What Porcupines Teach Us About Boundaries | Henry Ammar | TEDxStGeorgeSalon

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  • @megannelsonwhite7003
    @megannelsonwhite7003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love the idea that boundaries are not just a "yes" or "no"--but a "how much." Brilliant!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Megan!!! 🙏🏻❤️💫

  • @IdosMedia
    @IdosMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Henry for president. 🙌🏾

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha Thank you!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @allisonwondersgars3715
    @allisonwondersgars3715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really love this talk. You talked about boundaries in a way I have never heard through porcupines, sweet spots and porcupines.

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for being such an incredible speaking coach! ❤❤❤

  • @JoyWu343
    @JoyWu343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Henry’s perspective on boundaries has helped me shift time and again. Boundaries are the start of personal power…thank you Henry!!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!!! For the comment and sharing!

  • @RosieAcosta
    @RosieAcosta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is one of the most inspirational talks I’ve ever heard! Henry is the real deal. A true gem and an inspiration for everyone.

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!! 🙏🏻❤️💫

  • @CiaraRocks22
    @CiaraRocks22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    HENRY! The best speaker ever!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw Thank you so much!!! For that sweet comment and for you!!!

  • @salahzahalan855
    @salahzahalan855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've never heard it put this way. WOW! What a great job. Opens up so much room for thought. Thank you Henry!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! ❤❤❤

  • @Lidmaj
    @Lidmaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Just incredible. You are a light in this world. If everyone in the world listened intently to this talk, their life would be a better one. Thank you!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so much! So grateful

    • @krystle824
      @krystle824 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@HenryAmmarI agree HE is amazing. He brought me to tears through revelation. Thank you so much! 💓 🎉 I am grateful to YHWH to find this message on today.

  • @Yahosh
    @Yahosh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow! Love this so much! Thank you for this!!! Amen amen!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Yahosh!!! So grateful for you! ❤❤❤

  • @katiehutselhealing
    @katiehutselhealing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Henry, you are incredible!!! Thank you for sharing your magic in this world. ✨

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Katie!!! ❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @TEDxCincinnati
    @TEDxCincinnati 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Henry, this is incredible. I love that you gave us a lesson on porcupines and boundaries!!!! Brilliant❤👏

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so much!!! So grateful to be a part of it!❤❤❤

  • @lindsayhadley299
    @lindsayhadley299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Henry is the walking embodiment of love and kindness. I’m so deeply grateful for him and his influence and impact on my life and the life of my family ❤

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much! Can’t wait for your TEDx talk to come out!!! ❤❤❤

  • @shelleyhenson8596
    @shelleyhenson8596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this message of love-based boundaries!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Shelly!!! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @megannuffer8905
    @megannuffer8905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The last 3 minutes of this is POWER!!!!!!! Will be playing this on repeat too fully grasp how impactful those words are!!! Must listen to the end!!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So grateful for you comment and energy behind it!!! ❤❤❤ Thank you

  • @elisewest3307
    @elisewest3307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ten minutes of wow. Wow. WOW! I couldn't take fast enough notes and listened to this a few times. Applicable to every area of our lives. This is profound and inspirational. Excellent speaker. Go Henry!

  • @megankirchhoff
    @megankirchhoff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is something about the 🦔 analogy that really helps me understand the concept of boundaries- you are such an incredible and insightful teacher!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Megan!!! ❤❤❤

  • @lighthouseprinciples
    @lighthouseprinciples 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So good - love the clarity between love versus fear based boundaries ❤

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @growthwise1358
    @growthwise1358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Henry is pure joy, love, insight, and inspiration. Keep bringing it, Henry!!! Porcupines and boundaries, baby.

  • @russdesomer5684
    @russdesomer5684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Henry, every time I hear you speak it is just what I need at that moment! I am so honored to call you my friend and mentor! Great job!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!!! It’s an honor brother!!! ❤❤❤

  • @thequeenkollective2589
    @thequeenkollective2589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You did absolutely amazing! Love this and you so much!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!! 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @jenpendleton2761
    @jenpendleton2761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yessss Henry!!!! You have truly changed the way I view boundaries and it’s life changing! Exceptional!! This is so good!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! ❤❤❤

  • @akramcoco1211
    @akramcoco1211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an amazing way to start off my day! Thanks for this. Really hits home. Appreciate all you do!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for listening and commenting!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @lesliekawai5095
    @lesliekawai5095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So good!!! Love-based vs fear-based boundaries! I love your three ways to determine proximity -This really resonates!! Henry, you are one of my favorite speakers/coaches! I always learn from you! So much energy! Thank you, Henry!!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Leslie!!! 🙏🏻❤️💫 636

  • @megannuffer8905
    @megannuffer8905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Henry is PHENOMENAL!!! I attended one of his courses years ago and still to this day I use his analogies and stories to help me set the love boundaries and drop down to my heart when I am going down a rabbit hole of unhealthy thoughts. This Ted Talk was exceptional as well and love the visuals he provides both verbally and physically. Thank you for being so great and love seeing you married and truly fulfilled ❤❤❤ you bring us all so much value.

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Megan!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @stacygeck1958
    @stacygeck1958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your light and love with the world. Your gifts are truly special.

  • @laurenldonahue
    @laurenldonahue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I completely resonated with your message Henry! Thank you for breaking it down in a digestible way with an action plan of how to operate with boundaries that are love based vs fear based! Such a valuable talk! Thank you for continuing to inspire and impact so many lives!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Lauren! 🙏🏻❤️💫

  • @dianah8301
    @dianah8301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an inspirational message! Loved watching every second of this!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Diana!!! ❤❤❤

  • @Latter-Day-Light
    @Latter-Day-Light 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great thought. Incredible sentiments!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!! ❤❤❤

  • @Theresa-p8v
    @Theresa-p8v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am happy for you Henry that out of survival mode you have transmuted to fullest extent of love where there is nothing but an endless supply of pure love and happiness and one’s life is so happy that another person is an addition not a need

  • @1GoodWoman
    @1GoodWoman 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally! Boundaries can also be used abusively in the yes/no space. The idea that there needs to be a redesign of the conversation about boundaries. Even by expanding the conversation to how much is very real progress and can be a joint agreement for a shared standard which I prefer to the label boundary. We need boundaries definitely for physical and true survival topics but then mutual understanding and communication for a vale based standard seems an additional label that can be useful for us all. Thank you for this.

  • @carolenamamea6773
    @carolenamamea6773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Ammar. Love this. Very inspiring. You're amazing and congratulations on getting married. You totally rock!!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Carolena!!! ❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻💫💫

  • @nastia50
    @nastia50 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!! ❤❤❤

  • @jalyndemoorsmusic
    @jalyndemoorsmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Henry, thank you for sharing this incredible message!!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Jalyn!!!! 🙏🏻❤️💫

  • @dyejo
    @dyejo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this man and love this sentiment! Much needed in today's world!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you John!!! So grateful! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @ErikStenbakken
    @ErikStenbakken 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great point that good boundaries allow us to go from REACTIVE to PROACTIVE. Powerful stuff.

  • @AuthenticCurtis
    @AuthenticCurtis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are Mind Opening concept around boundaries. Such a great TedX talk

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Curtis!!! So so grateful! ❤❤❤

  • @emilyallen5052
    @emilyallen5052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing!!!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Emily!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @PyperAmericaOfficial
    @PyperAmericaOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Henry

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Pyper!!! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @bmauli
    @bmauli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤This was great! Boundaries boundaries boundaries. So much to think about. Beautiful. I’ve never heard something like this before. Thank you!! ❤❤

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for listening and commenting Mauli!!! ❤❤❤

  • @CoachSadiq
    @CoachSadiq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    BOOM! 🎉 SUPER PROUD OF YOU BROTHER! Such an inspiring and thought provoking talk and loved the analogy of porcupines and boundaries!!! Such a powerful way to support people who struggle with this in relationships! Keep up the amazing work dude and continue spreading your love, energy and wisdom with the world! 😎🧠💫❤️🙏🏽⚡️

  • @Theresa-p8v
    @Theresa-p8v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Henry it helps hearing this so I may be the first in my family will start with ❤️ love and end the generational trauma that has been created and I will overcome this

  • @adamserrano1004
    @adamserrano1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow this is great Henry

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Adam!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @tracywright6437
    @tracywright6437 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing perspective for me dealing with boundaries in 2024.

  • @Theresa-p8v
    @Theresa-p8v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Henry it helps hearing this so I may be the first in my family will start with ❤️ love and end the generational trauma that has been created and I will overcome this. Sweet spot maybe the people outside one’s blood bond and be the spirit/ soul tribe that stick with me until the end

  • @keepcalm7097
    @keepcalm7097 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love the way he opened it

  • @thelifebeatsproject6052
    @thelifebeatsproject6052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Had some serious ah-ha moments listening to this! What incredible questions and criteria to ask ourselves in each of our relationships. Having been a part of one of Henry’s master minds I can truly say I learn from him in every exchange that we have.

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Briana!!! ❤❤❤

  • @kenzirose672
    @kenzirose672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good, profound and inspiring ❤ thank you Henry! You’re incredible!!!

  • @bernadettechute7998
    @bernadettechute7998 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this message

  • @micahbode
    @micahbode 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This changed my life

  • @rjidos1474
    @rjidos1474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My boi looking almost as good as me ;) This is incredible bro!!

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha yesssss 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 love it! Thank you!!!

  • @AlexisCS
    @AlexisCS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved it ✨👏👏👏

  • @HenryAmmar
    @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So grateful for this opportunity!

    • @LivinCaliforniaMalibu
      @LivinCaliforniaMalibu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Henry. ♥️Very grateful for your talk and message. Congrats on your Marriage.

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LivinCaliforniaMalibu Thank you Diana! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I appreciate you!

  • @kristianbelousas4891
    @kristianbelousas4891 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredible

  • @STARLIE
    @STARLIE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @HenryAmmar
      @HenryAmmar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @natalieduncan3791
    @natalieduncan3791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fabulous

  • @poorvadancedairies472
    @poorvadancedairies472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome video

  • @Obeeyay
    @Obeeyay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice man!!

  • @Theresa-p8v
    @Theresa-p8v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mom she loves me but she will never love me the way she needs to because of her unresolved traumas and emotions reveal certain boundaries i.e. love at a distance

  • @poorvadancedairies472
    @poorvadancedairies472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    V nice

  • @abeljimenez9529
    @abeljimenez9529 ปีที่แล้ว

    Henry what exactly is the inner circle again like who belongs in the inner circle ? I'm doing a proximity map for my therapist

  • @ziggypip2938
    @ziggypip2938 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🎊 🎉

  • @jamesbrantley8105
    @jamesbrantley8105 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like what he saying but I disagree with a little bit. Narcissistic peoples don't understand just a little or how much. I think if your healthy person then your yes or no is enough

    • @jamiebrown8435
      @jamiebrown8435 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s why it’s important for you to have your boundaries. You can’t do anything about their behavior. Only yours