How To Deal With Your Friends Making Fun of You
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- Do you ever feel like your friends make fun of you, put you down or talk about you behind your back? It can be a really awkward situation to approach because you don't want to ruin your friendships but there are a few things you can do to make it stop, which is exactly what I share with you in this video.
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Yep, I was the target of comic relief 90% of the time with this one group. One friend was nice to me when we were alone, but when they both were together they turned into dicks, and this encouraged other people to act the same way, like I was somehow at the bottom of some sort of pecking order. Every little mistake was blown out of proportion and dug up at a moments notice when the ball busting started up again, I constantly got interrupted, laughed at, and talked down to and over. What I experienced was passive bullying.
William Grand holy crap literally 100% what you just said is me right now.
William Grand what you said is literally me right now. I don’t know if I should talk to them or just say bye to them
Same and idk what to do cause I’m starting to get wicked pissed off
This is 100% me at the moment. Whe have agroup of 5 in school. One guy is like my good friend when we are alone but he ia dick when others are there. Every little mistake is reason to make fun of me the whole fucking day.
If any of yall are reading this and any one treats u like this ignore um and act like uon hear dont be waisting ur time on ppl like them and if they come up to ur face wanting u to respond just say "get tf out my face and walk away"
my friends say they love me but all i ever hear is “ur so stupiddddd” or “ur so dumb” and after a while it starts to hurt
My friend calls me retarded which i am not. I chase my dream and he doesn't like mine. But my dream is my business. So why am i called retarded?
There are two ways sometimes they prolly just want you to be better
sometimes are just being rude
if they call you stupid tell'em what makes you think I'm stupid
@@ahabrawgaming1289 yh when they say your stupid tell them why because they dont know why
@@martensnake2345 Some people can be just insecure or jealous, some people can really see why you're stupid. Not everybody is the same.
@@ahabrawgaming1289 yh i know
I'm just here because I got a terrible haircut and preparing for Monday
Abdi 161 the fact that the barber can't handle a hairline
Abdi 161 I was gonna see if anyone else did and what do u know 1st comment 😂😂
Omg same
xDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
I followed Soap's hairstyle cos it just fits me in Soccer Club, u don't have to style even, that way, they said it looks like the shit emoji,
I said, IT IS IF YOUR BLIND, they are absent MINDED, keep laughing at it, then I continued to be better than them, I said HEY NICE SHIT GRADES, KARMA'S A BISH
If they're really your friends they won't make fun of you.
Yeah. If you're always the target, then they're not your friends.
*****
I also don't have friends! But I have brothers, sisters and cousins who are better than fake friends.
*****
Oh maybe.
But still you can do deals with them if you're smart enough to fool them xD!
WHAP Entertainment exactly
Where In The World Would You Find Such Beings who "Won't make fun of you?"
I’ve always been the person you has to walk behind everyone on the sidewalk
I know what you mean then you start to think there they are not your friend
They are not your friends they are your enemy.
It’s hard to find a new ally.
True 🙂
Look at tv shows like Friends, Seinfeld, or That 70s show. I understand they’re not real and just tv, but they’re a reflection of how friendships can be in real life. They constantly make fun of each other, and are sometimes downright mean. But they all obviously care for each other as well because they go out of their way to spend time with each other.
Worse than enemies
Then i don't have any friends
well I think those are False friends, you know
Antonella A yes u r exactly right
Same with me
Antonella A Trust me not all of them are its just the way the act you have to earn respect
Antonella A yes
FRIENDS FROM ANOTHER PLANET
BEST RESPONSE
SILENCE
WHY?
BECAUSE IT DOES NOT BEFIT A LION TO ANSWER THE DOGS!
LG Gaming same
I've been silent when im being made fun of for 3 years now. Even when i try to respond im being silenced by them. I cant find new friends either I just dont know what to do i cant stand it anymore.
How to deal with your friends making fun of you:
1) Get better friends
my friends make fun of my hair and old self and even when i say “actually stop” or something like that they’re just like “chill it was a joke” and honestly i’m thinking of dropping them
im in the exact situation rn :(
Well make the right decision.
You deserve better friends who'll treat you right..
My friend are trying to get me suspended because there mad at me 😤😒😳
It's the same with me ;'(
Thats literally the same as me they made me hate my hair and I'm always dying it and changing it
bro i just feel like all my friends i’ve had forever are all ignoring me and making fun of me all the time. almost bullying me. they are fine if we are playing video games or something but at school and ESPECIALLY around girls i’m like the punching bag no matter what. i’ve always thought i’ve had a good set of friends but now i feel like i have no one
it fucking hurts
I don't know why people have problem with someone... My friends do make fun of my obesity and that's the I part I m not concerned of... But if someone makes me realise that ,"hey, you are the joke material or meme material of our group", then that part hurts me the most and I seriously end up crying some where in the corner and basically it ruins my day...
Elliot Alderson... I faced the same problem when someone made fun of my nose saying its too big.. 😂however I kept laughing at all those comments.. Until it got really serious I ended up. Crying a lot.... But then i realise that ignoring that person is the best thing u can do 😂... Now I am. Out of those rude comments completely... And alwys be kind.. And just give a smile... Its more stronger than what u react or. Respond 😋😋🤗🤗
I am having the exact same issue and I am really frustrated. I want to almost kinds hurt them because either attack me and my family. They say to ignore it because they make fun of everyone, but I take it more seriously. I can't do nothing but leave the group chat.
I wonder what ends up making some guy/girl the target of every joke in the group? Like what's it in their behaviour, psychology etc.
True
I can handle some certain things about me being laughable, but when I'm told that I, as a whole, am laughable, that's where I stop smiling
so sorry to hear that. just try to love yourself and appreciate yorself for who you truly are. remeber, if you DON'T FIND BEAUTY IN YOURSELF NOONE WILL. (AND THAT'S A FACT!)
I get bullied for EVERYTHING, just imagine you go to Primary/Elementary school and say "hey wanna hang out after school" and then your best friend makes fun of you not being allowed to hang out till after dark. And I just wanted to follow my parents rules. Then they say to the whole class "******** has strict parents, she has strict parents" (I bleeped out my name) I didn't want to lose a friend and so I just said sorry my mum/mom said I can't play with you. I hate my life
If anyone relates to this or has advise please reply.
I have been made fun of for 4 years
chunky munky 123 me since elementary
*Have
I have since yr 3( im in yr8 now) cuz of a crush i hate my life right now
Leonardo Decaprio But I Love You🤗(Not as A Gay! 😒)
Sameish
My problem is that I always get made fun of. It’s annoying as hell
If they constantly make fun of all the qualities that make you up such as the way you look, act, talk, walk and the way you dress, then they are not your friends and I mean you literally don't mean s*** to these type of people but a joke/clown; so as long as you keep entertaining these sick and twisted type of people, you will always keep getting hurt by them.
I had been made fun and called an idiot in school and tried to ignore it but it makes me cry and feel like I don't want to go to school anymore
Eduardo Garcia Bedolla same
Ok...dont listen to them...I was teased so much from my "friends" for so long. Then I got into hs and met better people. MEET BETTER PEOPLE!! THEY ARE RESPECTFUL AND ENCOURAGE YOU! Ok....legit though. Sometimes I see those "friends" and they say something about what im wearing and I totally laugh in my mind and brush it off now bc I know other people with actual respect for me and I know they would encourage me and BE NICE! Tommorow im seeing my "friends" again and for the 1st time im gonna talk back. Honestly they think their so special....they act 5...but anywayz....peace.
Same thing happened with me and I had to drop from the school.
Bro just roast them back
Dont ignore him,fck him
What friends?
Some friends:/
My friends made really rude jokes in class because I'm Asian I don't really look Asian but I am. And they made jokes like hey Josh open your eyes more. Hey Josh your vision is 20,20 ours 40,40 and they kept making fun of me. The rudest one was were you get those Asian eyes from your mother and I kept blocking my face with the iPad pretending to look at my eyes and say there not that bad. But in reality I was trying not to cry at the end of class I ran into a spare room and started balling my eyes out a teacher came in and I said to away
logan 4life their not friends they’re bullies
Duuude are you serious? You must feel proud about your eyes. I wish i was Asian. Its so cool. Stay away from these miserable bitches
same tbh they make fun of the language too they also make fun of me whenever I do anything and I try to be nice to them and its hard because I cant do anything about it I get ganged up on for no reason even when I don’t do anything they make fun of me
I can say you one thing
When they say yours is 2020 4040 whatever just say them you eyes are so weird like the hole of your ass... just see how their moth gets shut and you can be rude to them bcs they are your fake friends😟😟
I would punch the crap out of them till they bleed except it's at school but I still wouldn't care....... Oh my lord this is who my friends have turned me into.
Friends will be friends.
But friends could become freaks, even after years.
It feels like My friends is ruining everything I do. If I get in a relationship, they do something to make ut end.
Then they're not your friends. You should find better people because they're not the only ones. You have to make sure to avoid stress and find as much happiness as you can.
Same
“Fools are the people others gang up on”.
Guess I’m a fool everyday for every second of my life
This channel feels like a family. Feel great to be around here. Love all of you. Especially you Josh!
in my friend group, i’m always the one being made fun of for literally everything about me. it’s mostly from these two girls in my group and they get everyone else to join in. all my other friends are nice to me when they’re not around. it’s not like i can stop being friends with them because i don’t want to have no friends. i just don’t understand why it’s always me being targeted. lately the things they have been saying to me have gotten worse and are starting to make me feel depressed and insecure but i just laugh it off and it’s honestly so draining. with any other people i’m super bubbly and outgoing, when i’m with them i just get ignored and don’t talk much because i don’t want to be made fun of so they just make fun of the fact that i’m not talking. i don’t say anything since in the past they would just call me “sensitive” or get mad at me.
(lmao sorry this was like a whole rant)
u deserve much better bruh
SAME OMG. I genuinely thought I was alone with this. I'm a generally bubbly and random person, but people usually think that that's enough of an excuse to see me as this Clown figure and just call me dumb all the time. We deserve better man
It's better to have no friends than have those people as your friends trust me. Leave them they will drain your energy and affect your mental health.
Omg same idk what to do anymore tbh
I FEEL YOU, it actually affects me so much but i never say anything because i don’t know what to say without seeming sensitive or a killjoy
I always get laughed at 😭
And i try to just pretend im alughing too!
But i feel upset
And they laugh at another girl
And they make me be rude to her
But i dont want to
But they force me
And my friends bully me
I just wish i could go away
Or just not be their friends
But then everyone will hate me
Put them in their place. Say something bad about them. That they cant deny.
Accept them show them that your good and your improve.
Be humble no matter what
I have been in this situation before just find new friends that u trust and people that are nice
Relatable.
ME TO
I had a rough day today at school in this exact same situation and I found this very helpful so thank you Josh this helped me a lot.
My friends always tease me for no reason. I don't know why, but I'm always the butt of their jokes, always the one that is laughed at. Today they took my phone and rubbed tuna all over my bag and my blazer, ran me around until I was panting, made fun of my non existent weight problems, made me the laughing stock of the canteen and then had the audacity to call me a wimp when I left the area crying.
F em. Hope you got better friends
fuck those losers and get new friends ASAP
Those aren't friends the correct term is bullys
I feel bad man, I'm sorry
bro those are not friends I hope you dropped them, that's called bullying
I was really needed it. I have social anxiety, so they make fun of me and my behavior . It went awkward and had a verbal fight 2 days ago with my friend . After that we are not talking with each other.
If they don’t make fun of you, they aren’t your friends. Unless, they are just yelling shit at you
I’ve always been the one in the friend group that gets poked fun of for most of my life. It gets to me once in a while but I’m trying hard not to let it get to me. Especially in the times now where it’s a normal thing to roast each other. Still working on that!
I'm starting to think there's really something about me that makes people feel like it's ok to make fun of me but when they do it hurts my feelings and I'm not sure how to deal with it without having to "seriously talk" about it with them...
I remember i was at a sleepover, and one of my friends were making fun of what I watch on TV, but I didn’t say anything, I just sat there and did nothing because I felt very powerless.
Don’t have friends that make fun of you
you're smart for ignoring them, but i'm sorry to say, you are not smart for calling yourself powerless. my friend, in this crazy world we live in, you survive by ignoring the toxic and mean people you act like you don't care. when they''re tired they'll flee. so, you did the right thing. don't call yourself powerless. after all what's their business in what you watch????
My friends always make fun of me for literally anything I do and anything I like and it's so triggering because I had a bad livibg situation and my family did the same thing just a little more aggressive. Like one of them always makes dumb edits of my face and calls me stupid or dumb or idiot, and my other friend just laughs like it's funny. Like I cut my eyebrows off and she keeps making fun of me and the other one laughs. I have anxiety and I cant confronts people easily but I hate being called those things. Thats why I distanced myself from my family so I wouldn't care when they did something hurtful to me but I tried to open up again to people and have friends but it's the same thing. Everyone calls thinks I'm funny and I can make people laugh but everyone thinks I'm a joke. Like a clown or something. I'm tired of it and I'm about to drop them. It's not funny. I already have a lot on of mental health issues I'm just gonna block them or something.
I'm sorry my comment is so long I kinda needed to get that out.
My friend has been making fun of me ever since he saw that stupid picture of me covering my ears like a autistic person. Plz help
u still friends with him ?
My friends always makes fun of my past and they make me feel very angry and depressed.But when I tell them to stop because it hurts me.They wont stop and spread about it to all of people in the people including the teachers too.It about 2 years but the rumors about me never faded.Im always make a fake smile to keep it even though it very hurts and I still laughing even though I just want to cry.I hope no one been a same situation as me.I hope I can have better life but it impossible to turn back time to change everything
I was facing the same problem...but one day I decided to bully the bully....at the beginning I was not able to do that. buy afterwards I became expert in that...never tolerate or walk of frm bully bcz this makes them happy instead face the bully nd fight with him...slowly slowly u will develop how to tackle them...
My friends make fun of each other all the time, including making fun on me. A lot of them say I have an "IKEA cup head", a "Pinocchio nose", and a lot of other rude things. I understand they do this out of humor but my god does it get under my skin. I keep looking in the mirror convincing myself that I'm beautiful, or have good qualities, but whenever I do so I also then think back and say "Wait- no I can't think that, it makes me have a big ego or sound like a brat.". I talked to one of them about it and told her that it really annoys me. Her response was "You do it too.". You may think I'm lying, but only ONCE have I ever made fun of one of my friends. It was the same one I talked to about how I feel about them making fun of me. She makes fun of herself- saying she has a big forehead- I laughed and agreed. We just got into high school and I noticed them being more enclosed as well, leaving me out. Which you may think might hurt but - I couldn't care less since I know I deserve better.
Is That You Are Special, Just The Way You Are…🕊️
I mean it's strange, the main group of friends I hang out with always make fun of me everyday. But they are my only friends/ people I can hang out with you know? And I have to just endure all the remarks and insults just to be there. It's Hard and also really who else can I go to other than a girl?
king gut EXACTLY the same. I'm in middle school (this generation is fked up) and EVERYDAY people try to say WHAT ARE THOSE and with my other friends about that Oreo thing.
Same :"))
I wonder what is it that makes someone the target in a group? Like what's in it their behaviour, psychology that makes the situation like that for them
@@Tanishqkanojia1163 idk man trying to be too soft hearted...and i dont take insults much and laugh it off..i guess it is okay for them to do so...i changed my attitude and now everyone stopped
Josh, what if I accidentally called my crush a bitch?
make her / him a hotdog
How the fuck do you accidentally call someone a bitch?
she/he may have broke his heart, so he might not want to curse her but with anger he says it or types it.
I once called my crush that she looks red like my penis😂😂
I did the same thing
I remember when I had a freind in high school who was a bully to me but later on in the year he became my freind
This guy made this video the day that this happened to me 😂😂😂
Some times, i laugh it off and other times,drama some times it annoys me an can make my head hurts at times.But I'd personally enjoy have friends,some times i tease them but say wrong things too far based on the opposite side of friendship,I tell others there's parts of mei can not change cause it's part of who i am whether they either like it or not.They'd just have to accept me for i am.
That's the reason why I'm insecure- and when I tell her that she thinks I'm over reacting
sit her down bruh, and literally pour out how you feel to her. make her understand that people have insecurities and there's no crime in that. nonetheless, try to be proud of them.
@@LILY00711 tysm I rlly appreciate it
@@xospace-nu7lw all the best
My friends don't even care about me when I arrive at school. When my friend comes everybody cheers. They make fun of me and they also talk behind my back, they ditch me and start making up lies so I can't follow them. When I starting speaking they
tell me nobody cares. I don't have a best friend, or a friends that's there for me. This is why my life is depressing. I'm going. To try talk to them to make this stop
u should be having more likes and subscribers WTF????
I’ve always been the innocent and laughed at or commented on “friend”, and what sucks is that there’s that one “friend” who comments non-stop and has others agree.
That's not a friend, that's a narcissist. If you wanna keep your self-esteem, drop them immediately
Do
You
Wanna
Know
Who
Is
The
Best
And
Cooler?
Hint: second word
I love you
I want to shoot myself in the head.
Thank you bro.
Your nice
Thanks bro👍
Mines aren’t false. They are just messing around kidding. But if I told them to stop, they would call me sensitive. I dont feel bullied but i am a little tired off it. Like just annoyed but not sad or anything.
That's a tough situation, I would recommend talking to each one individually because doing it in a group might lead to them calling you sensitive and dismissing it because people tend to follow the group in not being vulnerable when they are around their friends.
The Josh Speaks thanks! I’ll try all your tips.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Thanks for your reply. I was in the same situation.
Well 2 days ago i got a haircut But the top hair was 3 cm and the sides were 1 cm long. But thats the first ever kind of hairdcut i had in my life. My school friend laughed a little bit BUT my best friend said it was a good haircut. When i went soccer training only the gk laughed. I told my mom about this and she replied that people allways want to find the negative thing about you to make you triggered and sad.
no one can stroll through life flawlessly, thanks for this
thanks for the vid man really needed this :)
Simple way to stop friends from laughing at you is just knock them out
how exactly???
Josh, Help me. My freind Felicia(not real name) invited me to her house. But my friend(johnny) thought t was a ''Date'' Between them. Now he is still mad at me, like pulling my hair, stepping on my toes, and pushing me. Johnny likes Felicia
Nice vid! Usually when my friends tease me i just tend to make fun of myself along with them because it ends up making me feel alot better :D
Well if they’re teasing with you that means they’re laughing with you
Thank you I really needed this.
My friends made fun of me just because I get the same food everyday
teju vamsipriya say “Well at least I am greatful I have food and that I eat it”
Sammme
My friends make fun of me that I eat a salad for lunch once in a while and say that I'm acting healthy. So I dont even finish my salad and just throw it away. I feel bad because my mom buys me those and is always happy that she got me a salad. What should I do??
my friend called me a catfish,because i was worried about something,and after that he said that he was joking,and i was like,i felt so bad,and also i am a girls,and it hurts,that he said that to me and other my friend(she is girl) was laughing at me:(
teju vamsipriya what did you say our do for your friends to understand?
I have a group of friends, and they have been good to me the last few years, but starting 6th grade, they have acted different. I know friends can joke around with eachother, and they usually wont take offence because they should know they wouldn't mean it, right? Well thats how I thought it was. My friends would always joke around with me, or at least, I thought it was with me. I sooner found out they would make jokes ABOUT me and the comments I make, calling my questions or comments " dumb" or "obvious" and sometimes they would use cuss words in there sentences. I felt like they were joking and that they didnt mean it, so I made some jokes and comments to them too, and that didnt go well. They started calling me rude things, and one by one, they would all act evil towards me. It got to a point they were ganging up on me, and it made me feel upset. I had depression and they knew, I thought they would understand if I had some bad days and said some things that were unkind. They all ended up getting mad at me! Some times when I would say something they thought was dumb, they would call me bad words like "Dumb ass" and "Slow bitch" and other stuff (sorry for the salty language). I had a hard time making friends, because I didnt know how to start or continue a conversation. Once when I was talking to my friends, one of them hit me in the back of my head, on purpose, and I got mad, so I hit her back.( Yes I know, this wasn't the best choice, but lets be honest, you cant hit someone and expect them not to hit you back). But anyway, after I hit her she slapped me and my glasses fell off my face and slid across the floor. I got more mad and she kept slapping me every time I put my glasses on my face, and they fell off every time! I honestly dont want to be friends with them anymore, because I feel like they can make an offensive joke about me, but when I make a simple joke about them, they gang up on me and call me "salty" and say hurtful things I cant respond to. I need some advice on what to do...
I feel you I have the exact same problem, and to be honest It's because they rage on fortnite, they stopped caring for others, I only have one person I can talk too :(
okay so here's the thing, people change, their characters can be all nice and jolly at first and then after a while, they just suddenly change. how about you try talking to them and try letting them know what they did was wrong. also, friends can be a pain in the neck sometimes, so don't think you're the only one with that issue. you simply just made a mistake by chosing those kind of people as friends but it's not too late. just find the right kind of people who love and appreciate you. people who don't insult you.🤧💛 remember, even if the whole world hates you, remember to always love yourself and find beauty in yourself. God LOVES YOU! (peace!)✌
I understand mellowfox, and you probably cant just stop being friends with them since their in your class and they might just be mean to you more.
Hey josh! I'm not sure if you remember me but Yet again another great vid!!! :D you've helped me a lot!!
+Alpha thanks dude, im happy it was helpful
This helped me a lot thank you so much love you for this video my best friend has been spreading bad rumors and my secrets around the school and everyone makes fun of me but I'm just going to leave her cuz she is the negative energy in the friendship thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My friends made fun of my reading. We had to get in groups for ela and I mentioned how I hated reading out loud but after a couple of pages in they kept on say how I was leaving words out and changing certain phrases. They both agreed so I didn't really know what to say bc I am insecure about those kinds of things.
i had this ''friend'' that was really mean always...i noticed that she always tried to bring me down or make me feel bad, especially about my looks. so i told her i don't wanna be friends with her anymore and from that day on she bullies me with this one guy who i used to kinda hangout too, he likes her so hes pretty much like some puppy just following her around and doing whatever she says. idk what to do today i just had to sit there alone (in my school we have a little gym) and everybody was playing etc but my head hurt so i just sat down and they sat down next to me....the whole class i had to sit there and lisent to them making fun of me.....i still feel like shit even if that happend like 5 hours ago...
Hope u knocked her out
I loved this video!
keep making them.
Hey man, you change my world thx
You are a very good physiologist
Nah, Me and my bff always make fun of each other For example saying "I HATE YOU GO DIE AND NEVER COME BACK!" means... "I love you sooo much you are the best freind in the world and you truly mean something to me
That shit you dam* ass~ have nothinh fuck'in do with us?! Its just a shitt okay?? Your all nega bitches are very ignorant omg
Yeah you guys are joking I can tell that
i usually watch more than one vid if seeking advice... but this is enough for me and so wise too... thank you
They are laughing at you.
It’s all the time.
You have two choices.
You can fight fire with fire. Just keep in mind if you say something about them they will come back even harder.
Or
Walk away
Love the channel, Josh. Keep up the great content!
thanks!
+The Josh Speaks You're welcome!
My friends keep saying that I'm short....and two of my friends always team up together against me and they bullied me many times
Venice Chang it seems they're not your FRIENDS....😒😒
Venice Chang how tall are you what grade I’m 140cm grade 7 people don’t mind about my height it’s more my look
I wish I was short. Short is cute.
Venice Chang same, almost all the time sky friends start laughing at me because I’m short and it’s annoying af
Making fun of is one thing and defending yourself. Most importantly tho, if someone puts their hands on you. Then put them in their place. Show them whatsup!
Good video bro! - I found the channel which I was finding from years today.
awesome, i hope it's helpful
+The Josh Speaks Yeah, bro. It was so helpful, checking your all videos. just loving it!
Josh, i dont know what to do i have a crush on a girl in my class, we know each other for 3 years now but we don't really speak because im really shy in class, i dont know if she likes me but sometimes shes looking at me when im not looking in class, she deffends me when my friends make fun of me for something i do. I dont know if she likes me or not but i want to be different this year, i work out hard everyday to lose some pounds and i want to start talking to her and build up a good relationship what could be more serious if u know what i mean> How should i start speaking to her? please answer me if possible ;) P.S great video
snowieee do it be straight
hmm...
How does its going right now?
When I was in high school I would hang out with a group of "friends" because I didn't have anyone else to talk to. So then my friends had this other friend that I liked at first. She then became a "friend". We would all eat lunch together and talk and what not. So then me being me started letting out my personality. I would sometimes be the slow one in the group and I would say stupid things and just not even care. Then that one "friend" would ask me or would tell me something sarcastically like almost every day at lunch. I would just respond normally then she would tease me and most me then laugh. My other "friends" would look at me and smile. I not to look hurt would fake laugh. I then started to hate going to lunch cause she would be there and I just stopped being myself and stopped talking to anyone. I would try to avoid a conversation because I was afraid to get teased. Long story short. After graduating I stopped talking to my other "friends" because they noticed it and probably didn't care. I am a girl in college with no friends and don't plan on making any soon. It has really affected the way I see people. I don't' really think I have ever really had a real friend. I don't stress over it either. I just mind my own business and don't really mind being alone because at least I have my family.
I'm 21 and deal with it, This person has been my friend for years and I feel as he takes his insecurities out on me or maybe he really does just hate certain parts about me to the point where he feels the need to vocalize them. Issue is, I have body dysmorphia so hearing this bullying coming from someone who is close to you just makes it hurt all the more.
I'm actually so happy I found this 😢
My family makes fun of me I don’t know how to handle it wherever I go they started making fun of me please help me someone or send me a link of a motivational video I really need it
Josh , yes
They are making group fun and I am alone
Daily
Thank you for this video. It means more than you know
Everyday i start losing trust in anything and anyone im starting to think god doesn't exist no matter how many times i pray its still the same thing everyday, sometimes i have fun with my friends like they feel like true friends but most of the time they tease me it feels like real bullying, its not just with friends but also with my family.
Im trying to control my anger and to stay calm everytime i try my best to ignore it, what did i even do to deserve this? Its not like i did something wrong i try my best to be humble and kind to evryone but nothing changes. All i could say is i wish i loved a different life
My friends are making fun of me for playing Gary's mod, but they play Roblox everyday xD
LMAOO NO WAY
My friends make fun of how I look because I have bigger earlobes than them and how my channel looks bad and how lame my videos were so I just deleted them feeling bad. I want to start a channel with tech but I think they are just gonna spread it around and make me embarrassed idk what to do there is 1 or 2 friends who are cool and understand luckily. I’m just greatful I have everything I have today and that I have a great education.😀 And no I won’t be friends with that mean person as they do understand how I feel being treated this way his channel name is sticky tape he play this game called phantom forces even though he is not too nice to me hope you can help his channel grow and subscribe to him as that would be nice👍🏻
Well.. it’s kind of a complicated story.. I appreciate anybody who wants to listen... A little while back during the first week of school I had a bit of a crush on that one kid in school that had a bit of friends BUT EVERYBODY KNEW HIM. I told one of my “friends” and they told him right in front of me. I started crying and went to the nurses office to try and go home. That is because I had next period with him and he sat right next to me. Later that day, my friend told me that the boy I had liked.. liked me back! I was so incredibly happy. That is also how I met a new group of friends. We would always call each other every night. There was about.. 5-6 people. I’m not going to say there names for privacy reasons.. anyways, one of the main people in the group had somebody else that join but is now an ex member. She told me they had only let me “join their group” because of me dating the boy I liked. Which, at first I didn’t think was true. Later that bight I asked the main member if that was true but she said that it wasn’t. I believed her. We would always hangout together, go to all of the football games and everything. Until I realized I wasn’t happy with the guy I was dating.. he was getting too attached to me and I decided I was going to break up. After that, he kept on crying in school. Everybody who come up to me and tell me, which, I had already known. Word was spreading, my group of “friends” were mad and okay with still being my “friend” the main of the group texted me and said it was okay. But I didn’t really believe that. But, the quiet one in the group kept on saying “I understand, it’s okay.” And I felt happy but then sad at the same time. After the break up I felt relieved... kinda. The next day everybody kept on asking me about what had happened the night before. In band class he started balling. Everybody was like, “I feel so bad!” or “how could you do that to him?!” Which.. to be honest... I didn’t really care. At long as I was happy and felt okay. At the end of class we had an early dismissal clean up. It was 30 minutes prior. He came up to me and asked “why did you break up with me” in front of EVERYBODY. They all just starred. I ignored him because I didn’t want any drama to happen. While I was walking away, I overheard him mimicking what I said before we both broke up. Some of his friends started whispering and laughing. I felt so humiliated. My REAL friends were with me but I told them and they didn’t really know how it felt they just kept on answering with.. “yeah.” or “idk” maybe sometimes even “no, not a good idea.” I felt lost and had no idea what to do. That’s when I became best friends with his ex. Yeah, that’s right. Both of his ex’s are besties. Sorry if that came off as cheesy as it sounds. She in fact told me that he always made fun of her when she broke up. It was all connecting. The next day I wiped it off my shoulder. Nothing bad could happen the next day... right?... as I was getting ready to put my instrument away in band, he came up to me and was making fun of me and my friends. That’s when my friends went crazy. They kept on calling him bad things, I didn’t want any of this to happen at first though. I was just trying to ignore everybody and everyone but then he kept on insulting me. The day before my friend, I’m going to call her Polly kept on screaming at him for calling me ugly. At the end of school we all were talking in the hallway when my “ex- group” came out. The main one had her cheer uniform on. While (the guy I broke up with) was making fun of me, they were all laughing. That group had a mix of boys and girls. It made me feel so bad and disgusted. I really needed to watch a video liked this, props to you!!! and whoever read down to here which I highly doubt.. ILYSMMM ❤️❤️
making fun and humiliating is another way of expressing jealousy in a more polite
My friend (s) make fun of me bc im a chinese
That's not cool
mfnfbvbmdncncn I'm surprised if you really have a brain.
mfnfbvbmdncncn Now I'm perfectly sure that you don't have brain and yeah Islamophobia is not gonna take you anywhere so keep trying I love my name and I don't care if people like it or not.
@mfnfbvbmdncncn I wonder how many times you were having a thought about suicide on your mind for not being able to become a decent person..
Can i punch my friend if he is being mean to me?
finalburst05 yeah
No
Yes
Fuck yeah
they always do it behind my back, and i catch them. if i left them i would have no one. so i just deal with it
I feel you man it’s hard but it’s better to have no friends and rock by your self for a while then having bad friends
All my "friends" teased me at some point not a big deal usually but you know I'm really starting to think there are no real friends out there (with a few exceptions) every time I'm going out with a group of "friends" they make fun of me as if I'm a clown, it could be becouse I'm having a bad day, my way to talk, my height ( I am a tall person), my relationship status (been single for years), etc... It really hurts sometimes and a couple of nights ago I got really angry with them and I mean really angry, we were drunk and I said some super mean things. Anyway idk should I keep hanging out with those people? I know most of them for years and we are still in contact, they stopped making fun of me since that night, right now I don't feel like meet with them anytime soon (I'm still hurted) so I'm already thinking in a good excuse to not do so. Any advice will be appreciated :) . Good day!
Well I guess they aren’t really your friends after all :) fakes
Yep friend who make fun of you are not your friends
What you say is true and good, and most people know these things, and your title did address what you spoke about. Teasing is easier to deal with than the problems most people here are bringing up, the lack of respect.
Why even bother to stay friends with people who put you down, constantly laugh at you, talk mean behind your back? True friends bring out the best in each other, support each other, admire each other's strengths and motivate each other to grow and become better people. Worst friends stay in the same spot making fun of their friends and never grow up.
Very helpful video Josh keep up the good work!!
Thanks I will 👍🏽
+OHMYJOSH ahaha not you.
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Yo this is me fr 😂😂 they roast me not in my face but I can hear them when I'm in the other room like ok then 😂
I don't like people who make fun of someone,
And I don't like seeing other people sad.
my issue is they say take a joke! and i try. but my anxiety totally messes everything up. and none of them have anxiety so they can’t relate. and then i let my sister (OLDER sister- by 1 year and 2 grades) use my phone to text them on the gc as a joke. but then she gave them her number and they made a gc without me behind my back. as a “joke”. but unironically texted for an hour. i texted one of them like dude really and he says cmon let me have fun! like i guess i’m holding him back. so idk. this really gets to me because i have fomo and i tell them but then i’m just emily the party pooper who can’t take a joke. i just don’t know what to do. dropping them isn’t an option. they are the most amazing people ever. i just can’t get them to listen to me about this.
When dey made fun of me @ an extreme level, I cried out n insulted dem with extreme abusive words which made one of them mentally hurt as she 2 started weeping...Though it tarnished my image...I feel relaxed bt later repented 4 d words that came out of my mouth...bt still deep in my heart , I never regretted.....still calling dem .........something else..😄😄
They make fun of me for just trying to be myself. If I try talking about my interests, they pick on me. Yet when the other people do, they seem to respect it all. We have a project to do in AVID about cyber bullying and they all agreed that they would make me the victim of it and targeted both my looks and interests. I’ve asked them to stop many times and they still won’t. I’ve never teased them so I don’t know why I’m the target of all of this. We go to a school where we need to wear uniforms and they still manage to make fun of me for it. Not only this but they don’t respect my boundaries. I’ve asked them to stop trying to touch me and force me to give affection as it’s uncomfortable but they respond with holding onto me so I won’t let go and grabbing me. They also like to pull down my mask and try to take photos of me when they know how I hate it. Not only that, they steal my ID to take photos of it too, I feel like crying just by remembering
Simply you need to stay away from them, tell them you don't want to be involved with them anymore , stay alone or find people who respects , never settle for less my friend. 🩵
I know this person is my friend (at least, I think so) When it’s just us she’s all friendly and stuff, when she’s with other friends, she makes
I really liked the video as it helps you to understand that you yourself is special
this really helped me ty!!!