Reacting To Our Coming Out Video w/ Dad
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ค. 2024
- it's been three years since posting our coming out video "Twins Come Out To Dad" - it's also been since that day that we watched it fully through... so we decided to do that today with our Dad. Things got emotional.
This is a shining example of the way a father ought to react under circumstances like these - what a thoughtful, supportive, decent man your dad is! Congratulations on three years of being totally yourselves.
DAMN... I didnt realize it had been that long since your coming out video. Time really does fly. I was really great hearing from your dad.
Allana Thomas no kidding I remember when the video went live and the end of the week they were on Ellen
TRUE LOVE OF A FATHER AND SWEET SONS OF LOVE. CHEERS TO YOU BOTH AND DAD, LOVE IS TRUE LOVE THANKS FOR SHARING THIS SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT MESSAGE.
Three yrs. later -- Still very powerful. Love seeing you both grow and give so much. Stay strong and true. Peace.
So proud of you two and your amazing father!
I was 65, just retiring and watching You Tube for the first time on my smart TV I had just bought . I was deep in the closet, too scared to ever come out. That coming out video showed up on the screen as one of several different videos to watch . I did not want to watch it because I expected a negative reaction from the father, ( being deep in the closet does that to you ). Finally I decided to play the video, and was as scared as Aaron and Austin. But for the first time I witnessed a father show true love for his gay sons. His reaction made me watch so many more coming out videos, ( not all positive ). But Aaron and Austin 's courage at such a young age, and the way their father handled it told me it was time to come out and not die with my secret. I came out a few weeks later and shocked many who thought they knew me, but there was no negative reaction. My, how things have changed in 50 years. Back then I would have been forced to see a shrink. So a big thank you to the Rhodes Bros and all today's youth that are born gay and not hiding it for getting the unhappiness that was inside me to finally go away after 55 years.
Wow, three years...I remember. You all have grown so much. Upstanding parents, with beautiful sons. I wouldn’t be surprised to find it used in classrooms around the country. So proud of you guys being part of this modern movement of acceptance and love. Be well and continued success with your endeavors. Alex
Your dad is an amazing person, I'm so jealous, I don't think I'll ever come out to mine, he would never accept it. That's why I love watching videos of people coming out to their parents/family, I'm glad other people can do it and live their life happily.
I'm crying all over again.
My frickin favorites 😭😭
3 years later and I think the coming out video is still the most viewed coming out video and I still love it lol
This empowers and motivates and inspires people to change; A little acceptance from one person spreads on other to see the other side of a person. People like your father is a person that is aware of this to others maby not. You guys rock keep making these videos.
It's been over a Year Since I 1st saw this & U guys were my 1st ever Sub... (closely followed by Andrew goes places) it Still means alot & 3 years down the line, it was a lovely way to Relive it all...Stay True & Bless U.
Very Good, guys.
You two are very brave to share this experience with us because, although there are people who think that it is necessary or not to come out, you did it, and in a public way, through a digital platform, whose exposition is much more difficult. That makes you both, people of great value.
Shared experiences can help others overcome moments of anguish and indecision, especially when they are judged for who they are and for what they feel.
The emotion of Aaron in the end, when he talks about the relationship with his father, was adorable and very mature.
We can see how much you have grown.
Hugs and congratulations.
Such a great video guys 💕 I’ve loved y’all so much since seeing that original coming out video! You two inspired me so much during that time - thank you so much!
It’s great the respect, love and closeness you have with your dad. And you guys are so thoughtful and tender hearted. If there could be a scale to rate families, yours would be above A+++.
You guys are so amazing! Plus, throughout this entire video, i cried, my heart was beating really fast. I'm so glad you guys did this, especially with your father.
Like some others here, I do remember watching the original video 3 years ago as well, and I also remember (and I can't forget) getting very choked up & deeply emotional along with Austin & Aaron (I cried). Very touching video. And the Dad is super awesome!
Seriously you guys!!! Your dad is wonderful!! Such a goodhearted human being! I now get how you guys can be so goodhearted people! ❤
This was beautiful, I have such love and admiration for you guys,truly you have a special bond with your dad,always treasure that.
Aaron I love how emotional and connected you are to your feelings. You have such a beautiful heart. You always mean well when it comes to other people and your personality is infectious! Lots of love from New Zealand.
Your dad is amazing! You guys have great role models in your parents and because of that (and your big hearts) you will make great dads someday.
That video changed my life in more ways then I can say. All I can say is thank you and that I love you both so much
This video gets me everytime😭 Thank you for sharing the first time and once more with your dad.
Thank you for that.
Having recently subscribed to your channel, I’ve only just watched the 3-year anniversary video and I have to say that I am truly touched by the openness that shines through : communication, emotion, love. Even if it doesn’t necessarily happen that way for everyone, what you’ve shared with your followers has to have inspired many people, or at the very least, made them happy for you (I know I am). As an aside: it is so cool that your dad has the same first name as mine ;)
I love your coming out to your dad video. And I watched it cross 25 million views this pat year. I also love the message when your dad says 'I'm not gonna ask why, or say you're not, or change...'. It's pure understanding and love!
And that comment about how you hope you can be a dad like he was to you guys, that wins the internet!
Omg I cry every time I watch that video!!! You guys are sooooo strong and inspiring!!! I just wish my family has the same reaction!!! I’m gay as well and I don’t even know if my father love me at all or even knows about my lifestyle!!! I’m such in tears right!! Thank you for sharing your coming out videos to your dad!! I only wish I had the same!! I’m happy for you guys and a bit jealous!!! I love you guys! I can’t stop crying because I honestly want what you have!!
I needed this today. Thank you. Much love to the both of you and your father :)
I started crying before the video even started omg, I love you two sooo much this is just everything, I’ll never forget how amazing that moment was and Aaron you beautiful beautiful soul, you will be a perfect dad and so will Austin 💕
You guys are great! You've begun to grow and develop as men and have demonstrated a wonderful relationship with your dad. Giving a picture of love and respect to the world. Thanks.
I can't even begin to tell you how many times I've shared you guys' coming out video. And currently, I'm helping a close friend come out to his parents with the aid of your video. You guys rock, and I love y'all to death! 💘
Guys, this was emotional for me as well. I had to keep wiping my eyes throughout most of the video. You both are beautiful inside and out, love you and I wish you both well in you're future endeavors.
He deserves you guys and you guys deserve him. What a wonderful man.
Gets me every time. I've watched that video 2 or 3 times and I cry every time. You're lucky to have a Dad like that. I came out to my Dad in 1987 which was the last time I saw him!
You boys have many blessings with your father being one of your greatest.
That was so sweet, I still remember watching your coming out video; I can’t believe it’s been that long already. Love you guys.
The coming out to your dad video made so much of a difference to so many people. Thank you for having the courage to put this new reaction video on your channel. Trust me, you'll be VERY glad you did. Love from Ct., as always Ron L.
I still cry every time. ❤️❤️ the love your father has is amazing
Darn, you made me tear up again.
wolver73 it made Me tear up to
Having a parent, or parents, that support you unconditionally is huge and can effect every aspect of your life. I didn't have that, embrace yours. Much love guys. 💚
Can't believe it's been three years!😮 Still so proud of you two❤ you're so lucky to have such a supportive father. all the love❤
Damn you Aaron, you got me again when you got emotional. I just wanted to give you a hug.
I always look forward to your vlogs, I usually smile an say `What are those boys up to now!` This latest started me crying too and I cannot believe it was three years ago! My fav part is when we hear Dad saying `stop it ... ` I knew then you have a strong caring Father and, again I started crying when I heard those words again. Well done to all your Family. Love you both very much.
Your coming out video inspired me to make mine :)
Cried then and cried again three years later! Great dad you guys have got.
Wanting to say thank you to you & your dad what an awesome family ! That video put a wanting on my heart when I saw it to have that kind of bond with my dad I cried out to the universe why cant I have that too! A week later my dad called and we talked he said he was sorry for all the hurt he had caused me and in a roumd about way told me he loved & accepted me for who I am im leaking joy right now thinking bout this lol I truly believe that wouldn't have happened without your vid putting that wish or prayer in my heart. Thanks guys tell your dad his fathers loss is our gain there are so many gay young men that have so much love for him and wish he were their dad you are truly blessed to have him Thanks guys for sharing these 3 years of your live how beautifull you are ! Ps your moms awesome as well wish could gotten one those mom hugs at pride lol loved that I was stuck here in ky hopin to run into Austin so could just say thanks lol so proud of you guys & for you ♡& thanks
It was nice for your Dad to react to your coming out so well with words to inspire by :)
That was the first video I ever watched of you guys!
I didn't want to watch this because I didn't want to relive that. Even though it's a great story, it's very emotional. I'm happy you posted it, though, and hope it helps others ... especially dads who find themselves in this situation.
I love your guys’ dads reaction & support. He’s honestly the best. I am a gay guy, myself, and I am planning on coming out to my family soon. I’ve came out to many, many, friends but not family. I am almost 100% sure they’ll be supportive. Wish me luck!!
How has it been three years? It doesn't even seem like it. Time has flown by so fast. I remember being your first fan page on twitter and y'all being so happy!
I love you guys oh so much! So proud of what you guys have accomplished
I saw the coming out video yesterday and this one today,you guys have not changed a single bit . That was really brave of you guys,and Aaron,damn, too cute for life xoxo
That is so cool that your dad supports you guys!
I love this interaction so much. Their father is so amazing❤❤
Wow, I wish my parents reacted like this when I came out to them. Instead, my dad told me he will never accept it and always fight me on it and he now always tells me how he’s concerned for me. My mom and step dad didn’t like it that much either but they know it’s my life and they said they’ll still love me no matter what. My stepmom hasn’t said much on her own because my dad is just too vocal about it. I already didn’t have the best relationship with my dad in the first place but his opposition to me being who I am only makes it worse, and he expects me to pretend like everything is fine. I’m so jealous of people whose parents accept them for who they are because I had such a tough time with it. My friends are so great about it though which helps me cope!
omg, you both are so brave and so courageous and wonderful, I love you guys so much... and your dad is a darling. 😁😇💖💕
The coming out video was my first and I love it. It still gives me chills. Love you guys.
Seems crazy that it’s only been 3 years but so much has changed in that time. It’s really awesome that something so touchy and awkward and emotional is what kinda jump started your career and allowed you guys to share your lives with people like me. Your dad seems like a really great guy. And don’t worry Aaron, I know you’ll be a great dad someday!
Aaawww, you guys are so lucky to have the parents you do, they did a great job raising you two.
It is emotional, but look at how far you guys have come with your father and your relationships with so many and your family. You stay focused on being yourselves.
be who u are and live your life to the fullest no matter what people think luv u both
Austin Miller wow, big inspertion
Made me cry all over again. Thanks for sharing
Your dad is so supportive and you guys are awesome
What a great dad. Still tearing up 3 years later.
That was so sweet.. and you guys are so pretty!!!😭❤️
Great video. Your dad is amazing. 3 years wow. You both are beautiful thanks for great videos.
This is so beautiful😭💖💖 so proud of far you guys have come❤️ you two inspire me so muchh😊😊😊😊😊😊
I had forgotten just how beautiful you guys are...physically and personality! Thanks for sharing this vid!!! I, unfortunately, can’t share such a wonderful coming out experience. Also, there is hope to yet being a father just like your dad. I was in a relationship with a man that had a son. The relationship lasted only a year. But, 18 years later, the son still calls me dad and has nothing to do with the biological father. Cheers to you and thanks again.
Love the lighting in this video btw
Be happy & celebrate that day every year with your father. Look back at each year & reflect on how much more the 3 of you have grown even closer. How I wish that could have been my father's response & now after 32 yrs with my,partner we have been so much more committed to each other because of his intolerance. Be happy guys & continued success to each of you.
PS. Tell your father for me, Thank you for loving your sons so much.
I love this video. Both u guys have a very understanding and lovable father.❤💞
You guys are so amazing and inspiring!
Please, guys, privately, get with your dad and HUG THE HELL OUT OF HIM! It is so hard to find people who accept US, myself included. You have a WONDERFUL dad! Yes, I love seeing the both of you, and live thru your videos, since I never came out, and am probably older than your dad, but you both make me so happy! You both are BLESSED to have a dad like him! OH man, let me clear the tears out of my eyes. Keep up the GREAT videos! THANKS SO MUCH!
YOUR DAD IS THE NUMBER ONE FATHER EVER !!! Show him this HE DEFINES THE NAME HERO AND MENTOR
omg i cried the first time i saw it 😭😭😭 I LOVE YOU BOTH!!!💞
LOVE LOVE YOU GUYS, I CRIED MY EYES OUT.
And your dad is very good looking and he sounds like such an amazing parent !
One of the great things in the coming out video is their father said he was so worried and when they said they were gay he said he was so relieved.
I just wanted to give Justin a big hug there near the end. That is one of the best videos you guys have done. Oh ok I’ll give Austin a hug too. 😂 peace and much love to you both
Len Y do u mean Aaron instead of Justin,??
I was subscribed way before that video! I think for some reason I subscribed by the very first video.
Huge things coming up for you guys!
I absolutely 100% love you guys
I had not seen the original post 3 years ago, so when I saw this post, I stopped watching it immediately and found the original video and a video of your appearance on Ellen.
I watched the original video, choked up at your fear and your dad's response of unconditional love. I surprised myself getting choked up and walked away from TH-cam. And then I cried for two full hours. I dont know you two. I had never seen one of your videos before. I did not know of the story. But I cried until my eyes turned red and irrated and my nose stopped pouring out the mucous.
Crazy, right? You two hit on a universal fear all boys/men. We are afraid of our dads not loving us anymore because we somehow disappointed or angered them.
My tears were not for the two of you. Thet were tears I never cried when I disappointed mother and dad (not dealing with sexuality) and they did not respond with the unconditional love your dad gave you.
You are two very, very fortunate men. Your dad taught you one way how to love unconditionally with his response. I hope your dad's lesson has taught you to pass that same unconditional love on to the people in your lives.
You guys look great. Thanks for doing this reaction video.
That coming out video ripped my heart out. it still does. I was telling my bf about that video today and I said "when will the time come when these coming out videos just are not even necessary. in 100 years people will look at these vids and ask 'what the fuck was the problem??? why was it SO gut wrenching to say you are gay to someone??!'" why, indeed!
good job guys with the follow up to the original.
ps. your dad looks so young.
When he started crying I couldn’t hold it in 😫❤️😭❤️❤️😊
Remember how many people you help and give hope to by sharing this publicly. Thank you.
Happy coming out anniversary!!!
I love you guys. I went through a similar thing when I came out. My dad was ok with me being gay and my mom and I had a laugh when I came out to her. I know what you are/had gone through. It is going to be 20 years at the end of the month when I did. I love you guys and I had been with you two for over the last 3 years or more. It doesn't feel like it. 💖💖👍
Congrats on the three year journey that you two have been on
Your coming out video was the video that made me come out as Bi to my mom. My life changed after that day
You two are an inspiration and your father is a legend. “It’s one part of a person. They’re still the same person,” the father said. “I think too many people think [their sexuality] defines them. I don’t agree with that.”
this is so difficult to watch because I can totally empathize with that feeling, so powerful!
Amazing dad! Love the video!
I cried when I saw that video, really hope my parents are that accepting 😭
I'm getting emotional all over again, can't believe this was three years ago!
i just saw the video and your dad is so cool. love u guys
I’m Japanese and I’m gay I have a boyfriend he proposed me I said yes but I don’t tell about myself to my parents because one day they mentioned about gay people they don’t like them that scared me a lot to come out about myself I’m weak i really love him but I’m scared i know I have to come out I don’t what to do I’m crying like every day recently I feel so sorry for my boyfriend I hope my parents accept me. I’m sorry that my English is very very bad but this video definitely cheered me up thank you so much.
Beyoncé Beyoncé
Show your parents the video of these guys coming out and explain what it means to have parents that support their sons (and daughters) when they come out.
Then talk to them and tell them about your boyfriend and what he means to you.
Good luck
Dief Enbaker thank you I’ll do my best
Beyoncé Beyoncé
I think you'll be fine. My dad is a proud Mexican man and my mom is old fashioned, she doesn't believe homosexuals should have a lot of the same rights as straight people, but even tho some parents are like this, sometimes they feel that way about everyone else but their child. And then in time they become more accepting when they see you can be happy. That was a big thing with my mom. She thought gay men couldn't be happy because of the promiscuity and all the hate out there. When it comes to anyone who thinks this way sometimes it's just cuz of ignorance, and they don't have someone in their life who can show them different. Maybe you coming out is exactly what they need.
On another note, this may sound cruel, but if they don't accept you, you don't need them. Sometimes you have to put yourself first and you shouldn't deny yourself happiness.
Go get your prince.
Calistro Hernandez thank you so much I hope mom and dad still loves me
Beyoncé Beyoncé
I'm sure they will.
1) I remember the original video. It was very powerful. 2) All this time I thot your dad WAS Picasso! Way to disappoint 😂
I like how you showed your dad in this video
First btw love u guys