Believe it or not sometimes I don’t want judgement or advice ,I post my videos to vent and getting unwarranted advice that sounds more judgmental than helpful isn’t helpful at all.
Take your time. The past two years, I’ve been on the same path of healing, and I also used to think like this, I still don’t have a car, my own place, or a job. I dropped out of college at 21 and tried it again and it failed. I haven’t worked since I started my healing journey so I know how it feels. I like to think that people like me and have a higher destination, a higher purpose and in order to get that, as empaths we have to get rid of all the programming. And I’m 23. My parents look at me as a huge disappointment but they also didn’t teach me a lot when I was younger, which I am learning now.
DUDDEEE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW CRAZY THIS IS!!! Brings me to tears literally 😭😭 I was just talking about this today; I’m 22, college dropout, never had a job nor have one especially cuz of all the healing (yeah ik you can still heal and work but I had hella issues and debilitating anxiety); and then having all these ppl on your azz about what you’re gonna do and looking at you like a loser. All put me into a severe depressive state I’m just getting out of; and making a resume w no experience or degree to put, made me feel like such. A. Lame. Lossseerrrr😭💀💀😭🤦🏻♀️ felt like maybe no one else is like this and I really am the outcast loser of society comforting reading your comment dude. Made me feel like I’m not alone or a loser at all, just a bit lost but finding my way 🧎🏻♀️
Girl, I feel you. Nothing feels right anymore. 22 and a dropout. I have no idea what to do with my life. Gave up after high school. I feel you when you said you deactivated/ deleted social media because you feel left behind. I did the exact thing and now I have no friends. But idk what to do anymore.
You’re not a loser, you’re so brave to talk about your feelings and share it. You’re beautiful and good enough. It’s ok to feel that way but don’t forget to enjoy a small part of your life that’s make you happy ❤❤❤ spending time alone can be lonely sometimes but, i hate to say this our time will come and you will definitely move upwards and it’s moving! Look at the increase amount of you followers ❤❤❤ sending hug for you
i also feel like a loser occasionally, i feel directionless & have no friends but want so much for myself and its a battle. i see you and hear you. all i can say is your life will work out the way its meant to :(
Girl I’m in my 30s didn’t use my degree don’t have any friends left. Working a job for 7+ yrs that I’m not even growing in. Everyone seems to be thriving while I’m here struggling and it’s just exhausting. No matter what I try I’m just stuck. I know how you feel it is frustrating. I wish I didn’t feel jealous I just wanna be able to succeed at doing the same things
When i had to leave college i definitely felt left behind. I didn't have to watch what i was missing on social media though! My heart goes out to you. It seems like they're moving forward but you're actually ahead because you're already doing what they're gonna have to do, but without debt! I was way more mature than my friends when they graduated college. They kinda socially froze in time when they were in school. School is an unrealistic environment
its literally ok , life is about starting over as many times as needed. You are strong alot of people aren’t able to walk in the shoes you’re in & it’s a reason why the way you want things to be isn’t. Follow your new path , keep faith in the unknown , & make the best out of it.
You shouldn't feel that way about yourself,it's a phase. I've been through worse literally I'm african for crying out loud but life got better after the storm, you got to be happy with yourself, be grateful for what you got and what you don't have that's how you'll move forward and don't compare yourself to others. It will all make sense one day
When you said you felt like you had taking the alternative route to things. I feet that felt that deeply. Another good venting session. I hope you get the clarity and strength you to rebuild.
I understand exactly how u feel, I often blame it on being saturn ruled 😂, but all in all idgaf fr . More ppl than not experience what we do (though that doesn’t make it suck less) but it makes me feel less alone and empowered .
I feel you, but I promise you, going into debt to go to school is not having it “good” and it’s NOT the goal. Those people will be in debt for DECADES and their degree may not make them that much more for that to be worth it. You are on your path for a reason! Those people will regret those student debts just like everyone else does. Stay the course, find what path you should be on, and work on that. I get you though, it’s tough seeing your friends do what you thought you was supposed to be doing, without you. I hope life gets clearer and easier for you.
This whole experience has turned me into the joker. Idk how you keep your cool. I watch all your videos and it reminds me of a time I was much more serene and reflective and didn’t feel bitter how I do now.
Everybody has there different journey in life and path that they have to walk through some times life get difficult but you have to keep moving foward and take steps to becoming better each day you cant compare your self to others your time will come maybe not when you want it to but it will sometimes thing are not as bad as they seem its mostly just in ours heads just try to be greatful for the things that you do have and focuse on that rather then paying attention to the things you dont just keep moving foward youll be fine
The thing is no one cares or spends time thinking about you. They are exactly like you. They only think about themselves. How often have you sat down pondering all day how "awkward" another person is as much as you do thinking about yourself? The answer is never. No one is sitting there thinking about you , therefore it doesn't matter. Also what happened in the past doesn't exist anymore and yur life is short. Everyone is always thinking about trying to get ahead in life and doing what they can in the now. Therefore the absolute lowest and never existing thing for their thought priorities is about you.
I’m sorry but it’s really hard not to be hurt by the difference when it’s people in your personal lives going their own way because they have it like that. Like come on you’re leaving me behind and I let you know that it’s ok but it’s because of this bogus reality of life and you say yeah “well that’s on you to make the most of it, don’t compare yourself to my good luck” I’m gonna hate you and I’m going to try my best to make it and get as far away from you.
Believe it or not sometimes I don’t want judgement or advice ,I post my videos to vent and getting unwarranted advice that sounds more judgmental than helpful isn’t helpful at all.
Take your time. The past two years, I’ve been on the same path of healing, and I also used to think like this, I still don’t have a car, my own place, or a job. I dropped out of college at 21 and tried it again and it failed. I haven’t worked since I started my healing journey so I know how it feels. I like to think that people like me and have a higher destination, a higher purpose and in order to get that, as empaths we have to get rid of all the programming. And I’m 23. My parents look at me as a huge disappointment but they also didn’t teach me a lot when I was younger, which I am learning now.
Reminds me of my journey until one day the clarity hits and things start to go better and better!
DUDDEEE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW CRAZY THIS IS!!! Brings me to tears literally 😭😭 I was just talking about this today; I’m 22, college dropout, never had a job nor have one especially cuz of all the healing (yeah ik you can still heal and work but I had hella issues and debilitating anxiety); and then having all these ppl on your azz about what you’re gonna do and looking at you like a loser. All put me into a severe depressive state I’m just getting out of; and making a resume w no experience or degree to put, made me feel like such. A. Lame. Lossseerrrr😭💀💀😭🤦🏻♀️ felt like maybe no one else is like this and I really am the outcast loser of society comforting reading your comment dude. Made me feel like I’m not alone or a loser at all, just a bit lost but finding my way 🧎🏻♀️
Girl, I feel you. Nothing feels right anymore. 22 and a dropout. I have no idea what to do with my life. Gave up after high school. I feel you when you said you deactivated/ deleted social media because you feel left behind. I did the exact thing and now I have no friends. But idk what to do anymore.
What are you passionate about?
@FelixCousins painting, but you know
You’re not a loser, you’re so brave to talk about your feelings and share it. You’re beautiful and good enough. It’s ok to feel that way but don’t forget to enjoy a small part of your life that’s make you happy ❤❤❤ spending time alone can be lonely sometimes but, i hate to say this our time will come and you will definitely move upwards and it’s moving! Look at the increase amount of you followers ❤❤❤ sending hug for you
Today i was having such a bad day,but watching you makes me feel better.Thanks for being real
i also feel like a loser occasionally, i feel directionless & have no friends but want so much for myself and its a battle. i see you and hear you. all i can say is your life will work out the way its meant to :(
Girl I’m in my 30s didn’t use my degree don’t have any friends left. Working a job for 7+ yrs that I’m not even growing in. Everyone seems to be thriving while I’m here struggling and it’s just exhausting. No matter what I try I’m just stuck. I know how you feel it is frustrating. I wish I didn’t feel jealous I just wanna be able to succeed at doing the same things
Remember, they probably aren't sharing the struggles.
When i had to leave college i definitely felt left behind. I didn't have to watch what i was missing on social media though! My heart goes out to you. It seems like they're moving forward but you're actually ahead because you're already doing what they're gonna have to do, but without debt! I was way more mature than my friends when they graduated college. They kinda socially froze in time when they were in school. School is an unrealistic environment
Your feelings are sooo valid ❤️
video spoke to me a lot i know wym by being jealous of peers. keep up the content fr
its literally ok , life is about starting over as many times as needed. You are strong alot of people aren’t able to walk in the shoes you’re in & it’s a reason why the way you want things to be isn’t. Follow your new path , keep faith in the unknown , & make the best out of it.
We’re figuring out ourselves every day even in mid to older age as well as younger
You shouldn't feel that way about yourself,it's a phase. I've been through worse literally I'm african for crying out loud but life got better after the storm, you got to be happy with yourself, be grateful for what you got and what you don't have that's how you'll move forward and don't compare yourself to others. It will all make sense one day
Man I’m literally on the same boat :(
I really hope things get better for all of us here
When you said you felt like you had taking the alternative route to things. I feet that felt that deeply. Another good venting session. I hope you get the clarity and strength you to rebuild.
First off you’re not a late bloomer or loser. You’re a good looking girl with a lot of potential. So please.
I understand exactly how u feel, I often blame it on being saturn ruled 😂, but all in all idgaf fr . More ppl than not experience what we do (though that doesn’t make it suck less) but it makes me feel less alone and empowered .
I feel you, but I promise you, going into debt to go to school is not having it “good” and it’s NOT the goal. Those people will be in debt for DECADES and their degree may not make them that much more for that to be worth it. You are on your path for a reason! Those people will regret those student debts just like everyone else does. Stay the course, find what path you should be on, and work on that. I get you though, it’s tough seeing your friends do what you thought you was supposed to be doing, without you. I hope life gets clearer and easier for you.
Comparisons can be demeaning and damaging to your self esteem
I like your take on jealousy!
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This whole experience has turned me into the joker. Idk how you keep your cool. I watch all your videos and it reminds me of a time I was much more serene and reflective and didn’t feel bitter how I do now.
Oh ello there! 🤘😂I understand this title I felt like that awhile ago actually 🤷♀️
"Moreso of I wish I can be happy with them"😊
Everybody has there different journey in life and path that they have to walk through some times life get difficult but you have to keep moving foward and take steps to becoming better each day you cant compare your self to others your time will come maybe not when you want it to but it will sometimes thing are not as bad as they seem its mostly just in ours heads just try to be greatful for the things that you do have and focuse on that rather then paying attention to the things you dont just keep moving foward youll be fine
If not medication, meditation it is
Brought into this world assumedly against your will, conditioned to compare yourself to others and youre the loser?
Come on now
That's a very good place to start❤
Focus on yourself and no one else
I feel u all the way from saudi
🖕🏾 em it’s just you and TH-cam . U got us now‼️
Try to stop eating sugar for a week and see how you feel.
Nice girl Zion
Take care
The thing is no one cares or spends time thinking about you. They are exactly like you. They only think about themselves. How often have you sat down pondering all day how "awkward" another person is as much as you do thinking about yourself? The answer is never. No one is sitting there thinking about you , therefore it doesn't matter. Also what happened in the past doesn't exist anymore and yur life is short. Everyone is always thinking about trying to get ahead in life and doing what they can in the now. Therefore the absolute lowest and never existing thing for their thought priorities is about you.
You probably have people or friends who admire you and you don’t even know
I wanna marry yhu ❤️🔥
Nothing good is going to happen to you with that mentality
girl stfu I’m venting
Comparisons can be demeaning and damaging to your self esteem
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I’m sorry but it’s really hard not to be hurt by the difference when it’s people in your personal lives going their own way because they have it like that. Like come on you’re leaving me behind and I let you know that it’s ok but it’s because of this bogus reality of life and you say yeah “well that’s on you to make the most of it, don’t compare yourself to my good luck” I’m gonna hate you and I’m going to try my best to make it and get as far away from you.