how I take care of my sanity living alone

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  • @TammyMai
    @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +95

    you know how people do "a day in my life"? how about this "a day in my loft" ? 🤓
    a reminder: you are not your thoughts. your experience is valid but it does not run you 🤍 we validate, confront, and move forward with grace and love.
    and alsooo thank you to Aura for supporting me on my journey of wellbeing, self care & sleep! get started with Aura today for free & the first 500 people to use my link will also get 25% off+ free trial to the Aura membership: www.aurahealth.io/tammai

  • @Boynextdoor53
    @Boynextdoor53 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Tam conveys herself so eloquently while the keeping an inviting and personable vibe throughout the entire video. She's truly an artist in her own rightful way.

  • @aezdem
    @aezdem ปีที่แล้ว +57

    literally definition of calmness and comfort.

  • @earthtoheysha
    @earthtoheysha ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Girl these videos help me a lot, I live alone and am 21, so its just a roller coaster of emotions !! I love this content!

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ahhh i feeeel you. it's all so normal, i promise. it's the experience of being human because what would we be if we were one mood all the time right? :')

  • @conquerordie230
    @conquerordie230 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The video quality and production on these vlog videos are top tier and doesn't go unnoticed.

  • @katana2k
    @katana2k ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I lived alone for the first time when I was 22. I think I went a little crazy, but probably I just realized how crazy I already was because I had a minute to think about it. Now I’m 35 and my mental health has been pretty good for a long time. Like 8 years? I’ve come to know and accept myself for who I am, and once you’ve done that, you can start playing to your strengths. That’s when you can really build momentum in life

  • @cheryoko
    @cheryoko ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The way you literally take my thoughts and make them into these videos that don't feel so heavy. I always laugh/smile at least once when watching your videos. Thank you for letting me feel seen Tam!

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha so sweet, thank you for being here!

  • @teecee7759
    @teecee7759 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m currently living alone in my 20s and your content is just so peaceful relaxing and funny at the same time, Thankyou for this video

  • @aishanadeem
    @aishanadeem ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i just recently subscribed and i’ve watched every single video
    i love the amount of comfort i feel from your vlogs, thank you for making them 💗

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hi aisha, thank you so much for being here

  • @yasmin6282
    @yasmin6282 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Omg my fairy godmother posted!!!!!!!!

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      bibbideebobbidee boo i luv u 🥺

    • @yasmin6282
      @yasmin6282 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TammyMai luv u more

  • @violetgloom
    @violetgloom ปีที่แล้ว +7

    thank you for being so open with discussing your feelings, so many people online just try to show how great their life is and it can be very demoralizing as life is full of both ups and downs. these little reminders that you're human like the rest of us is very inspiring

  • @asmaa_vlog_85
    @asmaa_vlog_85 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She's literally the only person I can watch over and over again without getting bored or tired 💖 you inspire me sm w my channel 💖🥰🍓♥️♥️🥰♥️I've been waiting everyday for the video to be uploaded! I'm very happy Take care🌷🐇

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw thank you Asma! you go this

  • @JKSHE
    @JKSHE ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't usually watch vlogs but this channel is so entertaining to me rn lol love this, the trey songs yup had me laughing for 2mins

  • @dravensonline
    @dravensonline ปีที่แล้ว +6

    been following you for a while. i remember when you first reposted a story of mine. it’s so nice to see your journey and mindset change and i hope to see you more in the future. you’re such an inspiration and i love your content.

  • @annetteyadon878
    @annetteyadon878 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Living alone is not always easy but I find it relaxing most of the time and I just love your videos ❤

  • @vioricabahov2427
    @vioricabahov2427 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been binge watching your videos cause I’m staying at home for two weeks due to a sprained ankle. They help me feel less alone since none of my ‘friends’ have checked up on me. You feel like an older sister and you give me such a calm and comforting feeling. Thank you, you have no idea how much you are helping people like me❤️

  • @karijenice
    @karijenice ปีที่แล้ว

    im such a huge believer in signs, especially in the last few days; ive been looking for my next job for a while, and it got to a point where i started to doubt myself because i was constantly waking up to rejections emails and feeling like something was wrong with me because no one wanted to hire me. until a week ago i saw a job vacancy for one of my favourite clothing stores and i got the job! everything happens for a reason

  • @nacha9618
    @nacha9618 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I related to this video on so many levels. The synchronicities make me feel so aligned and they happen ALOT. Thank you for posting. I'm about to solo travel for 3 weeks and have really started accepting that I'm in a new season of life that's alot more lonely than it was this time last year

  • @westtgrace
    @westtgrace ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your aura is so comforting

  • @mahamkhan2247
    @mahamkhan2247 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I came across your channel yesterday and have watched your 3 most recent videos and I instantly feel so at home with you! I love your vibe so much, you have a really comforting energy and such a sense of depth to you. Excited to watch more of you! Also, when you turned on that Elvis song I squealed, I'm such a huge fan of his music! xx

  • @imdaeun4773
    @imdaeun4773 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Got recommended a video of hers 2h ago and now I'm obsessed

  • @avonleadacayanan1366
    @avonleadacayanan1366 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just recently discovered your videos and you’re the only TH-camr who every single video I am paying attention 100% and not just playing it in the background.🥰🥰🥰

  • @aw0752
    @aw0752 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just found your channel and omg am I obsessed. New favorite youtuber alert and your loft is gorge

  • @meemeelipota
    @meemeelipota ปีที่แล้ว

    I started writing down all my days I spent with my partner and everything that happened and my thoughts, because i didn't wanna forget about our day together, but now that i think about it, it looks like it had the involuntary effect of making me word my feelings better and improved my communication skills with my partner. because i knew what i wanted since i was writing everything down!

  • @kashciara
    @kashciara ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my new fav channel💗your vibes are immaculate

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ilysm T_T

  • @chrissy2300
    @chrissy2300 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i just randomly found you on my recommended, annddd girl i absolutely love your content!! your videos are so peaceful and beautiful ♡

  • @mirna9781
    @mirna9781 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love you and your videos😭😭🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @katana2k
    @katana2k ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Spending time alone with your thoughts is the first step towards self acceptance

  • @almondmilk1659
    @almondmilk1659 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    def woke up having one of Those days and I loved this sm. didn’t want it to end :’)

  • @MistyLaShay
    @MistyLaShay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AHHHH LOVE YOU TAMMY 🤍🤍

  • @Nikasio_
    @Nikasio_ ปีที่แล้ว

    When that mix turned purple, it blew. my. mind. Highlight of my friday lol

  • @jessicad57
    @jessicad57 ปีที่แล้ว

    i've just started watching your videos and lemme tell you, you have motivated me to get up and get moving as well as to show my gratitude for everything i have around me. love your vids, please keep them coming 😍

  • @melissa_xm
    @melissa_xm ปีที่แล้ว

    gosh your videos are so pleasing

  • @TwinTwoTimes22
    @TwinTwoTimes22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you're soooo unique, I love itttt :)

  • @jackmovick9116
    @jackmovick9116 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally take synchronicities as a sign from my higher power. I’ve had alot since I conceived my 4th baby. I lost the last 2 in the second trimester but for this one I just knew she was a girl and would be ok. I kept seeing her name in random books and I kept getting the numbers 1111/111 not just on my phone but when I did pay’s for our employees and other random places. Things that are really out of this world. So I 100% believe in the universe trying to show us things 💗💗

  • @annikalund2329
    @annikalund2329 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi there, I really loved this video. Definitely saving it for when I’m having a bad day. And yes, jaazzy or lofi playlists are the best!

  • @Michovic
    @Michovic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this vlog so much hope you do more chit chat talking videos ❤

  • @justinaragones
    @justinaragones ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely on the same journey of self love and growth, and i find inner peace in that we are similar in a sense of headspace and emotionally intelligence, keep on grinding!

  • @ra1nbowsugarr693
    @ra1nbowsugarr693 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOUUUU💗💗💗I’m your new subscriber and I’m really grateful that I found your channel ✨✨✨

  • @minathealtar
    @minathealtar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just made the most inhuman noise when I saw you posted😩❤️

  • @ToriTulipASMR
    @ToriTulipASMR ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just found your channel (: Im so grateful for your content

  • @KelanChase14
    @KelanChase14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Tammy, I was wondering if you could please share the camera equipment you use for your videos ? I want to start making "DITL" content and I love the intimacy and clarity of your work!

  • @alezane4919
    @alezane4919 ปีที่แล้ว

    My god this video is coming at the most perfect time ❤ (moving in my first appartement rn, feels so weird)

  • @antvr777
    @antvr777 ปีที่แล้ว

    been wanting to do a self care type of day & this was definitely my sign to do it , also shoutout elvis fr

  • @stormaddams3782
    @stormaddams3782 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg your my new favourite vlogger I stumbled upon your videos 2 weeks ago and I can’t stop watching. It’s like you slow down time for me in a good way, I feel like I can breath for 20 minutes and then my mind starts racing again!!! I love your content and hope you the best in your journey!! Also what camera do you use the quality of your videos is amazing.

  • @celsius2370
    @celsius2370 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those are honestly the healthiest looking plant's I've seen. Talking to them seems like it's working haha

  • @cindybmb7684
    @cindybmb7684 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love you so much 😭😭 like i'd love to have a friend like you around me

  • @lolapple
    @lolapple ปีที่แล้ว

    Man.. I love this new energy in this video haha!

  • @zhuangxixing6755
    @zhuangxixing6755 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great pancake story

  • @RoxannOfficial
    @RoxannOfficial ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly I have considered divine intervention. Some days really spook me but but I’m always on guard for some reason. I’m open to what may be out there and that’s been the mindset from the get go.

  • @kimmyortega9664
    @kimmyortega9664 ปีที่แล้ว

    i luv your vids sm they are so relaxing and helpme gain sm prespective on life

  • @trango1658
    @trango1658 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the video tammy!! You inspire me to live my best life. Always looking forward to the next vid❤❤❤ also careful when whisking matcha, ur whisk shouldn't be scraping the bottom of your bowl like that 😉

  • @mickib381
    @mickib381 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You could be in a room full,of people and still be lonely. Loneliness creeps up on all of us.

  • @iitsmisfit
    @iitsmisfit ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos, and your skin is flawless❤️

  • @carissaedits
    @carissaedits ปีที่แล้ว

    this video came at the right time :’)

  • @iris_jy0
    @iris_jy0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so early omggg . I love you and your vids 🥹

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hi christine! ah thank you sm

    • @iris_jy0
      @iris_jy0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TammyMai OMGG 🥰 I honestly binge your content because it gets me through the day. Thank you for creating amazing content, Tammy :)

  • @jansonrawr
    @jansonrawr ปีที่แล้ว

    bae wake up new tammy vlog dropped

  • @k_k6324
    @k_k6324 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your content soooo mucchhhhhh. Thank you for posting and hope you have a great day

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you 🥺 i hope you are too!

  • @valerieobehi7107
    @valerieobehi7107 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s listening to a therapist and friend..in a good way 👍

  • @ramonagarcia6656
    @ramonagarcia6656 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are so inner thoughts

  • @alis0n.
    @alis0n. ปีที่แล้ว

    your house is sooo cool

  • @tnvrchw
    @tnvrchw ปีที่แล้ว

    love your videos

  • @yanckebaxter783
    @yanckebaxter783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When is your bday ? How old are you? I know you are definitely younger than me.... I'm turning 32 years old next month lol.... But I love your videos...they are amazing and beautifully done....love your depth yet light heartedness

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice living alone in loft vlog ❤

  • @csscott9803
    @csscott9803 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome vlog 😁👍

  • @JaniaSanders
    @JaniaSanders ปีที่แล้ว

    A really good podcast I would recommend is the "Just Different " podcast.

  • @TheAmie1995
    @TheAmie1995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    matcha and most teas have something called l-theanine so thats the reason its doesnt make your heart go crazy like caffeine haha

  • @firewind3509
    @firewind3509 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I lived alone 😭 it’s completely unattainable financially in London

  • @simplyellenxo95
    @simplyellenxo95 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaaaaas girl new vids 😍💋💕

  • @amandanewenrosasreyes9995
    @amandanewenrosasreyes9995 ปีที่แล้ว

    what kind of plants do you have??? they´re so beautifulllll

  • @sayleral
    @sayleral ปีที่แล้ว

    I have never seen someone rock red hair better than you

  • @_rayafterhours
    @_rayafterhours ปีที่แล้ว

    HEYYYYY BABYYYY❤

  • @mattiagrassi4057
    @mattiagrassi4057 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just found you and I'm already in love with you

  • @asapmorgz
    @asapmorgz ปีที่แล้ว

    taro and ube are two different things! ube is purple yam and taro is a root vegetable

  • @therebel15
    @therebel15 ปีที่แล้ว

    this video is was very nice, I like you

  • @urgreensoul
    @urgreensoul ปีที่แล้ว

    Hiiiii 😻💖 my lovely vloger💖

  • @Soyeoun
    @Soyeoun ปีที่แล้ว

    Everytime I watch your vids it feels like I’m talking to my own sister just that ur so far away lmao

  • @chacelfrances
    @chacelfrances ปีที่แล้ว

    ube is taro !!🤍

  • @omarioneen
    @omarioneen ปีที่แล้ว

    Imhereee

  • @joshadewoye8012
    @joshadewoye8012 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jesus loves you ❤ keep the videos coming

  • @LuisRivera-jl9vx
    @LuisRivera-jl9vx ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you do for work?

  • @Thatonecargirl2
    @Thatonecargirl2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What TV stand does she have ? Does anyone know?

  • @jebinbegum5734
    @jebinbegum5734 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤

  • @sarangh3913
    @sarangh3913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you have become my bestfriend now 😄merhaba

  • @DaRaunCrawford
    @DaRaunCrawford ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeaauhh

  • @aishanadeem
    @aishanadeem ปีที่แล้ว +1

    first i think 🥹

  • @rainelizabeth
    @rainelizabeth ปีที่แล้ว

    i just pretend im living in a movie so i feel like i actually needa get stuff done

  • @christinestephens37
    @christinestephens37 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plants are pets so give them a name. They do have life and give life.😂

  • @angeljenkim
    @angeljenkim ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi,babby😘😘

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  ปีที่แล้ว

      hi amberrrr

    • @angeljenkim
      @angeljenkim ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TammyMai I follow you on every social media account, you're so cute, maybe I'll see you one day💚

  • @lexieliu5339
    @lexieliu5339 ปีที่แล้ว

    Earlyyyyy

  • @charlystrm
    @charlystrm ปีที่แล้ว

    in times u feel anxiety pray to the man who died on the cross for us ask him to take it away if it dont work block me

  • @ajadegirl
    @ajadegirl ปีที่แล้ว

    are you an INFP?

  • @lavendertokkii
    @lavendertokkii ปีที่แล้ว

    I really hope one day, for all of you who claim anxiety and depression, you can realize how you are choosing to walk in that. You are not your thoughts, please stop making it seem as if it’s normal for every 20 something to experience that nonsense. It is not of Yeshua, those things are of the enemy. Once you realize that, you’ll see. 💖

  • @bazmrclo
    @bazmrclo ปีที่แล้ว

    I just started watching with my dinner and the "YUH" scared me I thought it came from outside 🥲 but this one hit different, been struggling getting back into a more peaceful headspace and I didnt realize that the bottom-up approach you mentioned was the reason why I was successful in the past. Thank you always for your wisdom Tam!

  • @bubbacon312
    @bubbacon312 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    lol funny I just left you a message on instagram but you have a shit ton of followers so u prob wont see it lmao.
    i'm pretty much saying i love your videos and i'm calling it first your getting 1M subs!! sooner than later