She’s likely met good men in her life, but she chased them off as soon as she opened her mouth and started spewing that hate. No good man in his right mind is going to stick around for that🙄
a good man is stronger then a bad boy and girls don't' know that. The fact even tv shows and movies does this a lot should let women know being with a good guy isn't all that bad but because he is boring they try to cheat or make him look like the bad guy and force him to cheat.
I whole heartedly believe this comment, I’m single as well but I don’t have her mindset. I would just prefer to work on me and hopefully along the way the right one will show up. But I do agree with this comment 💯
Oh dear, I didn't realise that I've been in a terrible relationship/marriage for 40 years now!!! Thank you for telling me, dear lady. I could've been sad and lonely all this time, I just didn't know it. And even sadder, I have three beautiful children and four delightful grandchildren... All this happiness could've been prevented. I am just an old, traditionalist, NON-feminist paying the ultimate price for trusting and loving a man, oh the horror!!!!!
Preach! I’m so lonely and unhappy in my 4 year relationship with my high school sweetheart. I just absolutely hate that I’m having my first kid with the love of my life! I should’ve know you stay lonely and miserable like the lady in the video. What a shame, how dare I find a good man capable of being emotionally intelligent!
My relationship with my man is great 😊 we have ups and down but anyone single or in a relationship has ups and downs. I appreciate having someone to live with that makes the up so much better and the down not seem so bad ❤️ Men are amazing beings and I am a proud women to be with a man and to have a son with that man!
There's a lot of depression hiding behind those eyes. Quiet desperation and attempts to justify her loneliness. She makes it other people's fault instead of seeing what SHE can do to change things. She chose to take the easy way out.
Don’t you love how people who are miserable with themselves and probably have a tendency to always choose the wrong person project their own issues on everybody else?!. She’ll probably never grasp that her relationship issues are all her fault. It is the men she chooses and the men she tracks by who she is and the energy she puts off.
As true as that is some part of me feels bad for her because she’s probably going to die alone unable to understand why she can’t have a functioning romantic relationship
@@isaacthompson4915 sounds like a personal problem to me. Its unfortunate for her parents but as far as she goes, too bad so sad, natural selection is motherf**ker aint it? At least she won't reproduce and create more miserable meat sacks that will just drag down everyone else.
We almost always view the world thru our own personal prism, cheaters see others as cheating, thieves see everyone else as stealing, good people (that get taken advantage of) see everyone as basically good. Etc. My general rule of thumb is a person starts making accusations out of the gate....run man or woman.
To me how I know when she's truly fuckin up if she's that typical get with guys she likes but friend zone guys that like her type cliche knowing damn well that dude wasn't good for her but after him anyway
🤨Sad.... search women are toxic and no search result... or you'll be prompted that your search is hateful❗❗❗ Then search mean are toxic and notice ALL the search results.... smh 🤦🏻♂️🤔🤨🚨🚨🚨
It's crazy how she comes to her own conclusion without experience. Someone with no experience should be optimistic cuz u haven't been hurt so u should come with an open mind. Just say u selfish cuz being with someone takes energy and effort compared to being alone by yourself.
but thats the thing she was hurt i seen girls like her multiple times ugly girl who goes for pretty boys and get rejected over n over then she hate men
She said she was never in a romantic relationship. Her attitude and ways would never allow her to get that far. That’s why her heart is broken, but will never admit it. She’s smart enough to see it’s most likely never going to happen for her. But, if it didn’t happen not for her, then it couldn’t possibly happen for anyone else. That twisted reasoning is what’s keeping her sane at night.
Tbh I'm 23 only been in one relationship and I had her mindset until recently but we can only hope to find good partners but not everyone is destined for marriage
@@missfefeloves not everyone has to be in a relationship in life, but I fail to believe that anyone is truly happy living their life alone(as far as interacting with the opposite sex in a romantic or sexual way)
When I tell you I fucking died laughing listening to her!! I'm 22 and I've been with my man for 3+ years. We got an apartment together in September of last year and even though we'restruggling college students I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. My man adds so much joy and and laughter to my life. He does so much for me and I do so much for him. We don't ever argue because we can talk out our problems. He is very thoughtful and considerate and kind. I love everything about him and all his flaws. There are plenty of women out here who are very much happy and realistic about how relationships work. This woman needs to go to therapy immediately she needs help.
Emotional intelligence (EI) is most often defined as the ability to perceive, use, understand, manage, and handle emotions. Most men I know are emotionally intelligent. What women see as not being emotionally intelligent is our ability to manage and handle emotions; even *their* emotions. Most often in a relationship the man is the rock, he’s the one keeping everything when the woman is panicking, or catastrophizing. You see, instead of letting emotions control our thoughts and actions (at least, in mature men); we think logically, harness our emotions, and act reasonably. Women are having a hard time understanding our response to their emotions when they’re being irrational, and acting unreasonably. We can listen, understand, and accept their emotional point of view; but, we can’t be held captive their unreasonable actions that come those points of view. You see when men behave that way, there are more usually more consequences. Women seem to think emotional intelligence means being an emotional creature that can behave exactly the way they want at all times, but that’s not it. In a good relationship, practicing emotional intelligence means we behave in the way need, even if it doesn’t make them feel good in the moment. But, when you think the way this woman does, you’ll never get to that point with a man in the first place.
I'm 1000% happy WITH my man🙋🏽♀️ Not just love but IN love. Why is it so hard to acknowledge that we need each other as humans when it comes to companionship. Nothing wrong with being single but it's okay to want and need a partner. She seems lonely not just alone. Watching her try to justify that is sad.
I agree! I'm completely happy with my lady. Not just because of what I went through with my ex, but in spite of it. I can say from first-hand experience, giving in to and dwelling on the relationship adversities of your past will hinder your blessings in fruitful relationships for the future. I'm greatful I was able to let go of my hurt and let this woman in. Best thing in my life right now! #inLove
emotional intelligence: "the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically:" The part that interests me is "control one's emotions". If a lot of ladies have this skill, they wouldn't have a problem with approaching guys and facing potential REJECTION.
Agreed. They just can't handle the pain we have to deal with every single day by being rejected more than 65% of the time. It's high time they handle harsh rejections and grow from it. No one is immune to rejections, ever.
@Madama Belladonna lies…. if a women tells a man NO generally most of the time nothing happens why is it always the extreme brought up with you ppl !! STOP TRYING TO USE EXTREME CIRCUMSTANCES/ EXAMPLES TO MAKE A POINT WHEN A MAJORITY OF THE TIME THE SHIT DONT HAPPEN LIKE THAT!!! TF
@Madama Belladonna men and women both go through different things I could list ways guys have it bad like having to pay child support for a child that isn't yours being falsely accused of rape ect ect
The mental gymnastics that these women have to do in order to deal with their lonely existence must be exhausting. It's like a starving person saying, "You're pretending that your steak is delicious, but deep down inside you know that red meat clogs your arteries. I feel sorry for you!!!"
Yea she dead ass ain’t tryna convince us she tryna convince herself she’s ok. Like women do. This helps her get through the day. In person though I bet she’s really quiet and prolly can hold a decent conversation but deep down she is very hurt.
Its sad seeing people like this who choose to live their lives like this. No man in the right mind would want a women who acts like this. She sees her behavior as empowering but I honestly see her hatred as unjustified and very pathetic.
I heard my ancestors say “who hurt you child?”. My guess would be daddy issues. Her misplaced hate seems to be a reflection of how she truly feels about herself. Smh
I say, give her a megaphone and let her keep talking. She won't recruit good women to her side, only the ones teetering on the Feminist fence. Then guys would have a bad batch of apples removed from the bucket. One less hurdle to negotiate.
When you are actually happy, you don't need to go out of your way proving to the world that you are. It is the need to prove the lie is real and get attention that causes many of these types of videos to be made. I did find it funny that she attempted to feign humility but then destroyed the image in one sentence. You reap the fruits from the seeds you sow, only if the seeds are planted in soil that permits growth. The better the soil, the better the fruit. I see these seeds planted in concrete.
I haven’t experience a healthy committed relationship either and I still hope to find a man to spend the rest of my life with, it’s just not worth being alone and bitter because one chooses not to turn that negative lifestyle into a positive one…it’s not worth it at all.
No woman or man can be happy just because they are in a relationship. Happiness is internal and comes from the choices you have made in life that has gotten you to where you are. Being in a relationship can make you happy if you "choose" the "right" person to have the relationship with. The wrong person can make you miserable and unhappy so it's YOUR CHOICE to be happy or miserable. That's my 2 cents, Crap! Now I'm broke again. Luv to everyone. ✌out
Men, please remember the fact that if women tend to have an inflection/vernacular/speech pattern in a girlie youthful voice, it is an indicator of having had mental and/or emotional trauma occur at a young age that was not resolved afterwards.
Both questions are valid because you can't expect love without giving it back. A man that wants be be loved should be ready to give the love right back!
@@missfefeloves I understand and agree with you, But a man want's to be respected. A woman's love is bound to her feeling which is circumstancial, but respect for a man's respect is bound to her actions despite how she feels at the moment. So Yes we should show our love, but we need respect.
I love how she has such a defitive opinion and something she has absolutely zero knowledge or experience about. Unfortunately they seem to be the norm in modern American society.
I’m glad she has a platform. Truth is.. this kind of content helps me narrow down the potential POSITIVE relationships I intend to add to my life. I pray for her honestly.. it’s heartbreaking. I used to get upset long ago (15 minutes, tops) 😂🤷♂️🤦♂️ but after a bit of unbiased evaluation, it’s pretty obvious that even though you are using your platform to help men and other women become aware of these kind of people, we are in a sense only adding to the perpetual divide. Again.. I just 🙏 that we all find our happiness. Regardless of how that may look to another. Love can be defined in many different ways but hate.. hate always looks the same. If only she knew that she can be the way she is without the bitterness and malice. 🤦♂️ which tends to lead one to assume that either she is in denial or “not so blissfully” ignorant. However, that being said! She could possibly be sincere in her sentiments and convictions..But her affirmations will only lead her down a lonesome road. Be careful what you wish for, so to speak. Femininity seems to be just as toxic as masculinity but with a lack of either accountability or the desire to be a better person than you were the day before.. the equality you’ve been so eager to receive is being presented. It just goes to show how their priorities differ from those of us whom care to reach our full potential and elevate ourselves (as well as those loved ones who also understand what’s truly important in life.)
Yup exactly any guy with 2 working brain cells can tell off rip she’s a bit “troubled” an it’s a HUGE 🚩🚩🚩 so the decent ones with sense RUN an don’t look back!
Yes I’m single myself but I don’t hate men at all, it’s does get lonely sometimes but I don’t hate men because it’s doesn’t help much at all. Although I’m working on finding my other half so I’m not giving up, plus I don’t vent on social media it makes it worse!
Misery loves company and birds of a feather flock together. Leave these people to their own devices, they have nothing to lose, nobody who loves them, and will drag you down to the abyss. Leave them alone.
@@stephentrotter1653 yea mane those folks in real life. Couldn’t even hold a conversation with me. I leave them be. Cuz you can have the world too lose and they have nothing and nobody, they only around to bring folks down.
Patrice O'Neal said it best, a woman can never be happy unless the man is happy first. Problem is, they won't allow that to happen because of their own insecurities!
I resonate so much with what you said at first because I used to be like that .. took me a while to realize that the issue was a self-depreciating view that my subconscious (as it does) turned real. Took me a while to realize I do have worth, so I can only see that content you shared here today with pity.
Being alone is great when you want it. Like you said, it's the best company you can have. However, being alone forever is an unrealistic thing to expect someone to desire. That's the issue with women (and men) like this woman. She thinks she can happily be alone forever, but the biological clock starts ticking for everyone eventually.
Yes, if that alone time is to center yourself but even we armchair psychiatrist can see this lady has social issue so strong that she using unhealthy means to get attention and validation.
Already only a minute in an it doesn't matter what she's saying. I can see why she is single. I wouldn't want to deal with that either. To throw it back at her. Hardly any women have accountability and rational thought. 3:40 and the cats outta the bag. That's why you're single. You're gonna be one of these old lonely 70 year old women who die old and alone with no one to love you or care for you. You're so sour and unpleasant and haven't even been with a man. Misery loves company and this sad lonely woman wants to drag all the women around her down to her level of misery. Good thing she doesn't have kids. She'd raise them to be just as old and lonely as her.
She's young, and haven't lived life. Good men r out there. The energy u give ant the way u were brought up comes with the men u attract. ( The people u chill and hang with shows your true colors )
You know how women say to men if you're gay then just say that. That line applies perfectly to her. Poor girl never had a real man in her life probably come from a single parent home and just think every guy is like that. Goodness if only women paid attention to most guys and not just the 15%.
What she means to say is someone she absolutely adored broke her heart and she never found a man that could match that her energy. Poor child when these walls come crash 🤦🏾♂️
I honestly feel bad for the first chick She has never seen or experience a decent guy............ not even great just a guy that actually cared about her.
Don't feel bad. She probably had at least a few decent men ask her out but in her mind, she felt no spark, he was too corny, or saw him more as a friend. She passed over decent men for jerks who gave her wowzers in the trousers and ended up like this. That's all.
@@Netherwolf6100 Maybe..... but I kinda doubt the pookie and rays are really out for a chick that looks like that. There is a decent amount of chicks that literally get little to no attention from men.... not saying she is awful looking but wouldn't be surprised if that was the case. Maybe she got rejected a few times by the guys she really wanted and figured this was the aura she wanted to live life in
I'm glad for her. I hope she continues this track record until the end. In fact all men should support her decision to ensure no man even tries to be with her. Good luck to her she is definitely gonna need it.
This video reminds me of an episode on Dr. Phil with the young black women who said she hated all black men. Come to find out her father ended up dying and her mother told her he wasn't her real dad. 😮💨
I'm a woman that was single for years. I'm happier with my husband than I EVER was single. Having someone there to support and listen to me no matter what, share the happy moments with. Someone to love and care for. My husband is my world apart from my son. It amazing to have someone who understands me 100% the good and the bad. Also guys unless you love valentines day, find a woman that don't celebrate valentines day. My husband and I have never. We show each other we love each other every day, I would MUCH RATHER have my husband show me love everyday then go out and waste money on something that doesn't benefit us financially/relationship wise. Spend your time with me, don't waste your money on me. That's how we live our life.
She’s so self-absorbed that she has deluded herself into such a feeling of superiority that it would be impossible for *her* to have a good relationship with a man. She has obvious delusions of grandeur, which are associated with both bi-polar (during manic episodes) and schizophrenia. She needs help. I feel sorry for her.
This is so sad. It really makes me feel hopeless for society that there are people in the world so miserable that they have to tell themselves this. A lot of the men in my life are in fact thoughtful and considerate, and I personally am in a wonderful relationship. So sad.
Trust that she needs attention in her life, wether good or bad it’s the lonely epidemic bet if she gets that official 100%/3000mg of “vitamin D” she’d be thinking & talking different
You know clowns have two faces the one they paint on to dance around for the people and one when they are all alone. "The Sad Clown" isnt just a painting. Just knowing when shes at home alone at night with her thoughts and emotions, shes miserable crying for a husband. No one can convince me otherwise
this woman disturbs me. watching your videos always makes me laugh or go "thats so true." but this time it just felt like everything was messed up and in a sense "wrong"
My experience is that, when women say men don’t have emotional intelligence, what they actually unknowingly mean is that men don’t allow themselves to over indulge or be unwittingly guided by emotions. Understanding your emotions and putting a limit on how the word “feel” effects your life isn’t emotional ignorance.
That's a learned behavior, she clearly made a choice to go with "bad boys" over a well rounded man now, she's 100% sure no man whether he's genuinely decent man that *actually* cares and has a career or her favorite type "bad boys from the hood" or much worse than that. She only cares about the "status" as 70-75% of women out there. I wouldn't even waste my time with the attitude she gives off.
There will always be folks who spread hate. No well adjusted, logical person will jump on her bandwagon. Let the miserable keep company with themselves.
You and i both know that haters are going to hate.. everyone knows that.. all she has to offer the world is hate and discontent.. but she believes men are the ones who hate when she believes she is right
She has age trauma that has caused her to stop growing mentality ever since the trauma. If you listen to her you can pretty much figure out the age range she is living in her mind. Age 14 to 19 is more likely the age. She has the rebellious mindset of a teenager. She will have this mindset until she deals with her trauma. Many people dont carry themselves they way they should cause of age trauma. They experienced something that caused them soo much pain that their brain could not handle all the emotional signals. It began to shut down some areas to try to stop the pain from destroying the nervous system. That temporary fix was meant to be temporary but the person didnt feel any emotional connection to anything and when the systems were reactivated the person stayed in that place for comfort. They live with no connection to most things and hate seeing people connecting to things. Judging her will only make her go deeper into it. Praising and supporting her will create a God Complex within her that will cause her to eventually become violent and controlling. Right now she thinks she wants a man to fight for her and make her change her mind. She dont understand that only works in movies.
I'm sorry but I'm very happy with my man now and have been for almost 25 years and he's never forgot a birthday, anniversary of a valentines day. She's putting on a good front and she's probably jealous of the friends she has that are in happy relationships and she probably really just can't handle rejection. Personally I don't know what I'd do without my best friend, father of my son's and the love of my life, my man makes me the happiest I've ever been and has given me the greatest gifts ever my children. I wouldn't want to know what life is like without him and my boys. Her eating alone she really looks so miserable.
I think a big part of the problem is that women were sold a bill of goods of what men are supposed to be like, through tv, movies, ect. Then these women mature and disappointment sets in when they realize that prince charming doesn't exist. While at the same time still believing they are a princess, that deserves to be put on a pedestal regardless of what they do or don't do.
And there a plenty of women who care not a thing about Valentines and do not want nor expect something from their men on this particular holiday when their man is constantly busting his balls to provide. My husband and I have been married for 23 years and are raising our five kids, we literally have no time for or interest in a holiday that is for candy exchanges in elementary classrooms.
you know how i can tell when nobody likes to be alone is when a people break up with their partner and then gets scared and rush to the dating scene even after saying i want to be single again.
She's right. Every man will get tired of having to spin plates to keep her high on happiness. If a woman can't be content with being in reciprocating and respectful relationship then they deserve to die alone.
She's definitely taking it to the extreme saying everyone in a relationship is unhappy but its still true alot of people in relationships aren't but just stay for whatever reason.
Tell me your single and lonely without telling me your single and lonely ... lol the projection in this one is over 9000!!!
LOL
Facts
Nice dbz reference😂😌👌🏾
😂😂😂😁
What?! 9000?!
She’s likely met good men in her life, but she chased them off as soon as she opened her mouth and started spewing that hate. No good man in his right mind is going to stick around for that🙄
a good man is stronger then a bad boy and girls don't' know that. The fact even tv shows and movies does this a lot should let women know being with a good guy isn't all that bad but because he is boring they try to cheat or make him look like the bad guy and force him to cheat.
I whole heartedly believe this comment, I’m single as well but I don’t have her mindset. I would just prefer to work on me and hopefully along the way the right one will show up. But I do agree with this comment 💯
We actively avoid women like that
This is true
Facts 💯
“How can you hate from outside of the club? You can’t even get in” LMAO
"Don't try to recruit people to be lonely and miserable like you"
There is a reason for the saying "Misery loves company"
True.
LOL So Misery loves company….an roommates!
Spot on!😂🤣😂🤣
All them who agreed with her will be crying on TH-cam how they can’t find a man or wounded why no man wants them 😂🤣😂🤣
Facts
“When you are genuinely happy you talk down upon no one” FACTS
FACTS!
KEEP YOUR GIRL FRIENDS AND YOUR KINFOLKS OUT OF BUSINESS SAME THING FOR HER MAN LET GO LET GOD 🤜🤜👌
Oh dear, I didn't realise that I've been in a terrible relationship/marriage for 40 years now!!! Thank you for telling me, dear lady. I could've been sad and lonely all this time, I just didn't know it. And even sadder, I have three beautiful children and four delightful grandchildren... All this happiness could've been prevented. I am just an old, traditionalist, NON-feminist paying the ultimate price for trusting and loving a man, oh the horror!!!!!
Amen! I, too, could've avoided 24 years of love, companionship and laughter... How terrible!
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Preach! I’m so lonely and unhappy in my 4 year relationship with my high school sweetheart. I just absolutely hate that I’m having my first kid with the love of my life! I should’ve know you stay lonely and miserable like the lady in the video. What a shame, how dare I find a good man capable of being emotionally intelligent!
Also congrats to both of you for having such long lasting, loving, and I’m sure beautiful relationships!💕 I hope my fiancé and I make it that far🥰
If you're deluded, Riki, I hope you keep being deluded! Us men appreciate you.
My relationship with my man is great 😊 we have ups and down but anyone single or in a relationship has ups and downs. I appreciate having someone to live with that makes the up so much better and the down not seem so bad ❤️ Men are amazing beings and I am a proud women to be with a man and to have a son with that man!
Communication is key... am I correct?
@@beastmaster415 understanding/comprehension. Anyone can communicate but not everyone can understand and comprehend
@Madama Belladonna watch the video again and you will a contradiction to your comment.
@@onelastkast3 you speak what's on the bottom of a Snapple cap
@Madama Belladonna glad to see you've never had any type of negative experience in any way in your entire life.
There's a lot of depression hiding behind those eyes. Quiet desperation and attempts to justify her loneliness. She makes it other people's fault instead of seeing what SHE can do to change things. She chose to take the easy way out.
nail on the head there
Social media has done a ton of damage to the blk community 🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@dametreuspppp8734 To everyone not just blk folks wtf
Don’t you love how people who are miserable with themselves and probably have a tendency to always choose the wrong person project their own issues on everybody else?!. She’ll probably never grasp that her relationship issues are all her fault. It is the men she chooses and the men she tracks by who she is and the energy she puts off.
As true as that is some part of me feels bad for her because she’s probably going to die alone unable to understand why she can’t have a functioning romantic relationship
@@isaacthompson4915 sounds like a personal problem to me. Its unfortunate for her parents but as far as she goes, too bad so sad, natural selection is motherf**ker aint it? At least she won't reproduce and create more miserable meat sacks that will just drag down everyone else.
We almost always view the world thru our own personal prism, cheaters see others as cheating, thieves see everyone else as stealing, good people (that get taken advantage of) see everyone as basically good. Etc. My general rule of thumb is a person starts making accusations out of the gate....run man or woman.
To me how I know when she's truly fuckin up if she's that typical get with guys she likes but friend zone guys that like her type cliche knowing damn well that dude wasn't good for her but after him anyway
🤨Sad.... search women are toxic and no search result... or you'll be prompted that your search is hateful❗❗❗
Then search mean are toxic and notice ALL the search results.... smh 🤦🏻♂️🤔🤨🚨🚨🚨
I didn’t think people could get any dumber but tiktok keeps proving me wrong
This generation really amazes me.
Yep
It's crazy how she comes to her own conclusion without experience. Someone with no experience should be optimistic cuz u haven't been hurt so u should come with an open mind. Just say u selfish cuz being with someone takes energy and effort compared to being alone by yourself.
Big facts 🎯🎯🎯🎯
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This comment makes the confusion clear
Exactly, she’s never been in a relationship but is happy to conclude with her foolishness
but thats the thing she was hurt i seen girls like her multiple times
ugly girl who goes for pretty boys and get rejected over n over then she hate men
Somebody broke her heart and she can’t get over it.
She said she was never in a romantic relationship. Her attitude and ways would never allow her to get that far. That’s why her heart is broken, but will never admit it. She’s smart enough to see it’s most likely never going to happen for her. But, if it didn’t happen not for her, then it couldn’t possibly happen for anyone else. That twisted reasoning is what’s keeping her sane at night.
@@jimhills1920 man she is a lie only somebody that’s been hurt that bad is even thinking like she is
@@xoxoslim Probably.
Tbh I'm 23 only been in one relationship and I had her mindset until recently but we can only hope to find good partners but not everyone is destined for marriage
@@missfefeloves not everyone has to be in a relationship in life, but I fail to believe that anyone is truly happy living their life alone(as far as interacting with the opposite sex in a romantic or sexual way)
When I tell you I fucking died laughing listening to her!! I'm 22 and I've been with my man for 3+ years. We got an apartment together in September of last year and even though we'restruggling college students I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. My man adds so much joy and and laughter to my life. He does so much for me and I do so much for him. We don't ever argue because we can talk out our problems. He is very thoughtful and considerate and kind. I love everything about him and all his flaws. There are plenty of women out here who are very much happy and realistic about how relationships work. This woman needs to go to therapy immediately she needs help.
sooo when's the wedding? 😅
@@kthomas120109 check back with me at 24 when we graduate and move out the ghetto place we're in 🤣
@@melanin.beautyxiii 😂 I hear that!
Therapy can't help a made up mind 🤷🏾♂️
Well queen sorry to say but he gon be in yo life till u both next to eachother 6 feet under ground so get ready 😂😂😂😂
Some women LOVE misusing the word “gaslighting” 🙄🙄🙄
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And most importantly period that's annoying
And emotional intelligence
Which is ironically a form of gaslighting
Emotional intelligence (EI) is most often defined as the ability to perceive, use, understand, manage, and handle emotions. Most men I know are emotionally intelligent. What women see as not being emotionally intelligent is our ability to manage and handle emotions; even *their* emotions. Most often in a relationship the man is the rock, he’s the one keeping everything when the woman is panicking, or catastrophizing. You see, instead of letting emotions control our thoughts and actions (at least, in mature men); we think logically, harness our emotions, and act reasonably. Women are having a hard time understanding our response to their emotions when they’re being irrational, and acting unreasonably. We can listen, understand, and accept their emotional point of view; but, we can’t be held captive their unreasonable actions that come those points of view. You see when men behave that way, there are more usually more consequences. Women seem to think emotional intelligence means being an emotional creature that can behave exactly the way they want at all times, but that’s not it. In a good relationship, practicing emotional intelligence means we behave in the way need, even if it doesn’t make them feel good in the moment. But, when you think the way this woman does, you’ll never get to that point with a man in the first place.
Well stated!
I'm 1000% happy WITH my man🙋🏽♀️ Not just love but IN love. Why is it so hard to acknowledge that we need each other as humans when it comes to companionship. Nothing wrong with being single but it's okay to want and need a partner. She seems lonely not just alone. Watching her try to justify that is sad.
I agree! I'm completely happy with my lady. Not just because of what I went through with my ex, but in spite of it. I can say from first-hand experience, giving in to and dwelling on the relationship adversities of your past will hinder your blessings in fruitful relationships for the future. I'm greatful I was able to let go of my hurt and let this woman in. Best thing in my life right now!
#inLove
I love your comment...we do need each other....
Now if a man asked her "who hurt you?" Watch her sisterhood come and protect her
emotional intelligence:
"the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically:"
The part that interests me is "control one's emotions". If a lot of ladies have this skill, they wouldn't have a problem with approaching guys and facing potential REJECTION.
Agreed. They just can't handle the pain we have to deal with every single day by being rejected more than 65% of the time. It's high time they handle harsh rejections and grow from it. No one is immune to rejections, ever.
How much copium do you think those femcels sniff everyday?
@Madama Belladonna wait, isn't this video about a woman 'blaming all men' for the way she feels?
@Madama Belladonna lies…. if a women tells a man NO generally most of the time nothing happens why is it always the extreme brought up with you ppl !! STOP TRYING TO USE EXTREME CIRCUMSTANCES/ EXAMPLES TO MAKE A POINT WHEN A MAJORITY OF THE TIME THE SHIT DONT HAPPEN LIKE THAT!!! TF
@Madama Belladonna men and women both go through different things I could list ways guys have it bad like having to pay child support for a child that isn't yours being falsely accused of rape ect ect
Emotional intelligence is most often defined as the ability to perceive, use, understand, manage, and handle emotions.
"I don't see why you hating from outside the club.... you can't even get in" -Chris Brown.
The mental gymnastics that these women have to do in order to deal with their lonely existence must be exhausting. It's like a starving person saying, "You're pretending that your steak is delicious, but deep down inside you know that red meat clogs your arteries. I feel sorry for you!!!"
That analogy is spot on 🤣🤣🤣
Yea she dead ass ain’t tryna convince us she tryna convince herself she’s ok. Like women do. This helps her get through the day. In person though I bet she’s really quiet and prolly can hold a decent conversation but deep down she is very hurt.
Its sad seeing people like this who choose to live their lives like this. No man in the right mind would want a women who acts like this. She sees her behavior as empowering but I honestly see her hatred as unjustified and very pathetic.
I can save her
@@tyerannical3650 🎶 “don’t save her, she don’t wannabe saved” 🎶
As a single woman I do not claim this energy. 🙅🏾♀️
Neither do I.......she needs to take accountability for what's happening if she's not just on tic tok being stupid
This is what happens when you don't take personal responsibility ever
The first question that came to my mind was “who hurt you?“
“No woman can be happy in a relationship with a man.”
My fiancé and I beg to differ.
Nice grammar too! "Fiance and I" ✅️
Same❤️
She said she hates men let's hope she never needs a policeman ,fireman or doctor see where her hatred get her or will she show hypocrisy.
This is not just a cry for help
It's a damn Superbowl commercial for mental instability!
slow clap facts
The saying misery loves company comes to Mind
I think she would make misery....MISERABLE!!
@@errollpalmer9568 right 🤣
I heard my ancestors say “who hurt you child?”. My guess would be daddy issues. Her misplaced hate seems to be a reflection of how she truly feels about herself. Smh
I say, give her a megaphone and let her keep talking. She won't recruit good women to her side, only the ones teetering on the Feminist fence. Then guys would have a bad batch of apples removed from the bucket. One less hurdle to negotiate.
I've been married for 24 years, and my husband has never once forgotten an anniversary, birthday or Valentine's day. . . Not once. I have. He hasn't.
When you are actually happy, you don't need to go out of your way proving to the world that you are. It is the need to prove the lie is real and get attention that causes many of these types of videos to be made. I did find it funny that she attempted to feign humility but then destroyed the image in one sentence. You reap the fruits from the seeds you sow, only if the seeds are planted in soil that permits growth. The better the soil, the better the fruit. I see these seeds planted in concrete.
I haven’t experience a healthy committed relationship either and I still hope to find a man to spend the rest of my life with, it’s just not worth being alone and bitter because one chooses not to turn that negative lifestyle into a positive one…it’s not worth it at all.
your person is out there
No woman or man can be happy just because they are in a relationship. Happiness is internal and comes from the choices you have made in life that has gotten you to where you are. Being in a relationship can make you happy if you "choose" the "right" person to have the relationship with. The wrong person can make you miserable and unhappy so it's YOUR CHOICE to be happy or miserable. That's my 2 cents, Crap! Now I'm broke again. Luv to everyone. ✌out
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Some people are not looking for happiness, but for someone who can provide the amount of suffering that they are used to. -Alain de Bottom
Men, please remember the fact that if women tend to have an inflection/vernacular/speech pattern in a girlie youthful voice, it is an indicator of having had mental and/or emotional trauma occur at a young age that was not resolved afterwards.
Think before you sleep channel
You can tell in her eyes that she's not happy being alone! Remember this your eyes are the window to your soul!
If misery was a person it's her... Cause misery likes company
All I ever hear from women like her is "what can a man do for me?" These women never think about how can they love a man?
Both questions are valid because you can't expect love without giving it back. A man that wants be be loved should be ready to give the love right back!
@@missfefeloves I understand and agree with you, But a man want's to be respected. A woman's love is bound to her feeling which is circumstancial, but respect for a man's respect is bound to her actions despite how she feels at the moment. So Yes we should show our love, but we need respect.
I love how she has such a defitive opinion and something she has absolutely zero knowledge or experience about. Unfortunately they seem to be the norm in modern American society.
She's about to have a lot of cat's.
I wish she will live forever
I’m glad she has a platform. Truth is.. this kind of content helps me narrow down the potential POSITIVE relationships I intend to add to my life. I pray for her honestly.. it’s heartbreaking. I used to get upset long ago (15 minutes, tops) 😂🤷♂️🤦♂️ but after a bit of unbiased evaluation, it’s pretty obvious that even though you are using your platform to help men and other women become aware of these kind of people, we are in a sense only adding to the perpetual divide. Again.. I just 🙏 that we all find our happiness. Regardless of how that may look to another. Love can be defined in many different ways but hate.. hate always looks the same. If only she knew that she can be the way she is without the bitterness and malice. 🤦♂️ which tends to lead one to assume that either she is in denial or “not so blissfully” ignorant. However, that being said! She could possibly be sincere in her sentiments and convictions..But her affirmations will only lead her down a lonesome road. Be careful what you wish for, so to speak. Femininity seems to be just as toxic as masculinity but with a lack of either accountability or the desire to be a better person than you were the day before.. the equality you’ve been so eager to receive is being presented. It just goes to show how their priorities differ from those of us whom care to reach our full potential and elevate ourselves (as well as those loved ones who also understand what’s truly important in life.)
Genuine happiness is something we do find within ourselves. Understanding is what we seek through others.
@@davidj2074 agreed. All about perspective and being open minded enough to implement it as we mold our truths
I read the thumbnail and just LAUGHED MY ASS OFF. Somebody MAD BIG about valentine day. Omg I'M DYING LMAO'ing😂🤣😂
At least she’s honest. Finally a woman who is outright speaking her true thoughts.
she's an adult now
Yup exactly any guy with 2 working brain cells can tell off rip she’s a bit “troubled” an it’s a HUGE 🚩🚩🚩 so the decent ones with sense RUN an don’t look back!
She likes women and this video is her attempt to woo a weak one from her man.
@@rm5282 she might hate everyone
@@tekoabailey3243 exactly 🙃🙂
She just a sad lil baby,but she will come in Contact with someone thats going to change her mind...thats a promise God always confound the wise.
I think we have a Debby Downer in the room boys and girls.
Yes I’m single myself but I don’t hate men at all, it’s does get lonely sometimes but I don’t hate men because it’s doesn’t help much at all. Although I’m working on finding my other half so I’m not giving up, plus I don’t vent on social media it makes it worse!
Misery loves company and birds of a feather flock together. Leave these people to their own devices, they have nothing to lose, nobody who loves them, and will drag you down to the abyss. Leave them alone.
Fa real man
@@stephentrotter1653 yea mane those folks in real life. Couldn’t even hold a conversation with me. I leave them be. Cuz you can have the world too lose and they have nothing and nobody, they only around to bring folks down.
Patrice O'Neal said it best, a woman can never be happy unless the man is happy first. Problem is, they won't allow that to happen because of their own insecurities!
Imagine coming out as a dude and saying "I'm a misogynist. I hate women."
$10 says that wouldn't go over well.
I resonate so much with what you said at first because I used to be like that .. took me a while to realize that the issue was a self-depreciating view that my subconscious (as it does) turned real. Took me a while to realize I do have worth, so I can only see that content you shared here today with pity.
As soon as she said man privilege it was over.
If you have to rub how happy you are in someone's face, that's not happiness, that's bitterness.
It's funny how she is calling men emotionally unintelligent but she is doing what she claims men are
The fact that women think valentines day is about them and them only and them only getting gifts and men only ask them to be their valentines is scary
Someone hurt this young lady or she doesn’t have the ability to get a good man in her life.
The look on your face when you’re like “the things she has to tell herself…” ☠️
In fairness, there's a lot of time when a lot of us love being alone. It's the best company I can have.
Most certainly. But no one wants to have always been a lone and we’ll always be alone
Being alone is great when you want it. Like you said, it's the best company you can have. However, being alone forever is an unrealistic thing to expect someone to desire. That's the issue with women (and men) like this woman. She thinks she can happily be alone forever, but the biological clock starts ticking for everyone eventually.
Yes, if that alone time is to center yourself but even we armchair psychiatrist can see this lady has social issue so strong that she using unhealthy means to get attention and validation.
I don't mind having a meal at a restaurant alone. Go in eat and get out. And yes I am alone 😊. Boulevard of broken dreams.
Already only a minute in an it doesn't matter what she's saying. I can see why she is single. I wouldn't want to deal with that either. To throw it back at her. Hardly any women have accountability and rational thought.
3:40 and the cats outta the bag. That's why you're single. You're gonna be one of these old lonely 70 year old women who die old and alone with no one to love you or care for you. You're so sour and unpleasant and haven't even been with a man.
Misery loves company and this sad lonely woman wants to drag all the women around her down to her level of misery.
Good thing she doesn't have kids. She'd raise them to be just as old and lonely as her.
Would love to see have a genuine conversation with either you or MTR. Because she’s completely detached from reality.
A person just don't behave like this without some kind of backstory
Somebody abused & molested this girl, not one time but repeatedly 🤷🏿♂️
Wow! Someone really hurt this woman.
She's young, and haven't lived life. Good men r out there. The energy u give ant the way u were brought up comes with the men u attract.
( The people u chill and hang with shows your true colors )
I chill alone,
You know how women say to men if you're gay then just say that. That line applies perfectly to her.
Poor girl never had a real man in her life probably come from a single parent home and just think every guy is like that. Goodness if only women paid attention to most guys and not just the 15%.
And this is why Fresh and fit exist. This hate isn't gong to go one way. The whole thing is a mess.
They real suspect to me. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
@@truecrimes86 Both sides are BS.
@@eon001 I'm talking about Fresh and Fit. They real suspect to me FRFR 💯 💯💯
@@truecrimes86 fresh and are the exact examples of this women
What she means to say is someone she absolutely adored broke her heart and she never found a man that could match that her energy. Poor child when these walls come crash 🤦🏾♂️
I honestly feel bad for the first chick
She has never seen or experience a decent guy............ not even great just a guy that actually cared about her.
Don't feel bad. She probably had at least a few decent men ask her out but in her mind, she felt no spark, he was too corny, or saw him more as a friend. She passed over decent men for jerks who gave her wowzers in the trousers and ended up like this. That's all.
I'm willing to bet she did but turned them down cuz he's "too" nice. Most likely wants an argumentative and combative guy just like her. 🤦🏾♂️
@@Netherwolf6100 Maybe..... but I kinda doubt the pookie and rays are really out for a chick that looks like that.
There is a decent amount of chicks that literally get little to no attention from men.... not saying she is awful looking but wouldn't be surprised if that was the case.
Maybe she got rejected a few times by the guys she really wanted and figured this was the aura she wanted to live life in
I'm glad for her. I hope she continues this track record until the end. In fact all men should support her decision to ensure no man even tries to be with her. Good luck to her she is definitely gonna need it.
This video reminds me of an episode on Dr. Phil with the young black women who said she hated all black men. Come to find out her father ended up dying and her mother told her he wasn't her real dad. 😮💨
I'm a woman that was single for years. I'm happier with my husband than I EVER was single. Having someone there to support and listen to me no matter what, share the happy moments with. Someone to love and care for. My husband is my world apart from my son. It amazing to have someone who understands me 100% the good and the bad. Also guys unless you love valentines day, find a woman that don't celebrate valentines day. My husband and I have never. We show each other we love each other every day, I would MUCH RATHER have my husband show me love everyday then go out and waste money on something that doesn't benefit us financially/relationship wise. Spend your time with me, don't waste your money on me. That's how we live our life.
She’s so self-absorbed that she has deluded herself into such a feeling of superiority that it would be impossible for *her* to have a good relationship with a man. She has obvious delusions of grandeur, which are associated with both bi-polar (during manic episodes) and schizophrenia. She needs help. I feel sorry for her.
She's exactly where she needs to be. Let her live a life of misery if that's what she desires.
All that lunch video showed me, was that she has no female friends either. 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏿
We just have to be patient these types of women are removing themselves from the gene pool
Indeed connections are important.
If you hate men just say that
Her: Bet 🤣
"She ain't go no man! Get yo self a doggo woof woof"😭😭
I hope she meets the love of her life and ends up very happy in that relationship. She seems like she could use some love
This is so sad. It really makes me feel hopeless for society that there are people in the world so miserable that they have to tell themselves this. A lot of the men in my life are in fact thoughtful and considerate, and I personally am in a wonderful relationship. So sad.
Trust that she needs attention in her life, wether good or bad it’s the lonely epidemic
bet if she gets that official 100%/3000mg of “vitamin D” she’d be thinking & talking different
Vitamin d really can fix an attitude
@@arthurwatson8394 it really does. I second that
I didn't forget about Valentine's day. I remembered it was coming up and dumped her before the date
😂😂😂😂😂
You know clowns have two faces the one they paint on to dance around for the people and one when they are all alone. "The Sad Clown" isnt just a painting. Just knowing when shes at home alone at night with her thoughts and emotions, shes miserable crying for a husband. No one can convince me otherwise
You can’t be happy with anyone until you’re happy with you. She clearly spends her life online. She seems young, I’m not taking this seriously
She mad because no one wants to deal with her teeth
😂 I did even noticed that.
this woman disturbs me. watching your videos always makes me laugh or go "thats so true." but this time it just felt like everything was messed up and in a sense "wrong"
She’s telling the truth they aren’t happy
That last video of her.....I could see the sadness, hurt, and longing in certain moments
My experience is that, when women say men don’t have emotional intelligence, what they actually unknowingly mean is that men don’t allow themselves to over indulge or be unwittingly guided by emotions. Understanding your emotions and putting a limit on how the word “feel” effects your life isn’t emotional ignorance.
facts
A partner who adds to your life , male or female, is a blessing. We aren't built to be alone forever, we're community creatures.
That's a learned behavior, she clearly made a choice to go with "bad boys" over a well rounded man now, she's 100% sure no man whether he's genuinely decent man that *actually* cares and has a career or her favorite type "bad boys from the hood" or much worse than that. She only cares about the "status" as 70-75% of women out there. I wouldn't even waste my time with the attitude she gives off.
There will always be folks who spread hate. No well adjusted, logical person will jump on her bandwagon. Let the miserable keep company with themselves.
You and i both know that haters are going to hate.. everyone knows that.. all she has to offer the world is hate and discontent.. but she believes men are the ones who hate when she believes she is right
She has age trauma that has caused her to stop growing mentality ever since the trauma. If you listen to her you can pretty much figure out the age range she is living in her mind. Age 14 to 19 is more likely the age. She has the rebellious mindset of a teenager. She will have this mindset until she deals with her trauma. Many people dont carry themselves they way they should cause of age trauma. They experienced something that caused them soo much pain that their brain could not handle all the emotional signals. It began to shut down some areas to try to stop the pain from destroying the nervous system. That temporary fix was meant to be temporary but the person didnt feel any emotional connection to anything and when the systems were reactivated the person stayed in that place for comfort. They live with no connection to most things and hate seeing people connecting to things. Judging her will only make her go deeper into it. Praising and supporting her will create a God Complex within her that will cause her to eventually become violent and controlling. Right now she thinks she wants a man to fight for her and make her change her mind. She dont understand that only works in movies.
I'm sorry but I'm very happy with my man now and have been for almost 25 years and he's never forgot a birthday, anniversary of a valentines day. She's putting on a good front and she's probably jealous of the friends she has that are in happy relationships and she probably really just can't handle rejection. Personally I don't know what I'd do without my best friend, father of my son's and the love of my life, my man makes me the happiest I've ever been and has given me the greatest gifts ever my children. I wouldn't want to know what life is like without him and my boys.
Her eating alone she really looks so miserable.
I think a big part of the problem is that women were sold a bill of goods of what men are supposed to be like, through tv, movies, ect. Then these women mature and disappointment sets in when they realize that prince charming doesn't exist. While at the same time still believing they are a princess, that deserves to be put on a pedestal regardless of what they do or don't do.
And there a plenty of women who care not a thing about Valentines and do not want nor expect something from their men on this particular holiday when their man is constantly busting his balls to provide. My husband and I have been married for 23 years and are raising our five kids, we literally have no time for or interest in a holiday that is for candy exchanges in elementary classrooms.
She is a walking, talking CONTRADICTION 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🤯🛸
oh no. I agree with you... the fact that you had to say that to make yourself happy is sad
you know how i can tell when nobody likes to be alone is when a people break up with their partner and then gets scared and rush to the dating scene even after saying i want to be single again.
She's right. Every man will get tired of having to spin plates to keep her high on happiness. If a woman can't be content with being in reciprocating and respectful relationship then they deserve to die alone.
She's definitely taking it to the extreme saying everyone in a relationship is unhappy but its still true alot of people in relationships aren't but just stay for whatever reason.