What Jesse said about breaking someone's trust and accepting the responsibility to forever try to make the person you've wronged to trust back, is so profound and I wish people understood that.
To me the purest remorse is when you take full responsibility, commit to making amends and expect no forgiveness. They may or may not forgive you, they don't owe it to you.
Guys😭 I love love. I don't get over hearing different stories of how people met and fell in love. I see and hear so much of God in these little stories that change people's lives. Everytime I watch, I become more patient and willing to wait of God because this kind of love is worth all the waiting in the world. This was beautiful
"..when I feel like I'm loosing myself, I come back and I tell you. Because I don't wanna loose you too.." 😢 ..Yoh this was worth my wait. Good Lord 😍😍🤗😍😍. I love love batung.
Jesse's insight on insecurity and how one should approach the situation when you've been in the wrong is absolutely incredible! Thank you for setting the standard for black men in SA! ♥👏
I agree with him that's why I won't stick around any relationship that makes me feel insecure. The whole thing of assuring and reassuring is too much work for me...
I loved the part Jesse said 'while some people are waking up thinking about what to make for breakfast, I'll be thinking about how to make her happy' 😊♥️♥️ i felt that
This is so cute… I remember seeing them (the couple) at a McDonalds in Northriding. I can’t explain it, they were so smitten with each other, holding hands etc to the point where l couldn’t even ask for a picture so l just watched them 😄. I love love … I knew nothing about their relationship but just watching them together made me happy. I was smiling all the way to the car.
"He's taught me love is kind." 🥺😭Fall in love with a kind man and all the other good qualities will follow. This was beautiful and they're a beautiful reminder that love is beautiful 👏🏽😊
Dear Defining, I just want to let you know that I am a Ugandan out here who has returned for the 10th time to rewatch all these episodes all over again like a child’s favorite show! Dear Defining,😂 I would like you to know that I begun to believe that sweet love exists because of these episodes. And now it’s been years since you released any, If you had stopped,please dont 😭 You start looking for other couples now,I can even help you find them😂😂so bad I’m not in South Africa, but imwe…. Even the breakup episodes,I CRRRRIIIEEEDDDD!! Till this day I cry when I watch them 😂 But thank you for sharing the honesty in love in every aspect.the good,the bad,the ugly ,the joy and the pain. Please please give us more episodes 😢
I was in taxi home when i was watching this episode unfortunately got into an accident and my phone crashed, now that I've recovered i decided to come and finish the episode because i love watching the two of you.. ❤❤❤❤
This is so beautiful. Especially the part when Jesse was talking about rebuilding trust. He broke her trust and he’s doing everything to rebuild it and over time she’s become secure and I love that
I love love. I love seeing people happy. I love how Defining stays changing the narrative with such real and beautiful content. Thank you guys. Jesse and Thuthu are the cutest 😍.
I came back to watch this episode again because Jesse opened up about causing someone to be insecure. I definitely wish more people were as intentional as he is about trying to fix their wrongs and the pain they have caused. Wow
This made me cry. Thought I had this with my husband but ke. Love is beautiful. Your love is beautiful. May you two both see the value in each other and never ever do anything to compromise it. May this laughter remain between you guys forever 🥰
I cannot get over this channel,giving many hope that there is truly love out there. And that when two people make a conscious decision to work and be together it can truly work out.
They look like the male and female version of each other. Like they are a pair that had to come together... To find a partner (love and life partner) is really a blessing.
"The love I know I deserve...", and am still awaiting. Love is beautiful when both partners are genuinely steering the ship together. Thank you team for blessing us with this episode ♥️
I'm crying at the "he taught me that love can be kind. Love IS kind". My ex was so mean to me. Dang! That man hurt me. I'm waiting in the Lord for some kind man.
She has such an infectious laugh and a wonderful personality. He is so chilled and affectionate. They are made for each other. I have been smiling for the entire episode.
You 2 make me believe in real love again...when you express the "kindness", that's so key...wish you both unending love for the rest of your lives! God bless
Great way to start the year... I honestly cried watching this as these two are so genuine and learnt quite a lot about relationships and the importance on understanding your partner.
Yooh their love gives out chills, the entire episode I was blushing with them and genuinely happy. I mean love is light and warm, gentle and firm. Yooh I loved this episode, love you Jesse for loving and being gentle to Thuthu. Love is beautiful, thank you for setting the bar and still giving us hope about our South African Brothers 🙌
I don't know how many times I've come to this video in the last 11 months. So much love, care and respect. Friendship, companionship and compassion in one video. I love it so much. I look forward to loving and being loved to doing life with my person. To my baby girl see you soon and love you even sooner. 🥺❤️❤️
Am literally in tears from 14.16 my God this is beautiful especially when you find the one your heart beats for and is your answered prayer from God 💫💫
I pray my son becomes like this to some lucky lady and he gets to have someone who loves him wholeheartedly as she does... Thank you for reminding us that true love exists
1. You can tell that he genuinely loves her, and I love that for her 🥰! 2. She glows under the spotlight of that love 😊. 3. Y'all reading this had better not be filling up gym classes busy looking for love 😂😂
If you didn't know what unconditional love looks like then this episode has shown you. Shout out to Jesse and Thuthu. What an epic love story.😁❤️😎 Love is what we all need.
i absolutely enjoyed this video especially that lesson on insecurity by Jessie. you guys make love attainable and beutiful. And a huge shoutout to Defining for doing this #DEFININGLOVE series. we need more content like this in this time of high divorce rates and mjolo pandemic. i love you guys so much. we need a spin off of this series in Botswana.
Call it Fate however I can relate 200%I found love can't believe that someone somewhere is going through what I am going through. GOD IS GOOD AND ITS HIS TIMING 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼
As I take notes... ✍🏽
So in 2022, i'm going to the gym and sending out "👀" in the dms... got it😭❤️
Same sis😂😭
😂
😂😂😂Yoh ayy you finished me 🤣😭
Sakuthandi 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣once
dont lie, ur also here from Lasizwe`s awkward date 🤣🤣 I see u
😂
Wow😂😂
1000%! So confused!!😮
😂
😂😂😂😂
These two are just so genuine 🥺. Shout out to Jesse & Thuthu for featuring on the channel💕! Let's get this video to 15K likes🔥
🙄 I don't.
Came back today after they got married over the weekend❤❤
What Jesse said about breaking someone's trust and accepting the responsibility to forever try to make the person you've wronged to trust back, is so profound and I wish people understood that.
Right ❤️❤️❤️
He was really on the money there and we're so glad he was transparent enough to share that truth
You and me both. 🤞🏽
So trueeeee!!
To me the purest remorse is when you take full responsibility, commit to making amends and expect no forgiveness. They may or may not forgive you, they don't owe it to you.
Their relationship is so amazing and honestly shout out to cute guys who can still genuinely love like this.
It's rare but i believe it still exists ausi Lesego.
❤️❤️❤️
He's is cute
I love seeing black women in healthy relationships 😭❤
❤🥺🥺🥺
We would love to see Sipho and Black Wendy
That's another love story I would love to hear ❤️
You see the vision 😭😭
Me me me
Shuuuu YES!!
Would love that please!
Guys😭 I love love. I don't get over hearing different stories of how people met and fell in love. I see and hear so much of God in these little stories that change people's lives. Everytime I watch, I become more patient and willing to wait of God because this kind of love is worth all the waiting in the world. This was beautiful
Well said ♥️
Preach
Amen
Beautiful comment Neli❤
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When you feel like giving up on love remember this channel 🥺
🥺❤❤
Appreciate this channel honestly.. It gives me hope
I've already given up unfortunately 😔😔
@Lesego mathoka 😂😂😂😭Let's go today
Honestly 😭
Black women deserve love that is kind and generous and genuine and I'm here for all of that!
Facts!!!
The message we need to put across is, we all, equally, deserve that kind of love.
@@xbusika Respectfully, I said what I said.
@@Between2_worlds good for you?!
Why am i crying ?! A love that has prayer in it is always so beautiful !!
I don't think its tears, its them onions and they got into my eyes too.
Amen 🥺❤️
You can tell they don't only love eachother but they genuinely like eachother. You can see the friendship within this beautiful relationship 🙏🏾🥺
🕯️God, when😞🥺🙏🏾🕯️
You're so right Nolwazi! Their friendship shines through 🥺❤️
Nahhh because 😭
They're so picture perfect
I'm jealous!
I claim this energy and their chemistry 🔥 AMEN!
Their chemistry is incredible 🥺🤌
Not me smiling like an idiot 2 minutes into the episode 🔥❤😍😭.
That was me🤣
Me too! 😊
Me too 😍😍😍
Me too❤
Me too😁😁
"..when I feel like I'm loosing myself, I come back and I tell you. Because I don't wanna loose you too.." 😢 ..Yoh this was worth my wait. Good Lord 😍😍🤗😍😍. I love love batung.
🥺🥺🥺🥺😍
This was the one yhoo
@@ceciliamorare8832 absolutely 😍.
Glad it was worth the wait Stembile 🥺❤️
Yoh! That got me too...🥺♥️♥️😭😭🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰
Jesse's insight on insecurity and how one should approach the situation when you've been in the wrong is absolutely incredible! Thank you for setting the standard for black men in SA! ♥👏
Insecurities are such a burden for the next person though. And an emotional drain for both.
Totally loved that as well
We're so grateful that he was so vulnerable with our viewers 🥺❤️
This was a beautiful lesson.
I agree with him that's why I won't stick around any relationship that makes me feel insecure. The whole thing of assuring and reassuring is too much work for me...
This couple oozes soft and gentle love🥺♥️ it's pure and effortless
They've got THAT thing 🥺❤️
I love the background music that plays all the time when couples read out letters to each other.
Same 🥺❤️
Defining is safe space for couples, its so therapeutic. Couples get to be confronted with certain topics they hardly talk about.
We are so grateful that the couples trust us when we're shooting together 🥺❤️
I once bumped into these two at a Roccomamas. Super down to earth people these two.
They really are 🥺❤️
I'd listen to Thuthu speak the whole day. Her voice is soothing 😫
I loved the part Jesse said 'while some people are waking up thinking about what to make for breakfast, I'll be thinking about how to make her happy' 😊♥️♥️ i felt that
I love this channel because it contradicts all I ever hear about South African men. So refreshing to watch these couples 💝
Thank you Fatu 🥺
This is so cute… I remember seeing them (the couple) at a McDonalds in Northriding. I can’t explain it, they were so smitten with each other, holding hands etc to the point where l couldn’t even ask for a picture so l just watched them 😄. I love love … I knew nothing about their relationship but just watching them together made me happy. I was smiling all the way to the car.
Ahhh, nothing like a dreamy episode of Defining Love to revive my 'SBWL irelationship' energy everytime it dies down.
Lol
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😂🤣 we got you Mandlakazi ❤️
😂😂😂😂
"He's taught me love is kind." 🥺😭Fall in love with a kind man and all the other good qualities will follow. This was beautiful and they're a beautiful reminder that love is beautiful 👏🏽😊
Notification Gang🥳! Where you at??
🥳🥳🥳🥳 We are definitely here.
@@lindiwemtshali1643 🥳🥳🥳
12:03-13:08 I love that. I hate being rushed to heal. The person has to focus on what they’re fixing and not how quick I’m healing.
Exactly Kamo 🥺❤️
Back here, because wow man🥺🥺😭
I’ve never seen two people gel together so effortlessly 😭 This has got to be my favorite episode
Thank you for coming back 🥺❤️❤️❤️
Me too😍
I've been ignoring this series because I was tired of crying but I'm back again, enjoying it so much, smiling and crying again. Love is beautiful
Thuthu is sooo cute 🥰 and she doesn't have any makeup on guyzzz
She really is beautiful 🥺❤️
Dear Defining,
I just want to let you know that I am a Ugandan out here who has returned for the 10th time to rewatch all these episodes all over again like a child’s favorite show!
Dear Defining,😂
I would like you to know that I begun to believe that sweet love exists because of these episodes.
And now it’s been years since you released any,
If you had stopped,please dont 😭
You start looking for other couples now,I can even help you find them😂😂so bad I’m not in South Africa, but imwe….
Even the breakup episodes,I CRRRRIIIEEEDDDD!! Till this day I cry when I watch them 😂
But thank you for sharing the honesty in love in every aspect.the good,the bad,the ugly ,the joy and the pain.
Please please give us more episodes 😢
That part about insecurities is the most authentic I've seen on this channel.
It was very genuine 🥺❤️
What every girl dreams of , I'm so happy such love exists. This is the cutest
Thank you Kelly 🥺❤️
I was in taxi home when i was watching this episode unfortunately got into an accident and my phone crashed, now that I've recovered i decided to come and finish the episode because i love watching the two of you.. ❤❤❤❤
I'm sorry hey!
Sorry thato
Oh...sorry
Seeing young people genuinely in love give 🥺
🥺❤️
This is so beautiful. Especially the part when Jesse was talking about rebuilding trust. He broke her trust and he’s doing everything to rebuild it and over time she’s become secure and I love that
It was so well said! Thanks for watching Bongiwe 🥺❤️
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Thuthu is soo cute😍
She really is 🥺❤️
Their love feels so genuine. They seem like they really appreciate and love each other. It's beautiful to see.
I love love.
I love seeing people happy.
I love how Defining stays changing the narrative with such real and beautiful content. Thank you guys.
Jesse and Thuthu are the cutest 😍.
Thank you Kuda 🥺❤️! We appreciate you too 🥺
I came back to watch this episode again because Jesse opened up about causing someone to be insecure. I definitely wish more people were as intentional as he is about trying to fix their wrongs and the pain they have caused. Wow
They look like siblings. Love is a beautiful thing 😭❤
One thing I’ve learnt here is that love does exist. We may just be unlucky at that certain moment in life otherwise it’s there.
So true!
Lumka I hope I get lucky this year!!
@@wshelby83 🥺❤️
Her aura is amazing
Through and through! She's such a vibe 🥺❤️
She's chilled❤
Years later their have their handsome baby boy🥺❤
And now married🥹❤
And I still watch this episode. ❤❤
It was lovely to watch a couple so honest about their love journey. This made it so much more relatable.
Agreed!
This is so sweet and so genuinely authentic❤🌻🤌I love the timing and space they give and share with one another🥺🥺this is mad cute🤞🔥
It really is a beautiful episode 🥺❤️. Thank you for watching Phomello 🥳🥳
Not Me Realizing How Single I Am & At The Same Time I'm Gonna Wait For This Kinder Love. 💕 Not Settling For Less
Thats right 🥺❤️
I’m screaming!!!🥺 Thank you Defining. I literally stalk them on IG
🤗🤗🤗🤗me and you both hunn
You're welcome 🥺❤️
Their @?
Omg same❤️🤭
I don't know why I'm crying but I am okay?!! 😭😭😭 Hayibo this is so beautiful, I just can't😭😍
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I have always wanted to know more about their love storyyy !!!! Defining let’s go
Thank you for tuning in Tebello 🥺❤️
This made me cry. Thought I had this with my husband but ke. Love is beautiful. Your love is beautiful. May you two both see the value in each other and never ever do anything to compromise it. May this laughter remain between you guys forever 🥰
Thuthu is sooo funny.😂🔥❤
Damn... Their chemistry.😭
Yoh... Hai guys. Never settle until you find your person.💯😫
Amen! And be open to whoever that person may be 🥺❤️
I cannot get over this channel,giving many hope that there is truly love out there. And that when two people make a conscious decision to work and be together it can truly work out.
Thank you C 🥺❤️
"If something great comes along sooner than you expect it - you can change that" ❤
They look like the male and female version of each other. Like they are a pair that had to come together... To find a partner (love and life partner) is really a blessing.
There really is no timeline for someone to trust you again.❤ What a good point Jesse raised about trust.
Yoh, a reminder of what love feels like, the security, the friendship and laughter 😍😍😍
It really is a beautiful episode 🥺❤️
Oh my heart💕I shed a tear, swooned the entire time. It's the beautiful friendship above all else for me.
"Love, never knew what I was missing but I knew once we start kissing I found love"
😩🥺😭👏🏾👏🏾
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"The love I know I deserve...", and am still awaiting. Love is beautiful when both partners are genuinely steering the ship together. Thank you team for blessing us with this episode ♥️
Crying my eyes out … soooo soooo beautiful! I just loved watching this over and over!
I'm crying at the "he taught me that love can be kind. Love IS kind". My ex was so mean to me. Dang! That man hurt me. I'm waiting in the Lord for some kind man.
Sorry to hear about your Ex 🥺❤️
I love how Jesse is connected emotionally in the Union🙏🏾
Definitely 🥺❤️
It's literally impossible to watch these two without those uncontrolled smiles 😌
She has such an infectious laugh and a wonderful personality. He is so chilled and affectionate. They are made for each other. I have been smiling for the entire episode.
🥺💕
You 2 make me believe in real love again...when you express the "kindness", that's so key...wish you both unending love for the rest of your lives! God bless
I'm crying😭😭😭 I keep coming back to this channel because it reminds me what love is❤️😩
Thank you for coming back 🥺❤️
This is the episode we didn’t know we needed🥺 So honest and raw. Ohw but we all deserve this kind of love❤️❤️❤️
The episode you didnt see coming 😄! Thanks for watching Onezwa 🥺❤️
The love you have for each other is genuine❤❤❤Thanks for showing us true love still exist😍😍😍
Literally liked after they laughed in unison at the beginning of the video. That’s so sweet man 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you 🥺❤️
Great way to start the year... I honestly cried watching this as these two are so genuine and learnt quite a lot about relationships and the importance on understanding your partner.
Exactly! Thank you Zama 🥺❤️ Happy New Year
Yooh their love gives out chills, the entire episode I was blushing with them and genuinely happy. I mean love is light and warm, gentle and firm. Yooh I loved this episode, love you Jesse for loving and being gentle to Thuthu. Love is beautiful, thank you for setting the bar and still giving us hope about our South African Brothers 🙌
I don't know how many times I've come to this video in the last 11 months. So much love, care and respect. Friendship, companionship and compassion in one video. I love it so much. I look forward to loving and being loved to doing life with my person. To my baby girl see you soon and love you even sooner. 🥺❤️❤️
Guyz.... This is so beautiful... Thanks Defining Love..... This is so beautiful... Love is beautiful
This had no business making me smile the way it did 😭😭❤
This was so so beautiful, I'm glad I watched it 💖❤
Thank you DEFINING 😊
You're welcome 🥺💕
Am literally in tears from 14.16 my God this is beautiful especially when you find the one your heart beats for and is your answered prayer from God 💫💫
arg man this got me in tears, so love you guys. may your relationship grow more stronger and continue to love each other the way you do
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Love this. May it be like this for them and everyone watching, living this and hoping for this 💕
Amen 🔥🙏🏾
Such beautiful people with beautiful smiles that come straight from their beautiful soul💖 this is such an amazing episode💫
Thank you Ngasii 🥺❤️
Oooh maani!!!😍 This episode made me so happy, love is indeed such a beautiful gift. Wishing them well, bakhule❤
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😭🥺this is so heart warming. Thank you for highlighting love defining🥺🥺
You're welcome Bernadette 🥺❤️
They are so beautiful. Perfect smiles 😍😍 You can see they genuinely enjoy each other. Love their love .
Same 🥺❤️
I love how authentic and pure this love is...
Same 🥺❤️
I pray my son becomes like this to some lucky lady and he gets to have someone who loves him wholeheartedly as she does...
Thank you for reminding us that true love exists
We hope so too 🥺! Thank you for tuning in ❤️
Reason most relationship don't really workout is that it was built upon urges to mate than friendship. Your lover is your friend.
Friendship with each other is so important in a relationship 🥺
@mate😂😂😂😂
@@summadaze2546 lol you know exactly what that comment mean't..
Friendship is everything
@@Chisanga1991 100% it is
This is amazing. It makes me wanna see Khuli Chana and Lamiez on an episode of Defining Love❤
1. You can tell that he genuinely loves her, and I love that for her 🥰!
2. She glows under the spotlight of that love 😊.
3. Y'all reading this had better not be filling up gym classes busy looking for love 😂😂
Lol 😂😂😂
Ma'am, I'm joining a gym tomorrow 😂
@@Khumalic problem child 🤦🏽♀️🤣
their love is so beautiful. i love love so much man and i can’t wait to experience a genuine love 🥺
We can't wait to hear your story 🥺❤️
I’m crying. I’ve watched this so many times, but still I’m crying. I’m happy for everyone who manages to find love in this cruel world.
This is so beautiful ‼️♥️ chopping onions and laughter all the way!
If you didn't know what unconditional love looks like then this episode has shown you.
Shout out to Jesse and Thuthu. What an epic love story.😁❤️😎
Love is what we all need.
Exactly! thank you so much for tuning 🥺❤️
i absolutely enjoyed this video especially that lesson on insecurity by Jessie. you guys make love attainable and beutiful. And a huge shoutout to Defining for doing this #DEFININGLOVE series. we need more content like this in this time of high divorce rates and mjolo pandemic. i love you guys so much. we need a spin off of this series in Botswana.
Thank you so much Kiki ❤️❤️ We hope to come to Botswana soon ;)
I can’t get over thee people’s love, so genuine, so pure, refreshing to see! Any free time I get, I’m back here.
Eyyyy love is beautiful bethuna...Why are we playing ourselves like this?😂we are missing out mahn
🤣😂
Call it Fate however I can relate 200%I found love can't believe that someone somewhere is going through what I am going through. GOD IS GOOD AND ITS HIS TIMING 🙌🏼🙌🏼❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼
You’re so blessed!!
Their love is Sooo refreshing ❤️❤️
And gentle 🥺❤️
This made me cryyyy... soo sooo beautiful. when he called her his role model. Literally ytook me to the moon. I love LOOOVE!!!!!
Awwww...soooo beautiful!!!🥰 Their smiles & laughter is so contagious.😁