Twins Come Out To Dad
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ม.ค. 2015
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I wonder if the dad realized that both of the twins were there... because you know... They sound the exact same...
He’s the father I’m sure he can tell the difference because he’s been with them longer
zinaal kriid HOLD UPPPPP
Yeah he did cuz the boy said I’m gay and so is his brother he said it and he said we not I
@The Rockall Times he can still have grandkids they can still have kids there is more than one way to have a baby.
@The Rockall Times what about a Surrogate
I'm not gay, but these comments are unbelievably pathetic...
I can't believe there are still people out there, hating or beating up homosexuals. It is NOT a disease. The way they are crying might tell more words than the whole video. Gay or not, nobody deserves to be punished.
There are even people discussing about the fact that this was uploaded on TH-cam. This video wasn't for advertising purposes, but for helping others. Yet some people in the comments call them disgusting for helping others? I don't even...
The fact that this hate still happens in 2015 makes me sick...
This is what all comments should be like, and it's really sad.
All of these negative comments are a fantastic reason Gay Pride is still necessary.
I believe that they start crying before to say anything because maybe they felt ashamed about who they really are, and it's sad that society makes us feel that way about anything :( but the good part is that everything ends in a happy way!
I don't like the fact it's been put on TH-cam because it should have been a private conversation with their dad. They'd have been a lot better making a video about the conversation rather than showing the ACTUAL conversation.
They didn't ask his permission to put it on TH-cam (at least, I didn't catch that bit?). If I was their dad I'd be pissed.
Korus
You know this as a fact? You know nothing about this video.
SON: Dad... I'm *gay* .
DAD: **shaking**
MOM: *DON'T YOU DARE!*
DAD: ...
MOM: *DON'T !!!*
*DAD: HI GAY, I'M DAD!*
Not gonna lie, u got me
I burst out laughing ahaha 😂
omfg I thought he was gonna slap him
*aaaaa*
This gets me everytime😂😂
Son: dad im gay.....
Dad: me too!
Son: wait wut-
SASAGAYO IS LIFE XD ;3 hahha
😂
I am a Muslim. Like Christianity and Judaism being gay is NOT permitted. I have two sons. After watching this I found myself reacting in a way I would never have imagined. After seeing you in so much pain for the love you have for your dad and what you were about to do. Gave me a change of heart. If it is a sin being gay. That's between individuals and their God on judgement day. Here, now living in THIS world it wouldn't stop me from loving my sons and still being a part of their life's. I wish you both well.
Good for you, Yaz. :)
***** There are alot of people who support it, stop being ignorant and hypocrite and do us all a favor and shut the fuck up.
Allah The one and only God And do what? Leave my kids? Stop loving them? No, I wouldn't do that.
You're an amazing father. May you and your family live a long prosperous life full of many warm hugs and euphoric memories. Remember, a fathers greatest joy is seeing his family happy and a child's greatest accomplishment is to make their parents proud. Loving your kids for who they are, and being there with them through their journey is one of the greatest thing you could do for them. May the love of the world follow you. ♥
Yas Saj you're awesome man! :)
How the hell their face turn red and return to normal so freakin fast?? It took only 10 seconds lol
I thought that too but the video looks to be cut from time to time.
@Ethan Verre Did your face turn back to normal eventually?
YunJeong Kim the power of men
dats white people blood vessels lol
YunJeong Kim some people are like that it’s so scary!! My friend can yawn and start tearing up and look like she had a melt down where as I can cry for 3 straight hours and be called out to dinner and look like normal XD
Me: mom i need to tell u something
Mom: ok?
Me: i like boys
Mom: me to 😜
Your mom is so nice!
I wish I had mother like yours but unfortunately I live in a country where is not Ok to be different from the other boys
@@espanalove3777 same
@@zaskyak.m7387 U understand me? Ahh. Ok. Where are u from if it's not a problem to ask u
@@espanalove3777 indonesia uhh you?
I was raised by homophbic parents and i remember watching on tv two gay guys getting married and my parents said a lot of bad things about them, so i grew up to be homophbic myself but after a while i discovered that there is nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian or bi or pan or transgender, saw a video of a guy coming out to his little brother and he was like i am still me and it made me cry, i then started questioning my own sexuality, i first knew that i was bi but then i discovered that i am not attracted to women at all and that i am gay... I am proud of who i am and i love myself, my parents might disown me if they knew about it but at least i am not living in a prison and i can finally be free
I completely understand how that feels my parents didn’t get the chance to explain to me what gay was (it just never came up and there was no good time to tell me) and in 4th grade someone said something something gay and I asked what gay was and they said “oh it’s when to boys or girls like each other and it means that you hate you life and your going to hell” this didn’t seem right to me but I was to scared to say anything because I was already being bullied by many kids in my class also had a teacher who didn’t care and allowed for the bullying to continue. I remember being pressured to bully these to boys who idk if they were even gay but I remember yelling EWWW THATS GAY at them I feel even to this day regret and so much shame for doing that now 3 years later I am in a much better place I’m a lesbian I’ve told my friends and family and it was meet with understanding and kindness and I’ve left that school and my days of bullying behind.
How did you guys come out? Everytime I try to, something interrupts me and I end up not telling them. I talked to my mom about different sexualities and she thinks gays an lesbians are okay, but she says that bisexuals are slutty because they're attracted to both gender. Like, are you kidding me? Just because they're attracted to both boys AND girls doesn't mean they're gonna go around getting it with everyone. And it's even worse because I'm pansexual which means I don't only like two genders, I've also been attracted to other sexualities and I'm pretty sure my ma would think I'm "worse" than bi.
@@halluvicmin1914 I left a text open and my mum read it , it was pretty helpful
@@halluvicmin1914 the message said "how do I come out to my mum as gay" and also "how will she react when I get a boyfriend
@@halluvicmin1914 I got your back even if I can't be there irl 😁
If I have a son/daughter and they were nervous about telling me they are gay, but are you blunt about.
"Dad, I'm gay"
"Hello gay, I'm dad."
I'd say that just to lighten the mood.
+Wolframite Oh, dad jokes... They will never end. 😂😂
thank you hahha
You're a fucking good dad
That's exactly how my mom reacted
+LilBambino96 aww thats so cute
When they started to tear up I was like NOOOO DONT CRY! I wanted to just give them a hug i dont know ...
Same..
me two
Same
I couldn't help but start tearing up too! Damn it.
Same 😭😭
Me: Im gay
Dad: *WHoS YouR BOyFRiEND”
Edit: 1 year past haven’t came out to Mum, no boyfriend yet thanks 2020 :D
why this make me laugh so hard?!!🤣😂😂😂🤣😂
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
so true
XD
AhahahahahAhahahahah
That’d probably be my reaction if my child came out to me 😂
Me coming out to my mum
Me: mum I have something to say *starts shaking*
*awkward silence*
Me: I’m B-bi
Mum: I know
Both: *start crying*
She wasn’t the first person I came out to but she was definitely the scariest I’m so happy I did it
I came out to my mom as Gay just recently. Coming out is one of the hardest and most relieving things a Queer person has to do😩
I can't come out to my mom cause she is homophobic and every time she asks me to talk to her I get so friggen scared
My sister's bisexual. She came out to close friends and me. But not to our parents...We're pretty sure they said that being gay/bisexual etc is not right. So she's pretty scared...
My coming out story
Me: I like girls (nervous af and shaking)
Mom: that's ok but you dont have to claim anything right now you're only twelve.
Me:kinda disappointed and upset because I expected a hug or something and I got a "your to young to know"
their dad didn't seem thrilled about the news, but at least he accepted it and that's more than a lot of parents would do.
I think he was just a little shocked in a good way
Ikr he DIDINT really accepted it
Is he supposed to be happy about it? That wouldn't really make sense.
He probably just wants blood grandkids I know I would. Someone your genes have been passed on to. But I'd still accept the fact.
My parents would probably disown me...x"D
I'm so glad their dad is such a good guy.
"You *are* normal, what do you mean?"
That's probably the sweetest and most truthful thing I've heard in months. I'm so glad he respects them, we need more people like this.
I totally agree.
Wish my dad and my entire family was like him. Sadly they are not.
***** Agreed
My come out:
Me: mom my hair is just like me
Mom: wdym?
Me: it's not straight
So creative!!!
Me: mom, I need to talk to you
Mom: that doesn't sound good
Me: I'm bisexual
Mom: cool, me too
(True story)
Haha
@@sirenlee5611 yes I stan LGBTQ+ parents
My coming out story
Me:I like girls (nervous af and shaking)
Mom: that's ok but you don't have to claim anything right now your only twelve.
Me: (kinda disappointed and upset because I expected a hug or something and I got a "you to young to know")
I don't think straight people realise how much courage it takes to come out, especially to your parents. And we don't just come out once, but every time we meet new people. It takes courage to live openly and honestly as a gay man in a straight world.
Yeah when I came out to my mom I was literally shaking and my legs were numb. And I kept thinking "it's not to late to go back and not say anything"
We need to be proud of ourselves for those moments of courage.
this is literally so true
im still havent come out as gay
I think the straight guys can understand us, and the people today are very friendly, well 1950 its was maybe not a good time but today ? Come on boy :/
Im so Ashamed of the pathetic humans commenting such horrible nasty comments! good on you two boys, very brave and courageous!!!!
Plot twist: "And we're in love." -I think their father would've died lol. But no, it's good to know people are more accepting of the times.
^^ omg LOL that's twincest XD
Finally, someone sensible in the comment section!
When their voices started cracking and they started crying I started crying. Recently my best friend came out to me and told me that she was gay and I didn't know how to react at first, but I was raised to love everyone and that it doesn't matter what their skin color is or their sexuality is. I grabbed her by the hand and asked her if she had a girlfriend and she said yes and she pointed at my other best friend. I smiled at both of them and gave them both a hug and a kiss on the cheek and just smiled, I honestly am so proud of them and they are still dating till this day. You guys are beautiful human beings, I love you boys and stay strong😙
Olivia This is so c
ute :))
Thats awesome
Awe that's good❤
I was brought up the same
My best friend just recently came out as well😊 We’ve all basically known for the past 4 years but he was too scared to tell us
When the dad said " You are normal, what do you mean?" I lost it. I wish I had the courage that these boys have.
Same
My conservative (L.D.S) Mormon dad told me I was an abomination and mom called me a slut for thinking men were attractive.
13 years later, they accept me 🌈
when they started crying I lost it
same. i’m just sitting here, at 2:00 am, sobbing my eyes out
@@emeliasversion lmfao same. I need to get healthy. Will i stop buying a slice of cheese cake every day and eating 20% of my bodyweight in food per day? No... But i can fix my sleep
@@poisedperson6475 sameee. but like i’m in the process of getting healthier and let me tell you i feel so much happier and just better overall. i still will have 2 cookies for dessert every few days or have a snack that’s really unhealthy, but even then it just feels better when i’m eating a bit healthier. and remember that you will NEVER regret a workout once you’re finished with it!!
Same
Me: hey mum I’m need to tell you something
Mum: ok what?
Me: I’m gay
Mum: I’d be more shocked if you told me that your straight
Ooooffff 😂😂
Edit: yes that is a true story
It isn't, i read the same under other videos lol.
I hope that will be my story.
@@freshavocado1014 Ja und? Als ob das nur eine Mutter in diesem Universum gesagt haben könnte🤨
WHAT XD she knew you where gay from when you were born HAHA XD no offence
@@freshavocado1014 well they said it is a true story but not their story so.. makes sense 🤷🏻♀️
I don't understand why people hate on them; This is beautiful. You can show their dad doesn't care and loves both of them the same exact way. I'm Christian, But I believe God would accept humans to love anyone they want.
Caedíte eos Okay, you're a sinner. What makes you better than them being sinners as well? Nothing. stealing from someone is a sin, you've lied before, what makes you better than them? Nothing. The thing is, that if we're all sinners, why can't we just live in peace? No one is greater, or less than anyone.
I sincerely hope more Christians are like you. This comment section is filled with hate and ignorance. And they've become the face of this religion. I hope people like you can speak louder, otherwise they are going to represent all of you.
Fish Lee I've known her for a while and we are both Christian and those haters need to step the fudge away because they don't know what they're talking about, I just don't know what's wrong with people thinking that everyone has to believe in the same exact thing or you're hated on....
Caedíte eos
If all Christians kept the word of the bible; No work on sunday's or clothes.
How's that for your Sunday?
Thank you Platinum Night Fish Lee
*****
My daughter is 13 and few months ago she asked "mom how would you feel if I liked girls?" When I said I didn't care ether way as long as she's happy and whoever's shes with is nice to her that's all that matters. She visibly relaxed...it makes sad that kids feel so much anxiety and fear just being who they are ❤
I'm bisexual and my teacher helped me come out to my dad and mom and I love my teacher for that!
That's one nice teacher! But what bothers me, is why would you tell your teacher...? Or did he/she found by himself/herself?
You go girl
@@Eli-hv3sd he found out and helped :)
Lena Evergood Sometimes you find support with teachers as an adult figure.
Bruh a teacher in my school would always pick up on one gay boy cuz he was gay and she would tell him that he is not normal and make gay jokes and fun of him your teacher is amazing
My parents were just like: “so when are you coming out?”
And i was like: “are you guys for real right now???😑 well there’s no point anymore😂
OMGG!!😂😂😂😂 iconic
And then there's me who don't know if my mom and dad are homoohbes
Sicccckkk broo lmfao
Kt D if you’re don’t know then they aren’t.
@@ktd304 then there’s me who knows my dad is a homophobe cause he isn’t exactly quiet about it :(
*how I came out to my mom:*
Me: spouts random facts and definitions of different sexualities
Mom: are you tryna tell me something?
Me: repeats definition of bisexuality over and over
Mom: got it
zuzucat, good for you. I hope she was accepting of you and accepted who you are. That’s all I wish for
My mum wasn't accepting of my sexuality 😭😭
@@carrotcake3664 aww sorry hon..my dad doesn't even know my sexuality. He knows I'm hetero but I'm not. I made Genderqueer, Bisexual, and Pan flags along with a Pride flag. I hope he gets the message but if not Imma go drink bleach
@@rielletambaoan_ 💞💞
@@carrotcake3664 I'm sure she'll find a way to accept you. If not, come back to this comment and I'll be waiting. Ur not alone in this. 💞💞
The "you are normal, what do you mean? " made me loose it. Im straight and cant help myslelf but to cry when i come across a video like this!! I cried my heart out. What an amazing father! You guys are lucky and blessed! Keep youtubing people love it! I am a very feminine straight guy and was always made fun of. In a way I whish I was gay so I could do talks and speeches in schools and community centers about it!
Dude, same. I’m so glad there are people out there like you that understand how important just those small words were… my dad told me, “I will go to my grave regretting every decision I made with you…” he could’ve just said that, but… I forgave him even if he never asks. But thank you for giving me hope that you and other dudes out there will reassure your kids that above all else, you love them and they are normal. Lol. Sorry, I know you didn’t ask and I know I’m late late, but… thanks. Got in my damn feels lol.
Also, you don’t have to be gay to do those talks and speeches. There are other feminine straight guys that probably NEED to hear your story. Just center it around Anti-Bullying or something like that.
@@dylangrayson9190 I am so glad you forgave him! There are probably generations separating you and your father... We cannot understand the environment in which he was raised probably as much as he his having problems understanding today's society.... I realized this back in 2014-2015. I was working on a project in East Africa and got to see multiples communities where they don't know anything but to surrender and cannot even comprehend how important they ideas and presence is important. Every living thing on earth as a purpose and I believe that if a gay, trans, hetero, flower or any other living thing was put here is for a reason and they deserve as much as others. Keep up! I'm glad someone was helped by my comment!
@@dylangrayson9190 TED talks 👊👏⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐❤️
Yesterday I came out as bi to my stepbrother. My parents and stepmom have passed away and never knew. My stepbrother told me: “you’ll always be my little brother! I love you” ❤️ THAT MEANT SOOOO MUCH TO ME!!!
How It should've went:
Austin: dad, I'm gay.
Dad: it's okay son
Aaron: dad I'm gay too
Dad: Does anyone of my children like girls?
Sister: I do.
Dad: ...
that was rude and they have a older brother
+Nathan Singleton it's not really rude she's just joking
YES
LOL😂😂😂
Lol 😂 😂
They won the genetic lottery.
Right
they cant pass them on so na.
+AdamOhJay Yes they can. Adoption isn't the only way they can have children, they can use a surrogate, using their own sperm.
Their genes could just be recessive so probably not.
True it's not fair. I wish I had a twin btw lol.
I remember watching this video for the first time when it came out 5 years ago and I was 17 and I thought "wow, these guys are so brave and incredible in that they're able to do this and then go and post it on a platform like youtube, I could never." Here I am now, 5 years later at 22 finally starting that journey of coming out to friends and family and it's just surreal to me. I had to come back and rewatch this and leave this comment bc this video was such a catalyst of strength in my journey which probably started even more than 5 years ago, but now the exciting chapters are just beginning. Thanks, y'all.
Dude we’re the same age and I’m having the same experience it’s crazy
i told my mom and she got so exited! she started saying “omg i knew it! i knew it! you’re gonna be so happy now! and thats the only thing that matters, im proud of you and i love you”
“You’re gonna be so happy now!”
Best mom ever!
What an amazing dad! Every single parent should be like that, no judgement or understanding and acceptance. My brother came out last year after talking to my mum and we love him all the same so great to see a parent so accepting💜
+Crystal Norris God doesn't exist
+Nyx “Eruption” Flare that is your opinon and you don't know he isnt real or anything like that.
My dad used to make gay jokes when I was lime 12 years old. But when I reached 15, he told me: I know I made many gay jokes when you were younger, but trust me, those were nothing more than this, jokes. I know you are not gay, but if it turned out that you were, my love for you will NEVER change.
+Retr' “Eruption” o you don't have to believe in God but amen mean that she agrees with what that person said
We need more people like your dad in this world.
yes
amen
+Riya George yes
+Riya George more gays = no more babies = no more life . thanks you stupid fuck.
+Apro Gaamer how stupid are you? no seriously how much.
I remember that the first person that I came out to was my brother's girlfriend. She helped me a lot in this situation and helped me telling my family. Thank God they were all accepting this even if I was frightened what my father and my grandparents would say. After all they were very supportive and loved me as the person that I am. Best of luck to you guys and thanks for sharing this moment.
"I can't undo being your dad."
All of us with homophobic parents need to here this. I love your dad 😂😂
As a christian, I do not agree that people should like the same gender but, I do accept it. I have a few friends that are lesbian or gay but, I do not treat them any differently than my other friends. Looking at some of these comments make me sick to my stomach. I understand if you have different morals and perspectives but, that gives you no right to be rude like that. These boys have a lot of courage posting this video and I'm very proud of them. Please no hate on this comment. It's just my opinion.
I'll never understand Christians; no hate intended. Just pure amazement I guess.
I'm a Christian and I couldn't care less if someone way gay. They choose to live that way then good on them.
***** Hate, prejudice, intolerance - these are all learned behaviors. A child, playing on a playground, for example, doesn't know politics and will play with anyone. They don't care if another child has different colored skin, different colored hair, or even different parents. All they know is that they have someone to play with. It isn't until a child is told, normally by their parents, that they shouldn't play with certain others because they are 'different,' that a child will start to develop and learn to hate.
Thank you for your comments. I agree with Pheonix wooz. I am Christian but I realize I have been Bisexual all my life. It has been a very very difficult life trying to understand my feelings. I have lied to myself for so many years that I don't even know who I am until lately. Now that I understand myself and have accepted myself I have to learn to deal with it. As a bisexual you are in constant confusion. All I can say is my sexual attractions are as normal for me as a heterosexual guy is for a women. I have fought my feelings as long as I could . It is not a choice for me. It is who I am. GOD made me this way, and HE does not make mistakes.
Ken U How are you in agreement with Phoenix? I'm just curious, because, nothing in your statement, aside from both being Christian, supports what he/she stated.
Their jawline can literally cut any hater😂♥️
I like how you said jawline like a singular noun
@@chaotic_fever_drem6494 XD
I came out to my straight best friend and it was really surprising. He is a very manly guy he works out and loves sports so he is the stereotypical straight guy
Everyone excluding my parents and aunts and uncles knew at this point and I was going to go to a movie with him and my 2 other friends. I told my best friend that I needed to talk to him and he said sure. It was an awkward place but I told him and his response was
‘’Bro I had a feeling but I didn’t feel the need to confront you so I waited until you told me yourself.''
I was scared that he was going to disown me as his best friend but the next thing he did was hug me for a whole minute and a half telling me that nothing could ever change his perspective of me and I would always be his best friend.
I was crying throughout the movie and it was tears of joy. I freakin love my best friend!
❤
keep him!!!
Friends like that are most precious!!
Ur friend is a wonderful human.
That’s awesome
Aww you and your best friend sound so cool! I’m gay too, and damn I’m jealous but happy for you got that hug😂😂
Edit: getting*
How I came out to my mom:
Me: Mom!
Mom: (she yells from the other room) What Honey!?
Me: I’m bisexual!
Mom: WUT! (She DIDNT HEAR ME 😐)
Me: I AM BISEXUAL
Mom: GOOD FOR YOU- OH ARE YOU COMING OUT?! I THINK I WOULD BE CONFUSED IF YOU WERE STRAIGHT
Me: wut just happened
Bruh
@@meowpoosaymeow Ε έλεος πραγματικά έχω κουραστεί να σε βλέπω παντού 😂😂😂
I have 2 sons and if one of them ever came out to me I would hug them and say I love you and I support you 100%. You are my son and that will never change. I love you unconditionally. I believe in God and I believe he loves everyone! Hate does not exist in him. And neither should it in all you so-called christians. Just know that when your time comes God will judge you just like you are doing to these boys. God bless you all and have a nice day.
You are a sweetheart. Your boys are lucky to have you as their Mom.
Awww thank you so much. Your comment made me smile.
***** Says Lord Voldemort.
If God really hated gays that much, why would he put them on the planet?
***** Got proof?
I was like "Hey mom, I'm gay" and she just said "cool" ...
that was it...
ahahaha the best!
hahahaha your mum is the best
You have a great mom :))
Mine told me I wasn't and told me to buy a bird and dog, talk to them and I'll become straight again. I will never stop making fun of that.
Sam Lambert was she serious?
So uhm probably nobody will read this but here we go
I wanted to thank you for uploading, it actually encouraged me to come out as genderfluid and ace to my family. I first came out to my younger, 12-year old brother, he reacted in the best ever way. After, I came out to my dad, he reacted positively as well. Then I had to come out to my mother. She didn't show any acceptance at all, she yelled at me , she got damn violent. I even had to go to hospital. Now I live with my dad.
Even if I had to experience this, I'm really glad I came out in general, my dad's super supportive, loving and caring. Thank u guys for this encouragement.
Hey 👋, i hope everything is going fine now. Lots of love
when i grow up and have my own kids, i want to raise them so that they can comfortably tell me whatever it is about who they are :(((
Dad there's going to be some stuff COMING OUT on TH-cam
Dat pun. I'ma die now '-'
Kill me now please
Dad : A mukbang ?
There is some kind of ocean coming out of my eyes right now
...and it seems to be flooding the earth.
same
same
+Sam B lol same!!! I was like awww don't cry guys. I was sooo happy when their dad just accepted them. It was so adorbs
I'm not crying. My eyes are just sweating
Me : mom I'm gay ! ☹️
Mom : yes i know honey and that's alright...i love you... 😃
THAT WAS THE BEST MOMENT IN MY LIFE...!!
Me: mom I’m gay! ☹️ Mom: get out...
@@professorpennies idk what i have to say,im sorry but i little bit laugh but its actually sad too haha!!
Me: Mom, I'm gay.
Mom: I wondered when you were going to figure that out.
• Jake • im so sorry sweetie i hope you make things right w your mom lots of love🥺💜
@@elifsukoc9872 yes be türk buldum mutlu oldum.
Why do we have to cry for saying other people who we are ? 😢😭
Jeans Zambrano
Because it is forbidden.
Because we're ashamed. My sister locked herself in a room,attempted suicide after she came out to her friend who later turned out to be like her. She's feeling better so no worries
Please permit me to speak oh great one why exactly is that?
3:35 “I’m gay... And Aston is too....” SO GO DEAL WITH IT DAD!
He's called Austin, just to know
Austin
Very grt... I just came to that part and I found this comment
😂
You made it sound like they're gay for each other. 😂
umm... so my coming out story.
my mom disowned me... like she literally took all the pillows on the couch and threw them at me, she threw holy water at me( she keeps this little jar on the living room table)...
she called me the devil child and threw me out the house..
I moved out before I told her, she stopped talking to me and now we still aren't talking and I came out a year and a half ago..
but I guess oh well.. I have a stable income that provides me with what i need and more but I'm happy so..
Don't lose hope. No matter what.
Stay strong, you got this❤️
stay strong baby. no matter whats. love yourself. ❤
thank you. I really appreciate it...
Stay strong and continue to be who you are, someday you'll find someone who loves you for who you are x
This is adorable I came out to my mom two days ago and she accepts me and I'm happy
I’m a straight married man who’s been married for over a decade and this video made me cry.
"you are normal, what do you mean?" i'm fucking crying. i still can't come out to my parents, but i know i would never ever get such a nice response they would start shouting at me n i'll die
Same....
I just wanna say it doesn't matter your perfect in the eyes of God no matter what people say OK? your perfect
honestly same.
+Maria Vanessa Chang They KNOW... Trust me!
I think they can find out through here
5:44 I love him for saying that, a lot of parents can't seem to understand that and the fact that by being gay, their kids are not sick in ANY way, mentally or physically. They are being human in the most realest way
My parents said very similar things when I came out to them as Bi. It's so sad that not everyone has so understanding and accapting parents
I agree i hate how most people think their kids are sick because their gay
@@kc782 almost the same, I told my parents I had a girlfriend and my dad said "we love you, no matter what you are" but my mom said "don't label yourself at such a young age" I think if my mom was more accepting I would be much happier... but at least my dad accepts me and I've not yet been taken to a therapist because of the fact I'm a lesbian...
@@shirakilner2910 what age when u came out? (I know this was 2 years ago, sorry ahahah)
@@minheebear 14 LOL
I came out in 2013 when I was 19, and the amount of relief I just relived from watching this video is amazing. It's like the world finally lifting off your chest and you can breathe again.
Nice one, man. ❤
It's been 5 years but still made tears 💧💧 on my eyes 🥺
I told my dad I was gay recently. All he had to say was "I know, what do you want for dinner?"😂
I was so scared & so stressed out about telling him. I thought about what I would say for months, years even. Little did I know he knew the entire time, he told me he had a feeling I was gay since I was kid. He said never wanted to ask 'cause it might of came off as being rude. Thankfully I have a loving & supportive father. It's sad not everyone does💔
Just know that even if your family doesn't support you, their are people out there that will💜
I love this. This made my heart feel full.
IM DED YOUR DAD IS AMAZING
I Brought The Horizon aww!! I'm not personally gay, but that's really inspiring! The fact that he really didn't care, and that really, nothing is to be worried about, more people should know this tiny short story 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
This made feel better✨❣️
I am a gay identical twin who has a gay identical twin. We joined the Air Force together and after a couple years, we were discharged with about 40 other guys and girls for "homosexual activity" which the military described as going to a gay bar and associating with other "known" gay people. We were then forced to come out to our parents. Your phone call to your Dad is very similar to our phone call to our parents. They took it hard, but after a couple months we all actually grew a lot closer. My Father died a few years later and I learned more about him in those last few years than I had my whole life. He accepted our boyfriends like they were his kids as well. It was very emotional in the beginning and the time it took our parents to come to terms with it was rough. For my Father, my brother and I were the last men in our family to carry on the family name. By being gay and not having children, our family line ends with us. That seemed to be what upset my Father the most. I applaud you guys for doing this online and sharing with others. TH-cam wasn't around when we came out but watching your video now brings me right back to that day and I was crying with you. It is hard hearing your parents tell gay jokes and say demeaning things toward gays and then have to turn around and tell them you are what they have spewed jokes and prejudice over for so many years. They are more worried about what the neighbors will think or how they could hide it from their friends and other family members. That all worked itself out with time and I believe both of our parents died being proud of who we were as people and not about our sexuality.
There is no reason why you can't have children. If you want kids that you get them! I know that sounds harsh but there are plenty of ways for two dads or two mums to have their own children, your family name doesn't end with you. Don't worry :)
Rohan Williams That is absolutely true. The fact is that I am now 50 and my twin brother committed suicide in 2007. Although being gay doesn't mean you can't have kids or that a family name can't be carried forwarded, it just wasn't meant to be with us. I'm sure it will work and be a great joy for many others.
Gregg Crawford I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm a twin. I can't even imagine...
Shannon Liedel Thanks Shannon. Next month will be 8 years and there are still times I go to reach for the phone to call him out of instinct.
***** He took my Mother's death hard. She died 3 years before him. He cared for and lived with her the last two years of her life. He also ended a bad relationship. One he started while IN a 15 yr relationship which he always regretted after realizing that the grass was NOT greener. He didn't want to date again, but didn't want to be alone. His business had quit providing an income. After his death, I realized that he had taken my inheritance from my Mother's estate and spent it while continuing to give me excuses of why I hadn't received it yet. He also fought with Depression and Anxiety. He left a three page typed suicide note which I feel was more of excuses of why he felt he had no other choice. Basically, he felt like the best part of his life was over and he didn't see anything to look forward to. He realized there were so many battles he would have had to fight (money, living arrangement, job, theft, mental health, etc.).
I went to a Suicide Survivors group for a year which helped to know I wasn't the only one going through pain. Although I suffer from Depression and Anxiety, I reached out for help. I ended a 17 yr relationship and lost quite a bit as many do with divorce, but have continued to be hopeful that things will get better. Life is not easy. For me, my brother, or anyone. I believe the key is to ask for help when you need or want it. Stay social and just like anything else... take one day at a time.
I love this, 5 years later and it’s still 100% meaningful.
First time seeing this, as a Mom of 2 boys, this is so touching! So proud of you and your Dad and Family for supporting and loving you always!
I told my father that I was a heroin addict and he abandoned me like he has done all of my life. I'm five months clean as of yesterday and he still won't come around. You all have a wonderful, supporting father that didn't run for the hills at the first sign of turmoil.
I praise you for being yourselves in such a hateful world. Although society has become more acceptable to same sex couples, not everyone can open their eyes. Whether it be their religion or personal beliefs that block out that peace in their hearts, you took a chance and won.
I'm not gay nor have I ever wanted to explore the lifestyle. I just liked drugs and my father couldn't accept that. Maybe one day he will come back but by then I will have moved on.
Call your father and tell him you love him every chance you get because I don't get that opportunity.
That's his loss. Good job on your sobriety! God bless. 😊
Thank you!
You're very welcome !
M Leun Harding-Burke thank you for the support.
misscline1998 the support from people like you all helps tremendously.
Okay, wow, watching in 2018 and just watching you two in tears trying to work up the courage to tell your dad... shit, you guys are awesome. This is the first video I've seen you guys and it won't be the last. And now I'm in tears.
everything you said i agree with and I'm in 2018 to my first vid and I'm going to sub
Stfu i bet your gay too
I'm crying to and this is my first video i have seen to
Hajira S. C
You know, if they ever get married and have kids, their cousins won’t feel like the only ones in the family with two dads. Like, they’ll have someone within the family to relate to. I think that’s a beautiful thing! 🥰
What your dad told you guys was so impressive. A great parent he is! I hope you guys are happy and live your own lives.
I was crying eating my ramen noodles.
*cries while slurping noodles and burns self so cries even harder*
mikuhastune0124 LMFAO THATS ME
Mm ramen noodles 😛
Hahah
😂😂😂😂😫
Why is it that when they cry I wanna cry cause they are flawless
+Diamond 1 Yasuo ok so what
+Diamond 1 Yasuo maybe but you have no right to admit that
+Diamond 1 Yasuo lmfao "they are not flawless. They're gay" Truuuuu
+Erwin Rommel This comment disgusts me. You have absolutely no right whatsoever to say that. Jesus came to this earth and died for every single one of us. He loves everyone the same, whether gay, straight, or something in between. None of us are good enough to make it to heaven on our own, but that's exactly why Jesus died to save us. God does say in the Bible that practicing homosexuality is a sin, but He also says that every sin is equal. So unless you're absolutely perfect, I suggest you get the log out of your eye before trying to get the speck out of someone else's. Hating on others sure as heck isn't going to lead them to Christ.
+Diamond 1 Yasuo OMG what will I do now that someone, who doesn't impact my life, doesn't support me and the lgbt community! What will I do. I'm gonna cry. I'm crying so hard now that Someone I don't know and will never have the inconvenience to meet doesn't LIKE ME... I'm gonna tell my girlfriend this..
This video broke my heart seeing you cry but then filled my heart with your dads reaction and your relief.
I know it’s 6 years later but you should be proud of who you are and how have brave you are.
Oh, you poor boys. Awww! I want to put my arms around you both! I can see how hard that was for both of you. I'm do happy your father was so accepting.
I see that you posted this video 8 years ago so I don't know if you'll ever see this, but I want to wish you both exceptional happiness and much live in your lives.
I came out at 28, a year after my father died. He would have lost his mind. He was born in 1913, was a staunch bigot and racist and I only wish now in my late 60s that I could go toe to toe with him for all the horrible shit he put me through. C'est la vie!
Enjoy your lives, boys. Really. You've shoved a huge load off your shoulders. No more lies to tell. I hope you both have found the men of your dreams, and you are living your wildest dreams.
Kisses, cuties. You're so handsome! ❤❤❤❤❤
Good luck!
I'M STRAIGHT BUT I SUPPORT IT. IT'S NOTHING BAD JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE GUYS ♥️💛💚💙💜
ACE FAN Don't forget to sing your virtue..
When I came out to my dad, it was last year, I was so nervous and scared to tell my dad. He thought I was hurt or something like that and I was like no I'm not hurt or anything, he kept on asking me why I needed to tell him something, and I was "dad I'm gay...." I just stood there covering my face, and he had a surprised look on his face, and he started smiling, and I was like "please don't laugh at me" and I started crying, and he said "I'm not laughing at you, I'm just so happy that you told me" he gave me a big hug. And later on when I told him that I felt like a thousand pounds weight was just lifted off my shoulders, and I felt like me, and I felt like I could breathe. Today he always ask me if I have a girlfriend yet lmao
He said "look my girl, I don't care who you love all I care is for you to be happy, and I will support you my girl, and I love you so much" and he asked me if he was the only person I came out to, and I was like no I came out to my friends first and then to my sisters, they all support me :) and to this day I'm still coming out to my family.
Sabrina Ouskan that's so sweet
i came out to my dad by text cus i couldn't stop crying and i just said will you still love me no matter what? even if im about to tell you something you never expected and my dad said what you've lost your virginity and i was like yeah i have but not as you would think and he went WHAT? i said i was a lesbian and he was like why the waterworks and i said i thought you would disown me but that was years ago now we just make jokes about it which does seem immature but thats my dad for ya
I don’t even know who these people are and I’m crying help
SAME
I came out in my 40's. Life had been a struggle because of my hiding. When I finally came out everyone I told said " oh, we knew that" and that made me so mad cuz if you all knew, then where you to help me with the struggle...! So proud of what you are doing to help.
Awww they almost made me cry when they started crying. Their dad had a wonderful reaction
And this sounds weird but their faces are pretty
same here g
same
A parents place is to always support their child no matter what especially when that child needs a parents support.
Agreed. My mum told my brother and I that if either of us were to have been gay, she could live with that, and she'd still love us the same. Both my mum and I are Christians but we have very similar views on this.
If i could like this comment a thousand times, I would
I realize that I don't know either of you, but I'm proud of you. That took a lot of guts, and I'm glad that your dad reacted the way he did. I cried with you both.
I have watched this video about 15 times now, and you guys make me cry every time.
Love that you have a father that is open minded and loving to both of you guys . Thanks buddy for sharing this special moment of your lives . All the best to you bud .
Im litteraly crying that was so hard for you love from here
NUSKA Get over it you bonehead,their are young kiddies dying from cancer out there...
ROWDY PIPER Stfu no need to be rude
It’s kind of disturbing actually because we all kind of know that it started by them experimenting with each other 🤮 What are the odds that 2 twin boys are both gay.... weird AF! 😂 I bet the dad likes to get PEGGED in bed😂 Go look up what that is. Let me give you a hint... DILDO IN ASS😂😂😂😂😂 Anyway.. we all fall short because God told us how we are suppose to live you all. So I get people are normalizing it but still y’all!!! That don’t mean we should hate gay people or throw hate speech at them neither. We better than that. It just means we need to make it clear what’s right and what’s not. I’m a sinner.. just like you. So I can’t talk but the difference is I don’t try to normalize my sins and push that on kids causing confusion and deception. Anyway.. I don’t want to preach but I just want to say I hope 1 day these Brothers find Jesus and realize that he doesn’t want that for us. If they don’t.... at least repent and hope for a ticket into the kingdom. PEACE AND GODBLESS! (This is not hate.. just my thoughts out loud when watching this) ✌️
Ok I’m crying so hard right now. I’m 3 years late but it doesn’t matter. I’m so so so proud of you both. You are amazing ❤️🏳️🌈
vidsbyjl Me too but I'm so glad I saw this
vidsbyjl. Same
Gayyyyyyy
Rod Grymes duuuhhhh
Me too! Just watched today I'm sitting here crying like it was ME having to do that! Then immediately I felt happy after they told him! I can't imagine how HARD it is to come out.
The best moment in my life was coming out with my brother to our parents. I am so glad I came out first to my brother and the same thing flipped. I loved every moment of my coming out story because I was not alone and my parents exept us fully.
That’s how family love should be 🥹🙂❤️. Aww I love that!
At the beginning of the video I was wondering if they were coming out as gay or coming out as gorgeous
Both.
3 year later and I still crying my eyes out. This video its just incredible 🏳️🌈
Эльшан Магеррамов wtf does that mean?!
Эльшан Магеррамов stfu
It’s sad.
@@user-sh5vm2im9g literally just stop it. rn.
5 years later now. Its still inspiring🏳️🌈
I think the chance of having twins that are both gay is very rare, which makes both of you very unique. Well done!
I watched this when I was a teenager in HS in the closet to everyone. Now I’m 23 and out to my friends but still closeted to my family and this video still makes me cry
This is so beautiful and emotional and perfect. And I'm so proud of you both.
Hey Davey!
Couldn't of said it any better!
aaaw, I was almost crying too... this is wonderful :')
I am proud of them as well :)
Well said Davey, their Dad was good about it and I am proud of him as well as Aaron and Austin.
It's a yes from me.
*Golden Buzzer*
Yes
Brothers and sisters Carnaza lmao
Brothers and sisters Carnaza lol
Lmao
"You ARE normal, what do you mean?" OMG I'm cryin 😭😭😭
This is the first time I've seen your coming out video and have subscribed. I can't express with words how you both brought me to tears because your painful anticipation of rejection is real. There are so many who've chosen to take their lives because they've been rejected by those who proclaim to love whether it be parents, brothers, sisters, grandparents, uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, friends. The pain is real and your generation has created a comfort level in our country for this real and painful reality easier. Yet their are so many who will not accept nor will they. You are fortunate to have a loving father who knows the reality, his response though nervous is instant acceptance because his love for the both of you is greater. There's so much more I wish to share, my tears speak volumes. You touched my soul.
i think your father is diplomatic, understanding... and honestly the coolest.
he just tells you to live your lives.
God bless you and your whole family!
and i will keep in touch .
I agree.
Seriously? What's wrong with his profile pic?
mm sre bms lol but seriously whats the difference between his and yours
First off, congrats to you both for coming out to him. I know it's a big relief.
Now on to the haters. I have a question for you: If you're so disgusted, so opposed, etc., why are you looking up videos like this in the first place? Go live your lives and mind your own business and STFU. If you want to live in such a negative state, that's YOUR neurosis. Keep it to yourself.
I'd like to add that I see an incredible pile of ignorance in the comments. A clue I'd like to share:
It's a scientific FACT that about 10% of the population of non-human animals are same-gender oriented in at least 1800 documented species. So before you go crying "It's unnatural" maybe you should get your facts straight.
Just because you don't know or understand something, just because it's different, does not mean it's Wrong.
Gay people are NOT inherently less healthy in any way, either. Keep your ignoranc, insecurities and fears to yourselves.
Das Kitty
If that's the way you wanna view it so be it. Your view is still a hell of a lot better than the people who think it's a choice that can be "cured". As long as you know that it can't be "cured" you can go ahead and find it disgusting and that's ok.
Actually, nature abhors a vacuum (like the void between your ears). Do you even believe the stupid junk you type, or are you just trying to rile people up?
Thanks for helping reinforce my decision to steer clear of bothering to educate jerks like you.
Melissa Etheridge, George Michael, David Geffen, Sir Elton John... the list is far longer than you can handle, all the way back to Michelangelo and Alexander the Great, all gay. But yeah, gay people are fucked in the head.... says the stupid "kitty". Whatever.
***** "maybe you should get your facts straight", facts can't be gay!!??! Why are you telling me to get my facts STRAIGHT when you're supporting samesex in the same comment. I'm so confused...
(sarcastic if you couldn't tell) lol
Isn't this a great country, that you can be that fucking stupid, have that baseless an opinion, and still be allowed to run off at the fingers?
At the very least, stop trying to proclaim what emotions people feel and why, when you don't even know them.
Run on off now and badger someone who buys into your narrowminded doom-and-gloom perspective. Meanwhile, the rest of us will embrace enlightenment, recognizing that this is actually ushering in a new and better age of love, tolerance and prosperity for ALL living beings.
Wow, I can't stop crying from this. You guys have such a beautiful bond 😭 Oh I can't watch this anymore, this is gonna have me crying for a week..
I literally know how they felt from the starting. I literally cried. Lots of love.
Gay guys always seem to be the cutest man :(
Whyyy😭😂
Sara Tumba IKR!
so true
I KNOW
preach
I'm not sure if I should be watching this. This is so personal.
But it also takes courage and inspires a lot of people. So thank you!
That's why they did it; to encourage and inspire, and they've accomplished that.
M Leun Harding-Burke They have!
You guys are so amazing for doing that! It’s so hard. But I hope you found peace in telling him. Live your truth!
I ran across your video again after seeing it many years ago. More than any video, it captures the raw emotions and near terror of coming out to a parent. You guys were both very brave for doing that so openly with your dad.
when their dad was like "just stop it" i kinda got scared
oh hello me too
That was a stop it I already knew this it’s not hard to figure out with these two
Same
Same
I did too.
This is so beautiful. My son just came out. I always knew and I love him so much and I want him to be happy. It breaks my heart to see you struggle, afraid that someone won’t love you any more because of who you are.
Sprakle Sound this is a very wholesome comment
I hope my mom will be like you.🥺🥺
More parents need to be like you, cheers.
Thank you for sharing your experience. What you have to say is spot on and you are helping a lot of other's struggling with these same issues. The very best to both of you.
So sweet that you care so much about how your dad feels.He handled it well,am happy for you both.As long as your life makes you happy,live it that way!