Confronting Their Rapist | The Steve Wilkos Show
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The last thing I’d be doing is telling my own daughter to shut up after learning she was abused 😢
Right that was so stupid of the mother to tell your own daughter to shut up after proving that the man that she claimed to love was being abusive to her daughter. If my daughter tells me that one of my family members or Friends abused her, rape her or molested her I would absolutely believe my kids and I'll put a recording video on my camera phone to see it.
@@williamjamesperkins5483 You'd put a recording on your phone? To record what?
Who else thinks parents who don't take accusations seriously should go to jail?? Straight negligence
@@alib1919 no I meant to say if my daughter tells me that one of my family members touch her or rape her than I would tell her that ok next time if that happens again I'm gonna record the video on my phone to get proof of evidence that it did happen and of course I will believe my child.
@@wtichery me some parents don't need to have kids if their not gonna believe them that they were being rape or molested
Shame on the mother for yelling at her daughter, she just can’t handle that she failed. That she allowed generational silence to continue through her daughter
Sadly, this is quite common. Generational secrets of abuse.
Yessss! Exactly
The fact he's shaking like he's withdrawing
@@ericsmithhtf07gracing32 I think he has CP (cerebral palsy) .
@@ericsmithhtf07gracing32 Looks like permanent brain and nerve damage from alcohol and drug abuse.
Monae's mom needs to be in prison too for knowing it was happening & not doing anything about it! Disgusting!
Yes
I think the mother doesn't like her daughter low-key. Her attitude towards her daughter SUCKED. Even after it was revealed that she told the truth.
She sure did know and chose a man over her child 🙄, disgusting and pitiful
@@SandManChannel She's jealous of her daughter's youth.
@@ibabechanel agreed.
She told her daughter to shut up after she proved her wrong.. damn shame
Yeah.. believing my daughter over any man if she told me she was abused-last thing I would even think to tell her is to shut up 😕
Right 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Ikr?
Then said “ok *this time* you was right” like what’s that supposed to mean? She’s a witch
Stuff like that really ticks me off and makes my blood pressure go way up and my blood boiling to a point where I have to pause for a minute and think why would anyone do that to their own flesh and blood. Smh 😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬
I'm only halfway through 1st story but I absolutely believe her. She carries herself with integrity.
Righttttt!!!!
Yes I thought the same thing !
Absolutely agree
Absolutely. It was infuriating to watch that pathetic excuse of a “mother” treating her daughter like that. Then the mother is so narcissistic that she didn’t even comfort her daughter once it was proven that he is a child r*pist, which the mother without a doubt knew already.
I wanted to throw my damn phone across the room whenever he was gaslighting his VICTIM.
What made me believe in the dark stickers her was, early on yes described seeing the glow
Melvin over here shaking like those wind up chattering teeth toys lmaoo💀💀
Lmao he was 😭😭
Fr I was like this man knows he scared he’s being exposed
I think he have a nerve condition
This man was trying not to poop himself bc he knows he will fail the LDT
He gone be shaking more and more now 😂
I felt sorry 4 Monae, the fact that her mother was treating her like she was the bad person & not even comforting her is totally disgusting. This is horrible, it’s so cringe to listen to her speak about this story. I hope she’s doin betta.
Right. Sad she needed proof. If my child tells me they have been molested I'm taking their word.
@@shannonperry9884 definitely. I have a beautiful 10 yr old girl and I believe her b4 any1
@Shannon Perry totally agree with you the mother should have believed her child before anybody the mother is disgusting person the way she treats her daughter he's probably done it to more than her I hope his arse is in jail hope have a lovely day and evening from Mary from the far north of Scotland thurso caithness
Rule Number one : Never trust anyone over your own children.
Bro, it’s scripted. Honestly it’s disgusting they write these things to be aired like this. Confronting a perpetrator is a horrible idea
That mother is jealous of her daughter and I can tell she knew it was happening while it was. She failed her daughter tremendously and chose a man over her. She couldn't care less about the trauma that caused her daughter here because she already knew
Why is he not in prison if he's guilty
@@tamarahelgerson4609 so you didn't hear Steve say that Melvin is in custody
@@tamarahelgerson4609 he is in custody right now
@@Doiyoing right he said it either she wasn't listening or she didn't care to hear it.
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She’s so strong for confronting her abuser
Dude in that first story looked guilty as sin. Shame on her mother.
He is 🤮🤮
His body language tells the story.
A lot of movement and shaking. Realized that the stepfather did a horrible crime
@@terrellhubbard he had CP he can’t control his shaking.
@@Jessaroonie23 thank you for the information I didn't know that
@@Jessaroonie23 how do you know he has CP I was wondering why so I looked it up it said that body tremors are due to a neurological condition such as a stroke Parkinson's or multiple sclerosis they can also be a side effect of medications or anxiety, fatigue or stimulant use.
saying that the girl was high off drugs and alcohol only makes the accused look worse, she clearly wasn’t in the right state of mind
So she shouldn’t be doing the drinking and drugging! Because she was all with it!! And everybody was messed up!
@@TheTeeshaw It is a messy situation, but you still can not blame her. She still was under the influence and cant consent, especially when you pass out, you don't continue. You are literally blaming a victim
Neither was anyone else except sober friend who got her to the apartment & in bed!! ***Ppl have to be responsible for themselves!*** You can’t get 💩 faced wasted on drugs & alcohol then blame everyone else for your illogical unlike you behavior! That’s what drugs do will have you leave your bed, go get naked, climb in bed & engage in sex acts then holler rape! She tried her best to make herself some devastated victim. She got a freaky side that was jealous her friend was getting some & wanted in. But told her bf she didn’t have nothing to do with any of it! How can anyone know if you are actively engaging? You can’t just get wasted seduce ppl then say rape because you took drugs & don’t remember. She drugged & got drunk herself, removed her own clothes, climbed in bed on her own engaged in sex acts then passed out. Passing out is a usual ending to a night of drugging & drinking! She needs to be more responsible. Sometimes accepting you did some out of body ish on drugs can lead her to get the help she needs not try to ruin other ppl’s lives because she has regrets!
@@KnottieHottie314 just because everyone was high and drinking doesn't make it right. You people really are this stupid and blaming others. Yes, people put themselves in situation, but that doesn't mean it's their fault. You people are trash
@@Shalyn-ln9tu the victim willingly got in the bed and undressed. She willingly got drunk and was high off her ass before she got there. This sounds like her blaming the offender because she didn't like how things went down she came to. It's everyone's fault. They shouldn't have taken advantage when she fell asleep, but let's not act like home girl didn't put herself in that situation with drugs and alcohol. My wife was a victim of foul Play like the subject is calling BS.
The second story at the end is so funny to me how the guy was like “WOAHHH WOAHH that’s even worse” then he got walked off stage😭😭
😂😂😂
she is 100% correct, coming forward and sharing what happened takes the power away from the abuser and puts it in your hands.
it took me 35 years to come forward.
Glad you did. 🫂
@@ibabechanel thank you, I am glad i finally could also
I'm so sorry for you
It took me 35 years also
It took me 6 years to come forward
These two victims speaking directly to their abusers gives me chills. Everything I’ve ever wanted to do. I hope you both know you’re so incredible and inspiring. Your abusers are the just the dirt you walk on.
💯🎯! & U can get there too! Even if u are the only 1 that ever hears it! Make your statement & your story & deliver it! 💕💕💕
Makes me think the mother should've taken a lie detector test about actually knowing what was happening, she was extremely defensive and aggressive towards everyone
I have no doubt that she knew. Her daughter tried several times to tell her over the years. There are signs something is going on. She chose to turn a blind eye to it all probably because in the back of her mind if he was with her daughter, he wasn't out with a tramp or beating up on her as the daughter said they would fight and argue a lot.
That makes at least two of us, @ryancox6059!
That first young lady is so brave for breaking the generational curse ..her mother is so angry and I'm sure she went thru the same thing and no one protected her
True, but if that did happen to her when she was younger that means the mother would have been way more attentive. If that did happen to her and she wasn’t protected and she ignored everything from her daughter it makes her a pos for allowing her daughter to go through what she went through bc the mother wasn’t protected. It’s a double edged sword. Horrific to say the least!
@@haven8779 she gives me narcissistic vibes equally to a pos..and yes you would think if it did happen to a mother she would protect her children better than she was but not all the time
That’s why they always say just cause you went thru it doesn’t means let your own babies go thru it hurt people hurt people. That’s why you gotta break generational curses. Don’t let your kids go thru what you went thru cs you went thru it.
@@fearriansullivan1536 my sentiments exactly
Sometimes we don’t get justice
10:59 “you changed me” this!!!! this girl said everything i wish i was able to say to my rapist. she radiates power! i hope she has found peace with life.
and she STILL yelled at her to shut up after her results 🙄
If I was Steve I would have let her hit her momma for that 🤷🏽♀️
@@MissShiniSatocrying 😭😭😭😭
"Because I have more power than you now." YES! YES! YES! The feeling when you take your power back is... indescribable.
I need a lie detector test on the mother as well because I feel like she knew and just didn’t do anything to stop it
ong because there is no way in HELL that i’d yell at my daughter after finding out about something like this
Same because who yells at their child even after hearing the truth. She gonna say oh you were telling the truth this time miss what !
It gave me goosebumps wen the first girl said to Melvin “because I have more power than u now”
her mom was really worried first about the fact that Mel lied instead of that her daughter was put through it. Disgusting 😤
When the mother said “this time you were telling the truth” i had the same facial reaction as the girl they had on camera straight after that comment. What sort of mother says that to their child when they just proved themselves? Thats horrible.
A narcissist to the core.
A malignant narc to be e act. I'm the survivor of one.
Yes girl!
“Because I have more power than you do now, stop lying!”
She is so strong and brave.
Holy cow I am in awe of her.
melvin standing there seizing from nervousness saying he didn't do it lmao!
I'm so disappointed in the mothers reaction in the first story.
Ikr.
That ain't a mother. She don't deserve that title 😪
@@bmom1534 Rightttttt!!!!
@@deanna4741 Any mom who doesn't believe their daughter was a victim of domestic violence, rape, or any sexual assault makes me sick! The women that come on Steve's stage to tell these kinds of stories r so very courageous, and brave!
@@MarkMcNeel13 Ikr.
The second story is proof some people can't take accountability for their own actions
The second girl should rather learn from staying away from drugs. She initiated sex, and now she is sober and wants someone punished for her foolishness. She could have rather raped someone without her knowing.
Accountability is female kryptonite
exactly and she wants us to see her as a victim
@@traxagenda3445 because she is? She was raped? I don’t know if y’all have heard of laws but you can’t consent while under the influence?
What does she need to take accountability for? You can’t consent to someone that’s under the influence. She also passed out while intercourse was going on and they still continued raping her? Getting drunk and drugged does not mean you consent to anything that happens to you.
In the first story, I think the mother is very embarrassed by the fact that she didn't believe her own daughter for years but if she continues with this aggression towards her daughter they will never have a healthy relationship. I believed her within seconds of her telling her story and if her mother couldn't believe her it says a lot about her character.
Nah that’s not what’s happening. She knew damn well she was telling the truth!!! She needs to be imprisoned too!
@@xXxRockkettPower012 Thank you. She may be embarrassed that the truth finally came out and everyone else knows what happened. She knew what was going on the whole time. If she didn't turn a blind eye and let him continue abusing the daughter, that man would have left. If the cops had not arrested him, she would have let him go right back to her house.
@@pebblesceleste1633 No lies told.
Nah, she knew.
@@ibabechanel She knew but why do that to keep a piece of man? She was probably mad when he went to jail too.
The way the mother was treating her daughter after the test was horrible. Even the look on her face, her eyes looked crazy. My heart breaks for the daughter, at least she finally got justice and he is locked up. It's sad when a woman is so into a man she would put her children in harms way.
Damn dude got to shaking hard as hell when her results hit!!
i think he has parkinson’s or some neurological disorder
Lmaaaaaoooo I’m screaming!
💀
I feel so bad for the daughter. Shame on the mother for putting her boyfriend over her daughter!!
It's even worse when she said what did I tell you she told her daughter to shut up multiple times to still focus on him
@@tiaradarisaw8371 exactly! What’s up with that? She should be comforting her daughter. She needs to be supportive and help her child.
@@WormCircus98 exactly like I get your upset but your child has been molested for years on end and you tell her to shut up
That’s the worst mother ever. Picking a man over her daughter. Lmao how come she didn’t yell at him the way she was yelling at her daughter when she found out he was lying l??
exactly like why the fuck she yelling at her daughter when she should be knocking his ass out she mad cause she failed her daughter but also i believe she knew about it the whole time and did nonthing about it
What’s wrong with the guy
That’s one tough young lady to make it through all that abuse and trauma plus having a mother that tells you to shut up even when it’s proved to be true.
I can’t believe how strong she is ❤. May god bless her and help her heal and stay strong.
Jealousy too, which is horrible on the mother's part...
I bet she knew the guy was doing it all along. No other explanation.
the most annoying thing is when you’re telling the truth and people are gaslighting you to that you’re lying. and the fact that not only was the step dad doing that- so was her own biological mother- i’ll be damned if there relationship is ever close-
When she said "Cause I got power over now and it's time for me speak, you can't threaten me no more" Yo I cried in tears ❤️.
So many of these mother’s fail their daughters over trying to keep a man. That is disgustingly ridiculous. I can’t stand scenarios like this.
It’s disappointing how many moms allow that to happen to their kids... the second story she put herself in a bad situation but the other girl definitely took advantage of the opportunity
It's also disappointing in how many father figures are abusing children
@@Shalyn-ln9tu absolutely
The mother in the first story is HORRIBLE! She's an example of so many mothers that make it so hard for their children to tell them stuff like this
He's literally shaking in his boots 😂
“Why you lying on me now?”
“Bc I have more power than you.”
YYYEEESSSSSSS !!!!
Such a well spoken young girl. I’m sorry for what happened to her.
The guy in the first clip was guilty for sure. He can't stop shaking he's that nervous.
Ppl shake like that when they’re taking specific drugs
1st story: I can't stand the mother. I blame her for part of her daughter's trauma.Her aggressive denials of her daughter's abuse claims must have made that poor girl feel like she had no one to turn to. And then to yell at her daughter once the stepfather failed the lie detector test. Horrible.
5:55 Gave me chills... made me cry. Well done, darling !
The mother in the first story was a POS for the way she treats her daughter.Even after the results the mother told her daughter to shut up and was yelling at her. That is not a mother.
Her mother knew and she ignored it because she obviously thinks it's better to keep a man around even if he's a psycho, she needs to be deeply ashamed and he needs to be in prison
It. Is Commen with bw they have to go through hell to get a man
you can tell she aint a loving mother. i feel sorry for the poor girl. she's beautiful and hopefully she can heal from her trauma. bless her heart
That first young lady is a very strong, courageous, confident young lady, and I really hope she goes places in life. She's a beautiful girl and I'm glad she got the truth out, and proved that piece of crap step dad to be the predator he is. She's right, she has more power than he does now! Good for her for standing up for herself. Shame on her mother for not standing by her daughter sooner!!
Her mama is disgusting. I'm glad she finally got justice and I hope she gets therapy. I would deal with mama from a distance.
I feel empowered by her strength to stand up and speak up ! That is something that is so hard to do
5:55 That part. She is so strong. Let us victims stand up and expose these monsters. We've been quiet too long. 7:43, if that was my mother or anyone, she would have been decked.
I feel sorry for Monae. My heart goes out to her. As for her stepfather, he’s a monster and a demon. And her mother is poor excused for parent. The first thing you do is protect your child.
As a sexual abuse survivor myself, @chantayb86, I agree with everything you've said!
Whew I started balling when she said “bc I have more power than you now” whew chile girl you better!!!!!! And I believed you from the start. I’m sorry you had that childhood. I pray you heal baby girl. You can only go up from here. ❤❤❤❤❤❤sending love and tight hugs❤
The mom is a fault too. Poor child - the step father is the real problem! It happened to a friend of mine ! I was the only one who believed her. And I was also raped too - and it's hell when no one believes you. Be strong your not alone. I cried watching this - amen Steve - thanks for showing this. Feel better knowing that I am not alone.
I' sorry about what you went through. 🫂💞
*This man is literally Shaking with Guilt*
What baffles me is that parents think it's okay to sexually/physically abuse their children. What psychopath hurts a child/person that way and not expect them to carry that emotional trauma around for the rest of their life?
What psychopath ? My parents, stepparents, aunts, uncles, cousins.
The fact Mone (excuse me if I spelled her name wrong) had to ask her mom in a defensive way “why are you yelling at me” broke my heart. Her mom handled that situation completely wrong, & she should’ve been trying to comfort her. Horrible parenting on her end
Just started and I am proud of her and believe 190%
190% ? 100% is fully and completely. So it just sounds ridiculous
why not 200%
@@mindymiljour4672you realize 9 is next to 0 so they may have meant to put 100. Relax
First story the mom knew no doubt in my mind
Her mother is a horrible person and a bad mother. I can't believe she didn't listen and defended him and not her daughter.
I couldn’t imagine dealing with getting sexually abused by my mothers sick boyfriend & having a mom that only yells..to the point that I cant even tell her I’m getting abused. I believe the mom had an idea what was going on but she chose the man over her daughter
You can see his karma showing it’s face after all of these years. The sentence for jail was just icing on the cake.
Ok I KNOW I’m not the only one who laughed while the guy was talking in the first story.
He was shaking so dam hard 😂😂😂😂😂
@@Liyliy01 it look like he got a condition lmao😭😭
That mother is a classic ghetto story of a tale called Precious - and it’s sad! 😮
The thing about Havana’s situation, while Steve was right that there can be to sides on the situation because one believed the other party consented while further into the sexual encounter the other party didn’t.
The issue point blank that turned it into rape was the fact that when you loss consciousness, without talking about the possibility, it becomes rape because the person is no longer able to consent to the things happening to them. That’s why stop means stop during any point in a sexual encounter because someone is no longer consenting.
She should have stopped having sex with her the minute she went unconscious.
Her Mom shameful , she gone heal now by God's Grace and Mercy 🙏❤️
Poor girl. They are traumatizing her by denying her truth. She survived. Break free from them young lady.Pissed me off that the mother told her to shut up after the results. A freaking monster!
Ohh she's one of those mom, you can tell by her reaction that she is MAD jealous of her own daughter. The way she said, "This whole time you been messing with a kid," disguise me. She doesn't wanna admit it because she knows her a** wrong from the start and end. I hope she fully heals from all those traumas. And the same goes to the other girl too.
Shame on the mother for doubting her daughter , hope she finds the strength to heal and move forward
Could she give consent in her state of mind? No, she could not.
And the fact that people are blaming her and saying she needs to take accountability? She couldn’t speak. The rapists involved 2 people and both were nearly sober. Since they could realize she fell asleep. They just made excuses. Glad she’s rotting in prison.
They all were drunk except the driver so she probably wasn't thinking as clearly either until after the friend past out.
@@cameshaboreland4333 Understandable. But if you’re drunk and you kill/assault/drive or do something to someone? You’re still expected to take accountability.
Never get so intoxicated/high that you lose self control or awareness of your surroundings. Period.
Don’t be victim shaming. Most people have overindulged at least once and in no way does that make them deserving of assault. And no amount of drugs and drinking gives someone permission to assault them. Everyone should be safe to get as fucked as they want knowing that the people who are capable of making decisions will not take advantage of them.
victim shaming is disgusting PERIOD
@@lynzeedesantis5561 lol that is so stupid. What if your mother was a drug addict and too out of her mind to notice you being raped? It is her fault then. It isn’t smart to get fucked up around strangers you don’t entirely trust even then you shouldn’t be doing it because things like this can happen with anyone
It's not victim shaming it's just the facts when you are under the influence you are not in control or in your right mind she knew what she was doing
I can’t even with the people on here saying otherwise. It’s never the victim’s fault. NO ONE SHOULD BE RAPING ANYONE AND THE BLAME IS ON THEM.
Mother was too in love with Melvin to protect her own daughter from him. Lord, I hope that girl has found comfort and support somewhere far away from mom!
The strength and integrity this young lady holds is incredible! My heart goes out to her and hope she heals from all
6:08 sorry but his shaking cracks me up 🤣
6:45 that's it I'm done lmfao 😂
😂😂😂
He was shaking so tough he may as well jumped on the floor and became a 🐟out of water!!
I am actually curious as to why he was shaking like that
@@HAZYHEAUX prolly nervous from knowing wat he did
@@HAZYHEAUX probably a neurological disorder
Notice how nobody is really commenting on the second story. It's because that female wasn't much of a victim. She was just irresponsible and drank too much, and now she is trying to blame the other girl who drank just as much as she did. That's not "victim blaming." That's called stating facts...😕
exactly she wasn’t raped the only thing the girl failed was her losing consciousness and they were both drunk so the other girl likely didn’t notice
She was a victim once she passed out and was no longer able to consent to the continuation of this event!! Rape is rape the moment you don't or can't give consent!!!
@In the day of RAYE That female would have still tried to claim she was raped even if everyone got up and left the house the moment she passed out... She was irresponsible and she didn't put her safety and well being first. Bottom line...
@@inthedayofraye let's call it how it is...
@@braveheart9097 I did!
He shaking hard af straight chills I got the same way when I got caught cheating on my phone and questioned about it 😂 so I know
N*gha can’t even stand stllt
The second story just goes to show some women will scream rape when they really just got drunk and made bad choices and wake up not wanting to take accountability for what they did.
Trigger Warning ( I talk a lot about what being raped does to a person, so if anyone reading this has gone through a trauma and you can’t read it or read to the end that is okay. I just want to let you know that it’s not your fault, you are surviving, you are not alone and you are believed by someone out there even if you don’t know the person. For those who don’t know, judge someone about being raped or want to understand a little bit more about what rape survivors have gone through [so you can become educated and stand with them in support] I have listed a lot of things that a rape survivor has most likely experienced [keep in mind that everybody is different, meaning that everyone’s experience after rape will look a little different]):
Yes, she took drugs, got drunk, took off her clothes, got into bed and said yes to sex while she was awake. But the second someone falls asleep, or passes out, that’s when any good person would stop. A person that’s passed out can’t say “ slow down”, “stop”, “no”, or anything signaling that they want to stop having sex or do something different sexually; they can’t use body language signaling to the person or people that they don’t want to have sex anymore or want things to go in a different direction sexually. They can’t speak and stand up for themselves when their unconscious. Her “friend” knew that she was no longer awake to speak for herself, and thought that because Havana had said yes before that it meant that it was okay. Someone saying yes once doesn’t mean yes every time,and it doesn’t mean keep going when they pass out or fall asleep. I wouldn’t wish rape on anyone and their families. I feel peace for people who haven’t been raped, because they never have to experience what the survivors do. It destroys a person for a long time… sleepless nights, nightmares (sometimes leaving a person waking up in a puddle of sweat), panic and anxiety attacks, reoccurring accidents in children, being so disturbed that it leaves you shaking and even violently ill, isolating yourself from those around you, losing relationships with people (rape changes a person, resulting in their ability to connect with others), not being able to recognize yourself anymore (it changes you physically, mentally and emotionally), your mind racing (a mile a minute as if your mind and flashbacks[mentioned] will never stop or quiet down), suicide attempts, constantly looking over your shoulders, not being able to eat or drink anything for days even weeks or months, trust issues, guilt and self blame (“only if I didn’t do this, or be nice to people this wouldn’t have happened to me”), not being able to go anywhere without fear, flashbacks (to the day or night it happened), having to change their routine and products or foods/drinks that they consume (because certain smells, textures, objects are a reminder of the day they were raped), judgement, not getting believed for months or even years after the rape occurs (“oh so and so is a good guy, everybody loves him, he would never do that”), getting pregnant from the rape (loving the child regardless of how they were made, but one day the child finds out they are a product of rape, and that can wreck anyone especially that child), finding out that they have an STD that they possibly will have to live with for the rest of their life, going to doctors for exams and rape kits (which is a long, painful, and very personal experience, that consists of taking pictures of any bruises, bites, etc. Swabbing every inch of the body both inside and out that the rapist may have touched, collecting physical evidence such as hair and clothing); and going to police/judges/ CPS or any form of law enforcement and reliving over and over again every detail of what happened to them, in some cases sitting in the same room as their rapist, evidence being put up on screens or being brought out in front of a room full of people that get to determine if the rapist will walk free or be locked up. It is true that some people cry/scream rape simply because they regret something that they did, but not everyone is lying about being raped; and it’s because of people that lie about being raped that those who were raped don’t always get believed. People lose years of their lives after being raped, and no it’s not because they want it to or their letting it get to them, it’s because rape takes a toll on every part of the body; which can be hard to understand by someone that may not have gone through it. Saying no, maybe, being nice to people, hugging, kissing, flirting with someone; doesn’t mean yes.
Alot of mothers are jealous of their daughters and will secretly envy them and they show it by never showing them empathy and causes hurt,trauma just because they want them to feel worst than they do
This.... watching this vid triggered tf out of me.
I can't stand mothers who act like their daughters are lying about being sexually abused/assaulted when a child shouldn't even know about things like that to be saying things like that are going on. You never deny or dismiss your child when they come to you about having ANY issues, especially when disgusting things like this are taking place. So sad. Poor girl.
I started crying when she said “because I have more power than you now”
Havannah is beautiful strong woman !! Keep fighting
Whew all is see in the first story is a generational curse being broken… I wish them nothing but healing ❤️ I really wish that I could repair my relationship with my mom… I was a victim of s/a growing up almost everyday by relatives of her husband and husband… but I love her so much I don’t want to break her heart
Phock her. you better go no contact and start your healing.
her mother can't process her man wanted her CHILD and is clearly blaming her with lots of anger and rage. she needs to process trauma and help her baby girl
The boy in the second story kept making me laugh his commentary 😭
Steve has gotten softer,he was talking to a mother that told her daughter to shut up after finding out she was abused and he didn't yell at her,tell her to get off the stage or throw a chair. He talked to her softly after she yelled at her own daughter😒
this makes me cry she’s so strong for confronting both of them like this.
This poor girl!! My heart ❤ goes out to her
I’m so very happy to hear that pos is sitting in jail. I thought about Monae thru out the years after watching this episode. She was the one person I truly wished the best for. She has so much potential. She’s intelligent, articulate, brave, strong and was even beautiful on top of it. I wish she’d give Steve an update and let us know she is doing good. Always been rooting for you Monae ❤️
The mother is a disgusting excuse for a mother, can’t stand mothers like this.
The biggest bad luck to ever have is to have a mother like this woman in the 1st story ooops
Bad luck to come through that portal... I should know, her behaviour is a dead ringer for mine.
The second story I can relate to you really have to watch who you call friends
The dude is shaking like he’s going up on a elevator on a loose belt
If I may be honest, this happens too much for women not to know better or make better decisions. I don’t see a victim, I see two grown consenting adults who don’t know their limits that over did it one night and things got out of hand.
You’re sick. She was literally unconscious and you’re blaming her for being assaulted
@@angelsin2530 I'm a blaming her for being unconscious or taking drunks and alcohol until the point she's unable to comprehend. She wasn't assaulted, she fell asleep during a consented threesome, she initiated...thank you.
@@angelsin2530 no I honestly agree I’ve gotten black out with my friends and none of them have ever tried to get naked or anything like that just drinks laughs and then go home she wanted to have sex with her she’s just ashamed of it honestly and this is coming from someone who was raped by their bestfriend in college and my ex who is in prison
@@cartoon171maybe there were things she did that she wasn’t proud of that night, but the fact that her friend kept going after she became unconscious is beyond disgusting.
i need to get my stepdad on here, i related so much to the first girl and it’s heart breaking.
Do it.
Do it ladybug !!!!it’s NEVER too late !!!!!!let me know if you need someone with you to confront him
This day and age. It shocks me that parents, mothers do not believe their child about abuse. Even if you feel they are lying you get it all checked out first. Do your job as a parent.
She knew. She didn't want to lose 'her man'.
lmao steve telling someone to "stop that" at 7:32
I wish the best for Monae. I can’t believe she has this “mother” for a “Role model”
Awesome episode of Steve Wilkos Show today.
When he keeps asking her why you just saying something now, and she responds with conviction in her voice “because I have more power than you now, and it’s time for me to speak, you can’t threaten me no more, that’s why I’m saying something now”
Oh bless that little girl inside of her, and the fiery woman who will take care of her now! We hear you 🕊 and it speaks to the little girl in me too; to find your voice.
Im proud of these 2 Strong young women they stood strong and confronted their Rapists
Those 'parents' did not need a lie detector test. He was shaking so bad beforehand, the fear was palpable - he knew exactly what was about to come out. And the second she told her daughter to shut up after apparently just finding out her child was abused made it instantly clear that she always knew. No parent who just genuinely found out their child was abused would tell them to shut up in that moment.