DAD TRIES HOMESCHOOL FOR THE FIRST TIME *STRESSFUL
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- I took over for my wife and barely made it through the day. Stumbled through homeschool lessons and tried to remain positive. We have 4 children 7 year old, 5 year old, 2 year old and 8 months old. Overall I'm glad my wife left and gave me some time with the kids. She deserves a break!!
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Favorite parts...The Snack Time shot, the happy dance when you got Uzi down, the under the counter shots of Uzi in the rocker, the preview of Miss Anaya at the end, and the music as usual. I feel God's peace over the phrase "be alright".
Agreed!💯
Uriah: "...😢 he slappTed me..."
Beleaf: "...I mean, well then you gotta bob...and weave."
Yoooooo
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That had me cracking up!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
wasn't that the best!!! lol
Man I was so weak😂😂
Life lesson! lol 🤣🤣
I know!!! 😂🤣😂😂😂 I love that dad energy! As a mom, I would not have thought of that! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
As you were changing Uzi's diaper, I was thinking about how when we're in the midst of God cleaning up our mess, sometimes we're fighting God, crying, kicking an screaming thinking it's never going to be over and how much peace we feel when we're on the other side of that mess. How we can relax in his presence when His work (in that area) is complete.
So true!
That.is.DEEP.
Ohhhhh ma’am! You said a whole sermon!! 💗💓
Beautiful and true
Thank you Jesus for never giving up on our mess ! 😩
I love his voice when he’s narrating.
I felt that part about fatherhood not getting any easier as time goes on. My son is 4 and I'm starting to see many more ways that I can make an impact. Second one incoming this July :)
Congratulations!
Alexis Thank you!
Congratulations man! 👏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽
Lovefro8 thanks a lot 😁✊🏿
Blessings
I clicked on this because I thought it was gonna be a silly video that made me laugh, and it did, but I was truly touched.
Wow thank you!
Your face walking out of the bedroom after putting Uzzi down is priceless!! Aniyah walking down behind you with allll of the bracelets, so black girl magic!! Uriah's face after he slapped Theo's hand in the hand game, so full of confidence--Uriah "be like", "dis is what I dew!" And Theo's sincere focus and then shock with a smile when he was doing his learning game on the tablet was an interesting catch on camera. He was in his zone, "caught", yet recovered quickly with a smile. What a legacy y'all are creating for your entire family to look back upon!
Candice T look at you narrating so eloquently!
Dad: "you gotta bob and weave" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that look as he said it.
Beleaf, In 6 weeks I am going to be a first-time dad and very much looking forward to it. Your videos have helped me understand what it is like to be a great dad and what it takes.
Blessings
Chester Hurlston good luck!!! I wish you all the best
Its a blessing to see a black father taking care of his children. I never had a earthly father that would take time to take care of me like that but I let my Heavenly Father help me through it all. I don’t even have kids as I am still young myself but watching this channel and seeing how much progress you guys have to overcome its a true blessing to see.
my favorite part definitely has to be the way you chucked them snacks at the kids lol
You are a awesome father the kids are blessed to have you and your wife as parents. Yall Balance each other out as parents🙌. I'll answer your ? I think you should Adjust your parenting style per kid.
Thank you for answering!
I agree!
Your hair is AMAZING
Threw them snacks cool as hell 😂
I like how he just go direct to the video without talking a lot
Actions speak louder than words.
Nah who the hater who thumbs down this video??😂🤔👀 This was somewhat of a throw back video seeing you at home with all the kids alone. It's kinda like Beleaf 2.0 more kids but you seemed to have more patience,control and confidence.🖤
The victory dance out the room was everything
Uzi saying dada and you dancing out of the room after putting him down were some of my fav parts. ✨ feels like just yesterday you were home with the boys and Yvette was teaching outside of the home. God is so awesome.
Uzi’s expression in the thumbnail 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 his facial expressions are the best and he's so sweet lol
Oh Uzy is such a sweetheart. Both parents and kids need to adjust. Parents need to lead and guide but not rigidly each flower has it's own sunlight and water and correction.
Anayas push ups. LOL
All I can say is. WOW...YOU ROCK
Favorite part of video is Glen calm and presence to each child as the each needed even simultaneously.
Sue Prov Beleaf is super calm! Love that part also.
Just had a similar conversation with my three: parent to the need of the child meaning my capacity to love you all is the same, but it will look differently because you don't share the same needs. You did well Beleaf! I respect your juggling act.
Some children grow up to resent that. My uncle was very high need and so my mom and her sister got less. They are in there late 30s and mid 40s. My aunt resents it to this day and holds it against my grandmother. I would say to be fluid and if one child become high need come up with a plan to pivot and circle back around somehow.
@@ericawer6832 High need doesn't necessarily equate to more to me. My daughter has different needs with multiple allergies and eczema. It would be unrealistic to treat my son, who has no allergies and little to no anxiety resulting from it with the same approach. I don't give her more or less attention, her attention just doesn't mirror his. Fluidity for sure because later down the road his trepidation with sleeping in the dark warranted a different level of attention than she needed with desiring to sleep only in pitch blackness. One size will not fit all.
YES, her natural hair is beautiful! YES she is beautiful! Anya is naturally sweet and perfectly beautiful. The Almighty made it so ♡. I ♡ the beautiful Henry family.
Wow, this is so wonderful to see husbands do their wife’s job and experience first hand what we endure on a daily basis being mothers and wives is such a difficult task. Great job Glen & kuddos to Yvette for getting a much needed break🙏🏾👌🏾😘😘😘
How does George not die laughing while recording? 😂 A true professional! If it was me you would see the camera shake and fall to the ground at least twice a video
The edit are on points too. The transitions, the angles, the story telling through the lens. I love these kinda videos.
Who is George? Am so curious who is behind the camera!
@@lilylilylily yes the camera man
This into music SPITTING 🤣🖤
“My hair is beautiful”
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Ugh! These beautiful children! ....I wish we could see a vlog with Yvette living her best life on this day lol
I loved the analogy that you made between you loving your children the equally (4:20), but not in the same way, and how God loves all of His children the same, but not in the same way. Very good reminder for when I start comparing my life with others during times of trials. I'm getting exactly what I need, when I need it from my Father who loves me.
Videography goes crazy🔥🔥🔥
I kno right! I thought I was the only one watching it from a videography/creative perspective.
I always love everything about your vids... but def got teary whenyou we’re putting Uzi down & you kept kissing his lil cheeks... I do that with my son too- it’s like you get so overwhelmed by the amount of love you have for them in that moment while they sleep so sweetly.. Love watching you & Yvette parent, keep doing what y’all are doing! ❤️
this channel is really good i could watch his vids any time
Haven’t even watched the video but Uzi’s face in the thumbnail has me weak!!!! 😂🤣😂
He’s like “I’m too young for this!! Why y’all got me here with these jokas?!” 😂🤣😂🤣
I've two favourite parts, when you put your son down and walked out of the room like a Don. Your smile said it all. Also your daughter in the mirror at the end....just magic, you guys created magic in those children. Blessings🙏🏾
watching you put Oozy to sleep had me remembering the times I had to do just the same as you. people will always ask "how do you do it?" the only thing you can say that it's all God. Blessing Beleaf, you are always an inspiration to me to keep doing my best.
I was so frustrated today trying to teach my son who has been out of school for 3 weeks. This has encouraged me to be more confident and patient with myself as a parent. Something are just about progress and being in the moment; I just had to see it first hand. Thank you for helping me, much love.
I can't believe I've been watching since you had half the amount of kids, crazy how much yall have grown
Beleaf, you are killinggg it! Your kids are gonna think back and say, “ahhh, those were the days.” (You’re also killing the editing game, sheeeesh!)
This Is What You Call A Father 💯 Never Spent That Much Time With My Dad But That's Cool I Think Not Having A Father Will Make Want To Be A Parent More
Children naturally have different temperaments. For example, one child may have a calm temperament and never cry while another may make a fuss easier then the others. So, you should raise a child according to their temperament.
...lol...that foot under the table rocking the baby...lol...this is what you call WALKING AND CHEWING GUM AT THE SAME TIME! Multitasking is a special skill you need when you have children! There is nothing like parenthood!
This video was like a balm for my spirit. As a School Psychologist, I have seen the natural curiosity and love of learning extinguished in so many black boys at an early age. Children, especially boys were not meant to sit for long periods of time doing paper and pencil activities. I loved your exercise break after the lesson! You and your wife are doing a wonderful job, as evidenced by your happy, well adjusted children. Keep going. You make us proud!!
My favorite part was you putting Oozy down for the night.
Loved this video! I came up in the era where raising and taking care of the kids was the women's job. So nice to see you love and care for your kids while Yvette is gone and not appear to be bothered by it. Loved this video.
Psalm 37:23-24 "A man's steps are established by the LORD, and He takes pleasure in his way. Though he falls, he will not be overwhelmed, because the LORD holds his hand."
Beautiful family, so encouraging to see the love!
This vlog played a huge part for me in considering to have children. I know for a fact that it's not easy and anyone who tells you it is is lying, but I love being able to pour into little ones and watch them grow to become their own person. These are like the conversations I never had and don't think to have with my parents. Thanks for sharing. Stay dope.
If you are considering having these little humans, I encourage you! They are amazing beings and will teach you more than you will teach them.
not even done the vlog yet but I must say, the editing and production is amazing! love your family xoo
Beleaf your children are so blessed to have you as their father. Unfortunately, I did not have this kind of a relationship with my father until I was well into my late 50's. It took a lot of forgiveness on my part to finally have the relationship I wanted to have with my father. Continue to show your children that you love them and always be there for them. My favorite part was when you finally got Uzi to sleep and did the victory dance. This is an absolutely beautiful vlog. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Hey Beleaf. I've actually been following you since #Dreamjunkies KingsdremENT. And I've gotta say I love how you do your own music for the videos with your own youtube channel with your beautiful family. I know that Christ is the center of it all and has blessed you and your wife with those beautiful children. I just want to say GODBLESS!
In the end after Uzi diaper change, i got into my feelings about my own family an" when you said, everything is going to be alright, I started crying a little. Thanks for the word's of encouragement. God bless everyone on here amen.🙏🏾💘💘💘🙏🏾
Parents adjust to the child. Kind of like love languages. You learn how to love the person in a way they can interpret as love. I would imagine that's how we should approach our parenting. The core lessons don't change but the method can/does. I'm here being convicted in my parenting of my daughters as I type this....
“I don’t balance. Balance is keeping two things at equal weight...but you can juggle. Juggling implies that as one thing is ascending something else is falling down needing to be held on to” You have so much wisdom! ✊🏾
that snack time edit tho 😎
Watching you has helped me believe I will succeed in fatherhood. SALUTE!
Tony Timberlake III you will!!!
I loved everything about THIS video. It has more of, 'a day in the life', type of feel as opposed to an 'episode'. 😅 I'm only @ 7:40 seconds in 😆
My father had 7 kids and never found it difficult to raise and care for us. He made a choice not to complicate his life.
As a result, we as kids struggled so much raising and caring for each other. Did we hate or blame him? At first yes of course...we grew up having to envy every kid we knew that are lucky to have a responsible father and felt pity and ashamed of our fate. But this negative feelings must be burried and face the life ahead of us instead with more positivity. Beleaf is an absolute inspiration for good fatherhood. Much respect! The world will be a better place to have more father like him.
The dance out of the room. fav part.
My absolute fav was Beleaf's victory dance for when Uzi fell asleep. Brings back memories. I felt it.
Just watching you with the kids should be something all fathers should strive to be: better fathers. Love this video!
I wanna be a daddy
Capable and competent father. ROCK ON DAD. You got this. They got you.
"...its made my heart, soft. my old scares are tender again and my patience has endurance." 😢
I really enjoyed this video.. You didn't let them see you sweat. You're an awesome, Father and Husband. Thank you for sharing it with us.
That workout break was EVERYTHING!✨ There were so many epic examples of juggling while homeschooling going on it was hard to choose. Loved it all. 💕
Sheesh! Uzi already crawling AND ready to WALK! Slow dowwwn! Lol.
Oh my gosh the end! I used to be a nanny for 3mon and 9mon old and I felt that stress of trying to put the baby down Without waking him up and the dance once it finally sticks, man I felt that so hard 💕
Theo looks so much like his Mother today 😊
Favorite part: Dad dance after Uzzi went down. Yes to sleeping baby lol but I love your family so really it’s all a favorite! And Uzzi is a perfect mix of all the children 🥰 beautiful chocolate babies!
So many children need a father like this, awesome dad.
im 28, single and have no children.. yet i find myself loving this channel, and EVERY time you talk about your feelings or how in this video you speak about how having children changed your life... having a daughter has made you tender hearted i cant help but get choked up & cry... i never had a father growing up and to me you represent what a father could be 🙏🏼✨💕
VAYA CON DIOS
A day in the life Beleaf. This was precious and beautiful.
Little Uzi seems so happy when all the big kids are near him even under the kitchen counter as dad bounced the pink gadget he was in. Uzi has a wonderful smile and I love the Uzi noises he makes.
I just had my first baby in December and I can say your content and the life\tips you share with us has helped me so much - I've been following since the beginning - this is by far the best channel out there. Not having my dad growing up, then seeing your videos and your evolution has made me feel more capable as a parent; I wish you could know the depth of your impact. All that black boy/girl joy has been healing. Thank you Beleaf, bless up.
Positive vibes
Oh they are so cute good job daddy
To answer the question, I'm not a parent, but my mom being a single mother for most my life I did what I could to help and watched her. Something I watched her learn is that every kid is different and needs a different kind of support system to be brought up the best they can. While you can make the kids adjust to you, I don't think it's always the best method and makes it harder to capitalize on each kids individual strengths. they're all going to be different. For instance, some kids need to make the mistake and learn why it's a bad idea while others can simply be explained and other will watch the example of their elder siblings and learn from their mistakes. Some need tough love reality checks every now and then and other need calm and loving support circles to be guided the right way. It's important to evaluate the children and make sure you are guiding them properly to be the best them they can be.
Not a parent though, yet, hopefully one day lol. I'll see if I change my mind and what hurdles I'll end up facing.
I loved when you first tried to put Uzi down and, in his sleep, he reached for you again and you held for just a bit longer. Nothing like a father's love.
I've been gone from this channel for so long. Somedays God reminds me to come back to it. Seeing this representation of fatherhood is so encouraging. While I don't have kids of my own, I work with a lot of youth that look up to me. I recognize these struggles every day. I vibe with the idea that I care for them all differently.
I don't think your basic expectations change from child to child, but the methods you use to coax the best out of each child is as unique as they are.
Hi, I believe parents should adjust to each child for obvious reasons...God made us all different, gaves us all different gifts, personalities and learning abilities.
I was lol when you said snack time and through the snacks.
Caring for 4 kids gets real 💃🏾🤗
I think you did a great job!
Yay Yvette got a day off!! 💜🙌🏾
I can’t get tired of this show. It’s just something about watching you two be parents that keeps me coming back ❤️ you guys are truly blessed and loved 🤍
My favorite part of the video is that look of triumph on your face after you put Uzi to sleep, lol!
Peace ..parents adjust to each child. New people...different person..individuals...peace. Good to see Mother Chocolate is getting self time. You are one of many great black fathers that I always see;.but the world tries to deny. Great family... Peace.
As someone who didn't grow up with their pops, these clips bring tears to my eyes. I watching what I potentially missed out on growing up.
Children are different, you can’t even imagine how different, what works with one could ruin the others, as a parent you have to be a Jedi and find the right thing for each, and let me tell you a secret, you won’t ever know if you got it right, you just do your very best to live them all day every day, you got this!!!
Loved seeing Uriah rocking Uzi momentarily, Glen's victory dance once he was able to put Uzi down (😂) and Anaya's little laugh and beautiful smile right at the end 💕
It may be Theo's natural coloring but I had dark circles under my eyes as at his age. I had trouble sleeping deeply and appeared tired all the time even though I still had that kid energy. As an adult I finally got treatment for sleep apnea and realized I had been robbed of good sleep for years!
Yes Anaya!!! Baby girl knows her worth 💖
Parents need to adjust to the needs of their children. Each child is different. What works for one won't work for the other.
BEASTMODE LEAF! The dance at the end was so triumphant! Also looking in very good shape. Making me and other viewers proud to be human. Thank you.
Since I had a 3rd baby last year, I feel the same, Always hugging on him that even my middle 2 yr old is side eyeing me. I hate watching your vids at work because now I miss my little shitty batty boy. LOVE your channel black King
And the baby girl goes down stairs toooo. Awwww.
Beleaf, I only stumbled upon your channel last night. I have only seen three videos so far, but I really like it. I like a dad that is involved in his kids' lives. I don't have kids as I am young and single right now, but I can't imagine how you (or anyone) is homeschooling right now. The part of the video where you are rocking your son and helping two of the others with different homework on either side of you just made my head spin!!! More power to you, my friend!!!
Wow! You are an amazing father. Honestly my favorite part was you putting Uziah to bed. The love and the bond with an infant is beautiful. Sooner than you know he'll be Theo's age.
😍 baby girl is SO beautiful
My favorite part, you multi-tasking with Anya and Uzy!!! All fathers need to pay attention to that part. Least favorite, Uzy crying because he is tired. I don't know too many babies that like crying themselves to sleep. I think I spoiled my kids (rocked them to sleep) until they got older. Oh wait...…….you figured that part out. Good for you.
Love it. Great Dad. Great man. Great husband. Great wife. Great children. God bless you all
I am changing every time I watch one of your videos. I’m becoming a better mother….thank you for having the courage to share your life and family with us 🙏🏽🤎😇
Your a great Dad the way you have them play together and individually priceless,
We grow with our children. Love always allows for grace.
“My patience has endurance” *insert black church sounds here*
parent or not, we all adjust to each other, that is what i believe. I feel from what i see you are doing such an amazing job with your children; I'm so proud of you all.