In the second concern, Don't let the wife's smile/laughter fool you. I am 100% sure that behind that smile there's a lot of pain & hurt caused by the husband words.
Mimi. K4 I know! That piece of shitty friend said she isn't capable of feeling hurt because when she tries to hurt her emotionally, she doesn't react their way she expected. Maybe she is gaining weight first due to the pregnancy but later stress and emotional abuse.
Mimi. K4 I know! That piece of horrible friend said she isn't capable of feeling hurt because when she tries to hurt her emotionally, she doesn't react their way she expected. Maybe she is gaining weight first due to the pregnancy but later stress and emotional abuse.
I can tell as well by her eyes. She looked so sad when she heard what her friends and husband said about how she does not care, has no motivation, how he won't hold her hand or show affection, and how he almost divorced her.
she actually looked like she was about to cry a few times, plus a lot of people laugh it off when someone ask a really personal question because they don't really know how to react to it
I think he said it in an interview that he uses a specific brand of shampoo but he can't say what brand it is (for copyright/legality issues since the brand is not a sponsor, something like that). He mentioned that he did accidentally reveal it once in either a livestream or a different interview.
At first I was here bc of all the "Eunha cried" but than I saw Moonbok and I'm actually happy like for once in a while I like everyone on the panel of idol guests
In the first concern, Eunha probably understands what the child is going through. As a child she had to get shots everyday because she gained a rare disease, thankfully she's all better now, but she must have felt horrible just hearing that the father didn't do it on the third day. When the mother said that the child had to get shots everyday, you could see Eunha's eyes instantly going sad like she's remembering the days when she had to get a lot of shots as well.
MissT - he is not in any idol group or not even a solo artist. He was contestant on produce 101 and got famous from there. He do some modelling now. But I hope He debut soon in a group.
MissT - He is a rapper. You can find his videos doing a search on TH-cam. He was one of the contestants in Produce 101 Season 2. If you use the VLIVE app, he also does a live talk show sometimes. I'm his fan.
He was a solo artist even before joining produce 101, he got know from his own songs which is why he got MORE attention after joining produce 101, he was already known well in korea and people hoped he would go to produce 101. He was already a solo artist.
LE STAN Oh I didn't know about that. I know He participated in many Competition. And is known for his Unique rapping. Didn't know he has released some songs. I will hear his songs Now. Thank for enlightenin me that.
I hope the guy in the first concern wakes up and treats his family better if he doesn't change now, the kids will likely treat him the same when they grow up The second girl is fat and has health problems but calling her pig and cussing at her will not help or encourage her to lose weight. She acts all happy but her friends' and husband's words and actions probably makes her feel shitty so she turns to food for comfort. the guy was pretty good-looking in the third concern its a shame he and his mother got scammed :| i feel like those acting teachers really crushed his self confidence.. he had really friendly, warm eyes(i know that sounds kinda weird) alot of people are probably going to disagree but when people see the bad situations of divorcees like the woman in the last concern, it causes them to think that those are the consequences of divorcing(just my thought when comments always say "why doesnt s/he just leave them?)
kaylee loa It didn't make me cry, but it is sad. The wife needs to talk to her hubs about the complaintams. It is upsetting to see her diss the dad in front of the kids. He can't be all bad.
I was already in tears when Umji first started crying, then when Eunha and Umji both started crying I felt like my heart was breaking. This first concern is tearing my heart to pieces!!!
Actually i was mad with the first concern but it didn't affect me as much as the second... like. seriously asking... tha man fall in love of her or her body? then when a girl with a better body appear in front of him he could just leave his marriage? he said he was cheated but did she promised him to be always pretty? the human body change, she could be pretty now but who knows tomorrow? at the end a person should fall in love of the weight? he ignored his wife when they met in the street, the way he talked about her IN NATIONAL TV "pig" i can't imagine what he said at home, they also said she doesn't get hurt when they called her names... but who are they to said if she's hurt or not? do they feel what she felt? she should lose weight SHE DOES but they way the persons around them treat her i bet she should be stressed too, i hate it, even the husband of her friend said she could ignore her if she gain weight WTF? it's your wife as well. Edit: just thinking, since i've known Gfriend Umji was called fat and ugly i just wonder how could she felt with the second concern. Edit2: Eunha is so cute when she's crying, she was really upset.
YooKH MONBEBE Same for man or woman. It can make you feel unloved if your spouse does not want to be attractive or healthy for you. You feel like Is he not trying because I suck that much?
+Safia Mohamed IN NATIONAL TV that guy sucks. +엄마임영민 she should be really hurt with his aptitude, that kind of stress just could make her lost his confidence
YooKH MONBEBE Let's hope not. Being well educated, skilled and self sufficient can be the best source if self confidence. The wife seems to know that she is worth more than being just sexy. Maybe I'm crazy, but I think they will be fine. He may be in for a world of hurt once she gets her body back though. She can cook, she is well off, she is well educated AND has good health AND a nice personality? Hope he can handle it.
I am torn on the second concern. The fact that the husband literally MARRIED his wife 80-90% because of her body is completely shitty. News flash you marry someone because of their PERSONAILTY not because oh shes 50kg. Looks are an added bonus. But on the flip side, yes she is overweight. That is a damn FACT. She does NEED to lose weight in order for her health. I cant even begin to list the amount of health issues she could encounter by the way she is eating. BUT she should not be losing weight to please her husband, because he wont hold her hand down the street or some other bs. She should be losing weight for HER HEALTH. At the end of the day, she is his WIFE. Overweight or not, he vowed to love her through sickness and health. If he can't do so then bih i would dip.👋🏽
Itz Ellz But its probably the man who started her binge eating because he did not love her during her pregnancy or after it. And forcing someone to go on diet will not last long. Also the wife is someone who is eating when she has problems (just like the one of them said) and you can see in the way she cant and wont show the affect of the treatment she gets. I my self and my family are plus sizes and we try to help my mother out but she doesnt know where to start or she loses her motivation too easily. Therefore it has to start in your brain not in your habits. Or it will never happen.
That's bullshit! You don't simply marry someone because of their personality. You're going to have to be physically attracted to your spouse or your marriage isn't going to work out, the world isn't all roses and flowers like we want it to be, physical and sexual attraction is key in a relationship. But of course, being attracted to the personality is marginally more important as beauty doesn't last.
The third concern made me cry a lot, the guy didn't need to get any form of plastic surgery at all he look already so handsome beforehand I wish he never considered it in the first place because plastic surgery more often than not can you ruin your life further especially if there was no real medical purpose to get work done on your body in first place. The part that got me most however was how much his relationship with eomeoni deteriorated, and didn't have will to live anymore because he believe his face was ruined forever and can never go back to his old look. It is true he cannot change his face back unfortunately, but I pray for him that he searches for confidence deep within, successfully repairs his relationship with eomeoni and don't allow anyone to criticize the way he looks now as he pursues his career dream.
OMG why you type "eomeoni" instead of mom/mother ? I was about to agree when that shit ruined the mood, like don't use random Korean words in a full english text....
If anything the second concern should've been about the wife's health with the way she eats and her lazy habits, not the way her figure looks now because her husband feels "cheated". His own fault for marrying a woman because of the way her figure looked, should've married someone for who they were. Korean beauty standards are just... no.
That's the world's beauty standards. No one is attracted to obese people, and physical attraction is an important aspect of dating and marriage. Koreans just have the balls to admit it.
To be honest, the fact that he's telling her to lose weight isn't the problem, it's the reason *why* he wants her to lose fat. As cliche as it sounds, it really is better for her to lose weight. 13-14 years is a long time, and the fact that she doesn't move much is worrying. But her husband's reason for her to lose weight isn't because of her health (in fact, he never would've talked about her health if the hosts hadn't brought it up), but because he wants her to look pretty??? That's the reason why people are getting angry. Scratch that, that's the reason *why* people should be angry. From the start, this situation is wrong because a marriage should never be based off looks. It just means that he's extremely shallow. Also, even if he was worried for the right reasons (like her health), the way he does it is just wrong. Calling her a pig, (even from the beginning he was strict), yelling at her, it's not the way to go about it. If anything, she should be slowly trimming down her food intake, not cutting it off immediately. And his friend is extremely shallow too. They shouldn't be judging off of looks, but caring about their wife's health and happiness, because that's what a relationship's supposed to be about, supporting and caring for one another. But obviously he is not deserving of the title husband.
I think everyone has their own reasons for falling in love and it's easy as outsiders to preach but we wouldn't wish this on ourselves If the genders are reversed we would all be shouting are lungs out but now it looks misogynistic. His idea of looks is what it is and she knows it too.
Fr and like he only married her for her body like wtf in my opinion I would stay with such a man I would’ve kinda understand if it was for health reasons but the sec concern is giving me bad vibes
That moment when your battery is at 3% and you see your Boss upload pictures of himself and his family. And wanting to impress him, you quickly comment "cool pics" but auto correct changes it to "cool pigs" and your battery runs out!
You shouldn't always try to comment when he posts..that will make him suspicious..comment on things that looks like too important for him..and never write anything fast ..when it's your boss ...lol
I cried so much watching this first family about the car. It's like a waterfall effect, seeing people cry and knowing what pains them, aghh that makes me cry along with them. Parenting should not be a one person responsibilty. It took two people to make a child, so it should always be two to be there and to take care of the child(ren). When one of the girl guest mc from gfriend started to cry, i cried along with her. I hope the husband puts the effort to change how he prioritize his car from family. Family is so important, you are only lost or less of who you are without them. I really admire the wife for enduring being a wife and a mother to three kids for nine long years, when her husband is like that.
For the second concern, I've seen a ton of people that gained twice their weights after pregnancy. I live in a western culture, but am Asian myself. I know how it feels to be targeted even for the slightest weight gain, but not holding your wife hands just because she's fat? Its stories like this that gives you a clear point of view of how different two cultures can be. I am not hating on anyone by the way, I'm just trying to say that though it is looked down for being overweight (in Korea), I hope none of you guys out there are that mean toward overweight people.
I know. When you get married people often promise to love each other for better or for worse. For me it seems like he's the fraud rather than his wife.
she isn't just overweight she's obese. her bmi is 36(bmi charts are inaccurate but it can still serve as a reference) however, her husband is absolutely horrible to call her a pig and cuss at her to lose weight. His "method" clearly isn't working,,,it's probably causing her to comfort eat since he isn't being a caring or supportive. She should lose weight for herself and her own health since she has said that she gets out of breath, has back and feet pains.
My main problem with the second story is how the hosts didn't really pay attention to what the original concern was, but focuses on the health concerns and laziness to try and make the husband look like a good guy. One of the first things the husband said was that her looks were 80-90% of the reason he married her, and how he would avoid her since she big and how she's not his "beautiful wife" anymore, however, if he married her because he loved her more than he cared about her looks, they wouldn't even be there. Besides, she started gaining weight because she gave birth to his children, that's what upsets me, that they forgot that he called this a "fraudulent marriage" as if he were catfished or like she married him for money. Sure, she has bad habits, but the core of the problem comes from the way the husband sees her and their marriage, not the weight of the wife herself.
I love TaeJoon so much. I fell for him during 'the flower in prison'. I wonder how someone can be this pretty inside and out?? I'm seriously falling head over heals for him every time I see him - again and again
This video had a lot of important concerns and I am aware of that but...... Why is no one talking about how wonderful and sweet and handsome Jang Moonbok is. Like really why does everyone always sleep on how talented he is, Not to mention how cute and underappreciated he is like the fact that he didn't win in produce 101 is bad enough but even when he's on other programs people still disregard him smh
Second concern is honestly both sides fault. Husband shouldn't have married someone because of their body, she should have know that she would eventually get old and her body not as beautiful as it used to be. And she has extremely unhealthy eating habits, she shouldn't be called pig but damn she shouldn't eat 5 tubs of ice cream in one day. It's effecting her life and her care of the kids, and the husband is really shallow. The female host with the glasses was really pissed of at him but its national television she cant say shit... ://
And I get why her family and friends are angry, when you are trying to prove a point to someone you care about and are generally worried of course they'll get angry if you laugh it off because they'll think that you don't care
We can't blame the women without knowing about her mental health, she could easily have binge eating disorder If you experience binge eating disorder, you might feel: out of control as if you can't stop eating ashamed of how much you eat lonely and empty very low, even worthless unhappy about your body stressed and anxious. Binge eating disorder and your actions If you experience binge eating disorder, you might: eat large amounts all at once (binging) eat without really thinking about it, especially when doing other things often eat unhealthy food eat for comfort when you feel stressed, upset, bored or unhappy eat until you feel uncomfortably full or sick hide how much you are eating find dieting hard whenever you try it Just from this episode you can tell she fits most of the criteria/symptoms.
I hope the lady in the second concern leaves that horrible man and finds better friends,, literally she might laugh things off because she doesn't want to look weak or sum but that doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings. Calling people ugly names isn't going to help the,, instead encourage them to lose weight not to please society but for their own health which is more important than what people think about the way you look.
i don't think the second one is a concern at all because like he's basically fat shaming her and saying he only married her for her body that's rude and i think he's the concern
Fat shaming sure I’ll let you have that but she’s obese unhealthy and can’t walk without being winded how can you defend that? She’s throwing her life away so she can eat and be lazy he does all the house work while working and you think he’s the concern cause he wants his life to live? People that justify being obese are the reason that obesity is an epidemic being fat isn’t healthy.
But it's clear that he doesn't care about her health at all. This concern would be alright if he just wanted her to lose weight because of health, but he's very clearly disgusted in the fact that she looks fat now and that's what the comments are not okay with. Just look at his face when he looks at her. It's obvious he just married her because of her figure and now that she's gained weight, he regrets marrying someone who embarrasses him because she's overweight. And also, you know that there are people with legit medical diseases that can't lose weight? I know it's not in this case, but I think it's ignorant to disagree with society accepting body types. Not all overweight people are unhealthy, and some people can't lose weight no matter how hard they try. Shaming them with just cause more mental damage
@@Eunyyy And you are insensitive, there are eating disorders you know, If you experience binge eating disorder, you might feel: out of control as if you can't stop eating ashamed of how much you eat lonely and empty very low, even worthless unhappy about your body stressed and anxious. Binge eating disorder and your actions If you experience binge eating disorder, you might: eat large amounts all at once (bingeing) eat without really thinking about it, especially when doing other things often eat unhealthy food eat for comfort when you feel stressed, upset, bored or unhappy eat until you feel uncomfortably full or sick hide how much you are eating find dieting hard whenever you try it. she fits most of the symptoms of Binge Eating Disorder and you could see how hurt she is
@@ericalee711 my mother being one of those people who can't loose weight, she has a hernia that stops her from being able to loose weight so I do a lot of research on people who are obese and the reasons why so I can try to find ways to help them, even just slightly
Yeonja is not having it this episode and I am living for it. I always felt she was the most upset at all the irresponsible dad's and husband's on the show but couldn't express it as much. However today something ticked her off enough to make them feel as embarrassed as they should be. Tell them queen. These men out here playing all kinds of games.
Eunha unnie, you don't have to worry being the only one that is sad. You get emotional easily, so do I. When I watch or hear something very sad I will always cry. Let's cry together. Hwaiting. Saranghae. Gfriend Saranghae ❤❤❤❤
Both the wife and husband are at fault in the second concern. While the wife is very obese (around 240lbm going on 300), her husband still shouldn't be treating her like that. It's reasonable that he wants her to lose weight, to a pretty average size (around 160lb). He's not expecting her to look like a model or how she used to, but his methods to make her lose weight aren't right. He should be motivating her. Not degrading her. However, he still married her for her looks which is a horrible reason. The wife is also irresponsible. She's like those lazy husbands in the other concerns that don't do shit, so y'all shouldn't be preaching her rights just cause she's fat. She's also extremely unhealthy, but she should lose weight for herself, since it isn't easy to do. Anyways, done ranting, hopefully they divorce.
The first one touched me because when my parents divorced, my father walked away from us to be with another woman. He never cared about us and looking back he didn't care when my parents were together. I now have to tell people that my dad abandoned me when I was 13 to anyone who asks about my father. It struck a nerve to see such a person not care about his children the way he should. It hurts to think that my father didn't care or want me and sometimes I get so upset I tell people that he is dead. In a way, it is true.
The first concern had me bawlingg, i dont get how he even hesitated when asked about choosing between his kid and his car. The poor boy looked so upset and betrayed, the dad needs to get back to the reality that his family is gonna be with him for longer than some dumb car
Funny how at the first concern Moonbok and Umji were all like "wtf man" but Eunha was completely outraged Then the three were very concerned but Eunha broke up into tears
The second concern isn't as bad as some from the comment section is saying. Of course the husband wanting his beautiful wife back but he never said to his wife in the show to lose weight to 50kg as she was before. He compromise for a healthy 70-80 kg and in excange he will quit smoking and drinking. She cannot move around the house bc she is heavy, ( like she said it) he does all the household stuff. She is ruining there business but eating food from their shop. Also spent thousand of dollars for dieting methods which does not help. And if he was a doughbag and love skinny women he could easily get a divorce. I know they have kids. Why would he still stay with her and even go to Hello Counslor to show his concern while everybody will think bad about him on first listening.?????!!!!! Of course he should be more polite and not being mean to his wife like his friend to his wife ( his friend answered the question he would not walk next to his wife if she is double the size) This is my option. Please watch the full second concern again.
Lmao are you new, a lot of people went to the show even though they are really problematic and there was a guy who abused his child too so saying that their problems isn't a big deal just cause it's on national tv is pretty fucking dumb
Huyen P. He stays because of kids and the food lol he said it. He rejects her just because of her body. Even she's in wrong too that's not how a loving husband acts.... marrying someone for their body is weird and shallow to me. Sorry
It hurts my heart so much to see Eunha crying that much 😭 She’s so kind :( Wow... for the second story, the wife should be sitting where the husband is. It’d be fine if he said he wants her to lose weight because he’s really TRULY worried for her health, but... in the beginning, he said the reason he married her was 80%-90% bc of her body. So if she becomes overweight, he says that he cares about her health as well, but I doubt it. I think he’s just using health as a reason for the public to make it look like he’s not that bad. As a fellow Korean, that’s really damn upsetting to hear. Smh. K but for the third problem the dude doesn’t look that bad now that the swelling’s gone down. He kinda reminds me of FTISLAND’s Lee Hongki! XD
dotBdot are you talking about the guy with long hair? I SWEAR TO GOD HE DOESN'T LOOK LIKE A WOMAN. What kind of woman has really broad shoulders and a manly features with a deep voice
*First concern.* Get a divorce lady, he won't change; he's childish and clearly has shown his priorities in life (cars over his family). *Second concern.* Get a divorce dude *if* she doesn't change, she clearly got comfortable about getting married and got lazy. There is nothing wrong about being attracted to someone physically first then about their personality. A person who takes care of themselves expect to be with someone who do as well. It's hard to walk in life with someone dragging you down. If someone is lazy they're going to fit well with a lazy person. Someone who is active and well adjusted is going to fit well with someone active as well. Not everyone is born with the knowledge to help someone who is mentally sick (depression, anxiety, eating disorders, etc.) Tough love is his way to approach the situation, it's not working and he doesn't know how to try another way. They clearly aren't a match. They mentioned he's not affectionate at all and she is. *Third concern.* I'm so angry this lady is spoiling her wrong up son with every acting request he asked her. Poor lady, but it's also her fault for paying for things like that when he should work for those things. As his eyes seem better now he should focus on finding a simple job to support himself and payback some money he asked from his mother. It must've been though for both of them in the aftermath. But it happened, they should talk and move own, seem they both need to let some steam out. Also KICK THAT BOY OUT OF YOUR HOUSE, LOOK AT THE WAY HE TREATED YOU. SMH. No matter what you shouldn't treat your mother like that after ALL she has done for you. This one case infurated me the most. My own opinions after all.
it seems as if A LOT of people are either misunderstanding or just heavily biased on the second situation. you're turning it into a fat shaming issue when that's not really the case at all. had it been the other way around, and the husband was smoking and drinking his way into an early grave, you'd all be shitting all over him for being careless with his health. how is weight gain in this case any different. sure, some women will gain weight during pregnancy and afterward, but it's a choice to eat 5+ tubs of ice cream a day, and has nothing to do with a problem that's not preventable. she's slowly killing herself by being unhealthy, which is the same as being a heavy chain smoker or an alcoholic. all of them are addictions that should be treated the same way. he frustrated because she won't do anything to help herself. if she was alone, then it wouldn't be such a big deal, but she's a mother and a wife. her well-being effects more than just herself. how would any of you like to see a loved one slowly killing themselves in ANY way and just laughing it off? you'd be frustrated too. he dealt with it the wrong way, but i'm sure he reached his limit a long time ago and it just got to that point.
tinyGIRAFFE I was on his side until he straight up admitted marrying her for her figure. He said he wants his 'beautiful' wife back, not his healthy wife. She SHOULD lose weight and is being too careless about the issue when it's affecting both her health and even sales. But the guy's intentions are obvious. It's not even about his ways which do not help but just stress her more. It's the fact that it's a problem for him because he thinks she owes him having a nice figure because that's why he married her.
OK happiness If you're replying to my comment, I did mention that she's in the wrong too. And nowhere in my comment did I defend her, I only pointed out that the guy is in the wrong too.
tinyGIRAFFE Thank you! People out here acting like Hitler resurrected smh. I don't even think he was being serious when he said he married her cause of her shape. He even said she looked beautiful when she lost weight to 80kg and that he found her sexy! 80kg is still a lot so I don't think the guy is shallow. He just wants his wife to be a size not so drastic. Smh its like im watching something different to what people in the comments are. 105kg is fat, in western countries or eastern countries so people need to take several seats with their fat shamming comments 😒 He even said at the end that he just wants to see her trying, he didn't say lose 50kg by the end of the month!! It's like people didn't even watch this episode properly.
I sympathize with the first and last concern but the second one is beyond ridiculous. I can't even believe that this man was even able to find "love" with his narrow way of thinking.
I feel kind of sorry to ask since this is an emotional episode, but what's the BGM at 1:14:22 ? It's like those moments when you are sure you've heard a certain song before, but the song name doesn't come to mind. TY in advance :)
Throughout the first concern, Eunha constantly looked like she wanted to cry and when she did it hurt a bit to watch. She’s very caring but especially with her past, I can’t imagine what she felt :[
I feel so sad for the woman on the 2nd concern. It's true that she's unhealthy but her friends and husband are so mean, they don't even understand how much their words hurt her and that's why she finds comfort in eating a lot. And her husband is horrible, he calls her pig and disgusting whenever she approaches him romantically. I'm totally disgusted with that human being who married her 80%/90% for her looks. I hope she gets skinnier and leaves him for good. She has such a good personality, I pray the best for her. 💛
I cried so much while watching the first story, just as much as Eunha did. He was neglecting his children and wife's feelings. He's so selfish for that. Especially the kids, they need the most love they can get. No kid should feel that their parents doesn't love them as much. The dad just brushes everything off when his wife tells him stuff whether if be their kids emotional being or the kids wellness, It's depressing really. I don't think he understands the real problem. He probably just thinks that she can't understand his love for cars, but really all she asked for and all she wanted was for him to show more love to his family. She didn't ask him to abandon his car or to take it out more, all she asked was for the sake of the kids. She is so kind and caring, but shes too kind and caring that it's breaking her heart as well. I hope he will realize her true concern and changes for the sake of his wife and children!!
The second one made me mad. Like seriously, I would understand if the guy was there because he was like concerned for his wife's weight, but he specifically said that he felt "cheated." I honestly don't even care about anything else that was said because it disgusts me how some people marry/date for the looks of a person. I understand that he may be a bit ashamed with Korea's beauty standards, but if he truly loved his wife he would accept her for who she is
i'd understand the second concern if he was concerned about her health or cholesterol but no he was just concerned over her looks. Tbh I see him as the concern and not his wife. edit: At least they somewhat solved the concern/called the husband out. I feel like they worked through some issues. But I think they misunderstand her because she smiles all the time. Like Hoyoung said she must be stressed and hurt on the inside.
The 2nd concern is all sorts of bullshit. Like its THE WIFE that should be having the concern. Like dude you should be worried about her health not her looks. If thats all you look for then go find someone else. Youre not married for the right reasons hell. 80-90% of the reason why you got married??? You dont even need to be married. Shes too good for you. To take all that mental abuse and shes still content with herself then dude youre the one with the problem. You dont deserve her. I say toss him and koreas outlook on beauty standard out the window and just do you.
That's not Korea's beauty standards, that's the whole world. Nobody thinks obese people are attractive, and it's not too much to ask to want your partner to be attractive if they are able to. He's a bit of an asshole, but anyone would be upset if they married someone attractive and they turned massively obese. That's the only thing he has to fuck for the rest of his life, and she's made herself completely unattractive. His concerns are legit.
mike james BRO. BRO. Asking a spouse to change to be more attractive for you is fine. Ignoring your wife in public refusing to hold her hand and calling her pig etc is not. The problem is not that he's asking her to lose weight everyone thinks she should. The problem is the way he's asking is making it seem like she has no value as a companion if she's not fuckable. When you are too old to fuck and your joints are going all you can do is hold hands and talk about happy old days. People's bodies change. People's hearts don't have to. The way you wrote your comment doesn't instil much hope in me that you'll understand what I'm saying but I had to say it anyway.
I agree the guy's an asshole about it, but OP is saying that he's wrong for being concerned about her appearance in general, and then related it to Korean's beauty standard as though everyone else would be fine with their once attractive wife becoming obese.
moonbok is so pretty. eunha and umji are so pure and beautiful hahah the lady in thee second concern, i think because she used to work out so much, she is now using all of that energy on eating instead. if i was there as a guest, i would recommend things she could focus on, that requires activity but is fun, so she would not have to use all of that on eating. because, i am naturally an energetic person, and despite eating well, i have always been skinny. i think the secret behind it is not just my metabolism, but constantly being active, not necessarily physically, but with my brain, also. i am hyper-active and also very aware and sensitive, and i believe the reason i need food so much goes to my brain-power, also. there was a time of depression i went through this year, i was not mentally depressed as in very down, but i lost a lot of self confidence and motivation and stayed home for most of 2 1/2, hardly doing anything. because there was nothing else i was doing, my body needed something to be active with, and i took it out on food. i usually eat well and healthily, but i began eating a loot and doing takeouts of chinese food and eating all night, and sleeping all during the day. needless to say, i gained a bit of weight during that time, but i still remained skinny, just not as toned-looking.i think that is kind of like water weight, and can still fluctuate a lot. but, if i had continued down that path, i would have gained more weight. for a person like her, who is naturally built for a lot of energy to spend something on, they could suggest things she could do, little by little, to replace her foods. just telling her to try holding back a bit is a little harder on her than trying to find out the psychology behind it all. hehe nevertheless, that one husband who said he would act he would distance himself from his wife if she had gained that much weight, that is so lame of him. if i was her, i would probably gain weight on purpose, just to annoy him.
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In the second concern, Don't let the wife's smile/laughter fool you. I am 100% sure that behind that smile there's a lot of pain & hurt caused by the husband words.
Mimi. K4 ikr how can people be that heartless and disgusting.
Mimi. K4 I know! That piece of shitty friend said she isn't capable of feeling hurt because when she tries to hurt her emotionally, she doesn't react their way she expected.
Maybe she is gaining weight first due to the pregnancy but later stress and emotional abuse.
Mimi. K4 I know! That piece of horrible friend said she isn't capable of feeling hurt because when she tries to hurt her emotionally, she doesn't react their way she expected.
Maybe she is gaining weight first due to the pregnancy but later stress and emotional abuse.
I can tell as well by her eyes. She looked so sad when she heard what her friends and husband said about how she does not care, has no motivation, how he won't hold her hand or show affection, and how he almost divorced her.
she actually looked like she was about to cry a few times, plus a lot of people laugh it off when someone ask a really personal question because they don't really know how to react to it
Eunha has a big heart... When she was crying I just wanted to hug her
Mia Yuri me tooo...uri bunny too kind
I cried too but then I ended up laughing cuz she was so cute lol
@@arianagrand7337 same.
Yeah, I cried with her when she was trying to talk about how disturbing it was for the husband to be that unconcerned abour his sick son.
Okay, but he never told us why his hair is so silky.
Erika Ramsey prob genetics. shame he cut it
엄마임영민 he didn't really cut it, it was a wig.
Erika Ramsey He doesn't want others to have hair like him 😂
i mean, a lil bit of good genes, and prolly never done much perming or coloring? It's not that impossible haha
I think he said it in an interview that he uses a specific brand of shampoo but he can't say what brand it is (for copyright/legality issues since the brand is not a sponsor, something like that). He mentioned that he did accidentally reveal it once in either a livestream or a different interview.
At first I was here bc of all the "Eunha cried" but than I saw Moonbok and I'm actually happy like for once in a while I like everyone on the panel of idol guests
In the first concern, Eunha probably understands what the child is going through. As a child she had to get shots everyday because she gained a rare disease, thankfully she's all better now, but she must have felt horrible just hearing that the father didn't do it on the third day. When the mother said that the child had to get shots everyday, you could see Eunha's eyes instantly going sad like she's remembering the days when she had to get a lot of shots as well.
I guess sowon will have to deal with her innocent child revealing her weight😂😂😂umji is so cute
exactly hahahaha
I think when this program aired, soleader tapped umji butt 🤣🤣🤣🤣 or she hugged her and tell 'omo umji ah, why did you tell that ?' 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Never heard of jang moonbok before but I like him.
He seems to have a great personality so now I have to listen to his music lol
MissT - he is not in any idol group or not even a solo artist.
He was contestant on produce 101 and got famous from there.
He do some modelling now.
But I hope He debut soon in a group.
MissT - He is a rapper. You can find his videos doing a search on TH-cam. He was one of the contestants in Produce 101 Season 2. If you use the VLIVE app, he also does a live talk show sometimes. I'm his fan.
Multi-Fandom Kpop-Stan umm i think he was pretty popular before produce 101 ?
He was a solo artist even before joining produce 101, he got know from his own songs which is why he got MORE attention after joining produce 101, he was already known well in korea and people hoped he would go to produce 101. He was already a solo artist.
LE STAN
Oh I didn't know about that.
I know He participated in many Competition.
And is known for his Unique rapping.
Didn't know he has released some songs.
I will hear his songs Now.
Thank for enlightenin me that.
I hope the guy in the first concern wakes up and treats his family better
if he doesn't change now, the kids will likely treat him the same when they grow up
The second girl is fat and has health problems but calling her pig and cussing at her will not help or encourage her to lose weight. She acts all happy but her friends' and husband's words and actions probably makes her feel shitty so she turns to food for comfort.
the guy was pretty good-looking in the third concern its a shame he and his mother got scammed :|
i feel like those acting teachers really crushed his self confidence.. he had really friendly, warm eyes(i know that sounds kinda weird)
alot of people are probably going to disagree but when people see the bad situations of divorcees like the woman in the last concern, it causes them to think that those are the consequences of divorcing(just my thought when comments always say "why doesnt s/he just leave them?)
ryan ii
The second concern seriously makes me wanna cry. Like- sis leave him already. Someone so easily ashamed of you doesn't deserve you :'(
the first story made me cry so much oml it was a car story but it made me bawl wtf
kaylee loa It didn't make me cry, but it is sad. The wife needs to talk to her hubs about the complaintams. It is upsetting to see her diss the dad in front of the kids. He can't be all bad.
kaylee loa same lol
when my bae cries i cry too
In the words of D.O....
Baby don't cryyyyy, tonight...
me too
I was already in tears when Umji first started crying, then when Eunha and Umji both started crying I felt like my heart was breaking. This first concern is tearing my heart to pieces!!!
Actually i was mad with the first concern but it didn't affect me as much as the second... like. seriously asking... tha man fall in love of her or her body? then when a girl with a better body appear in front of him he could just leave his marriage? he said he was cheated but did she promised him to be always pretty? the human body change, she could be pretty now but who knows tomorrow? at the end a person should fall in love of the weight? he ignored his wife when they met in the street, the way he talked about her IN NATIONAL TV "pig" i can't imagine what he said at home, they also said she doesn't get hurt when they called her names... but who are they to said if she's hurt or not? do they feel what she felt? she should lose weight SHE DOES but they way the persons around them treat her i bet she should be stressed too, i hate it, even the husband of her friend said she could ignore her if she gain weight WTF? it's your wife as well.
Edit: just thinking, since i've known Gfriend Umji was called fat and ugly i just wonder how could she felt with the second concern.
Edit2: Eunha is so cute when she's crying, she was really upset.
YooKH MONBEBE if i was a fucking guest there i would hit him in the head so fucking hard! and the fact that he called her a pig!! UGH.
YooKH MONBEBE Same for man or woman. It can make you feel unloved if your spouse does not want to be attractive or healthy for you. You feel like Is he not trying because I suck that much?
+Safia Mohamed IN NATIONAL TV that guy sucks.
+엄마임영민 she should be really hurt with his aptitude, that kind of stress just could make her lost his confidence
YooKH MONBEBE Let's hope not. Being well educated, skilled and self sufficient can be the best source if self confidence.
The wife seems to know that she is worth more than being just sexy. Maybe I'm crazy, but I think they will be fine.
He may be in for a world of hurt once she gets her body back though. She can cook, she is well off, she is well educated AND has good health AND a nice personality? Hope he can handle it.
YooKH MONBEBE i would've understood it if he was worried about her health, because obesity is a major health risk, but he just cared about her looks
Eunha how can you look cute even while crying? Umji looks so good in this episode. Kinda wished that Both of them talked more.
True, go small ship.
I am torn on the second concern. The fact that the husband literally MARRIED his wife 80-90% because of her body is completely shitty. News flash you marry someone because of their PERSONAILTY not because oh shes 50kg. Looks are an added bonus. But on the flip side, yes she is overweight. That is a damn FACT. She does NEED to lose weight in order for her health. I cant even begin to list the amount of health issues she could encounter by the way she is eating. BUT she should not be losing weight to please her husband, because he wont hold her hand down the street or some other bs. She should be losing weight for HER HEALTH. At the end of the day, she is his WIFE. Overweight or not, he vowed to love her through sickness and health. If he can't do so then bih i would dip.👋🏽
Itz Ellz But its probably the man who started her binge eating because he did not love her during her pregnancy or after it. And forcing someone to go on diet will not last long. Also the wife is someone who is eating when she has problems (just like the one of them said) and you can see in the way she cant and wont show the affect of the treatment she gets. I my self and my family are plus sizes and we try to help my mother out but she doesnt know where to start or she loses her motivation too easily.
Therefore it has to start in your brain not in your habits. Or it will never happen.
kawai hillhill w
That's bullshit! You don't simply marry someone because of their personality. You're going to have to be physically attracted to your spouse or your marriage isn't going to work out, the world isn't all roses and flowers like we want it to be, physical and sexual attraction is key in a relationship. But of course, being attracted to the personality is marginally more important as beauty doesn't last.
While psysical attraction is important, it shouldn't be 80-90% of your reason to marry a person.
Exactly! I agree you have to be attracted a little but personality should be more important than looks.
The third concern made me cry a lot, the guy didn't need to get any form of plastic surgery at all he look already so handsome beforehand I wish he never considered it in the first place because plastic surgery more often than not can you ruin your life further especially if there was no real medical purpose to get work done on your body in first place. The part that got me most however was how much his relationship with eomeoni deteriorated, and didn't have will to live anymore because he believe his face was ruined forever and can never go back to his old look. It is true he cannot change his face back unfortunately, but I pray for him that he searches for confidence deep within, successfully repairs his relationship with eomeoni and don't allow anyone to criticize the way he looks now as he pursues his career dream.
OMG why you type "eomeoni" instead of mom/mother ? I was about to agree when that shit ruined the mood, like don't use random Korean words in a full english text....
Lili Hime-Sama chill
Jikook trash Chill for what ?
Lili Hime-Sama me too lol I was reading the whole thing that shit threw me off lmao
I hope he will rise again
...and shine..
If anything the second concern should've been about the wife's health with the way she eats and her lazy habits, not the way her figure looks now because her husband feels "cheated". His own fault for marrying a woman because of the way her figure looked, should've married someone for who they were. Korean beauty standards are just... no.
Gabrielle Wong
YES
THE husbands intentions and reason are shallow but he wasn't that bad,
Gabrielle Wong True.
That's the world's beauty standards. No one is attracted to obese people, and physical attraction is an important aspect of dating and marriage. Koreans just have the balls to admit it.
No lots of people are saying that he's wrong simply for wanting his wife to be more attractive.
mike james sorry to burst your bubble but last time I checked not everyone is so shallow
Eunha's little squicks in the first concern are just too cute 😂 how can she be so stunning and cute while crying? 💖
To be honest, the fact that he's telling her to lose weight isn't the problem, it's the reason *why* he wants her to lose fat. As cliche as it sounds, it really is better for her to lose weight. 13-14 years is a long time, and the fact that she doesn't move much is worrying. But her husband's reason for her to lose weight isn't because of her health (in fact, he never would've talked about her health if the hosts hadn't brought it up), but because he wants her to look pretty??? That's the reason why people are getting angry. Scratch that, that's the reason *why* people should be angry. From the start, this situation is wrong because a marriage should never be based off looks. It just means that he's extremely shallow. Also, even if he was worried for the right reasons (like her health), the way he does it is just wrong. Calling her a pig, (even from the beginning he was strict), yelling at her, it's not the way to go about it. If anything, she should be slowly trimming down her food intake, not cutting it off immediately. And his friend is extremely shallow too. They shouldn't be judging off of looks, but caring about their wife's health and happiness, because that's what a relationship's supposed to be about, supporting and caring for one another. But obviously he is not deserving of the title husband.
I think everyone has their own reasons for falling in love and it's easy as outsiders to preach but we wouldn't wish this on ourselves
If the genders are reversed we would all be shouting are lungs out but now it looks misogynistic. His idea of looks is what it is and she knows it too.
Fr and like he only married her for her body like wtf in my opinion I would stay with such a man I would’ve kinda understand if it was for health reasons but the sec concern is giving me bad vibes
I can't stop replaying when Umji mentioned Sowon😂😂
Me too
"Why are you crying?" My mom asks as she enters my room.
"Because of a car." *Continues to cry*
"Eh?"
Some of these men seriously win in life after marriage. They just go crazy doing what they want in spite of the spouse.
That moment when your battery is at 3% and you see your Boss upload pictures of himself and his family. And wanting to impress him, you quickly comment "cool pics" but auto correct changes it to "cool pigs" and your battery runs out!
eljaydl omg
thank you for making me laugh
You shouldn't always try to comment when he posts..that will make him suspicious..comment on things that looks like too important for him..and never write anything fast ..when it's your boss ...lol
eljaydl I'm rolling 😂😂😭
For the second story I was kind of disappointed by her friend. Honestly her just smiling doesn't means her feelings aren't hurt.
Ikr
I cried so much watching this first family about the car. It's like a waterfall effect, seeing people cry and knowing what pains them, aghh that makes me cry along with them. Parenting should not be a one person responsibilty. It took two people to make a child, so it should always be two to be there and to take care of the child(ren). When one of the girl guest mc from gfriend started to cry, i cried along with her. I hope the husband puts the effort to change how he prioritize his car from family. Family is so important, you are only lost or less of who you are without them. I really admire the wife for enduring being a wife and a mother to three kids for nine long years, when her husband is like that.
For the second concern, I've seen a ton of people that gained twice their weights after pregnancy. I live in a western culture, but am Asian myself. I know how it feels to be targeted even for the slightest weight gain, but not holding your wife hands just because she's fat? Its stories like this that gives you a clear point of view of how different two cultures can be. I am not hating on anyone by the way, I'm just trying to say that though it is looked down for being overweight (in Korea), I hope none of you guys out there are that mean toward overweight people.
sghl12 ^^ couldn't agree more
I know. When you get married people often promise to love each other for better or for worse. For me it seems like he's the fraud rather than his wife.
Noor Ibrahim lol someone should have said that to him
she isn't just overweight she's obese. her bmi is 36(bmi charts are inaccurate but it can still serve as a reference)
however, her husband is absolutely horrible to call her a pig and cuss at her to lose weight. His "method" clearly isn't working,,,it's probably causing her to comfort eat since he isn't being a caring or supportive.
She should lose weight for herself and her own health since she has said that she gets out of breath, has back and feet pains.
sghl12 :(
i love umji for looking so cute and slaying the game #QUEENUMJI
"You married her because of her body?"
"I suppose that was 70 to 90% of the reason."
Me: 👉🏾🚪
Am I the only one who watches these episodes while eating?
OML SAME
Taetae hahaha anieyo!😅 same here!! 🙌🖐
If an object is more valuable than your own child's health then you really have a problem. How shameful
Umji-ssi is really honest and adorable
I love how in the second consern, at the end she said that she loved him and he didn't even smile back..
GFRIEND are too cute. I can't deal with Eunha and Umji. So sweet. I feel like SinB is not going to let her forget this though aha!
My main problem with the second story is how the hosts didn't really pay attention to what the original concern was, but focuses on the health concerns and laziness to try and make the husband look like a good guy. One of the first things the husband said was that her looks were 80-90% of the reason he married her, and how he would avoid her since she big and how she's not his "beautiful wife" anymore, however, if he married her because he loved her more than he cared about her looks, they wouldn't even be there. Besides, she started gaining weight because she gave birth to his children, that's what upsets me, that they forgot that he called this a "fraudulent marriage" as if he were catfished or like she married him for money. Sure, she has bad habits, but the core of the problem comes from the way the husband sees her and their marriage, not the weight of the wife herself.
21:24 I love how Umji was there trying to comfort the mother. Eunha and her sure have big hearts T.T
I love TaeJoon so much. I fell for him during 'the flower in prison'. I wonder how someone can be this pretty inside and out?? I'm seriously falling head over heals for him every time I see him - again and again
Wow Eunha, Umji and Moonbok on the same show, they picked all my faves.
I cried when I saw Eunha (and Umji) crying 😫😫😫😭
This video had a lot of important concerns and I am aware of that but...... Why is no one talking about how wonderful and sweet and handsome Jang Moonbok is. Like really why does everyone always sleep on how talented he is, Not to mention how cute and underappreciated he is like the fact that he didn't win in produce 101 is bad enough but even when he's on other programs people still disregard him smh
Eunha you precious mochi you !! I was bawling when she started crying
That awkward moment when you accidentally roast your leader :v
34:11
Moonvok hair looks soo soft and umji is cute as always
Even though I am not a fan of Eunha
But when she cried, It broke my heart :( I wanted to give her a big hug
:'(
Second concern is honestly both sides fault. Husband shouldn't have married someone because of their body, she should have know that she would eventually get old and her body not as beautiful as it used to be. And she has extremely unhealthy eating habits, she shouldn't be called pig but damn she shouldn't eat 5 tubs of ice cream in one day. It's effecting her life and her care of the kids, and the husband is really shallow. The female host with the glasses was really pissed of at him but its national television she cant say shit... ://
And I get why her family and friends are angry, when you are trying to prove a point to someone you care about and are generally worried of course they'll get angry if you laugh it off because they'll think that you don't care
And if he really liked her because of her body why hadn't he divorced her already, when he was in court he gave up so easily?
We can't blame the women without knowing about her mental health, she could easily have binge eating disorder
If you experience binge eating disorder, you might feel:
out of control
as if you can't stop eating
ashamed of how much you eat
lonely and empty
very low, even worthless
unhappy about your body
stressed and anxious.
Binge eating disorder and your actions
If you experience binge eating disorder, you might:
eat large amounts all at once (binging)
eat without really thinking about it, especially when doing other things
often eat unhealthy food
eat for comfort when you feel stressed, upset, bored or unhappy
eat until you feel uncomfortably full or sick
hide how much you are eating
find dieting hard whenever you try it
Just from this episode you can tell she fits most of the criteria/symptoms.
I hope the lady in the second concern leaves that horrible man and finds better friends,, literally she might laugh things off because she doesn't want to look weak or sum but that doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings. Calling people ugly names isn't going to help the,, instead encourage them to lose weight not to please society but for their own health which is more important than what people think about the way you look.
i don't think the second one is a concern at all because like he's basically fat shaming her and saying he only married her for her body that's rude and i think he's the concern
Fat shaming sure I’ll let you have that but she’s obese unhealthy and can’t walk without being winded how can you defend that? She’s throwing her life away so she can eat and be lazy he does all the house work while working and you think he’s the concern cause he wants his life to live? People that justify being obese are the reason that obesity is an epidemic being fat isn’t healthy.
But it's clear that he doesn't care about her health at all. This concern would be alright if he just wanted her to lose weight because of health, but he's very clearly disgusted in the fact that she looks fat now and that's what the comments are not okay with. Just look at his face when he looks at her. It's obvious he just married her because of her figure and now that she's gained weight, he regrets marrying someone who embarrasses him because she's overweight. And also, you know that there are people with legit medical diseases that can't lose weight? I know it's not in this case, but I think it's ignorant to disagree with society accepting body types. Not all overweight people are unhealthy, and some people can't lose weight no matter how hard they try. Shaming them with just cause more mental damage
Once she gets heart attack or any other diseases you Won't go and take care of her or visit her funeral know
@@Eunyyy And you are insensitive, there are eating disorders you know,
If you experience binge eating disorder, you might feel:
out of control
as if you can't stop eating
ashamed of how much you eat
lonely and empty
very low, even worthless
unhappy about your body
stressed and anxious.
Binge eating disorder and your actions
If you experience binge eating disorder, you might:
eat large amounts all at once (bingeing)
eat without really thinking about it, especially when doing other things
often eat unhealthy food
eat for comfort when you feel stressed, upset, bored or unhappy
eat until you feel uncomfortably full or sick
hide how much you are eating
find dieting hard whenever you try it.
she fits most of the symptoms of Binge Eating Disorder and you could see how hurt she is
@@ericalee711 my mother being one of those people who can't loose weight, she has a hernia that stops her from being able to loose weight so I do a lot of research on people who are obese and the reasons why so I can try to find ways to help them, even just slightly
Yeonja is not having it this episode and I am living for it. I always felt she was the most upset at all the irresponsible dad's and husband's on the show but couldn't express it as much. However today something ticked her off enough to make them feel as embarrassed as they should be. Tell them queen. These men out here playing all kinds of games.
The third concern made me cry so much. I feel so bad for the mother, she deserves happiness, I hope her son doesn't dissapoint her again..
21:25 aww, umji comforting the wife
gfriend members are all so sweet i love them
I like Moonbok so much, he is so adorable, if he makes something, I'm supporting 😭💕
Eunha unnie, you don't have to worry being the only one that is sad. You get emotional easily, so do I. When I watch or hear something very sad I will always cry. Let's cry together. Hwaiting. Saranghae. Gfriend Saranghae ❤❤❤❤
Both the wife and husband are at fault in the second concern. While the wife is very obese (around 240lbm going on 300), her husband still shouldn't be treating her like that. It's reasonable that he wants her to lose weight, to a pretty average size (around 160lb). He's not expecting her to look like a model or how she used to, but his methods to make her lose weight aren't right. He should be motivating her.
Not degrading her. However, he still married her for her looks which is a horrible reason. The wife is also irresponsible. She's like those lazy husbands in the other concerns that don't do shit, so y'all shouldn't be preaching her rights just cause she's fat. She's also extremely unhealthy, but she should lose weight for herself, since it isn't easy to do.
Anyways, done ranting, hopefully they divorce.
Carrot Rivers 105kg is no where near 300lbs holy shit
Learn to do basic math before you speak.
@@mckaylasmitson199 its 231.485 so its kind of close
The first one touched me because when my parents divorced, my father walked away from us to be with another woman. He never cared about us and looking back he didn't care when my parents were together. I now have to tell people that my dad abandoned me when I was 13 to anyone who asks about my father. It struck a nerve to see such a person not care about his children the way he should. It hurts to think that my father didn't care or want me and sometimes I get so upset I tell people that he is dead. In a way, it is true.
I find it funny how moonbok just rolls his eyes and does that mouth thing everytime the situation gets worse XD
The first concern had me bawlingg, i dont get how he even hesitated when asked about choosing between his kid and his car. The poor boy looked so upset and betrayed, the dad needs to get back to the reality that his family is gonna be with him for longer than some dumb car
My baby Omuji💞💞
Moonbok's hair is beautiful.
Bruhhh I saw one of the teaser vids before this one and I was entirely convinced that Moonvok was a female! His hair is so pretty!
우리 은하도 너무 착하고 예쁘고 ... 엄지의 공감능력은 너무 감동을 배가시키는 것 같아요....사랑애효 여자친구........
I came here for MOONBOK😂😂❤
Funny how at the first concern Moonbok and Umji were all like "wtf man" but Eunha was completely outraged
Then the three were very concerned but Eunha broke up into tears
The second concern isn't as bad as some from the comment section is saying. Of course the husband wanting his beautiful wife back but he never said to his wife in the show to lose weight to 50kg as she was before. He compromise for a healthy 70-80 kg and in excange he will quit smoking and drinking. She cannot move around the house bc she is heavy, ( like she said it) he does all the household stuff. She is ruining there business but eating food from their shop. Also spent thousand of dollars for dieting methods which does not help.
And if he was a doughbag and love skinny women he could easily get a divorce. I know they have kids. Why would he still stay with her and even go to Hello Counslor to show his concern while everybody will think bad about him on first listening.?????!!!!!
Of course he should be more polite and not being mean to his wife like his friend to his wife ( his friend answered the question he would not walk next to his wife if she is double the size)
This is my option. Please watch the full second concern again.
Huyen P. ""Option""
Lmao are you new, a lot of people went to the show even though they are really problematic and there was a guy who abused his child too so saying that their problems isn't a big deal just cause it's on national tv is pretty fucking dumb
Huyen P. He stays because of kids and the food lol he said it. He rejects her just because of her body. Even she's in wrong too that's not how a loving husband acts.... marrying someone for their body is weird and shallow to me. Sorry
I like how Dong Yup tries to ask the question but stops bc he is too embrassed but we all know what I question is. Hahahaha.
do not cry umji and Eunha
I felt bad when Eunha and Umji cried😫 (I also cried)
It hurts my heart so much to see Eunha crying that much 😭 She’s so kind :(
Wow... for the second story, the wife should be sitting where the husband is. It’d be fine if he said he wants her to lose weight because he’s really TRULY worried for her health, but... in the beginning, he said the reason he married her was 80%-90% bc of her body. So if she becomes overweight, he says that he cares about her health as well, but I doubt it. I think he’s just using health as a reason for the public to make it look like he’s not that bad. As a fellow Korean, that’s really damn upsetting to hear. Smh.
K but for the third problem the dude doesn’t look that bad now that the swelling’s gone down. He kinda reminds me of FTISLAND’s Lee Hongki! XD
It's so nice seeing Son Hoyong I really adore him
XD I keep mistaking one of the girl guests for moonbok 😳
dotBdot lol
dotBdot her name is umji and shes the maknae of gfriend
dotBdot are you talking about the guy with long hair? I SWEAR TO GOD HE DOESN'T LOOK LIKE A WOMAN. What kind of woman has really broad shoulders and a manly features with a deep voice
Arine Mboma . I have a deep voice
Arine Mboma I'm a 26 year old female and I have borad shoulders. So no not all women have delicate features or high voices.
lmao is no one gonna talk about how cute the little kid thats falling asleep is at 19:55
Umji is sooooo pretty. I can't believe she's my age. T-T
I started crying when Eunha started crying, she's so precious! She truly hurt by what was going on. Did anyone else cry when she cried?
the description is totally wrong. lmao.
okay good. I was looking for the episode with the recent uploads but the description threw me for a second.
thanks a lot.
Lol
JUMPINGALMO I think they copy-paste the previous episode's description as a stand-in until they update it with the current one
JUMPINGALMO yep it was from the last episode
eunha is actually the cutest purest little baby
everyone needs to cherish and protect her
Is it only me that crying and laughing at the same time while watching eunha crying in first scene?
Okay but like, what kind of LOVING husband calls their wife a pig?
Honestly, if you love her, you will love her not just for who she is now, but also for who she'll become in the future
taejoon looks so done in the first concern 😂😂 im pretty sure he would have cursed the shit out of the guy if it werent for the cameras
*First concern.* Get a divorce lady, he won't change; he's childish and clearly has shown his priorities in life (cars over his family).
*Second concern.* Get a divorce dude *if* she doesn't change, she clearly got comfortable about getting married and got lazy.
There is nothing wrong about being attracted to someone physically first then about their personality. A person who takes care of themselves expect to be with someone who do as well. It's hard to walk in life with someone dragging you down. If someone is lazy they're going to fit well with a lazy person. Someone who is active and well adjusted is going to fit well with someone active as well. Not everyone is born with the knowledge to help someone who is mentally sick (depression, anxiety, eating disorders, etc.) Tough love is his way to approach the situation, it's not working and he doesn't know how to try another way. They clearly aren't a match. They mentioned he's not affectionate at all and she is.
*Third concern.* I'm so angry this lady is spoiling her wrong up son with every acting request he asked her. Poor lady, but it's also her fault for paying for things like that when he should work for those things.
As his eyes seem better now he should focus on finding a simple job to support himself and payback some money he asked from his mother. It must've been though for both of them in the aftermath. But it happened, they should talk and move own, seem they both need to let some steam out.
Also KICK THAT BOY OUT OF YOUR HOUSE, LOOK AT THE WAY HE TREATED YOU. SMH. No matter what you shouldn't treat your mother like that after ALL she has done for you. This one case infurated me the most.
My own opinions after all.
it seems as if A LOT of people are either misunderstanding or just heavily biased on the second situation. you're turning it into a fat shaming issue when that's not really the case at all. had it been the other way around, and the husband was smoking and drinking his way into an early grave, you'd all be shitting all over him for being careless with his health. how is weight gain in this case any different. sure, some women will gain weight during pregnancy and afterward, but it's a choice to eat 5+ tubs of ice cream a day, and has nothing to do with a problem that's not preventable. she's slowly killing herself by being unhealthy, which is the same as being a heavy chain smoker or an alcoholic. all of them are addictions that should be treated the same way. he frustrated because she won't do anything to help herself. if she was alone, then it wouldn't be such a big deal, but she's a mother and a wife. her well-being effects more than just herself. how would any of you like to see a loved one slowly killing themselves in ANY way and just laughing it off? you'd be frustrated too. he dealt with it the wrong way, but i'm sure he reached his limit a long time ago and it just got to that point.
tinyGIRAFFE he said he married her 90% due to her figure. He doesn't care about her health.
tinyGIRAFFE I was on his side until he straight up admitted marrying her for her figure. He said he wants his 'beautiful' wife back, not his healthy wife. She SHOULD lose weight and is being too careless about the issue when it's affecting both her health and even sales. But the guy's intentions are obvious. It's not even about his ways which do not help but just stress her more. It's the fact that it's a problem for him because he thinks she owes him having a nice figure because that's why he married her.
sure, the guy is wrong too but that doesn't make what she's doing right, people should stop defending her just cause the guy is a jerk
OK happiness If you're replying to my comment, I did mention that she's in the wrong too. And nowhere in my comment did I defend her, I only pointed out that the guy is in the wrong too.
tinyGIRAFFE Thank you! People out here acting like Hitler resurrected smh. I don't even think he was being serious when he said he married her cause of her shape. He even said she looked beautiful when she lost weight to 80kg and that he found her sexy! 80kg is still a lot so I don't think the guy is shallow. He just wants his wife to be a size not so drastic. Smh its like im watching something different to what people in the comments are. 105kg is fat, in western countries or eastern countries so people need to take several seats with their fat shamming comments 😒 He even said at the end that he just wants to see her trying, he didn't say lose 50kg by the end of the month!! It's like people didn't even watch this episode properly.
The first one made me cry!😢💔 when the wife cried and she explained her son ill
I sympathize with the first and last concern but the second one is beyond ridiculous. I can't even believe that this man was even able to find "love" with his narrow way of thinking.
You know who's beautiful today? Read the first word of this comment.
eljaydl we lol That are like my family's messages. THANKS that was so sweet. I'm stealing it.
Smooth
eljaydl stfuuuuu I hate
eljaydl Aww so sweet Thanks
Never heard that before.
Moonbok is so adorable
Moonbok is truly gorgeous
i was crying and then... 27:00 "practiced on a dolls butt" :)
I feel kind of sorry to ask since this is an emotional episode, but what's the BGM at 1:14:22 ? It's like those moments when you are sure you've heard a certain song before, but the song name doesn't come to mind. TY in advance :)
Moonbok💖 it's nice to see him!!!
Throughout the first concern, Eunha constantly looked like she wanted to cry and when she did it hurt a bit to watch. She’s very caring but especially with her past, I can’t imagine what she felt :[
I feel so sad for the woman on the 2nd concern. It's true that she's unhealthy but her friends and husband are so mean, they don't even understand how much their words hurt her and that's why she finds comfort in eating a lot.
And her husband is horrible, he calls her pig and disgusting whenever she approaches him romantically. I'm totally disgusted with that human being who married her 80%/90% for her looks. I hope she gets skinnier and leaves him for good. She has such a good personality, I pray the best for her. 💛
I cried so much while watching the first story, just as much as Eunha did. He was neglecting his children and wife's feelings. He's so selfish for that. Especially the kids, they need the most love they can get. No kid should feel that their parents doesn't love them as much. The dad just brushes everything off when his wife tells him stuff whether if be their kids emotional being or the kids wellness, It's depressing really. I don't think he understands the real problem. He probably just thinks that she can't understand his love for cars, but really all she asked for and all she wanted was for him to show more love to his family. She didn't ask him to abandon his car or to take it out more, all she asked was for the sake of the kids. She is so kind and caring, but shes too kind and caring that it's breaking her heart as well. I hope he will realize her true concern and changes for the sake of his wife and children!!
32:36 Legit crying at this point and seeing Eunha and Umji cry made me bawl my eyes out like I was watching a sad scene in a k-drama.
The second one made me mad. Like seriously, I would understand if the guy was there because he was like concerned for his wife's weight, but he specifically said that he felt "cheated." I honestly don't even care about anything else that was said because it disgusts me how some people marry/date for the looks of a person. I understand that he may be a bit ashamed with Korea's beauty standards, but if he truly loved his wife he would accept her for who she is
i'd understand the second concern if he was concerned about her health or cholesterol but no he was just concerned over her looks. Tbh I see him as the concern and not his wife.
edit: At least they somewhat solved the concern/called the husband out. I feel like they worked through some issues. But I think they misunderstand her because she smiles all the time. Like Hoyoung said she must be stressed and hurt on the inside.
Umji is getting prettier each day
MY POOR PRINCESS STARTED CRYING! The first concern made me really emotionally sad....poor kids :(
The 2nd concern is all sorts of bullshit. Like its THE WIFE that should be having the concern. Like dude you should be worried about her health not her looks. If thats all you look for then go find someone else. Youre not married for the right reasons hell. 80-90% of the reason why you got married??? You dont even need to be married. Shes too good for you. To take all that mental abuse and shes still content with herself then dude youre the one with the problem. You dont deserve her. I say toss him and koreas outlook on beauty standard out the window and just do you.
gracie true
gracie the husband's reasons are bad but she still needs to lose weight. it isn't ok to be obese.
That's not Korea's beauty standards, that's the whole world. Nobody thinks obese people are attractive, and it's not too much to ask to want your partner to be attractive if they are able to. He's a bit of an asshole, but anyone would be upset if they married someone attractive and they turned massively obese. That's the only thing he has to fuck for the rest of his life, and she's made herself completely unattractive. His concerns are legit.
mike james BRO. BRO. Asking a spouse to change to be more attractive for you is fine. Ignoring your wife in public refusing to hold her hand and calling her pig etc is not. The problem is not that he's asking her to lose weight everyone thinks she should. The problem is the way he's asking is making it seem like she has no value as a companion if she's not fuckable. When you are too old to fuck and your joints are going all you can do is hold hands and talk about happy old days. People's bodies change. People's hearts don't have to.
The way you wrote your comment doesn't instil much hope in me that you'll understand what I'm saying but I had to say it anyway.
I agree the guy's an asshole about it, but OP is saying that he's wrong for being concerned about her appearance in general, and then related it to Korean's beauty standard as though everyone else would be fine with their once attractive wife becoming obese.
아이구 우리 은하 울면 안되여유ㅠ 마음이 넘나 착하다ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
Umji so adorable. Lol
moonbok is so pretty. eunha and umji are so pure and beautiful hahah
the lady in thee second concern, i think because she used to work out so much, she is now using all of that energy on eating instead. if i was there as a guest, i would recommend things she could focus on, that requires activity but is fun, so she would not have to use all of that on eating. because, i am naturally an energetic person, and despite eating well, i have always been skinny. i think the secret behind it is not just my metabolism, but constantly being active, not necessarily physically, but with my brain, also. i am hyper-active and also very aware and sensitive, and i believe the reason i need food so much goes to my brain-power, also. there was a time of depression i went through this year, i was not mentally depressed as in very down, but i lost a lot of self confidence and motivation and stayed home for most of 2 1/2, hardly doing anything. because there was nothing else i was doing, my body needed something to be active with, and i took it out on food. i usually eat well and healthily, but i began eating a loot and doing takeouts of chinese food and eating all night, and sleeping all during the day. needless to say, i gained a bit of weight during that time, but i still remained skinny, just not as toned-looking.i think that is kind of like water weight, and can still fluctuate a lot. but, if i had continued down that path, i would have gained more weight. for a person like her, who is naturally built for a lot of energy to spend something on, they could suggest things she could do, little by little, to replace her foods. just telling her to try holding back a bit is a little harder on her than trying to find out the psychology behind it all. hehe nevertheless, that one husband who said he would act he would distance himself from his wife if she had gained that much weight, that is so lame of him. if i was her, i would probably gain weight on purpose, just to annoy him.
The man from the second concern does not fit himself into the beauty standards so why force the woman to do the same!?
I was waiting for this episode after I saw a preview of Eunha crying...I wanted to watch more
34:10 Sowon weighs more than 50Kg? That's awesome! 👍🏾