Fierce Goodbye: Living in the Shadow of Suicide (2010) | Full Movie | Dr. Kay Redfield Jamison

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  • @TakeA1970sShower
    @TakeA1970sShower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Someone once said; "The hardest part of having a mental illness is everyone expects you to act like you don't have one,"

    • @melaninmonroeeee
      @melaninmonroeeee ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So true omgggg

    • @sonjo2419
      @sonjo2419 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes.. I didn’t hear anyone talk about mental illness as cause. Watch ask listen be there honestly everyday not just at random moments if the person opens to you there is something wrong with how they are feeling.

    • @maryannhope8276
      @maryannhope8276 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My brother hung himself 40 yrs ago. The church refused to bury him and we had no service except for close family and friends. No priest would be there. Till this day I wonder why, why why why. If he knew how our mother took the news ( death by hanging) and 3 siblings left behind, " a mother that blamed herself bc she was his mother and should've known". A older brother and two younger sisters we went through hell, mom didn't talk about it and us 3 ... suffered unbearably. Dont forget siblings....💔🕊 Rest in Paradise Clyde

    • @TakeA1970sShower
      @TakeA1970sShower 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤@@maryannhope8276

    • @sheilastrait2917
      @sheilastrait2917 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@maryannhope8276 that is so sad. I feel for your Mom, I’m a motherand I can’t a magine. They don’t mean to hurt others, they just stand their pain anymore. Bless you guys.

  • @olumide31907
    @olumide31907 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I am in this Documentary. I am glad someone uploaded it on TH-cam. I hope anyone who needs help gets it . The Suicide Prevention hotline is 988.

    • @maryannhope8276
      @maryannhope8276 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so sorry for your loss 💔🕊🙏🏼 Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings Love and Peace 😭

    • @lovinbluegrass
      @lovinbluegrass 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My grandma committed suicide over 40 yrs ago when I was 15. Thank you for telling your story. I think about her everyday. She was loved so very much. One day we will be reunited with them, and they will be whole. God bless your family. ❤

    • @Zafarnama111
      @Zafarnama111 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sorry for your loss. RIP

  • @Saddepressedanxiuse31
    @Saddepressedanxiuse31 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Funny when you’re dead how people start listening

    • @timcepin3386
      @timcepin3386 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly!

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I am in crisis at the moment, bad insomnia, terrible depression, self loathing. Long unemployment period, feeling like im a bad person. I’m 49, I feel there’s no way to go now. I’m just so very tired of everything and literally tired too from lack of sleep

    • @Chloepickle15
      @Chloepickle15 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi, how are you doing at the moment? Lack of a good nights sleep is so terrible for our mental health. Everything is out of focus, and it’s difficult to make good decisions etc. It’s easier said than done, but I hope you can see that it’s the lack of sleep making you feel so terribly about yourself. You are not a bad person, you are just experiencing a bad time.

    • @justmadeit2
      @justmadeit2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chloepickle15 Hi, I’m still struggling with my sleep and have also been struggling with o.c.d and intrusive thoughts. It’s as if my brain is turning against me. It’s hideous

    • @Chloepickle15
      @Chloepickle15 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@justmadeit2 oh mate, I’m so sorry you are still struggling. I completely understand what it feels like to be battling your own brain daily. Are you eating properly etc at the min? Insomnia is an absolute arse!

    • @justmadeit2
      @justmadeit2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chloepickle15 I’m eating ok most of the time though skip meals sometimes. It’s a rough time for sure

  • @lkweasley8236
    @lkweasley8236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Sometimes suicide is the only answer and I wish people would stop being so selfish and forcing the severely mentally ill to live in anguish.

    • @lesliecano4963
      @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I totally agree. It’s cruel to expect everyone to live to old age. I hope my days here are over soon

    • @Bughugger
      @Bughugger 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yikes. I think you have both missed the entire point of this video. They aren't talking about cases that a Dr assisted suicide could aid with. But you thought this was the right comment to make here? Talk about selfish, geeze.

    • @BEACHDUDE71
      @BEACHDUDE71 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes I agree, sometimes it's the only choice

    • @izzypfutzenreuter
      @izzypfutzenreuter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for understanding us.

    • @sueparker4391
      @sueparker4391 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lesliecano4963
      I can only say Leslie I hope you find a way to survive. My dear son took his life. My pain began. There is hope . His name is Jesus

  • @izzypfutzenreuter
    @izzypfutzenreuter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I’ve been in therapy for years, both with a psychiatrist and a clinical psychologist. I still don’t see a future for myself. I’m tired, I’m bankrupt, I can’t live normally and I just can’t get myself interested in anything these days.
    If I had cancer, would you force me to live out the rest of my days in pain or would you help me find rest?

  • @diamonds1441
    @diamonds1441 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jami's mother in particular...what a beautiful soul. So deep in her faith, so strong after finding her daughter and wanting to pray. I can't even imagine what these parents, spouses and siblings went through.

  • @dennislear7098
    @dennislear7098 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Life is overrated. Dying isnt so bad.

  • @leahcotton5315
    @leahcotton5315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Such a tragic thing to live through. Condolences to these families and the victims of mental illness.

  • @sheririley3503
    @sheririley3503 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Mental illness is not sin, you would think you could find compassion within religion instead of judgment. 'Let he who is without sin cast the first stone ' this is why people dont talk about it...fear, judgment total BS 😪😡

    • @lesliecano4963
      @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว

      All religion is patriarchal hypocritical garbage.

  • @rosaliedill7088
    @rosaliedill7088 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so sorry to all that lost their loved one.

  • @neomaredi5922
    @neomaredi5922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Perfect. I needed to see this.

  • @tracysmith3549
    @tracysmith3549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so sick of always being about those left behind. It's about those who do it!

  • @LadyGreyBlack
    @LadyGreyBlack ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I will neve forget the night we received a call from a family member, telling me my cousin had taken his life. He had just gotten married, was successful and beloved by his colleagues, had many friends. Traveled. I know how he did it, and know what his note said, but I will never understand the why...

    • @lesliecano4963
      @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because he was devastated.

    • @MWorsa
      @MWorsa ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lesliecano4963?

    • @FireWork-nc8ib
      @FireWork-nc8ib 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Success isn't everything .

  • @lesliecano4963
    @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If I hadn’t abandoned the Catholic Church decades ago I’d have done myself in by now too. Disgusting.

  • @thedirtytruth666
    @thedirtytruth666 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Living with some of the most expensive medical conditions. And then having a child who genetically got them too. And you live in the 2nd worst state for getting disability. So it is better to commit suicide than to be homeless and having these medical conditions. My states disability is going to be the cause of 2 suicides. But hey, look at the money saved.

    • @colinwee9981
      @colinwee9981 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really feel for you...and know exactly what u r going thru..God can be so cruel

    • @lesliecano4963
      @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you can find some peace.

    • @MWorsa
      @MWorsa ปีที่แล้ว

      Arizona?

    • @lesliecano4963
      @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If god exists she wouldn’t make you live with all this suffering.

    • @MWorsa
      @MWorsa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lanaroske2221 Yes, very cheap to just pick up and move to another country! 😵‍💫

  • @NottaTrick
    @NottaTrick 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "If your feeling like you have more than you can handle, you need to give God back his battle" Pastor Stephen Furtick

  • @sharonpinkerton8297
    @sharonpinkerton8297 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So well done

  • @user-rh8ge3so7t
    @user-rh8ge3so7t 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being I'll is never easy, yet some self control is necessary, because, you require care from others, you have to be around people, in almost every aspect of your life, it's not an easy balance to put on a happy face so to speak, because we have responsibility to ourselves and others.

  • @williamparker1085
    @williamparker1085 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    usual nonsense about god and praying

  • @Elliott_Ramos
    @Elliott_Ramos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Coming from someone who is NOT religious and who has religious trauma, I actually gained a lot from this video. I disagree with how judgmental religion is, but the rest of the video wasn’t bad.

    • @Scorned405
      @Scorned405 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. Religion puts fear and guilt in someone. The very essence of religion is unhealthy worldview

  • @colinwee9981
    @colinwee9981 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bloody cruel god...just stand and watch even though people r praying for help

    • @maggieboo8142
      @maggieboo8142 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please don't blame God for people's actions, the victims have lost their resone for living and make their own minds up, its not God's choice its the dear depressed soul that feels life is not worth living, but I truly believe they will find peace and love in their spiritual life in the presence of the Lord ✝️❤🇬🇧

    • @lesliecano4963
      @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There is no god of love and peace who would allow us go through what we do.

    • @colinwee9981
      @colinwee9981 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then what is this about this merciful n loving god...where is the mercy n love..so its all fakel​@@maggieboo8142

  • @gildasomia3461
    @gildasomia3461 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome 🙏

  • @sabrina-hu4ri
    @sabrina-hu4ri 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't want to be here, but I can't see a way to get out.

  • @barbaradouglas2283
    @barbaradouglas2283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very much appreciated & seriously needed to get programs going for however long it takes. Even if that’s for the rest of one’s life. Suicidal is based upon what I’ve heard you’ll never be the same again because of it. I do feel that my siblings would say; well she was certainly struggling with her depression & anxiety even though they didn’t seem to wanna really acknowledge that I’ve been struggling with it all my entire life so far! Ugh 😑 what will those siblings say if I really do give up & end my life. They’re not even in the same city. I’m totally alone here! Loving, caring, truly understanding? Nope 👎! So what the heck’s the point here?! 🤷‍♀️Don’t panic I’m not sending out a threatening message. Just stating the facts re: my siblings today. My dad died when I was just literally turned 13 yrs old. Mom died 1998 lung cancer. I was right by her side all the way through & that frightened me cause she looked like she was in a horror movie with how the last mins played out. Ech! My 2nd eldest sister died in May 8th, 2020. Lung disease that I can’t remember the name of but there was literally no treatment, she had 2-3 yrs left before possible suffocation would occur, but had MAID already in place to help end her life. And when I learned of her death I was all alone & crushed by it! Maybe I should have ended mine then too! Am I psychologically hurting 😞💔😭better believe it!!! Bullied all throughout my so-called school yrs too, couldn’t learn anything in the stupid way the old fashioned school system taught so lost out on any proper education! Pissed 😠 off about this? You bet I am! Then being told if I end my life for whatever reason(s) I’d not make it into Gods Kingdom cause it’s a massive sin to commit! Oh, crap!!!! I just can’t seem to win!!! I’m not suicidal rt now so no need for panic today. Just expressing myself for what I’ve gone through & really not gotten the real authentic help I truly needed & still do at 60+ yrs. I think time’s running out for me though. I’m just tired of what’s actually a bunch of B.S! Said my say.

  • @abelduliep
    @abelduliep ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Why do they call depression a mental illness ? Absolute nonsense. Depression is a symptom of an unresolved situation in life , be it due to a financial crisis etc . Once a solution is found, depression is gone

    • @rotomwash0355
      @rotomwash0355 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Your lack of understanding and lack of empathy is showing.
      Situational depression, or I'm broke and upset about it, is not the same thing as inborn clinical depression.
      And it's mental illness because that's where it starts. You don't get a big pimple on your nose with a sign. It doesn't show externally on the body for others to observe.
      Learn to read. Then learn to be a person.

    • @gloriblair3568
      @gloriblair3568 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My husband was killed five years ago. What is the solution for that? Please tell me

    • @lanaroske2221
      @lanaroske2221 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s biochemical in the brain
      Clinical depression

    • @DanielaFelber-hh9uz
      @DanielaFelber-hh9uz ปีที่แล้ว

      because they are educated and you are obviously not !!! so better don't open your mouth then !!!

    • @MW-qx9jr
      @MW-qx9jr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very ignorant. Embarrassingly so

  • @colinwee9981
    @colinwee9981 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    F...k god...bloody cruel

  • @AlanAvis
    @AlanAvis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow that reinactment was awful.

  • @PotterPossum1989
    @PotterPossum1989 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Far too melodramatic

    • @lesliecano4963
      @lesliecano4963 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jill Ann was ridiculous.
      When she found her daughter hanging she claimed to immediately say a Jewish prayer instead of reacting in shock and horror. Then when she had to tell a loved one the horrible news, the beautiful silver lining was a rainbow out the window…
      GTF outta here

  • @sergendurgut1947
    @sergendurgut1947 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    UwU

  • @sheilastrait2917
    @sheilastrait2917 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Suicide is murder and murders go to hell. Why do we not understand that. There is a place in hell where people who commit suicide goes. It is plain in the word of God (Bible). 😢😢😢😢

    • @DanielaFelber-hh9uz
      @DanielaFelber-hh9uz ปีที่แล้ว

      you are disgusting!!!

    • @irenemchugh
      @irenemchugh ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What a disgusting thing to say …….

    • @sheilastrait2917
      @sheilastrait2917 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@irenemchugh it’s the truth even if we don’t like it. We are not supposed to comment murder not even ourselves. Millions of people go to hell every day where is your outrage about that? I’m sorry.

    • @DanielaFelber-hh9uz
      @DanielaFelber-hh9uz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sheilastrait2917 the outrage is about your lack of compassion, your arrogance and your not knowing when and where to share your ideas

    • @brianswathey
      @brianswathey 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You do know that the bible is a complete work of fiction written a couple of thousand years ago, right? The bible isn’t even worthy as being used for toilet paper.

  • @JuanHernandez-ry9dr
    @JuanHernandez-ry9dr ปีที่แล้ว +14

    First step leave god out of the equation. There is no God.

    • @Adrian-vy5vn
      @Adrian-vy5vn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There is afterlife but there is no god