please add timestamps!! this is too long without knowing what i'm getting into. i often listen to a segment i'm interested in then listen to whole thing if a segment or two was interesting. love u guys!!
Tbh I work out regularly and I still have to fight to pull off and follow through with even two just dates in a week. Normally I can average 1. I'm being objective in saying that I'm a solid 7 working on becoming an 8. I go after 6 to 7's typically and my God gentleman. It's like you have to beg which I won't to take a 3 on an actual date.
For family courts there is no difference between quality of woman. Remember the woman you're divorcing is not the same person you getting married. Even if she isn't crazy she have power of goverment and biased laws to destroy your life. I don't care who she is while we have this laws in place. Enjoy your cats and wine while I will be enjoing my: bikes, motorcycles, telescopes and life free from constant stress of being accused of something I didn't do and have to proove it in court. This is bs every man is getting into when he decides have relationshit or marriage.
There’s also not many women like her. Like finding a diamond in the woods attractive both inside and out. Lucky dude. Dating super attractive women could be stressful I guess if other guys are constantly checking out your girl.
I love her soft voice. Talking about submissive women, she would be a role model. Soft spoken, can hold an intelligent conversation, respectful, diplomatic. Can you imagine if the world was full of men and women like her? Because let's keep it real, it's not like the world is full of great men either.
@Cat 123 society holds men to the same standards but here you are complaining when a man likes submissive and soft spoken women. A man is expected to be a hero, a leader, a provider, a handy man, a protector and a comedian too. When men say we want submissive woman we aren’t saying we want a slave. We just want to enjoy someone who isn’t argumentative, someone who has a caring heart and is forgiving, not selfish and self centered. Just to be clear I don’t speak for all men, I speak in generalities. It’s all about your attitude. It would have been so much easier to approach women if they were friendlier. This is why most men don’t approach women unless they can read an interest in woman’s body language.
I don’t by it she’s not telling the truth. If a woman is submissive,smart, good looking, traditional she would be married by now because a lot of good man would have married her by now but there’s a missing peace we don’t know about.
I think people who aren't like this, there's nothing wrong with them at all but they should really only date themselves as the two just cannot mix and it will never work.
One of the most amazing moments about healing is when you start taking accountability it will all make sense it’s like a putting a puzzle together. And you will find closure in many areas of your life.
Courtney is well beyond her years in maturity. Not only beautiful, but level headed, with good morals and a realistic outlook on life and relationships. It was a pleasant surprise seeing you both collaborate together.
Just an observation... You called Courtney a woman, and she frequently referred to herself as a girl. The females on Fresh and Fit get offended when you call them a girl and demand that you call them women. You are absolutely right Courtney is a WOMAN, because she also values being a girl.
It's good that you brought Courtney on your show. She's someone I recently stumbled upon independently and appreciate that she's one of a few women who will hold women accountable same as men. Highly appreciate this episode!
Thank you for having a guest that is the classic "girl next door" type. So many podcasts like this only show or discuss the opposite. She seems feminine, sweet and smart. She has preserved her dignity and it comes through in the interview.
Yeah man I told this girl that after she requested we play WAP at my job she responded with after the summer comes the fall dumbness and I said yeah but it takes 9 months for your mistake to be born...She was not a happy camper.
I think she is a wonderful person with strong morals naturally. She is definitely a role model for good women out there. This lady restores my faith in modern women!
I feel that Courtney's channel is special because, unlike many of the "Men's Lifestyle/Dating" channels, she doesn't place blame or make excuses one way or another. She openly admits/explores an issue/answers a question to a best of her ability. She also doesn't flaunt what she obviously has (on social media - I follow her in instagram); she doesn't need to over-compensate in order to appear attractive. How could a man not respect that?
I can't ever take a chick talking about men's lifestyle seriously really. You're not a dude so I can't listen to you giving men advice on being a man. Same way chicks feel insulted if men even as much as hint at giving women advice on women's issues.
@@antonchigur4299 her advice is primarily focused on male dating & fashion. In that regard, you’re trying to impress women. It’s best to have a balanced perspective.
We need female allies for sure. I’m still making up my mind about her. I’m not entirely convinced that she’s genuine but we’ll see. Time will eventually tell.
The reason why Courtney appears older, is a combination of self-confidence, maturity, and a level of humility that is rarely found in people of either gender at her age. Don't worry, it's not physical appearance, it about how you hold yourself, and the fact that you are articulate, and don't speak "street" or use a lot of slang that many younger people do. The best part of appearing a little older now, is that assuming you look after yourself, you are likely to age very well, everyone will always compare your older self to how you are now, and there will be very little difference and you'll appear as if you have aged very little. Really enjoyed listening to the conversation. :)
What I've noticed, when men and women date, they don't talk about the important life topics until they're about to get married. I believe you should figure out your own core values and ask the same about your potential partner in the 1st week of meeting. After I turned 26, I worked on my values and my "deal-breaker" list of questions which I always ask the woman I'm interested in.
what are those core values and deal breakers of yours? I tend to fall in love too quickly and never asked those hard questions. I need to make a list as well before i get into another relationships.
@@ducdu4136 everyone is going to be different. You just need to figure out what’s most important for you in a intimate relationship and what you want the most out of your life. Your values come from the adults in your environment when growing up, as well as, your past experiences. Just look at your goals and your current lifestyle. It will take time and patience, but, you’ll figure it out in the end.
@@ducdu4136 That's not something you can copy and paste if your the one in the relationship they need to match your values and life style. Some important one if your religious are they and do they follow it if you do. How many kids if they want them and how they believe they should be raised. Where they are comfortable living. Life goals being inline. How you spend or save money. Just Think about how you live and want to live would that person fit into your life style. Getting along with your close friends and family if they are a big part of your life. Politics is another big one that can cause fight if you both feel strong about opposite views.
24:40 “I think I am an exception to a lot of girls my age - I think I act more like girls that are 30.” At 22, I feel this so much. It’s not that I don’t enjoy being young, it’s just that my mindset is not typical for people my age when it comes to marriage, planning for the future, habits, tendencies, how I present myself, etc. This podcast was incredible.
At 18 I had her mindset. Now in my 30's I look at her and see how much she needs to get out and learn. She is buying into a trope that one day will make her miserable.
Courtney, "I feel a lot of women are not what men want." NAILED IT! That's the vast majority of them it seems. They completely lack self-awareness. What's worse is they don't care either.
@@muraismybby4617 I think women have to change bc 3rd wave feminism turned us against the family, motherhood, and being good wives. Men need to change too. They need to hold women accountable and stop dating and marrying women who are poor mothers and wives. In other words, men need to be men again and women need to be woman again
Fellas please don’t think b/c a woman lives in Idaho, that she has a better mentality than one from Miami. We have the Internet and social media. Who do you think are taking the trips to Miami lol
Some constructive criticism: I would take a page from Fresh&Fit and time stamp discussion points in your longer video. It's one of the things that makes their much longer videos manageable and it allows these much longer videos to be more easily digestible.
i understand that F&F is probably the first place where you saw that feature for the first time but its not a page from fresh&Fit. Its literally a youtube feature that plenty of content creators, have used before and use from time to time. But there are those, that don't prefer to use that feature.
*It’s refreshing to hear a balanced conversation about women’s accountability and the challenges men face today. Discussions like these are crucial for improving modern dating dynamics.*
Women are so obsessed with guys having to be the best version of themselves, that they think having a cute butt and putting makeup on is their best version. Most happy and married women are NOT the 10's, cause they know they can't fool around until 40. Really attractive women often realize too late that men are simple and don't insist on you having a certain career or having superficial things. At the end of the day, we can't change anything about it but we can hope for future generations to be more educated about these topics.
Only in the tiny bubble of rich western countries. Everywhere else the prime directive for women is landing a provider male. The beautiful ones like my wife marry off at 19, or by early 20's at the least. There is something you can do about it, namely marrying foreign girls who make fantastic wives and mothers.
I agree with you, but I want a man with value too, he should work on himself, be clean, and I don't want him if he has a porn addiction. It is very hard to find men like that. I see it all around me, men cheating on my friends, men who look at me in the streets when they are in their families, men in the office complaining about their marriage but being obviously low value, men at work who have money trying to cheat, and most of them watch violent porn. I would feel sullied if touched by them.
Courtney Ryan do be underrated Good thing that the Roommates found her and gave her the recognition Also hope that I receive a heart😅 True fan from India
This lady is just another of those good looking “female dating coach” or “female gamer” women get into male spaces and use their looks to make money. She won’t talk about real things like paternity fraud, crazy family court laws, alimony, female violence in relationships, abortion and much more. Only the safe obvious topics.
@@bookofeli4867 yeah, she lacks charisma, her voice is so soft it’s actually hard to remain invested in what she’s saying and her main pull is her looks. However, she is one of those women who can see the validity of men’s opinions and doesn’t automatically dismiss them, which is her biggest strength.
Undoubtedly, if you ever want an example of an excellent woman. Listen to how Courtney draws that personal story out, she listens and Hafeez keeps on talking and sharing. Both are full of wonderful information.
"Girl's talk" -> this is why i would rather die alone ... Whenever i'm talking to a woman i feel like whatever i tell her ... her entire friends will know.
They will lol. It’s unavoidable. The only time the talking stops is when you are upgraded in her social hierarchy. That’s why it’s best to not tell them much during the talking phase. Let her talk.
21:40 It’s unfortunate that stable is considered “boring” by a good majority. It’s my opinion that most men want peace in their lives. Chaos adds stress and the less stress I have to manage…the happier I am.
At 23 that's where I was. Focusing on my goals and career then she showed up. We were both at the point of pushing forward on life and we did it together. It happened when we both least expected it. We're both business professionals married for 18 years.
@@levibondjr4650 thank you Sir! She wasn't like other girls. A bit reserved and mysterious but with a welcoming smile and demeanor. In depth conversations that lasted for hours. We're both "old souls" in that regard. Good credit, financially minded, driven, similar beliefs, religious/traditional upbringing, etc. Beautiful inside and out. We have fun together. After a few glasses of wine she's not shy to get on the dance floor and do the Stanky Leg better than any other girl out there. She can dance! I get a kick out of watching her lol. Then there's the 5'1",105lbs, 34/24/32 part that was quite nice and ties it altogether. We were connected through our large social circle at the time. We were fortunate to come together when we did and we've made a great team. There's been tough times but we've been committed to not ending up divorced like our parents because we both remember what that was like. Anything that's worth it never comes easy.
@@Shreadington Your very welcome. That is so beautiful. I really appreciate you sharing. You found her because you stayed true to yourself. I’m a old soul myself. This is inspiring. If more people did what y’all did, they would find true love/happiness. Peace and blessings to you and your family.
@@levibondjr4650 absolutely. It was very natural/organic and genuine. Though we didn't spend a day apart after the first week we never smothered each other. We allowed each other to remain our own person and connected later in the day. We still do the same now after 20 years. It's important to give each other that space to keep continuing to grow as an individual and a couple.
@@Shreadington That’s beautiful. This is what it’s about. Honor and love, but also having the courage and vulnerability to trust them to be their own person. This is very healthy. 🙏🏽💎
@@virtual240 how so? My beliefs are women were put on this planet as a helpmate! Men are financial providers. It's ok if that is not your beliefs. Not saying rich just make more
I’m about 20 minutes in and You’re talking about women getting bored without the drama and the chase. Communicating with my wife was very difficult in the first few years of our marriage (as it always is). I was never the type to stand up for my position and it made my wife lose interest in me. As she and I were watching some trashy TV, it suddenly dawned on me that this is what she was expecting her relationship to be like. When I came at her with facts and nonchalance, it made her feel insecure. When I started channeling the better men in those shows and standing my ground based on emotional reasoning (“I feel this was and I’m right!”), things really started turning around. It was incredibly difficult to get into fights with my wife, but having just a little bit of drama actually helped her come back to the table as a rational partner.
What I've noticed, when men and women date, they don't talk about the important life topics until they're about to get married. I believe you should figure out your own core values and ask the same about your potential partner in the 1st week of meeting. In the last 5yrs, I worked on my values and my "deal-breaker" list of questions which I always ask the woman I'm interested in.
The reason that guys come off as needy is because they don't have as many options as women . Where women can go from one relationship to another almost over night a man is going to be single for months or years at a time .
Yes exactly, That's why men have pre Ejeck issues , its because when he finally gets to see and feel and touch a beautiful wahmen it can be years, so controlling his excitement is difficult. Women go through many men in one month, so being a starfish is easy.
I said this all the time, we are living in the future. Unlimited access to knowledge, epic crossovers, interactions that in years ago would have been almost impossible.
This podcast was so important. These two provide a lot of hope. What a breath of fresh air. One of the best podcasts I have seen yet. Protect Hafeez and Courtney at all costs!
I am strong in both mind and body. I do full-body workouts at the gym, seven days a week. And I don't stop pushing when my muscles start hurtin' because I live by a code: "My strength is pain, I will never give in". I also meditate and study the art of Kung Fu. But do I pay attention to women? No, I do not. I refuse to give them any validation. If they want validation from me, they're gonna have to work for it. And I will make sure that it is near impossible for a girl to win my affections. But even in a relationship, I will not go soft. My mental exterior is still gonna be as hard as Titanium
Ive been working on myself and nothing has changed. Trust it wont work in this market. I took all of her advice years ago and have just been working on myself, got a trade job, increased my income to almost 100k a year, kept myself in shape, learned about the world and have dived deep into hobbies and helping family/friends, invested in my future, bought a house. Nothing has changed, I actually get less attention from women than i did five years ago when I was working in retail living at my parents
Women can't find a good man because they friendzoned/cheated on the "nice/good" men when most women were out chasing the Chad Thunder C's, FWBs, F'boys, F buddy, and after being burn't and end up single mothers, high notch count, or now want kids expect that man to be available. These guys have been rejected so many times they've put up a wall and don't want a relationship.
I was already a fan of Courtney Ryan but this was my first time watching The Roommates, and now I'm hooked! I really liked Hafeez's interview approach of asking simple and on-target questions one after the other. This was a pleasure to listen to!
loved this conversation, having someone calm and collective to have a conversation with is exactly what people need to watch, points on both sides, blaming both sides, very constructive love to see it! so much true spoken in this video!
A joke we said with my brother "women and accountability is like superman and kryptonite." But I always say men go through the red pill rage because now they are told how women really are and the lies they have been told haven't been working. And most channels usually use the bad women and usually say women are like this and that. They always get the negative women and they will see them negatively. But when you find a channel that doesn't focus on one side of the story is really good.
1:09:15- Right Here. This is what is currently helping me get out of the victim mentality. You are not damned because you ended up in a place you don’t like. If you took yourself there, then YOU can also get yourself out! I’m so glad this was pointed out, it makes me wanna cry. ❤️
Men can learn from Courtney Ryan the same way Women can learn from Kevin Samuel. It never hurts to listen to different points of view with an open mind.
Here’s a thought. Women were/are the main perpetrators of fat shaming, slut shaming, calling a girl bitchy if she’s nagging and bossy if she’s too demanding. This used to ‘check’ women and negatively encourage you to be thin, modest, grateful, and accepting which are usually qualities men are looking for. Feminism changes that and so women are encouraged to be loud, angry, stubborn, argumentative, self righteous, etc and makes them unattractive. But men can’t check women because are tell them this cus we never the ones trying to check them. Until women check other women again women will grow to be undesirable to men. Btw I think this applies to Men with other men too, in that men have become very atomised and so don’t have men to men to checking and teaching like we used to. We need community spaces for just women and just men again.
The thing is though, the women with traits that are "unattractive" may not be trying to be attractive. It's not just feminism or an aggression toward being "checked". It could be an aggression towards someone else telling you to change things about yourself that you don't want to change. Not everyone is trying to attract others. Real talk. Some people are the way they are and they are happy that way. If they have less people interested in them that's fine. Their priority is being able to do what they want to do not to be desired. I get the value of us sharing things that work for us with others but not everyone wants what you have, so they don't care. I don't mean that as any kind of shade. Everything is not for everybody and we all have to live with consequences to our actions. If you are doing things that turn people off, you have less people around you. That's a consequence.
You’re not wrong. Women definitely perpetuate their hate onto other women. I also see us say how we need guys to be more sensitive but when a man shows emotion that is NOT anger/dominance/pride/etc.; women are very guilty of shaming the guy for it. Whether that be to his face or in passive aggressive behavior and resentment.
@@leb251able this is 100% true as well. I absolutely love this take. It’s something we as women say to our peers often, “just be yourself” but it’s actually not that simple if you aren’t tryna make people like you. Hope this makes sense but I feel like in the workplace, I feel this the most. I have come to learn that I wanna do my job and stay to myself (less you divulge to coworkers the better for the most part imo) But I’m seen as ‘not a team player/stuck up’. This is so frustrating to me that I do sometimes become defensive. There’s just so much nuance in these topics too but it’s really cool seeing the conversations that are happening more often. esp when we realize we don’t HAVE to be the same - we ARE different from the opposite sex and to people in general regardless of gender. I think the need for relatability is one of the most complex traits in human behavior but it leads to a lot of interesting discourse
To my youngsters, Gentlemen please understand that there is huge cultural differences depending on where you are located in this country, its mind blowing how there really is.
This is spot on. I learned this most during my time in the service. A young woman from Lincoln, Nebraska, is very different from a young woman from Miami, Florida.
Yes the ethnic communities as well they're very family oriented and if and when raised on 2 parent household and oh my goodness have dated the women that had solid father's in their lives, just oozing in her feminine Swaggoo and cooked up something wicked my son husband still a ton like a little bish of a boy I was not notionally ready for it, but there out there Gentlemen. You have to put yourself in their alignment. If your looking on IG looking for looks then that's what you gonna find. As men, we cannot have it all either. Choices and trade offs. I will go down a little bit in looks when I can connect with a women and create space where the respect of each other and the content of her personable character offers a whole of lot more than just beyond the looks that fade and the noonoo. That she keeps a solid home that she protects in her role as the women of the household and matriarch of the familial tree and legacy we want to leave. But that's jus me..
@@ivanavila4674 I dont give a f about looks, but I refuse to date obese women. Thats pretty much all i ask, just be relatively healthy and kind. Too much to ask, though, i guess
She seems like a really nice and genuine person but the objection from men would be there is a visible gap between women say they want and what they really want.
Exactly. I stop listening half way. A 25 yr old who used to date bad boys, now all of a sudden change 🙄. Men stop listening to women about relationships. Going to hurt you in the long run.
@Jaylen Smith I’m not going to say she’s a full blown womanist. I mean she claims she wants to take time off from work to take care of kids and such. My only issue was she giving advice that not practical on the dating scene. She’s basically saying to deal in what women say they want and be the nice but in reality women want things that fail to vocalize which is why we need to first understand their nature then try to date.
exactly....they say be a gentlemen, be strong, communicate,,,,be honest,,,, yet they go for the hot guy chad who is still living with his mother and has a felony. or better yet how many times men have you heard a women complain about their guy being abusive,,,yet they stay with him. While good hard working men are being thrown under the bus and not even being noticed
i know what they want,,,,according to dr walsh all across the world they want your money !!!!!!!! sorry all you hard working 40 to 80k workers.. they want 100k which has nothing to do with the man himself...they just want your money Period
@Jaylen Smith oh I smell that could be the case. She’s just not coming with the feminist rhetoric like others like the girls on the real or something so I won’t hit her too hard with that. I believe she may just be naive on what women want and that’s my issue.
She understands the art of being pleasant. I personally am not interested in loud obnoxious women. That doesn't mean she's weak, she's not, in fact she's powerful. Her outward beauty makes her attractive, but it's her inward beauty is what makes her special.
This is such an awesome conversation. You both were ON POINT, connecting really well, and articulating your ideas beautifully. I'm a watcher of both channels, and I love where you both are coming from and the back and forth here. It really makes for an easy watching experience. Lots of candor and honesty, lots of positivity. This is just a great vibe. Thank you both for making this. I really appreciate the positive content you're both putting out. It may not get the views, but it's IMPORTANT. Big respect to you both!
A good woman, a good conversation. I feel very identified with her and the way she carries herself. You dont need to be 30 to get there, just learning from your mistakes and call them for what they are MISTAKES. It seems like today everything its ok and "sexy" , but its not, and she explained ir very well. Saludos from Venezuela :)
Impressively down to earth conversation about relationships between men and women. At 33:00 it's like you're describing the concequences that the previous generation's divorces (experienced as children) had on your outlook of relationships.
I've been watching Courtney for a few months now. She IS the absolute exception to women her age. She's NOT 95% of women. She seems to a unicorn in all honesty. And that's the problem. 95% of women are NOT her. This is why her advice doesn't work most of the time. If you find another unicorn like her, her advice is spot on.
I have been listening to Courtney for a while. I’m not usually a fan of having a woman tell me what women want; I think most of them don’t even know what they want. But Courtney is pretty good and she is a great counterbalance to some of the good male coach is out there.
The first minute of this video is why I love this woman, "if you want a 10 you have to be a 10" so many women that are 5's think they deserve a 10 and any thing else is below them
@@wyleecoyotee4252 That's not backed by dating apps stats. Dating app stats show women are aiming at top tier and that's behavior (hypergamy) is deeply rooted in biology.
I think Courtney would be better off giving dating advice to other women and also how to keep a man. She’s got the life experience according to her, but on the other side.
I love your positive message. It was right on target. And you are right about there needing to be more of these kinds of messages, and being supported. I am happy to do so. Keep up the good work.
This is crazy!! The Roommates and Courtney dropping gems 💎 I’ve known Courtney for a very long time and she’s always been like this! Her mindset is just different from most women in modern times 💯 keep up the hard work guys 🙌🏽
It's so nice to hear a sensible and positive conversation. My biggest problem is not feeling worthy enough for a woman. It's what lots of childhood trauma and abuse does to people, it's really hard to find helpful therapy as a man.
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No thx
Subtitle please
Oneitis - When a guy has fallen in love with a woman in the same way a boy loves his mother. He obsesses about her, but she does not reciprocate.
please add timestamps!! this is too long without knowing what i'm getting into. i often listen to a segment i'm interested in then listen to whole thing if a segment or two was interesting. love u guys!!
Tbh I work out regularly and I still have to fight to pull off and follow through with even two just dates in a week. Normally I can average 1. I'm being objective in saying that I'm a solid 7 working on becoming an 8. I go after 6 to 7's typically and my God gentleman. It's like you have to beg which I won't to take a 3 on an actual date.
It was an absolute pleasure meeting you, Hafeez! Thanks again for having me on the show and coming to the not so glamorous city of Cleveland 😂👏🏼
My fav crossover
Yess finally u came to this Channel too💯🔥🔥🔥
@CAPO X Yes 💯
@@devankurmitra4118 redpill ideology ain't bad but MIG-TOW is
Glad to see you doing callabs Courtney! Keep spreading your positive message! We need more women like you!
Any time some woman whines "where are all the good men?", I always answer "they're with the good women."
DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN, thats a good one
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@ good morning my fellow comrade, early bed early to rise keeps a man healthy young & wise. Keep it up bro 👍.
@@Luxinance 💯
@@sithlordshaun_ ✊
Another problem with dating: most women like Courtney aren't single.
Maybe but still no reason to settle for bad ones if you can't find good one. Better to be alone than with someone toxic.
A dime a dozen my friend but as long as you keep living and shining you two will find each other
Or, they don’t put themselves out there.
For family courts there is no difference between quality of woman. Remember the woman you're divorcing is not the same person you getting married. Even if she isn't crazy she have power of goverment and biased laws to destroy your life. I don't care who she is while we have this laws in place. Enjoy your cats and wine while I will be enjoing my: bikes, motorcycles, telescopes and life free from constant stress of being accused of something I didn't do and have to proove it in court. This is bs every man is getting into when he decides have relationshit or marriage.
There’s also not many women like her. Like finding a diamond in the woods attractive both inside and out. Lucky dude. Dating super attractive women could be stressful I guess if other guys are constantly checking out your girl.
I love her soft voice. Talking about submissive women, she would be a role model. Soft spoken, can hold an intelligent conversation, respectful, diplomatic. Can you imagine if the world was full of men and women like her? Because let's keep it real, it's not like the world is full of great men either.
💯 Stan, I tell my daughters aged 20 & 18 that they are looking for the 5% of men. Those that are stable, mature and have good values.
@Cat 123 society holds men to the same standards but here you are complaining when a man likes submissive and soft spoken women. A man is expected to be a hero, a leader, a provider, a handy man, a protector and a comedian too. When men say we want submissive woman we aren’t saying we want a slave. We just want to enjoy someone who isn’t argumentative, someone who has a caring heart and is forgiving, not selfish and self centered. Just to be clear I don’t speak for all men, I speak in generalities. It’s all about your attitude. It would have been so much easier to approach women if they were friendlier. This is why most men don’t approach women unless they can read an interest in woman’s body language.
@@xXxPurplePillxXx facts spoken like three wise men
I don’t by it she’s not telling the truth. If a woman is submissive,smart, good looking, traditional she would be married by now because a lot of good man would have married her by now but there’s a missing peace we don’t know about.
I think people who aren't like this, there's nothing wrong with them at all but they should really only date themselves as the two just cannot mix and it will never work.
She's just 25??? Crazy how mature and well-spoken she is. What a gem of a woman.
TOTALLY 100%!
Let her husband say that cheif😂
Yep, she is a golden needle in a stack of copper needles
This was an EXCELLENT interview!
She’s the role model young women deserve!
Aye no cap men need a positive female role model too
Also If I ever have a wife or daughter I want someone great for them to look up to too
Thank you Jeremy
How old is she
@@3zooz17 27 or 28
represents the ''Becky" very very well......
One of the most amazing moments about healing is when you start taking accountability it will all make sense it’s like a putting a puzzle together. And you will find closure in many areas of your life.
Your preaching to the choir. Men are clobbered in the face with accountability from the age of 4.
When you can silence your ego, you will create the ability to discuss the tough topics, and solving problems in your life will become much easier.
It always makes me laugh when people talk about dissolving the ego. Anatta in Buddhism. But they truly lack the understanding of what it means
@@macktheripper7454 I refer to the silencing of my ego in terms of stoicism as a practice and not under the religious practice of Buddhism.
Thank you Michael
Courtney is well beyond her years in maturity. Not only beautiful, but level headed, with good morals and a realistic outlook on life and relationships. It was a pleasant surprise seeing you both collaborate together.
nuff said 💯
I love how women always blame "society" but don't realize that they are also part of society lol
@Jaylen Smith Facts 💯
Who else is part of society?
@Jaylen Smith also there is more women on this planet than men
That’s what feminism does
They're actually more than half of society, so the problem is mostly their fault.
Thanks for having this intelligent woman on the show. Very refreshing.
You're welcome
Sooo refreshing ! Tired of seeing the same exact “304” girls that they scout that all have the same personality.
Just an observation... You called Courtney a woman, and she frequently referred to herself as a girl. The females on Fresh and Fit get offended when you call them a girl and demand that you call them women. You are absolutely right Courtney is a WOMAN, because she also values being a girl.
I disagree. I have seen some of her content. While she brings up some good points she can be very judgemental on people's appearances and style.
It's good that you brought Courtney on your show. She's someone I recently stumbled upon independently and appreciate that she's one of a few women who will hold women accountable same as men. Highly appreciate this episode!
Thank you
We need more women like Courtney. The dating market right now is atrocious
But isn't she the norm out in the real world. Plus if that's what some man want were are those most men chase the few crazies.
@@bunnyboo6295 She isnt the norm, she is a needle in a haystack
Some men have to be willing to change themselves to better if they want a women who is better.
@Frank Rauen That sucks
I hope it completely dies one day.
She speaks so beautifully. I’m going to start speaking softer like her💗
😌
Thank you for having a guest that is the classic "girl next door" type. So many podcasts like this only show or discuss the opposite. She seems feminine, sweet and smart. She has preserved her dignity and it comes through in the interview.
“I’m a relationship type of girl” = A good quality women.
You guys know what comes after hot girl summer??? Single mother winter.
This is gold 😆
Lmfao 🤣😂
Yeah man I told this girl that after she requested we play WAP at my job she responded with after the summer comes the fall dumbness and I said yeah but it takes 9 months for your mistake to be born...She was not a happy camper.
And child support from the fathers lol
Winter is coming...
I think she is a wonderful person with strong morals naturally. She is definitely a role model for good women out there. This lady restores my faith in modern women!
She is literally saying everything Kevin Samuels says, but in a palpable way for women to accept.
Palleteable*, but yes.
Today’s women still won’t accept it regardless of how it’s delivered
I asked her what she thinks of kevin samuels in one of her recent videos and she said she doesn't watch him.
@@一-v7r Yeah, people always tell the truth, ESPECIALLY if they get called out ESPECIALLY when they are a VV.....men.
@@一-v7r i don’t know why people watch him. He’s one of those toxic channels
I feel that Courtney's channel is special because, unlike many of the "Men's Lifestyle/Dating" channels, she doesn't place blame or make excuses one way or another. She openly admits/explores an issue/answers a question to a best of her ability. She also doesn't flaunt what she obviously has (on social media - I follow her in instagram); she doesn't need to over-compensate in order to appear attractive. How could a man not respect that?
I find it way MORE attractive that she doesn't flaunt what she has
Well said 👏🏼👏🏼
I can't ever take a chick talking about men's lifestyle seriously really. You're not a dude so I can't listen to you giving men advice on being a man. Same way chicks feel insulted if men even as much as hint at giving women advice on women's issues.
@@antonchigur4299 her advice is primarily focused on male dating & fashion. In that regard, you’re trying to impress women. It’s best to have a balanced perspective.
We need female allies for sure. I’m still making up my mind about her. I’m not entirely convinced that she’s genuine but we’ll see. Time will eventually tell.
Thanks for interviewing Courtney. She is such a great example of a high quality woman!
She's beautiful and so classy.
The reason why Courtney appears older, is a combination of self-confidence, maturity, and a level of humility that is rarely found in people of either gender at her age. Don't worry, it's not physical appearance, it about how you hold yourself, and the fact that you are articulate, and don't speak "street" or use a lot of slang that many younger people do.
The best part of appearing a little older now, is that assuming you look after yourself, you are likely to age very well, everyone will always compare your older self to how you are now, and there will be very little difference and you'll appear as if you have aged very little.
Really enjoyed listening to the conversation. :)
Hafeez dressed like he’s about to go fight for my rights lol. Sharp attire.
😂 😂 😂
Power to the people my brotha. ✊🏾
Lmao
🤣😂🤣
He just got back from his blade movie casting
What I've noticed, when men and women date, they don't talk about the important life topics until they're about to get married. I believe you should figure out your own core values and ask the same about your potential partner in the 1st week of meeting. After I turned 26, I worked on my values and my "deal-breaker" list of questions which I always ask the woman I'm interested in.
what are those core values and deal breakers of yours? I tend to fall in love too quickly and never asked those hard questions. I need to make a list as well before i get into another relationships.
@@ducdu4136 everyone is going to be different. You just need to figure out what’s most important for you in a intimate relationship and what you want the most out of your life. Your values come from the adults in your environment when growing up, as well as, your past experiences. Just look at your goals and your current lifestyle. It will take time and patience, but, you’ll figure it out in the end.
Good idea you can spend time getting attached then find out there values don't match
@@ducdu4136 That's not something you can copy and paste if your the one in the relationship they need to match your values and life style. Some important one if your religious are they and do they follow it if you do. How many kids if they want them and how they believe they should be raised. Where they are comfortable living. Life goals being inline. How you spend or save money. Just Think about how you live and want to live would that person fit into your life style. Getting along with your close friends and family if they are a big part of your life. Politics is another big one that can cause fight if you both feel strong about opposite views.
Never get married
24:40 “I think I am an exception to a lot of girls my age - I think I act more like girls that are 30.” At 22, I feel this so much. It’s not that I don’t enjoy being young, it’s just that my mindset is not typical for people my age when it comes to marriage, planning for the future, habits, tendencies, how I present myself, etc. This podcast was incredible.
At 18 I had her mindset. Now in my 30's I look at her and see how much she needs to get out and learn. She is buying into a trope that one day will make her miserable.
@For yt K 👍
Courtney, "I feel a lot of women are not what men want."
NAILED IT! That's the vast majority of them it seems. They completely lack self-awareness. What's worse is they don't care either.
Not a vast majority, but probably a majority
Candace Owens said the same thing. I think most women know how women are - we do need some accountability in our gender
Mintue?
I get that but why do the women have to change themselves for men? Maybe I'm not understanding idk this is millinieals problems .
@@muraismybby4617 I think women have to change bc 3rd wave feminism turned us against the family, motherhood, and being good wives. Men need to change too. They need to hold women accountable and stop dating and marrying women who are poor mothers and wives. In other words, men need to be men again and women need to be woman again
Fellas please don’t think b/c a woman lives in Idaho, that she has a better mentality than one from Miami. We have the Internet and social media. Who do you think are taking the trips to Miami lol
Lol Florida & idahos are 🗑
tfw Florida man was Idaho man on vacation this whole time
well said & 100.....social media helps SPREAD the evil of egotisic materialism. Now... ANY LADY CAN BE A '''PRINCESS!!" living in delusion
& it was *OHIO* not
Idaho......peace
@Serena Chairs exactly
Some constructive criticism: I would take a page from Fresh&Fit and time stamp discussion points in your longer video. It's one of the things that makes their much longer videos manageable and it allows these much longer videos to be more easily digestible.
Facts 💯time stamp and make a separate channel for the clips
@@fedditpiccolo1642 yeapp!👍🏽
i understand that F&F is probably the first place where you saw that feature for the first time but its not a page from fresh&Fit. Its literally a youtube feature that plenty of content creators, have used before and use from time to time. But there are those, that don't prefer to use that feature.
Tbf they’ll probably post some smaller clips from the entire interview
@@bandiddid8583 they are probably just lazy to try it.
*It’s refreshing to hear a balanced conversation about women’s accountability and the challenges men face today. Discussions like these are crucial for improving modern dating dynamics.*
Women are so obsessed with guys having to be the best version of themselves, that they think having a cute butt and putting makeup on is their best version. Most happy and married women are NOT the 10's, cause they know they can't fool around until 40. Really attractive women often realize too late that men are simple and don't insist on you having a certain career or having superficial things. At the end of the day, we can't change anything about it but we can hope for future generations to be more educated about these topics.
Only in the tiny bubble of rich western countries. Everywhere else the prime directive for women is landing a provider male. The beautiful ones like my wife marry off at 19, or by early 20's at the least. There is something you can do about it, namely marrying foreign girls who make fantastic wives and mothers.
@@denniscorvin415 I actually 100% argue with you on this one, I forgot about that possibility before posting my comment.
I agree with you, but I want a man with value too, he should work on himself, be clean, and I don't want him if he has a porn addiction. It is very hard to find men like that. I see it all around me, men cheating on my friends, men who look at me in the streets when they are in their families, men in the office complaining about their marriage but being obviously low value, men at work who have money trying to cheat, and most of them watch violent porn. I would feel sullied if touched by them.
@@denniscorvin415 this 💯 agree with you! It’s more the western women who do this.
@@cevanille1104 Yup you're definitely gonna end up alone. Good luck with that
Courtney Ryan do be underrated
Good thing that the Roommates found her and gave her the recognition
Also hope that I receive a heart😅
True fan from India
Nice to have a fellow 🇮🇳 here
Another one from 🇮🇳
Not from India, but I want to feel included.
This lady is just another of those good looking “female dating coach” or “female gamer” women get into male spaces and use their looks to make money. She won’t talk about real things like paternity fraud, crazy family court laws, alimony, female violence in relationships, abortion and much more. Only the safe obvious topics.
@@bookofeli4867 yeah, she lacks charisma, her voice is so soft it’s actually hard to remain invested in what she’s saying and her main pull is her looks. However, she is one of those women who can see the validity of men’s opinions and doesn’t automatically dismiss them, which is her biggest strength.
Undoubtedly, if you ever want an example of an excellent woman. Listen to how Courtney draws that personal story out, she listens and Hafeez keeps on talking and sharing. Both are full of wonderful information.
"Girl's talk" -> this is why i would rather die alone ... Whenever i'm talking to a woman i feel like whatever i tell her ... her entire friends will know.
EXACTLY
They will lol. It’s unavoidable. The only time the talking stops is when you are upgraded in her social hierarchy. That’s why it’s best to not tell them much during the talking phase. Let her talk.
Giving up is not a solution!
Always say hi to her friends when you're texting her, cause she's gonna show them the convo
So don’t fkn tell her😂 tell your boys instead.
I’d love talking with the Roommates
Check out fresh and fit Miami podcast 🔥
Yea I would to, I would rip all this feel good bullshit apart in seconds
Oh man. Wait until you see fresh and fit
what you doing here bro!?
@@YourWeirdoMJ whatever brought you to this side of TH-cam, more than likely brought me here too.
21:40
It’s unfortunate that stable is considered “boring” by a good majority. It’s my opinion that most men want peace in their lives. Chaos adds stress and the less stress I have to manage…the happier I am.
It is great to see you guys collaborate. I am a fan of both of your podcasts. I will definitely listen to this tomorrow.
Thank you!!
At 23 that's where I was. Focusing on my goals and career then she showed up. We were both at the point of pushing forward on life and we did it together. It happened when we both least expected it. We're both business professionals married for 18 years.
That is so beautiful. Congrats. What made her stand out?
@@levibondjr4650 thank you Sir! She wasn't like other girls. A bit reserved and mysterious but with a welcoming smile and demeanor. In depth conversations that lasted for hours. We're both "old souls" in that regard. Good credit, financially minded, driven, similar beliefs, religious/traditional upbringing, etc. Beautiful inside and out. We have fun together. After a few glasses of wine she's not shy to get on the dance floor and do the Stanky Leg better than any other girl out there. She can dance! I get a kick out of watching her lol. Then there's the 5'1",105lbs, 34/24/32 part that was quite nice and ties it altogether. We were connected through our large social circle at the time. We were fortunate to come together when we did and we've made a great team. There's been tough times but we've been committed to not ending up divorced like our parents because we both remember what that was like. Anything that's worth it never comes easy.
@@Shreadington Your very welcome. That is so beautiful. I really appreciate you sharing. You found her because you stayed true to yourself. I’m a old soul myself. This is inspiring. If more people did what y’all did, they would find true love/happiness. Peace and blessings to you and your family.
@@levibondjr4650 absolutely. It was very natural/organic and genuine. Though we didn't spend a day apart after the first week we never smothered each other. We allowed each other to remain our own person and connected later in the day. We still do the same now after 20 years. It's important to give each other that space to keep continuing to grow as an individual and a couple.
@@Shreadington That’s beautiful. This is what it’s about. Honor and love, but also having the courage and vulnerability to trust them to be their own person. This is very healthy. 🙏🏽💎
The most truthful thing she said was , "most women" wants a man that makes more than her! Facts!! I 💯 agree.
This is one of the problems with today's women.
@@virtual240 how so? My beliefs are women were put on this planet as a helpmate! Men are financial providers. It's ok if that is not your beliefs. Not saying rich just make more
Until they reach their early 30s, have some money, and feel the biological clock ticking.
I’m about 20 minutes in and You’re talking about women getting bored without the drama and the chase. Communicating with my wife was very difficult in the first few years of our marriage (as it always is). I was never the type to stand up for my position and it made my wife lose interest in me. As she and I were watching some trashy TV, it suddenly dawned on me that this is what she was expecting her relationship to be like. When I came at her with facts and nonchalance, it made her feel insecure. When I started channeling the better men in those shows and standing my ground based on emotional reasoning (“I feel this was and I’m right!”), things really started turning around. It was incredibly difficult to get into fights with my wife, but having just a little bit of drama actually helped her come back to the table as a rational partner.
What I've noticed, when men and women date, they don't talk about the important life topics until they're about to get married. I believe you should figure out your own core values and ask the same about your potential partner in the 1st week of meeting. In the last 5yrs, I worked on my values and my "deal-breaker" list of questions which I always ask the woman I'm interested in.
Smart
The reason that guys come off as needy is because they don't have as many options as women . Where women can go from one relationship to another almost over night a man is going to be single for months or years at a time .
Helluva comment !!!!!!
Hey ain't easy being a redhead
And Women aren’t brought up or used to the idea of they themselves approaching men instead of the other way round.......
Yes exactly, That's why men have pre Ejeck issues , its because when he finally gets to see and feel and touch a beautiful wahmen it can be years, so controlling his excitement is difficult. Women go through many men in one month, so being a starfish is easy.
they arent confident in their ability to sling dick. the bed and the dancefloor are where a mans status is attained not assigned.
There's one crossover I didn't see coming. Looking forward to checking this out.
I said this all the time, we are living in the future. Unlimited access to knowledge, epic crossovers, interactions that in years ago would have been almost impossible.
Hope you enjoy
@@TheRoommatesPodcast Certainly did! Incredibly insightful as always.
Glad to see Courtney here, she's been grinding nonstop. You need to put the link to her YT channel in your description
AMAZING Conversation! Thank you for this
This podcast was so important. These two provide a lot of hope. What a breath of fresh air. One of the best podcasts I have seen yet. Protect Hafeez and Courtney at all costs!
“You can only control yourself”
Unless you’re a hot chick, then you can control men 😂✌️🇺🇸 just not the men you want 😂😂😂
No hot chick controls a strong man.
Unless you are a strong man that dont get fooled by looks .
Beauty is everywhere.
Educate your ego and you wont be weak anymore
@@noneofyourbuizness thats why he said not the men u want
@@avasdasgupta1657 exactly. People really need to start comprehending before they post comments.🤦🏿♀️
I am strong in both mind and body. I do full-body workouts at the gym, seven days a week. And I don't stop pushing when my muscles start hurtin' because I live by a code: "My strength is pain, I will never give in". I also meditate and study the art of Kung Fu. But do I pay attention to women? No, I do not. I refuse to give them any validation. If they want validation from me, they're gonna have to work for it. And I will make sure that it is near impossible for a girl to win my affections. But even in a relationship, I will not go soft. My mental exterior is still gonna be as hard as Titanium
This video did alot for me. It made me realize I need to focus on me before I can focus on anyone else
Ive been working on myself and nothing has changed. Trust it wont work in this market. I took all of her advice years ago and have just been working on myself, got a trade job, increased my income to almost 100k a year, kept myself in shape, learned about the world and have dived deep into hobbies and helping family/friends, invested in my future, bought a house. Nothing has changed, I actually get less attention from women than i did five years ago when I was working in retail living at my parents
Yes there's hope! A woman with good character, wisdom, and Morals. Seems like a Proverbs 31 Woman.
Great convo! I love her energy😍🙌🏽 And yes there are more women like her. It’s just very rare to find these days....
It is hard to meet that rare gem stone.
Any hints where to find them? 😉
Women can't find a good man because they friendzoned/cheated on the "nice/good" men when most women were out chasing the Chad Thunder C's, FWBs, F'boys, F buddy, and after being burn't and end up single mothers, high notch count, or now want kids expect that man to be available. These guys have been rejected so many times they've put up a wall and don't want a relationship.
Its not hard its just that they get overlooked everybody wants a insta model with a big ass (which is not even real) these days.
@Erza Scarlet Neither do good men.
I was already a fan of Courtney Ryan but this was my first time watching The Roommates, and now I'm hooked! I really liked Hafeez's interview approach of asking simple and on-target questions one after the other. This was a pleasure to listen to!
Seeing Courtney Ryan here really made me happy ☺️.I always knew she would be recognised.
loved this conversation, having someone calm and collective to have a conversation with is exactly what people need to watch, points on both sides, blaming both sides, very constructive love to see it! so much true spoken in this video!
Looking forward to chopping up the gems on this one. Much love from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪.
I’ve been waiting for this collab, and it came without me asking ? Love to see it 😭👏🏽
A joke we said with my brother "women and accountability is like superman and kryptonite." But I always say men go through the red pill rage because now they are told how women really are and the lies they have been told haven't been working. And most channels usually use the bad women and usually say women are like this and that. They always get the negative women and they will see them negatively. But when you find a channel that doesn't focus on one side of the story is really good.
Honestly surprised by this collab. It was a good conversation!
Thank you
Hafeez really do be going above and beyond to find as many people as possible. People were surprised when he got an interview with Candace Owens.
YEESSSSSS! Yo I've been calling her to go on the podcasts for weeks and months. Her content and her channel goes so well with the Roommates’ message
This woman’s voice is so feminine- whoever wife’d her up is a DAMN lucky man!
Plus she has brains too!?
There is hope in this world
Yo! I felt her vibe and her voice I immediately thought, “this woman is feminine”
My bro got one there is plenty out there they are not going to be found on social media
Watch out for the Chameleons. This could all be a facade, just like Tomi Lahren.
@@shreddedmetal2526 i mean i don’t really know her content, might have to check it out for myself.
Lol you’re easily fooled
1:09:15- Right Here. This is what is currently helping me get out of the victim mentality. You are not damned because you ended up in a place you don’t like. If you took yourself there, then YOU can also get yourself out! I’m so glad this was pointed out, it makes me wanna cry. ❤️
Men can learn from Courtney Ryan the same way Women can learn from Kevin Samuel. It never hurts to listen to different points of view with an open mind.
Samuels has a cool grace that KS lacks. Watch Jordan peterson and use your time applying what you learn from jp instead of watching ks.
Here’s a thought.
Women were/are the main perpetrators of fat shaming, slut shaming, calling a girl bitchy if she’s nagging and bossy if she’s too demanding. This used to ‘check’ women and negatively encourage you to be thin, modest, grateful, and accepting which are usually qualities men are looking for.
Feminism changes that and so women are encouraged to be loud, angry, stubborn, argumentative, self righteous, etc and makes them unattractive.
But men can’t check women because are tell them this cus we never the ones trying to check them. Until women check other women again women will grow to be undesirable to men.
Btw I think this applies to Men with other men too, in that men have become very atomised and so don’t have men to men to checking and teaching like we used to.
We need community spaces for just women and just men again.
The thing is though, the women with traits that are "unattractive" may not be trying to be attractive. It's not just feminism or an aggression toward being "checked". It could be an aggression towards someone else telling you to change things about yourself that you don't want to change.
Not everyone is trying to attract others. Real talk. Some people are the way they are and they are happy that way. If they have less people interested in them that's fine. Their priority is being able to do what they want to do not to be desired. I get the value of us sharing things that work for us with others but not everyone wants what you have, so they don't care. I don't mean that as any kind of shade. Everything is not for everybody and we all have to live with consequences to our actions. If you are doing things that turn people off, you have less people around you. That's a consequence.
@@leb251able you took the words right out of my mouth lol!
I agree.
You’re not wrong. Women definitely perpetuate their hate onto other women. I also see us say how we need guys to be more sensitive but when a man shows emotion that is NOT anger/dominance/pride/etc.; women are very guilty of shaming the guy for it. Whether that be to his face or in passive aggressive behavior and resentment.
@@leb251able this is 100% true as well. I absolutely love this take. It’s something we as women say to our peers often, “just be yourself” but it’s actually not that simple if you aren’t tryna make people like you. Hope this makes sense but I feel like in the workplace, I feel this the most. I have come to learn that I wanna do my job and stay to myself (less you divulge to coworkers the better for the most part imo) But I’m seen as ‘not a team player/stuck up’. This is so frustrating to me that I do sometimes become defensive.
There’s just so much nuance in these topics too but it’s really cool seeing the conversations that are happening more often. esp when we realize we don’t HAVE to be the same - we ARE different from the opposite sex and to people in general regardless of gender. I think the need for relatability is one of the most complex traits in human behavior but it leads to a lot of interesting discourse
To my youngsters, Gentlemen please understand that there is huge cultural differences depending on where you are located in this country, its mind blowing how there really is.
Oh travel alot for work so I know, women who live in smaller towns tend to be married and pregnant much earlier.
That explains the crazy women men talk of that I discover during the pandemic .
This is spot on. I learned this most during my time in the service. A young woman from Lincoln, Nebraska, is very different from a young woman from Miami, Florida.
Yes the ethnic communities as well they're very family oriented and if and when raised on 2 parent household and oh my goodness have dated the women that had solid father's in their lives, just oozing in her feminine Swaggoo and cooked up something wicked my son husband still a ton like a little bish of a boy I was not notionally ready for it, but there out there Gentlemen. You have to put yourself in their alignment. If your looking on IG looking for looks then that's what you gonna find. As men, we cannot have it all either. Choices and trade offs. I will go down a little bit in looks when I can connect with a women and create space where the respect of each other and the content of her personable character offers a whole of lot more than just beyond the looks that fade and the noonoo. That she keeps a solid home that she protects in her role as the women of the household and matriarch of the familial tree and legacy we want to leave. But that's jus me..
@@ivanavila4674 I dont give a f about looks, but I refuse to date obese women. Thats pretty much all i ask, just be relatively healthy and kind. Too much to ask, though, i guess
Courtney has such a unique and pragmatic perspective. Her channel is definitely one of my favorites!
Female insight can give a well equipped male a LOT of advantages when it comes to dating and relationships! Thanks Courtney!
Great conversation! I'm glad you guys did a collab. This is the type of discussion that needs to be out there more.
I glad you two collaborated this was an excellent interview from two great people
She seems like a really nice and genuine person but the objection from men would be there is a visible gap between women say they want and what they really want.
Exactly. I stop listening half way. A 25 yr old who used to date bad boys, now all of a sudden change 🙄. Men stop listening to women about relationships. Going to hurt you in the long run.
@Jaylen Smith I’m not going to say she’s a full blown womanist. I mean she claims she wants to take time off from work to take care of kids and such.
My only issue was she giving advice that not practical on the dating scene. She’s basically saying to deal in what women say they want and be the nice but in reality women want things that fail to vocalize which is why we need to first understand their nature then try to date.
exactly....they say be a gentlemen, be strong, communicate,,,,be honest,,,, yet they go for the hot guy chad who is still living with his mother and has a felony. or better yet how many times men have you heard a women complain about their guy being abusive,,,yet they stay with him. While good hard working men are being thrown under the bus and not even being noticed
i know what they want,,,,according to dr walsh all across the world they want your money !!!!!!!! sorry all you hard working 40 to 80k workers.. they want 100k which has nothing to do with the man himself...they just want your money Period
@Jaylen Smith oh I smell that could be the case. She’s just not coming with the feminist rhetoric like others like the girls on the real or something so I won’t hit her too hard with that. I believe she may just be naive on what women want and that’s my issue.
This is awesome 💯💯
What up bro
all my fav motivational people together.
Thank you
I am your sub.whattsup?
@@chinmaybhabadYT Hi your sub iam sheeno
She understands the art of being pleasant. I personally am not interested in loud obnoxious women. That doesn't mean she's weak, she's not, in fact she's powerful. Her outward beauty makes her attractive, but it's her inward beauty is what makes her special.
This is such an awesome conversation. You both were ON POINT, connecting really well, and articulating your ideas beautifully. I'm a watcher of both channels, and I love where you both are coming from and the back and forth here. It really makes for an easy watching experience. Lots of candor and honesty, lots of positivity. This is just a great vibe. Thank you both for making this. I really appreciate the positive content you're both putting out. It may not get the views, but it's IMPORTANT. Big respect to you both!
The back end of this interview is definitely god tier !!!
I love her channel! Great having a woman's perspective.
Those women have always been around. They are the ones that give you bad advice for the most part.
@@MrKrushgutz have you seen her channel? Why pre-judge
Yo!! What an incredible podcast. Solid info, Hard truths but so many good feels. One of my favorite listens of 2021
One of the best and biggest crossovers in the history of crossovers ever! Love this content!
I love Courtney Ryan!! Her soft feminine voice is so soothing. Bring back the live show!!
Absolutely fantastic episode!
Shoutouts from South Africa
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Glad I bumped into this refreshing channel. It's exhausting hearing all the negativity on social media. Real, true conversations!
A good woman, a good conversation. I feel very identified with her and the way she carries herself. You dont need to be 30 to get there, just learning from your mistakes and call them for what they are MISTAKES. It seems like today everything its ok and "sexy" , but its not, and she explained ir very well. Saludos from Venezuela :)
Thank you
Impressively down to earth conversation about relationships between men and women. At 33:00 it's like you're describing the concequences that the previous generation's divorces (experienced as children) had on your outlook of relationships.
“Cleveland really sucks....I’ve never heard anybody say, ‘I’m going to Cleveland on vacation.’ What’s so good about Cleveland?” - Joakim Noah
You know what ? I haven't thought about that 😂
Was he a philosopher?
The Cleveland rocks song?
Joakim Noah was an NBA player.
I've been watching Courtney for a few months now. She IS the absolute exception to women her age. She's NOT 95% of women. She seems to a unicorn in all honesty. And that's the problem. 95% of women are NOT her. This is why her advice doesn't work most of the time. If you find another unicorn like her, her advice is spot on.
Courtney Ryan has given hope to men that we can find a classy woman to build an empire with 💯
I first found Courtney when she was only doing fashion vids last year. What was striking about her was her femininity!!
I have been listening to Courtney for a while. I’m not usually a fan of having a woman tell me what women want; I think most of them don’t even know what they want. But Courtney is pretty good and she is a great counterbalance to some of the good male coach is out there.
Facts 💯
She dose seem to have a talent explaining
@@SmokeyTheBear125 that puts you in a small minority of people, male or female.
Harmonious and beautiful chat full of wisdom, thank you both
Its such a breath of fresh to see a polite woman like Courtney it's ashame that it's becoming a rarity these days! It shouldn't be this way!
She thinks the average guy has hundreds of options🤣
The first minute of this video is why I love this woman, "if you want a 10 you have to be a 10" so many women that are 5's think they deserve a 10 and any thing else is below them
On the flipside most men are average or below average yet they search for theo 10 as well, then complain they get rejected
@@wyleecoyotee4252 definitely, goes both ways, but I only see women on dating apps
@@wyleecoyotee4252 That's not backed by dating apps stats. Dating app stats show women are aiming at top tier and that's behavior (hypergamy) is deeply rooted in biology.
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My comment was about men, not women.
That average men want top tier women.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 average men are not delusional.
I think Courtney would be better off giving dating advice to other women and also how to keep a man. She’s got the life experience according to her, but on the other side.
Problem is its not lucrative. Women will not pay to hear themselves being held accountable.
It’s another form of validation and Income for her. Don’t be fooled
Hats off to you both
That was the realest and most intelligent conversation that I've heard in a long time. 👏👏
I love your positive message. It was right on target. And you are right about there needing to be more of these kinds of messages, and being supported. I am happy to do so. Keep up the good work.
This is crazy!! The Roommates and Courtney dropping gems 💎 I’ve known Courtney for a very long time and she’s always been like this! Her mindset is just different from most women in modern times 💯 keep up the hard work guys 🙌🏽
Shes a needle in a haystack
Raised well you think or just born like this? 😏
EEEJ COURTNEY RYAN!!! Love the collab! :) Been following you both for a while now! :)
What an amazing interview, Courtney is pure class , really enjoyed this one 👍👍
Wow a FEMININE AND PLEASANT woman, you see how comforting and soothing her conversation is..
It's so nice to hear a sensible and positive conversation. My biggest problem is not feeling worthy enough for a woman. It's what lots of childhood trauma and abuse does to people, it's really hard to find helpful therapy as a man.
Accountability IS liberating ! So true!
They say: “I regret it.”
What they mean is: “I got herpes.”
Keepin it real
Shhhhhh
Telling the truth!
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There are some communities in America and where a quarter of women are running around with herpes
😂😂😂you wrong for that
1 in 6 people have it. Really not so uncommon
Courtney is mature beyond her years - probably shows how well her parents raised her + own introspection !
I actually appreciate the positive content. I watch both obviously but I focus on the positive stuff. It helps so much