Life After Au Pairing|| South African Au Pair in the USA

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  • @iamryanlittle
    @iamryanlittle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Hey Lebone! I'm Ryan Little. Really honored to hear my song "wish you were here." in your video :)

  • @nonhlanhlapetersen8077
    @nonhlanhlapetersen8077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this , it’s so relatable in so many ways ! I’m still in the US but those mixed feelings about going home are already kicking in

  • @theBropair
    @theBropair 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey, former au pair here! We ended almost the same time, I ended the 21 Feb and I'm back in SA now 😁

  • @kerrymoore5065
    @kerrymoore5065 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got back from au pairing 3 days ago and I can already feel the intensity of all the emotions.

  • @fernandamena9461
    @fernandamena9461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven’t seen a more relatable video than this one. You just described exactly how I’m feeling. I loved being an Au Pair and it’s so hard to be back 💔

  • @kaylaswanepoel5525
    @kaylaswanepoel5525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    girl I just want to to say you are so beautiful! And you’ve inspired me to really figure out what I’m going to do after Au pairing. I really want to try and figure out a way to stay in America and study (without the help of host parents) excited to watch more of your stories ❤️❤️

  • @lollyandboitz7082
    @lollyandboitz7082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovely channel Lebone✨ thank you for sharing your Au Pair experience

  • @carlyn_allure
    @carlyn_allure 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “You have to be home before the sunset” 😂😂 you’re honestly the best ❤️🥰

  • @mitculay5033
    @mitculay5033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel so bad for dming and asking what's next . And if someone were to ask me what's next I'd cry . Because I'm taking a gap year but I am home cannot find a job yet because of the coronavirus . But I love your channel and I can relate to your current feelings . You'll be great ♥

  • @cmthoughts4803
    @cmthoughts4803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Moral of the story, save enough money , come back and start a business.

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Basically 😂😂❤️❤️

  • @boipelomp
    @boipelomp 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can imagine how you felt🌺. I'm glad you're getting back on your feet now. Been following your journey for a while now. All the best❤

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pascaline Mashilo Thank you!!! Much love.❤️ And hope you’re staying safe during this time!

  • @nellyramaG
    @nellyramaG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking beautiful as always, love the accent too😉... Welcome back

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nelly Ramagoma Found you! Subscribed and Thank you ❤️😫

  • @jessicaabroad1391
    @jessicaabroad1391 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, you’re soooo beautiful & I love your personality! So happy to find another au pair channel, I subscribed ❤️

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jessica Abroad Thank you!!! Subscribed too

    • @jessicaabroad1391
      @jessicaabroad1391 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lebone M. you should make a video about culture shock coming to the US and the reverse culture shock of coming home! I’d be super interested in hearing more about that

  • @nompumelelothomo8617
    @nompumelelothomo8617 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha good for you! 😂 it’s good to see you back!!!!!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽👌🏽

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      nompumelelo thomo Appreciate you being here!❤️

  • @nqobilemahlophe30
    @nqobilemahlophe30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep up the positive vibes girl uzoba right ❤️

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nqobile MaHlophe Yes positive energy!!! ❤️

  • @makolankgapenicholas8410
    @makolankgapenicholas8410 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kota ereng mo ngwaneng😂😀, what editing software do you use?
    Nice video

  • @Officially_sabby
    @Officially_sabby 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always enjoy your videos ❤️

  • @khethikiaraondoz456
    @khethikiaraondoz456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this .....I’m thinking of doing Au pAir and my Only concern is the question of “what’s Next? “After Au pAir because I simple don’t have any plan 😪

  • @mamellomorake1014
    @mamellomorake1014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my word! I'm so glad I found you! I relate with you a 100% hle Lebone. Nna I came back from au pairing in the USA last year ka August and my life has been pretty much what you described since I came back home in SA😢...no job, no school, no plan...nothing. Every cell in me just wanted to head back to the states. Adjusting to the life of loadshedding and no wifi was just so heartbreaking and frustrating. Ka mona there's no income. Stress fela. Eventually my money ran out. Getting into 2020 a friend of mind got me an opportunity to go au pair in China, sis I was ready to pack my bags and hit the road. The plan was to be out the county by end of April...but guess what, THE RONA had to stop everyone's plans. I've never been so depressed...things just kept getting worse.

    • @mamellomorake1014
      @mamellomorake1014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also, I've been considering creating a channel about my au experience and talk about life after au pairing too, but I was too ashamed to open up about how my life has really been since I came back because people seem to have had high expectations of me hobane ke tswa "AMERICA", I'm expected to have lots of money and so much more,unfortunately that wasn't the case...

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Mamello!! Firstly I appreciate you writing this comment and sharing your true feelings. It’s hard trying to adjust to the life here in SA especially after experiencing life in “America”. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I was going through the same and I just couldn’t get a grip. Try to do something, keep yourself busy until you head to China, try to au pair again.
      Be grateful you’re home with family. I hope you find something soon. I know it’s hard babes, I know. START THAT TH-cam CHANNEL!!! Don’t care about others unfortunately they don’t pay our bills. Do you honey. ❤️❤️❤️ Sending so many hugs and kisses and elbows handshakes(corona is still here)😂
      Be blessed and stay safe.

  • @AthiniMemani
    @AthiniMemani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “What’s your plan” 💀😂 you such a vibe. 😂❤️
    I’m left with 6months and the thought of going back home used to scare me. But not anymore. I’m just like It is what it is 😂💀
    All the best man. Things always have a way of falling in place. ❤️

  • @Ket11s
    @Ket11s 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    But petrol😂👏 oof the struggle

  • @phemelomamosebo6323
    @phemelomamosebo6323 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your energy

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Phemelo Mamosebo Thank you! And thank you for watching.❤️

  • @findingme..7885
    @findingme..7885 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about NZ or Australia or Holland if i did nor get married i would have did those up next

  • @Nida_s
    @Nida_s 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your intro

  • @Nida_s
    @Nida_s 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the best au pair agency you would recommend?

  • @FezekaD
    @FezekaD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey sis, how can I apply for the au pair 2...whats the quick easiest way pls?

    • @ZandileX
      @ZandileX 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Use an agency

  • @cryptostacker8782
    @cryptostacker8782 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would you come back to Orange County, California? I have an opportunity.

  • @nthabisengmoleme971
    @nthabisengmoleme971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Lebone ex au pair here. I came back last year October and I'm studying now. I totally get the freedom thing. It's like you were an adult and moving back home means that you're a kid again because you have to ask to do stuff. Oh The stress of not seeing dollars in your bank account anymore is unmatched.

  • @tillissacanass7524
    @tillissacanass7524 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same reason I’m scared to go back home🥺😳

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sasa Canass It’s very terrifying!! But atleast have something planned!❤️

    • @tillissacanass7524
      @tillissacanass7524 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lebone M. Will definitely babe thank you wish you didn’t leave too

  • @thandolwethumatholeni9105
    @thandolwethumatholeni9105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    how many years where you in america

  • @Neomkotjo
    @Neomkotjo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️ looking Gorgeous!!

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dineo Neo love you and thank you!

  • @howtobejuly
    @howtobejuly 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so relatable. I’m leaving my host family in 5 days after spending 2.5 years with them and I feel so scared

  • @claudetteperrault5152
    @claudetteperrault5152 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello,
    I am looking for au pairs who have worked for a family in Minnesota. The (French) mother died in 2016 in (Seattle) and there are two children aged 7 and 5 Mulai and Basirou Carnagie.
    The nannies do not stay because they are not respected (!!!!) badly or not paid. They do not dare to file a complaint for fear of reprisals, lack of money and defense.
    Their testimony will help protect children as well as girls who are only slaves. It must stop!
    Thank you

  • @TatendaChipo
    @TatendaChipo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi did you get an international car license or you used your South African license

    • @LeboneM
      @LeboneM  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      its.tatendaishe you perform a written test and driving test to get a US license. In some states they don’t accept International Drivers License.

  • @charitymoyo7016
    @charitymoyo7016 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hie Lebone. Can u help me with how you got this aupair. Did u use an agent or ?.

    • @ZandileX
      @ZandileX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My friend used an agency called, cultural care au pair

    • @charitymoyo7016
      @charitymoyo7016 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZandileX thanks a lot

  • @kea_mpete
    @kea_mpete 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lebone tshela petrol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂