it's not even noticed or worse scrutinized for being that woman for setting up bad example however if Virat just praises Anushka for being always there and taking a stand for her (however both are jus performing their duties as partners). I didn't knew there is a term for this until now.
But damn the amount of attention at times these celebrities give to their wives in public eye definitely feels like a part of branding. Not saying none of them are genuine but most of it feels like PR activity and some of the fan pages use them to subtly influence in thinking they are the best couple too. WHAT a STRANGE ERA we are living in?
Can you just make a video on things men should do. I got a huge list of what not to do
She will perfectly describle a slave
😂🤣... Just observation.. wife guy.. husband guy etc ... Where is penguin 🐧 4 begum guy??.. just curious.. 🤣😂
😂😂 apparently bunch of snowflakes feminists running it 🤮,what do u expect
@@DarkHorse198 exactly... 😂..
USELESS wordings complecates straight thought
The word you are looking for is called SIMP. All sunshine and rainbows until you pay alimony and child support, which is common for celebrities not for common people.
Here we go.
Most of these woman earn as much as these men. Especially deepika. So money will be divided both ways.
Who allows a women to be husband's gal. Everyone wants an independent women these days.
Husband gal?? What are you talking about babe. Most women over the years were forced to base their identity around their husbands and kids, considering they were not given education and the necessary professional support. There are husband's gal aplenty. Ofcourse that is considered their "duty", so no praise or recognition for being a devoted wife there
Wait ,what was the problem then?
Straight up copying "The Take" lmao
Directly copied from The Take channel's Wife guy episode that was made a month ago
Awesome 😊
Wow , never looked at it this way
I think the tag "wife guy" itself is pretty stupid, this should be normal behaviour and not anything to debate about lol.
If you give attention then there is problem and if you don’t do so then there’s a problem
Interesting!
Why your copying content from the take and other feminist English channels
Jake from b99 is ultimate husband material 🥺🥺🥺
husband's gal will be named as ' unfeminist ' behavior or taking advantage of his name because society can't accept women just being present with their emotion, either she is not enough or too much
You have a problem with wife guy wow.. I think being a wife guy is way better than being masculine toxic guys..not all guys who appreciate their wife cheats.. U can't generalize everyone.. The video is very one way approach.. Shame
I didn't agree with some of the swaddle arguments, and this is one of them. Of course there is going to be something negative and bad in everything that exists. Some dude cheated on his beautiful wife even while expressing his 'love' publicly, doesn't mean every men do that.
For hundred of years, Wife's always mentioned how their husbands are like and they were just 'Husbands Girl'. wife's were not even noticed or heard by society. Now they are, and it's just a new change. and Change will always have both sides, good and bad. What matters is how much it is helping others or whether it's showing more positive results than negative.
It's such a simple thing to understand. How can you Swaddle guys not understand this? Don't just try to make some random pointless videos just because you guys need to update on the channel regularly. I'm honestly getting bored and tired of recent videos of SWADDLE Channel!!
Simps exist in easy times
What hard men brought.
Hard are times are created by soft men
researchers have proved that women are more attracted to guys in a relationship. this wife guys are just exploiting taht because most of their fans are women
It's really not that deep 😭
Trophy husband trope
In the same video, you have said that "wife guys" do the bare minimum which should not be applauded AND said that they are doing this as a trophy wife display with ulterior motives lol. Basically these guys can't win. What a clickbaity pandering take with near zero analysis.
This is the second time i am observing that these videos are summary of videos from "The Take".
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TELL THEM!! pls bring unique content just copying things from Indian perspectives wont help
@@anuprabhabansod that's what this feminist are doing here in India. They should talking about ground reality of India other than coping western contents. These Indian feminist are dumb
@@animedc69 we are not talking about feminists but their channel lol what even
Isnt every husband supposed to be a wife guy?
Like omg you love your wife? What an extraordinary concept
OMG U DIDN'T CHEAT ON HER?! WOW U DESERVE A TROPHY
And these wife guys take a lot of pride in themselves for being 'wife guys'
Ab isme bhi problem hai?
what about Jada and Will ? that relationship doesn't age well, eh?
How would you describe your idea of an ideal man? I'm genuinely curious and interested to hear your perspective.
Normal topic
Why is this even a topic? It's their lives. Please move on 🙏
FINALLLYYYYYYY some dark brown skin glossy girl representation on THIS CHANNEL
4:53 oh. Really curious to know about other personal life. And also being judgement, and also promoting cancel culture. Your negative view never be taken by this generation.
She literally just denied to know about their personal lives 🙄 and obviously no one is canceling the wife guys...we do like wife guys. But it's advisable to remove the rose tinted lenses once on a while.
This is the view that this generation loves.
@@samtruptimohanty6162 oh really, deny about other personal matter. She is being judgemental of other personal matter if a woman have male friends being judgemental is bad ,but when coming to wife guys. She can be judgement by calling that having secret toxic character.
@@samtruptimohanty6162 nobody is asking to cancel nice guy? So if u have a disagreement with my view do u cancel me? From where did u got this authority? She indirectly support cancel culture which is toxic
@@samtruptimohanty6162 and If i have a view about female who have male friends. had having a relationship with this kind of people is bad. If I say that statement by adding by removing rose tainted lenses ones a while. U will call me sexist. But if it's other gender it's ok👏
Wife guys are great except for will Smith.
Pussy hai vo Smith
Dhoka Dene wali biwi kovas ek chiz do
Tallaaal
@@happytent78 haan sabse bewakoof hai will smith
Different stories inside four walls of home
Kahe na Kya chahati ho !!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Money 💰. That's all.
All Hail Andrew Tate 😎
When chatur couldn't top on his own, he pulled other down.
Similarly here feminist can't accept a happy loving couple in media because it make them feel inferior and since feminist can be happy they're simply blaming happy couples.
I would say please inhale copium
Why don't inhale copium ...because whenever feminist even breathes ..you all people started crying , ranting ...why are you even here
@@victoryv116 when you differentiate b/w crying and facts .. no use in speaking 😁
@@Pantheist2602i think that applies to you people because all i see you ranting and crying just like kids who thinks they are stating facts
this is so dumb lmao. it's just a constructive discussion which is always welcome. stop using feminist like a derogatory word and maybe read up a bit.
Lol you do realize she’s right, the “wife guy” image is nothing but a marketing scheme done by their PR departments. Anyone whose ever worked in the industry will tell you the same
Women ☕
Sala problem kya h? Feminists have always problem...kch karo to dikkat...naa karo to dikkat.
Video dekhlete/samajhte toh pata chal jata ki problem kya hai. Such subpar comprehension skills.
Call them feminazi
Modern feminism is self defeating.
Except Gomez was actually a true lover.
Quoyina you are so beautiful. Lovely. ❤️😘