You gotta be careful doing “ Nice gestures”. The wrong woman will take advantage of it. Example: I would wake up for work before my ex, I would iron my clothes and her work uniform as a nice gesture. On days I was running late and didn’t have the time to iron hers, I would get a phone call getting yelled at for not doing it. Blaming me for her running late cause she had to iron her own clothes. What started as a “ Nice gesture” turned into a requirement.
Well.she got use to it, maybe u could have told her you couldn't do it so she wakes up early to.do.it. you are not wrong for not doing it but maybe justet her know on time. Because you did it often she was expecting it and did not prepare for the change.
If only it was simple for every woman and man to find someone who challenges them to be better. I would love to be romantic to a woman, but I just can’t seem to find someone worth pursuing. I go out, and enjoy myself anyways regardless on if I find someone or not, I have to motivate and challenge myself to be better.
I try to pursue to run into a list of requirements I have to keep but she doesn’t I just stop I’ve yet to meet someone who matches my energy so I just stick to myself
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Relationships based on mutual attraction and respect are very curious to people these days, especially the younger people. It’s like finding a hidden treasure that you didn’t think existed! Buts that’s the crazy part! Having a great relationship is not as hard or elusive as people think. To have one though, a person must practice respect, preferably to the highest level, and lots of patience! And this is true for both men and women!
This illustrates when you give a woman what she really wants and needs(not what she thinks or says she wants), you bring out the best in her and most importantly, yourself.
Confidence is key. Women can smell it from a mile away. And if it's not just you having a moment but it's actually your character, you'll win her or them over.
People can show things on social media but doesn't always mean it's true. I wish happiness and joy to this couple. I just say be yourself, don't be someone your not. It's easy to say I love you ,but it's the small things you do that really show love. If a woman does not appreciate that then move on. She will never be satisfied. I don't understand why woman want to be so difficult and then sit there and cry I'm going to be single forever. I found love at 50 years old. I wasn't looking it just happened. 🥰
Loving someone in their love language is key. My hubby and I had this convo (before we got married) and realized that we loved each other the way we wanted to and not the way either of us needed. (If that makes sense). Once we figured it out and tweaked a few things, our relationship really transformed for the better. 🥰
This is a guy like myself. Say less and do more. In a relationship, I might not be the most vocal person but I'm a great listener and I keep mental notes on what my partner wants.
Honestly knowing there's still women like this kinda restores a little faith because i think most men are afraid to commit more than ever because of the common mindset of women these days from my conversations with other men it seems that were the ones looking for love and relationships more than the women are nowadays
@@StullaKingKuul yea I dated a woman for two years, after the 5th date I try to be exclusive she didnt want that, when I told her what I bring to the table, she said she that is fine unless she gets a better offer.,
@@Sagefrakrobatik my only advice is don't let a woman make you a option on the other hand i know what it's like to choose your ideal woman but that's not reciprocated
The reason why it worked was because she was open to looking at herself and make corrections to understand not only her own flaws but understand the way her man loves and operates. So many women expect men to come into a relationship and work to understand them and they don't have to work try to understand their man. For some it takes years of loneliness to be broken enough to look at themselves and their own flaws and figure out they have to do just as much mental and emotional work as their partner.
I totally get it. Something so simple as getting her deodorant means so much. It like my husband getting me peaches from the peach truck because he knows they are my favorite, or a new pair of work shoes showing up because he noticed it was time for a new pair.
I dont take my private life on social media. I want to be able to keep some things private. Like i told my wife, I find it unsettling that someone I don't know can go through my social media and know all about me and not know me at all. But each to his own.
You see through this nonsense as well; bully for you. We are definitely in the minority, judging from the comments. I think she is extremely self centered and conning this man, along with the viewers here.
While I hella disagree on the fact that she's a baddie, kudos to them & dude valuing himself & not simpin' out like so many are prone to these days. Just goes to show how valuable your self and having some integrity can go quite a long way.
In other words, what she's saying is that he was something outside the norm of what she was used to. It's really the opposite of what a lot of girls do. They're stuck in the hamster's wheel because they want a guy to be a particular way, they have demands and needs and when they aren't met, they look for someone to do that for them. Whereas she saw that this man was willing to do those things, but on his terms and she saw that he valued her for who he saw and not what she saw her value was at. This is essentially the girl falling for the guy in the friend-zone because she saw what she needed and not what she wanted.
❤ Everything she’s saying. I’ve actually found that one that’s not like what I’ve had before. I feel what she’s saying. I completely understand everything.
This may have seemed simple for many, but in truth, the guy completely understood her love language. On the other hand, she still seems to have a strong personality which he may find challenging the future.
I'm glad she see's his love language so early. Especially this type. Women marry these guys then later cheat/leave them for these talkers. Just to realise how much her now ex husband did for her to live a more comfortable, not meaning financial wise but day to day lifestyle. Where these talkers ain't sh1t. I always feel it's the little things that count.
“He didn't over validate and challenges her. He lives his best life, brings her along for the ride... She learned how to listen to him and learn how to trust what he's saying.” Word for word that is exactly what I am looking for a man for me to fallow. Though I know I need to get that experience up of talking to guys and learning to listen to them correctly. Very good video! Thank you A Different Perspective!!!
My current SO, is very differnet from men I have dated or interacted in the past. He compliments me and I compliment him back. I dont really care about words and stuff, its appreciated but I need more than that. My partner does that. We couldnt get together on valentines day but we promised to watch a movie together He made sure it happened and he still managed to send me flowers to surprise me. Listen I am not a person that likes recieving gifts I rather give em, but its the thoughtfulness behind it and he is actively pursuing me not in a simpish way he calls me out when I'm wrong and I accept the correction cause I know he's not doing it to hurt me. I call him out when he does something assholery like stuff we talk it out and take the steps to change. its like the thoughtfullness put behind his actions make the relationship so much more worth it! so I get what this lady is saying. Who needs words only? Words are like sugar, sweet without much substance. Add some of that sugar to a hearty sauce and pour that over a whole cooked meal that can fill you up and add to your health? totally different.
My only issue I’ve done both said things and backed them and it’s gotten me used and lied to so it’s a gamble finding the one who sees a future with a person
Exactly!!! Word’s without substance or actions can be useless. We’ve (me & hubs) have always been about your word is your bond and you do what you say you’re going to, taught it to my son’s also. I love how you put this!
I'm glad you said "that is if you got that type of woman who is appreciative." Causes honestly I've met some women who just want to indulge in constant hardship and drama all the the time. And any time I have given sound solutions or took my fastness to produce an unwanted answer either it be financially or physical hard work I was met with a stone wall and told "I don't need you to do anything I just need you to listen" like a unpaid therapist 🤦🏽♂️. Seriously, does anyone no just how depressing that is? Because more times out of ten I just end up saying F this I'm out. So he's lucky to of met a woman like that. I guess I've just never had that type of luck.
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Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
She said - I have a huge ego and it needs to be stroked. Major red flag! That ego is going to pop its head out every once in awhile throughout their relationship, not to mention how she's going to be at the end of their relationship.
I am confused. He didn't "simp" but he was being really nice to this egotistical women. Why didn't he just leave at first? The comment about him seemingly not paying attention is another warning sign. If you pay attention to her words, then you will realize that the only reason she learned that he was listening was that he bought her the deodorant without saying anything. She wanted him to respond with 'I will buy you the deodorant you like' or something of that nature. In either scenario, she was fully expecting him to buy her deodorant. Instead of directly communicating by asking politely, she mentioned a comment and expected him to answer. Example: "I have been wanting sushi for a long time" instead of asking "I have been wanting sushi for a long time. May we get sushi soon?" My confusion lies in that he didn't simp, but it sounds like he landed a bad person rather than a "baddie." She doesn't communicate properly and expects her partner to be a mind reader (most likely as a way to inflate her ego).
@@ghost245353 You are missing the point. A simp would tell her how gorgeous she is every morning and ask what he can do for her today. She is saying that instead of that he just listened to her saying she wanted to buy something and without making a big deal about saying he would love to buy it for her because he is a simp that he bought it for her. There is a huge difference. The part where she was saying he made her snowboard made it clear he was not simping her because a simp would never make her do something she didn't want to do.
The title of this video is misleading to me in a sense. The dude just did him and he’s not the talking type. If you ask me she’s not a baddie when it comes to looks department but I do love her mindset. This is example of two mature adults realizing what they want in life that’s all. Fellas when you’re on your purpose and find a woman who’s on her purpose that’s a magical thing that requires maturity to come together as a team.
1:56 I’d have to disagree, I feel like I’ve seen a ton of women posting their boyfriends on Instagram, Snapchat and TikTok and they also post stuff they do with them like going out to eat but other than that great video
Tbh it’s her that landed herself a good relationship because if you listen she says over and over “the old me” in which she exclaims that she changed her ways and I’m doing so realized this man was different. The issue is that he’s not that different from most of us other men but she didn’t allow the other men be themselves and they shut off
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5:00 no it's not about expressing love language. She was talkative because she was dating men who presented themselves a certain but their actions didn't match but when she met someone who walk the walk she didn't need to. Men complain about women nagging but if they did what hey were supposed to, women would not nag
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
This girl is 31. Is it that she found the right guy, or is it that she chose the nice guy after being pumped and dumped by many guys in her 20's? What do you guys think?
This is not about simping. Dude! This has absolutely nothing to do with simping. You all in the Manosphere are telling me that if a man is moved by a woman's beauty and tells her so that he is simping? Or if a man validates a woman's vanity i.e. stoke her ego about her attractively, he is simping? That makes no sense at all. I will say this: that she confesses that she thought she needed that level of attention to know her worth in a man's eyes because he wasn't saying how beautiful and how fine she is does give insight to HER and HER alone. It tells me that her man is a typical dude who expresses his love for a woman by actions - things he does for her. She learned over time who he is by learning his 3 most dominate love languages. It so happens that her dominate love languages had been overwhelmed by his most dominate love language traits and had coincided with his! That's what I see and have learned!
@@femimark5021 Who's talking about putting a woman or any woman for that matter on a pedestal? I certainly didn't. ArtofKickz didn't and the dude who got a banging woman didn't.
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Something my wife still brags to others about is when I made her a glass of ice-t when we got home after a long hot day of chores without being asked. It's funny to me because I always make her tea and she swears it doesn't taste as good when she has to make it herself. I knew she needed it but wouldn't want to bother me since I was tired too so wouldn't ask.
She's a keeper because there are females out there that would say after getting the deodorant, that's nice but that's not my brand or some bullshit like that. Trust me, I have been there and am still there.
That only works with smart women. Most women won't consider those deeper things some men are doing for them. Most of the time doing something good for women sets you up for failure because it will be turned into your duty, it will be expected and won't be appreciated. But once you find that one woman who notices those things without you saying anything and appreciates you, move in with her and if things are good put a ring on her finger.
Nah he didn't score himself a baddie. I thought something was up so I kept watching. This chick is literally still advertising herself while she's about to get married. If you fall for that trap, that's on you. She's not about to change and this is going to go downhill and fast. He made a mistake, the sooner he realizes it and gtfos the better. Plenty of hot women set this trap on guys all the time. Stop looking at their looks and look at their personalities, their actions, what they are doing, etc.
I don't know about this one. What's her body count? At 31, while she still looks good, she is exiting (or exited) her prime years. Plus, she did say the men she used to date were different than her current guy. Sounds like she had a taste for Pookie and Ray Ray.
@@otrebla8944 lol I've had like 50.. The fact she has no kids means at least she knew how to be safe. I don't care if she's had 69 bodies as long as I'm her last body. You know that female body parts don't stay stretched out right? A girl that slept with 28 dudes but hasn't been with anyone in a year is going to be tighter than a girl that has only been with one dude that has a big package and slept with her 30 times this month.
When people say baddie it doesn't seem right. Like it has the word bad in it which means not good so when dudes says "she's bad" I just be like you're setting yourself up for the worst meaning the girl is not good for you.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
I dunno......what I'm seeing here is not a man going above and beyond but a man that just treats his woman how we should all treat are women in a relationship. Listen to her, make her feel love and appreciated. She just basically talked about what he did for her and what she's doing for herself. Once again, you hear nothing about what she does for him. What I'd imagine is going on here is that she dealt with a bunch of bums before...after getting tired of being treated like crap, she finds a man that is actually doing what we're all supposed to do.....and she finally understands what a proper, healthy relationship is supposed to look like. I lowkey feel like the fact that she's stressing about what he DOES for her and how she was tired of men just talking and no actually giving her anything. There's no talk about how his character, his personality, how smart he is, he makes her think or evaluate her life...it's all about what he provides. I dunno..maybe I'm just a little cynical.
You need to watch again because she spoke about the snowboarding, which she cried when doing, and the body building challenge. Those are 2 things he liked that she did for him. im pretty sure there's more on her tiktok
She also spoke on how he corrects her and she realizes he’s right. I think what she was doing was speaking on his character, how he does what he says and comes through. I believe she wanted this video to be about him and how great he is and didn’t go into what she does for him. I bet other videos would show those things and more appreciation for him.
I love this channel. Love your content. But that one comment lol "a lot of times women try to keep their relationship off social media" ...??... bruh!!.. where you been the past decade?!? Lmao where these chicks at?!? 🤣 shit, half of em get in to a relationship JUST SO THEY "CAN" be on social media talkn shit. This all they do! The ONLY thing chicks dig more than participating in social media drama, is showin everyone on social media they relationship.
She is a narcissist I wonder how long is he gonna be able to stand it at that she dress like a street walker no man wants his woman on display like that..She doing to much
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Seems like she hasn’t changed about needing her ego stroked. Instead of having her potential partners doing it she now uses social media and bodybuilding as that outlet.
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This comment need more recognition.. She just wanna prove that she can get his validation too as an interesting challenge since she already got the thirsty ones validated and it became ususl/uninteresting
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You gotta be careful doing “ Nice gestures”. The wrong woman will take advantage of it. Example: I would wake up for work before my ex, I would iron my clothes and her work uniform as a nice gesture. On days I was running late and didn’t have the time to iron hers, I would get a phone call getting yelled at for not doing it. Blaming me for her running late cause she had to iron her own clothes. What started as a “ Nice gesture” turned into a requirement.
Oh yup! Unfortunately this seems to go both ways these days. Why can’t people just appreciate and reciprocate lol
Well.she got use to it, maybe u could have told her you couldn't do it so she wakes up early to.do.it. you are not wrong for not doing it but maybe justet her know on time. Because you did it often she was expecting it and did not prepare for the change.
@@bigNo13 That's understandable.
@@KingDavi1998 no it isn't 😂
Kindness getting taken for weakness.
The thing that sticks out the most to me is her self awareness and her willingness to adapt. She's fine as hell too.
Self reflection and accountability
She is not willing to adapt, please don't buy her nonsense. Actions =/= words. This is basically eye candy.
If only it was simple for every woman and man to find someone who challenges them to be better. I would love to be romantic to a woman, but I just can’t seem to find someone worth pursuing. I go out, and enjoy myself anyways regardless on if I find someone or not, I have to motivate and challenge myself to be better.
This ☝️ of more women understood, there wouldn't be so many rough relationships
I try to pursue to run into a list of requirements I have to keep but she doesn’t I just stop I’ve yet to meet someone who matches my energy so I just stick to myself
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together.........
What☝️app him now.
It is that easy. If you look good smell good an confident. Its crazy how the odds change.
Relationships based on mutual attraction and respect are very curious to people these days, especially the younger people. It’s like finding a hidden treasure that you didn’t think existed! Buts that’s the crazy part!
Having a great relationship is not as hard or elusive as people think. To have one though, a person must practice respect, preferably to the highest level, and lots of patience! And this is true for both men and women!
This illustrates when you give a woman what she really wants and needs(not what she thinks or says she wants), you bring out the best in her and most importantly, yourself.
My husband proposed to me on a Xmas morning when I was lying in bed sick. My husband is my king.
I enjoy the fact that a sis realize that she found a bro sis can spend the rest of her life with and what stuck me the couple "COMMUNICATES" daily
Confidence is key. Women can smell it from a mile away. And if it's not just you having a moment but it's actually your character, you'll win her or them over.
People can show things on social media but doesn't always mean it's true. I wish happiness and joy to this couple. I just say be yourself, don't be someone your not. It's easy to say I love you ,but it's the small things you do that really show love. If a woman does not appreciate that then move on. She will never be satisfied. I don't understand why woman want to be so difficult and then sit there and cry I'm going to be single forever. I found love at 50 years old. I wasn't looking it just happened. 🥰
i hope your happy in life with your new love :)
@@brandosshow3026 I am thank you.
Loving someone in their love language is key. My hubby and I had this convo (before we got married) and realized that we loved each other the way we wanted to and not the way either of us needed. (If that makes sense). Once we figured it out and tweaked a few things, our relationship really transformed for the better. 🥰
Over validating is just an ego boost on her behalf. I’ve always avoided women that constantly needed to be validated 24/7
Okay mama - home girl is humble 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is a guy like myself. Say less and do more. In a relationship, I might not be the most vocal person but I'm a great listener and I keep mental notes on what my partner wants.
Honestly knowing there's still women like this kinda restores a little faith because i think most men are afraid to commit more than ever because of the common mindset of women these days from my conversations with other men it seems that were the ones looking for love and relationships more than the women are nowadays
I think social media plays a big part, suddenly the girl has tons of attention from other men so the guy tries to lock in sooner than later
@@Sagefrakrobatik women used to prioritize getting a man to lock in. That's no longer the case, they're trying to upgrade us like a video game.
@@StullaKingKuul yea I dated a woman for two years, after the 5th date I try to be exclusive she didnt want that, when I told her what I bring to the table, she said she that is fine unless she gets a better offer.,
@@Sagefrakrobatik damn that's cold but i respect her flow lol she ain't tryna trick
@@Sagefrakrobatik my only advice is don't let a woman make you a option on the other hand i know what it's like to choose your ideal woman but that's not reciprocated
The reason why it worked was because she was open to looking at herself and make corrections to understand not only her own flaws but understand the way her man loves and operates. So many women expect men to come into a relationship and work to understand them and they don't have to work try to understand their man. For some it takes years of loneliness to be broken enough to look at themselves and their own flaws and figure out they have to do just as much mental and emotional work as their partner.
I totally get it. Something so simple as getting her deodorant means so much.
It like my husband getting me peaches from the peach truck because he knows they are my favorite, or a new pair of work shoes showing up because he noticed it was time for a new pair.
I dont take my private life on social media. I want to be able to keep some things private. Like i told my wife, I find it unsettling that someone I don't know can go through my social media and know all about me and not know me at all. But each to his own.
Same here and I’ll have friends that ask why I never post anything online but they just don’t get it
“I’m a Taurus.” Alright. I’m a speed racer, racing away from you.
You see through this nonsense as well; bully for you. We are definitely in the minority, judging from the comments. I think she is extremely self centered and conning this man, along with the viewers here.
It could all be that simple. I love what they have 👏🏽👏🏽
While I hella disagree on the fact that she's a baddie, kudos to them & dude valuing himself & not simpin' out like so many are prone to these days. Just goes to show how valuable your self and having some integrity can go quite a long way.
Completely agree. At most she's an average with a decent body.
I mean at the end of the day it's a matter of perspective that's what they "say beauty lays in the eye of the beholder"
Truth
Good for them I wish to see more relationships like this!🙌🙌🙌🙌💯
So beautiful. Many lessons to learn. Thank you for sharing.
You got everything right art of kickz.. Agree 100%
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Congrats to em wish em the best ‼️🙌🏿
It’s the little things that makes the biggest impact
In other words, what she's saying is that he was something outside the norm of what she was used to.
It's really the opposite of what a lot of girls do. They're stuck in the hamster's wheel because they want a guy to be a particular way, they have demands and needs and when they aren't met, they look for someone to do that for them. Whereas she saw that this man was willing to do those things, but on his terms and she saw that he valued her for who he saw and not what she saw her value was at.
This is essentially the girl falling for the guy in the friend-zone because she saw what she needed and not what she wanted.
❤ Everything she’s saying. I’ve actually found that one that’s not like what I’ve had before. I feel what she’s saying. I completely understand everything.
This may have seemed simple for many, but in truth, the guy completely understood her love language. On the other hand, she still seems to have a strong personality which he may find challenging the future.
Stuff like this makes me smile frfr. She gets it. Salute for this brother!!
Instead of looking up to City Girls, Doja Cat, and the rest of those toxic females. Look at a perfect example of what women should strive for. 💯💯💯
I dig the "No Cap" cap. Well done.
This was a great post brother! Gives me hope.
Acts of service is his love language. Mine is too. My partners love language is physical touch.
The listening goes both ways.
Snowboarding looks fun as hell. Congratulations to that couple.
I'm glad she see's his love language so early. Especially this type. Women marry these guys then later cheat/leave them for these talkers. Just to realise how much her now ex husband did for her to live a more comfortable, not meaning financial wise but day to day lifestyle. Where these talkers ain't sh1t. I always feel it's the little things that count.
She's good for the mind set 😌 ✨️
This is dope af.
“He didn't over validate and challenges her. He lives his best life, brings her along for the ride... She learned how to listen to him and learn how to trust what he's saying.” Word for word that is exactly what I am looking for a man for me to fallow.
Though I know I need to get that experience up of talking to guys and learning to listen to them correctly.
Very good video! Thank you A Different Perspective!!!
My current SO, is very differnet from men I have dated or interacted in the past. He compliments me and I compliment him back. I dont really care about words and stuff, its appreciated but I need more than that. My partner does that. We couldnt get together on valentines day but we promised to watch a movie together He made sure it happened and he still managed to send me flowers to surprise me. Listen I am not a person that likes recieving gifts I rather give em, but its the thoughtfulness behind it and he is actively pursuing me not in a simpish way he calls me out when I'm wrong and I accept the correction cause I know he's not doing it to hurt me. I call him out when he does something assholery like stuff we talk it out and take the steps to change. its like the thoughtfullness put behind his actions make the relationship so much more worth it! so I get what this lady is saying. Who needs words only? Words are like sugar, sweet without much substance. Add some of that sugar to a hearty sauce and pour that over a whole cooked meal that can fill you up and add to your health? totally different.
My only issue I’ve done both said things and backed them and it’s gotten me used and lied to so it’s a gamble finding the one who sees a future with a person
@@trustme7660 FUCK EM... off to the next one Men and women are expendable
Exactly!!! Word’s without substance or actions can be useless. We’ve (me & hubs) have always been about your word is your bond and you do what you say you’re going to, taught it to my son’s also. I love how you put this!
I'm glad you said "that is if you got that type of woman who is appreciative."
Causes honestly I've met some women who just want to indulge in constant hardship and drama all the the time. And any time I have given sound solutions or took my fastness to produce an unwanted answer either it be financially or physical hard work I was met with a stone wall and told "I don't need you to do anything I just need you to listen" like a unpaid therapist 🤦🏽♂️. Seriously, does anyone no just how depressing that is?
Because more times out of ten I just end up saying F this I'm out.
So he's lucky to of met a woman like that. I guess I've just never had that type of luck.
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Loved it!!!
@4:47 "Acts of service" is the term you're looking for :)
EVERYONE needs to hear her out
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I like this video! The 304's need to watch her Instagram and learn how to get a ring on that finger!
Shorty got mad cake🎂 😂🤣👍🍸
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She said - I have a huge ego and it needs to be stroked. Major red flag! That ego is going to pop its head out every once in awhile throughout their relationship, not to mention how she's going to be at the end of their relationship.
I Thought of that too when she said it. But only time will tell.
I think the fact that she acknowledges it she'll be humble enough for correction because the truth is all of our egos get out of hand sometimes
Using your "sign" to make excuses rather being a good human is low brow.
I am confused. He didn't "simp" but he was being really nice to this egotistical women. Why didn't he just leave at first? The comment about him seemingly not paying attention is another warning sign. If you pay attention to her words, then you will realize that the only reason she learned that he was listening was that he bought her the deodorant without saying anything. She wanted him to respond with 'I will buy you the deodorant you like' or something of that nature. In either scenario, she was fully expecting him to buy her deodorant. Instead of directly communicating by asking politely, she mentioned a comment and expected him to answer. Example: "I have been wanting sushi for a long time" instead of asking "I have been wanting sushi for a long time. May we get sushi soon?"
My confusion lies in that he didn't simp, but it sounds like he landed a bad person rather than a "baddie." She doesn't communicate properly and expects her partner to be a mind reader (most likely as a way to inflate her ego).
@@ghost245353 You are missing the point. A simp would tell her how gorgeous she is every morning and ask what he can do for her today. She is saying that instead of that he just listened to her saying she wanted to buy something and without making a big deal about saying he would love to buy it for her because he is a simp that he bought it for her. There is a huge difference. The part where she was saying he made her snowboard made it clear he was not simping her because a simp would never make her do something she didn't want to do.
The title of this video is misleading to me in a sense. The dude just did him and he’s not the talking type. If you ask me she’s not a baddie when it comes to looks department but I do love her mindset. This is example of two mature adults realizing what they want in life that’s all. Fellas when you’re on your purpose and find a woman who’s on her purpose that’s a magical thing that requires maturity to come together as a team.
1:56 I’d have to disagree, I feel like I’ve seen a ton of women posting their boyfriends on Instagram, Snapchat and TikTok and they also post stuff they do with them like going out to eat but other than that great video
Damn, she's a brick house. Good find brotha...👊🏽
Tbh it’s her that landed herself a good relationship because if you listen she says over and over “the old me” in which she exclaims that she changed her ways and I’m doing so realized this man was different. The issue is that he’s not that different from most of us other men but she didn’t allow the other men be themselves and they shut off
I love it ❤
Hey BBW'S 🤣🤣
« He goes way deeper » that’s what she said
Wow… encouraging
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Respectfully, she got some YAMS
11 the Commandment boys!!!
NEVER PUT WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL!!!
5:00 no it's not about expressing love language. She was talkative because she was dating men who presented themselves a certain but their actions didn't match but when she met someone who walk the walk she didn't need to. Men complain about women nagging but if they did what hey were supposed to, women would not nag
It's totally different when the baddie is attracted to you
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As soon as she said "I'm a Taurus so...."
Yeuch!
I'm out.
That’s a baddie? Damn, krazy
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😍bro would not take pictures with u if he didn't like you 💯👍
This girl is 31. Is it that she found the right guy, or is it that she chose the nice guy after being pumped and dumped by many guys in her 20's? What do you guys think?
she's 31 with no kids. I would call that a HUGE win. It shows that even if she got her freak on with many dudes she did so safely.
Pumped and dumped, she said it herself, she wants to have kids within the next couple of years and it has to be NOW
This is not about simping. Dude! This has absolutely nothing to do with simping. You all in the Manosphere are telling me that if a man is moved by a woman's beauty and tells her so that he is simping?
Or if a man validates a woman's vanity i.e. stoke her ego about her attractively, he is simping?
That makes no sense at all. I will say this: that she confesses that she thought she needed that level of attention to know her worth in a man's eyes because he wasn't saying how beautiful and how fine she is does give insight to HER and HER alone.
It tells me that her man is a typical dude who expresses his love for a woman by actions - things he does for her. She learned over time who he is by learning his 3 most dominate love languages. It so happens that her dominate love languages had been overwhelmed by his most dominate love language traits and had coincided with his!
That's what I see and have learned!
Put a woman on a pedestal and to another man she'll fall. A woman should never be in ur top three worries and priorities.
@@femimark5021 Who's talking about putting a woman or any woman for that matter on a pedestal? I certainly didn't. ArtofKickz didn't and the dude who got a banging woman didn't.
Moral of the story
If he has money
He is catch since he can upgrade her life
The more you spend the more she wants
It was never about love.
“I’m a Taurus and I have a huge ego” … astrology has these women in a chokehold
He done effed up giving her that marriagr.
She wearing a thot outfit.
This won't end well.
Her: I have a huge ego.......
Me: bye bye
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Something my wife still brags to others about is when I made her a glass of ice-t when we got home after a long hot day of chores without being asked. It's funny to me because I always make her tea and she swears it doesn't taste as good when she has to make it herself. I knew she needed it but wouldn't want to bother me since I was tired too so wouldn't ask.
She's a keeper because there are females out there that would say after getting the deodorant, that's nice but that's not my brand or some bullshit like that. Trust me, I have been there and am still there.
That only works with smart women. Most women won't consider those deeper things some men are doing for them. Most of the time doing something good for women sets you up for failure because it will be turned into your duty, it will be expected and won't be appreciated. But once you find that one woman who notices those things without you saying anything and appreciates you, move in with her and if things are good put a ring on her finger.
"I'm a Taurus---"😓 zodiac shit negates any "baddie"ness going on
Nah he didn't score himself a baddie. I thought something was up so I kept watching. This chick is literally still advertising herself while she's about to get married. If you fall for that trap, that's on you. She's not about to change and this is going to go downhill and fast. He made a mistake, the sooner he realizes it and gtfos the better. Plenty of hot women set this trap on guys all the time. Stop looking at their looks and look at their personalities, their actions, what they are doing, etc.
this was a good video
Another premier!!
I don't know about this one. What's her body count? At 31, while she still looks good, she is exiting (or exited) her prime years.
Plus, she did say the men she used to date were different than her current guy. Sounds like she had a taste for Pookie and Ray Ray.
I don't care about her body count. The fact she doesn't seem to have a child count at 31 is amazing. lol
@@ICP1SBJ so, you don't care if she, say had 28 bodies on her for example, you think she's alright?
@@otrebla8944 lol I've had like 50.. The fact she has no kids means at least she knew how to be safe. I don't care if she's had 69 bodies as long as I'm her last body. You know that female body parts don't stay stretched out right? A girl that slept with 28 dudes but hasn't been with anyone in a year is going to be tighter than a girl that has only been with one dude that has a big package and slept with her 30 times this month.
@@ICP1SBJ well at least you’re not hypocritical about the body count lol. Never could be me tho
When people say baddie it doesn't seem right. Like it has the word bad in it which means not good so when dudes says "she's bad" I just be like you're setting yourself up for the worst meaning the girl is not good for you.
Astrology is a black flag in my book. Immediate nogo.
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Shit is cute and he wants to court her but…..wat up with the chicks filling up their calendar like a temp agency 😂😂😂😂
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This dude got this woman talking about her chin hairs
Second and i was seconds before destroying " *That* "
Being posted all over SM means nothing. My ex posted me all over her SM cause the dude she was cheating with, his wife was following her.
she is fine !
Am I the only one who just did it set
Man I wished I was that lucky, how come we can't get a woman like that
Crazy
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PULLING HER CHIN HAIRS??? Wow she could have kept that part quiet
Am I the only one confused about that last one?? Like what was the purpose of her recoding herself at the gym not working out??
I was thinking "is she doing a commercial for the shoes". lol
@@warpedreflection3650 or strippers?? Lol
with that body, you can see she clearly does workout
She does bodybuilding..
Body builders are basically models who work out heavily.
If only it was that easy....*sigh
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Shout out to my quite guys that hate conversation. 😐🤜
I dunno......what I'm seeing here is not a man going above and beyond but a man that just treats his woman how we should all treat are women in a relationship. Listen to her, make her feel love and appreciated. She just basically talked about what he did for her and what she's doing for herself. Once again, you hear nothing about what she does for him. What I'd imagine is going on here is that she dealt with a bunch of bums before...after getting tired of being treated like crap, she finds a man that is actually doing what we're all supposed to do.....and she finally understands what a proper, healthy relationship is supposed to look like. I lowkey feel like the fact that she's stressing about what he DOES for her and how she was tired of men just talking and no actually giving her anything. There's no talk about how his character, his personality, how smart he is, he makes her think or evaluate her life...it's all about what he provides. I dunno..maybe I'm just a little cynical.
You need to watch again because she spoke about the snowboarding, which she cried when doing, and the body building challenge. Those are 2 things he liked that she did for him. im pretty sure there's more on her tiktok
She also spoke on how he corrects her and she realizes he’s right. I think what she was doing was speaking on his character, how he does what he says and comes through. I believe she wanted this video to be about him and how great he is and didn’t go into what she does for him. I bet other videos would show those things and more appreciation for him.
Was I the only one who realize that she said he pulls her chin hairs... so she got a beard? 🤔
I love this channel. Love your content. But that one comment lol "a lot of times women try to keep their relationship off social media" ...??... bruh!!.. where you been the past decade?!? Lmao where these chicks at?!? 🤣 shit, half of em get in to a relationship JUST SO THEY "CAN" be on social media talkn shit. This all they do! The ONLY thing chicks dig more than participating in social media drama, is showin everyone on social media they relationship.
why is she wearing heels at the gym? totally irresponsible.
Did that.... didn't work got played. If the modern woman would act like her, they'd see the 50% of good men been out there
She is a narcissist I wonder how long is he gonna be able to stand it at that she dress like a street walker no man wants his woman on display like that..She doing to much
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Seems like she hasn’t changed about needing her ego stroked. Instead of having her potential partners doing it she now uses social media and bodybuilding as that outlet.
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This comment need more recognition..
She just wanna prove that she can get his validation too as an interesting challenge since she already got the thirsty ones validated and it became ususl/uninteresting
Right
This is how all men should be when getting a woman.
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