Right, do activities with them, your wife can teach them how to Cook, you can teach them a sport you like. Just go walk outside etc. It's healthier btw
@@ebuqble33 ik bro, i'm not married yet too. Do you think it's a good idea to create like a real halal dating app for traditional people ? Not like tinder, or pure matrimonial but a real halal traditional way. With meeting with someone from the "staff" always there to watch you know.
Already learnt how to cook my favourite dishes from TH-cam. Don't need my mum to teach me that lol. But I'm 15 so my parents trust me to be responsible with my phone and thankfully don't treat me like a child who needs to be monitor 24/7. Feel sorry for his older kids because as soon as they turn 18 it's going to hit them like a tonne of bricks when they buy smartphones for the first time. If they've never been taught how to be safe online they're not going to know anything and they might go wild
@@Cherries2249you didn't watch the video, he said not to use the Phone as a substitute and to have some times in the Day where everyone not only children but all family member close their Phone. And also i can add that the richest people in the world and the one who created tiktok for exemple dosen't let their Child have a Phone. Because it's bad. And when you don't give a Phone at your Child until his 12 for exemple then you can explain to him why. And I can add that you can buy a tablette with Just play store for exemple and no internet so he can play video game for exemple. And you can buy him a tablette and let him use it but not alone in his room because it Would be easy for shaytan to manipulate him etc etc. I could argue for hours as why it's bad to Just let the child free with a Phone. And btw you are 15 but the mom can teach a child or you how to Cook to have a good time not only to learn something, same for sport.
What you won't understand until you become a parent is that we don't use it as a substitute for parenting. Sometimes children don't want to learn and will make a fuss if you play with them. You calm them down with phone and then you talk to them and it won't happen again, vs explaing it to them hundreds of times and they don't get. There are also times where they just need to be quiet, no questioned asked. Like on areoplane or train.Or when there is nothing to do like family dinner, home alone etc.
Jazakallah Khair brother. This problem affected me personally as I was growing up. Nowadays too many people are glued to their screens. Inshallah we will beat screen addiction. ❤️☝🏽
Yes indeed, an expert, forget his name now, said this and added that when GenZ have kids, they’ll be the ones who take their kids off of phones although to be honest, God knows what will come out next to even replace phones. I think Mark Zuckerberg for one, is thinking in that way…so phones probably will not be the problem some time down the future!
Restricting your teenage children until it starts to backfire and they start doing stuff without your knowledge. Sounds good... This is like not giving your children candy and they end up becoming drug addicts.
Got my phone at 11 and my parents do monitor me although I do have more freedom now as I'm 15, nearly 16. Dad was always the limit phone type of parent but he worked long hours so he wasn't home a lot to enforce that. My personal opinion is that I don't think it's good to completely shield teenage kids bc if they don't know how to handle the internet and how to stay safe online, when they're an adult and buy a phone they won't know how to protect themselves and the dopamine rush of all those apps hitting them at once might make them do things or see things that they'll regret
Is this sarcasm ?! Cause the advise of raising children with no phone and social media is a legitimate advise that specialist do. At least to a certain age like 12.
World War 3 could stop that. But yeah, this same thing happened to me, and now I’m deciding, “maybe virtual technology, or even digital technology in itself, is a massive problem in itself.”, so I decided to switch careers from here on now. There’s no way I’ll seek a job too stupid that only robots could do a lot more better capability with. I’m not interested in intellectual strength, I’m interested in physical ones, stuff that I like to build with. Like structural buildings and materials. And I’m afraid the technology had already robbed me from that right. Which I’m supposed to reclaim it back later on.
I disagree. What you're doing is the same as removing arms from society because someone half across the country was shot unalived. The issue is that you don't provide the right environment to get used to technology. If you are using technology that exposes children to fitna, what learning and knowledge about technology have you passed on? Why can't Muslims actually take time to learn technology and develop a healthy learning environment without social media? Tell children to learn coding and IT. Tell children to learn about data privacy and anonymity. Tell kids to research and use advanced tech like Linux and GrapheneOS. Get your children to play with engineering devices early on, like Arduinos instead of childish toys that waste time. Sure, it might develop some critical skills, but there are more productive alternatives. This tech neoluddite mentality, being averse to tech, is the reason why Muslims are being unalived, when "they" have more knowledge than us and putting the likes of AI and tech to work, while we sit twiddling our thumbs without a solution.
Your young children arent going to learn those useful things if you just give them internet access and let them do whatever they want. They are gonna consume filth and brainrot. Also, whats with your inferiority complex? Muslims have a lot of excellent minds, and the muslim masses arent any less smart than kuffar. This is a whitewashed idea of the world. The real reason why we are behind dunya wise is because we left the deen. You have some hadith on these kinds of topics, you can perhaps look it up.
Did you go thru the whole video? He mentioned not using the phone as a substitute for parenting at the young age. There are ways to educate children without giving them the phone. While I do agree that we should make use of technology for the progression of learning, it should be done correctly.
@@aqilselamat5619Akhi, half way through, he mentioned keeping tech away from teenagers and the like as well. My point still stands. A healthy environment includes one where youngsters can teach themselves in the absence of parents, without tech acting as their parent - mostly social media and content platforms. You are making two different things equal.
@@blankexistence i get what you're saying and I agree with you, but if the parents can't monitor the phone usage of their children, they should keep the phones from them totally, because in that case it does more harm than in does good. And then of course, as you said, kids should use internet to learn and if they start from a young age they are gonna adapt to it and its gonna become normal for them to use phones in that way and not for wasting time. This is just my opinion, but Allah SWT knows better. May Allah lead us all to the right path
Yes, I agree that we need to have a healthy environment for the children to educate themself, but it depends on the parent themselves to judge that their children are capable to do that by themself. I don't think the video here says anything of being adverse to tech. Just to have a strict restriction on giving access of the phone to the children.
What are you aiming for with this comment ? Daniel is a well knowledgeable person and a Sunni Muslim. He has his ways of sarcasm or whatever. You can disagree with him in some of his ways or opinions and you should not accept any of his mistakes. But such things doesn't make brother Daniel a deviant or ignorant person ! May Allah guide us all.
What you won't understand until you become a parent is that we don't use it as a substitute for parenting. Sometimes children don't want to learn and will make a fuss if you play with them. You calm them down with phone and then you talk to them and it won't happen again, vs explaing it to them hundreds of times and they don't get. There are also times where they just need to be quiet, no questioned asked. Like on areoplane or train.Or when there is nothing to do like family dinner, home alone etc.
I have 2 kids 11 and 7 and no phone no TV for so long we play together read and learn quran together الحمد لله شكرا أخي دانيال
You are well blessed.
Still don't give them phone in private instead tv in public should enough when timing
جزاكـ الله
The internet is very dangerous, our children should not be able to use it unsupervised.
Daniel spot on as always! I see this too often in my own family. Child cries and mom immediately gives the phone. What a disaster.
Same...
Same for me
excellent advice
Right, do activities with them, your wife can teach them how to Cook, you can teach them a sport you like. Just go walk outside etc. It's healthier btw
For that you need a good wife bro ..😅 that's hard to come by
@@ebuqble33 ik bro, i'm not married yet too. Do you think it's a good idea to create like a real halal dating app for traditional people ? Not like tinder, or pure matrimonial but a real halal traditional way. With meeting with someone from the "staff" always there to watch you know.
Already learnt how to cook my favourite dishes from TH-cam. Don't need my mum to teach me that lol. But I'm 15 so my parents trust me to be responsible with my phone and thankfully don't treat me like a child who needs to be monitor 24/7. Feel sorry for his older kids because as soon as they turn 18 it's going to hit them like a tonne of bricks when they buy smartphones for the first time. If they've never been taught how to be safe online they're not going to know anything and they might go wild
@@Cherries2249you didn't watch the video, he said not to use the Phone as a substitute and to have some times in the Day where everyone not only children but all family member close their Phone. And also i can add that the richest people in the world and the one who created tiktok for exemple dosen't let their Child have a Phone. Because it's bad. And when you don't give a Phone at your Child until his 12 for exemple then you can explain to him why. And I can add that you can buy a tablette with Just play store for exemple and no internet so he can play video game for exemple. And you can buy him a tablette and let him use it but not alone in his room because it Would be easy for shaytan to manipulate him etc etc. I could argue for hours as why it's bad to Just let the child free with a Phone. And btw you are 15 but the mom can teach a child or you how to Cook to have a good time not only to learn something, same for sport.
I understand this as a Muslim child myself.
الحمد لله
What you won't understand until you become a parent is that we don't use it as a substitute for parenting. Sometimes children don't want to learn and will make a fuss if you play with them. You calm them down with phone and then you talk to them and it won't happen again, vs explaing it to them hundreds of times and they don't get.
There are also times where they just need to be quiet, no questioned asked. Like on areoplane or train.Or when there is nothing to do like family dinner, home alone etc.
Absolutely
Absolutely
Jazakallah Khair brother. This problem affected me personally as I was growing up. Nowadays too many people are glued to their screens. Inshallah we will beat screen addiction. ❤️☝🏽
Yes indeed, an expert, forget his name now, said this and added that when GenZ have kids, they’ll be the ones who take their kids off of phones although to be honest, God knows what will come out next to even replace phones. I think Mark Zuckerberg for one, is thinking in that way…so phones probably will not be the problem some time down the future!
I am grateful that my parents didn't give me an access to a phone so early as of right now I don't own a phone
Flip phone i am gonna buy
So true 😢
Restricting your teenage children until it starts to backfire and they start doing stuff without your knowledge. Sounds good... This is like not giving your children candy and they end up becoming drug addicts.
This is why they want to cancel this man.
Alhamdulillah, share.
Gps for knowing your location in an emergency, dumb phones are virtually nonexistent some places
Use apple AirTag
Use apple AirTag
we’ve never had GPS for the whole existence of humanity and we’ve been fine
Or the games...
First the child must have a basic understanding of the religion, that way he wouldn't be easily manipulated by the bad influencers of internet
Children are pissed
Got my phone at 11 and my parents do monitor me although I do have more freedom now as I'm 15, nearly 16. Dad was always the limit phone type of parent but he worked long hours so he wasn't home a lot to enforce that. My personal opinion is that I don't think it's good to completely shield teenage kids bc if they don't know how to handle the internet and how to stay safe online, when they're an adult and buy a phone they won't know how to protect themselves and the dopamine rush of all those apps hitting them at once might make them do things or see things that they'll regret
You're right. My parents gave me a phone and I ended up majoring in computer science.
Bruh🤣
Is this sarcasm ?! Cause the advise of raising children with no phone and social media is a legitimate advise that specialist do. At least to a certain age like 12.
World War 3 could stop that.
But yeah, this same thing happened to me, and now I’m deciding, “maybe virtual technology, or even digital technology in itself, is a massive problem in itself.”, so I decided to switch careers from here on now.
There’s no way I’ll seek a job too stupid that only robots could do a lot more better capability with. I’m not interested in intellectual strength, I’m interested in physical ones, stuff that I like to build with. Like structural buildings and materials. And I’m afraid the technology had already robbed me from that right. Which I’m supposed to reclaim it back later on.
Probably you never watched elsa gate or cocomelon
Welcome to the real world.
Luckily i dont have this addiction cause i mostly spend my free time on video games
I disagree. What you're doing is the same as removing arms from society because someone half across the country was shot unalived. The issue is that you don't provide the right environment to get used to technology. If you are using technology that exposes children to fitna, what learning and knowledge about technology have you passed on? Why can't Muslims actually take time to learn technology and develop a healthy learning environment without social media? Tell children to learn coding and IT. Tell children to learn about data privacy and anonymity. Tell kids to research and use advanced tech like Linux and GrapheneOS. Get your children to play with engineering devices early on, like Arduinos instead of childish toys that waste time. Sure, it might develop some critical skills, but there are more productive alternatives. This tech neoluddite mentality, being averse to tech, is the reason why Muslims are being unalived, when "they" have more knowledge than us and putting the likes of AI and tech to work, while we sit twiddling our thumbs without a solution.
Your young children arent going to learn those useful things if you just give them internet access and let them do whatever they want. They are gonna consume filth and brainrot.
Also, whats with your inferiority complex? Muslims have a lot of excellent minds, and the muslim masses arent any less smart than kuffar. This is a whitewashed idea of the world. The real reason why we are behind dunya wise is because we left the deen. You have some hadith on these kinds of topics, you can perhaps look it up.
Did you go thru the whole video? He mentioned not using the phone as a substitute for parenting at the young age. There are ways to educate children without giving them the phone. While I do agree that we should make use of technology for the progression of learning, it should be done correctly.
@@aqilselamat5619Akhi, half way through, he mentioned keeping tech away from teenagers and the like as well. My point still stands. A healthy environment includes one where youngsters can teach themselves in the absence of parents, without tech acting as their parent - mostly social media and content platforms. You are making two different things equal.
@@blankexistence i get what you're saying and I agree with you, but if the parents can't monitor the phone usage of their children, they should keep the phones from them totally, because in that case it does more harm than in does good. And then of course, as you said, kids should use internet to learn and if they start from a young age they are gonna adapt to it and its gonna become normal for them to use phones in that way and not for wasting time. This is just my opinion, but Allah SWT knows better. May Allah lead us all to the right path
Yes, I agree that we need to have a healthy environment for the children to educate themself, but it depends on the parent themselves to judge that their children are capable to do that by themself. I don't think the video here says anything of being adverse to tech. Just to have a strict restriction on giving access of the phone to the children.
Did you really think having Daniel Haqiqatjou give advice on this is the best example
It's the core message we should understand. Everyone has their own fault so just take the good points
What's your point other than sounding like a hater?
Yea what's the problem with him?
What are you aiming for with this comment ?
Daniel is a well knowledgeable person and a Sunni Muslim.
He has his ways of sarcasm or whatever. You can disagree with him in some of his ways or opinions and you should not accept any of his mistakes. But such things doesn't make brother Daniel a deviant or ignorant person !
May Allah guide us all.
@@Yami_Lawyer Agreed
I advise my brothers and sisters don't listen to this brother, He does Haram's on daily occasions
Would you care to include some evidences.
It's not ethical to defame someone yk without having legitimate proofs.
Oh Come on Akhi, Who doesn't do harams be it Big or Small on daily Occasions?, it's Human nature we're not Perfect.
How about you post advice from actual scholers of Islam? What is this guy doing here? Do you know he has 0 knowledge of Islam?
What you won't understand until you become a parent is that we don't use it as a substitute for parenting. Sometimes children don't want to learn and will make a fuss if you play with them. You calm them down with phone and then you talk to them and it won't happen again, vs explaing it to them hundreds of times and they don't get.
There are also times where they just need to be quiet, no questioned asked. Like on areoplane or train.Or when there is nothing to do like family dinner, home alone etc.
He has children. And No phone parenting is a well known method specialist advice.
Then what do you do in these 2 circumstances