Parents are very creative! I'm a single parent by choice, but I didn't vow to celibacy lol. My kids have never once met someone I had over because I'm extremely careful. So I'm sure two adults living together can figure something out. 😂
The dads reaction was so lovely when the mom told him the kids were in bed asleep. His face lit up with pride and he just pointed at her like "you rock!"
The fact that the mom allows them to disrespect their grandma makes me cringe. That was one of my biggest rules, you never disrespect grandma or anyone for that matter. 😱
I like how the parents didn't try to defend themselves and took Joe's advice I'm board. The mom needs to summon up more energy and backbone but once she steps up to the plate I think the kids will also appreciate her softer and more nurturing qualities !
@21.27 I love it when Jo takes over and shows them who is boss. The way she pulled the kid down the stairs and then put her in the corner and said "she'll do as she's told". Love it!
Really! That WOULD NEVER HAVE HAPPENED IN MY HOUSE GROWING UP! WE WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THE STRAP! MY MOM WOULD NEVER PUT UP WITH THAT! NEVER! MY MOM MEANT BUSINESS! AND I'M 58
"i have gotten good at getting up everyday, not feeling anything, then the same thing happening the next day" poor woman doesnt even know shes depressed xc
I understand that when i was 3 years old, i wanted to decorate my bedroom walls with crayons. I was made to clean all this off as well as a 3 year old could do. Never did THAT again!
Poor Cara. Her mouth & chin are so raw from saliva / binky. Im so glad Jo addressed that for so many reasons, including developing emotional regulation.
No she was just passive and lazy.. She sure isn't depressed when it comes to her appearance 🙄Plus if anyone is depressed it would be dad, he hasn't got to sleep in his own bed for 8 years! I would never let my children take over my bed while my husband doesn't get to sleep in our bed.... For 8 years! That's ridiculous
Hubby's support and attitude were tops. Mama, stay strong, pray for connection with each one. They are your treasures. As you engage more, they will have an increased sense of well being when they receive the attention of all of you on good terms, (not because of their screaming demands,) and you will be giving them love like God gives, that builds good things in them...and you. 💛
I know plenty of great parents who co-slept with kids, in fact, it was common centuries ago, and Eskimos and Mongolians yurt dwellers still do it, but the issue is the kids have to be helped to g-r-o-w., not demand "mommy slumber party or else!" Hopefully they can establish greater security in the girls as they stand firm, loving and united, not letting the kids call the shots.
When we had this issue with our oldest, we put an 8x10 framed picture of us beside her bed and told her that mommy and daddy were watching over her. We would put her back to bed and assure her we were still there. I worked and we all got sleep
I am so glad. You help families that need help. And it's because of watching your videos that I am able to share your videos with my friends and they're able to do I am I did it. When my son was. Little, he's grown now when I still watch your videos.😊
The 4 yr old is going to need braces because mom and dad have allowed her to use the pacifier for 4 YEARS!! Because they "didn't want to deal with the battle of taking it away from her - and now that battle is going to be even harder!! And mow the added costs of orthodontist bills and braces - because you "didn't want to deal with her"!! Goid choice folks!! Watching these girls just "run the house" kind of reminded me of visiting animals at the zoo!!
My daughter never took the pacifier, but my son did. I was soooo blessed with him when it came to disposing of the binkie. At 2 years old, he literally just walked up to me one day, reached out and handed me the binkie and said, "Here, mommy. I don't need this anymore.", and just walked away and never looked back! It was amazing! I've never heard any other parent say anything even remotely similar.
This is one of the most ridiculous. Those children were far from difficult. The mother was ridiculous and such an enabler. Perhaps depression but if so not an overnight thing. This has gone on for years. Look how easily that pacifier was removed. Look how easily they all went to sleep and then compare to other episodes. This if not depression was extreme laziness or the mum wanting to enable them and keeping her "babies,'. Definitely something not right with the mum..
She def needed professional help. They tried to blame sleep deprivation for her strange demeanor but I also felt like she was depressed or something. Dad seemed so lovely and supportive but I also felt like she was hiding out between her kids at night to avoid any sexual contact. 😂
@Ri-ul7nb But it's the Mom that isn't willing to put any discipline in. If dad is the only one doing it, no kid wants to be near dad, it's always going to be "mom let's me do this so i want mom"
OMG…THANK YOU FOR THIS GREAT COMMENT!!! I have commented on so many videos asking the same question, “WHY DON’T PARENTS NIP THE BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS FROM DAY ONE?” It seems that so many parents are just simply LAZY, they basically do not play with their children like they should. What happened that children are not taught about kindness, rules, the importance of having respect for others, manners, not to talk back, especially to MOM & DAD and at the same time teaching them the phrase, “HOW WOULD THEY LIKE IF THE WAY THEY TREAT OTHERS & FAMILY & PEOPLE IN GENERAL IF EVERYONE DID THE SAME TO THEM. TO ME DISRESPECTING ELDERS, MOM & DAD OR PEOPLE IN GENERAL IS NOT ACCEPTABLE. BIG #1 RULE THAT ALL ACTIONS/BEHAVIOR COMES WITH CONSEQUENCES.
You CAN’T sleep in your own bed, not only how insane is that but also how sad is that. Can you imagine saying you CAN’T use/do your own things you wanted/wanted to do?
@@veronicashields4405so true. I live down here and don't leave my house without loads of sunscreen. You can tell who doesn't tho--they look like pieces of tanned leather 😮
I have no kids and my first thoughts are usually what Jo suggests. It is just common sense I would think. I sometimes wonder how parents don‘t see this. Perhaps distance to the children helps.
Alot of them are people pleasers in general, and they don't realize that they can't be like that with kids. This is also why most of them don't stand up their spouses about the issues in the marriage and need Jo to talk for them.
I used to tell my children that I’d give them 50 pence,if they stayed awake all night,but it had to be in bed.The effort made them fall asleep in 5 minutes.They’re all grown up now.
I can't believe how much they were putting up with! Coming in to my room at 12 - crying - cause you want mommy... OH HELL NOOO! You come to wake me up at midnight - the house better be on fire!
Ellie is 10 years old! Why on Earth is she coloring on walls and not going to sleep herself? Time outs? It may be time for Julie for graffiti! There, she certainly put herself to bed.
"How did you have children? Did you meet on the way to the bathroom?" lmao Jo kills me
😳 Good question yes??!!! 😼 😎
😂😂when did you make them onthe bathroom way
🤣🤣🤣
Parents are very creative! I'm a single parent by choice, but I didn't vow to celibacy lol. My kids have never once met someone I had over because I'm extremely careful. So I'm sure two adults living together can figure something out. 😂
10:02
The dads reaction was so lovely when the mom told him the kids were in bed asleep. His face lit up with pride and he just pointed at her like "you rock!"
the way he watched what mom does and says good job is magical
Cool.
I thought that was so cute too! 😂
I have so much respect for this dad! He’s so kind and involved and willing
Love how Joe dressed SUPER professional on observation day and casual on the rest of the days😂
Right
I would not let Joe out of my own bed
That's kind of part of the spec for the show.
She has always done it
I want joes wardrobe
I really like the dad here. He's one of the best dads in the show
I thought the same !!
IN CHINA, BABY HOUSE IS BETTER!
Exactly what i was thinking, he actually put in effort and you can see that he loves his kids and wife.
@@evelynleelau4205I’m sorry, what? I don’t understand your comment. 🤷🏻♀️
The best tone dad, but passive and didn't help his wife with those troubles.
The fact that the mom allows them to disrespect their grandma makes me cringe. That was one of my biggest rules, you never disrespect grandma or anyone for that matter. 😱
If I was grandma those kids would be on their way to the moon.
OH YES!
@@serahloeffelroberts9901pow right in the kissa!
@@serahloeffelroberts9901my Granma was NASA we would've been the astronauts had we acted that way
I couldn't even IMAGINE disrespecting ANY of my grandparents or great grandparents that I had the privilege & honour of living with.
I like how the parents didn't try to defend themselves and took Joe's advice I'm board. The mom needs to summon up more energy and backbone but once she steps up to the plate I think the kids will also appreciate her softer and more nurturing qualities !
The mom needs to quit being scared of them. Set boundaries and discipline them.
Exactly
10 year old definitely knows better, and should be able to sleep in her own bed.
@@sylviekins well what if the 20 year old didn't know because she's used to it and her mother never told her
@@Tina54476 exactly
True. Kids can sense when their parents fear them
When mom got into Cara’s bed with her I was horrified. All that effort destroyed!
I know right - argh ! It’s so vividly clear how parents reinforce these behaviours.
Humans make mistakes. Now she will have to start from the foot of the ladder again. Hopefully this will be educational for her.
Yep. Back to square 1 & confusing the child. 🙄😒
It was actually Emma
Back-sliding like she's addicted to sleeping with the kids
One of the most patient and loving Dads I’ve seen on this show!!!
Jo running down the stairs child flying 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂she sat in that corner
Jo WAS NOT playing! 😂 the way Jo stepped in and took her little butt down those stairs made me ROFLMAO
Caught that too. Jo ain't playing and that child KNEW BETTER than to try her.
I'm glad I wasn't the only one cackling about that☠️🤣👏🏻
I'm glad I wasn't the only one cackling about that☠️🤣👏🏻
I was cackling too 😂
The 10 year old face when Joe said they’ll have timeout 🤨
Like that was my face like um ok
🤨
@21.27 I love it when Jo takes over and shows them who is boss. The way she pulled the kid down the stairs and then put her in the corner and said "she'll do as she's told". Love it!
Joe reminds me of Mary Poppins. One of the best musicals ever
Mary Poppins / Nanny McPhee 😉
@@natashafrance717Omg she is like Nanny McPhee!!!
True !
I think she reminds everyone of Miss Poppins. She just doesn't have the incrediblly gorgeous singing voice that Julie Andrews has
Uh nooo. Blows my mind how the adults let their kids run the house. NAH!!! 😂
Really! That WOULD NEVER HAVE HAPPENED IN MY HOUSE GROWING UP! WE WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THE STRAP! MY MOM WOULD NEVER PUT UP WITH THAT! NEVER! MY MOM MEANT BUSINESS! AND I'M 58
Same here. We were not allowed to set the rules as kids. What vis going on these days?
Having young children rule the roost is beyond my comprehension!!
It's illogical to me
They get alot of credit in my books for not yelling or spanking.
@@cdes1776that’s why the kids don’t listen why should they there is no consequence they get rewarded with attention
"i have gotten good at getting up everyday, not feeling anything, then the same thing happening the next day" poor woman doesnt even know shes depressed xc
Mom giggles when Cara misbehaves because she thinks it's cute...
insane
When Jo said its like musical beds i lost it😅
MeeMaw needs to lock her door and put headphones on.🤨😆
Absolutely.
What blows my mind Is that the 10 year old and 6 year old is going to bed before the 4 year old 11:16
I understand that when i was 3 years old, i wanted to decorate my bedroom walls with crayons. I was made to clean all this off as well as a 3 year old could do. Never did THAT again!
How about getting stickers off the fridge😵💫
The way the grandmas portion of the house is so well kept 😭
@@susiecervantesbessey Do the kids have to pass Checkpoint Charlie to get to grandmas part of the house.
I don't know if this family will make it without Jo.
I feel that that the mother see's herself as their best friend instead of their parent. She needs to toughen up.
Maybe Mom has no friends her age.
Poor Cara. Her mouth & chin are so raw from saliva / binky. Im so glad Jo addressed that for so many reasons, including developing emotional regulation.
I see mom as dealing with depression and needs some more help…
Voiko noin veltto ja laiska ihminen edes masentua?
Onko hänellä edes siihen kapasiteettia?
Definitely.
No she was just passive and lazy.. She sure isn't depressed when it comes to her appearance 🙄Plus if anyone is depressed it would be dad, he hasn't got to sleep in his own bed for 8 years! I would never let my children take over my bed while my husband doesn't get to sleep in our bed.... For 8 years! That's ridiculous
sleep deprivation can do that to you.
@rebeccagardner5149 If anyone is sleep deprived, it would be the dad.
Nice family. The Dad is so gentle.
I think these parents are loving and sweet . No parent is perfect and they def needed Joes help .. I pray they are doing better.
They are totally inept and ridiculous.
the gordon ramsay of parenting
I was about to say that…😅😅
She's been compared to Mr. Ramsay many times
Hubby's support and attitude were tops. Mama, stay strong, pray for connection with each one. They are your treasures. As you engage more, they will have an increased sense of well being when they receive the attention of all of you on good terms, (not because of their screaming demands,) and you will be giving them love like God gives, that builds good things in them...and you. 💛
I know plenty of great parents who co-slept with kids, in fact, it was common centuries ago, and Eskimos and Mongolians yurt dwellers still do it, but the issue is the kids have to be helped to g-r-o-w., not demand "mommy slumber party or else!" Hopefully they can establish greater security in the girls as they stand firm, loving and united, not letting the kids call the shots.
jo is such an icon I can’t even
This family has Recovered very well with help from Jo. Praise God and Bless this loving family greatly.
How in the world did these 2 manage to have the 3rd child?? They haven't slept in the same bed in 7 years and the youngest is 4!!
Met in the bathroom?
@@breebenson7684😂😂😂
@@breebenson7684 Lol! Sure seems that way!
you meant 8 years not 7
They went to meemaw's
When we had this issue with our oldest, we put an 8x10 framed picture of us beside her bed and told her that mommy and daddy were watching over her. We would put her back to bed and assure her we were still there. I worked and we all got sleep
That’s a wonderful idea! Glad you found something that worked
I am so glad.
You help families that need help. And it's because of watching your videos that I am able to share your videos with my friends and they're able to do I am I did it. When my son was.
Little, he's grown now when I still watch your videos.😊
The 4 yr old is going to need braces because mom and dad have allowed her to use the pacifier for 4 YEARS!! Because they "didn't want to deal with the battle of taking it away from her - and now that battle is going to be even harder!! And mow the added costs of orthodontist bills and braces - because you "didn't want to deal with her"!! Goid choice folks!!
Watching these girls just "run the house" kind of reminded me of visiting animals at the zoo!!
I think even zoo animals behave better
Monkey Island!
This was one of the best ones to watch. I hope the mom and dad made it. 😢
My daughter never took the pacifier, but my son did. I was soooo blessed with him when it came to disposing of the binkie. At 2 years old, he literally just walked up to me one day, reached out and handed me the binkie and said, "Here, mommy. I don't need this anymore.", and just walked away and never looked back! It was amazing! I've never heard any other parent say anything even remotely similar.
Parenting isn’t a contest 🙄
Congratulations 🙄
Wow! Mom checked out, dad fed up and kids out of control!!!
He’s a good man to have stayed
@@613miamitrue ,what man gonna put up with all that??
This is one of the most ridiculous. Those children were far from difficult. The mother was ridiculous and such an enabler. Perhaps depression but if so not an overnight thing. This has gone on for years.
Look how easily that pacifier was removed. Look how easily they all went to sleep and then compare to other episodes.
This if not depression was extreme laziness or the mum wanting to enable them and keeping her "babies,'. Definitely something not right with the mum..
I agree!!! I pretty much said the same thing in my comment. It’s absolutely ridiculous!!
She def needed professional help. They tried to blame sleep deprivation for her strange demeanor but I also felt like she was depressed or something.
Dad seemed so lovely and supportive but I also felt like she was hiding out between her kids at night to avoid any sexual contact. 😂
@@Aquaria2291 that’s quite possible
Yeah. I think she kept those kids in her bed so she wouldn't have to be with her husband. I think that why she was so enthusiastic about change
This mom needs more than parenting help. Something else deeply inside is bothering her.
i love how meemaw sounds exactly like the meemaw from young sheldon
The mom lacks energy. In all of these episoodes, it is the parents who need help. Kids will be kids but parents need to do job well.
If the Mom would've disciplined those children from the beginning it wouldn't have gotten this bad
Why not say parents. It’s not just her. He’s there too
@Ri-ul7nb But it's the Mom that isn't willing to put any discipline in. If dad is the only one doing it, no kid wants to be near dad, it's always going to be "mom let's me do this so i want mom"
@@beev5496Both have to do it.
OMG…THANK YOU FOR THIS GREAT COMMENT!!! I have commented on so many videos asking the same question, “WHY DON’T PARENTS NIP THE BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS FROM DAY ONE?” It seems that so many parents are just simply LAZY, they basically do not play with their children like they should. What happened that children are not taught about kindness, rules, the importance of having respect for others, manners, not to talk back, especially to MOM & DAD and at the same time teaching them the phrase, “HOW WOULD THEY LIKE IF THE WAY THEY TREAT OTHERS & FAMILY & PEOPLE IN GENERAL IF EVERYONE DID THE SAME TO THEM. TO ME DISRESPECTING ELDERS, MOM & DAD OR PEOPLE IN GENERAL IS NOT ACCEPTABLE. BIG #1 RULE THAT ALL ACTIONS/BEHAVIOR COMES WITH CONSEQUENCES.
Exactly 💯
You CAN’T sleep in your own bed, not only how insane is that but also how sad is that. Can you imagine saying you CAN’T use/do your own things you wanted/wanted to do?
🇬🇧Jo’s face with the sleeping arrangements. Hilarious 🤣 🇬🇧🇬🇧
these parents are one of the sweetest
Jo calling it graffiti and that music 😂😂😂😂😂 this show is the best
Daddy absolutely amazing. And mummy is awesome. She yust be strong. Congratulations, this lovely family ❤
The stress aged them. Was shicked to hear their ages.
They’re also in the South. That sun damage is no joke if you aren’t careful.
@@mtsemcomfort2255 It's probably stress and sun damage.
@@veronicashields4405so true. I live down here and don't leave my house without loads of sunscreen. You can tell who doesn't tho--they look like pieces of tanned leather 😮
Mom. You don’t “have” to lay down between your daughters. You’ve chosen to do that because you don’t know how to parent
Exactly
Or maybe she uses the kids to discourage conjugal relations.
@@serahloeffelroberts9901 lol
Who else clicked on the video because of Jo’s face on the thumbnail 💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂 it’s 2am here and hold my laughter in 🤣🤣🤣💀☠️
@@kayleighjoyce1276 ?
💯
@@lynettetorres9124ok?
He's like the best dad and husband ever...wow
I concur with the folks saying she sounds depressed. Depressed and just ..done
And maybe something more.
It's very hard after 8 years mom take this responsibility and positive acting and they deserve it am so happy😊
It's so crazy how Jojo has no kids but can handle someone else's that can't yes I liked my own comment. Edit:it's been 2 months and I have 40 likes
Then I thought of Cartman...
I have no kids and my first thoughts are usually what Jo suggests. It is just common sense I would think. I sometimes wonder how parents don‘t see this. Perhaps distance to the children helps.
Memaw is so cute, I love Southern old ladies😂
My kids never even thought of coloring on the wall.
I think I crayoned the kitchen cupboard once when I was 5 but had to clean it off with Jubilee Kitchen Wax. Great stuff
These little girls are ruling this house!!
What's going on in this house? 10 and 6 year olds still co-sleep with mommy and 4yo still on pacifier?! 😳
Little Sheldon type of familly with the accent and Memaw😂
I loved how hard dad listened to Jo!
I really like the dad
I love Jo Jo she's amazing ❤️
3:40 HELP NOT THIS LITTLE 10 YR TRYING TO ACT NOTCHALON-😹😹
This can't happen in Nigeria 😂😂 0:27
This can't happen in most American homes either! They show the weirdest people on TV shows because everyone will watch the show.
I swear this mother enjoys having torturous sleep
Why are these parents so scared to discipline their kids
Alot of them are people pleasers in general, and they don't realize that they can't be like that with kids.
This is also why most of them don't stand up their spouses about the issues in the marriage and need Jo to talk for them.
What about mums seperation anxiety? Fear of being abandoned can be so intense, you don't want your children to go through this.
It's as if mum is scared to sleep in the bed with her partner, i think its the mum who needs the kids, she is scared to cut the umbilical cord.
Astute observation
Very tame compared to most episodes. Either way, it's always great to see families get help.
The mom reminds me ofTina Yothers from the 80s show, Family Ties
I have 3 children with another on the way, thank God my kids are well behaved and organized, this looks like absolute chaos
Joe hii! Love your show! These families need you..! do you work so hard to bring them together!
I can't wait to see how this mother does when it comes to the Time out chair😂😂
mother is the enabler
I love Jo Jo she's amazing
Is it just me or do the parents look much older than they are?
stress with 3 feral children
Oh God yes, I'm 36 and dad looks at least 15 years older than me
The kid that said “hey I think they get it” 😂 about the pacis
Some people never grow out of the graffiti stage. Just look at the local trains going by with all the graffiti on it. 😅
Jo u really show familes the right way to go.❤
This mother was so selfishly annoying
THIS MOM IS SO SMART!
please tell me im not the only one who thought the title said that the dad hasnt slept in 8 years 😭
poor little girls face redness and around her mouth and down on her chin and crooked teeth, and Mom KNOWS
The dad was so good I mean he actually cared 😂😅😮
The dad reminds me of the dad on Young Sheldon.
Weak, ineffective parents letting their children run the house.Lazy parents creating monsters.
I used to tell my children that I’d give them 50 pence,if they stayed awake all night,but it had to be in bed.The effort made them fall asleep in 5 minutes.They’re all grown up now.
It always amazes me when parents seem confused at why their children are the way they are. It's their fault, they are the adults
I love my JoJo marathons!!!
I can't believe how much they were putting up with! Coming in to my room at 12 - crying - cause you want mommy... OH HELL NOOO! You come to wake me up at midnight - the house better be on fire!
Ellie is 10 years old! Why on Earth is she coloring on walls and not going to sleep herself? Time outs? It may be time for Julie for graffiti! There, she certainly put herself to bed.
Jo doesn't do magic it's All just common sense
On the upside, dad sleeping on the couch means the parents don't get the chance to make more children.
EIEGHT YEARS GIRL THEM KIDS ARE GETTING KICKED OUT THAT ROOM NOW
I don't care what nobody say this mother is going to continue to sleep with her..
Seriously though her sleeping with her 10 year old?!?! Come on!!! Cut the cord!!!
The pacifier was replaced with gum…hmmmm
Sure ,she got some traits of future smoker
Jo is really pretty
It seems like mom maybe suffering from depression? She's so hopeless. I'll watch until the end to see the final results.