I always get so mad when you pass out in public and are in an incredibly vulnerable state (physically, emotionally, mentally) and he walks away! I have literally yelled at the screen at him! Anyone who says they care about you would stay right there to make sure you are ok, protected, and can get through the episodes without any undue stress!! Proud of you! You and your son are what’s important. It’s hard enough to have a chronic illness, you don’t need it being aggravated by toxicity. ❤️
@@bonelesspizza150 you mean the Walmart video when she yelled at a person for god forbid looking at her service dog? The video where she turned off comments because she came off super mean and fake and “oh I forgot the camera was off”. She literally felt sort of bad at best and CHOSE to lay down to train Max. Then the whole don’t look at my dog thing, service dogs should be trained to deal with everything be it a look from people and or noise and still be able to do their job first. If you don’t want your special self and service dog looked at well don’t go to a high populated area with kids. Chase did try and help even her up there but she decided she wasn’t ready. It is even in the caption how she ask Chase to help her and he does but then in the same caption makes him sound bad saying she wasn’t ready even acting like he rushed her EVEN THOUGH SHE ASKED him. I mean the fact comments are turned off in that video mainly speaks volumes. I am betting she got bad reactions to her bad attitude. I’m not saying Chase is perfect but she certainly has her very visible Flaws.
I’m sorry to hear the bad news, but honestly you deserve better. No one should eat raspberries while their S/O is passed out on a Walmart floor. 🤦🏻♀️ please find someone who treats you as well as your doggo.💕
It also seemed like in some of ur videos that ur now ex husband didnt really help u much during ur episodes... Which is wrong in my opinion. Sorry if im out of place.
If u go back to the vid of her passing out in public think it's something titled along the lines of adults distracting her service dog and her passing out... she pinned a comment detailing just how crappy he was to her.. way more than just uncaring.. :(
so glad you are no longer together. It was obvious he was not very nice to you on that video that you uploaded when you were at Walmart laying on the floor with your dog. The way he spoke to you and his body language just did not seem like he was really connected with you. You deserve better, smile because when one bad thing ends many more good begin :)
My father was native and an alcoholic. My mom has always told me natives process alcohol different or something like that? Anyway, my mom left him when I was 2. Except that was too long for me. I am now 22, have a bunch of anxieties including separation anxiety and abandonment issues. My father was actually abusive, to the point where once I tried kissing my moms vagina (over the pants) and she told me not to do that and I said something along the lines but dad lets me do it...I was 2. She drew the line when that happened and when my sisters school called social services because she had a huge bruise on her back. She didn't even draw the line when my sperm donor kicked her in the stomach while she was pregnant which made her lose her baby (before me). My mom took years to get over him, she was willing to stay with him if he was just hurting her. So from a child from domestic abuse who had an alcoholic father, I am so happy for you! And I am so proud! You focus on your and your childs happiness and safety, that should always be the #1 on the list!
People should really stop attacking chase. She literally said since they split, he’s gone sober. That’s a pretty hard thing to do. I’m not saying anything he did was good in any way, but calling him an idiot and swearing isn’t really gonna resolve anything.
@@joew4202 do you have such little of a life that you feel the need to watch all of her videos even though you need drugs to get through them? Because if so who has the problem here it's not her
Oh I understand completely. My mom was totally in love with my dad, he was a great guy, but he was the worst alcoholic. He drank at least 4 beers a day and he was very mean and verbally abusive when he was drunk. Support you 100%
PhanWeirdo 0_0 no alcoholic on the planet is gonna get remotely drunk from 4 beers. That wouldn't even sate physical withdrawal symptoms for a minute. Maybe reevaluate your opinion on your father
Having a husband being drunk most of the time being toxic is enough but having him being toxic w the child around is more than that you deserved better
I feel like in the videos with your ex it was noticeable that the relationship was off. I’m glad you left and did the right thing for both, you and your son.
I didn’t have time to comment earlier when I tapped on the video, but I wanted to say a few things, I’ll come back here in a bit since I’m kinda busy right now, but anyways, I’ll come back and edit this comment because I have a lot to say. Edit: I’m sorry I didn’t have the time to comment this earlier, but I just wanted to say that I think you did the right choice. I also have been watching many of your videos lately and I commented on another video explaining about my heart palpitations and similar reactions that you have. If you want to see the comment, the video is about her explaining about the PTSD and about her dog. I am glad that you’re feeling better and I agree that the mental problems can weigh you down and I’ve been dealing with that. I’m only 13 years old and I experience heart palpitations and I read that there should be 10 bpm or something like that and I’m concerned about my health. Especially with my heart I get shortness of breath, sharp pains when I try to take deep breaths sometimes, and my heart is always beating so hard and quick. I have tried explaining this to my mom but she says nothing is wrong with me. Seeing as she said that, I may have to take the matter into my own hands. Being only 13 this is chaotic and sometimes my breathing and calming methods don’t work. As I explained in my other comment on the other video, I don’t get enough oxygen and I can have an anxiety attack at any moment and for no reason maybe. Also I become “paralyzed” and if I try to move I twitch, my head will become heavy on one side, and I can’t do anything about it. I’m looking more into heart disorders and if one of the reasons may be because I almost died as a baby due to the fact my birth parents smoked and I lived in a trailer with them and it wasn’t the best life. I developed asthma because of that and almost died from a respiratory problem. I’m just going to end this comment with the fact that I’m so glad your channel was in my recommendations. I love Max and thank you for making these videos, they’ve actually helped me more than I expected and I’m super happy you’re feeling better. ❤️ -Bella
Now I get the sudden hair change. Good for you, hun. I'm going through a major breakup right now too, and I'm glad that you are in a better place than I am lol. I wish you the best. It's sad when the love leaves, but it sounds like it was for the best.
They way you carry yourself is so admirable! You are so strong and seem to always keep your best interest in mind!! I’m so happy that you’re happy and moving on with such a positive mindset!! 💓
Always got a weird feeling from videos with him, especially when you were having issues in public. So glad you’re doing what’s best for you and your child!
I just started watching your videos a couple of days ago, you are a completely different person, in your face in your actions and general demeanor, the way you talk, everything recently compared to videos say a few months ago. You seem lighter and happer and I'm glad for you! Congrats on being able to get out of that marriage!
I understand the feeling of feeling free. I was in a 9 year long relationship that ended last June, and I felt guilt for a bit because right away I felt free like a weight had been lifted off of me. He wasn't an alcoholic, but he was someone who would pick out the bad of everyone that comes around him but would never own up to his own bad habits/mistakes. Since leaving I have been able to look back and see that, and so much more. You seem to be in a good place, which is great for you and your child! Stay strong
I feel like i have to say this. Its amazing that you noticed it was toxic for yourself and your child so ended the relationship. My mum and dad weren't in love with each when i was about 4 years old but chose to stay together due to my sister's serious disabilities. My parents didnt love each other meaning i never knew what 2 parents in a loving relationship looked like. My father was really depressed and unhappy meaning i coped the emotional abuse (this only stopped when we left). At 15 years old and sitting in a psych ward I couldn't take it anymore and gave my mother the option to leave or stay but no matter her choice i wasnt going back. I now have great relationships with both my parents and if i hadnt gotten out then i would have taken my own life. You made the right decision for the both of you ❤
I must say im so proud of you for standing up and making a better life for you and your son. It takes alot to leave a marriage. I wish my mother did years ago, because my father is abusive to me and her. Physically and verbally
I’m so sorry. I know that this must be hard and confusing and difficult for you and embarrassing but I know that you can get through it. I am praying for Max, I’m praying for you, and I’m praying for your son. I hope you can make the wise decision to get better. 🤧❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕😁
ive been watching so many of your videos and all the comment sections have been disabled which is understandable but i found this with comments allowed and got so happy! i’ve been wanting to tell you i LOVE your content and am so grateful to have found you. i had no idea about the laws of what not to do around a service dog, my family neither and now we all know. thank you so much for sharing your story and experiences ❤️❤️ sorry about your divorce, everything will be brighter
I am glad you shared that. It may help people out there with the same issues. If they see how happy you are, maybe they will have the strength to do something about their life. I am happy to hear that Chace is no longer drinking. I am also happy to hear how happy you are. Keep flying and follow your dreams. I am happy to be apart of it all with you. Take care and God bless.
I know this is sad and everything you guys are really great. (But in the beginning you looked depressed) but good for you for taking charge and stepping up.
I'm glad you've noticed something that has been dragging you down and got the courage to face it and kick it in the ass. I'm proud of you, Dom. Love you so so much xx
craisins 86 Sorry to butt in, but finding someone else should have NO relation to whether or not you leave an abusive relationship. Wouldn't it be better to be alone than be in a toxic relationship? I think so. I have been there, and if you love yourself you will leave them. Who cares if you will find someone else? Find yourself and leave.
I just recently found your channel and I'm really enjoying learning about service animals, and hopefully, you gave your ex the wakeup call he needed now now to scour youtube for all the other service animal channels
I just found your channel, from the video about a lady pushing you to pet your service dog...posted 6 month ago. So Hello :) I’m a new follower, you’re so sweet!
To me it was evident something wasn't right. Now that this has come to the light it makes unfortunate yet perfect sense. There was one vlog that he took over more than you and I had my suspicions that he was under the influence of something I wasn't sure if it was drugs but of course now I know that it was alcohol so girl you did do the right thing because being with somebody on drugs or alcohol you will never be first and neither will your child so hopefully he gets the help he needs you look very happy and I am glad that you are seeing somebody because it does make it a lot easier to transition but you emotionally checked out like you said 2 years ago so this really isn't like you're hopping from one relationship to the next even though a lot of people will say that it's not true at all and nobody should be judging you. I wish you the best and I will continue to watch your vlogs and thank you for your honesty I'm sure it helped many many women
I recommend therapy for Liam when he starts to develop and understand a little more especially with the shared custody... My dad was abusive until I was 7 and my mom just decided I wouldn’t remember a whole lot when I got older, and I saw a therapist when I was 8 but I didn’t really speak to them, sooo... I now have 4 forms of anxiety including a generalized anxiety, a panic attack disorder, OCD, and PTSD. On top of this I also have depression, but I also have no communication with my father, so with the conjoined custody just make sure that Liam is happy either way, and I know you will just do the best thing you can do for yourself and you son. Love your channel so much. Glad you’re happy with your decision, and here for support if needed.💖
I'm a new sub to your channel, you're so strong and thank you for being so transparent in your life. Good luck and much blessings to you and your little boy! 😋🙏🏼
dang, I thought you guys were adorable but then again some people act differently in public, but i'm glad that you're happy and better, I hope that you, your kid, and your animals will do better without being in that toxic relationship but letting your son still see his father is very important and i'm a bit jealous, my parents are divorced and I haven't seen my dad in 7 or more years, so i'm glad that he still has his father at least for a bit and i'm glad that you're in a happy and healthy relationship, i'll support you 100%. ^^
I can’t stress how important it is that Liam gets in therapy when he is older. My parents divorced when I was just a couple months younger than Liam, and they never had me see a therapist because they thought that I was young enough that them being divorced would just be all I remembered. But like I do, I remember little snippets of when they were together. And yes, all I’ve really known is the back and forth of custody, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t have undealt with feelings about that. And not addressing those feelings was a big factor to my mental illnesses. You might be thinking, “oh, yeah. But he will always be able to talk to us and ask questions and things like that.” But the communication line for most families about that closes after about a year. And here I was as a 5/6 year old wondering why they got divorced. I would suggest that once he’s about 5 take him to a good therapist and have them evaluate him. A good therapist will tell you whether or not he needs therapy. And then after that every couple years just have him evaluated again, because something that he wasn’t thinking about when he was 5 he could be wondering about when he’s 9/10.
I totally agree. My dad was abusive until I was 7 and my mom just decided I wouldn’t remember a whole lot when I got older, and I saw a therapist when I was 8 but I didn’t really speak to them, sooo... I now have 4 forms of anxiety including a generalized anxiety, a panic attack disorder, OCD, and PTSD. On top of this I also have depression, but I also have no communication with my father, so with the conjoined custody just make sure that Liam is happy either way, and I know you will just do the best thing you can do for yourself and you son. Love your channel so much!
Good for you, not letting your circumstances hold you back. You remind me of myself when I started having my medical issues, also with EDS / associated issues, some 8 years ago.. I'm really rooting for you. I want you to succeed and be happy; I'm so glad you're making the most of your days here on earth. Sending well wishes to you and your son.
you’re a wonderful strong woman. my parents have been going through a divorce for 4 years before it was finally said and done this year. its a very long process but i know you’re going to make it through.
First off- i am happy that you had the courage to leave a toxic situation. You deserve to be happy. Second- It is NOBODYS business if you are dating or bringing another guy around Liam so soon. You are a wonderful mom and your not going to bring someone who is dangerous around him. People need to mind their own business when it comes to what you do. Yes, you put it on the inter webs for everyone to see, that doesnt mean people can tell you what you should and shouldnt do. I dont care if you brought in a new guy the day after you left chase. It’s NOONES business. If they dont like it they can just not follow you. As long as you are not hurting anyone or anything, its nobodies business. Please be careful. That’s all I ask.
Team Julie against Ovarian Cancer I just wanted to make you aware of the fact that anybody can be dangerous. No one truly knows who they're dating. My mom had a boyfriend that lived with me and my sister for 10 years. He watched me grow up basically. And one day, at age 20, homeland security came to my job to tell me that my moms ex (they broke up a couple years before this) had hacked into my things and got naked pictures of me as well as taking hidden video footage of me in the shower. We all thought he was the best person ever. Turned out he was really good at hiding things.
Morgan Weir the thing is this isn't someone she met after high school they probably met around 8th grade freshmen year and have been really good friends if things end really badly then yes I understand he could become dangerous but if you've been friends all through high school and into adulthood I think she probably knows what he went through and what problems he's more likely to develop. Chase might have had someone in his life who was an alcoholic and that's why he had a problem with drinking and she never even knew about it
Hey i watched your Videos, and im pretty thankfull for the description that u explained your ''problems'', Max and you are pretty cute and good luck in you ongoing life :) (i hope it makes sense cause i aint speaking english alot :D)
Roses Are Red Violets Are Blue You don't need Chase Because we love you! Don't have breakdowns over him okay? You are so much better without him and you don't need a alcoholic in your amazing new life without Chase. I realized.. Chase is a idiot for drinking. We love you! PS. It's my birthday today. -April
I've barely gotten into your channel a couple weeks ago and watched quite a few of your vids, I did notice that you and your ex weren't too...together?(I guess) like there was a gap or something missing, he didn't seem too worried or such during things in my opinion from what I saw so now seeing this video I'm honestly glad you know that it's better to break it off it might be difficult but it's good that you made that decision with all those factors in mind, it's very strong of you to do this especially with your medical issues wish you the best!!
Hey girl, I wish you the best for everything ahead of you and your son, I've only been watching you for a bit of time and I have already learnt a lot from you, love max as well good luck!!!! Xxxx
I'm sorry that this is has happened, but it seems like it's for the best, hopefully for the both of you because him stopping drinking is only going to benefit him. I'm so proud of you for getting the courage to do it! xx
So when you were trying to explain how when you meet someone (or in my case family member) and they seem so sweet and nice and then they start drinking and they become cruel. You explaimed thst perfect. It made sense. But I'm glad that you two are doing your own things now and that you are now with someone who is better. (If any of that makes sense)
I support you 100%, I know exactly what your going through. My first ex is a alcoholic still is. He has tried several times to be sober he always ended up going back to drinking. That's in my case, if Chase is sober he has to attend AA and counseling if he wants to stop drinking. Everytime your around Chase or exchange Liam to him. Make sure you record or video document if he is under the influence you will smell it on him. It's no one business what you do or date. It's more important you be happy and your son. Love you, blessings
Sending so much love to you and your son. I’m so glad to hear you’re happy. You are glowing and remained so positive throughout this video. Love and light to and all the best in your health ❤️
I'm sorry you have to go thru this. But I'm proud of you for being strong enough to have the courage to leave. Its hard enough to go thru a divorce or deal with chronic illnesses but to deal with both...it can be overwhelming. But it sounds like you did the right thing for everyone! Stress is a bitch and makes illness worse. If youre happy you're healthier and therefore so is your son. Thank you for sharing and ignore all the haters. Internet trolls love to cast judgement but truth be told its not anyone's business. My husband passed away 3 years ago (I'm 35) and a month later found myself in a new relationship that I never planned for not was looking for. Everyone judged me too. But bottom line is- NO ONE LIVES YOUR LIFE BUT YOU AND YOU OWE NO APOLOGIES FOR HOW YOU CHOOSE TO SURVIVE IT! You go girl! Happiness suits you!
Girl, you do you and get rid of the toxic people in your life. It's hard to deal with certain people with alcoholism (especially with minors), not directed towards people who suffer from alcoholism and are getting treated for it. Alcoholism is considered a mental illness and I applaud and support people who are sober or working hard towards being sober, but the people who don't get help at all are toxic (lord knows I've experienced those people) but I hope you have a good life and that Liam adjusts well. Also, I love you and your videos!
acegirlinastraightworld ever considered that she is just using alcoholism as a way to smear him? Its likely she cant tell the difference between justified anger and drunken anger?
Jim T Yeah, no, I sincerely doubt that's what she's doing. It's not like she's saying "he's the worst person ever and I hate him". She says he's a good person but he has alcoholism. It's a disease. I know perfectly well the difference between justified and unjustified anger. I've lived with it my entire life what with my brother thinking there's nothing wrong with alcoholism and seeing it as an effective way to cope with bipolar. She's not using alcoholism as a way to smear or shame him. She's pointing to a reason to end their marriage as it's causing them stress. If someone who watches this video determines that he's a shit person and a shit dad, that's their own fault. She has clearly stated she wants Liam to be apart of his life and that she does not want Liam to miss out on having a father.
I'm literally in the exact situation. Incredibly hard choice & decision to make. But sometimes you have to be selfish in order to look after yourself. But it does feel like a massive weight off the shoulders. I wish you all the best for your & Liam's future hun. Big hugs Xx
I’m so sorry that this has happened to you, but I’m proud that you’ve been so strong. You’ve got this and if you ever decided to take a break or anything we will fully support you. I love you so much!
I am so sorry that you are divorcing. No matter what it is hard. I'm glad you are doing this to help yourself and your family. Stay strong and we love you 💜💜
Strong woman. I've only been watching you for such a short amount of time but I can only say that I am proud of you and I hope things clear up and you have a much better, happier life. Keep strong
Hi Dominique, I just recently started watching your videos a couple of months ago, but in this short of a time I've come to notice how great of a woman and a mother you are. You have a great service dog, and all I can say is how happy I am for you that you were able to get out of a toxic relationship and begin a new and beautiful one. Cheers!
Hey chickie! That's so crazy. I am a recovering drug addict and alcoholic. I have been sober for 6 months. I have a service dog for self harm interruption, and PTSD (Non military related) . Yeah. It's really hard, and frusterating living with an alcoholic. Like Chase, I was a fairly decent person when I was sober. But towards the end of my addiction, I was sleeping all the time, and I would just wake up every couple of hours to put more chemicals in me. Idk. Im glad im sober. Stay strong.
I will pray for your whole family and for how tough it will be I pray it will not cause terrible troubles I hope it will open new paths for each of you and I pray you will all be happier! Stay safe stay strong and keep your hope!
It’s so awesome to see you so happy and giddy about new beginnings in life and with Austin. Congrats for taking control of your life and doing what is best for you and Liam!
Like that time Dom was passed out next to the bench in Walmart and he just stood there, left his child UNSUPERVISED in a buggy in a crowd, and ate raspberries, not doing anything to help
I went threw the same thing 2 years ago and I feel so much more happier. I give you all the credit to follow your heart and how you feel to make you happy. xoxox
Aloha From Oahu, Hawaii!! I'm new to your channel, subd, and notification bell is On! I was first drawn to your channel because of max but after watching about 10 videos in a row I realized how much of a great person u are! Your very inspired to be positive and that's what I admire about u! Now, I love it all..Liam is super cute too! 👍on your decision! Aloha🤙
I’m am so proud of you for how far you’ve gone, your device dog Max is so adorable and I’ve learnt so much from your videos and I know how to deal with service dogs. I love your TH-cam channel and stay strong
I know how u feel, I was in a toxic relationship with a guy for 11 months and for most of the time we were together he was blackmailing me into giving him pictures that I didn't I want to send, I eventually got the courage to leave him and after I left him I have never had to cry myself to sleep or harm myself. Don't worry, Time. Will. Heal. You.
So proud of you for your courage to leave that toxic relationship. I know from experience that it's not easy. No one deserves to be abused physically or psychologically.
Service Dog Paws Awesome! Can’t wait to hang out with you! My brother will most likely have his car back by then as he agreed to drive me to Orlando if my mom wasn’t able too, but we’ll definitely have fun!
you are beautiful. I understand how much lighter you feel being out of a mentally draining relationship ( been there done that) . I am sorry that you had to go through that. I am sorry you have to deal with all the stupid people and all the illness. thank you for sharing your life and your struggles. I wish you all the happiness life can bring. you are an inspiration.
I always get so mad when you pass out in public and are in an incredibly vulnerable state (physically, emotionally, mentally) and he walks away! I have literally yelled at the screen at him! Anyone who says they care about you would stay right there to make sure you are ok, protected, and can get through the episodes without any undue stress!! Proud of you! You and your son are what’s important. It’s hard enough to have a chronic illness, you don’t need it being aggravated by toxicity. ❤️
Like that one where he was eating his raspberries when she was passed out
@@bonelesspizza150 i saw that and it pissed me off... I said (what a b1tch) and I wasnt wrong lol
@@bonelesspizza150 you mean the Walmart video when she yelled at a person for god forbid looking at her service dog? The video where she turned off comments because she came off super mean and fake and “oh I forgot the camera was off”. She literally felt sort of bad at best and CHOSE to lay down to train Max. Then the whole don’t look at my dog thing, service dogs should be trained to deal with everything be it a look from people and or noise and still be able to do their job first. If you don’t want your special self and service dog looked at well don’t go to a high populated area with kids. Chase did try and help even her up there but she decided she wasn’t ready. It is even in the caption how she ask Chase to help her and he does but then in the same caption makes him sound bad saying she wasn’t ready even acting like he rushed her EVEN THOUGH SHE ASKED him. I mean the fact comments are turned off in that video mainly speaks volumes. I am betting she got bad reactions to her bad attitude. I’m not saying Chase is perfect but she certainly has her very visible Flaws.
I 💯 agree^^
I’m sorry to hear the bad news, but honestly you deserve better. No one should eat raspberries while their S/O is passed out on a Walmart floor. 🤦🏻♀️ please find someone who treats you as well as your doggo.💕
*everyone is all like “wow I’m so proud of you!”*
*me: my mom has that same painting in the living room*
moonlight gamingMSP OMG SAME
It also seemed like in some of ur videos that ur now ex husband didnt really help u much during ur episodes... Which is wrong in my opinion. Sorry if im out of place.
Yeah he was like Nah Max got it covered. Max will take care of her, they don't need my help Lol
If u go back to the vid of her passing out in public think it's something titled along the lines of adults distracting her service dog and her passing out... she pinned a comment detailing just how crappy he was to her.. way more than just uncaring.. :(
th-cam.com/video/UPps8QfoxCw/w-d-xo.html
^that's the vid..I know its 2 years later but in case u were still wondering
so glad you are no longer together. It was obvious he was not very nice to you on that video that you uploaded when you were at Walmart laying on the floor with your dog. The way he spoke to you and his body language just did not seem like he was really connected with you. You deserve better, smile because when one bad thing ends many more good begin :)
I felt the same, then I saw a comment of her saying she remarried, bc he was aggressive 🥺, hope she doing AMAZING
It takes a LOT to stop loving someone you made a life with I’m proud of you
My father was native and an alcoholic. My mom has always told me natives process alcohol different or something like that?
Anyway, my mom left him when I was 2. Except that was too long for me. I am now 22, have a bunch of anxieties including separation anxiety and abandonment issues.
My father was actually abusive, to the point where once I tried kissing my moms vagina (over the pants) and she told me not to do that and I said something along the lines but dad lets me do it...I was 2. She drew the line when that happened and when my sisters school called social services because she had a huge bruise on her back.
She didn't even draw the line when my sperm donor kicked her in the stomach while she was pregnant which made her lose her baby (before me).
My mom took years to get over him, she was willing to stay with him if he was just hurting her.
So from a child from domestic abuse who had an alcoholic father, I am so happy for you! And I am so proud! You focus on your and your childs happiness and safety, that should always be the #1 on the list!
People should really stop attacking chase. She literally said since they split, he’s gone sober. That’s a pretty hard thing to do. I’m not saying anything he did was good in any way, but calling him an idiot and swearing isn’t really gonna resolve anything.
A Person he likely quit drinking because he didnt have to deal with her lies about her blatant split personality disorder anymore.
No shit drinking would be the only way for me to put up with her. I have to use drugs just to make it thru her videos
KD DaGreat I thought I was alone
@@JamesTTierce I bet all my money you are chase or a friend/relative to chase lmao. Clown
@@joew4202 do you have such little of a life that you feel the need to watch all of her videos even though you need drugs to get through them? Because if so who has the problem here it's not her
Oh I understand completely. My mom was totally in love with my dad, he was a great guy, but he was the worst alcoholic. He drank at least 4 beers a day and he was very mean and verbally abusive when he was drunk. Support you 100%
PhanWeirdo 0_0 i know what you mean my dad too. I think there was this once he actually hit my mother
4 beers a day isnt bad
PhanWeirdo 0_0 no alcoholic on the planet is gonna get remotely drunk from 4 beers. That wouldn't even sate physical withdrawal symptoms for a minute. Maybe reevaluate your opinion on your father
Jim T I agree
Having a husband being drunk most of the time being toxic is enough but having him
being toxic w the child around is more than that you deserved better
White knight
I feel like in the videos with your ex it was noticeable that the relationship was off. I’m glad you left and did the right thing for both, you and your son.
i was just thinking from the latest thumbnails that you look much better lately - toxicity takes a toll on you!
I didn’t have time to comment earlier when I tapped on the video, but I wanted to say a few things, I’ll come back here in a bit since I’m kinda busy right now, but anyways, I’ll come back and edit this comment because I have a lot to say.
Edit: I’m sorry I didn’t have the time to comment this earlier, but I just wanted to say that I think you did the right choice. I also have been watching many of your videos lately and I commented on another video explaining about my heart palpitations and similar reactions that you have. If you want to see the comment, the video is about her explaining about the PTSD and about her dog. I am glad that you’re feeling better and I agree that the mental problems can weigh you down and I’ve been dealing with that. I’m only 13 years old and I experience heart palpitations and I read that there should be 10 bpm or something like that and I’m concerned about my health. Especially with my heart I get shortness of breath, sharp pains when I try to take deep breaths sometimes, and my heart is always beating so hard and quick. I have tried explaining this to my mom but she says nothing is wrong with me. Seeing as she said that, I may have to take the matter into my own hands. Being only 13 this is chaotic and sometimes my breathing and calming methods don’t work. As I explained in my other comment on the other video, I don’t get enough oxygen and I can have an anxiety attack at any moment and for no reason maybe. Also I become “paralyzed” and if I try to move I twitch, my head will become heavy on one side, and I can’t do anything about it. I’m looking more into heart disorders and if one of the reasons may be because I almost died as a baby due to the fact my birth parents smoked and I lived in a trailer with them and it wasn’t the best life. I developed asthma because of that and almost died from a respiratory problem.
I’m just going to end this comment with the fact that I’m so glad your channel was in my recommendations. I love Max and thank you for making these videos, they’ve actually helped me more than I expected and I’m super happy you’re feeling better. ❤️
-Bella
Jane Doe it’s not lol it’s not funny at all
Jane Doe what
Sugar Sweet srry, nm I'll delete all comments
Now I get the sudden hair change. Good for you, hun. I'm going through a major breakup right now too, and I'm glad that you are in a better place than I am lol. I wish you the best. It's sad when the love leaves, but it sounds like it was for the best.
They way you carry yourself is so admirable! You are so strong and seem to always keep your best interest in mind!! I’m so happy that you’re happy and moving on with such a positive mindset!! 💓
You seem a lot more happy and outgoing. I'm glad you were able to free yourself from your toxic situation!
Girl you do you. I wish you all the happiness in the world. And good vibes to your ex he continues to stay sober.
Always got a weird feeling from videos with him, especially when you were having issues in public. So glad you’re doing what’s best for you and your child!
I just started watching your videos a couple of days ago, you are a completely different person, in your face in your actions and general demeanor, the way you talk, everything recently compared to videos say a few months ago. You seem lighter and happer and I'm glad for you! Congrats on being able to get out of that marriage!
I understand the feeling of feeling free. I was in a 9 year long relationship that ended last June, and I felt guilt for a bit because right away I felt free like a weight had been lifted off of me. He wasn't an alcoholic, but he was someone who would pick out the bad of everyone that comes around him but would never own up to his own bad habits/mistakes. Since leaving I have been able to look back and see that, and so much more. You seem to be in a good place, which is great for you and your child! Stay strong
Im so proud of you! Thank you for the updates! I hope all goes well.
I feel like i have to say this. Its amazing that you noticed it was toxic for yourself and your child so ended the relationship. My mum and dad weren't in love with each when i was about 4 years old but chose to stay together due to my sister's serious disabilities. My parents didnt love each other meaning i never knew what 2 parents in a loving relationship looked like. My father was really depressed and unhappy meaning i coped the emotional abuse (this only stopped when we left). At 15 years old and sitting in a psych ward I couldn't take it anymore and gave my mother the option to leave or stay but no matter her choice i wasnt going back. I now have great relationships with both my parents and if i hadnt gotten out then i would have taken my own life.
You made the right decision for the both of you ❤
I must say im so proud of you for standing up and making a better life for you and your son. It takes alot to leave a marriage. I wish my mother did years ago, because my father is abusive to me and her. Physically and verbally
I’m so sorry. I know that this must be hard and confusing and difficult for you and embarrassing but I know that you can get through it. I am praying for Max, I’m praying for you, and I’m praying for your son. I hope you can make the wise decision to get better. 🤧❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕😁
I always knew to ask before petting a service dog. But I've learned a LOT from watching your videos. I'm glad you post this stuff.
ive been watching so many of your videos and all the comment sections have been disabled which is understandable but i found this with comments allowed and got so happy! i’ve been wanting to tell you i LOVE your content and am so grateful to have found you. i had no idea about the laws of what not to do around a service dog, my family neither and now we all know. thank you so much for sharing your story and experiences ❤️❤️ sorry about your divorce, everything will be brighter
I am glad you shared that. It may help people out there with the same issues. If they see how happy you are, maybe they will have the strength to do something about their life. I am happy to hear that Chace is no longer drinking. I am also happy to hear how happy you are. Keep flying and follow your dreams. I am happy to be apart of it all with you. Take care and God bless.
Good for you!! It takes a lot of courage to do something like this. I'm very impressed at your upbeat attitude.
I know this is sad and everything you guys are really great. (But in the beginning you looked depressed) but good for you for taking charge and stepping up.
This is the first video I see from you. May your new man prove himself worthy of you.
I'm glad you've noticed something that has been dragging you down and got the courage to face it and kick it in the ass. I'm proud of you, Dom. Love you so so much xx
craisins 86 Sorry to butt in, but finding someone else should have NO relation to whether or not you leave an abusive relationship. Wouldn't it be better to be alone than be in a toxic relationship? I think so. I have been there, and if you love yourself you will leave them. Who cares if you will find someone else? Find yourself and leave.
craisins 86 I wish you the best on your journey and hope you will be happy.
Damn, I just subbed last night after watching a few of your vids and woke up to this :o. Best wishes love c:💖💞.
you look so different from your previous videos !!!!! a good different! ♡ so glad you’re happy and getting rid of all toxicity in your life
you look so relieved! so glad this is helping with your depression and anxiety as well. good on you.
I just recently found your channel and I'm really enjoying learning about service animals, and hopefully, you gave your ex the wakeup call he needed now now to scour youtube for all the other service animal channels
I just found your channel, from the video about a lady pushing you to pet your service dog...posted 6 month ago.
So Hello :) I’m a new follower, you’re so sweet!
Martina Silver same too,that's what leaded me to here channel as well
Good for you! Your situation hits so close to home. I'm so happy for you!
To me it was evident something wasn't right. Now that this has come to the light it makes unfortunate yet perfect sense. There was one vlog that he took over more than you and I had my suspicions that he was under the influence of something I wasn't sure if it was drugs but of course now I know that it was alcohol so girl you did do the right thing because being with somebody on drugs or alcohol you will never be first and neither will your child so hopefully he gets the help he needs you look very happy and I am glad that you are seeing somebody because it does make it a lot easier to transition but you emotionally checked out like you said 2 years ago so this really isn't like you're hopping from one relationship to the next even though a lot of people will say that it's not true at all and nobody should be judging you. I wish you the best and I will continue to watch your vlogs and thank you for your honesty I'm sure it helped many many women
I recommend therapy for Liam when he starts to develop and understand a little more especially with the shared custody...
My dad was abusive until I was 7 and my mom just decided I wouldn’t remember a whole lot when I got older, and I saw a therapist when I was 8 but I didn’t really speak to them, sooo...
I now have 4 forms of anxiety including a generalized anxiety, a panic attack disorder, OCD, and PTSD. On top of this I also have depression, but I also have no communication with my father, so with the conjoined custody just make sure that Liam is happy either way, and I know you will just do the best thing you can do for yourself and you son.
Love your channel so much. Glad you’re happy with your decision, and here for support if needed.💖
So happy for you girl!! So glad you worked up the courage to do what’s best for you and your adorable child! You have my support 💖
I'm a new sub to your channel, you're so strong and thank you for being so transparent in your life. Good luck and much blessings to you and your little boy! 😋🙏🏼
dang, I thought you guys were adorable but then again some people act differently in public, but i'm glad that you're happy and better, I hope that you, your kid, and your animals will do better without being in that toxic relationship but letting your son still see his father is very important and i'm a bit jealous, my parents are divorced and I haven't seen my dad in 7 or more years, so i'm glad that he still has his father at least for a bit and i'm glad that you're in a happy and healthy relationship, i'll support you 100%. ^^
I'm so glad I'm not the only one who thought they were a cute couple but then again I'm glad she's in a good place
Hope you treat yourself with all the things you want! I love your personality and I hope you stay strong!
I can’t stress how important it is that Liam gets in therapy when he is older. My parents divorced when I was just a couple months younger than Liam, and they never had me see a therapist because they thought that I was young enough that them being divorced would just be all I remembered. But like I do, I remember little snippets of when they were together. And yes, all I’ve really known is the back and forth of custody, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t have undealt with feelings about that. And not addressing those feelings was a big factor to my mental illnesses. You might be thinking, “oh, yeah. But he will always be able to talk to us and ask questions and things like that.” But the communication line for most families about that closes after about a year. And here I was as a 5/6 year old wondering why they got divorced. I would suggest that once he’s about 5 take him to a good therapist and have them evaluate him. A good therapist will tell you whether or not he needs therapy. And then after that every couple years just have him evaluated again, because something that he wasn’t thinking about when he was 5 he could be wondering about when he’s 9/10.
Emma Lis I plan on it
WOW YOU WRITE ALOT
I totally agree. My dad was abusive until I was 7 and my mom just decided I wouldn’t remember a whole lot when I got older, and I saw a therapist when I was 8 but I didn’t really speak to them, sooo...
I now have 4 forms of anxiety including a generalized anxiety, a panic attack disorder, OCD, and PTSD. On top of this I also have depression, but I also have no communication with my father, so with the conjoined custody just make sure that Liam is happy either way, and I know you will just do the best thing you can do for yourself and you son.
Love your channel so much!
I hope you saw that, but sorry it was A LOT
Help Me ok I type quick so sometimes I forget the space
Good for you, not letting your circumstances hold you back. You remind me of myself when I started having my medical issues, also with EDS / associated issues, some 8 years ago.. I'm really rooting for you. I want you to succeed and be happy; I'm so glad you're making the most of your days here on earth. Sending well wishes to you and your son.
You go girl! Life will be better and you seem so much happier! So much more calmer
you’re a wonderful strong woman. my parents have been going through a divorce for 4 years before it was finally said and done this year. its a very long process but i know you’re going to make it through.
I’m sorry you are going through this... but it gives me strength to see women like you stand up.
First off- i am happy that you had the courage to leave a toxic situation. You deserve to be happy. Second- It is NOBODYS business if you are dating or bringing another guy around Liam so soon. You are a wonderful mom and your not going to bring someone who is dangerous around him. People need to mind their own business when it comes to what you do. Yes, you put it on the inter webs for everyone to see, that doesnt mean people can tell you what you should and shouldnt do. I dont care if you brought in a new guy the day after you left chase. It’s NOONES business. If they dont like it they can just not follow you. As long as you are not hurting anyone or anything, its nobodies business. Please be careful. That’s all I ask.
Team Julie against Ovarian Cancer I just wanted to make you aware of the fact that anybody can be dangerous. No one truly knows who they're dating. My mom had a boyfriend that lived with me and my sister for 10 years. He watched me grow up basically. And one day, at age 20, homeland security came to my job to tell me that my moms ex (they broke up a couple years before this) had hacked into my things and got naked pictures of me as well as taking hidden video footage of me in the shower. We all thought he was the best person ever. Turned out he was really good at hiding things.
Morgan Weir the thing is this isn't someone she met after high school they probably met around 8th grade freshmen year and have been really good friends if things end really badly then yes I understand he could become dangerous but if you've been friends all through high school and into adulthood I think she probably knows what he went through and what problems he's more likely to develop. Chase might have had someone in his life who was an alcoholic and that's why he had a problem with drinking and she never even knew about it
Hey i watched your Videos, and im pretty thankfull for the description that u explained your ''problems'', Max and you are pretty cute and good luck in you ongoing life :) (i hope it makes sense cause i aint speaking english alot :D)
Roses Are Red
Violets Are Blue
You don't need Chase
Because we love you!
Don't have breakdowns over him okay? You are so much better without him and you don't need a alcoholic in your amazing new life without Chase.
I realized.. Chase is a idiot for drinking. We love you!
PS. It's my birthday today.
-April
bean bean leaf owo happy birthday! ❤️
I don't know why people disliked this video tho
@@beanbeanowo8660 because they are defending chase and think she is in the wrong
I've barely gotten into your channel a couple weeks ago and watched quite a few of your vids, I did notice that you and your ex weren't too...together?(I guess) like there was a gap or something missing, he didn't seem too worried or such during things in my opinion from what I saw so now seeing this video I'm honestly glad you know that it's better to break it off
it might be difficult but it's good that you made that decision with all those factors in mind, it's very strong of you to do this especially with your medical issues
wish you the best!!
awe, well its amazing you are being strong, and please continue to stay strong, it'll get better, Fighting! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey girl, I wish you the best for everything ahead of you and your son, I've only been watching you for a bit of time and I have already learnt a lot from you, love max as well good luck!!!! Xxxx
I'm sorry that this is has happened, but it seems like it's for the best, hopefully for the both of you because him stopping drinking is only going to benefit him. I'm so proud of you for getting the courage to do it! xx
You look amazing and seem so much happier almost as if you are glowing!!
So when you were trying to explain how when you meet someone (or in my case family member) and they seem so sweet and nice and then they start drinking and they become cruel. You explaimed thst perfect. It made sense. But I'm glad that you two are doing your own things now and that you are now with someone who is better. (If any of that makes sense)
Yes gurl do you! Keep fighting the good fight and I can't wait for the updates on your new chapter ❤❤❤
I just started watching this TH-cam channel and I’ve literally learned so much and do you girl as long as your happy that’s all that matters !! ❤️❤️
I support you 100%, I know exactly what your going through. My first ex is a alcoholic still is. He has tried several times to be sober he always ended up going back to drinking. That's in my case, if Chase is sober he has to attend AA and counseling if he wants to stop drinking. Everytime your around Chase or exchange Liam to him. Make sure you record or video document if he is under the influence you will smell it on him. It's no one business what you do or date. It's more important you be happy and your son. Love you, blessings
I'm really happy for you. Do what makes you happy :)
Sending so much love to you and your son. I’m so glad to hear you’re happy. You are glowing and remained so positive throughout this video. Love and light to and all the best in your health ❤️
I'm sorry you have to go thru this. But I'm proud of you for being strong enough to have the courage to leave. Its hard enough to go thru a divorce or deal with chronic illnesses but to deal with both...it can be overwhelming. But it sounds like you did the right thing for everyone! Stress is a bitch and makes illness worse. If youre happy you're healthier and therefore so is your son. Thank you for sharing and ignore all the haters. Internet trolls love to cast judgement but truth be told its not anyone's business. My husband passed away 3 years ago (I'm 35) and a month later found myself in a new relationship that I never planned for not was looking for. Everyone judged me too. But bottom line is- NO ONE LIVES YOUR LIFE BUT YOU AND YOU OWE NO APOLOGIES FOR HOW YOU CHOOSE TO SURVIVE IT! You go girl! Happiness suits you!
I'm do happy for you now you get so start a new chapter in your life! Stay Strong😘
Girl, you do you and get rid of the toxic people in your life. It's hard to deal with certain people with alcoholism (especially with minors), not directed towards people who suffer from alcoholism and are getting treated for it. Alcoholism is considered a mental illness and I applaud and support people who are sober or working hard towards being sober, but the people who don't get help at all are toxic (lord knows I've experienced those people) but I hope you have a good life and that Liam adjusts well. Also, I love you and your videos!
acegirlinastraightworld ever considered that she is just using alcoholism as a way to smear him? Its likely she cant tell the difference between justified anger and drunken anger?
Jim T Yeah, no, I sincerely doubt that's what she's doing. It's not like she's saying "he's the worst person ever and I hate him". She says he's a good person but he has alcoholism. It's a disease. I know perfectly well the difference between justified and unjustified anger. I've lived with it my entire life what with my brother thinking there's nothing wrong with alcoholism and seeing it as an effective way to cope with bipolar.
She's not using alcoholism as a way to smear or shame him. She's pointing to a reason to end their marriage as it's causing them stress.
If someone who watches this video determines that he's a shit person and a shit dad, that's their own fault. She has clearly stated she wants Liam to be apart of his life and that she does not want Liam to miss out on having a father.
I have recently started watching you and to have something like this happen breaks my heart. Hope it works out❤️❤️❤️
That's sad. He could at least stopped when y'all got married
That's sad.He could of at least stopped drinking when y'all got married
Prayers out to you:( i hope all gets better❤️
I’m sorry u had to go through that. I totally understand. I’m sooooo happy for u.
I'm literally in the exact situation. Incredibly hard choice & decision to make. But sometimes you have to be selfish in order to look after yourself. But it does feel like a massive weight off the shoulders. I wish you all the best for your & Liam's future hun. Big hugs Xx
I’m so sorry that this has happened to you, but I’m proud that you’ve been so strong. You’ve got this and if you ever decided to take a break or anything we will fully support you. I love you so much!
I am so sorry that you are divorcing. No matter what it is hard. I'm glad you are doing this to help yourself and your family. Stay strong and we love you 💜💜
Wow when you just see the good parts of a relationship, you dont know what happens behind the camera
I was noticed by senpai :D
I can't imaging how crazy she gets off camera.
So proud of you for having the courage eto do this, alot of the stories of this kind of thing end up very badly
Strong woman. I've only been watching you for such a short amount of time but I can only say that I am proud of you and I hope things clear up and you have a much better, happier life. Keep strong
you know what?!?
GOOD FOR YOU! you wanted to do something and you did it. good job
omg you liked it😭😭😭😭
Hi Dominique, I just recently started watching your videos a couple of months ago, but in this short of a time I've come to notice how great of a woman and a mother you are. You have a great service dog, and all I can say is how happy I am for you that you were able to get out of a toxic relationship and begin a new and beautiful one. Cheers!
You are a strong woman stay strong and congratulations of following your instincts
Hey chickie! That's so crazy. I am a recovering drug addict and alcoholic. I have been sober for 6 months. I have a service dog for self harm interruption, and PTSD (Non military related) . Yeah. It's really hard, and frusterating living with an alcoholic. Like Chase, I was a fairly decent person when I was sober. But towards the end of my addiction, I was sleeping all the time, and I would just wake up every couple of hours to put more chemicals in me. Idk. Im glad im sober. Stay strong.
I will pray for your whole family and for how tough it will be I pray it will not cause terrible troubles I hope it will open new paths for each of you and I pray you will all be happier! Stay safe stay strong and keep your hope!
It’s so awesome to see you so happy and giddy about new beginnings in life and with Austin. Congrats for taking control of your life and doing what is best for you and Liam!
About time, i always thought he treated you bad during your tough times in public. So happy for you
Like that time Dom was passed out next to the bench in Walmart and he just stood there, left his child UNSUPERVISED in a buggy in a crowd, and ate raspberries, not doing anything to help
Phoenix Hughes yeah and he like pulled her up so aggressively
I'm so glad I'm not the only person who thought this ^, I watched it a few times thinking I was misinterpreting the situation
Phoenix Hughes What video was this / the title?
Glad I wasn't the only one who thought he wasn't treating the situation well at Walmart.
Oh my.. I’m so sorry girl.. I hope you live happily still, it’s going to be a rough road.. I love you and your dog 🐕 stay high and happy!
You done a great job. It’s hard to talk about but you go one your own path.
Keep up the life ❤️ You're strong. You can do it! I love your nails. You'll be fine ❤️💪👍
Srbija 4life the colour of her nails is amazing. Do you know what the colour is called?
Lauren Kay Wiseman i don't but i would like to know what is it 😀
Thx for telling us the truth
I went threw the same thing 2 years ago and I feel so much more happier. I give you all the credit to follow your heart and how you feel to make you happy. xoxox
Thank you for finally doing this video! I have been sooo confused
Aloha From Oahu, Hawaii!! I'm new to your channel, subd, and notification bell is On! I was first drawn to your channel because of max but after watching about 10 videos in a row I realized how much of a great person u are! Your very inspired to be positive and that's what I admire about u! Now, I love it all..Liam is super cute too! 👍on your decision! Aloha🤙
I'm glad you're dealing with this in the best way possible! You look radiant, way more light emotion-wise. Btw I LOVE your hair!
I’m am so proud of you for how far you’ve gone, your device dog Max is so adorable and I’ve learnt so much from your videos and I know how to deal with service dogs. I love your TH-cam channel and stay strong
I know how u feel, I was in a toxic relationship with a guy for 11 months and for most of the time we were together he was blackmailing me into giving him pictures that I didn't I want to send, I eventually got the courage to leave him and after I left him I have never had to cry myself to sleep or harm myself.
Don't worry, Time. Will. Heal. You.
So proud of you for your courage to leave that toxic relationship. I know from experience that it's not easy. No one deserves to be abused physically or psychologically.
I watched your thank you vid first and im happy gor you and btw
I really like your hair color💖💜💖
Really proud of you!!💕
you're glowing from looking so happy, all of the best!
So glad that you shed light on this subject. This summer will be a good one and we’ll definitely have lots of fun while at Universal.
Damon Isan I'm so stoked. I'll probably be in Florida next weekend. 😘
Service Dog Paws Awesome! Can’t wait to hang out with you! My brother will most likely have his car back by then as he agreed to drive me to Orlando if my mom wasn’t able too, but we’ll definitely have fun!
you are beautiful. I understand how much lighter you feel being out of a mentally draining relationship ( been there done that) . I am sorry that you had to go through that. I am sorry you have to deal with all the stupid people and all the illness. thank you for sharing your life and your struggles. I wish you all the happiness life can bring. you are an inspiration.
I'm so happy you have so a brave soul to be able to do this for you and your son!!
Sometimes the worst people end up with the best! Stay strong girl ❤️