the convo about birth control was sooo triggering for me. Ramses is a feminist until he is not lol. I never used birth control because of the side effect and the fact we have other options and a man who disagrees about it IS A NO. I appreciated Ramses but he disappointed me. Sometimes when I look at their couple it seems like they try to change each other it is weird like everything is either black or white with them. Idk how to explain.
There are many of us who cannot take hormonal bc options for health reasons. I call BS on Ramses that condoms are not an option for him. Men need to step up and either use condoms or get a vasectomy which is reversible.
The mom was right to grill Ramses. Ramses is rather self-centred, unwilling to compromise and will prove to be problematic down the line. The marriage would never work long-term. Maybe the mother could see this from a mile off.
Mom was hard core but I agree with her on the hippie opinion about the military. For someone living in this country that allows him to run his mouth, the audacity. He couldn't even read the room with her friends. There's standing by conviction and then there's being a b. 😂
Omg I so agree. I think we haven’t seen the real Ramses yet. He totally turned me off when he tried to make her feel guilty over serving her country. Who does he think he is? He came to a country to live that’s safe does he think freedom doesn’t come at a cost ? I’m a female retired military officer and I took offense how he referenced military to MAGA like all military people are MAGA just showed his ignorance and narrow mindedness
I could not imagine him saying if she were to go back to the military even after 4-5 yrs of marriage he would divorce her - in front of her friends was a totally bad way to make a bad impression. If I had been on the grandmother when he met the family Mom would have had a strong back up. It is hard to watch your children working so hard for their goals and she just put it out there. I was surprised he was agreeable. 17:27
When Taylor made the comment to Garret about a "blonde Taylor that's an international pop star", she was joking about Taylor Swift, the most popular 'Taylor' at the moment. My husband thought that Taylor might be insecure about her ethnicity too, but I believe that she's proud to be half Chinese and that she simply didn't want Garrett to fetishize her ethnicity if he found out she was partly Asian. She wanted him to get to know her as a person with no prejudices. It's kind of like the Black / African men such as Kwame and SK who previously said that the benefit of Love Is Blind is that they are not immediately judged negatively based on their race (and nationality maybe) but rather they can be judged on their personality and character. Except in Taylor's case, being Asian could be seen as an advantage due to some men's fetish about Asian women. I think she was playing it safe because she might have encountered men who fixated on her Asian roots in the past.
i totally see thissss. everyone was saying how she was the one bringing up race all the time. i feel like as an asian woman that is so valid because white men are known to fetishize them!!
The mom was out of line. You can’t use the “I’m just a protective mother” as a pass to be an as* hole. Immediately dissing his outfit/hair was not okay. There were moments where she was pleasant and I don’t fault her for wanting the best for her daughter, but not every thought in your head has to be verbalized, lady.
Yes, thank you. Being tactless isn’t being “open” nor “honest”. Rude is rude, she just met him and he wasn’t being disrespectful. She may ask some of the right questions, but she does in such a bad way that it’s so off-putting and gross.
Marissa's mom is so rude. I was shocked when she called her daughter by the B. word! At some point, Marissa mentioned that her mum pushed her to work in the military, and it makes sense, to be honest. If I was Marissa, I would never share anything about my love life with her. I think she was too much. She didn't need to be overly rude like that. For Taylor, I start to believe she has insecurities because she thinks she is not Garrett's dreamgirl which I can understand. However, idk about this couple cause in this season they all say "I love you" all the time and sweet words but do they mean it ?
@HumanNoResource Essentially after Taylor says Monica deserves a Garrett he replies everyone needs a Taylor and she was jokingly teasing did he mean her or a tall blonde superstar= Taylor Swift
Yooo. The way Tyler cunningly groomed Ashley was next level diabolical work. It’s hard to defend a homie like that. Bro was talking game so long he gave himself a perpetual sore throat. Bruh straight sound like he talking with an electrolarynx since the pods. Give that man some Dr. Sebi licorice root tea with some holy water. 🫡
I mean, he knew the info about the kids would come out eventually. So I can only assume his plan was to win her over emotionally and try to make it too hard for her to break it off. Diabolical for REAL real.
From the way Marissa's mum pushed her to be in the military and the way she discussed her daughter's money and prenup when the daughter was not even in the room suggests to me that she is using her kids for financial support, not an overprotective mother but highly narcissistic and doesn't care what her kids actually want or what makes them happy. Her calling Marissa the b word too shows what kind of mother she is. It's really not normal how she treats her kids. While her suspicion about Ramses may indeed have substance, it might also be her deflecting her own nature when it comes to her wanting Marissa's money herself. This is just my opinion on it but I could be wrong about her but it seems she's the type of person to force her kid to be in military so that she can get the financial benefits and now she is doing the same thing with Marissa and law school I believe but I could be wrong. Marissa doesn't seem like the type to want to join the military, my belief is that her mom and the society around forced her/heavily pressured her to join it.
Omg I loved your commentary!! made me laugh so much "Leave the white people alone" omg no one ever says this 😭 and "I clutched my hijab" soo funny! Hope this channel is prosperous for you both and brings you a lot of joy 💗
Don’t watch the show but did notice it in all the commentary channel clips. I think it has to do with easier editing? A lot of the time they would stitch random clips/shot together to make a compelling story and it would be weird if sometime the glass was completely full and in the next second it was empty. But idk 🤷♀️
Taylor made a joke about Taylor Swift (blonde international pop star Taylor)... it's just her humour! In the pods he mentioned he's only dated white women before so she's probably poking at him a bit.
Why didn’t Alex take the out when Tim wanted to leave if she doesn’t like him. Do you think she wants air time that much. The Tyler situation is so sad because she’s fully invested here, Ashley’s not going anywhere!
The mom struck me as a weird combination of overprotective but not in the traditional sense, Rather she feels it's going to be more effective for Marisa to learn a lesson about the reality of marriage and what all men are like because she is definitely in "all men are like this" sort, Maybe that's harsh but that's just what I'm getting. But I think she feels that the only way for the lesson to really stick with Marissa who you know she insulted but swearing at her and discussing how stubborn she is She genuinely believes the only with Maris going to learn the lesson that she apparently did not learn watching her mother go through failed relationships and divorce is by having her heart broke broken by a man that she initially reviewed so much only turned around her and become like all the other men that her mom is going on about it. I think his mom kind Because that's the only way she What the real The real world and I think she's upset because of the fact that her children all that she did for him I think she's upset because of the fact that her children all that she did for him wasn't just that she were tired but they also saw her life and how it didn't work out with relationships and everything else and I think she is a little bit stunned that for all the other things they learned from her but This Lesson about men Lesson about men Men that she believes And an absolute And an absolute truth. The fact that the absolute truth she's talking about is horrifyingly depressing is beside the point. Either way I would say what her mom is looking forward to the most in the next few months is an eventual phone Call from Marissa sometime in the future around 4:00 AM sobbing at which point she will get to comfort her daughter but more importantly she'll be able to say I told you so and are you going to listen to me from now onon? I'm getting serious mother knows best vibes. Minus a perm of course
The birth control vs condom debate is so crazy to me, men and even most women don't understand that the mechanism behind progesterone only hormonal birth control is anabolic androgenic steroids, more precisely, noretestosterone, which it's extremely harmful to our health especially in the long term which is why women have androgynous side effects like breast pain, acne, headaches, hirsutism (male facial and body hair growth such as mustaches, beards, thick coarse body hair) and pcos which is essentially your uterus shedding inside out straight into your pelvic cavity and down thru the lower trunk into all your muscle tendon nerve and skeletal structures, and even stroke infertility and death! But yes poor men, tell us more about your poor desensitized member you've been strangling to death since you were 12 being forced into a thin safe and effective condom, it sounds really tough to deal with
Abaayo, can y’all please review Love is Blind, Habib?!?!? Love y’all! ❤️
@@Faynuusey Love is blind HABIBI ! Review is on our TIKTOK 😩🔥🔥
the convo about birth control was sooo triggering for me. Ramses is a feminist until he is not lol. I never used birth control because of the side effect and the fact we have other options and a man who disagrees about it IS A NO. I appreciated Ramses but he disappointed me. Sometimes when I look at their couple it seems like they try to change each other it is weird like everything is either black or white with them. Idk how to explain.
There are many of us who cannot take hormonal bc options for health reasons. I call BS on Ramses that condoms are not an option for him. Men need to step up and either use condoms or get a vasectomy which is reversible.
@@TT_09 💯 he was so untitled
Clutch my Hijab!!!! This commentary is fire as a new watcher! Marissa’s Mom is chaotic, and crazy, but I do think she clocked Ramses BS responses.
The mom was right to grill Ramses. Ramses is rather self-centred, unwilling to compromise and will prove to be problematic down the line. The marriage would never work long-term. Maybe the mother could see this from a mile off.
Mom was hard core but I agree with her on the hippie opinion about the military. For someone living in this country that allows him to run his mouth, the audacity. He couldn't even read the room with her friends. There's standing by conviction and then there's being a b. 😂
you can grill someone while being respectful, what does his hair and fashion have to do with a long term marriage.
I’m glad someone else sees it. She was a little rude but she was saying what needs to be said.
Omg I so agree. I think we haven’t seen the real Ramses yet. He totally turned me off when he tried to make her feel guilty over serving her country. Who does he think he is? He came to a country to live that’s safe does he think freedom doesn’t come at a cost ? I’m a female retired military officer and I took offense how he referenced military to MAGA like all military people are MAGA just showed his ignorance and narrow mindedness
I could not imagine him saying if she were to go back to the military even after 4-5 yrs of marriage he would divorce her - in front of her friends was a totally bad way to make a bad impression. If I had been on the grandmother when he met the family Mom would have had a strong back up. It is hard to watch your children working so hard for their goals and she just put it out there. I was surprised he was agreeable. 17:27
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When Taylor made the comment to Garret about a "blonde Taylor that's an international pop star", she was joking about Taylor Swift, the most popular 'Taylor' at the moment. My husband thought that Taylor might be insecure about her ethnicity too, but I believe that she's proud to be half Chinese and that she simply didn't want Garrett to fetishize her ethnicity if he found out she was partly Asian. She wanted him to get to know her as a person with no prejudices. It's kind of like the Black / African men such as Kwame and SK who previously said that the benefit of Love Is Blind is that they are not immediately judged negatively based on their race (and nationality maybe) but rather they can be judged on their personality and character. Except in Taylor's case, being Asian could be seen as an advantage due to some men's fetish about Asian women. I think she was playing it safe because she might have encountered men who fixated on her Asian roots in the past.
i totally see thissss. everyone was saying how she was the one bringing up race all the time. i feel like as an asian woman that is so valid because white men are known to fetishize them!!
Exactly
I agree with you and based on his answer after she revealed she is half white and half non white on the pods, she has all the right to do it.
The mom was out of line. You can’t use the “I’m just a protective mother” as a pass to be an as* hole. Immediately dissing his outfit/hair was not okay. There were moments where she was pleasant and I don’t fault her for wanting the best for her daughter, but not every thought in your head has to be verbalized, lady.
Yes, thank you. Being tactless isn’t being “open” nor “honest”. Rude is rude, she just met him and he wasn’t being disrespectful. She may ask some of the right questions, but she does in such a bad way that it’s so off-putting and gross.
Marissa's mom is so rude. I was shocked when she called her daughter by the B. word! At some point, Marissa mentioned that her mum pushed her to work in the military, and it makes sense, to be honest. If I was Marissa, I would never share anything about my love life with her. I think she was too much. She didn't need to be overly rude like that. For Taylor, I start to believe she has insecurities because she thinks she is not Garrett's dreamgirl which I can understand. However, idk about this couple cause in this season they all say "I love you" all the time and sweet words but do they mean it ?
She was unhinged and definitely controlling. She needs to focus on her own issues.
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New subscriber here....really enjoyed the commentary😊
Thank you for the video…I think Marissa is amazing and so beautiful
Not sure if yall were actually confused but Taylor was making a Taylor Swift joke.
I didn’t get it. That’s a little too niche for everyone. I wonder if Garet understood it as a joke.
@@thisiselodie what was the joke ??? Friend 👀
@HumanNoResource Essentially after Taylor says Monica deserves a Garrett he replies everyone needs a Taylor and she was jokingly teasing did he mean her or a tall blonde superstar= Taylor Swift
@thisiselodie i thought it was obvious. Lol
Yooo. The way Tyler cunningly groomed Ashley was next level diabolical work. It’s hard to defend a homie like that. Bro was talking game so long he gave himself a perpetual sore throat. Bruh straight sound like he talking with an electrolarynx since the pods. Give that man some Dr. Sebi licorice root tea with some holy water. 🫡
I mean, he knew the info about the kids would come out eventually. So I can only assume his plan was to win her over emotionally and try to make it too hard for her to break it off. Diabolical for REAL real.
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Actually fresh pasta is stored in the fridge. So I’d give Nick a pass on that one.
No way he was thinking that. 😂
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I think Ashley is going to say yes because of the hug at the end.
Y'all had me laughing more than usual in this review. It was hilarious.
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From the way Marissa's mum pushed her to be in the military and the way she discussed her daughter's money and prenup when the daughter was not even in the room suggests to me that she is using her kids for financial support, not an overprotective mother but highly narcissistic and doesn't care what her kids actually want or what makes them happy. Her calling Marissa the b word too shows what kind of mother she is. It's really not normal how she treats her kids. While her suspicion about Ramses may indeed have substance, it might also be her deflecting her own nature when it comes to her wanting Marissa's money herself. This is just my opinion on it but I could be wrong about her but it seems she's the type of person to force her kid to be in military so that she can get the financial benefits and now she is doing the same thing with Marissa and law school I believe but I could be wrong. Marissa doesn't seem like the type to want to join the military, my belief is that her mom and the society around forced her/heavily pressured her to join it.
Her mom is a realist. She couldn’t afford to send her kids to college but didn’t want them in poverty like her.
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Ladies, are you gonna watch love is blind habibi ? Apparently people are serious there !!
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They have to! I need their review of that show!
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Isn't Marissa in the military/navy though? That pension and benefit package alone is pretty decent.
Omg I loved your commentary!! made me laugh so much "Leave the white people alone" omg no one ever says this 😭 and "I clutched my hijab" soo funny! Hope this channel is prosperous for you both and brings you a lot of joy 💗
What's up with the gold drinking glasses/cups that are in practically every scene..? Everybody has the same set of them😳
Don’t watch the show but did notice it in all the commentary channel clips. I think it has to do with easier editing? A lot of the time they would stitch random clips/shot together to make a compelling story and it would be weird if sometime the glass was completely full and in the next second it was empty. But idk 🤷♀️
Why is hannah cooking in a leather blazer though?? She gonna be the next nara Smith?
The mom was so chaotic I love it 😂
Taylor made a joke about Taylor Swift (blonde international pop star Taylor)... it's just her humour! In the pods he mentioned he's only dated white women before so she's probably poking at him a bit.
Why didn’t Alex take the out when Tim wanted to leave if she doesn’t like him. Do you think she wants air time that much. The Tyler situation is so sad because she’s fully invested here, Ashley’s not going anywhere!
The mom struck me as a weird combination of overprotective but not in the traditional sense, Rather she feels it's going to be more effective for Marisa to learn a lesson about the reality of marriage and what all men are like because she is definitely in "all men are like this" sort, Maybe that's harsh but that's just what I'm getting. But I think she feels that the only way for the lesson to really stick with Marissa who you know she insulted but swearing at her and discussing how stubborn she is She genuinely believes the only with Maris going to learn the lesson that she apparently did not learn watching her mother go through failed relationships and divorce is by having her heart broke broken by a man that she initially reviewed so much only turned around her and become like all the other men that her mom is going on about it. I think his mom kind Because that's the only way she What the real The real world and I think she's upset because of the fact that her children all that she did for him I think she's upset because of the fact that her children all that she did for him wasn't just that she were tired but they also saw her life and how it didn't work out with relationships and everything else and I think she is a little bit stunned that for all the other things they learned from her but This Lesson about men Lesson about men Men that she believes And an absolute And an absolute truth. The fact that the absolute truth she's talking about is horrifyingly depressing is beside the point. Either way I would say what her mom is looking forward to the most in the next few months is an eventual phone Call from Marissa sometime in the future around 4:00 AM sobbing at which point she will get to comfort her daughter but more importantly she'll be able to say I told you so and are you going to listen to me from now onon? I'm getting serious mother knows best vibes. Minus a perm of course
The birth control vs condom debate is so crazy to me, men and even most women don't understand that the mechanism behind progesterone only hormonal birth control is anabolic androgenic steroids, more precisely, noretestosterone, which it's extremely harmful to our health especially in the long term which is why women have androgynous side effects like breast pain, acne, headaches, hirsutism (male facial and body hair growth such as mustaches, beards, thick coarse body hair) and pcos which is essentially your uterus shedding inside out straight into your pelvic cavity and down thru the lower trunk into all your muscle tendon nerve and skeletal structures, and even stroke infertility and death! But yes poor men, tell us more about your poor desensitized member you've been strangling to death since you were 12 being forced into a thin safe and effective condom, it sounds really tough to deal with
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Please do a recap of love is blind habibi please.
We will cover the reunion friend ! 👀
Ok he need to change tires 2 a year you are in the kitchen 3 times a day 🙄
your commentary is so fire guys🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣That "white people look like siblings" comment took me out. 🤣🤣🤣🤣Watching from South Africa.
You’re both so endearing I’m obsessed with both of you