I'm a single man with no kids. I see this often in Atlanta as well. Women right off the back have ask me to pay the rent, car not or for home repairs like hot water heater replacement. Will say a real man would. I also hate the feeling that I have to pay so much just to find out whether or not you like me. I ask married guys all the time were they met their wife and it seems like 95% of the time they met at a very young age or in school.
When I met my black Queen in high-school I knew we got to know each other, she was willing to do picnics, coffee, appetizer dates we still laugh about and order off the dollar menu we were friends first. She is still humble and I'm excited to see her shine after raising our kids assist in the provision to help take us to the next level. I make 75k and she makes 45k she was willing to sleep on the mattress laying on the floor with me to owning 3 multifamily properties.
@@scottiepimpintvtell that to the young high school girls who would not date a young but with no car…..in high school. Or those who date older boys out of high school or boys who have more money because they are doing some illegal shite or have unusual connections to make money
This is true this exactly happened to me I paid all the bills (which i was fine with) but apparently i wasnt the man to be because i wasnt paying all her personal bills while im already taking care of everything else all down to dates like how can that make me less of a man i went out everyday to bust my behind for us man it hurts frfr😢
Amber, so blessed by your godly presence, discernment and spiritual voice and that you speak the things of GOD when no one else does . You’re a bold mouthpiece for GOD in the midst of spiritual doublemindedness and confusion. I knew of Travis from Pgh back with Trini and MtA. May the wisdom of The Lord rest upon Travis. May The Lord guide and lead him with His truth.
(and Travis, you’re representing Jesus by delivering The Gospel of Christ through song and you’re sitting here talking about t*tties? I will never understand this era of ministers, teachers and minstrels of The Gospel of Christ and this current representation.. Keeping us all in prayer. Peace)
🚩 Nah, stop it. The life of the woman described in proverbs 31 was not an entrepreneur, merely a wife *being a great wife to the family* . Hence why the chapter ends with *the husband* calling her great. Don't miss the forest to look only at a tree.
Yall should have a logo or a tag/watermark somewhere on this video. This video has received thousands of views on other channels but you all may have not seen an influx of viewers
A lot of people want what’s good, but sometimes good is right in front of them, but they don’t fit a certain standard. Nowadays, image trumps morals, responsibilities, and potential. In other words, if you don’t look the part, you get overlooked. A person who’s not into fashion could be your soulmate.
I am enjoying this interview, however the interviewer is overtaking, anticipating his thoughts which blemishes the interview. Also, they both are trying to fix his problems in their POV, instead of letting him express himself. This is not a therapy session. I want to hear him without their restrictions.
@18:36...The great and wonderful women you know don't tell you the WHOLE truth. When they post those "Ask me out, I don't do "What are you doing?" men, they are not talking about a walk in the park. This makes me upset because folks live in their bubble of what their friend seems like when they are with her. Her expectations from a partner and the expectations of a friend are not the same. Entrepreneurship does not make her a better partner. She might have money but she wants him to FLY HER OUT still. Lastly, men have a scale of beauty and if she was bad she'd be scooped up. In the words of Common, "it doesn't take a whole day to recognize sunshine".
A lot of women misquote of what is means to proverbs 31 women It was the standard for being a good, godly, woman, which meant being a devoted WIFE and MOTHER, who is also a domestic goddess, as well as active and enterprising outside the home that her and HUSBAND built together, thus as the husband he should pay all bills etc. not some women he hook up with and now since gave him some sex and not wife she feels as if she entitled to his resources, so I guess all that bossing up and slaying and not needing a man was a lie.
@StoicOnTheFence As you can see by Michelle's comment, you're darned if you do and darned if you don’t. Whether you preface it or not. BW will come for anyone who is critical and holds any of them accountable. They have no problem bashing men, white, and Asian women ad nauseam though.
I'm a single, 37 year old black man that likes and only dated black women. The thing is most Black women only go after a certain type of guy. For example I'm consider lame to most because I don't drink, smoke, club, carry a gun or have any tattoos. I've been told several times by black women to try white women.
@@kkmurdenGod is sending you a message, but you refuse to hear it. Leave them ALONE! Date Filipino, Asian, and then white women who do NOT act like our women.
Ok. I would disagree with Travis Malloy when said gender roles don't matter. Although, here is what the ladies fail to realize The financial entitlement of black women happens in Houston, Dallas, Miami, NYC, Austin, Los Angeles. It is a BIG problem! us guys are fed up. And that's why eastern women don't have that sense of entitlement also, If u want to know who a woman is , look at her friends. However, the black church doesn’t like masculine men anymore and Kevin Samuels said it best -- men are avoiding the dating scene because what is offered to them are women who are liabilities not assets.
Maybe it’s because some BW have felt devalued or saw a BW being Devalued in the past . In present she may feel like if a man plans on waisting her time , then he’s going to pay for time . Time not, sexual favors.
I am sorry. These are grown women and adults. Take some accountability and stop trying to make them out as a victim to excuse bad behavior. Next, you basically stated BW are now prostitutes and escorts. Then you all wonder why you're not respected and are at the bottom of the totem poll. It has nothing to do with men and everything to do with entitlement and wanting to talk advantage.
Then stop hating on black men that don’t date bw. Bw forget that the dating market is supply and demand. The majority of black women want high earning men but the problem is that high earning men can have any race of women he wants.
I'm a single man with no kids. I see this often in Atlanta as well. Women right off the back have ask me to pay the rent, car not or for home repairs like hot water heater replacement. Will say a real man would.
I also hate the feeling that I have to pay so much just to find out whether or not you like me.
I ask married guys all the time were they met their wife and it seems like 95% of the time they met at a very young age or in school.
Stop being a simp and stop giving those women the time of day. Sounds like you don't know your value.
When I met my black Queen in high-school I knew we got to know each other, she was willing to do picnics, coffee, appetizer dates we still laugh about and order off the dollar menu we were friends first. She is still humble and I'm excited to see her shine after raising our kids assist in the provision to help take us to the next level. I make 75k and she makes 45k she was willing to sleep on the mattress laying on the floor with me to owning 3 multifamily properties.
Solid
Yall was in high school, what could she really expect ?
@@scottiepimpintvtell that to the young high school girls who would not date a young but with no car…..in high school.
Or those who date older boys out of high school or boys who have more money because they are doing some illegal shite or have unusual connections to make money
I have experienced women asking me to pay their bills the same day.. in Miami and Atlanta lol. In both cases I declined
"You can have it all!" Best statement throughout this conversation.
This is true this exactly happened to me
I paid all the bills (which i was fine with) but apparently i wasnt the man to be because i wasnt paying all her personal bills while im already taking care of everything else all down to dates like how can that make me less of a man i went out everyday to bust my behind for us man it hurts frfr😢
I know the feeling. Stay strong KING 💪🏾🫡 the right one will appreciate you and reciprocate 10 fold
Amber, so blessed by your godly presence, discernment and spiritual voice and that you speak the things of GOD when no one else does . You’re a bold mouthpiece for GOD in the midst of spiritual doublemindedness and confusion. I knew of Travis from Pgh back with Trini and MtA. May the wisdom of The Lord rest upon Travis. May The Lord guide and lead him with His truth.
(and Travis, you’re representing Jesus by delivering The Gospel of Christ through song and you’re sitting here talking about t*tties?
I will never understand this era of ministers, teachers and minstrels of The Gospel of Christ and this current representation..
Keeping us all in prayer.
Peace)
🚩 Nah, stop it. The life of the woman described in proverbs 31 was not an entrepreneur, merely a wife *being a great wife to the family* . Hence why the chapter ends with *the husband* calling her great.
Don't miss the forest to look only at a tree.
Homeboy was hitting on Amber so hard lol
Why did I just find this podcast.... This need to be pushed more
Good evening, Amber and Ernestine. I love your podcast
Thank you so much!
Good podcast, its ruff in these dating streets, I pray more people can normalize the dating streets thank you ❤
Am I the only one who noticed homeboy been low key trying to shoot his shot at Amber with comments? Lol
No, you're not the only one lol
Great interview
Yall should have a logo or a tag/watermark somewhere on this video. This video has received thousands of views on other channels but you all may have not seen an influx of viewers
I leant a lot listening to you guys and I agree with travis
amazing interview,
I would love to use a snippet for a reaction video on my channel
I would tag yours of course and add your link as well !
@1:00 And the simp of the year award goes to….
A lot of people want what’s good, but sometimes good is right in front of them, but they don’t fit a certain standard. Nowadays, image trumps morals, responsibilities, and potential. In other words, if you don’t look the part, you get overlooked. A person who’s not into fashion could be your soulmate.
I am enjoying this interview, however the interviewer is overtaking, anticipating his thoughts which blemishes the interview. Also, they both are trying to fix his problems in their POV, instead of letting him express himself. This is not a therapy session. I want to hear him without their restrictions.
@18:36...The great and wonderful women you know don't tell you the WHOLE truth. When they post those "Ask me out, I don't do "What are you doing?" men, they are not talking about a walk in the park. This makes me upset because folks live in their bubble of what their friend seems like when they are with her. Her expectations from a partner and the expectations of a friend are not the same. Entrepreneurship does not make her a better partner. She might have money but she wants him to FLY HER OUT still. Lastly, men have a scale of beauty and if she was bad she'd be scooped up. In the words of Common, "it doesn't take a whole day to recognize sunshine".
I think Travis and Amber should go on a date
Bro go get your passport
Men, be like Kevin Wesley NOT like Travis Malloy the simp…
she keep talking bout “beard oil” .. Holmes whole beard painted on!😂
Facts!!!😂😂😂😂😂
A lot of women misquote of what is means to proverbs 31 women It was the standard for being a good, godly, woman, which meant being a devoted WIFE and MOTHER, who is also a domestic goddess, as well as active and enterprising outside the home that her and HUSBAND built together, thus as the husband he should pay all bills etc. not some women he hook up with and now since gave him some sex and not wife she feels as if she entitled to his resources, so I guess all that bossing up and slaying and not needing a man was a lie.
When a man repeats how much he loves black women over and over but is single i don’t believe it.
Make it make sense? I have no desire to date outside my race, so I love black women, I refuse to just dare to date, so I think that’s what he means
I feel like guys say that cause if they don’t preface a criticism of bw with that disclaimer, they immediately get a lot of pushback.
@StoicOnTheFence As you can see by Michelle's comment, you're darned if you do and darned if you don’t. Whether you preface it or not. BW will come for anyone who is critical and holds any of them accountable. They have no problem bashing men, white, and Asian women ad nauseam though.
I'm a single, 37 year old black man that likes and only dated black women. The thing is most Black women only go after a certain type of guy. For example I'm consider lame to most because I don't drink, smoke, club, carry a gun or have any tattoos.
I've been told several times by black women to try white women.
@@kkmurdenGod is sending you a message, but you refuse to hear it. Leave them ALONE! Date Filipino, Asian, and then white women who do NOT act like our women.
Ok. I would disagree with Travis Malloy when said gender roles don't matter. Although, here is what the ladies fail to realize The financial entitlement of black women happens in Houston, Dallas, Miami, NYC, Austin, Los Angeles. It is a BIG problem! us guys are fed up. And that's why eastern women don't have that sense of entitlement also, If u want to know who a woman is , look at her friends. However, the black church doesn’t like masculine men anymore and Kevin Samuels said it best -- men are avoiding the dating scene because what is offered to them are women who are liabilities not assets.
He’s Absolutely Right these chicks selfish so all this it’s a women for u is total BS
Plain Jane ain’t ugly c’mon ❓
Just say you like City girls 🤣🤣
YOU CAN'T BE BIGGER THAN THE CHURCH, THE CHURCH IS JESUS' WIFE AND HE COMING BACK FOR HER.
Needle 💉 in the haystack 😂 she’s definitely out there though
Dude you can fix her teeth. Dude needs to leave the US and he needs to get rid of his smart phone. Are all men this scripted and confused?
Maybe it’s because some BW have felt devalued or saw a BW being Devalued in the past . In present she may feel like if a man plans on waisting her time , then he’s going to pay for time . Time not, sexual favors.
I feel what you saying but from a black mans prospective alot of BW are devaluing them selves its like instead of wanting a man they want a father
I am sorry. These are grown women and adults. Take some accountability and stop trying to make them out as a victim to excuse bad behavior. Next, you basically stated BW are now prostitutes and escorts. Then you all wonder why you're not respected and are at the bottom of the totem poll. It has nothing to do with men and everything to do with entitlement and wanting to talk advantage.
@ike7394 No, they want sponsorship not a relationship
Then stop hating on black men that don’t date bw. Bw forget that the dating market is supply and demand. The majority of black women want high earning men but the problem is that high earning men can have any race of women he wants.
You mean the same way BW devalue BM, and waste his time?