how i really feel about social media... (im anxiously oversharing again but its fine)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
- hey yalllll excited for a chit chat grwm vibe today where honestly i overshare and i cant tell if its valuable or not lol like HELPPP im feeling anxious and im over thinking again but im sure we can relate - love u xo
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24 years old, graduated nursing school, now a full time content creator!
I'm Puerto Rican and black girl
filming on SONY ZV E10
girl, it’s okay to change your content niche. the real ones will stay and the ones that ain’t real, will leave. your content is YOURS. focusing on stuff that matters doesn’t make you less of a creator. just because everyone else wants drama, there are those few who don’t and will stick by you for your content, mental health talks, resets, brand trips, rumor content all of that ❤️
Maria, you are so right that the real ones watching will be there when Monet return to her Vlogging.
Facts!!
Maria you’re absolutely right nicely said we love you Monet 🙏🏽❤️
100% agree you like or you don't. there is an easy button to push...unfollow
Being a young woman especially in your early 20’s and out of college is a whole new world of its own. We step into ours careers, into “real” relationships, and into the “adult” world. It’s totally normal to start questioning yourself and those around you and it’s really part of maturing. It’s uncomfortable, sure, but you’re constantly growing more into yourself, your values and into the kind of life you want to live and that kind of change is always uncomfortable. The truth is whether it’s on social media or in real life there are always going to be people who want to tear you down and see you stumble because they can’t stand how unhappy they are and seeing you shine reminds them of what they’re missing. Don’t get caught up in their BS. It sucks, but being true to yourself through that is really all that will ever matter and it’s something you’ll never regret. Sending all the love to you and anyone who sees this.
had to screenshot this to remind myself of this, tysm! ❤❤
this is exactly how im feeling rn its good to hear it talked about more
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@semajafrazier5593 ❤️
As an OG, I knew the drama and the negative comments were getting to you. I felt sooo bad cuz these people TURNED on you so fast. And the over analysis of your relationship gets on my nerves so I KNOW you’re tired.
I think sharing joy is a beautiful thing. And those who fuck with you fr will love it and those who don’t deserve all the inconveniences in life. Don’t let these ppl run you away from what you enjoy. But also if this isn’t for you anymore, you gotta do what works for you.
We ❤ you sis!
Truly this wasn’t depressing. I think it was a valid talk, I admire how self aware you are as a growing human being, not only of who are as a person but also your journey as a person who shares their life on social media. It was insightful to hear, whether r I can relate or not, this is how you feel, this is what you are going through. I never want you to feel like you should never say what you need to say when you need to say even when it feels weird or necessary. It’s necessary for you and we support regardless, so keep allowing yourself to evolve as a human being. Have your thoughts, share them whatever 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
@@giagood1435 this is so sweet ily
This comment ateeee❤❤❤
These videos are my favorite because this is the reality of life! Feelings, negative thoughts, growth, challenges, etc. You deserve the same about of space to find yourself that every other 20 something year old has. Also, if your mind says “who the fuck cares” you can tell yourself that I do & I asked & I want to know! 😂💞💞💞💞💞
@@AdriellaGonzalez exactly 👏
Pleasee girl this is a safe space 😭 this was not depressing it’s REAL. The therapy is therapy-ingg👏Take a break, post what makes you happy, no need to chase the chaos of trying to go viral. You’ve achieved so much already and I hope you are just so proud of yourself. Keep doing you, we’re here. Real ones will not be going anywhere and will follow wherever you take us 🥹💕
Frontal lobe is lobing now! Love this for you sis you got this!
@@gillianofori922 LMAO FR
Exactly what I was thinking 😂 When that frontal lobe starts to come in, you see EVERYTHING differently in the best way🫶🏾
This literally felt like we were on ft😭😭loved it. I was like “yeah girl same”
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagramm?
Yes he is dr.porassss
I can totally noticed your vibe has switched and have becomed guarded which is so understandable with people nit picking everything you do. Do what makes you happy and ignore the drama.
I’m 28 rn…and at 24/25 this is a very real age to start questioning and reflecting deeply on the life you’ve made for yourself/ the person you’ve been so far. I think things are meant to feel confusing and it’s gonna feel confusing again in a few years cuz we never stop growing n changing.
That being said, keep reflecting and tuning into yourself. But know you’re doing exactly what you need to do and are exactly where you need to be, don’t let internet strangers or even the little anxious voices of doubt get in your head about the direction you’re headed. You’ve made it off your own strength and mind so far, just keep doing YOU! 🩷
“Who fucking cares” is how I feel 24/7. Every time I’m talking to someone that question pops in my head and then I cut myself short each time. Still working on my confidence mentally. I appreciate the realness. Keep doing you and whatever makes you happy. People are always going to have their own opinions. Your true supporters love you and stand with you always! 💕
This is so unbelievably relatable, not the part about dealing with the fame, but just dealing with life these days. Like ugh battling self love, confidence, anxiety, figuring out the future, trying not to feel like I’m self sabotaging and trying to always make the right decision
This is why you’re the best influencer, the vulnerability, the honesty, I don’t think you understand how inspiring it is to see the struggles and not just the wins. You’re a beautiful soul Monet! So proud of you ❤ ily
but fr!!!
as a business owner who’s growing rapidly i fell you, imposter syndrome can be such an odd thing, but you being transparent literally makes me feel so seen! Especially the impending doom of keeping up and posting!
All of this is so valid. I think that’s why over the years we’ve seen so many content creators and influencers keep certain parts of their life private, and that’s okay.
At the end of the day we came here for YOU, but NEVER at the expense of your happiness.
as a micro influencer trying to decide if i WANT to even keep trying! this is such a relieving take. thank you so much for being authentic and vulnerable. At the end of the day you’re a human
That part!!
Monet your corner of the internet loves you! I know it may be hard to tune everything else out but your true supporters are here for you. keep going at the pace that’s right for you! we’ll be here excited to see whatever you’d like to share♥️♥️
i can’t imagine what it’s like to deal with private things publicly☹️i’ve been following you for a while and i love the positive energy that you bring to my page. but i definitely get where you’re coming from with wanting to be more reserved. put yourself first and always take the time you need.
Monet- I felt the shift in you. I saw it in your face and actions. It’s okay to do this social media thing on your terms! Protect what’s most important to you including the people in your life. Set healthy boundaries love. The real followers will always be here and respect your choices. Always remember you’re so loved by many ❤️🙏
Ppl will DRAGGGG youuuu but as long as you know who Monet is and know you’re staying true to yourself in every stage, let the haters talk. For ppl to take the time to judge and troll on the internet is crazyyy like they actually took the time to watch you’re every move and it’s very much giving I don’t got much going on in my life so let me make ppl miserable
Everyone in the early to late 20s goes through the same thing. People that want to bring you down start to become your inner voice. That’s why it’s amazing implementing and keeping your mental health in check. You going to therapy is sooooo important. You have a great support system so you got that going for you. You got this boo!
ily 🥹💕
okay i loved that you spoke on this because of just seeing things from the outside transpiring, i was just like wow, people are…interesting. i clearly cannot relate from your prospective as content creator and everyone feeling the need to comment and be negative. but the end for me was so refreshing and a good personal reminder, i have a very fast pace career and finally am making some changes to implement being able to still have the career i want but have the lifestyle i want which means not living how i currently am and moving states and being in my own space and having that highlight of my life being chilling at home alone with my cat, hosting friends and family when i want, etc. like that was such a good reminder for me tbh. but girl this world is truly your oyster and this video shows once again how authentic you are. and also the feeling like you’ve aged so much is soooo damn real, im telling you as a female when you hit 24-27 shit gets reallllll and you mature so much, it’s amazing but freaky, questioning so much, like am i doing this right lol.okay i feel like my comment long asf so i hope i made my point. either way you slay and you got this and you still have some amazing support no matter what, sit back and live this life how you wanted that you created.
love this comment so much. THANK U FOR SHARING UGH like okay we are just women trying to figure out this life thing and we really can relate on sooo so many levels. love u
Girl honestly you accomplished so much in a year that most ppl take 10-20 years to see… you’re doing great and owe yourself a break whenever needed.
Honestly I don’t mind how you change your content or anything. I just genuinely enjoy watching you be a person and hearing you talk and inspire
As one of your older followers I just want to say I am really proud of you for having the confidence to trust yourself and move accordingly. I’ve loved watching you grow and blossom. I love who you choose to surround yourself with and how much love is around you. You are a bright light and I admire the way you handle it all. There is so much love for you and I hope you feel it. ❤
Mental health check ups are sooo important in this industry. Never feel like you need to share every detail but know although the internet can be mean, you have so many ppl behind you. Take necessary breaks and when you ready to bounce back, we’ll clock ittt🩷
Girrrrrl like literally these 20 somethings is a constant back and forth questioning of everything from your life choices, to your career, relationships, finances and all of the above girl. But we’re gonna figure this life thing out one day at a time and I think it starts with owning the choices we make and standing on our values and ethics. Not compromising or diluting ourselves to match the culture. You know and it’s hard asf when our natural instinct is chameleon but standing out and being your true authentic self is all you can do to not drive yourself crazy. Love you mamas. We got this 🩷🩷🫶🏽
The way you are so transparent from the beginning of your journey is amazing!!!
That primer wants to turn you into the Dave Chappelle crack head meme so bad 😭😭😭
HELPPPSKSKJSJSJSJS
😂😂😂
Take a month break or 3 months. You’re allowed to do what you need for yourself! 💕
Bringing mental health into conversations is soooo important. You reclaiming your peace and happiness is the best thing you can do, because no one can do it for you. You’ve gotten me through my life in these beautiful 3 years and for that I will always be grateful to you. You inspired me to start social media myself and today I received my very first PR, like what?? It’s so crazy to think we’re on two separate sides of social media, yet you feel like the most human and normal person out here. I love you mo, I love your soul, your heart, your mind, and how honest you can be with us. Unapologetically you. That’s your new era. 💕
Hey girly👋🏽, I just wanted to say that I always appreciate your honesty. I couldn’t imagine being in your shoes. As an influencer you share your life with the world and unfortunately people take advantage of the information that you shared and trusted them with and throw it back in your face. The internet is a toxic bestie. I have watched you since forever and I can’t speak for all your fans, but if you want to take a break (which I think you should) do it! No one is going to forget about Monet McMicheal because you are that girl! The internet doesn’t deserve you if they can’t handle you with care. Like you said in this video, you are your own boss. You make the rules not us. Create the content that you want to create, if people don’t like it, those people were never for you. I love you! I’m a 23 year old, black, college girly from Memphis and you are such an inspiration! You are inspiring so many women of color so the best advice I can give is don’t forget why you started and who you do it for. If you forgot, take a break to remember.
we need you to post the positivity bookie it’s NOT forced it is so appreciated. With all the bs and drama your content is a big reason i still even have tik tok. Also this talk isn’t depressing … its just not all happy and that’s OKAY😭 it’s real and I’m here for it ❤️
how did I see this coming.. I love you Monet, only focus on what you can control
Thank you so much for being transparent! I have been going to therapy for the past few years and it’s truly transformative. But I FELT you when you said “Am I doing this right? Idk” is literally how I feeeel as a 20-something, you get it 🩷 but Once you learn how to take care of yourself and set your limits, you can be a better from your community and even more creative! I can tell a big difference when I’m anxious/not well and how it affects my work. Keep going queen ❤❤ we support and love you!!
I truly admire how self aware you are, specially as a young adult. You get so lost in the “what’s in” at the moment, you forget about what matters to you and what makes you happy.
I’ve been following you since 2021, and watching you grow, as I grow, has been so special. Don’t everrrrrr give in to what people have to say, the real ones know you and your heart, and we love you for it! ♥️
People who have been watching you for your personality are still enjoying your content now! I love watching your progresssion and how your interest have changed! Love you!
who genuinely shares everything in RL😭 girl you’re as authentic as it gets! Most humans pull back from ANY experience where they go through scrutiny or misplaced judgement in general. The fact that you can still be vulnerable with us shows that you choose strength🤞🏽 Real ones have always wanted to see you grow 👏🏽👏🏽
Being a young entrepreneur, i understood every single word that you said.. I had my first therapy session today, and i’m going through similar things (no where near on the scale that you are) but this video helped me feel validated in my experience. im going to learn how to focus on little things that make me happy too🩷
I love this transparency. I got off social media because consuming content that’s so dramatic is honestly draining so I commend you for all you put up with. It’s crazy how much people will assume about creators they don’t know and spend their time gossiping. Also we watched you hustle literally all last year…you deserve time to figure out this whole new life and finally process. Thanks for the realness you always bring to your channel. ❤
i relate so bad when you talked about feeling like no one care what you have to say. like you’re right, not in a “no one cares” but like they don’t care? idk i really got what you meant. luckily i’m surrounded by people who remind me that what i say does matter and they do care. i still have those thoughts and i’ve learned to acknowledge them but not take it to fact. i feel LESS crazy hearing you speak about it tho lol
i love a good ole social media break. touching grass is so good for the soul! you don’t owe anyone an explanation for taking time for yourself. cuddles with Rumor sounds like healing to me! Sending love from philly 🫶🏾🤎🤎
I feel the same way about my journey, I’m 21 and I’m about to be 22 to month, I’m finishing my bachelors and I’ve always worked in school. I feel guilty when I don’t have school or something to do with my time but I procrastinate on my daily tasks. I also have been trying to make a routine for myself and show up every day as the woman I want to be. I starting to pray, affirmation. I love my family and always family oriented, focusing on them and my close relationships rather than stressing boys. I’m trying to figure out friendships. I relate to feeling many emotions at once. Slowly learning what life means to means to me and what I want to make out of it. I loved this video Monet thank you for sharing
Wow, how did you put everything I was thinking into the clearest words! This video was not depressing but REAL and that’s why I adore you as a creator, you shed light on what really matters and not just for clicks. I feel like social media and sharing isn’t fun anymore bc of all of the saturated negative energy circulating around it. Thanks for recognizing it and using your platform to bring awareness to it too, lots of young women should look up to you and know they don’t have to fit into the “drama filled, he said she said, they did this they did that” status quo. There’s more to life than that! Love love love you Monet!
My personal transition from post college into my career.. I was the most depressed. I’m now 29 and fine! It is about your personal joy. Your why doesn’t have to be all money/work. Life is the people. Focus on that and your mind/heart relationship. We will be here ! ❤
9:07 the heart on ur head 😭😭 Monet. Stop. Being. So. Hard. On. Yourself. You are great and amazing. I’m glad you’re realizing that you’re EVOLVING n growing. Not doing “less”. You put out so much love and everyone in this world is just doing the best they can tbh. I’m glad you can share this with us. We luv u
it wasn’t depressing but so real a lot of the little things you touched on i feel like a lot of people can relate to deep down
100% understand you it’s okay TikTok is messy but don’t let it stop you from being you !
Sis you are the bright light we need in the dark scary tunnel of the internet. Please keeps your happy positive self. Its so rare! 💕🥰
There’s a reason you have this beautiful community and success, and it’s because of your authenticity! Everything you are talking about is what a lot of women, especially in their mid 20’s experience. it’s just no one feels like they can talk about it. Also, we’ve all grown up from a social media era development where we started off being silly and goofy and authentic to a highlight reel and constant comparison and anxiety. Figuring out how to navigate it all can be so confusing! So thank you for opening the door to this conversation and also for being so real with us. Take whatever time you need, whenever you need it! We love you for a reason and we’ll always be here whenever you feel like hanging out or catching up. Just gotta look at us like your low maintenance bffs ❤ you should be so proud of yourself for all you have done and all you are!!✨
Thank you for being so real with us!! We will be here no matter how you change as a creator and your authentic energy will always be so unique!!
I'm 30 and still experience this sometimes. What I've been learning is that you can change THE WAY you do things, as long as you keep your integrity about WHO YOU ARE and you show up doing what you ACTUALLY love. It's easy to get caught up when there are so many options given to us and sometimes we get into the wrong ones and then God shows us where to recalibrate. I love you because you ARE honest! You inspire me in many ways and it feels nice to see YOU wanting to go back to your roots and your WHY!
Keep it up!
I love catching up videos 😭 I’m proud of how far you’ve come with speaking about your mental health since you’re first video about therapy !
I definitely noticed how much less you post I miss you but girl I don’t blame you 😭 keep doing you, keep inspiring!!
I hate that the internet has made this shift in you. Just remember these feelings will pass and heal and you are doing what's best for you! 💕
Social media comments have become so nasty and you are responding with grace. You’re human and we appreciate this candid moment ❤
i swear i’m so glad she talked about this because i definitely noticed & haven’t seen anyone else bring it up. people are meaner than ever on these apps now i swear it didn’t used to be this bad even just a few years ago. it’s sad
You Can See How Much Stronger You Are Within Yourself Just By How You’re Carrying Yourself In This Video. No Tears! Means You’re Standing On Business.
girl this was not depressing and i can relate heavyyy!! it's so beautiful to see your growth and evolution as a woman, as an entrepreneur and as a human being! thank you for sharing your honest thoughts, reflections and experiences even though it's hard and your anxiety to want to protect yourself from the danger of the internet is sooo valid. it's really inspiring to see your journey with prioritizing your mental health, working with your therapist and just living life the way that feels most aligned with your values and deepest contentment
I felt sooooo much of what you were saying so you are definitely not alone! People often forget just because you’re a content creator or influencer doesn’t make you any less human than the rest of us and I hope you find that space to remind yourself that your feelings are valid and you are able to be as human as you possibly can!!!
I’m not even a content creator and I feel like I deal with this! You are heard, you are understood and whether you post or not, your followers who genuinely love, support and appreciate YOU will continue to do so! You’re so amazing, and thank you for opening up and allowing us to experience the amazing woman you are🩷
girl same i still struggle with being hyper sensitive to the things people say to me irl but i’m learning to let it roll off my shoulder cos who cares fr.
reclaiming the things you care about the most and keeping the things/people that are most important to you private is valid. 💗💗💗
Honestly, I feel like I’ve grown so much watching you literally since nursing school days is crazy. So why would anyone expect you to stay the same or “keep up” with who you were last year. The person you are today isn’t by accident and in my opinion it’s exactly who the world needs rn.
as I've gotten older, I've realized a good chunk of my anxiety was just intuition. if you feel something is off by sharing too much then it probably is. sadly, we live in a world where evil is more prevalent than good and because of that evil eye is also more real (thanks social media lol). anyway, trust your gut and protect what you need to girl. the people who love your content will support and gravitate towards you regardless of how you express yourself.
I loveeeed this omg. I feel so validated with how you feel as well and every single thing you said is so understandable and I hear you, I see you! I feel so happy to found an influencer who is SO real.
YOU DO KNOW!! It’s a beautiful thing when you truly know what you want in life. Protect your peace 💛
release the guilt sis ur constantly evolving & its genuinely been a pleasure seeing ur journey ❤️ continue to stand in ur power, the real ones appreciate u !
we hear you trust me! The real community who is in touch with you support everything you do! From brand trips to weeks at home. We’re here for you 💕💕 take care of your mental before anything & breaks as needed.
First I wanna say that this was really needed for me as a longtime fan! Like, the internet can be very reaching for me too. Because you see this person you follow being spoken about in such a negative light, it messes with me sometimes because I want to know if you’re okay; no one wants to be torn apart like that. And you being silent kinda makes me find my own ground, basically be grounded in the fact that I follow you on every social for a reason, I love your energy for a reason, think pieces shouldn’t mess that up. So, once again thank you for this Monet! You’re doing so great! In as much as you want to remain in that vibrant 21yrs old bubble, you’re gonna keep growing and expanding! So keep setting these boundaries even if they are subliminal. And the true supporters and lovers of your energy will stay here! Love you girl! And be good!
Girl your feeling are so VALID! I feel very similarly to youuu it can be so hard to be unfilteredly yourself when people are so quick to judge and hold you to that person forever. The 20s are the trenches we have no clueee wtf is happening it’s hard cause the world is so bleak at the moment!!! But we need people like you who are positive and putting out that good energy, we need to believe that things will get better for them to get better 🫶🏼❤️✨supporting you always keep spreading the sunshine
girl you can literally say how you feel, it’s completely valid. I feel like content creators get DRAGGED for saying they’re tired, like yes when you compare it to hard labor it’s a completely different thing but social media can be DRAINING. Sometimes i watch some creators and i’m like howww did you not want to just nap for week after that?😭
I’m honestly so glad you made this video because it helps me remember that I’m not the only one that has these feelings. Thank you so much for being real & open. You are truly my inspiration for life. Love you Monet!! ❤️
Everything you’re saying is so right and nothing about it is depressing. It’s authenticity what we need so much more of these days! I agree always follow your heart and what you feel when breaks are needed take heed to that.
Girl this has always been your safe space. We have all watched your vlog that you just spent days in your comfort zone doing make up or cooking just talking to us like we on face time literally & we loved every minute of it. We love YOU Monet, your vibe, your energy, your family. We love what you love so what ever you next steps may be the real ones ain’t going no where. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you can make the vlogs longer again 😅
You are such a magic light in this world, Monet. Thank you so dearly for sharing yourself with us and these feelings with us! We've got you. Take all the breaks, pauses, etc. that your soul needs. You are so gracious and open-hearted and it showsss!! Love you. xx
This is so refreshing! I'm in my late twenties and all I want is to have a healthy life, especially a life that supports my mental health. I sometimes feel like everyone is trying to do everything at once and it is so exhausting. Thank you for being so real and for sharing your thoughts, it felt really good to me ❤
As someone who had such a spark and and big personality and love for creation, when my frontal lobe developed I feel like it just vanished. It’s so hard not to be realistic and have that girl just shut up feeling whenever I’m doing anything. Growing up just made me lose a bit of my spark
omggggg i hear u i feel u
wow u really just into perspective for im sure all of ur day 1’s the journey youve gone through. me specifically been watching u since i moved to college alone w no support and you have inspired and helped me so much like no other. the confidence and inspiration u feed to people is next level
thank you so much for being honest Monet, i literally felt like i was listening to an older sister who has gone through life and is sharing her experiences. im 21 and living in S.A. rn and this was such a relatable talk! its so comforting to know youre not alone in how youre feeling
Im so sorry you feel this way lovie. I actually tell people youre my favorite influencer because of these moments where you're real and unfiltered. i care so much about how you really feel because it teaches me what to expect as i grow on social media and building my business. people are so critical about everything nowadays because theyre BORED. i beg that you keep creating but PLEASE REST. like completely walk away for a minute to admire what youve created and enjoy all the little things in your life. love you girl :/
This world can make it feel so difficult to simply be who you are, but I’m SO glad that your heart is still warm. 💛 your courage is tremendously admirable, and your presence is SO necessary. I pray only blessings upon you! This is your life, live it as you choose and continue to choose you. You’ve done the work, you deserve the blessings. You’re inspiring so many women by simply being your authentic self, and I’m so proud of you💛
So mind blowing how you feel like you have to explain being HUMAN in 2024 🤯 You don’t owe any of us anything, BUT you continue to share despite everything you’re going through publicly and privately. The girls that get it, get it😮💨💅🏽
Sending you love 💛
this matters!! don't ever think that what you have to say is invalid. the struggles are so real and its so important to speak out and speak whats on your mind. keep being real Monet we love you!
You made a comment at the beginning about comparing ourselves to previous versions of ourselves and let me just say, FELT. I restarted school for my BSN and have been dragging in classes, I have a slower working pace, I dont study as often, etc. But I constantly remind myself of where I am now vs then while giving myself grace and gratitude for maintaining school + adulthood. Love you shared your thoughts. Peace & Blessings to you Monet
Heyyyy fellow East Coaster here! I’ve got to be honest. I'm one of your silent followers. I’ve been tuned in since day one, locked and loaded with my Dezis and your Rose Era, just quietly supporting from the sidelines. Whatever you’re a part of, I’ve always felt it’s a must to back it, no questions asked.
But I’ll admit, I never really tapped into your TH-cam channel. Usually, I catch you on TikTok or through your Insta stories. Today, though, for the first time, one of your videos showed up on my TH-cam homepage. I clicked on it, thinking it would just be background noise while I cleaned my room-but it ended up being exactly what I needed to hear.
I’ve been wanting to pursue content creation for a long time, but like you mentioned in the video, anxiety and worrying about how others perceive me always hold me back. Hearing you talk about those same struggles-knowing that someone as confident and successful as you feels the same way-gave me more comfort than you’ll ever know. So please, never think that what you say doesn’t matter or that no one is listening. This video might have been just another upload to you, but for me, it was the push I needed. You never know who you’re touching with your words.
Remember, you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be, and every opportunity meant for you will find its way to you. Your steps are already written, and you are nothing short of amazing. For every 10 haters, you’ve got 1,000 loyal supporters ready to ride at dawn for you. MONTAY ZONTTT PLAYTY 🤫🤫🤫
This is a safe space, and we’ve got your back. Always.
Monet thank you for sharing! Everyone knows the internet is TOXIC but your true followers understand you and your character. I was listening to an interview with Big Sean and he mentions how you can get a million positive comments but the one negative comment will have you thinking about it for weeks but it's about perspective. I've been wanting to post on social media for yearssssss and you're definitely one of my inspirations!
You are living in your authenticity! It’s been an honor to witness your growth and grow alongside with you - going through your twenties is no joke! I resonated with EVERYTHING in this video. Your core fan base (myself included) will always ride with you and for you, girl. Be yourself! Live in your truth! Enjoy your beautiful, fulfilling life. Watching you blossom has been so amazing and there is so much more in store for you ❤❤❤
I love how real you are ❤️ it’s so easy for everyone to assume influencers just have this perfect fun life but they don’t and I think you opening up and just being real about it is so healthy. Set your boundaries who cares what others think it’s your life and your happiness and you need to have your peace with everything to be okay! Your true supporters won’t care what type of content it is or how much you put out, we just want you happy! That’s what sets you apart 💕 I love you!!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
So proud of you for sharing this, and honestly would love to see more content like this!!! You are not out of touch, you are not ungrateful, your feelings are valid and this is a safe space
monet (get ready this is a long one)i’m younger than u i just graduated highschool and i’ve been watching u for a while i’m usually a silent watcher but it’s sad how the internet turns on people knowing their literal human beings like everyone else what i love more than you’re travel vlogs are just seeing u for you and your everyday life whether u or other people think it’s boring it’s refreshing seeing someone not hiding the bad and being true with who they are. i love ur youtube videos because i feel like you used to share more and it would be like our safe space but the people invading ur privacy and making fun of you is so sad and annoying and it’s totally understandle for your starting to shelter more about you but know the real ones will always be with you i love you and don’t forget to take it easy because even if ur not feeling as motivated anymore i love a regular weekly vlog or chit chat it makes it like we’re in ft! being in the public eye can’t be easy and just know your doing amazing and don’t listen to the haters 💗💗
these sit down grwm's are my favoriteee. thank you for your vulnerability and strength. the real ones will love you in every era and i have loved you and your content since 2022 and love it now.i think being honest and making videos like this may help you not burn out because it is exhausting to try to be positive all the time. sending so much love your way
Thanks for sharing! Honestly, sometimes you just gotta keep people out of your personal business. The more I grow on my social media platforms, the more I realize the value of keeping certain areas of my life private just to keep the peace. I think it also gives you that feeling of separation between social media and real life. Keep growing and glowing girlie💕
Omg Monet!!! I’m literally in tears this video was honestly one of my favorites of yours!! Your authenticity and vulnerability is why you are my favorite influencer and person to watch….seriously! Please do not take down this video because like you said all these feelings can coexist and you don’t always have to be “happy” but your happiness is SOO welcomed! I love how you said “claiming your peace” that’s SO beautiful!! The internet is just full of unhappy people but there unhappiness is a representation of their own unhappiness in there life not you!!
I love you, your content and this little space you’ve created on social media of calming peace and abundance!! I wish you nothing but more authentic joy🤎
Everything you are feeling is completely normal, thank you for sharing and being real and honest. We can all relate actually.
Monet, this video is completely necessary! You are giving us too who vibe with positivity a break from all the negative in the world. So just know it is greatly appreciated when we get to break away from heavy topics all the time to just plain ole fun and beauty. And I can agree with your fear of growing because of more eyes and opinions and just the day someone takes something so innocent the wrong way. I am growing on my platforms now and I too have that anxiety feeling of the way the internet works. 🤦🏽♀️ But I know the purpose behind my content and yours has been to shed light on the world ❤Continue being great 🫶🏾✨
Not depressing. You needed a space to share.. Like SZA said, good luck to them 20 something’s! You are doing your best and we appreciate you
I believe your thoughts are valid. At the end of the day being an influencer is a job. Yes, there are many perks, but when you put so much of yourself into it you forget that the job is just an extension of you. It’s not who you are. Does that make sense? It’s there to pay for your bills/lifestyle and that’s it. And when it no longer servers you leave and start on another adventure. So take your break. You have plenty of content, they can watch those videos and you can mentally relax.
Love this ❤ I never comment, but you are very wise. I'm 33 and still learning how to focus on the small but GREAT blessings in life. Its so easy to question if we're doing enough and keeping up. When you said you are rich in life, for all the right reasons 👏👏 the little things that make being alive everyday fun and happy are so important. I wish more people showed the regular everyday life as well as the big moments because that is what I think makes us all feel more connected. That is my favorite content personally, even though everything you put out is an absolute slay. Dogs, home life, spending time with loved ones, healthy routines, and real struggles. I found your page from a closet cleanout video waaay back because I needed a cleaning buddy for motivation and have watched every video since. Growth and evolution as a human is a blessing. Wishing you and your loved ones nothing but positive energy and love ❤️
Thank you for sharing! Just know that your supporters, family, and friends will support you through every phase of your journey. It’s okay to take time for yourself and enjoy private moments! We will be here waiting for you to post when you do. ❤
This was so amazing to watch!! You’re entitled to your feelings and it’s honestly ok to not be ok. The beautiful thing about life is that you’re gonna grow. And growing means that there are things in your life that require change. And change doesn’t mean bad. Change is good for the heart and soul. Take the time you need to reclaim your happiness. We’re here for you always!! ❤❤
Monet I’m sending you the biggest hug and so much love! You’re so genuine in EVERYTHING you do! I can’t even imagine the toll that being in this industry has on your mental. Your feelings are so valid and always are. You’ve grown so much in every aspect but your core has always remained so authentic. We’re all on different paths but we all can relate on many aspects. You can’t make every one happy but just know that even if you reach 1 person, that’s a lot. I love how relatable you’ve always been. Hope you know that there are people like me who are rooting for you always. Please be patient with yourself bc we know how much you care and pour your all in everything you do. You’ve helped me in ways you don’t know. Sending you all my love and positive energy. Love u big!!🫶🏼🥹💓
Girl! I love seeing your love! 💗 it’s so refreshing! I love the authenticity you have and you should say and do what you want because that is how you got here!
The real ones will stay 🩷 you have to do what makes you happiest!!! Thats why people fell in love with you to begin with! ✨ authentic queennn.