Some people realise they do not have the physical, emotional or mental health to fulfill the responsibilities of marriage. They realise their personality, health or habits will make their spouse feel miserable and stuck. In a way, they are doing a favour on their potential spouse by not marrying them. Some notable people from Islamic history chose not to get married as well.
Indeed and especially in today's era, many married youths were involved in past relationships and still they don't have any shame. In some cases, married couples start extramarital affairs knowingly and losing their own modesty. How could these foul ones succeed in dunya and aakhirah?
You just won comment of the year award, if only more people are aware that marriage may not be suitable for them due to their habits or weaknesses. I know for a fact that marriage will never be suitable for me due to my inability to lead someone's daughter to be better and being able to make good decisions. I know for the fact that if i marry then i will make someone's daughter miserable and depressed.
@@sheikhtalhah91 Totally understandable! Some people end up being extremely miserable and unhappy in a marriage themselves and make the other person be the same way, not to mention raising unhappy, unstable children. In a way such people avoid ruining atleast 3 lives with their decision of not marrying. Marriage is a beautiful and integral part of our deen but some people are exceptional cases and that should be acknowledged; just like there are execptional cases in other Islamic obligations.
@@FatimaZahra... so true, these people at least are considerate enough to think about what will happen to them if they marry with that kind of mental state. Unfortunately our community dosent want to think that way. They think that in all circumstances a person must get married so that their life will be better etc when in reality they are destroying other people's lives
@@sheikhtalhah91 People in our community even try to convince you that all your mental and emotional problems will go away magically once you get married. How foolish is that!
There are some people with severe deformities that may never find love. What about those who identify as Asexual? No sexual or romantic attraction because of biological issues.
@@candythief7215 sorry to hear that Guess thats aloy different to me as Im very sexually active bit choose not to act on such desires as Im saving for the right woman. I thought I was asexual but that would mean I ahve no sexual desire right?
I need nobody from humans kind to care for me, I am strong and I have Allah swt
Some people realise they do not have the physical, emotional or mental health to fulfill the responsibilities of marriage. They realise their personality, health or habits will make their spouse feel miserable and stuck. In a way, they are doing a favour on their potential spouse by not marrying them. Some notable people from Islamic history chose not to get married as well.
Indeed and especially in today's era, many married youths were involved in past relationships and still they don't have any shame. In some cases, married couples start extramarital affairs knowingly and losing their own modesty. How could these foul ones succeed in dunya and aakhirah?
You just won comment of the year award, if only more people are aware that marriage may not be suitable for them due to their habits or weaknesses. I know for a fact that marriage will never be suitable for me due to my inability to lead someone's daughter to be better and being able to make good decisions. I know for the fact that if i marry then i will make someone's daughter miserable and depressed.
@@sheikhtalhah91 Totally understandable! Some people end up being extremely miserable and unhappy in a marriage themselves and make the other person be the same way, not to mention raising unhappy, unstable children. In a way such people avoid ruining atleast 3 lives with their decision of not marrying. Marriage is a beautiful and integral part of our deen but some people are exceptional cases and that should be acknowledged; just like there are execptional cases in other Islamic obligations.
@@FatimaZahra... so true, these people at least are considerate enough to think about what will happen to them if they marry with that kind of mental state. Unfortunately our community dosent want to think that way. They think that in all circumstances a person must get married so that their life will be better etc when in reality they are destroying other people's lives
@@sheikhtalhah91 People in our community even try to convince you that all your mental and emotional problems will go away magically once you get married. How foolish is that!
As beautiful some women are, I prefer to remain single which promotes a peaceful life
There are some people with severe deformities that may never find love. What about those who identify as Asexual? No sexual or romantic attraction because of biological issues.
Yeah that's the issue I'm asexual
@@peachy_artist8496 so you feel no sexual attraction or have no sexual desire?
@@Foralluhaterz yes am asexual too
@@candythief7215 sorry to hear that
Guess thats aloy different to me as Im very sexually active bit choose not to act on such desires as Im saving for the right woman. I thought I was asexual but that would mean I ahve no sexual desire right?
Jazaka Allahu khairan
Thank you for opening my mind
You know what I want to be single in both world
Me too
You can be.
Me too 🫂🤗
I also want but affraid that can Allah punish to live single without any sin?like bibi maryem bibi rabiya basri
@@alijafar4380 same
What if allah chooses no wife for me. What i would do?
then carry on with ur salah and taking care of your parents
You are so naïve I was like that before, there is only wolfs out here today
explain pls
Ameen
Ameen suma ameen