Oregairu's Lasting Impact: A Retrospective
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ต.ค. 2020
- My Teen Romantic Comedy SNAFU (Oregairu) has been a weird and personal experience for me, to say the least. In this first episode of Anime in Retrospect, I explore Oregairu's themes, its characters... and what its lasting impact means to me.
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I am a 61 year old man and this anime hit home hard in many ways. It brought back so many memories from my high school years. I was a loner too who in retrospect was also saved by being forced to join a club. Circumstances too numerous to list here forced me to eventually take the lead of the club and I put my heart and soul to keep it going because I felt responsible for it. And in the club there was also a nice girl who at first I was unaware had feelings for me. After some time one day, since I wasn't making any kind of moves toward her, she told me with tears in her eyes that she just couldn't remain in the club anymore. What I did next I have regretted for the rest of my life: I just pretended I didn't care and told her to have a good life. I rejected her because I thought I was too much of an outcast to be compatible with her. It was obvious that wasn't an obstacle for her, but it was for me in my mind. I thought she deserved better and let her go. I was a dumbass idiot. Luckily I got out of my loner shell when I go into college and made a few friends there. Unlike some people here I cannot watch this anime again. It would be too painful in many ways to relieve all that all over again.
I feel you man, it sucks when someone actually realizes your value but you think you're not worthy of it, or that they are exaggerating, and when you look back on it with a mature mind, well it hurts.
Holy shit, your story sounds so similar to this anime's story. What was the purpose of your club (like what was its theme)? And did that girl join the club only after you (so it is probable that she liked you earlier and joined the club just to be close to you) or was she in the club already when you joined it (so she could develop feelings for you thanks to seeing how you were active in that club)?
@@piotr004 At that time all the school clubs were pretty boring, so me, my brother and a group of guys decided to submit the creation of a martial arts club since this was during the 70's kung fu craze. Nothing could be more cool than that. Reluctantly the school principal accepted and the "Dragons" club was created. At the beginning this girl was not a member, but she was dating one of our club members. However their relationship was short-lived and they broke up while still remaining good friends. Then later she joined the club and remained a member for a whole year. Her ex-boyfriend even tried to hook me up with her, but I declined stating it would be wrong for me to do that since he was my friend and I knew she used to date him. Like I said, I was an idiot. I wish I could turn back time and fix my stupidity.
@@priestpega Ah, I see the picture clearer now, thank you! Honestly speaking, I would reject that girl in that situation too, because, as you said, "it would be wrong for me to do that since he was my friend and I knew she used to date him." It would be weird, and "Her ex-boyfriend even tried to hook me up with her" is even weirder. Dating a girl who is an ex of one of your friends is always risky (a lot of friend circles are destroyed by acts like this). This whole situation seems like the girl was rather unstable emotionally (like she is "trying out" one friend after another from the same circle of friends). Of course, I do know the whole situation, but based on what you wrote - I do not think you missed out much...
@@piotr004 My friend almost immediately after the break-up, hooked up with another girl (the one he eventually married to). The girl who I rejected was a nice girl and wasn't going around with other guys. She did suffered emotional trauma as a result of getting raped by an older man seeking revenge on the teenager that his wife was having an affair with. He mistakenly thought this girl was that guy's gf, kidnaped and violently raped her. He fled the country to avoid jail and our wrath since we were not going to have any mercy on that scumbag.
As a guy, I could not relate to a single thing in this show. I loved it so much maybe because that’s what I missed in life?..Maybe I’m just still looking for something genuine.
Look I never was able to relate to the characters but I’ve always been able to sympathize with them
@Spanish Inquisition same man... same
I couldn’t relate to many of the conclusions Hikki came to, as a generally optimistic person, but I could certainly relate to many of the _observations_ he made. The warning to girls not to be too touchy with guys or else they’ll get the wrong idea and the “does she like me” over analyzing of minor actions are two things that particularly hit home.
Was a bit scared that I didn't know what Hachiman was doing wrong.
@@Zarastro54 same here, your not alone. That’s one of the reasons why I love this anime
As a person who faced the same situation as Yui during highschol, multiple times, I literally cried every fucking episode of the last season, it's a terrible feeling, just for the sake of avoid conflicts.
I finished and then that touched my heart
You did it man, you made me go rewatch this thing. And probably go pursue the novels too.
That’s really cool to know, Tuko. I am looking forward to OreGairu Shin myself.
@@yukino5458 same, just finished watching the first two episodes to check the stickers thing, planning to rewatch everything, though
Hopefully you did get into the novels it's fun having more information and dialog and also you can kinda hear the voices like in the anime
I know a Yui in my life... but I chose another person. The wrong person. I didn't realize that she had feelings for me until waaaay later. We met eachother again at some reunion party years later when she came out with it and said that she used to be in love with me. I can still feel my facial expression change to a shocked one when she said that since no girl has ever told me that. I joked with her by saying that it must've been traumatic for her to feel like that; the news not completely sinking in. One awkward silence and a neck scratch later, I was honest with her and told her that I actually thought she was really cute and a sweet person (which she still is) but I always thought that she was just being nice to me like she was with everyone else.
As we talked, I started feeling awful since I used to go to her when I needed dating advice or was going through girl troubles. I can only imagine how she felt.. the constant punches to the gut I must've put her through. I then told her that if she would've said something then, I would've seriously thought about it. She proceeded to give me a look of disappointment followed by a weak smile. I could've been wrong since my mind was going through a whirlwind of emotions. From the depression stage of my sorta recent breakup to receiving a late confession (If you can call it that) from this beautiful girl in front of me.
Really felt like one of those "What could've been" conversations. We actually exchanged contact information, and we actually talk at least once a week, usually about jobs, family, friends, careers.
It honestly feels nice being in contact with someone like that again, it's really like a breath of fresh air. I've really forgotten how infectious her bubbly attitude is. Every time I see her name pop up on my phone, my heart skips a beat. Now I don't mean that in a romantic way, but it sure does feel great having a female that isn't family related text you, not because they need something from me or a favor but.... simply because they want to.
It's almost annoying how she knows exactly what to say but I didn't know that it was something I really needed. She's really helping me through my breakup and I'm currently very grateful towards her even if she doesn't know it.
I should consider myself lucky that I managed to regain someone who I didn't know was precious to me back in my life. I'll be very careful to not make the mistake of confusing my gratitude towards her for premature romantic feelings. For the time being, I'm perfectly content with the way things are as of now, I couldn't bare the idea of disappointing someone as pure as her. I'm just not ready to fall in love again and I'm definitely not ready to lose another friend. Perhaps maybe in the future, who knows.
Nice story! Happy for you bro.
Hey, man. just go with her if you're scared that you'll ruin her life. I had a yui in my life too. We were so close and I was fixated on relationship will ruin friendship, so I distanced myself. Buuuut, after years I realised the truth and she's now my wife.
You put my thoughts into words. I am old enough to be ashamed to admit it, but I cried so many times through this series. I love it, but so many things about it hurt so bad. Thank you so much for this video
that “yahello” then intro really hit hard, i started watching when s2 was in the middle of airing and honestly this turned into my favorite anime because of how real it was, it wasn’t just an anime about a guy falling into some love story but the characters actually have realistic characteristics and personalities, where everyone wants to hide who they really are to fit in socially and then there’s a couple characters who are straight forward like yukino and hachiman. the anime just brought out so many emotions i couldn’t bring myself to watch it till 2 weeks after the finale came out and honestly the ending was just so satisfying, i love yui and she would be the best girl in many many other animes but yukino is just something else
Hachiman's arc is literally his acceptance into becoming one of the many anime protagonists out there.
Yukino's character arc is her becoming more and separating from her archetype.
Yui- her arc is that she is coming to terms of her delusion and reject her reality, which is that she Yahalost.
(Btw, I'm more on Kawasaki team than Yukino's team.)
"I was... team Yukino, because Yui is my WAIFU and if she were to end up with Hachiman, that meant she couldn't end up with ME."
Me, a team Yui guy: A-... that makes perfect fucking sense what the hell...
As someone who has been a Yukino fan from day 1 and really admires the OST, you again have given a wonderful interpretation of the main characters and overriding themes of the story. I'm happy to have subscribed to your channel.
OreGairu made me miss school...
It made me want my life back and remember all the stuff I lost
Entretainement really is subjective: You didn't like the music, while in the meantime i costantly have the whole OST on repeat.
By the way, I loved the video, good job.
Can't really give you any constructive criticism (as far as I'm concerned, it's the only type criticism that's worth it) because I'm too biased.
I just love Oregairu too much, even if I'm waaaay past school days.
I do like the music, it's just not stand-out to me. Thank you for the kind words!
I honestly think oregairu has some of the best OST's out of all the anime I've seen. Not exactly MIA or AOT level but much better than I'd say 80% of anime.
holy shit why did it take me so long to find this video? also high key diamond no jundo yukino ballade hits different
As a Yui fan, I still knew the Yukino version was the better choice. Lol
@@AnimeInRetrospect bro i love yui with all my heart but reading the light novels ( most of them fan translated from r/oregairu discord) made me appreciate yukino so much more as a character
Do the LNs not have an official English release? That's surprising to learn.
@@AnimeInRetrospect well that have up until vol 9 atm and i think 10 is coming soon, they also have two mangas i believe one purely on the internet and one you can buy as physical copies
Thanks for the info. It will come in handy when I get around to reading them in preparation for OreGairu Shin.
I’ve watch this anime 3 times and can’t get enough of this show. Anime speaks for itself, I can’t put it to words of how great this anime is. This anime is a top 5 in my book
I also love this show. Finished it recently. I never want it to end. Do you have any recommendations for anime to watch that is similar to SNAFU.
@@sohangajarla9536 I guess white album 2, just gonna tell you the ending could have been better. But oregairu is just the best. I heard that there is a ova that is coming out for Oregairu for season 3 or it could be a movie later this year
@@siroohhyee9205 I'd definitely watch that. And would like to add hyouka, kokoro connect, my little monster, horimiya, sakurasou.
None of them are the same level as oregairu, but its better than nothing haha
Hikigaya was never worthy of Yui, but she only realized this after Komachi's hint
EASILY one of the best analysis out there on oreigairu I've seen, subscribed you deserve man, can't wait to see more!
Thanks!
Great video man. This is probably my favorite rom com absolute masterpiece
Just finished watching this series. Your commentary was very good. Subscribed.
This is my first time watching one of your videos... You just earned a subscription. I had the hardest time figuring out why this anime I picked up simply because I was bored and contained incredibly low stakes (at first glance at least) effected me so deeply; and you fully explained why. The entire time I watched this anime I kept thinking how much easier everything would be if the characters were honest with themselves and with each other, but it didn't bother me because without realizing it I was heavily relating to the main trio and each of their struggles. At surface level I had nearly forgotten how difficult alot of people find emotional communication, it's something I had the privilege of refining in the family I grew up in, however this something that's especially difficult during highschool as everyone struggles to find themselves. I've watched other Rom Com anime but Snafu truly felt like it was in a league of its own
P.S. Yui was my favorite by an incredibly small margin (I just wanted the entire trio to be happy) which made it so much more heartbreaking to watch as Hikkigaya made the choice we all knew he would. The shows not a masterpiece but, definitely artistically brilliant for making me feel the way it did.
Well put.
What are masterpiece animes for you? Just curious. But yah, emotional communication is a very difficult thing as this show has shown, and in every way I relate to them. I'm 19 and ever since I was little, my parents would tell me I was unable to understand any feelings at all, or socially unaware (KY as they call it in Japanese)
Great video man, I've just finished oregairu and you explained everything so damn well.
Thanks!
Shit man this was deep. Oregairu one of the best romance/comedy type of anime. I’m pretty sure this is slice of life. Always will resonate with me
Amazing video man,you've really got huge potential
Watched the whole thing, REALLY good video and analysis
Thank you for this video! It was great to see your perspective on OreGairu and your interpretations of the main caracters journey! This video was well done and I got to say, I disagree with the music part, to me, it stood out but everyone's got different tastes in music! So thats all! Hopw you have a great day!
Loved the video my guy. Great job
We just need to find someone who will marry Hiratsuka now
I like how you higlighted yui, ive never got to watch s3 so i never really got to know her, i just read the novel for i try to improve my understanding words, but visuals really gives more and just seeing yui's reactions in this video i get to like her more!! Thabk you!!!
Those “yahallo’s” break my heart
I just gotta say, this video was super well-made. Based on the production quality, I thought your channel would be way bigger. I really like the use of funny clips interspersed between the more dense analysis. Super interested to see more of your work.
One comment on the music-- I totally agree that it is generally just serviceable, but I do think it nails the right moments. There was a particular scene in episode 11 of the final season where I stopped and thought to myself, "that's really cool". More specifically, it's the one where Hachiman was pulling away Yukino's fingers and they synced it to the guitar. It's the little stuff like that which to me elevates an otherwise "just alright" OST.
Also, yeah. Harumodoki is a fucking banger. Easily one of my favorite openings of any series. Not only is it a great track, but the visuals are beautifully done (although I prefer the first version that is only found on youtube for some reason). It really does leave a huge impression after coming off season 1.
"Serviceable"... I hate that you're right lol. Thank you for the kind words and I seem to agree with your comment in more places than one.
Great quality man... keep it going!!!!
Excellent review of one of the very best love triangles in anime. What makes this atypical is that all three very much love and care for the other two which is the source of the subtextual complexity. No one wants the other one to be hurt. As a side note, all three of the Yukinoshita females have a positive reaction to Hachiman. We never see or hear of Mr. Yukinoshita, but in the LN, it's said that Hachiman is very much like Mr. Yukinoshita which explains the attraction. At the very end, Yukino tells Hachiman that her mother has grown fond of you, and she wants you to attend a family dinner. Just one more episode of Hachiman at that dinner surrounded by Yukinoshita's would have been hilarious and comedic gold watching him squirm, but it never happened. But a family dinner in that situation, is the family thinking ahead about a new family member! Mr. Yukinoshita would probably be keen to add a male because he has been surrounded by females all his married life.
Dang, that episode would be PAIN for us Yui fans. Seeing him become a member of the family would just kind of cement it.
@@AnimeInRetrospect Yeah, can commiserate. But any guy who marries Sweetheart Yui will get one of the best mother-in-laws in the entire Universe. Yui's mom would accept a son-in-law like he were her own son. And if you have been or are married, you know how important a mother-in-law can be to a happy marriage. And as for the (Hachiman x Yui) ship, Yui would never have been happy with Hachiman, and she says as much in S3 EP10 ( I think) were she complains that she does not understand the things he says or does. Yukino understands Hachiman and she can be quite blunt in telling him what she thinks. But that is what he likes in a woman as we see him with Komachi, Shizuka, and even Haruno.
Anime in Retrospect is a great channel!
@@folcwinep.pywackett8517 Hey thank you man! That means a lot.
17:30 As a Yui fan myself i couldn't agree more.
u deserve more bro what a well done video review
I'm so happy I only recently discovered this anime and didn't wait 5 years for the next season to arrive because I was immediately hooked after season 1. I finished this anime literally yesterday. I have seen a lot of animes in my lifetime and hands down this series has become one of my favorite animes of all time. It's at least in my top 20 of favorite animes of all time. I thought it was so well done and I completely related with these characters. It's a masterpiece in my opinion.
I just finished watching it, and I already feel so nostalgic watching this video. I fucking loved I didn't know why I was so mentally bothered by the series, but it is as you said my personal experience can be somewhat relived through this anime. I want to see a OVA and see how their relationship continues to flourish and that first kiss hopefully. Also, Yui is best girl!!!! Keep it up man, great video
And i finished it yesterday.It really touched my heart...I wish we see a season4 someday even if its impossible.
Itreallty connects with life i feel.also funny to see how much of a change Hachiman got from first epi of s1 to last of 3 but that dudes gonna be one of my fav Mcs forever...also Yukino is such a wonderful lady!just love her and Yui is all about charm and cuteness filled with energy.Oregairu is ❤️
It's gotten to the point where I struggle to relate with high school anime anymore, but sitting through this video encouraged me to give this one a try. No matter how old I am I am still in the audience for a good love story. Tight writing too? Time to give that series a watch after all!
It was a meme when Mandricardo came out for FGO that he looked like the main character. I was supposed to watch it then, but I am really bad on following through when the reason is that shallow? And now I regret not doing it because hearing you praise it will color my experience. Darn! But I'm sure it won't matter too much. When I do finish, I'll leave a comment again! Maybe I'll have something of my own to add. Who do I relate to in the cast? Hmm...
Haha, thanks for this comment man.
I feel like each character is relatable in their own right, because of how well established the main cast is.
@@uwu.-.5873 They are! I still haven't watched all the content, but I'm through 2 seasons now. I've really been enjoying the story because the relationships are so strong.
@@whiteflagstoo yeah
@whiteflagstoo how was the series as whole? Did u enjoy it?
Dude I love this video your a great content creator
I love Oreigaru so much! Yui is one of my favorite characters of all time, and was my favorite in this series. Shes such a tragic character, and was not only the emotional tether for both Yukino and Hachiman. She was also ironically the strongest willed character in the series. She has multiple instances where she could have had Hachiman, but doing so would have cut off her relationship with Yukino. Due to her greed, she was never going to have her wish granted. She was never going to have both a Romantic Relationship with Hachiman, and a best friendship with Yukino. Ironcially her wish does get granted. But only for Hachiman and Yukino. Because unlike Yukino she has the strength of will to maintain these relationships depsite her crush, hooking up with someone else. Its incredible to me that she has more power than both of them, is more mature than both of them , and tethers both of them the most. Though ends up losing the most between the three. Yuis incredibly tragic, and this isnt enough to summarize it. I might personally have to make a character analysis about her, cause I havent seen anyone else do it.
Honestly, you should make one. I’d watch it. There’s already so much of interest in this short write up, some of which I haven’t thought about before. Especially the bit about Yui having what it takes to maintain both relationships, while Yukino doesn’t. Let me know if you end up making it!
Hearing Diamond No Jundo Yukino Ballade in the background really hit home
Thanks, I tried.
You hit the nail right on the head
like you do, i'm totally ok with our mc choosing yukino, cause i want yui for myself
personally i think that this girl has been written with the sole purpose of making viewers feel that way
I love Nao Tôyama, she performs her roles spectacularly but has anyone realized that she always voices the #2 girls
Yui, Koga from Bunny girl Senpai, Ruka from Rent a Girlfriend.
OUCH
This is what you call quality content🔥
I relate a lot about your views on the anime respect to the parallels and the way I felt while watching it. Although I couldn't disagree with you more on your take about yui.... Great vid bud, saw your post on reddit.
It sucks so many people miss out on this because its slice of life and semi romcom. Sometimes there's just no convincing people
I subbed right away when I heard “team yui”
same here lmaooo
Team Yukino here,but i love all of em.Yui is a charm cutie
I've always been on Yui's camp all while knowing perfectly well that it wouldn't end well for her. But I love how it ended.
The ending is very bittersweet for me but that' spart of why I love it so much.
Amazing video man
I just rewatch these masterpiece.
Great commentary. But you forgot the 4th member: Hiratsuka Sensei. She's a f*cking GOAT.
Great video as always
Thank you Saiyan.
Personaly as a soon to be high school fresh man, I relate a lot to Yui, trying to adapt and be "friend" with every one, having a one sided crush that will likely stay like that forever and be chill and happy outside when your just suppressing your feeling. And that one sided crush I have it's a Ctrl+C Ctrl+V of Yukino, I really loved this anime, I watched it and rewatched it and I'm still doing that to this day, maybe for how much I relate to those characters that I learnd to love after I don't know how many rewatches, but more I relate to Yui more I'm afraid to end up just like her, alone.
This was a brilliant piece of work. Really put into perspective a lot of things, and things I missed myself.
But best moment was at 17:33 when you took a pause, I went, "Yes?" And well... well replied xD
Yo thanks for this comment, Just a guy
@@AnimeInRetrospect mention not. I was looking for some nice takes on the series, as I just finished it today. And I found yours. And by "nice", I mean obviously someone who understands the importance of the work. I didn't agree with you on everything (I like Iroha for one), but I don't need to. Good job on making this one, and see you on some other take like this... hopefully.
wait wtf, I thought this is one big channel. holy cow, you deserve a ton more subs for that kind of humor and critisism.
Thanks! Maybe when I start uploading more often, which I plan on doing soon.
Did you watch the last OVA? I liked it, It felt comforting seeing them all get along well.
And Yui bravely taking Hiki on a date out of nowhere made me so surprised and hesitant at the same time, I am glad they continued beeing friends even with a some what acceptable awkwardness between them.
And SHE FINALLY CONFESSED! That shocked me but it felt so good watching her finally let everything out even tho the two knew nothing would change.
Great OVA really.
And the sister is the president of the club now? Wow you go Komachi!
I did! Have some of the same sentiments you do, and my highlight is definitely how Yukino tolerates Yui’s homewrecking attempts. Yui is not at all subtle about it but Yukino isn’t throwing her under the bus for it - true besties!
@@AnimeInRetrospect True! I love their friendship it just shows that despite Yui beeing obvious about her feelings, even making sure Yukino knows about it, Yukino knows she won't do anything that would hurt her.
They are a lot more mature.
I love this series but i have not stated season 3 because i know that there is so much hurt waiting for me
Dang I love the background piano music in this video😂
This show made me feel like i was missing a ton of things. I am just like Hachiman, cold and not caring. But it helped me fit in more and find somewhere that i am now comfortable and grateful for. This show let me find my true friends.
At first i thought this anime was just another typical wholesome romcom anime but i was totally wrong, watching this for the first time really is a roller coaster of emotions and still is, after watching this video it made me want to rewatch it and feel the mixed emotions again
The background Jazz is soothing
God I fucking love this show, great vid bro!
my best buddy was unapologetically on team haruno and I was jokingly team kawasaki
Every time I hear that Yahallo in my head, I only feel for her😔
LOVED this.
Bruh, I thought the stickers were always there, i didn't notice that they were gradually built up, lol
i couldnt relate to hachiman but seeing his arc was incredible, its one of the only shows that just feels special, like your lie in april, hunter x hunter, and erased. Watching it feels like youre watching something more. I love everything about Oregairu, yui is one of my favorite fictional characters and is up there in my best girl list right next to rui from domestic girlfriend and rem from re zero. Yukino, while not being as great as yui, is still and incredible character in her own right, and i was happy to see them get together. Iroha was secretly also an incredible character, and fun fact every time she does the rejection skit she gets more and more dtf, like she starts off saying nah i like someone else and ends saying yo if you cant choose between them im right here.
i need to rewatch this anime, its really incredible.
Honestly, I felts sad that I didn’t discover it earlier, but good thing also because there was a 5 year break period. I was really happy when i saw that there will be shin, i feel sad because there will only be 8(i think). Honestly there is much more story to tell (like you said) so i think that shin is a good addition.
Shin will probably be ova episodes
Hachiman:*Breath *
Me:"Dude... I know it isn't a personal attack or something,
But why must you hurt me this way? "
Your MAL is prob one of the most accurate scores I’ve seen, but how you gonna give bunny girl senpai movie a 6😩
There is a real possibility that I missed something there and need to rewatch that series.
IWearClothes sounds good, I enjoyed the vid btw!👏
I'm more flabbergasted by Anohana being a 10 when Angel Beats/Plastic Memories is listed as a 6. Also, it should be listed as a war crime the OG Clannad is a 5/10. and so many Shounen being so high up (especially JJBA parts 1&2 being a 9/10.)
And Grimgar being 7/10 offends me personally but I know that was the average.
Great video!
My favorite anime of all time. And most likely will always be
Watch attack on titan yet? Haha
I love your videos man
Hey thanks!
Bro thank you for this
It's my pleasure, trust me.
Great video
Op 1 - is a great song both as an op and an insert song when it counts.
Op 3 - is my favorite among the 3.
Op 2 - specifically the second version from episode 3 onwards tells a lot about the endgame of the series (if the subtitles of the op is accurate) even if people haven't read the light novel.
I watched the entire anime from start to finish over the last 1.5 days , and I want more!!!!!. Anyway , Nice video
Same with me bro
I started it last week and finished now.
Few of my friends suggested long ago to watch this when i finished Hyouka cause they said the Mc is similar and now i freaking loved it.It touched my heart
@@KFCG427 if you loved it try , Tsuki Ga Kirei I think you will like that too. And there is a show called Horimiya that is currently airing, try that too
@@Fire-ci4se In watching Horimiya already...And its been real good so far,i guess that one will be the new romcom that shines.
Of course Yui was gonna lose, she color coded “useless” after all. 😂
I await the war that is to come.
I also relate to one character, but not Hachiman. It's Yui, despite the fact that I'm 20 years-old man. Not because I was in love triangle or sth. Because I felt more than anything the concept of "people that smile the most, also hide the most suffering". Such as her, I'm always cherrful person that smile and luagh everyday when I'm among people. But when I'm alone (especially when I'm studying whole nights) a lot of sadness and burden come to me. Suddenly. Feeling that I can't tell anyone what is hard for me, can't ask for help my friends casue... I should be the person that provide aid, at least this is what stick in my mind... And being that cheerful person also made people think that I rly don't have problems, that everything is ez for me... And that is even more painful. Cause many of them are surprised when I try to tell about my feelings, when I'm rly in deep trouble. Some people are even angry on me when I achieve my limit and need to put out my flustration, anger ect. and it's casued by minor thing, some stupid bullshit. Tbh, I'm slowly managing to work out this, thanks to for example many anime, medium that touches emotion in a way that none of western medium can, at least for me. It teach me a lot, but also give me so many emotion roller-coasters that I can cry, put my anger and anxious out through it. Just by watching. Oregairu was one of them, especially by story of Yui, that I root for to the very end, even when I knew that Yukino will win. Eh... Still, I love that character, love fact that lots of people love her, love that kind of person. And this anime also show that people like Yui, people like me, also suffer... Suffer a lot, like everyone, but hide it... Hide it TOO well...
Thx for this video, take care guys!
29:20 So araragi is still gonna be araragi even when he is a cockroach in overlord interesting
Honestly, the only time he isn’t Araragi is when he’s Choromatsu.
15:58 @AnimeInRetrospect, bruh.... I feel you 100% on this because, sighs, I am in the exact same boat here amigo. But in my case, I had both "Yukino", and "Yui" irl and also made a choice....
I just watched the whole series this past week. I love the story but (from a beginning to end binge standpoint) it was obvious Yukino would always be the final girl. That said the character growth of all the main 3 make this a series that will always have a place in my heart
Im kinda fond of iroha, her being all cheeky and whatnot. Though i suppose thats why everything Oregairu has the trio or Yui, Iroha, and Yukino.
Saki Kawasaki is also 😍 wish there was a figure of her too
Finally someone who spoke what I could not put into words.. ❤️I am happy with the ending.. Yukino for Hachiman is really ❤️.. But trust me.. Yui has always been the best Waifu ❤️❤️
Damn you. I knew this hit different when I watched this. 2 Days later I reminisce with my mate, and I realise....F U K ... I was Yui all along.
The impact of a show I thought was just gonna be another haha Harem-ish thingy. Couldnt have been more wrong.
I couldn't complete the 3rd season when it released so i did it few days ago and since then i had so many things to say abt this anime and you said it all...with one change though...i love yukino...i wifuu yukino😂man she's adorable...but yeah thanks for the video man
i think all of us have elements where we related to 8man back in high school
17:30 yeah I'm with you on this one and I'm never hiding it.
I low key started to hate hachiman for how he was treating yui in season 3, constant cold shoulder when she was trying so hard is just depressingly relatable.
I think that oregairu is such a well written story and has such good characters i really loved it and it will always be my favorite romance anime also where the #Teamteacher at😅
The protagonist has the exact same mind set I do . And I more then likely will till the day I die .
When i started snafu i was a yukino fan all the way then for some reason season 3 completely change me i thought i was on the winning side only to switch sides at the end and get incredibly hurt
"If you've read The Game, then you know what I mean." I don't think I've ever been so insulted before than to have it insinuated that I've read The Game.
i feel still the same
The scene where Hachiman has to choose which bowl of food to eat at home and proceeds to ask Komachi, "Aren't they the same?" (or more intuitively aren't they of equal worth?) Both "bowls" are an acceptable choice, but only one can be chosen. That's why it hurt so much for either side. It wasn't right vs. wrong. Both choices were correct, just different.
That IS a metaphor for the main heroines btw. Although, I DO agree with his choice of the right bowl.
Ouch...
I am relatively new to anime and I tried watching this show on Crunchy Roll in 2021 but I dropped it after the episode where the pink-haired girl came to thank him for saving her dog and he just blew her off and used the stupid excuse of "She is nice because she wants something" and it really made him hate him because even though I can understand being a recluse, being a cynical jerk to others in that extent is just too much. I had no idea he actually undergoes an evolution and drops the cynical loner a-hole attitude, mainly because most other videos and comments about the show were usually just people praising and idealising his loner lifestyle. Also, maybe it's partly because my own teenage experience was different from those in Japan or the west as I was born and raised in Nigeria.
Lit🔥
Sorry i was in team Hiratsuka
20:19 lmao
am i a heartless person for not crying while watching the anime but still loved it??
The anime that got me hooked on romance, 10/10 would recommend