Ladies: How To Get ANY MAN You Want!
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I am no relationship expert but after two decades of marriage, I can without any hesitation say my wife brings value to our relationship every single day. She makes our lives better and makes me a better person. I don’t know if that is the “one” secret to commitment but it’s certainly an important aspect.
Absolutely! Thanks for sharing Reg!
The fact that you recognize that and articulate it makes you very special also.
The crossover we needed ;)
Thanks for watching!
This is so spot on. I had someone that strengthened my vulnerable points in my career. I melted for her
I 100% agree with the 'pride' angle. I'll expand it to say that pride gets in the way in both directions. Prideful men are their own worst enemies too because their pride can be impediment to growth, improvement, etc. I'm on the fence about women coming into a relationship with the intention of serving a guy to help him fulfill his goals and dreams. As a guy who has a lot going on, is financially healthy, with a lot of goals, I'm attracted to women who have the same thing going on and not someone who's agenda is to come into my life to only "serve" me and focus on my dreams. I want her to have dreams and ambition too.
Well said!
This is gold, John. Important for both genders. I think he's dead on about the 'pride' thing and being 'useful.' Great video.
Thank you very much! Yes, Gold!
Thanks. This also can make a guy reevaluate his current situation. I’m a handsome 53 yr old guy with a 6-figure income and his stuff in order. But I’m also a busy guy. And women want me to bend over backwards to send them good morning text messages, cook them dinner, and do their taxes? And yet, they don’t offer much in return?
Facts. Women don’t even bother to show up on dates anymore unless you hound them via text up until the date… the date YOU planned. Men are expected to do all the work now, all the pursuing, but then if you do that for too long, they lose respect and attraction for you-but still demand that effort from the man. It’s never enough.
Yep, It gets pretty interesting when you stop and think about it.
At its "most basic" level he is actually 100% correct and I agree with him.
I take issue with several things he outlines. The takeaway is building relationships is purely transactional.
John,
Thank you for sharing this perspective and I agree with the video 💯, but as long as divorce law enables a person to leave a marriage, break up a family, and take half of the family’s net worth, this will continue to be an issue. To be honest, many of the functions that a spouse could offer to do for me, I can hire and have them actually get done and probably be done better. The things that really matter, like being a good parent or working on my health and career, are up to me, but my life is simpler without the distractions of a partner that is unsupportive.
Dr Taraban''s content is always insightful and thought provoking.
Agreed!
This video is a very accurate description of the woman I've been looking for all my life. After two divorces and several girlfriends, I finally found the woman for me you are describing. I'm 69 years old and on my last Road gig, this perfect lady I know I have in my life offered to help and the helper looked at her and said "are you this year's girlfriend?". She responded with " he introduces me as his last girlfriend". I thought this was perfect! You're right! I'm not girl shopping anymore!
Love it! Thanks for sharing!
Two people that are successful can help each other the same way. I have seen many spouses have that spouse that did everything for them, so they could focus on their mission.
I follow Orion. He's great.
Thanks for sharing!
I've been following this guy for about a year or so. Good, honest, direct information for both sides of the coin
Thanks for commenting!
I love that you, John, are willing to be vulnerable enough to step into a controversial topic such as this. The “useful” aspect hit it on the head for me. I haven’t had issues dating in terms of finding sex with stunning successful women. They’re everywhere in the entertainment industry. Finding a “useful teammate” was the hardest aspect, and why I finally locked it down 💍 with my current lady. So many useful aspects beyond her beauty (she’s hot AF) and great job (doctor) she made it impossible to want to look any further. I’m 53 btw.
Excellent vid! 👍🏾
Thank you very much! Congratulations!
High value men? Lol I wouldn’t trust 95 percent of millionaires celebrities or sports figures alone w my kids
@@dwayne_weyrich true snd these types of women seeking high value men are in reality willing to sell themselves to the highest bidder
Good advice, along with being fit, feminine and friendly. Pride is an extremely high hurdle for many 21st century “strong and empowered” western women with access to deceiving social media…
Thank you for sharing this, John.
Coach EO talks a lot about this, and is refreshing to hear the same thing from others.
Glad you enjoyed it!
It’s a rare woman who listens to this and takes heed. They’d rather listen to the sisterhood lie to each other
Orion drops truth bombs like this all the time-he’s required viewing.
Sounds like it!
Pretty sure everyone needs to see this, lots going on. This is amazing. #legend
Thanks Eric!
I think you’re right, I’ve never heard anyone actually say those things but they’ve got merit. Now the million dollar question…How do we get women to hear this and buy in?
That’s the question! :)
They won't, society has told them they are the prize and they don't have to bring anything to the relationship or offer anything to the man.
I have seen him in different podcasts. Great vid john!!
Thank you!
Great stuff John, love the reaction videos on important topics!
Glad you enjoyed it!
This guy has many great videos and has been a guest on many podcasts and YT channels. Guess the old adage, "You can get everything you want by helping others achieve what they want" is true. I'm trying to get my daughter to understand things like this AND that men don't want to be "fixed."
I have often felt exactly as you articulated John. Been on an upward trajectory for some time and have A LOT to offer..."Why doesn't anyone want to join me?" was a great perspective.
I think what gets people upset about this type of message at times is the lack of clarifying points. We're not talking about cook my meals, wash my clothes, do the dishes, clean the house "useful", which I believe is what many will hear when they watch this and take offense. We're talking about bringing quality character, support and doing things with us, and yes sometimes for us, that make progress towards reaching goals together easier. That's what's useful. I think something that also gets left out of these messages is pointing out reciprocation is important. If a woman was to bring this to the table and enhance life and "help", it would be reciprocated 10x's over. If it's not then she's being used and should remove herself from the relationship if she's not being shown appreciation. He never mentions either of these things but I'd like to hope he thinks this is a critical balance. As always, great stuff!
Good points. Totally understandable.
I had a young woman who worked for me.
She was very attractive & very competent.
Yet she kept having issues with dating.
I told her
Your problem is you will do anything I ask of you (professionally) for minimum wage.
Yet you won't do anything your man wants and he is paying you with his soul.
Thanks again John, im very familiar with Dr. Orion
Thanks for watching!
enjoy the reaction video....good stuff as usual.
Appreciate that!
Irrespective of the other parts of this video, "It's your fault." applied universally, is the singlular most important facet of this whole mindset I have heard spoken in a few years of watching your videos. Change comes from within only when you acknowledge your problems. Stop looking outside yourself for solutions. It's your job to fix/change/upgrade you. The buck stops here.
Well said!
Well that’s why the saying “ behind every successful man is a strong woman” is a well established cliche’. What makes her strong? Her loyalty and helpfulness to the mission. This is not really a new concept here but apparently that value has been lost, glad you found it. 😊
You’re right. It has been lost. Appreciate your comment!
An absolute gem. Thanks
You’re very welcome!
What this doctor is saying is totally true, but a woman who is smart enough to able to help a man to success would UNLIKELY be his sidekick, she’d be his COMPETITOR in business herself!
Spot on! Yes I've heard this before and know it. There are a few YT guys that talk about some of this. I don't agree with everything they say but my younger self would have like to have known some of this. Young men learn some of this now but don't become a prick, she has some needs also you will have to provide for her. You just have to master how to do it.
John, Just want to tell you many in the RED PILL Community have said this as well. I know you did a video on Red Pill. I also know maybe this wording gets lost in translation in that Sphere. But even Andrew Tate has said this as did Fresh & Fit.
The psychologist is right when he says that men need to make themselves attractive to a woman. John, this leads into your videos about men taking care of themselves, dressing better and looking sharper.
Absolutely correct!
Not to be a wet blanket, but why do 90% of women want the top 1% of men? What about the average Joe who works a regular job, who has NOT found his niche in life. Let's not forget him. Doesn't make 6 figures income, not good looking, and get ignored. What them guys????
Great point!
Great video and insights John!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I watched this video thinking I wouldn’t like it but turned out to be interesting.
Appreciate that!
@@40OverFashion I ended up watching all three!!
Haha, gonna miss that Netflix'n'chill!
This is really true.I am still with the same woman that met me when I had nothing but was on that upward trajectory, she helped me to get there and for this reason is still with me today after 35 years.
Love it!
I’m getting Jordan Peterson vibes from this dude. But in any relationship people bring different things to the table. So not sure you can reduce it down to x and y
There are plenty of popular people talking about this. Myron from the Fresh and Fit podcast. Kevin Samuels before he died. Unfortunately, to some degree, Andrew Tate. Pearl Davis and the list goes on. Many of these people get national airtime with interviews.
Unfortunately those with pride wait and the finish line and try to choose the winner. As many don’t want to be apart of a man’s struggle
Exactly, and they will always struggle to find commitment.
My sense is the comments here are mostly positive since men are the core viewers of this channel. I know countless women who have given of themselves to help a man achieve greatness to then be dumped when someone more enticing comes along. Absolutely toxic content designed to help keep the patriarchy in place.
Anyone who uses woke terminology is to be discounted ..especially coming from a man using the word patriarchy
Very solid video today. I've watched some content from psych hacks and he has some very good views on relationships. I understand where the context is on this video, but I have a bit of a disconnect due to the fact that it's helping women connect to a high value man only.
Hi John, I guess I have to eat some crow because of my last comment!
I had just expressed my disappointment in Antonio's video where he does a reaction to your video, and hoped that you would never follow suit.
Your next video was a reaction video.
Because I am a believe in you, I watched anyway. I was then disappointed in myself for not trusting you. You have talked over and over about being positive and respectful throughout other videos. I should have known better based on what you have shown us so far about yourself.
I apologize for feeling the need to make that comment in the first place, like I said, based on your character here to date.
As always, my wife and I loved the video!
Ha! It’s all good! At least I didn’t do the things that you didn’t like about what Antonio did in his video. Very much appreciate your comment!
My take away is that this is aimed at one sort of woman looking for one sort of man…like a business merger…kinda like your selfish 20s or early 30s way of thinking. Some of this stuff is captain obvious, like support your partner?! Duh. At my age..divorced..kids…priorities…you are pulling me with having YOUR life in order…YOUR shit together…integrity…morals…have your own interests and we can share common interests. This video doesn’t do anything for me…Cheers to his future acquisition. Aren’t there Apps for this type of guy or girl?
Hey stop that 😅 I need to be able to sleep sometimes 😊
Dont EVER feel selfish John - its what you need to do...
Thank you!
I really like his comment about women offer sex and men offer commitment. I am 70 years old and I am seeing a woman who is about 64. She talks about sex with certain expectations for me.: 1) lose weight 2) get my teeth fixed and other things which I do not want to mention here. I nonverbally show her what my commitment is and I think she likes that maybe as much as sex. I will see thanks for the video.
You’re very welcome! Thanks for sharing!
Social Exchange Theory in psychological terms
It’s pretty interesting!
Sure is, as long as what you are prepared to forfeit is valued as not as great as that you aspire to get (with a higher value to you)!
Good ideas but today in America it is everyone for their selves and that is so sad.
Wow, some of the comments here are uncomfortable. I love this channel, I use it to lift me through tough times as much as I do which shirt to wear, but some of the red pill nonsense is off-putting.
Lol the truth is off putting?
Have you heard about all of that toxic, misogynistic, Red Pill content that's gotten popular in the last couple years? Well, there it is. Now of course, the mainstream will point to the garbage, click-baity "dating podcasts" and call that Red Pill but if you ignore the grifters looking to make a quick buck until the next popular trend arrives, you'll find channels like Orion Teriban, Rian Stone and a several others that actually go into the details of male/female sexual dynamics.
There's what society tells you is true and there's what Red Pill men have discovered is true and if you're a guy who wants to have success in dating, long-term relationships and/or marriage, this information is invaluable.
It’s very thought-provoking. Thanks for commenting!
Is Orien channel a Red Pill channel ?
@@gittin_funky He doesn't brand himself as Red Pill, and that's probably a good move from a marketing perspective, but if you're well versed in Red Pill praxeology, it's really obvious where a lot of his video ideas, lessons and advice come from. Even this video featured here is giving advice to women (not Red Pill) by reversing the advice given to men in order to become "high value" (work to achieve money, muscles and game in order to attract women) by telling women, "if you want guys like this, here's what you logically need to do". I can pretty much guarantee you that Orion didn't learn all of the stuff he talks about in his videos in a college classroom getting his degree. He does do a great job of meshing his psychology education with accurate, real world knowledge of evolutionary biology and sexual dynamics which is probably why his channel blew up so quickly.
@@mayo-monster cheers mate I will check his channel out. To be honest I’ve not delved into the red pill as I’ve heard it was really toxic, but what he says seems to make sense. So it sounds like Orien advice might be red pill toned down, with the toxic aspect removed so it is more palatable for the masses ? Is that a fair assessment ?
@@gittin_funky Yes, that's how I would describe it. Some of his information does fall outside of that realm but most of it doesn't.
Great review. I've been a longtime subscriber to both your channel, John, as well as Dr. Taraban's.
His content is incredible. Although I qualify for the "40 over", I could have used his content 25 years ago. I know that it's slightly off-brand, but I'd love if you reviewed more of his videos in the future.
Thank you!
9:25 re Netflix account. When a girl leaves a man the only thing that he is losing is a password to her Netflix account. I assume that more women than men have a Netflix account. So this phenomenon of men loosing password to her Netflix account upon breakup is becoming widespread.
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Hi there…may I ask a question - I’m in my mid sixties and purchase a lot of Hilfiger clothes like jeans, shirts, knitwear, polo shirts and sneakers…my question is - am I too old to be wearing Hilfiger…your thoughts would be greatly appreciated thanks
No, not too old, but I might suggest looking at some alternative options so that your closet isn’t full of only one brand.
Thank you so much. I will heed your advice, keep up the great work 👋👋
Trophy Husband!?...
Sounds like he is mirroring the words of the late Kevin Samuels.
So here’s the bit …. A MAN can have this in a WIFE …. And the leave her for younger fame because he doesn’t need “her usefulness “. - let’s face facts men … it’s not mainly the women - a relationship needs work on both sides. Offering assistance for him to build up - ladies you’d better BE SURE YOURE WALKING AEAY WITH SOMETHING “IF” and “WHEN” it ends
Haven't watched all the way through yet... So far, the "any woman can have access to any high value man" idea I do not agree with. I'm 'high-ish value' I suppose... It's relative, compared to a million dollar sports star, less so but I'm not doing too bad. There are plenty of women out there that are a hard 'no' from me, as far as intimate relations go anyway... Maybe there is a twist coming.
based on the title, I legit thought you were reacting to a video of a gay dude making a how to video on how to get any guy
I don't know about all of this, there are many guys who dump the women that help them "get" there and replace her with the trophy wife!
Kevin Samuels had been saying this for years! Ladies got mad at him, and cheered when he died smh
Its funny, what O'Ryan is saying is basic wisdom that mothers and grandmothers, in one form or other, routinely passed to young women more than 50 years ago ... but now is completely lost... sad. Oh, and no ones talking about it because, feminism.
So hes making a how to video for gold diggers lmao.
These days all she needs is a pulse.
I enjoy watching your videos, but this guy lost me at high value. What person doesn't have value? Yes, some of us need a little more direction, perhaps, but that is genderless. 😊
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Thank you! Style will always be the core of this channel, but with that comes self improvement and other conversations that help us to navigate this period of our lives.
Hm. I'm a Christian woman. This is all very worldly.
The way to get what you want is to be obedient to the Lord, follow His ways, make Him 1st, then ask Him for all your needs.
Bingo!😊
As a gay man, i agree that pride nips many a potential relationship in the bud! Would be interesting to try out the other things 😅😊
Absolutely! Thanks for watching!
Women go to the finish line. Women what a finished man. Watch fresh and fit
Fresh & FIt is legendary! And yeah, women want to wait at the finish line. Then take HALF.