I get it. I dealt with a painful year long divorce, single parenting and my mom last 6 months due to cancer. I think you’re amazing and you’re not alone!!
I get it Meek, I get it. I'm an only child and have one son. I removed myself from all my friendships because they were all toxic. My mom is my best friend, my only friend, and she is at the age that each day with her is a blessing. I'm scared because I don't know how to live without her. Sending you love, understanding and most of all PRAYER🙏
I lost my dad from cancer and everyone disappeared. At the end of the day, you're the only one who is going to be able to grieve on that level. No one will ever understand your feelings.... grief never ends but it gets easier to manage throughout the years. I'm sorry you're having to experience the loss of a parent.... it's a pain like no other and no one will know unless they experience it 💯
Also! It might benefit you (if needed) to join a grief group. Those who you least expect to be there for you, will be there. Everyone else will be crying to you when they lose a parent.
Your pain means you felt the love. Just sit with that for a minute. Grief never stops. Time does not heal. Time does create a scab that almost turns into a scar...and then....something happens, holiday, birthday, smell, whatever and the scab is torn off. Left open like it happened yesterday. Then, you put one foot in front of the other and rebuild that scab. Because you have to. Because you are loved and needed and you dont want to pass that feeling onto them. Its corny but fake it till you make it has some truth in it. When I'm feeling the feels.... I try to remember fun times, memories, and laughter with them. It doesn't fix the pain, but a smile with warm feeling helps. Share all you want. We're here for you. As you said in a recent video..... you can do hard things. Sending hugs your way.
I lost my Dad 22 years ago. That loss never goes away. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him or hear one of his New England expressions. I'll see something and think "Dad would say XYZ about that." and then I smile. I'm grateful I had a wonderful father. I'm fortunate to have my Mom still with me. She's 90 years old, but the past few years have been tough as we lost both my brothers, one in 2015 and the other last year, from cancer and heart disease. Communicating your feelings is a good, and if you're comfortable venting on YT, you should. You are a strong and beautiful and your followers are here to listen and engage if it helps you.
girl i can relate 💯my mom was a single mother also and was my best friend 🫶🏼she passed away before i became a parent myself. since conception i’ve been a single parent and have had absolutely zero help,support or involvement from my family or the father’s. mental stress is exhausting and can be debilitating. give yourself grace for getting through the struggles and continuing to grow and heal 💛
You are not alone. I lost my beloved Grandma in 2019. She understand me and we could just be. Family is so tricky. It’s sad. You’re not alone. Hugs Meek!
Aw Meek, I feel for you so much. 😢 I lost my dad to years ago and loss of a parent 💔 😢 is so heartbreaking. Some hospice centers offer grief groups - general loss, loss of a parent, but the one that helped me most was a writing through grief group. It didn't fix everything, but it helped me to get to another step in the process. I miss him more that anything, still. Much love to you as you continue to process. Nothing can fix or replace. But some things can help. Even just a little. And this time of year is also just harder. ❤💚
We care... I care... I think all your followers care about your loss Meek. I do understand how you feel. When I lost my daddy I thought I would cry forever! I loved my daddy like no other human on this Earth except my Momma. My parents were married for 61 years and I am the baby of their eight children. My whole family fell apart when Daddy died...Mom grieved everyday until she passed away last Thanksgiving. In the past three years I've lost three of my sisters, both my brothers and my Momma. I just lost my closest sissy to an accidental fentanyl overdose this past September 16th. My heart breaks daily. Just let me say, the way you love your mother is the same way your children feel about you. I couldn't have kids, so I will truly be alone one day. You need to grab onto your children and pour all your love into them. Get more involved in your children and do the things your Mom did for you and find new ways to show your love for them. Try to tap into your talents...try painting, writing, learn to play the guitar and write a song. Make yourself go for a walk daily and look up cool places around you to walk Bentley. I find that other dog lovers are the dopest people out there. I will pray for your peace sweet lady. I hope you know that you are very special and we all see your light... I hope you can see it.
It’s painful losing one’s mother. I sometimes catch myself saying, “Hey Mom!” Mom’s been gone four years, family disappeared, when Mom left this Earth. I have a brother, he won’t return communication. It’s just me, all alone. I’m thankful for people like you, someone who understands what it’s like to lose our mothers and the feeling of abandonment by family, during the holidays. Thank you Meek, for your videos. Hugs 🤗
So sorry you're going through such a tough time. Sorry to hear that people aren't there for you. May God bless you and give you strength and comfort Sending you hugs.🙏💕
Hi Meek! Happy New Year! Wishing you and your family a healthy and blessed 2025! I can relate to grief never ending. I lost my mom when I was 24. That was almost 21 years ago. She was my best friend and also a single mother that went above and beyond to raise me right. I miss her every day of my life. Just know she’s looking down on you and smiling. Keep your head up and keep striving. Life is hard and there is no handbook. Praying for you to get through the struggles and that God brings you peace ❤
It's so hard, Meek, and I really feel for you. Better days are coming to you for sure, but that's not very comforting right now, when every day is sad and long and hard to get through. I regularly speak out loud to my best friend who died three years ago. I look up at the stars sometimes and decide which one is him and tell him whatever's going on or ask him if he remembers this or that. It's not crazy, it's just a simple, free and harmless way of keeping him nearby. When you're lonely remember that you have all your viewers out here who appreciate your words and sympathise with you in a heartfelt way, and we admire you. It's nothing like a mother's love or the hug of a friend, but it's a little something, and I hope you can glean a bit of comfort from it.
I’m so sorry you are having such a difficult time. Please don’t ever feel like you can’t share on here. This is your space. 💕 Pray and give yourself grace during these times. 🥰. The sun will come out tomorrow.
I can see the pain in your eyes before you even spoke. I’m so very sorry for all that you are walking through it is heavy and hard. Those feelings of loss and isolation are so valid! Do the things that you bring you peace and healing. Try things until you find what works for you. Grief counseling, group therapy, individual therapy (should you feel up to trying again) are great tools. The most impactful wisdom I received in deep grief was to remember joy and grief can coexist. Allowing space for both keeps you from being consumed. Seek joy, in small moments, in your children, in the sanctuary of home or a faith community. Leave space for good. I wish you joy and gentle reminders that your mother is still with you as you navigate this grief. ❤
You learn to live with it but grief is love with nowhere to go. You don’t want to ever not want to grief for your moms physical presence , I understand your feelings of being alone my mothers alive and doesn’t want me. I lost all 3 of my best life long girlfriends in the last 4 years They all passed suddenly and unexpectedly I’m truly alone now. I’m married but have lost all trust in my marriage so yeah I’m alone too ❤
I’m really sorry Meek, I lost my dad in 2008 and then my mom in 2021 just one day before my birthday. There are still times when I want to grab my phone and call her or just hear her voice it’s awful. And I do really believe they are still with us and watch out over us < hugs > ❤
Girl I am here to listen. ❤ Grief is hard to deal with. I just found out My dad passed away a couple weeks ago and no tried to reach out and find me. I really don’t know how to feel. Even if we didn’t talk as much I am his first child. I am sooo disgusted mind u he was already cremated 😢
I remember when my step dad died. I told my mom that Bill lives on in every life he touched. The physical part of him is gone. The love and memories don’t end. That was 20 years ago. It was true then and true now.
Meek, I care about you. I'm so sad that your mother is gone. It must be hard. I'm still not over my grandfather's death. He was the only one who understood me. If my mom and I argue, I feel so guilty. Because I have a close friend who lost her mom a few years ago. I support you, Meek. I know it's hard. I'm sorry you feel so alone. Sending a hug. And remember, it's okay to not be okay. I can not imagine my mom and dad passing. I will break inside. I love them. I wish I could say more and help you more. Hang in there, girl. Be brave with your battle scars. 🙏🫂
First let me give honor to God I will keep you in my prayers for Better Days I understand what you're going through I've been there and still dealing with it and probably always will to the end of my days I know it's very hard for you to come on here and say that and speak your truth anything that doesn't break you will make you stronger❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Anyone who tells you to move on hasn’t felt the loss of a parent. It’s devastating and hits you everywhere. It’s all very complicated and rough. If this helps give you some grace at all, 4 years really isn’t that long at all when you talk about losing a parent. I lost mine over 25 years ago and I have beaten myself up so many times on her birthday & anniversaries for still feeling badly, and for what? Because a calendar says I shouldn’t miss her still? Grief and single parenting both are burdensome. I see the connection there for sure. Since unfortunately you’re not able to change the physical situations, I would encourage you to find either a counselor or group therapy setting (I’ve found SUCH relief there!) to help you shift your inner situation. You said aloud yourself it is therapeutic when you talk. It would be great for you to have someone you know is there to listen to you on purpose. It’s not fair what you have to deal with, and it’s not fair because of all the work associated with it. Yes, life is unfair, but you’re allowed to be upset about it because multiple things can be true are once. The fact that we’re all sinners worthy of salvation alone is proof of that. I’m praying for you, Meek ❤❤
Hello Meek, and family. Both of my parent's are decease. My father, died 40 year's ago, and my mother 23 year's ago. They were both married, and raised all 7 children. I'm the youngest of the seven. I pray, and ask God to give me the strength, and comfort, to go on in life. I have learned how to adjust, throw the grace of God. My loving sibling's, and family members, and praying, and trusting, and believing in God, and worship him,give me the strength to go on. My lovely parent's spirit lives inside my heart, until we meet again. Praying the very best for you.❤❤❤
Meek I wish there was something I could say I’m here I’m literally alone as well I lost everyone by my choice. I don’t see it as talking to a camera but more talking to your mom. I am right there with you I’m so sorry
I am grieving not having any grandchildren and you are a young mother grieving the loss of your mother and grandmother for your children. Two different situations but the pain is very real. My mother died when my oldest daughter was 6 weeks old and I am an old woman now. I missed her all along the way while they were growing up. But I did have support and I feel like the support you get is inconsistent. If you are ok with it, look into a grief counseling group or support group for single moms. I don't know who offers this but I bet some organization does. I've found in my life that sometimes I had to build my own support or find my own people because it wasn't there otherwise. And those people are with me still. Thinking of you.
The death of a loved one, leaves a pain you can’t even run from. Nervous breakdown level pain, so heart sick food can’t even be consumed. I could only take a small bite of something and rapidly lost weight. I would sleep to avoid thinking ( missing) them. I still think I damn near died of a broken heart. God has pulled me through: “But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen [a]asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. 14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who [b]sleep in Jesus.” ❤
Yes. Our loved ones are gone. When these sad feelings comes acknowledge it and snap out of it immediately. Thry resting, sleeping. The Bible say Jesus Christ is coming soon and those who died in Christ will rise first. So we should live our lives without them. There are thousands ipin thousands if people who are struggling alone, some working as slaves, some in prison and some in wars, Some right now in shock of the earthquake in Vanuatu. So please let them rest snd move on with the Lord Jesus Christ. Many if us did not even go to our parents funerals because of the wicked mandates but we survived and live in the now.
Sorry for your loss 😢from Scotland x
I get it. I dealt with a painful year long divorce, single parenting and my mom last 6 months due to cancer.
I think you’re amazing and you’re not alone!!
I get it Meek, I get it. I'm an only child and have one son. I removed myself from all my friendships because they were all toxic. My mom is my best friend, my only friend, and she is at the age that each day with her is a blessing. I'm scared because I don't know how to live without her. Sending you love, understanding and most of all PRAYER🙏
I lost my dad from cancer and everyone disappeared. At the end of the day, you're the only one who is going to be able to grieve on that level. No one will ever understand your feelings.... grief never ends but it gets easier to manage throughout the years. I'm sorry you're having to experience the loss of a parent.... it's a pain like no other and no one will know unless they experience it 💯
Also! It might benefit you (if needed) to join a grief group. Those who you least expect to be there for you, will be there. Everyone else will be crying to you when they lose a parent.
Nobody can replace a mom. Nobody can morn their passing more than their children. It’s been 14 yrs and I still miss her every single day.
Hugs Meek❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss 🕊️❤️
No one can love you like your mother
Prayers.
Your pain means you felt the love. Just sit with that for a minute. Grief never stops. Time does not heal. Time does create a scab that almost turns into a scar...and then....something happens, holiday, birthday, smell, whatever and the scab is torn off. Left open like it happened yesterday. Then, you put one foot in front of the other and rebuild that scab. Because you have to. Because you are loved and needed and you dont want to pass that feeling onto them. Its corny but fake it till you make it has some truth in it. When I'm feeling the feels.... I try to remember fun times, memories, and laughter with them. It doesn't fix the pain, but a smile with warm feeling helps. Share all you want. We're here for you. As you said in a recent video..... you can do hard things. Sending hugs your way.
I lost my Dad 22 years ago. That loss never goes away. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him or hear one of his New England expressions. I'll see something and think "Dad would say XYZ about that." and then I smile. I'm grateful I had a wonderful father. I'm fortunate to have my Mom still with me. She's 90 years old, but the past few years have been tough as we lost both my brothers, one in 2015 and the other last year, from cancer and heart disease. Communicating your feelings is a good, and if you're comfortable venting on YT, you should. You are a strong and beautiful and your followers are here to listen and engage if it helps you.
girl i can relate 💯my mom was a single mother also and was my best friend 🫶🏼she passed away before i became a parent myself. since conception i’ve been a single parent and have had absolutely zero help,support or involvement from my family or the father’s. mental stress is exhausting and can be debilitating. give yourself grace for getting through the struggles and continuing to grow and heal 💛
You are not alone.
I lost my beloved Grandma in 2019. She understand me and we could just be.
Family is so tricky. It’s sad.
You’re not alone.
Hugs Meek!
Aw Meek, I feel for you so much. 😢 I lost my dad to years ago and loss of a parent 💔 😢 is so heartbreaking. Some hospice centers offer grief groups - general loss, loss of a parent, but the one that helped me most was a writing through grief group. It didn't fix everything, but it helped me to get to another step in the process. I miss him more that anything, still. Much love to you as you continue to process. Nothing can fix or replace. But some things can help. Even just a little. And this time of year is also just harder. ❤💚
I’m so sorry for your loss 🕊️❤️
Oh beautiful Meek! I wish I could hug you, I'm so sorry for everyone who is grieving.
Hard to see you in such pain, i know your loved ones are watching over you from heaven
We care... I care... I think all your followers care about your loss Meek. I do understand how you feel. When I lost my daddy I thought I would cry forever! I loved my daddy like no other human on this Earth except my Momma. My parents were married for 61 years and I am the baby of their eight children. My whole family fell apart when Daddy died...Mom grieved everyday until she passed away last Thanksgiving. In the past three years I've lost three of my sisters, both my brothers and my Momma. I just lost my closest sissy to an accidental fentanyl overdose this past September 16th. My heart breaks daily. Just let me say, the way you love your mother is the same way your children feel about you. I couldn't have kids, so I will truly be alone one day. You need to grab onto your children and pour all your love into them. Get more involved in your children and do the things your Mom did for you and find new ways to show your love for them. Try to tap into your talents...try painting, writing, learn to play the guitar and write a song. Make yourself go for a walk daily and look up cool places around you to walk Bentley. I find that other dog lovers are the dopest people out there. I will pray for your peace sweet lady. I hope you know that you are very special and we all see your light... I hope you can see it.
Hi, I just want to thank you for sharing your honesty. I don't feel so alone. Take care.
It’s painful losing one’s mother. I sometimes catch myself saying, “Hey Mom!” Mom’s been gone four years, family disappeared, when Mom left this Earth. I have a brother, he won’t return communication. It’s just me, all alone. I’m thankful for people like you, someone who understands what it’s like to lose our mothers and the feeling of abandonment by family, during the holidays. Thank you Meek, for your videos. Hugs 🤗
So sorry you're going through such a tough time. Sorry to hear that people aren't there for you. May God bless you and give you strength and comfort Sending you hugs.🙏💕
I wish I could wrap my arms around you and give you a great big hug! I know how hard it is being a single mother. I was 18 when I became a mother.
Hi Meek! Happy New Year! Wishing you and your family a healthy and blessed 2025! I can relate to grief never ending. I lost my mom when I was 24. That was almost 21 years ago. She was my best friend and also a single mother that went above and beyond to raise me right. I miss her every day of my life. Just know she’s looking down on you and smiling. Keep your head up and keep striving. Life is hard and there is no handbook. Praying for you to get through the struggles and that God brings you peace ❤
It's so hard, Meek, and I really feel for you. Better days are coming to you for sure, but that's not very comforting right now, when every day is sad and long and hard to get through. I regularly speak out loud to my best friend who died three years ago. I look up at the stars sometimes and decide which one is him and tell him whatever's going on or ask him if he remembers this or that. It's not crazy, it's just a simple, free and harmless way of keeping him nearby. When you're lonely remember that you have all your viewers out here who appreciate your words and sympathise with you in a heartfelt way, and we admire you. It's nothing like a mother's love or the hug of a friend, but it's a little something, and I hope you can glean a bit of comfort from it.
I’m so sorry you are having such a difficult time. Please don’t ever feel like you can’t share on here. This is your space. 💕
Pray and give yourself grace during these times. 🥰. The sun will come out tomorrow.
I can see the pain in your eyes before you even spoke. I’m so very sorry for all that you are walking through it is heavy and hard. Those feelings of loss and isolation are so valid! Do the things that you bring you peace and healing. Try things until you find what works for you. Grief counseling, group therapy, individual therapy (should you feel up to trying again) are great tools. The most impactful wisdom I received in deep grief was to remember joy and grief can coexist. Allowing space for both keeps you from being consumed. Seek joy, in small moments, in your children, in the sanctuary of home or a faith community. Leave space for good. I wish you joy and gentle reminders that your mother is still with you as you navigate this grief. ❤
You learn to live with it but grief is love with nowhere to go. You don’t want to ever not want to grief for your moms physical presence , I understand your feelings of being alone my mothers alive and doesn’t want me. I lost all 3 of my best life long girlfriends in the last 4 years They all passed suddenly and unexpectedly I’m truly alone now. I’m married but have lost all trust in my marriage so yeah I’m alone too ❤
I’m really sorry Meek, I lost my dad in 2008 and then my mom in 2021 just one day before my birthday. There are still times when I want to grab my phone and call her or just hear her voice it’s awful. And I do really believe they are still with us and watch out over us < hugs > ❤
so sorry meek. i hope ur healing journey teaches u many things.
Girl I am here to listen. ❤ Grief is hard to deal with. I just found out My dad passed away a couple weeks ago and no tried to reach out and find me. I really don’t know how to feel. Even if we didn’t talk as much I am his first child. I am sooo disgusted mind u he was already cremated 😢
Please know you can talk to your mom anytime you need to, she’s watching and guiding you still. ❤
I remember when my step dad died. I told my mom that Bill lives on in every life he touched. The physical part of him is gone. The love and memories don’t end. That was 20 years ago. It was true then and true now.
Love and Light to you Meek💜
I watch a channel where his wife’s cancer journey she documented. She passed and now her hb is is showing us the “grief process”
Sending healing prayers to you ❤❤ Stacey from Virginia 👋🏽👋🏽
It’s having to come to life on life’s terms.
It sucks period!
I did therapy for 13 & kept me sad.
Meek, I care about you. I'm so sad that your mother is gone. It must be hard. I'm still not over my grandfather's death. He was the only one who understood me. If my mom and I argue, I feel so guilty. Because I have a close friend who lost her mom a few years ago. I support you, Meek. I know it's hard. I'm sorry you feel so alone. Sending a hug. And remember, it's okay to not be okay. I can not imagine my mom and dad passing. I will break inside. I love them. I wish I could say more and help you more. Hang in there, girl. Be brave with your battle scars. 🙏🫂
So so sorry for your loss ❤stay strong stay in prayer always ❤️ Stacey from Virginia 🪷👋🏽❤❤
First let me give honor to God I will keep you in my prayers for Better Days I understand what you're going through I've been there and still dealing with it and probably always will to the end of my days I know it's very hard for you to come on here and say that and speak your truth anything that doesn't break you will make you stronger❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Meek sis stay strong, ❤❤
Good afternoon 🌞 blessings 🫶🏾🙏🏾🌻, Too God be the glory 💪🏾 God 🌹 with you
I'm so sorry. My Mom passed too. Its her birthday right now 😢the 25th. Hurts deeply. Sending hugs and strength to you. ❤
I hate seeing you in pain. Hang in there.
Anyone who tells you to move on hasn’t felt the loss of a parent. It’s devastating and hits you everywhere. It’s all very complicated and rough. If this helps give you some grace at all, 4 years really isn’t that long at all when you talk about losing a parent. I lost mine over 25 years ago and I have beaten myself up so many times on her birthday & anniversaries for still feeling badly, and for what? Because a calendar says I shouldn’t miss her still? Grief and single parenting both are burdensome. I see the connection there for sure. Since unfortunately you’re not able to change the physical situations, I would encourage you to find either a counselor or group therapy setting (I’ve found SUCH relief there!) to help you shift your inner situation. You said aloud yourself it is therapeutic when you talk. It would be great for you to have someone you know is there to listen to you on purpose. It’s not fair what you have to deal with, and it’s not fair because of all the work associated with it. Yes, life is unfair, but you’re allowed to be upset about it because multiple things can be true are once. The fact that we’re all sinners worthy of salvation alone is proof of that.
I’m praying for you, Meek ❤❤
Hello Meek, and family. Both of my parent's are decease. My father, died 40 year's ago, and my mother 23 year's ago. They were both married, and raised all 7 children. I'm the youngest of the seven. I pray, and ask God to give me the strength, and comfort, to go on in life. I have learned how to adjust, throw the grace of God. My loving sibling's, and family members, and praying, and trusting, and believing in God, and worship him,give me the strength to go on. My lovely parent's spirit lives inside my heart, until we meet again. Praying the very best for you.❤❤❤
Meek I wish there was something I could say
I’m here
I’m literally alone as well
I lost everyone by my choice.
I don’t see it as talking to a camera but more talking to your mom.
I am right there with you
I’m so sorry
Meek you are grieving that doesn’t end. You miss your mom and expressing that is normal and healthy. You loved your and mom she loved you.
I am grieving not having any grandchildren and you are a young mother grieving the loss of your mother and grandmother for your children. Two different situations but the pain is very real. My mother died when my oldest daughter was 6 weeks old and I am an old woman now. I missed her all along the way while they were growing up. But I did have support and I feel like the support you get is inconsistent. If you are ok with it, look into a grief counseling group or support group for single moms. I don't know who offers this but I bet some organization does. I've found in my life that sometimes I had to build my own support or find my own people because it wasn't there otherwise. And those people are with me still. Thinking of you.
Did your grandchildren pass away?
I grew up with my aunt and uncle 5 cousins I’m a adult now 59 never knew who my parents were. Still don’t know my family keeps things very secret.
The rainbow comes and goes……
❤❤❤
The death of a loved one, leaves a pain you can’t even run from. Nervous breakdown level pain, so heart sick food can’t even be consumed. I could only take a small bite of something and rapidly lost weight. I would sleep to avoid thinking ( missing) them. I still think I damn near died of a broken heart. God has pulled me through: “But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen [a]asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. 14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who [b]sleep in Jesus.” ❤
❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾🫶
Yes. Our loved ones are gone. When these sad feelings comes acknowledge it and snap out of it immediately. Thry resting, sleeping. The Bible say Jesus Christ is coming soon and those who died in Christ will rise first. So we should live our lives without them. There are thousands ipin thousands if people who are struggling alone, some working as slaves, some in prison and some in wars, Some right now in shock of the earthquake in Vanuatu. So please let them rest snd move on with the Lord Jesus Christ. Many if us did not even go to our parents funerals because of the wicked mandates but we survived and live in the now.