We're so happy that Salamina & Howza finally visited the channel 🥳! Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it and let us know what was your takeaway from this episode 😌#DEFININGIntimacy #RoadTo250K
This episode was a reminder that it's not always rosey in marriages boundaries are still a thing even when married.Honesty is key express how you feel respectfully but most importantly healthy relationships exist and LOVE conquers all❤❤❤❤❤
I just wanted to comment on your reference to interruption, my partner listens but INTERUPTION, no he is up there have to remind him to wait for me to finish!
It's him sipping his water when his wife advised him to 😂❤ Their love is so pure. They inspire me and I hope to be in a union as loving and connected as this one
It's actually possible Nthabiseng as Howza and Salamisa has shown us. All it takes is for both parties to put in the work. I find that women these days aren't willing to play their role. It's all about " Indoda must ". What about you as a woman ?
A man who listens Lord. Sip your water and does just that. No questions asked but just trusts that she has his best intentions. It's always the little things for me.
It is so nice to see a couple that includes spiritual intimacy in their love. "Spiritual intimacy can build emotional intimacy" is a beautiful concept.
When they say marriage is work this is what they mean. You work through difficult conversations and life moments together. They are giving we go to couples therapy. What a healthy relationship ❤❤❤
What a beautiful conversation from a beautiful couple. Yes, we don't pomp; we smash wena Howza🤣!!! I agree with Salamina that it is a mistake to compare and compete with men on the issue of casual sex. Access to your space and your body shouldn't be for everyone. Sometimes being old-fashioned about this is the best move for your soul. Thank you for this episode, Defining. More please!!!!
I love the honesty behind Howza being overwhelmed when they had their child. Some couples don't recover from that. You can tell from the experiences you have had how much you both respect one another, it's inspiring i must say.
That part neh! It's not just women who get affected by motherhood, in turn fatherhood and in all parenting affects a relationship. They worked through it beautifully 💛
Salamina ; Howza is a goated pair in South Africa. No couple comes close to them. It's been an interesting session I wish it was longer, I took lessons and I admired their frank stance. Salamina is a powerhouse abhuti Tshepo is from the rarest forms of creations. They are so humble, as someone who has noone to look up to I honestly look up to them. I envy those around them.
It's educational I'm actually learning, I'm currently in a beautiful relationship with my charismatic Mwezi Goniwe and I pray that even us too we make it to 9-15 years together.he is loving, supportive and spoiling.i on the other side give him all that I am , cherishing every single moment he's with me 😊🤭
Such people should offer counsel, she is not trying to make us believe that he loves her. He does such a good job at that himself. Howza is needed ko men's conference
The level of respect between these two is admirable. So polite and you can see the connection between the two. I've learned a lot from the way they answered the questions. So articulate. 👌🏾🔝
I appreciate how honest and genuine you both were especially when answering questions about your relationship. My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now and I genuinely saw us in some of the answers you two gave. That helped me and inspired me as well. Thank you so much for this video❤.
"You have to know all your emotions to know who you truly are" -Howza, emphasis on emotional awareness. Again, one of the most beautiful episodes I have watched of Defining, thanks guys ❤
Beautiful couple, so mature respectful towards each other and they are spiritually connected. Love Howza adores his wife u can just see it, appreciates her and respects her. Love Salamina so sensual, present, real, gives her husband room to be a man in her life, she makes him her King. So beautiful guys ❤
The love, respect you guys have for each other😍😍😍Moreover the realness and honesty you have guys is what I think keeps you stronger and going further with this relationship. I so love you guys♥♥♥ you're a true reflection of how true love is without having to convince others that you love each other. Many more years to you guys - God bless your family😘
When a relationship put God as a foundation...it goes a long way, we just have to agree. I loved the way Hawza answers the intimacy part, spiritual...alighining with God teaches us to tap on the rest of intimacy....woooow
Loving how they are speaking their truth, no sugar coating😻 just telling it like it is. And the fact that they share a similar definition of intimacy which is mostly emotional and spiritual. You can clearly see that they really put in the work for this marriage❤.
I remember the Lerumo character n thinking this is too much intimacy… anyways this video gave me hope , I was super depressed lying in bed all the time stopped doing my fav activities but after watching I even pick up the book I was reading n read a chapter .. this episode really worked for my soul, wonderful people . I’ve always loved the Mosese’s..❤
So amazing to witness these two amazing individuals give us insight about what intimacy in marriage is and how it has been for them, big ups to them as well as to Defining.❤
Thank you Howza for reminding us that you can sing sing… took me back to that piano scene on Backstage when he sang John Legend’s Ordinary People I will never forget that 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 also beautiful love journey
They remind me of Connie n Shona (may his soul rest in peace). The love n respect they show is second to nun. Overall great lessons to be learnt. They have grown as individuals and as partners❤
You guys are great together.❤...i love you both and your love,may God continue to bless your union and its amazing how you have grown ,I used to watch Salamina as a child ,heyi kudala sabakho emhlabeni weNkosi...
Everytime i see Salamina Mosese I can't unhear her Intro on Abomzala " ke nna Ela wa ga Kekana ,ke thabela go le tseba " 😹😹 im happy Her and Howza finally made it to the channel, they are so beautiful ❤️❤️
What a beautiful couple, one of those few you find in the entertainment space. I pray covering over them as individuals and as a couple. Salamina is a strong God fearing women, I love the matured level of intimacy they are at. Wish them all the best❤
Such a beautiful couple, their love is a masterpiece that unfolds with every passing day. May their journey be filled with endless love, cherished memories, and a bond that only grows stronger with time.😍
Howza expressing how overwhelming the change into becoming a father was, it just made me realize that we could do more with education from the experienced elders on how parenting affects a relationship.
I find the soul-tie thing interesting because Christians often say it although it has no scriptural basis. It seems to have been adopted from New Age beliefs.
The sex part!What an affirmation to keep ourselves for someone you know they love you you love them and hopefully one day you'll be together forever!!!
Can i tell you a secret they are my favorite gossip people. They still fall each around around at our family function... For over 15 year it is so great to watch.. ❤😊
Quite a refreshing and insightful episode by young couple. A couple who is very articulate authentic, in voicing their thoughts and feelings. May you continue to grow in your marriage, love and relationship.❤
Here after watching this amazing couple host The Ultimatum South Africa, had no idea I had seen Howza in the Homewrecker on Netflix already 😅 loved watching these two even as hosts!
It is that big fat smile she has on the thumbnail, for me! Keep smiling Sesi. Shows how happy you still are. 💗 Good job on keeping that smile on her face Howza.
We're so happy that Salamina & Howza finally visited the channel 🥳! Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it and let us know what was your takeaway from this episode 😌#DEFININGIntimacy #RoadTo250K
This episode was a reminder that it's not always rosey in marriages boundaries are still a thing even when married.Honesty is key express how you feel respectfully but most importantly healthy relationships exist and LOVE conquers all❤❤❤❤❤
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How can I be part of your podcast.. I got really good content
You are amazing. May God continue to bless you, Mosese's
Salamina is amazing at articulating herself and her emotions. She's a very intelligent woman ❤ this was beautiful to watch
Aowa they should be back to Define Love on a 2 hour segment. 15 years is a long time . May God continue to bless their union ❤❤🎉
Howza listens to her and does not interupt one bit and receive what she is saying I love that
Yes
i love this couple .May god blsess them in this journey of their marriage
That’s what I picked up as well
I just wanted to comment on your reference to interruption, my partner listens but INTERUPTION, no he is up there have to remind him to wait for me to finish!
Howza is like Mature Mature....like he leads her Roll and just listens
These 2.
PLUS
Gail and Kabelo Mabalane?
Top tier!
This couple is legit GOALS! You can tell that their "communication intelligence" is up there.
❤
Can we all agree that Defining is the best channel ever?Like the snippets of the movie in between the chats?World Class🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
💯❤️❤️
Now I can't wait to watch Homewrecker. It's giving Obsessed 🤌🏽
Yuuuupppp
Really really loved that
They picked fire scenes too❤
I'm definitely subscribing after this..I loved it as soon as I started watching
Salamina is a lucky women, what a sensible man 👌
Too much! I think it's my first time seeing them together and wow I love his mind.
Well said 🙏🙏
It's him sipping his water when his wife advised him to 😂❤
Their love is so pure. They inspire me and I hope to be in a union as loving and connected as this one
It's actually possible Nthabiseng as Howza and Salamisa has shown us. All it takes is for both parties to put in the work. I find that women these days aren't willing to play their role. It's all about " Indoda must ". What about you as a woman ?
A man who listens Lord. Sip your water and does just that. No questions asked but just trusts that she has his best intentions. It's always the little things for me.
They are so unproblematic, all about their family & business. Wish them nothing but the best of what life has to offer❤❤
It is so nice to see a couple that includes spiritual intimacy in their love. "Spiritual intimacy can build emotional intimacy" is a beautiful concept.
And the fact that the husband said it 🥺
@@nthabisengmakola28 You know riiiiiiight!!
@@nthabisengmakola28right🥹🥹
The most drama free, simple and calm couple. My role models in love.
These two are OUR A-Listers....been following their love story since the beginning!!! Love to see them together
I love how low key they are. Even forgot about them. I love how SOLID they are💖💖💖
@@Roses_777They are SOLID indeed!
Bona! The MVPs 🙌🙌🙌
It’s always great to hear from people in mature and long-term relationships. Great couple, you can see the friendship in their relationship 👌🏾❤
The way Hozwa looks at Salamina when she is answering questions. That is love right there.
When they say marriage is work this is what they mean. You work through difficult conversations and life moments together. They are giving we go to couples therapy. What a healthy relationship ❤❤❤
What a beautiful conversation from a beautiful couple. Yes, we don't pomp; we smash wena Howza🤣!!! I agree with Salamina that it is a mistake to compare and compete with men on the issue of casual sex. Access to your space and your body shouldn't be for everyone. Sometimes being old-fashioned about this is the best move for your soul. Thank you for this episode, Defining. More please!!!!
It was good to hear that, that it's okay in this modern woman day to want to have sex with a person I connect with only and not casually
I love the honesty behind Howza being overwhelmed when they had their child. Some couples don't recover from that. You can tell from the experiences you have had how much you both respect one another, it's inspiring i must say.
That part neh! It's not just women who get affected by motherhood, in turn fatherhood and in all parenting affects a relationship.
They worked through it beautifully 💛
@@nthabisengmakola28 that’s true. You’re right, We tend to neglect men’s feelings in the process. So that perspective helps a lot.
So true
Salamina ; Howza is a goated pair in South Africa. No couple comes close to them. It's been an interesting session I wish it was longer, I took lessons and I admired their frank stance. Salamina is a powerhouse abhuti Tshepo is from the rarest forms of creations. They are so humble, as someone who has noone to look up to I honestly look up to them. I envy those around them.
They are a couple to definitely look up to ❤
He is rare indeed
How they acknowledge that they're both empaths... agh
Absolutely right babe
I still cant get over Howza with pink t-shirt with that body on scandal years back❤ black love,i can see so much respect between them.
I'm definitely watching this with my wife the day after we get married❤
I love how low key they've always been. THEY ARE SOLID!
Very mature love. So respectful, so honest, so realistic and relatable.
they're so well-spoken🥺
"Valuing you is also respecting your boundaries"
Please do Phumeza and Shota next please 🥺🥺🥺
Yes please
Pretty please
OMG yesssss!
It's educational I'm actually learning, I'm currently in a beautiful relationship with my charismatic Mwezi Goniwe and I pray that even us too we make it to 9-15 years together.he is loving, supportive and spoiling.i on the other side give him all that I am , cherishing every single moment he's with me 😊🤭
Such people should offer counsel, she is not trying to make us believe that he loves her. He does such a good job at that himself. Howza is needed ko men's conference
This was more educational than ya'll think, thank you for this interview, I wish them more love, light and success in their marriage ❤
Love their matured love ☺️☺️☺️
Putting it out there that I hope for such a beautiful, truthful, raw, honest love like Howza and Salamina ❤ Love love this for them.
Omg i smiled 21mins and 21 secs 🙂☺😍 i love them so much
The level of respect between these two is admirable. So polite and you can see the connection between the two. I've learned a lot from the way they answered the questions. So articulate. 👌🏾🔝
I appreciate how honest and genuine you both were especially when answering questions about your relationship. My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now and I genuinely saw us in some of the answers you two gave. That helped me and inspired me as well. Thank you so much for this video❤.
"You have to know all your emotions to know who you truly are" -Howza, emphasis on emotional awareness.
Again, one of the most beautiful episodes I have watched of Defining, thanks guys ❤
I like how self aware they are of themselves and how aware they are of each other.
Goals. Their individualism strengthens them as a pair
Beautiful couple, so mature respectful towards each other and they are spiritually connected. Love Howza adores his wife u can just see it, appreciates her and respects her. Love Salamina so sensual, present, real, gives her husband room to be a man in her life, she makes him her King. So beautiful guys ❤
My favourite couple ever😍❤😊Can't wait for this.
Oh man! What a beautiful couple! I can imagine how loving & warm their home is 🥹❤️
I love this couple, they are very humble.And honestly I've learnt a lot from this episode.
The love, respect you guys have for each other😍😍😍Moreover the realness and honesty you have guys is what I think keeps you stronger and going further with this relationship. I so love you guys♥♥♥ you're a true reflection of how true love is without having to convince others that you love each other. Many more years to you guys - God bless your family😘
When a relationship put God as a foundation...it goes a long way, we just have to agree. I loved the way Hawza answers the intimacy part, spiritual...alighining with God teaches us to tap on the rest of intimacy....woooow
Loving how they are speaking their truth, no sugar coating😻 just telling it like it is. And the fact that they share a similar definition of intimacy which is mostly emotional and spiritual. You can clearly see that they really put in the work for this marriage❤.
Love these two. So happy they lasted so long. To many more years of LOVE IN MARRIAGE.
"Valuing you, is respecting your boundaries"
"Complacency is an enemy"👌🏾👌🏾
This video has given me a lot of insight, my appreciation for the artistry of acting has really grown. Great video 💐💐💐💐
I remember the Lerumo character n thinking this is too much intimacy… anyways this video gave me hope , I was super depressed lying in bed all the time stopped doing my fav activities but after watching I even pick up the book I was reading n read a chapter .. this episode really worked for my soul, wonderful people . I’ve always loved the Mosese’s..❤
Howza gave great examples... and loooooved that he took his time answering. Beautiful guys❤
Spiritual alignment teaches you how to tap into emotions 🔥🔥🔥🙌👑
What an enlightening conversation between these two lovebirds 😊
Have you watched Homewrecker? 👀👀
Definitely going to now.
Yes, last night
On my way there!
Watched it, loved it!
Yesterday already!!!!!
So amazing to witness these two amazing individuals give us insight about what intimacy in marriage is and how it has been for them, big ups to them as well as to Defining.❤
They are still together 🫶🏽. God is good I’ve loved them from the moment I found out they were together ❤
Me too! 🥰
These two people are my favourite hands down… they are so real.
They’re so good❤️😊by far I feel defined “intimacy” so well❤️❤️
Love their authenticity ❤
Thank you Howza for reminding us that you can sing sing… took me back to that piano scene on Backstage when he sang John Legend’s Ordinary People I will never forget that 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 also beautiful love journey
They remind me of Connie n Shona (may his soul rest in peace). The love n respect they show is second to nun. Overall great lessons to be learnt. They have grown as individuals and as partners❤
Ugh man, i love these 2 so much 😍😍😍😍😍
Love the song he wrote for her. Didn't know he could sing so well. 🌻
ngaze nga-smiler
Wow wow what a beautiful couple perfect match. I love them so much i wish my daughter can be in such relationship her mani really adore them❤❤🔥💥🔥💥🔥💋💋
You guys are great together.❤...i love you both and your love,may God continue to bless your union and its amazing how you have grown ,I used to watch Salamina as a child ,heyi kudala sabakho emhlabeni weNkosi...
Love them ❤❤
Please also invite Tony and Sthandiwe Kgoroge 🥹🥹🥹🥹
Omg yessss 😍😍
Everytime i see Salamina Mosese I can't unhear her Intro on Abomzala " ke nna Ela wa ga Kekana ,ke thabela go le tseba " 😹😹 im happy Her and Howza finally made it to the channel, they are so beautiful ❤️❤️
I really enjoyed this episode… what a beautiful couple ❤️
What a beautiful couple, one of those few you find in the entertainment space. I pray covering over them as individuals and as a couple. Salamina is a strong God fearing women, I love the matured level of intimacy they are at. Wish them all the best❤
Such a beautiful couple, their love is a masterpiece that unfolds with every passing day. May their journey be filled with endless love, cherished memories, and a bond that only grows stronger with time.😍
I am obsessed with this couple. I love them so much and look up to them. I wish them many more love and friendships.
I respect you so much guys, and how you tackle your relationship, Intimacy definition is fire,❤
Thank you Defining. Thank you Mr and Mrs Mosese. What an honour to be invited in your personal space. I enjoyed Home wrecker.
Howza has such a powerful singing voice
Howza expressing how overwhelming the change into becoming a father was, it just made me realize that we could do more with education from the experienced elders on how parenting affects a relationship.
Marriage*
Right?😊
One of my favorite celebrity couples...love how they model themselves...
I find the soul-tie thing interesting because Christians often say it although it has no scriptural basis. It seems to have been adopted from New Age beliefs.
Watching this alone but tonight will watch again with my husband, love you Mr and Mrs M❤❤❤❤❤
Oh woow how crazy is that i'm watching this video same day i watched "home wrecker"??...brilliant producer Salamina is.😍😍😍
The sex part!What an affirmation to keep ourselves for someone you know they love you you love them and hopefully one day you'll be together forever!!!
Genuine couple, I love them so much and I pray God continues to bless them immensely ♥️.
Thank you Defining. This was wholesome, mature and just refreshing to hear from people who are thriving in love and life.
What a lovely combination. I wish them great success in their marriage and their careers!🎉
They're such couple goals, love them😍😍
For my future relationship to be like this in the future 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️
Howza and Salamina🥹♥️♥️♥️
That Xbox moment just was a cherry on top for me on showing how much their communication is literally on drugs🥺🥺♥️♥️
Can i tell you a secret they are my favorite gossip people. They still fall each around around at our family function... For over 15 year it is so great to watch.. ❤😊
Do you believe in soul ties? 🤔
Yes, I do.
Definitely!
Yes
Definitely!
Yep!
This type of love 😍🥹👏🏾 mature, filled with respect and humility, love it!
Quite a refreshing and insightful episode by young couple. A couple who is very articulate authentic, in voicing their thoughts and feelings. May you continue to grow in your marriage, love and relationship.❤
Aggg man I love this two ❤❤ I was smiling watching this. Their love story warms my heart. May the good Lord keep them 🙏🏾
It's how he looks at her 🥰
Here after watching this amazing couple host The Ultimatum South Africa, had no idea I had seen Howza in the Homewrecker on Netflix already 😅 loved watching these two even as hosts!
Watched the movie last night. I applaud the (wo)men in the ring, as I stand at the spectator stands👏🏾 will leave it at that❤
Me running to Netflix to support you guys 😅
It is that big fat smile she has on the thumbnail, for me! Keep smiling Sesi. Shows how happy you still are. 💗 Good job on keeping that smile on her face Howza.
I thank your channel for showcasing or profiling couples in "successful" marriage, having these honest conversations.
Ka Lerato la ❤
Ohhh yessss I love them, can't wait watch I know it's good
Beautiful & Wholesome Defining of Intimacy Episode.🥰🙌🏾❤️❤️ Loved it. Well done Defining Team and the gracious couple 👏🏿
Ohhh bawo, sabathandi kanje.🥹