"Yeah, I've been on hold for thirty minutes - I was assured this penis was backwards compatible, and it just...isn't. Yes, I've tried turning it off and then on again. No, don't put me on hold ag----dammit."
there are theories that in the future we will be able to transfer our conscience from one body to another so we'll basically be androids. sucks that if that happens it's too far into the future for us to live but at least future trans ppl will get easier access.
That would be very cool for a lot of people with genetic chronic diseases, like I could switch my articulations for android ones. That would be awesome. But, trans people would be so happy. This would be such a huge thing for them more than just “oh, my body works better now” to “I’m completely happy and feel comfortable on the inside and outside thanks to this”.
It's very, very sad that this sort of thing is encouraged and trying to be normalized as opposed to being treated and taken care of. Very sad world we live in.
Thanks for the video! This week, my daughter’s friend, who is an FTM, spent the night in our home because his mother has threatened to kick him out and has repeatedly made anti-trans comments. He was a perfect houseguest, but I’m very concerned about him and all the trans teens in quarantine in my state of Alabama, which is traditionally anti-LGBT. (I am a Catholic, but I see NO scriptural basis for anti-LGBT discrimination, period.)
Debby Really you're such an incredible mum, thank you for looking after him. I don't know much about resources in the US, but is there anyone to contact in regards to ensuring his safety? It's so heartwarming to see you caring for him. Much love x
Thank you so much for sharing Jamie. As a mom of a trans boy bottom surgery is a frequent topic and the biggest worry for myself and my son is, is it worth it. Finding people willing to talk openly about their personal path with surgery is very difficult. I appreciate your open honesty so much. Thank you again!
Haha.... "This isn't surgery on my bum".... When I first talked to my friend about wanting bottom surgery her response was "what? What on earth do they do with your bottom? 😂
When I first started questioning my gender a friend asked me if I wanted any body mods and I thought she said “bottom mods” and almost had a panic attack bc I thought she knew
I'm a straight woman that fully supports lgbt+, I found this to be very informative..because I like to learn more about the community since my friend is bi and some of her friends are trans so I wanted to know more to understand their situation as well..and that's why I love your channel it certainly helps me understand more and I just love your personality!
aww these are the best sorts of "disapproving" comments lol. It's nice to see people being like "ahh this person I like says this thing". It's so nice and conversational. Helps me hope even more for the future. Just in a situation where I don't have many positive people in my life, so it's cool seeing nice differences 💚
Even though I’m a cis woman, I had surgery on my genitals. The surgery wasn’t much and the Dr said it was the easiest surgery she’s done. So my surgery isn’t really equivalent. But my reaction after the surgery was the same. Did I make the right decision? When I first touched myself for the first time since the surgery, I cried and was scared of what happened. When our body goes through surgery, the brain needs to re-adjust. Of course the pain feels like it won’t go away and it’s very understandable to feel short term regrets. A couple days after my surgery, I felt freed and my life was much easier. Glad you feel the same about your surgery and happy that you’re happy. You are so strong and awesome.
Margarita M. No, my surgery was related to fixing something that was related to abuse. The dr said that I could live with the issue but since it was a reminder I got it fixed. I was able to be comfortable with myself again
Uh, I was just watching a video about how Cyberpunk 2077 is letting us customise our character's genitals... Then your video popped up. Perfect timing.
Through the surgeon I’m going through (since they are the only one in my state) you get both if you want Phalloplasty. I’m getting stage one in Jan (which is hysto and meta) and six months after I go in for stage two which is the Phalloplasty. I’m excited and nervous af! I wish I could get Phalloplasty only but their method helps lower your complication. So I’m trusting in them because they been doing this for over 20 years
I just wanna thank you for uploading what you do. I’ve known I was trans for 5 years now but I’ve only just really accepted it fully. Seeing how happy you are just gives me hope :)
I've waffled of bottom surgery. The whole prospect is terrifying and I have no doctors within my state that is even remotely recommended. I'm definitely getting top surgery.
Thanks for this, I haven't come out to my parents yet as trans (ftm) but I thought this was really helpful on the things I would want to do in the future (Ik my parents would be fully supportive bc i'm bi as well, but it just makes me really nervous to try and tell them ;-;)
If you're sure that you're safe and that they'd support you, I'd say just go for it. Because from my experience you might regret later that you didn't say things earlier, especially if it could be relieving dysphoria. But you do you, take your time, if you need it. Make sure you're safe and good luck!
Sebastian Braun Dude if you honestly think your parents will be supportive definitely come out as soon as possible. It will make your life so much better once you are out and you can start living the rest of your life as who you are. Obviously if you are really not ready then you don’t have to, but getting the coming out process over with as soon as possible is the best thing you can do.
@@taehyunsfairy1843 I have done it, and they were so happy, I feel so much better now, and today imma tell the rest of my family, thanks, I really appreciate this
@@sebastianbraun1187 That's good to hear! Hope your other family members will accept you as well. I've been wanting to come out trans for the longest time but I live with homophobes. Hope the best you for :)
I find it so funny that I’m literally a straight cis girl but I enjoy watching your videos and find it all very interesting. Also ur a very likeable person haha
I love these videos so much, they're so matter of fact without talking around things and super personal, it's really good to see the EXPERIENCE not just the PROCEDURE
I wishes we could just flip a switch and change bodies if they are not the right ones. Then people would not have to suffer so much pain. You're so brave. 💜💖😇💝
I just did some Google search images on Phallopasty and oh boy, it wasn't very pretty. The strength and courage to go through all that... Much more respect and love to you
A cis female here just to let u know I appreciate u and thank you for making educational and entertaining videos, I learn a lot from your videos and want to continue learning! Thank you!
Frequently watched your channel as I was in phase of internalised coming out. Coming back now, one year on testosterone, to look for emotional support / peer reassurance as I try to figure out "what now". With how closed-off a lot of medical personell is and how taboo'd the topic is in general, these videos are invaluable to me
I am a bisexual cis female but my friend is a closeted trans guy and I love watching your videos so I can learn about the trans experience :) love you Jamie
I love how happy you are! Honestly, you're taking my fear of bottom surgery... I didn't start T yet but soon I hopefully can and I know bottom surgery would be far away either way but I was always scared and confused and you certainly inform well and I am happy you talk about it
Thank you so much, Jamie, for sharing such personal information to help others understand. I have some trans friends, but I didn't want to ask them about this, as 1, it's none of my business, and 2, I don't want to ask them (to avoid embarrassment). After watching many of your surgery vids, I have a pretty good idea about the processes. You're such a blessing to the world!
Do you ever wish TH-cam analytics told you the proportion of cis Vs trans viewers are? Love your videos, they're so informative. Totally cis and my partner gets confused why I enjoy watching so many trans TH-camrs 😅
Just found this channel yesterday, really great to see open and out trans individuals sharing things, helps more than anything else i know of to normalize things that feel foreign to people
I'm 3 years on T, one year post top surgery. When i first started T, my doctor said "dont even think about lower surgery". I'm australian and we dont have any surgeons who offer phallo or meta here. I cant afford to fly to another country and pay out of pocket for lower surgery. At first i was fine with not getting surgery but at this point its getting difficult. I wish i could have access to surgery. Meta sounds amazing, i feel like it would help me so much.
I'm amazed that there aren't ANY surgeons that will do lower surgery in all of Australia. How difficult is it for a doctor from another English-speaking country to get licensed to practice in Australia? I'm thinking this is a great opportunity for a doctor from the UK, Canada, or even the US or South Africa to come to Australia and set him/herself up doing lower surgery for every transman who wants it. The surgeon would be busy for half of forever!
You are right -- vids about bottom surgery are difficult to find, not many people sharing their experience with your candid honesty. Thank you for being willing to share your personal details so others can have access to the info. Much love & respect Jamie
Very comprehensive, educational, and comforting. Your choices mirror the ones I hope and plan to make in the next five or six years, and it's really nice to hear you talk about your results with honesty and happiness.
Your openness and honesty is truly commendable. It's a type of bravery that is rarely seen, or executed in such a relaxed and playfull fashion. I aspire to have your levels of courage. X
Love this vid! Want your algorithms to be happy and love your content in general! Thank you for being so clear. There are a lot of surgical choices out there and it really is a personal question for how every individual how they would want to medically transition. Glad you are giving accurate info that the youths can access: it's important. you are the best potato! 💛🥔
I’ve been so curious to know what Shabba’s experience was like probably with this. Like what she did to cheer him up, care for him, & make sure that Jammie was as comfortable as possible
Your videos help me so much. I’m currently ‘confused’ about my gender. I say ‘confused’ because I’ve been hesitant to start physically transitioning (I identify as ftm). Just afraid of the possible regret I may feel afterwards. But as I’ve said before, your content truly helps me relieve some of that stress as well as brightens my day. Thank you for being so open about your experiences, Jamie ♥️
Hi Jamie! I recently found out that I am a trans guy and your channel has been so helpful and inspiring! I can't wait to start living my life as my true self, and I wanna say thank you for all that you do. Keep being awesome!
Thanks for being so open, and for the links to explaining. The diagrams helped so much being a visual learner. I had a hematomo from Laparoscopic surgery (abdomen) and that was 5 years ago and still feels like just last year, so I can only imagine what you went through with such a sensitive area. Hearing you talk about made me feel sore on my tummy but also "below" 🙈 ach. I'm glad it was worthwhile xx
thank you for this video. what you said did make a lot of sense. I've definitely haven't heard a lot of people talk about metoidioplasty, especially as honestly and simply as you do.
I saw you on OT's video's. Had a feeling you might be gay, but it never crossed my mind that you were trans. But then, I never questioned it either. I really don't care that much "what" people are. They're just people, and I like seeing them happy. When I was young I always was one of the girls. But brought up like a boy. It was unheard of to change that. My mother supported it, but society didn't. About 5 years ago I came out as NB. Probably would be trans is I was still young, but I'm too old to change anything. Even when my body grosses me out. It's always interesting to hear from trans people how they experienced everything. What choices they made and why. From what I heard from friends, and now from you, bottom surgery would not be worth it to me. The entire thing would be too much for the little bit of positive change I would have. And I'm okay with that. Me being grossed out by a male body has other reasons, that I won't go in to here. Thank you for sharing your experience! It really helps to get a clear idea what to expect for anyone considering transitioning!
I want to get metoidioplasty but I think I need to find more support in my life before I go through a surgery like that. Plus I just had top surgery 6 months ago lol. It was really hard to go through while living with my parents who are against me being transgender and against me getting treatment. It made it so much scarier and made recovery so much harder. It was like I didn't want my parents to see me in pain because I felt like they were saying "See, I told you this was a bad thing." Even though they didn't see how much it was going to improve my quality of life. It was a huge stress relief to finally feel like that part of my body was more authentically me. Probably the best decision I've made in my life so far. It just sucks that I didn't have support at home. My brother is supportive, but there's just nothing in the world that can replace a parent's love and support. It gets better and you can eventually heal but it's hard. I have to be my own parent and give myself the love I was missing. I just really wish I had a life partner so I could feel supported and loved by someone who I live with. It would just feel a lot less alone. I do have a best friend, who is almost on the same level as a life partner, but platonic. It's just not quite the same though. I dunno, I just want to have someone around me.
I'm glad your happy, mate :D I myself don't really plan on lower surgery. I have zero dysphoria regarding that and I kind of ignore that part in my life, plus I don't really like the two options, so I will pass on that :D
this video was extremely helpful to me, im planning on transitioning when im alittle older and when i have the money to and i want to get bottom surgery so you telling what your experience was really helped me
I've got a pre everything trans guy friend and honestly getting lower surgery is one thing he really wanted, but knowing that he'll never have a cis p at all is stressing him out so much. Any advice on how to help support him?
Abby Cork fake peens are great expensive but absolutely amazing, they feel and look real, I’m most likely gonna get a fake one because the risks are so high
This is the first video im watching of yours and my man, *inhales* you are amazing and such an inspiration thank you for just being you and now im honestly way more sure about this, thank you Ps just by looking at you and hearing your voice, i could never tell you're trans, tou are just amazing and im so proud if you and just, you make me feel like i can do this, i mean, yeah the surgery itself might hurt a lot and change a lot of things but now honestly im more sure now than ever that k want this too, thank you Jamie, you are my hero and if i could hug you through the screen your damn right i would
I don’t know if you’ll see this but you’re brilliant. I just love how open you are about your life. The world needs that. We all need that. We all need to be more open with each other, because that kind of communication could save lives. I do admit I have always had questions about transitioning that I was afraid to ask because I don’t want to offend anyone and you just put it all out there for us and it’s wonderful. If you do see this I have a question. I have a friend who is about a year into transitioning and she’s doing amazing, but I’m sure she needs support in ways I don’t know. When you were a year into transitioning what kind of support from friends do you wish you had more of?
Also I think your story could save and very likely does save lives. Thank-you for spreading understanding and humility. Every time I watch one of your videos I’m reminded of how amazing this world is when people are open with each other.
TH-cam many days when I have a supposedly stable internet connection: buffering every five seconds, despite the paler grey section of the video timeline that is meant to indicate what's loaded being long enough to imply two minutes beyond where I am in the video. Occasional complete crashes of the video & "a network error occured, please try again later" messages. Various other sites, all the time: perfectly fine until all of a sudden "could not connect. check your router and firewalls." TH-cam today: Oh, your dad told the router to reboot and your computer has just announced that there is no network connection? That's fine, we don't need WiFi to keep going! Seriously, I think a miracle occurred while I was watching this video. The WiFi connection being properly stable right before it mattered most, AND TH-cam properly using that connection, so that when there was no WiFi up, my computer had the information it needed to bridge the gap until the WiFi came back up 30+ seconds later? That never happens!
I never plan to have bottom surgery, but I’m watching the video so I know how to support any friends I may have in the future who may have, or just in case I decide to have it
this helped me a lot! actually, your videos help me a lot :3 i finally came up with all the surgeries I'll have :3 I'll go with meta with UL, without testes with vagectomy and top surgery :3
Gender confusion must be unthinkable. I personally believe that everything, both biological and not, were designed by a brilliant Designer. Simply look at the complexity involved in living organisms. To be confused about the way you were made has to be indescribable. We need more studies on this topic to determine the psychological aspects. The mind is more complex than the body, but if it's a mind issue and can be resolved, the body can remain intact. ❤
I had a chat with a trans friend who was happy to talk about his surgery, I feel I will be way more informed the next time I chat to him because OMG I feel like every question I asked was super dumb
There are many reasons why I want Meta, but another super huge plus is that you can still get Phalloplasty after Meta! So if you feel later on in life that your size does matter you still have future options.
Lol, I wanna transition, but I really don’t want it to be small. I want it to be at least medium, but I also wanna feel it. Anyone else feel like this?
There are so many “last time I was this early jokes....” in my head right now that I’m not gonna make but thanks for making this because I’ve spent a lot of quarantine just wishing I had a low voice and a flat chest and a dick and this is a small bit of hope for my future.
I want phalloplasty but I've been wating for this kind of surgery to be safer and have a more cis looking result and it's already happening! I hope to get it in 3 years tops!
But- ok. I don‘t hear anyone talk about this, but it’s actually pretty important to me: Sensation. Like, can you masturbate after surgery? Or do you loose sensation completely? Or just at parts? No one answers these questions in videos like this
I love how Jamie’s hair almost matches the iconic corner chair. Cheerful yellow aesthetic :)
The Sunshine King on his Sunshine Throne. :-)
Its very hufflepuff! And very sunshine!
A little more saturation and he'll be like a chameleon
Jamie invented the cliche that bi people like the color yellow
Certaintly not the yellow for cowardice.
I wish people where like computers being able to switch parts would be so much easier and people would be happier :(
"Yeah, I've been on hold for thirty minutes - I was assured this penis was backwards compatible, and it just...isn't. Yes, I've tried turning it off and then on again. No, don't put me on hold ag----dammit."
Tinna Gigja ...Oh My God
there are theories that in the future we will be able to transfer our conscience from one body to another so we'll basically be androids. sucks that if that happens it's too far into the future for us to live but at least future trans ppl will get easier access.
That would be very cool for a lot of people with genetic chronic diseases, like I could switch my articulations for android ones. That would be awesome.
But, trans people would be so happy. This would be such a huge thing for them more than just “oh, my body works better now” to “I’m completely happy and feel comfortable on the inside and outside thanks to this”.
It's very, very sad that this sort of thing is encouraged and trying to be normalized as opposed to being treated and taken care of. Very sad world we live in.
Thanks for the video! This week, my daughter’s friend, who is an FTM, spent the night in our home because his mother has threatened to kick him out and has repeatedly made anti-trans comments. He was a perfect houseguest, but I’m very concerned about him and all the trans teens in quarantine in my state of Alabama, which is traditionally anti-LGBT. (I am a Catholic, but I see NO scriptural basis for anti-LGBT discrimination, period.)
Debby Really you're such an incredible mum, thank you for looking after him. I don't know much about resources in the US, but is there anyone to contact in regards to ensuring his safety? It's so heartwarming to see you caring for him. Much love x
Thank God there are moms like you ☺️💛
In fact our “job” on earth is to Love. To treat others as we would be treated. To love God and to love others.
You are amazing, Im sure he feels incredibly lucky to have you and your daughter on his side
this is late but 💓 thank you for being so kind! how is he doing now?
You should name the day u had ur second stage lower surgery “D Day”
👏
Not trans but appreciate your honesty and also honesty in your relationship with Shaaba your both great
Thank you so much for sharing Jamie. As a mom of a trans boy bottom surgery is a frequent topic and the biggest worry for myself and my son is, is it worth it. Finding people willing to talk openly about their personal path with surgery is very difficult. I appreciate your open honesty so much. Thank you again!
Haha.... "This isn't surgery on my bum".... When I first talked to my friend about wanting bottom surgery her response was "what? What on earth do they do with your bottom? 😂
😂😂😂
People are imagining us getting obsessed with our bottoms, like coming to the doctor and asking “pLs InSpEcT mY bOtToM”
I'm just always watching and connecting with so many trans people that I sometimes forget not everyone gets the terminology 😂
When I first started questioning my gender a friend asked me if I wanted any body mods and I thought she said “bottom mods”
and almost had a panic attack bc I thought she knew
The language used is unnecessarily messy... Why not simply refer to it as lower frontal surgery or neo genital surgery???
I’m not trans, I have no trans friends. I’m simply just interested in this
Love ya Jamie ✨💗✨
same here bro!
Same! ^^
Someday, you will have trans friends. And having watched Jamie's videos will help you be supportive and kind and a good ally.
I'm a straight woman that fully supports lgbt+, I found this to be very informative..because I like to learn more about the community since my friend is bi and some of her friends are trans so I wanted to know more to understand their situation as well..and that's why I love your channel it certainly helps me understand more and I just love your personality!
That one dislike is Jacksepticeye because Jamie stole his spuds
Normally I'd say jack is too nice to dislike any of Jamie's videos, but, u right, he IS really protective of his spuds
😂
Oh why you gotta do him dirty like that
aww these are the best sorts of "disapproving" comments lol. It's nice to see people being like "ahh this person I like says this thing". It's so nice and conversational. Helps me hope even more for the future. Just in a situation where I don't have many positive people in my life, so it's cool seeing nice differences 💚
lmao
0 dislikes, as it should be
Unfortunately now there is one 😔😔😔
@Gs Super sometimes i feel like that's all it is, lol
7 ÷ 3000 ≈ 0
Sadly, now there are 7😕
AdrianAFilmmaker 😔😔😔
Even though I’m a cis woman, I had surgery on my genitals. The surgery wasn’t much and the Dr said it was the easiest surgery she’s done. So my surgery isn’t really equivalent.
But my reaction after the surgery was the same. Did I make the right decision? When I first touched myself for the first time since the surgery, I cried and was scared of what happened.
When our body goes through surgery, the brain needs to re-adjust. Of course the pain feels like it won’t go away and it’s very understandable to feel short term regrets.
A couple days after my surgery, I felt freed and my life was much easier.
Glad you feel the same about your surgery and happy that you’re happy. You are so strong and awesome.
Meggerz! Take notice!
Hi! Sorry, did you get labiaplasty?
Margarita M. No, my surgery was related to fixing something that was related to abuse.
The dr said that I could live with the issue but since it was a reminder I got it fixed. I was able to be comfortable with myself again
@@meggerz5687
You’re not a biological woman
@@nicosiabrown3934 she is a cis woman, she just got surgery?
Last time I was this early I thought I was a girl
a whole ass mood
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me too
What are you now ? I’m ftm trans 😋
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you’re so good at making educational yet entertaining videos I love them
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exactly, he explains things well while not being overly detail-oriented so as to be boring
Your profile pic is EVERYTHING
Freya S i was thinking of changing it to dan howell playing cards against humanity, holding up a card saying “bees?” what do you think
emo_spoon that sound even better😂change it and if you don’t like it you can always change it back
"the whole aesthetic down there"
i, too, enjoy my aesthetic downstairs.
I watched this in the middle of the night and straight up said “ah yes the penis aesthetic”
Uh, I was just watching a video about how Cyberpunk 2077 is letting us customise our character's genitals...
Then your video popped up.
Perfect timing.
@Lone Boomkin yong yea?
@@MaxTax_ Yong Yea indeed!
"I don't wanna get sad over stuff I can't change"
Thank you for this video, it was really informative yet entertaining
Not a trans person but I’ve always found this things very interesting 😂 Thanks for this video!
Me too! It's interesting to see them!
It is important for us, which are not trans to watch this kind of things. It make us more empathic, and comprehensive.
Don't worry about it, nothing wrong with being informed as long as youre respectful!
Love how open you are! It must be hard but we all appreciate it
Through the surgeon I’m going through (since they are the only one in my state) you get both if you want Phalloplasty. I’m getting stage one in Jan (which is hysto and meta) and six months after I go in for stage two which is the Phalloplasty. I’m excited and nervous af! I wish I could get Phalloplasty only but their method helps lower your complication. So I’m trusting in them because they been doing this for over 20 years
Best of luck to you!
I just wanna thank you for uploading what you do. I’ve known I was trans for 5 years now but I’ve only just really accepted it fully. Seeing how happy you are just gives me hope :)
I've waffled of bottom surgery. The whole prospect is terrifying and I have no doctors within my state that is even remotely recommended. I'm definitely getting top surgery.
Thanks for this, I haven't come out to my parents yet as trans (ftm) but I thought this was really helpful on the things I would want to do in the future (Ik my parents would be fully supportive bc i'm bi as well, but it just makes me really nervous to try and tell them ;-;)
If you're sure that you're safe and that they'd support you, I'd say just go for it. Because from my experience you might regret later that you didn't say things earlier, especially if it could be relieving dysphoria.
But you do you, take your time, if you need it. Make sure you're safe and good luck!
@@dontjayjayme thanks :)
Sebastian Braun Dude if you honestly think your parents will be supportive definitely come out as soon as possible. It will make your life so much better once you are out and you can start living the rest of your life as who you are. Obviously if you are really not ready then you don’t have to, but getting the coming out process over with as soon as possible is the best thing you can do.
@@taehyunsfairy1843 I have done it, and they were so happy, I feel so much better now, and today imma tell the rest of my family, thanks, I really appreciate this
@@sebastianbraun1187 That's good to hear! Hope your other family members will accept you as well. I've been wanting to come out trans for the longest time but I live with homophobes. Hope the best you for :)
i literally cant wait for the future, imagine how much happier trans ppl can be in our bodies :3
His voice could lul me to sleep it’s so nice
It keeps getting deeper.
I find it so funny that I’m literally a straight cis girl but I enjoy watching your videos and find it all very interesting. Also ur a very likeable person haha
I love these videos so much, they're so matter of fact without talking around things and super personal, it's really good to see the EXPERIENCE not just the PROCEDURE
Can we talk about how great his hair is ?
No.
The greatness of Jamie's hair is the stuff of legend
His hair is GOLD
@@tiefensucht Sad
Jamie: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.... wait. Everyone else: 🤨
I wishes we could just flip a switch and change bodies if they are not the right ones. Then people would not have to suffer so much pain. You're so brave. 💜💖😇💝
I just did some Google search images on Phallopasty and oh boy, it wasn't very pretty. The strength and courage to go through all that... Much more respect and love to you
A cis female here just to let u know I appreciate u and thank you for making educational and entertaining videos, I learn a lot from your videos and want to continue learning! Thank you!
Frequently watched your channel as I was in phase of internalised coming out. Coming back now, one year on testosterone, to look for emotional support / peer reassurance as I try to figure out "what now". With how closed-off a lot of medical personell is and how taboo'd the topic is in general, these videos are invaluable to me
You're an amazing man. Both you and shaaba are so good at being open about your lives. Thank you both.
I am a bisexual cis female but my friend is a closeted trans guy and I love watching your videos so I can learn about the trans experience :) love you Jamie
I love how happy you are! Honestly, you're taking my fear of bottom surgery... I didn't start T yet but soon I hopefully can and I know bottom surgery would be far away either way but I was always scared and confused and you certainly inform well and I am happy you talk about it
Check out videos by detransitioners. Many of them say they needed therapy, not hormones
Do you have to pump it up? I understand a pump is put in one of the testicles and you squeeze it
Lmao I misread the title as “bottom energy” like wtf is wrong with me. 🤦♀️
Thank you so much, Jamie, for sharing such personal information to help others understand. I have some trans friends, but I didn't want to ask them about this, as 1, it's none of my business, and 2, I don't want to ask them (to avoid embarrassment). After watching many of your surgery vids, I have a pretty good idea about the processes. You're such a blessing to the world!
Me, an amab enby, watching this
"Yes this information is critical"
Idk maybe it will be useful for when my boyfriend get his surgery?
Do you ever wish TH-cam analytics told you the proportion of cis Vs trans viewers are?
Love your videos, they're so informative. Totally cis and my partner gets confused why I enjoy watching so many trans TH-camrs 😅
Just found this channel yesterday, really great to see open and out trans individuals sharing things, helps more than anything else i know of to normalize things that feel foreign to people
I'm 3 years on T, one year post top surgery. When i first started T, my doctor said "dont even think about lower surgery". I'm australian and we dont have any surgeons who offer phallo or meta here.
I cant afford to fly to another country and pay out of pocket for lower surgery.
At first i was fine with not getting surgery but at this point its getting difficult. I wish i could have access to surgery. Meta sounds amazing, i feel like it would help me so much.
I'm amazed that there aren't ANY surgeons that will do lower surgery in all of Australia.
How difficult is it for a doctor from another English-speaking country to get licensed to practice in Australia? I'm thinking this is a great opportunity for a doctor from the UK, Canada, or even the US or South Africa to come to Australia and set him/herself up doing lower surgery for every transman who wants it. The surgeon would be busy for half of forever!
Hey ruler of spuds 😂 so glad you talked about this it was really interesting
im so happy you're happy with it!!
Ok so I’m going to try to remove the fifteen dislikes with my mind. This video has been rlly helpful thank you so much for sharing this
You are right -- vids about bottom surgery are difficult to find, not many people sharing their experience with your candid honesty. Thank you for being willing to share your personal details so others can have access to the info. Much love & respect Jamie
Very comprehensive, educational, and comforting. Your choices mirror the ones I hope and plan to make in the next five or six years, and it's really nice to hear you talk about your results with honesty and happiness.
Thanks for saying you're trying not to dwell on the things you can't control. I think that's really important, mental health wise
Your openness and honesty is truly commendable. It's a type of bravery that is rarely seen, or executed in such a relaxed and playfull fashion. I aspire to have your levels of courage. X
yay first comment, quarantine is getting me here early
Love this vid! Want your algorithms to be happy and love your content in general! Thank you for being so clear. There are a lot of surgical choices out there and it really is a personal question for how every individual how they would want to medically transition. Glad you are giving accurate info that the youths can access: it's important. you are the best potato! 💛🥔
I’ve been so curious to know what Shabba’s experience was like probably with this. Like what she did to cheer him up, care for him, & make sure that Jammie was as comfortable as possible
Omg. I loved this video so much.
Thank you so much for being open about your experiences, it's important for so many people, and thank you for your honesty and candor.
Your videos help me so much. I’m currently ‘confused’ about my gender. I say ‘confused’ because I’ve been hesitant to start physically transitioning (I identify as ftm). Just afraid of the possible regret I may feel afterwards. But as I’ve said before, your content truly helps me relieve some of that stress as well as brightens my day. Thank you for being so open about your experiences, Jamie ♥️
I started T today! Perfect video to be watching today, thanks for all your videos.
JOY Callicott congrats!!
Hi Jamie! I recently found out that I am a trans guy and your channel has been so helpful and inspiring! I can't wait to start living my life as my true self, and I wanna say thank you for all that you do. Keep being awesome!
2 dislikes?!? Wow already, why?
Jamie is such a nice person😑❤️
Because the assholes are in quarantine also. Nothing like COVID and a day of TH-cam trolling. (eyeroll)
Thanks for being so open, and for the links to explaining. The diagrams helped so much being a visual learner.
I had a hematomo from Laparoscopic surgery (abdomen) and that was 5 years ago and still feels like just last year, so I can only imagine what you went through with such a sensitive area. Hearing you talk about made me feel sore on my tummy but also "below" 🙈 ach. I'm glad it was worthwhile xx
OK but Jamie made my whole life better and easier he really helped me understanding and lurning day by day and I love him
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thank you for this video. what you said did make a lot of sense. I've definitely haven't heard a lot of people talk about metoidioplasty, especially as honestly and simply as you do.
I saw you on OT's video's. Had a feeling you might be gay, but it never crossed my mind that you were trans. But then, I never questioned it either. I really don't care that much "what" people are. They're just people, and I like seeing them happy.
When I was young I always was one of the girls. But brought up like a boy. It was unheard of to change that. My mother supported it, but society didn't.
About 5 years ago I came out as NB. Probably would be trans is I was still young, but I'm too old to change anything. Even when my body grosses me out.
It's always interesting to hear from trans people how they experienced everything. What choices they made and why. From what I heard from friends, and now from you, bottom surgery would not be worth it to me. The entire thing would be too much for the little bit of positive change I would have. And I'm okay with that.
Me being grossed out by a male body has other reasons, that I won't go in to here.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It really helps to get a clear idea what to expect for anyone considering transitioning!
I want to get metoidioplasty but I think I need to find more support in my life before I go through a surgery like that. Plus I just had top surgery 6 months ago lol. It was really hard to go through while living with my parents who are against me being transgender and against me getting treatment. It made it so much scarier and made recovery so much harder. It was like I didn't want my parents to see me in pain because I felt like they were saying "See, I told you this was a bad thing." Even though they didn't see how much it was going to improve my quality of life. It was a huge stress relief to finally feel like that part of my body was more authentically me. Probably the best decision I've made in my life so far. It just sucks that I didn't have support at home. My brother is supportive, but there's just nothing in the world that can replace a parent's love and support. It gets better and you can eventually heal but it's hard. I have to be my own parent and give myself the love I was missing. I just really wish I had a life partner so I could feel supported and loved by someone who I live with. It would just feel a lot less alone. I do have a best friend, who is almost on the same level as a life partner, but platonic. It's just not quite the same though. I dunno, I just want to have someone around me.
I'm glad your happy, mate :D
I myself don't really plan on lower surgery. I have zero dysphoria regarding that and I kind of ignore that part in my life, plus I don't really like the two options, so I will pass on that :D
this video was extremely helpful to me, im planning on transitioning when im alittle older and when i have the money to and i want to get bottom surgery so you telling what your experience was really helped me
Thank you for sharing your experience with bottom surgery. I appreciate your content.
Youre such a nice person and the videos r educational💖youre 1 of the first TH-camrs I followed your videos really helped me a lots!!
You’re very brave.. and I really hope that you are happy.
Something appealing about the word "B u l g e".
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@@luckypaolastudio8476 Oh. Thank you so much!
I've got a pre everything trans guy friend and honestly getting lower surgery is one thing he really wanted, but knowing that he'll never have a cis p at all is stressing him out so much. Any advice on how to help support him?
Abby Cork fake peens are great expensive but absolutely amazing, they feel and look real, I’m most likely gonna get a fake one because the risks are so high
How did it go?
Love your hair.
Honestly, saying happy birthday to your pp was so cute. :D Happy Birthday to... it? Them? Him?
Hiya Jaime - you're a lovely person and are just as you should be...hugs to you and Shaaba from The Netherlands!
You have shared many intermit moments in this vblog, good on you dude x
Thank you for making this video. Really helps to think about possibilities
sounds like a good choice for me too!
Nice video jam man
This is the first video im watching of yours and my man, *inhales* you are amazing and such an inspiration thank you for just being you and now im honestly way more sure about this, thank you
Ps just by looking at you and hearing your voice, i could never tell you're trans, tou are just amazing and im so proud if you and just, you make me feel like i can do this, i mean, yeah the surgery itself might hurt a lot and change a lot of things but now honestly im more sure now than ever that k want this too, thank you Jamie, you are my hero and if i could hug you through the screen your damn right i would
Jamie, your hair matches your favorite chair!
So glad your outside matches your inside!🤗
I don’t know if you’ll see this but you’re brilliant. I just love how open you are about your life. The world needs that. We all need that. We all need to be more open with each other, because that kind of communication could save lives. I do admit I have always had questions about transitioning that I was afraid to ask because I don’t want to offend anyone and you just put it all out there for us and it’s wonderful. If you do see this I have a question. I have a friend who is about a year into transitioning and she’s doing amazing, but I’m sure she needs support in ways I don’t know. When you were a year into transitioning what kind of support from friends do you wish you had more of?
Also I think your story could save and very likely does save lives. Thank-you for spreading understanding and humility. Every time I watch one of your videos I’m reminded of how amazing this world is when people are open with each other.
Thanks for sharing your experience, so happy for you :)
TH-cam many days when I have a supposedly stable internet connection: buffering every five seconds, despite the paler grey section of the video timeline that is meant to indicate what's loaded being long enough to imply two minutes beyond where I am in the video. Occasional complete crashes of the video & "a network error occured, please try again later" messages.
Various other sites, all the time: perfectly fine until all of a sudden "could not connect. check your router and firewalls."
TH-cam today: Oh, your dad told the router to reboot and your computer has just announced that there is no network connection? That's fine, we don't need WiFi to keep going!
Seriously, I think a miracle occurred while I was watching this video. The WiFi connection being properly stable right before it mattered most, AND TH-cam properly using that connection, so that when there was no WiFi up, my computer had the information it needed to bridge the gap until the WiFi came back up 30+ seconds later? That never happens!
I never plan to have bottom surgery, but I’m watching the video so I know how to support any friends I may have in the future who may have, or just in case I decide to have it
this helped me a lot!
actually, your videos help me a lot :3 i finally came up with all the surgeries I'll have :3
I'll go with meta with UL, without testes with vagectomy and top surgery :3
Hey are you going to be doing a video on awkward trans stories I submitted a story :)
Gender confusion must be unthinkable. I personally believe that everything, both biological and not, were designed by a brilliant Designer. Simply look at the complexity involved in living organisms. To be confused about the way you were made has to be indescribable. We need more studies on this topic to determine the psychological aspects. The mind is more complex than the body, but if it's a mind issue and can be resolved, the body can remain intact. ❤
Just a random thingie
I may be able start E soon🙃😊
Also love the hair
congrats!
You’re a national treasure ♥️
I had a chat with a trans friend who was happy to talk about his surgery, I feel I will be way more informed the next time I chat to him because OMG I feel like every question I asked was super dumb
There are many reasons why I want Meta, but another super huge plus is that you can still get Phalloplasty after Meta! So if you feel later on in life that your size does matter you still have future options.
Lol, I wanna transition, but I really don’t want it to be small. I want it to be at least medium, but I also wanna feel it. Anyone else feel like this?
Maybe the technology will advance and let this be an option
same 😭
@@hiimcrazyfordrwho yeah i hope so
There are so many “last time I was this early jokes....” in my head right now that I’m not gonna make but thanks for making this because I’ve spent a lot of quarantine just wishing I had a low voice and a flat chest and a dick and this is a small bit of hope for my future.
I want phalloplasty but I've been wating for this kind of surgery to be safer and have a more cis looking result and it's already happening! I hope to get it in 3 years tops!
Thank you for sharing your experience!
What an adorable cinnamon roll of a man! With such good content too. Followed
loving the hair!
I couldn't place why Jamie felt soooooooooo familiar to me. Finally, eureka! He looks incredibly similar to David Tennant.
But- ok. I don‘t hear anyone talk about this, but it’s actually pretty important to me: Sensation. Like, can you masturbate after surgery? Or do you loose sensation completely? Or just at parts? No one answers these questions in videos like this
“your penis cant have a birthday” is now one of my most favorite quotes