Raped, Beaten & Starved | The Steve Wilkos Show
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- Alexis claims that when she was a child, she raped by one of her mother’s ex-boyfriends. To make matters worse, she accuses her mother, N’eye-Asia, of knowing about the rape and even abusing & starving her. #TheSteveWilkosShow #wilkosnation
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shes got a smile on her face this whole episode no wonder her kids hate her
Right!? That was the smile of a narcissist! She has the vibe where she absolutely will never take accountability for everything.
She doesn’t give a dam, that’s why, she needs to be locked up for beating and starving that little girl. Lock her up. She’s smiling cause she’s a devil
Whats up with your eyes bud?
She’s high
@@ii-lj2wd oh for sure
Literally 3 minutes into the video, and Alexis’ mom is already showing that she’s guilty. Like who laughs while detailing potential physical and sexual abuse about their child? Sick lady.
I agree with you what mother does this ? These 2 are sick twisted vile people who harm a Child !!
3 minutes nah 1 minute as soon as she said “yea i dragged her by her off the bed and beat her but it’s not serious “ i knew she was automatically guilty if she thinks that’s okay! outrageous
Alexis herself is having a kid, where was the father of her kid, in these extreme times he shld hv been in the studio to give moral support, but the elder brother was there to support his sister. It seems the kids father is not in her life anymore, it’s nothing new , as usual it often happens among the blacks to hv kids from multiple men .
@@ygpwnxd_xd752don’t generalise it please and don’t call us ‘the blacks’ that’s offensive 👍
@@ygpwnxd_xd752 you say that as if the whites are any different. Do you know the statistics in the US regarding familial SA? The whites win at being sick people... and you cannot claim otherwise without ignoring hundreds of years of evidence.
Mothers like her not believing her child about being rapped or abused and basically choosing a man instead of protecting her kid is the worst mom ever . Ex or not .
Yes, I just don’t get it. That is your child, always first or don’t have.
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sadly, it's pretty common. my mother did it and unfortunately more mothers than not on this show seem to do it too.
Her Dad ain’t protecting her either
Umm she did not believe no man over her daughter. Once the mother asked what his penis looked like and she described it she knew then.
This woman is as sick as him. "I DRAGGED HER OFF THE BED BY HER HAIR AND BEAT HER" absolute disgusting
She can’t expect to have a healthy relationship with her daughters without taking accountability for the pain she’s inflicted on them.
Frfr
*expect
Nakkesha the word is accept not except. Learn how to spell.
@Manny Gomez if loud and wrong was a person 🤣🤣🤣 she didn't mean "accept" either, learn sentence structure 🤓✌🏾
@@mannygomez5213t’s actually expect 👍 don’t be rude to people when u don’t know how to spell either also you don’t know if the person knows English well or not
This mother is not only cold, but she’s abusive to her daughters. I hope Alexis find peace and keep a distance from her mother.
Yesss stay away
💯💯🙏
The mother needs some help too
@@user-te1nd6hk5y there’s no help,or cure,for narcissists.They only exist for their own pleasure,and power over others.
Amen 🙏
That woman is abusive, period, and to consider taking a man's word over what her child told her is despicable, I can't believe she passed the lie detector test, I feel sorry for the children
My mother was narcissistic. She had start attacking me that way when I hit puberty and my parents split. She was taking me out 🥳 partying with her, competing for guys. Threatened I'd get more attention. This is so similar to what this young lady is going through.😪 I feel her pain.
She passed because she believes her own lie. She’s insideous
@@Nita_100 I recommend reading Adult children of emotionally immature parents it's been helping me alot.
@@AAX_CONFIDENCEHAIRTHERAPY ty for the recommendation 🧡👍🏻
mother a crazy bitch 4Real
“They can’t let go of the past.” When you don’t take accountability for it and you refuse to tell the truth or apologize about the past it’s hard for others to move on from it.
Exactly she told on herself right there also !
Exactly!! What she really wants them to do is act like it never happened and get over it. Can’t move forward if you haven’t fully dealt with a problem
Exactly 💯 on point. You can't forgive someone who don't think there sorry.
There’s no letting the past go when you got rape as a child. Whom have no idea about what sexual relationship is . Finding healing is.
Yes that's a typical narcissist's response. They "can't let go of the past" Means "I don't want to apologise because I didn't do anything wrong and it's all about me"
I'm proud of the daughter for searching sites on, "how to bond with my child." She knew something was wrong and wanted to break the cycle of being a dysfunctional mother ❤️
The mothers hiding something, idc if she passed the lie detector test she’s hiding something. Poor kids, I feel really sorry for them.
She knew, but was able to beat the test
@@startinajackson606I’m saying
She believes they had consensual contact not rape probably or that her daughter was just lying
''I only beat her once'' *goes into explicit detail of said beating with a smile on her face* I haven't watched past this point yet, but I can already tell this woman is deranged and giving massive guilty vibes. She's not even trying to hide it 🤦♀
And then proceeded to say it’s not that big of a deal, then says she drug her out of the bed by her hair😮… like lady
That’s not a mother that’s a narcissistic demon! I pray this young lady gets the healing that she needs🙏🏾
She's an evil monster.....her beautiful daughter having to go through all that mess!!! May God be with her and may he continue to guide her and protect her. She's been through too much🥺
First of all, the mother is crazy enough to admit that she pulled her by her hair out the bed smh. I would never do that to my teenage daughter.
Right like wtf
She then denied it when the 2nd daughter told the same story. She's a monster.
exactly... not once was I ever angry enough to do that to my own daughter. She's abusive and wonders why the kids don't trust her. Missing missing reasons.
Never, she need some prison justice
And the locks on the fridge/freezer ffs
“Im a single mother with five kids on food stamps”
💀💀💀🤡🤡🤡 okayyy??? Nobody told you to not make good decisions
As soon as she said she was 'looking up how to bond with her child.' That told me several things right away, she had no example to look to growing up. And that she really genuinely wants to be a better mother than her own, I hope she does great in life.
This woman is selfish. I have no doubt in my mind that those tears were for herself and nothing more. She is a narcissist. She views her child as an extension to herself, and therefore her equal, which is why she was beating her daughter like some hussy that stole her man, vs her daughter who was preyed upon, on her watch, and assaulted. To laugh during a situation like this.. heartless and disgusting.
She may’ve passed about the rape & whether or not she was still sleeping with him. But the fact that in her tape, she says she was torn between that man & her own child… The amount of physical, mental and emotional abuse/trauma she inflicted upon her children, especially Alexis… She keeps talking about how she tries to get close to her children & apologize etc.. but in the same breath is still in denial and not (completely) owning other things.. especially the physical abuse.
mothers logically should choose their children over their man. but often women will chose the man. a man can provide her money, sex, protection whereas a child is a burden. the mother needs to cook, care for the child, take the child to school and to the doctors. its not talked about enough, children grow up thinking their parents will protect them but when this happens they find out the harsh reality
the abuse the mother has put her own daughter through as well shouldnt be ignored. its a direct consequence of the abuse her man has done to the child. the mum feels old, fat, ugly and sees her younger daughter as sexual competition, thats why shes abusing her daughter physically and emotionally. deep down the mum KNOWS exactly whats happening but shes selfish. the man abuses her sexually, the woman abuses her physically and emotionally
@@pennypillow4445 yup! Couldn't have said it any better. She used to stay in competition with me and I never understood why. She used to take my phone he bought me and tease me for it until I called him and told him they would argue and she would give it right back it was a continuous cycle. She would give me the "silent treatment" for days then start talking to me again outta nowhere. He was only my "stepfather" and they only dated for a good 2 years only a few months of those years was good after that nothing but arguments. He used to always say to me he's only with her because he sees how she treats us . That was his way in to groom me. It's way more to it then just this clip
@@AAX_CONFIDENCEHAIRTHERAPY young lady I hope that you keep your head up and focus on your future dream goals don't let fake folks buss your bubble ever again
You are so freaking right I was absolutely shocked that the mom didn't put hands on her boyfriend I would have beaten the shirt off his ass
If your older and adult kids say you were a bad parent; it's really is true, no matter how the parent objects!!
No it’s not
@@nowyukno7981 I’d say 7/10 times it’s true
Please tell my mother this ....
I’ve heard good parents get told that by plenty of F up adult kids! This is not for all but most
Agreed! If someone says that you hurt them then you did. Parents don’t get to dictate their children’s experience with them.
That’s a horrible childhood 💔 hope this young woman can move on with her life
I can and will ❤
I’m surprised the mother passed for not knowing what was going on with her daughter. The mother needs to let whatever hurt she has go, so she can be there for her children. Her daughters are hurting you can see it in their eyes; I hope they all get the help they need 🙏🏾
She only passed because she thought I was "fucking" him so she didn't know anything about a rape technically. Either way she had suspicion, her whole family had a sit down with her about it telling her it's weird he spends so much time with me she brushed it off. It's all on my tiktok
@@AAX_CONFIDENCEHAIRTHERAPY I’m sorry your mother failed you, I hope you’re healing or have healed and gotten through this ❤
@@AAX_CONFIDENCEHAIRTHERAPY Hey, I'm sending you big hugs and warm embraces all the way from Australia.
You are a lovely person,go gently on yourself 🙏🙏
@@angell48 I'm healing from it.God got me ❤
@@AAX_CONFIDENCEHAIRTHERAPY That's still rape though.
Despite the mom passing the tests, she's tell a horriblemother for abusing her kids
And locking the fridge
I don’t think the freezer part is bad. If it was just the freezer. I’m black and from the south and one thing we didn’t do was go in big mas big freezer. I actually put out a certain amount snacks for my son in his own cabinet. If I left everything out we’d be broke. Lol he can eat a box of gushers in one sitting.
But this mom is disgusting and did these things out of hate, control, and struggles with addiction.
I’ve noticed moms who have all these kids and no father around, start to get depressed and resent the kids. They abuse them under the guise of discipline. If you can’t handle five kids stop at 4, 3, 2, or 1
@@Itzyhanishe probably doesn’t feed her kids that’s probably why they allegedly pig out through it
I feel like the mom is lying 🤥
Consider me dead
That is a cold statement
And I feel mom is trying :(
@@terrellhubbard considering that her daughters said it to her first, so she said, if anyone actually listened, is if “her daughters say she is dead, then she is dead to them. “ Try listening first. Smdh…
Right cus how the fuck she tell y’all what his privates look like …. With accuracy … and you’re still confused about if it happened or not ??
Whoa keep your hot takes to yourself man.
The mom laughs to keep from crying. She's embarrassed and disappointed in herself. What can we say?
It's annoying to watch but I think that's just her personality and her putting her wall up. My sister gets weird like that
@@Kellz11 it’s a defensive mechanism, not weird…
@@Kellz11same it’s just a shocked reaction
@@halledavis1945 Have to disagree with you there. Laughing while discussing your daughter's rape, by your ex boyfriend, and whether or not you were aware and did nothing? Pretty fucking weird, among many other things.
@@shelliedavis she's nervous if you're truly nervous that's how it be. But I can't stand mothers like this anyway
The mom said she didn't/doesn't beat her but 2 seconds later she in detail of putting her hands on her smh
I don’t think she knew but she has huge problem not taking accountability for her failures as a parent.
!!!!! This is why she can’t build a relationship with them. They probably tried to talk to her n she was defensive the whole time. Then when she drinks, her colors come out even more
She didn't know cos she was always drunk ...she was unaproachable.
A mother being jealous of her daughter ! it's irritating she did nothing to fight those feelings but it's outrageous and unforgatable she physicaly punishes herfor her own insecurities !!!
The nerve she has to tell her 5 children are ungrateful and hate her for no reason !
I know right. She's clearly struggling with her own insecurities and projecting onto her children. She acts more like a jealous big sister instead of a loving & sympathetic mother. Hopefully, they get some family therapy that will provide a foundation that will help repair their damaged relationships.
What a cold vile mother, the way she smirks & laughs while talking about her own daughters sexual assault is infuriating!
You can tell the mom knew something, her actions tell you that she's hiding something, or she's just a horrible mom who shouldn't of had kids if this is how she treats them
She did I have a recording of her saying how she really felt
I watched the full episode on television today but I gotta say that I was shocked that the mom passed for not knowing and not going back to having sex with her ex but I knew she was physically abusive to her kids. I hope the daughter heals and I hope the mother can get her act together
Ya she passed but Alexis was telling me the whole time the production wasn’t answering the question she wanted them to ask her
as a survivor of sexual assault you never really heal, it is always there lurking in your mind.
@@paigejohnson3990 and what exactly was that if it's OK to share
@@trashpanda2312 Go to god he will heal you, trust me he's healing me ❤
@@yakiralovesall that she suspected .Her family came to her with their suspension and she told them they didn't know what they was talking about.
Being the eldest I know she got the worst of it from mom… and still so being loving and supportive !!! Love her
How dare that Mom lock up the food .. she obviously hasn't missed a meal, while her kids are underweight. Selfish & glutenous. SMH.
By pulling you’re child by their hair… that is more than enough reason for them to tell you you’re dead to them. God damn.
No kids should ever be beaten whether you think so or not. It’s not right at all. The mother needs to get her act together, and should be better.
The way the mother talking about how she beat her and that she deserved it👎🏾
with a "mother" like that you'll never need enemies because she'll be the biggest one, for my own mental health i wouldn't talk to her after the show ever again
As someone who had locks on the pantry and fridge , I can honestly say that is something that has messed me up for the rest of my life. As a parent of 2 now I know that my kids will NEVER go through what I went through
I can't believe the mother is laughing in the beginning while telling the story.
Your daughters are not your competition. The daughters are very beautiful and strong. I wanted to hug both sisters. You guys need eachother
You can tell Steve is older and has a little more patience because 10 years ago that mom would have gotten it from Steve lol and then gotten thrown off the stage.
Hell yeah!!! 💺
Step one would be to offer a sincere heartfelt apology instead of getting defensive and making excuses. At this point she just acts like her kids should just get over it even though she ruined their childhood. If her children didn’t have enough to eat she shouldn’t have been buying alcohol. Period.
She’s very narcissistic. Abuse is life long. It can be 50 years ago and it still can have a everlasting affect on a victim. The mother is cold and denial. I would say all 5 kids estrange from her. They deserve so much Better. They deserve true love ❤️
Nothing is funny and for this mom to be grinning and laughing about these allegations coming from her daughters is beyond horrible.
Shame on this mom for choosing a man over her own daughter's heart felt words of abuse and heartbreak. Single alcoholic mother in denial explains it all and I believe the daughters.
I get it people laugh in uncontrollable situations I do too but I’d expect someone to at least look angry when they’re talking about something horrible their kid went through
"It was only once, I dragged her by her hair and beat her" Ma'am, I don't care what the excuse is, that should never have happened. Omg. I'm not even 3 minutes in.
Mom: I wasn’t a bad mom!
Also her: *proudly admits that she dragged her child off the bed and beat her and locked up food*
The fact that when it was the truth about being raped, the mother didn't give a care but as soon as steve actually mentions how hard it is to hear that, she starts faking sadness. Shows how terrible she is.
"I have 5 kids, a single mother, I get food stamps they wanna eat everything. I wanted to space out the food," Um... If you can't afford enough food for your 5 children to be able to eat comfortably, DON'T KEEP ALL 5 KIDS! Give some of them up for adoption. It's one thing when you're not able to give all the kids a lot of toys, or their own bedroom but food is a basic necessity. FFS this is the kind of behavior that leads to kids hoarding food in their rooms because they don't trust you to feed them enough.
“I was a young mom” like wtf does that mean? Had my first at 17 and second at 22. I’m a young mom too. And that has NOTHING to do with being abusive and not getting any justice for your child being raped 🤦🏽♀️
That’s just being a BAD mom
"I only beat her once"
And then parents want to normalize having a relationship with their child after they beat the sht out of them and can't deal with their own trauma? No, hard pass man, that's enough for me to never talk to you again even if it was just one time. I don't understand how parents wouldn't allow themselves to be beat by their own spouse one time but it's perfectly acceptable to beat your own child one time and expect them to still listen to you.
This poor young lady may god be with her I’m so sorry this happened to you
She would not even be considered to me as a mother how sad to have to grow up with a mom like her just sickening
This case hits me hard. Cause I was faced with the same thing. Being raped by a family friend when I tell the truth after mustering up the strength and courage I get asked the most demeaning questions ever. This one hits hard.
I do not understand women who question the abuser as if they will tell the truth. You take ACTION FIRST for your baby and allow the court to ask questions later!! When she called her daughter a little girl instead of by her name I knew she wasn’t worthy of the title mother. I pray this young lady gets all the love and support she needs, this is soo sad how often this happen.
What his private look like? Don’t know rather to believe her daughter or a man? This little girl? This so called mother is terrible.
She could pass the test if she has convinced herself it didn't happen and has blocked it out but the fact that she beat her kids and abused them makes her a horrible person
It's disgusting and she slept with that guy she couldn't even keep her eyes open trying to say she didn't have sex with him
And she kept stumbling over her words like bitch we all know you’re lying
I feel for women that go thru things with their moms & the moms don't take accountability for their actions. I went thru the same exact things with my mom that this young lady did & will never get an apology or explanation from my mom for her actions towards me growing up cuz in her mind I was her daughter so she could treat me any kind of way 🤧
That's because women don't know how to take accountability for the things they do just like you do.
I feel bad for that young lady, she's confused as to how her mom could pass nog knowing about the abuse. She's thinking well why did she beat me so much why did she dislike me so much to do that, if it wasn't her knowing about the abuse then what is it smh so sad The Mother is still a horrible person she scarred her daughter.
That mom is jealous of her daughter. That’s why she treated her so bad. She knew her man was messing with her daughter.
Facts
As a mother of two amazingly beautiful baby girls to hear this woman say she's in-between believing her daughter or her ex dude.... SMH I'd much rather stand behind my daughter right or wrong then to EVER betray her trust in me! Never trust a woman who doesn't put her children first!
Now I KNOW Steve staff had a better wig for that lady 🤦🏾♀️
😂💀
Steve you are a very good person… you always connect with people in a very blunt yet nurturing way! Stay blessed
As a mother she is disgusting 🤮 she has a mental illness something ain’t right 😵💫and if my child tell me anything about anyone I’m gonna believe them right away and we will see to that.. behind my kids you will be held accountable and cancelled out ..
That’s heartbroken when a person have told you what happen to them, everyone that suppose to protect you don’t believe you it’s sad knowing no one did anything or could of have done something more to protect her.😕
That mom keeps laughing at her daughter's pain.
Too many perverts in the world
Wait... So the daughter told the mom what his private parts looked like and it was true but she still didn't believe her.
"I beat her once because she deserved it." And then "I'm here to prove I never beat her." 😮😮
She bloody new, what’s happened to these damned mothers 🤬🤬🤬
Sounds like members of my family. Toxic, cruel, liars, and will back predators & abusers alike. Disgusting. 😢😢 That’s why I cut them off and my daughter will never know them. Shame on the Mom. Hope the daughter(s) heal!
My husbands father never used to buy food. He would always say oh theres food in the house and sure there was. Canned foods like corn, no nutrition, usually expired. He was never home and I remember one day his bank statement came in and my husbands brother snuck it and looked. Their father was literally eating out at mcdonalds and chinese food spending up to 40 dollars A DAY. Food that mind you, he never brought home. He was spending all the money on himself and his youngest child (hes not to blame of course he was a victim as much as the other children, he was to young to even understand). When he was questioned about it he acted shocked and like he didnt realize he had done that. And then continued to do it and act like he was clueless. My grandmother would often buy them upwards 200 dollars of groceries and I'd stay with them every weekend and help them with the food. We would have to argue with their father because OF COURSE, he would help himself to literally all the best, expensive meats, whole packages of 5lbs sometimes. He would just take it and use it for a bbq with friends or take it on a camping trip or trip to an amusement park. Super messed up. Hes the kind of man who has actively admitted hes mentally I'll but refuses to get help because it doesnt benefit him, it just benefits everyone else far as hes concerned. It was always " I know I was a bad dad, BUT MY DADDY WAS BAD TOO" . He was and still is a pathetic excuse for a father. I wont even let him around his own grandson because I just don't trust him.
the way she described how she beat her daughter tells me everything i need to know & when i was in elementary school, cps was called by the counselor bc i had bruises and cps also told my guardian she can beat me.. just don’t “leave any more bruises” 😳
My mom abused me and I hated her for years and I wouldn't have nothing to do with her until she admitted what she has done and apologized.
Her mother's a creep I don't get these people .. of course she doesn't want her daughter this type of ridiculous woman isn't caring about her children just sickening
"Their stomachs were hurting" Yeah most kids who are abused have tummy issues because of anxiety from their abuse. I pray for healing for Alexis and since she wants her kids to consider her dead then I hope she gets that wish because they deserve so much better than her anyways!!
I’m so tired of parents (especially abusive parents) that tell their kids to get over it and it happened a long time ago. That’s the equivalent of hitting someone with a car and causing a permanent injury and not paying for the hospital bills or making any sort of amends for it.
This is like the precious storyline about how the mom accused her of sleeping with her bf but he was actually just graping precious...very very tragic..smh
And from the movie we know that began in infancy. ...
Lingerie!?! They don't even look like they wear the same size... This is just sad.
Some women shouldn't be mothers and this is an perfect example.
I was molested a few times by my Mother's Stepfather in the 80's and then again in 1993 the day of my Father's funeral, I was 14. I told my Mother at the time it happened after burying my Dad, she laughed, then looked at me and said 'no he didn't, rolled her eyes' and then scoffed. She knew he was inappropriate with me. I am 45 now and despise her so much. I refuse to see or speak to her and keep my kids well away from her.
Moms deserve an Oscar seriously smh
You never question your child unless you 100% know it’s not true. If there’s a chance it could be true then listen to your kid.
This Mother is so despicable that she didn't even shed a tear and had smile on her face.
Alexis sending you grandma love I hope you heal and live your best life 💝💝💝
Alexis passed her lie detector so happy for her
Hi everyone!! Im glad I can watch the show with y'all!
Hi!! Glad we can watch it with you too 😊
@@mimz3915 dude you're awesome! Please have a good day 🥺
This mother is the epidemy of trifling. She needs to hold herself accountable but that would too much like right.
What a vile despicable so-called "mother"
She owes that girl a mountain of apologies
Mother's, please, please, please don't ask what an offenders private parts look like. As someone who was abused it is a horrific question
This is the worst kind of mother ever. You always protect your kids. And you take up for anyone over your own child is sick. The daughter is so beautiful and i hope and pray she gets help and has a loving life. And stays away from that so called mother. Your beautiful sweety.
She's blessed with a strong sibling ❤️
The monster mum already admits she drags her daughter by the hair and then feins shock when someone else says it.
Beautiful Son and Daughter and I bet the other children lovely too healing and hugs sent to you all.
Sad sad!!! Her childhood got stolen from her
I know we all only get one blood mama but I can’t do this I will have to fight her
“Ian mean to laugh” is craaaazy 1:33
A child worker would never say "I give you permission to beat them" so already you know she a mf liar
I was 9 and my sister was 10 when my mother’s second husband started assaulting us. I was first. My mom was in a neighboring town because her brother was in a coma. He was drunk and wouldn’t get his hands off of me. I was able to get free so I grab my baby sister and went to the neighbors and called the cops. It was a very small town so my bio dad and a few cops packed him and his crap took him out of the city and beat the shit out of him. Mom cried for days. Not for me or what I went through. She cried for him. She made it clear he was the love of her life. 10 days later I was taken out of class by my mother and a counselor. She wanted to make me admit that he didn’t try to rape me he thought I was her because he was drunk. I’m 9 and she weighed 300 pounds. I just sat there. She informed me that my dad was in Texas so he couldn’t hurt her husband so me and her were going to travel 4 hours away to pick him up and I was going to apologize to him for getting him beat up for nothing. From the moment I saw him I saw the satisfaction in his face. She would always choose him. 2 weeks later I woke up because I could hear my 10 year old sister crying. I peaked around the corner and saw him forcing her to perform oral sex on him. I snuck in my moms room and woke my mom up. I told her to be very quiet because there was some kind of animal in the living room. I told her I thought it was a raccoon. She noticed her husband was gone and I said he left to go pick up a car because he was a tow truck driver. We slowly made our way to the living room and there they were. Even at 9 years old I understood that she would never believe us unless she saw it for herself. She slapped me and said that I was cruel. He was the love of her life. I told her the only thing he loved about her was that she had 3 girls and she believed anything he said.
She called her sister and I called my dad. He was here the next day. Mom was her own special kind of narcissists. She cried about how could I make her see that. I asked my aunt how could she not care about us and only think about losing him. This sentence has haunted my dreams for 40 years. Her response was “no one should be made to choose between her lover or her child. I knew in that moment she would never give him up so I called every uncle, male cousin, grandfathers, cops, school, suicide hotline. I got to a counselor that helped me and my sisters. My mom was arrested so was her pervert. The counselor that helped force me to go pick the pervert up and say I made a mistake was fired. I told anyone who would listen. She bonded out after 5 days under the rules that if she wanted to live in the house she had to sever all ties with him or us girls would file child endangerment charges on her. He bonded after 2 weeks and he disappeared. We know he went back to Chicago and we also found out that he had served time for assault on 3 other little girls one being his own 2 year old daughter. Mom was forced into mandatory counseling and was made clear that the house belong to us girls and she would have to prove she would not move any man into the home without our say and background checks. I was and still am resentful. My sister is a complete mental case. We never really trusted her after that. When I had my children thing changed for me. I couldn’t look at her. I couldn’t stop
Hating her. I loved my kids over anyone so I couldn’t understand how a mother could cause so much pain over a complete waste of a human. I moved away from my little town. I didn’t want my kids to ever depend on her. After about 3 years of leaving my aunt called me to ask why I couldn’t forgive her. I said a child shouldn’t be forced to choose between her mothers perverted husband our not being raped. I hung up and the only time I step foot in that town was for her funeral. I don’t regret leaving. My children lived good lives. Not one time did I choose my happiness over theirs. I always have them a voice to advocate for themselves so that no one could do anything against their will. My children are exceptional adults and I have 6 amazing grandchildren. I will never be free from my pass but I’m took control over my life, my choices, and my chosen family. A child is supposed to have a mother that would sacrifice her life for them not sacrifice them for her happiness.
I feel like she has a grudge against their Bio dad that's why she beat them, she obviously hates the dudes guts if she's hiding something thats deep, she passes a test but something else is making her deny all of it
The only reason why they haven’t slept together because he’s not attracted to her, he like younger girls. He already got what he wanted so no need to deal with her.
Yes big sister definitely stepped in fasho 💯💯💯💚💚💚💚
i’m so blessed for the kind of mom that i have. this lady is pure evil, like what’s so funny about this? some people really don’t deserve kids.