It's not so much dating, man, these women are just essentially prostitutes. Women would have to be attractive naturally, but also dress very provocatively or create content for their social media accounts in order to get this type of attention in the first place. I can't say ALL attractive women do this, but it's definitely very common today and a huge problem in my honest opinion. I'm not even talking about just model tier level women, but women that are even moderately cute or attractive. I would say almost all young women that are very attractive right now are heavily addicted to social media, which is scary AF. I used to not understand it when I was younger, but as was discussed in this video these women are engaging in pseudo sex work to some degree. I left a reply to this video, but I've seen so many girls in my area over the years that have posts with all of these expensive outfits, jewelry, handbags, etc. or going on these expensive trips and it just did not check out. No girl in her early twenties can afford this stuff on her own unless she has rich parents, which I knew they didn't lol, so there is only one explanation......which is some dude is paying for it all. It could literally be something like getting a DM and offering to fly them out to Cancun for the weekend and they stay at the resort. In the grand scheme of things, it really isn't all that much money, but not something most guys could ever afford lol.
Great video bro, I know we disagree on this, but I laugh at guys that are " NON P2P" or against "P2P" . In 2024 most of the 9 and 10's are P2P, we have to live in reality
@@gdsondess5298def not true….Many of the men on earth who have had the most sex in life with a whole lot of bad bitches…Were comfortable throwing cash and gifts around bud….Now go be triggered and upset about reality.
look past the beauty (it's tempory) and find the ones with a brain, fun personality, high energy, healthy and open minded to adventure. Seek out synergy !
The women with those qualities already tend to be physically attractive, physionomy is real. I have not seen even one hot woman that's a homebody. Also health and high energy come from being in shape which is already probably 50/70% of what matters in terms of looks, losing weight even alters your face shape. All of the things you mention correlate. Also if a woman is intelligent she'll realise that she'll find the most success in life by catering to what men want.
all the local 9's+10's go to lower Manhattan (NYC soho) or L A to be a model or actress. P4P in L A is so common , that news paper racks had skin mags in front of every 7-11 and post office and mall. " >>> a girl's got expenses , you know
Status games; the "sisterhood" needs an illusion of equality so that the ugly ones don't spite the beautiful ones by going for acid attacks and shit; and, the beautiful ones say that to the ugly ones so that the ugly ones will not have an incentive to change and become competition. Women also compete, and God dammit, they compete so dishonorably...
Yes they are, it's kind of saddening when you find out. I'm from Suriname there is this type of hidden sex work. Some women pretend to like you when they think you have money.
Everything is relative but 9s and 10s are mostly headaches. To find a well adjusted 9 or 10 with a good family and descent morals is the equivalent of a man in finance, trust fund and 6'5". 🦄
I'll be happy to just get me a 8/10 latina instead a 9/10 or 10. Them 9s and 10s have inflated egos and will most likely ghost you on any of your short comings. They quicker to go after any man that's even slightly better than you, whether its money or looks.
9s & 10s are Emotionally/Financially High Maintence. They rely too much on their looks. for the majority of 9s & 10s their beauty is all they bring to the table.They' lack the self awareness to strive to be the best version of themselves.
Thanks man. Getting a true 9 or 10 as anything other than a gorgeous rich guy is one of the most difficult achievements a man can go for. Fuck man, even 7.5s as an average guy are difficult, in ANY dating market. Takes a whole different outlook and strategy.
@@redbeardrants Once i get rich then I will not stop, Tonight I have a nightmare just by walking on the streets.... Watching full grown adults 35+ Males paying attention to some game called Soccer, Spain is awful for a Man. Would like to give you a visit in Brazil :) Maybe brazilian woman are way better thats why you can´t stop persuing those 9-10 :) Spanish are boring af.
Life in new York city wasn't fun anymore the average American male no matter what age no matter how rich or how poor lives like a castrated caged animal. Dating was so difficult in the USA. These days dating feels normal again life in general as a human being seems normal again. The best thing I've ever done is retire to south America 2 years ago. My Venezuelan girlfriend is a 8 and i still hire a few girls a month because is such a bargain here. 😂😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯
@@redbeardrants Colombian girls seem like scamming unhappy criminal minded people. Venezuelan girls are much more great full and appreciate even the smallest things. I truly believe Colombian women hate Americans
This is true. Firstly, a girl that is a true LA, Miami, or NYC 10 cares less about what the guy looks like generally and more about the access he provides. She wants to be seen at the F1 race, courtside, Cannes Film festival, etc. Additionally, she cares more about what she looks like than you look like. This means money for her upkeep is more important. Getting paid to workout, party and have sex with athletes and billionaires isn't the worst thing, she's getting the guys every girl wants anyway and paid to do it. From those guys prospective, it's cheaper than getting married and probably more fun too.
Great video. Let me comment from the perspective of starting my dating journey as a recently graduated broken hearted educated lame. Fortunately at my first job I caught the attention of one of the true Sensi of The Game. I was at the time 6'4" 195lbs competitive swimmer and martial artist (Shotokan & Aikido). I had near model quality looks and depressed over losing a college sweetheart who at best was a 4. My dating Sensi said I was the most intelligent stupid guy he had ever met. But after approximately nine months I was dating three 9+ women. I'm now in my early 50s and havent dated or married women lower than 7+. But back in prehistoric dating times there wasnt the preponderance of 8+ women going into sex work. Most were secretaries or admins at professional firms. Nevertheless as my experience and training revealed, very few 9+ women make for long term partners or wives. Just like Lambos, McLarens Corvettes etc these women are more weekend show vehicles instead of "daily drivers". As to availability 9+ women tends to follow a camel hump curve with the high points being 19 - 26 and again 30 - 36. In my maturity I am finding a lot more 30+ women who are 8+. The problem is they almost invariably have one or more children from some previous "situationship". For a very successful retired male 50+ who looks 30 these retired 8+ semi pros are on the hunt. I do have to swat away their up and cumming 8+ 20 something replacements. My observation is having AAA postive disciplined masculinity tops physical attributes. We men are visual women are more emotional and security optimizing (hypergamy). If I were to seriously consider a candidate for long term relationship adjustable 6s to 7s is the sweetspot. Oh, if memory serves my best physical experienced with women have been with enthusiastic 7s than "just doing the minimum" 9s & 10s.
I agree with a lot, but, keep in mind: you're clearly basing this on AMERICAN women. Women in foreign countries, especially small towns, can definitely be long term material.
@@redbeardrants Appreciate the comment. My dating experience is international and with some minor differences 9+ women in major urban areas are pretty much the same. Your observation about smaller towns is valid. But most of the small town 9+s seem drawn like bees to the honey of "big city" life. It's hard to keep 'em down on the farm with the ubiquity of the internet.
Trophy wife is what you described. She was a 10 as an expensive pro, age caught up with her, she looks good for being in late 20's, and she bags a successful rich divorced 40 year old. And the idiot got divorced for her.
"Sex Work" includes, but not limited to: outright prostitution, stripping, making x-rated content, modelling in general, and anything where compensation is based on appearance/femininity, which can include, waitressing, and front desk receptionist.
I agree. The only women I've ever been with more than a few times are 4's 5's and the occasional 6. And i was confused about why i eventually can't....perform. I've never gotten a 7,8,9 to stick around long enough for me to know if I'd get sick of her. I've had a few that i would've happily married. But they preferred the single life. I'd prefer an arranged marriage with a beautiful Muslim girl.
@redbeardrants I believe the hyper strict Muslim countries will be better. Similar look as the Latin American women, with laws to keep their behavior in check and stay faithful.
Physical beauty is designed for one thing - to “turn heads and put eyeballs on target”. There is a lower standard limit that every guy has to have. but extreme beauty by itself has absolutely nothing to with whether a long term relationship ca develop or will develop. The top tier beautiful women who are 9’s and 10’s know they are 9’s and 10’s and often think they are 11’s and 12’s. For that reasons they can often be more trouble than they are worth. The few 9’s and 10’s I dated would sometimes amaze me by how many guys would come up to speak to us and would know her on “first name basis”.😮
@@redbeardrants was speaking more about the 9’s and 10’s we are most likely to meet that are social players. The ones you are referring to are the ones who are 9’s and 10’s who don’t feel they are 9’s and 10’s and frankly couldn’t care less about those designations. We woman are just naturally beautiful and quite often with these unique women their physical beauty by itself is not the entirety of their beauty. They have that natural “million dollar” personality. They are caring and thoughtful and not always self-centered. They are not afraid to accept responsibility and frequently use the phrase “I sorry” when most of the time they have nothing to apologize for. They never try to compete with the man in their life. The only time they complain is when you try to spend too much money on them. She will also have the personality such if you had to drive across town just to go to an auto parts or hardware store you would want to go out of your way to pick her up just to enjoy her company. And most of the time a girl who is a 9 or 10 was actually a high 7 or 8 before she learned how to wear makeup or went to a beauty parlor for a professional makeover. Where did I find girls like this? For me it was mostly in my travels to Europe, Montreal Canada, Asia, etc. The lovely Montreal lady and the European ladies were the least impressed by a guy spending an excessive amount of money on them. I once even overheard these ladies complaint about a foreigner by saying something like: “he is a nice guy but he don’t know how to handle his money”. For long term relationship possibilities all of these things factor in. If you are not looking for long term then there is always pay-for-play and keep your sanity for some of us. I realize that is not everyone thing. Everything in the highly capitalistic USA culture is all about the “Benjamin’s” anyway.
@@redbeardrants Once “head is turned” and “eyeballs are on target” If her beauty is all she has going and she is spoiled and/or her personality sucks you are not going to hang around anyway. In reality, that quick type of attraction is not instant love. That is attractive lush. Lush is temporary anyway. Love takes time to build and develop. As someone who has travel to 25 plus countries myself, I would go any far as to say in reality the western culture has done society a disservice by over saying “love” for each other as the key component to start a marriage or long term relationship. There are so many other mutually compatible qualities that come into play to kept the relation going. Starting with mutual commitment. In many cultures such as the Muslim and the Indian subcontinent arranged marriages are the majority not love and they had a lower separation or divorce rate the many western cultures. Don’t get me wrong. The lady has to be “easy on the eyes”. She cannot be unattractive. But when a guy go for the superlative in looks like a 9 or 10 to you when you are with her you can darn well bet she is going to look like a 9 or 10 to other guys when you are not with her. It comes to things like why are you 30 minutes late? Why did it take you so long to open the door? Why are you wearing so much makeup just to go see your girl friend? By contrast, I once had a German girl friend (also ex-flight stewardess) who intellect was such that we would sometimes talk for hours about dozens of topics. If she was not too knowledgeable about a topic like mechanics, weapons, or the outdoors she knew how to ask questions. She knew how to use her well read knowledge without sounding too much like the smartest person in the room. I feel beauty should have both a flood/minimum and a ceiling if the goal is to look for a meaningful relationship that could have long term potential.
Really helpful video brother keep going! The people that leave hater comments hate themselves so much that they have to put it on you. Definitely one of the best in this space for sure.
Can't agree on this one tbh. 1. The #1 unequivocal attribute for a healthy long term relationship def isn't good looks. It's loyalty and femininity. Although you do have to be attracted initially, they don't have to be a 10/10. That's ridiculous. If the #1 attribute is looks you'll get a sugar baby at best that looks good but is dumb as bricks and otherwise worthless. 2. Although none of us can 100% confirm that a woman has NEVER in her life sold the p sleeve, the idea that 95% of the 9s and 10s are openly doing sex work is cap. The prob w 9s and 10s isn't that they are all selling box, it's that they want you to have a private jet and a lambo aventador just to give you the time of day. It's that their standards are insane. They're not literally doing sex work. 3. It doesn't have to be a small city, has to be a conservative city or traditional city. Barranquilla isn't a small town, it's just not a tourist attraction town. So a lot of the women have more poise vs a city like mde where the culture is fast money over everything. That's like going to Miami vs going to Orlando.
I respect your opinion, brother, but I have tons of data points to back this up... interesting convo at least. And I agree I'm probably a lot more superficial than the average man. Looks are super important to me.
@redbeardrants as do I have plenty of data points and Counterpoints. Then there's the subjectivity of attractiveness. The info would have to be anecdotal. Even using digital avatars, there's a lot of room for error w fake and scam profiles designed to pose as sugar babies and those we consider the most attractive often end up in divorce and broken relationships. Def an interesting convo to have though.
All I'm saying is this... you go to any city... you won't see hardly any 9s or 10s walking around. For months you may not see any. Then, You go to a strip club and BOOM! There they. Sugar daddy website? There they are.
@@redbeardrants bruh the girl in your thumbnail is a 5.2 You just gotta stop going to bars and clubs I agree most of those women are skanks but hot girls 18-22 outside of the nightlife are not sex workers. Touch grass lol
Hahaha, I don't think you have real experience with 9-10 women. 7-8s do not have clearly better personalities than 9-10s. It's a lie propagated by people who never had the 9-10s. A really lame lie.
@@redbeardrants yeah my bad I haven't finsibed watching 😂 My strategy will be to get a 18 yo virgin in small town and treat her like my hija and teach her to be inteligent and great wife
My bad I haven't finished watching when commenting 😂 My strategy will be to go to a small town find a 18 yo virgin and teach her all, how to work, how to be a good wife I feel the problem might also be her family letting me though
well I think it is not worthy to be better for a women who can be ordered next day for 200 bucks for hour I rather would go on the beach and learn how to surf or do some drone video :D and in case of long term I would rather be with 7 but with great character and personality than with egoistic narcistic 9-10
ya i had a hot college cuban gf once, and she was all about buy me this clothes, get me this phone, right away i put her on my pump n dump category as soon as i felt that kind of vibe, and i got myself OUT OF THERE, bye bye gold digger!
The key word was "ROCK CONCERT" - hot young 8-10's in 2024 don't give a damn about "rock music" or anything with creative integrity for that matter - they care about money, shopping, social media, rappers, and ....well....that's about it.
Since the dawn of times man…… none new. My wealthy russian friend told me how investing in a very hot escort opened him the doors to business partners since she made him look like a real G. Crazy to think but true.
Ok. Date a mid chick and watch how quickly you lose interest. Ever wonder why you don't have a gf? You're not dating beautiful women. Good luck finding love with mid chicks
This whole thing seems so sad to me. Spending so much time and energy just to have sex with attractive women. You might as well just pay for it. You are anyway.
@@redbeardrants Those 9s and 10s aren't going to stay by your side, nor will you have children with them. You spent your entire life pursuing women. How can you honestly say this wasn't a waste of time.
GLOBALLY. That's why you play for keeps. And pack some doxy 😎 I got a bunch in Chicago in SA. My ex wife I'm swearing was one too (before the websites were a thing) and she never admitted it, but I think I met her former dude, who was 20 years older. Her older sister, she admitted, was about that life. She said he sister would find guys at steak houses. I'd consider myself an 7.5, but a 9 with cash. Could be an 8, but I'm outta shape 😂
I’m 6-2, 200 pound bodybuilder told I’m handsome my whole life. I only smashed 9’s and 10’s in highschool. 32 now, and it’s a different game. I get attention from women all the time, especially dimes. Problem is, once they see I drive a Toyota it’s all over. Like he said, the young dimes around age 20 are still game for me, I have several begging me to marry them. The older dimes in their 30’s that find more attractive, different story. At that age looks get you in the door, but they immediately looking to your money and career if you want to talk. No looks, than you need to use the lambo
This take is ridiculous. "I wEnt To the sTriP and saw BadDies" is the weakest form of empirical evidence. You literally just threw up a stat that seemed ginormous in your head
@redbeardrants Of course you will see a concentration of them in certain establishments they're most likely to get invited or hired by businesses to bring in more customers. As for sugar sites, you have women across the spectrum on there similar to regular dating sites. Of course you'll see more of them on such sites compared to your neighborhood bar since you're seeing women from all over the city. You'll see more of everything, good and ugly. To leap from this to 95% of HOtTies are P4P is crazy.
Although I am Muslim, and sex outside marriage is a sin, but I don't even trust my future Muslim wife when it comes to everyday sex, she might use the system against me. Hence sex with 9s and 10s escorts can't easy stress. Just do the 'Mutaah(temporary marriage)' like Shiah Muslims do.
I was in medellin and was surprised at how many women seemed to be selling on the side
Virtually all the super attractive ones are
@@redbeardrants I mean dude 100$ for us is a day of work for them its like 2 weeks. Sad situation.
Yeah and it's the types you don't expect. The ones who look innocent with proper jobs.
The dating market place is savagely becoming efficient globally.
Gotta stay on the cutting edge, it's changing by the hour
@@redbeardrants 100000%
It's not so much dating, man, these women are just essentially prostitutes. Women would have to be attractive naturally, but also dress very provocatively or create content for their social media accounts in order to get this type of attention in the first place. I can't say ALL attractive women do this, but it's definitely very common today and a huge problem in my honest opinion. I'm not even talking about just model tier level women, but women that are even moderately cute or attractive. I would say almost all young women that are very attractive right now are heavily addicted to social media, which is scary AF. I used to not understand it when I was younger, but as was discussed in this video these women are engaging in pseudo sex work to some degree. I left a reply to this video, but I've seen so many girls in my area over the years that have posts with all of these expensive outfits, jewelry, handbags, etc. or going on these expensive trips and it just did not check out. No girl in her early twenties can afford this stuff on her own unless she has rich parents, which I knew they didn't lol, so there is only one explanation......which is some dude is paying for it all. It could literally be something like getting a DM and offering to fly them out to Cancun for the weekend and they stay at the resort. In the grand scheme of things, it really isn't all that much money, but not something most guys could ever afford lol.
Great video bro, I know we disagree on this, but I laugh at guys that are " NON P2P" or against "P2P" . In 2024 most of the 9 and 10's are P2P, we have to live in reality
Its the truth. P4P is not what this channel is about but I don't judge
P4P destroys your soul, and not every woman wants to sell herself to multiple Men ..so this is cap
only incel's and simps will p4p
@@gdsondess5298def not true….Many of the men on earth who have had the most sex in life with a whole lot of bad bitches…Were comfortable throwing cash and gifts around bud….Now go be triggered and upset about reality.
What is P2P/P4P??
look past the beauty (it's tempory) and find the ones with a brain, fun personality, high energy, healthy and open minded to adventure. Seek out synergy !
That’s fun and all but I’m not settling for no average chick if there’s no s*xual chemistry
I'm too shallow I need it all
Cope all about looks
Absolutely 👏🏾
The women with those qualities already tend to be physically attractive, physionomy is real. I have not seen even one hot woman that's a homebody. Also health and high energy come from being in shape which is already probably 50/70% of what matters in terms of looks, losing weight even alters your face shape. All of the things you mention correlate. Also if a woman is intelligent she'll realise that she'll find the most success in life by catering to what men want.
all the local 9's+10's go to lower Manhattan (NYC soho) or L A to be a model or actress. P4P in L A is so common , that news paper racks had skin mags in front of every 7-11 and post office and mall.
" >>> a girl's got expenses , you know
Follow the advice in this video and on this channel, And you don't have to be lonely, bro
7s and 8s are way better than 9 and 10s. the maintenance and ego of 9 and 10 isnt worth the extra point or two!
Not all, some 7 think they are 9s
@@RJavier007on a surface level every girl thinks there untouchable but at the same time deeply insecure also
The maintenance I agree w, the idea that they're all p4p is a lie.
The sad truth is that 9s and 10s are hard to lock down in the first place, and will leave you after a few months unless you’re rich.
Exactly..its all about the pros/cons trade off
Every chick nowadays thinks shes a ten
Truth.
They just say that. They bow like little submissive creatures when they come before a man they find attractive
But their standards are too high that very few guys will fulfill that
because of simps
Status games; the "sisterhood" needs an illusion of equality so that the ugly ones don't spite the beautiful ones by going for acid attacks and shit; and, the beautiful ones say that to the ugly ones so that the ugly ones will not have an incentive to change and become competition. Women also compete, and God dammit, they compete so dishonorably...
Yes they are, it's kind of saddening when you find out. I'm from Suriname there is this type of hidden sex work. Some women pretend to like you when they think you have money.
Unconformable truths eh
Everything is relative but 9s and 10s are mostly headaches. To find a well adjusted 9 or 10 with a good family and descent morals is the equivalent of a man in finance, trust fund and 6'5". 🦄
They're out there. Unachievable to 99.9% of men. I'll get one, though.
I'll be happy to just get me a 8/10 latina instead a 9/10 or 10. Them 9s and 10s have inflated egos and will most likely ghost you on any of your short comings. They quicker to go after any man that's even slightly better than you, whether its money or looks.
8s are where it's at, I agree.
9s & 10s are Emotionally/Financially High Maintence. They rely too much on their looks. for the majority of 9s & 10s their beauty is all they bring to the table.They' lack the self awareness to strive to be the best version of themselves.
@@andrelockridge9109agreed totally. Lots of good discussion in these comments.
@@andrelockridge9109princesses aren't helpmeets...applies worldwide
RedBeardRants is correct. He's the only one who tells the truth and tells it like it is. The rest of these youtubers are selling a dream.
Thanks man. Getting a true 9 or 10 as anything other than a gorgeous rich guy is one of the most difficult achievements a man can go for. Fuck man, even 7.5s as an average guy are difficult, in ANY dating market. Takes a whole different outlook and strategy.
What about Auston Holleman? Do you trust him?
Thank you bro I’ve been telling men this for years and they don’t want too listen
Someone had to say it bro!
15:00. Yes, we do get tired of that.
Example, Busy becoming rich which is the only thing to persue.
Really? I never have
@@redbeardrants Once i get rich then I will not stop, Tonight I have a nightmare just by walking on the streets.... Watching full grown adults 35+ Males paying attention to some game called Soccer, Spain is awful for a Man. Would like to give you a visit in Brazil :) Maybe brazilian woman are way better thats why you can´t stop persuing those 9-10 :) Spanish are boring af.
The problem is that any person nowadays can contact any girl... so money isn't an issue... they just offer money and that's it...
Life in new York city wasn't fun anymore the average American male no matter what age no matter how rich or how poor lives like a castrated caged animal. Dating was so difficult in the USA. These days dating feels normal again life in general as a human being seems normal again. The best thing I've ever done is retire to south America 2 years ago. My Venezuelan girlfriend is a 8 and i still hire a few girls a month because is such a bargain here. 😂😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯
Broooo yesssss I had a Venezuelan girlfriend too. Their S-tier. My favorite next to Brazilian
@@redbeardrants Colombian girls seem like scamming unhappy criminal minded people. Venezuelan girls are much more great full and appreciate even the smallest things. I truly believe Colombian women hate Americans
Spot on.
"avg American man lives like a caged castrated animal"
This is true. Firstly, a girl that is a true LA, Miami, or NYC 10 cares less about what the guy looks like generally and more about the access he provides. She wants to be seen at the F1 race, courtside, Cannes Film festival, etc. Additionally, she cares more about what she looks like than you look like. This means money for her upkeep is more important. Getting paid to workout, party and have sex with athletes and billionaires isn't the worst thing, she's getting the guys every girl wants anyway and paid to do it. From those guys prospective, it's cheaper than getting married and probably more fun too.
I agree for the most part
Great video. Let me comment from the perspective of starting my dating journey as a recently graduated broken hearted educated lame. Fortunately at my first job I caught the attention of one of the true Sensi of The Game. I was at the time 6'4" 195lbs competitive swimmer and martial artist (Shotokan & Aikido). I had near model quality looks and depressed over losing a college sweetheart who at best was a 4.
My dating Sensi said I was the most intelligent stupid guy he had ever met. But after approximately nine months I was dating three 9+ women. I'm now in my early 50s and havent dated or married women lower than 7+. But back in prehistoric dating times there wasnt the preponderance of 8+ women going into sex work. Most were secretaries or admins at professional firms.
Nevertheless as my experience and training revealed, very few 9+ women make for long term partners or wives. Just like Lambos, McLarens Corvettes etc these women are more weekend show vehicles instead of "daily drivers".
As to availability 9+ women tends to follow a camel hump curve with the high points being 19 - 26 and again 30 - 36. In my maturity I am finding a lot more 30+ women who are 8+. The problem is they almost invariably have one or more children from some previous "situationship".
For a very successful retired male 50+ who looks 30 these retired 8+ semi pros are on the hunt. I do have to swat away their up and cumming 8+ 20 something replacements. My observation is having AAA postive disciplined masculinity tops physical attributes. We men are visual women are more emotional and security optimizing (hypergamy). If I were to seriously consider a candidate for long term relationship adjustable 6s to 7s is the sweetspot. Oh, if memory serves my best physical experienced with women have been with enthusiastic 7s than "just doing the minimum" 9s & 10s.
I agree with a lot, but, keep in mind: you're clearly basing this on AMERICAN women. Women in foreign countries, especially small towns, can definitely be long term material.
@@redbeardrants
Appreciate the comment.
My dating experience is international and with some minor differences 9+ women in major urban areas are pretty much the same.
Your observation about smaller towns is valid. But most of the small town 9+s seem drawn like bees to the honey of "big city" life. It's hard to keep 'em down on the farm with the ubiquity of the internet.
Trophy wife is what you described. She was a 10 as an expensive pro, age caught up with her, she looks good for being in late 20's, and she bags a successful rich divorced 40 year old. And the idiot got divorced for her.
"Sex Work" includes, but not limited to: outright prostitution, stripping, making x-rated content, modelling in general, and anything where compensation is based on appearance/femininity, which can include, waitressing, and front desk receptionist.
I agree. The only women I've ever been with more than a few times are 4's 5's and the occasional 6. And i was confused about why i eventually can't....perform.
I've never gotten a 7,8,9 to stick around long enough for me to know if I'd get sick of her. I've had a few that i would've happily married. But they preferred the single life. I'd prefer an arranged marriage with a beautiful Muslim girl.
Trust me, you won't have that issue with an 8 or above.
@redbeardrants I believe the hyper strict Muslim countries will be better. Similar look as the Latin American women, with laws to keep their behavior in check and stay faithful.
Had elders tell me princesses aren't helpmeets and the maintenance required makes you into the helpmeet.
Is this english? Lol
Physical beauty is designed for one thing - to “turn heads and put eyeballs on target”. There is a lower standard limit that every guy has to have. but extreme beauty by itself has absolutely nothing to with whether a long term relationship ca develop or will develop. The top tier beautiful women who are 9’s and 10’s know they are 9’s and 10’s and often think they are 11’s and 12’s. For that reasons they can often be more trouble than they are worth. The few 9’s and 10’s I dated would sometimes amaze me by how many guys would come up to speak to us and would know her on “first name basis”.😮
But without the beauty good luck falling in love
@@redbeardrants was speaking more about the 9’s and 10’s we are most likely to meet that are social players. The ones you are referring to are the ones who are 9’s and 10’s who don’t feel they are 9’s and 10’s and frankly couldn’t care less about those designations. We woman are just naturally beautiful and quite often with these unique women their physical beauty by itself is not the entirety of their beauty. They have that natural “million dollar” personality. They are caring and thoughtful and not always self-centered. They are not afraid to accept responsibility and frequently use the phrase “I sorry” when most of the time they have nothing to apologize for. They never try to compete with the man in their life. The only time they complain is when you try to spend too much money on them. She will also have the personality such if you had to drive across town just to go to an auto parts or hardware store you would want to go out of your way to pick her up just to enjoy her company. And most of the time a girl who is a 9 or 10 was actually a high 7 or 8 before she learned how to wear makeup or went to a beauty parlor for a professional makeover. Where did I find girls like this? For me it was mostly in my travels to Europe, Montreal Canada, Asia, etc. The lovely Montreal lady and the European ladies were the least impressed by a guy spending an excessive amount of money on them. I once even overheard these ladies complaint about a foreigner by saying something like: “he is a nice guy but he don’t know how to handle his money”. For long term relationship possibilities all of these things factor in. If you are not looking for long term then there is always pay-for-play and keep your sanity for some of us. I realize that is not everyone thing. Everything in the highly capitalistic USA culture is all about the “Benjamin’s” anyway.
@@redbeardrants Once “head is turned” and “eyeballs are on target” If her beauty is all she has going and she is spoiled and/or her personality sucks you are not going to hang around anyway. In reality, that quick type of attraction is not instant love. That is attractive lush. Lush is temporary anyway. Love takes time to build and develop. As someone who has travel to 25 plus countries myself, I would go any far as to say in reality the western culture has done society a disservice by over saying “love” for each other as the key component to start a marriage or long term relationship. There are so many other mutually compatible qualities that come into play to kept the relation going. Starting with mutual commitment. In many cultures such as the Muslim and the Indian subcontinent arranged marriages are the majority not love and they had a lower separation or divorce rate the many western cultures. Don’t get me wrong. The lady has to be “easy on the eyes”. She cannot be unattractive. But when a guy go for the superlative in looks like a 9 or 10 to you when you are with her you can darn well bet she is going to look like a 9 or 10 to other guys when you are not with her. It comes to things like why are you 30 minutes late? Why did it take you so long to open the door? Why are you wearing so much makeup just to go see your girl friend? By contrast, I once had a German girl friend (also ex-flight stewardess) who intellect was such that we would sometimes talk for hours about dozens of topics. If she was not too knowledgeable about a topic like mechanics, weapons, or the outdoors she knew how to ask questions. She knew how to use her well read knowledge without sounding too much like the smartest person in the room. I feel beauty should have both a flood/minimum and a ceiling if the goal is to look for a meaningful relationship that could have long term potential.
Really helpful video brother keep going! The people that leave hater comments hate themselves so much that they have to put it on you. Definitely one of the best in this space for sure.
Thanks bro. Most people actually agreeing with this though
Good video G
Thanks man
Can't agree on this one tbh.
1. The #1 unequivocal attribute for a healthy long term relationship def isn't good looks. It's loyalty and femininity. Although you do have to be attracted initially, they don't have to be a 10/10. That's ridiculous. If the #1 attribute is looks you'll get a sugar baby at best that looks good but is dumb as bricks and otherwise worthless.
2. Although none of us can 100% confirm that a woman has NEVER in her life sold the p sleeve, the idea that 95% of the 9s and 10s are openly doing sex work is cap. The prob w 9s and 10s isn't that they are all selling box, it's that they want you to have a private jet and a lambo aventador just to give you the time of day. It's that their standards are insane. They're not literally doing sex work.
3. It doesn't have to be a small city, has to be a conservative city or traditional city. Barranquilla isn't a small town, it's just not a tourist attraction town. So a lot of the women have more poise vs a city like mde where the culture is fast money over everything. That's like going to Miami vs going to Orlando.
I respect your opinion, brother, but I have tons of data points to back this up... interesting convo at least. And I agree I'm probably a lot more superficial than the average man. Looks are super important to me.
@redbeardrants as do I have plenty of data points and Counterpoints. Then there's the subjectivity of attractiveness. The info would have to be anecdotal. Even using digital avatars, there's a lot of room for error w fake and scam profiles designed to pose as sugar babies and those we consider the most attractive often end up in divorce and broken relationships. Def an interesting convo to have though.
All I'm saying is this... you go to any city... you won't see hardly any 9s or 10s walking around. For months you may not see any. Then, You go to a strip club and BOOM! There they. Sugar daddy website? There they are.
@@redbeardrants yeah I def agree w that
@@redbeardrants and out side the strip club, those 9's and 10's are mean as satan
This is called limited beliefs, 95% is an exaggeration
Bro have you actually pursued and dated true 9s and 10s? No. You haven't. Or you'd know.
@@redbeardrants bruh the girl in your thumbnail is a 5.2
You just gotta stop going to bars and clubs I agree most of those women are skanks but hot girls 18-22 outside of the nightlife are not sex workers. Touch grass lol
@@johnanderson8284 5.2? Come on. Just by not being fat, she's already a 6. Now add that she has a pretty face and she's a 7 by anyone's standards.
@@johnanderson8284 People forget that in the US the AVERAGE, ADULT FEMALE is 168 lbs. Average = '5'.
Solid vid. Very raw and real.
Somebody's got to tell the truth
Hit the nicest gyms in Medellin Colombia, and you definitely get the super pros and narco novias. P.s. great content. Have you been doing jiujitsu?
Fax. And not recently. Years ago I did. Made it to blue belt.
@@redbeardrantswhere did you train at
Bro is showing himself simping over 5's and 6's while talking about 9 and 10's
If you can post a receipt of you with a girl above a 7, I'll eat a frog on live
It's a sad truth but the 9s know they're 9s and are all over Instagram getting offers from Detroit, Dallas & Dubai.
Even if you sleep with a 9 or 10 after awhile you get sick of them anyway! So I rather hang with a 7 or 8 which usually have way better personalities!
Large majority of men that say this have never had a 9 or 10. They simply repeat what they’ve heard…
You've dated true 9s bro?
Hahaha, I don't think you have real experience with 9-10 women. 7-8s do not have clearly better personalities than 9-10s. It's a lie propagated by people who never had the 9-10s. A really lame lie.
@@MX-rx4ioAnd yet most men are lucky if they even get a 5!
It definitely ain’t worth settling for a 3 or 4!
Colombian, brasilian and latina girls have tons of 8-10( purely physical rating) it's crazy...
cool intro, different then most pua's advice. play the numbers game. your smart and good heart, i would hire you as my wingman. ;-)
I appreciate that my man
Yeah idk nga.... have you tried going to small town instead of medellin and sao Paolo or whatever
I feel like.
I already replied to this, but it's not showing.Yes i'm definitely gonna go to more small towns
@@redbeardrants yeah my bad I haven't finsibed watching 😂
My strategy will be to get a 18 yo virgin in small town and treat her like my hija and teach her to be inteligent and great wife
My bad I haven't finished watching when commenting 😂
My strategy will be to go to a small town find a 18 yo virgin and teach her all, how to work, how to be a good wife
I feel the problem might also be her family letting me though
It's great that women are available like that. Take advantage, nothing to complain about, relationships aren't that great.
I don't judge , but that's not what this channel is about
Totally understandable and I don't judge either. Your channel has interesting content.
In my neck of the woods, maximum 7s are in red light work. The 8s 9s and 10s are wifed up.
I promise if you go to a strip club or sugar daddy website in your area, you will see them
Love your videos bro! But question, Sooo, does that mean 95% of the 9's and 10's you've dated were PFP? ....not busting balls, just curious.
Looool
The US is definitely the toughest most competitive dating market here
UK is even worse but yeah, USA is fucked
😂😂😂 light work Try Canada Toronto specifically
@@redbeardrants Well said
💯💪🏾🔥Facts that's crazy
Thanks man, someone had to set the record straight on this.
is there a way to tell if a woman is selling herself?
Hey bro, can you make a video on how height may affect your dating results overseas? No one on passport bros YT has addressed this yet.
Simple. Don't worry about it, you can't change it. Do the best you can. And Latin America and Asia have short girls anyway. Done. No need for a video
@redbeardrants I'm 5'5 to 5'6 late 40's but in very good shape, and did extremely well in South America
Height dont matter in south America dress well and have Poise. I had a solid 6 tell me she prefers shorter men in south America
Good commentary.
Glad you enjoyed it
Banger
Hey bro, I know David bond isn’t teaching any more of his “hacking” techniques. Do you teach a lot of what he taught in the past?
Yes
Small Towns FTW 😎
Absolutely, best hack ever.
This video is why Dada tell their daughters to wait till marriage 😭😭😭😭
For real
So you done with Medellin Colombia?
Of course. Terrible city with no values
like this one in the thumb ?
im out here in fortaleza..come through..northeast is where its at
What's your insta? I'll hit you up
💯💯💯💯💯%
Someone had to say it
P4P is the best strategy for most men anyway
Highly attractive womn want highly attractive men, & it wouldnt be fair any other way in the modern era.
That happened to me China fell for a very attractive girl turns out she worked giving massages with happy endings
Not a surprise, unfortunately
well I think it is not worthy to be better for a women who can be ordered next day for 200 bucks for hour I rather would go on the beach and learn how to surf or do some drone video :D and in case of long term I would rather be with 7 but with great character and personality than with egoistic narcistic 9-10
Fair enough, but if she's not at least an 8., imma get bored
8’s 9’s and 10’s (rare but there are a few) are bought and paid for
Fax.
ya i had a hot college cuban gf once, and she was all about buy me this clothes, get me this phone, right away i put her on my pump n dump category as soon as i felt that kind of vibe, and i got myself OUT OF THERE, bye bye gold digger!
The key word was "ROCK CONCERT" - hot young 8-10's in 2024 don't give a damn about "rock music" or anything with creative integrity for that matter - they care about money, shopping, social media, rappers, and ....well....that's about it.
I mean, you would think in Sao Paulo frickin Brazil there would've be at least a few 8's...
Since the dawn of times man…… none new. My wealthy russian friend told me how investing in a very hot escort opened him the doors to business partners since she made him look like a real G. Crazy to think but true.
Russia and Türkiye are the same
I believe it. It's everywhere
Here in the US this statement is true!!!!! 6 and 7s some of dem are p2p !!!!!
Unreal eh
Thats why Africa is my stomping grounds
What part of Africa
And bisexual. They go both ways.
Also more common
Shit the 6s nd 7s are p2p in 2024.
Sheeesh true
This is stupid advice. Life is beyond a girl's beauty.
Ok. Date a mid chick and watch how quickly you lose interest. Ever wonder why you don't have a gf? You're not dating beautiful women. Good luck finding love with mid chicks
Stop it. Get some help.
Can you fall in love with a 5?
This whole thing seems so sad to me. Spending so much time and energy just to have sex with attractive women. You might as well just pay for it. You are anyway.
Bro... if you can fall in love with 5's, be my guest.
@@redbeardrants Those 9s and 10s aren't going to stay by your side, nor will you have children with them. You spent your entire life pursuing women. How can you honestly say this wasn't a waste of time.
Get a mic clip & let your arm thank you
Yeah, audio sounds better when i talk directly into it
Yup
GLOBALLY.
That's why you play for keeps. And pack some doxy 😎
I got a bunch in Chicago in SA. My ex wife I'm swearing was one too (before the websites were a thing) and she never admitted it, but I think I met her former dude, who was 20 years older.
Her older sister, she admitted, was about that life. She said he sister would find guys at steak houses.
I'd consider myself an 7.5, but a 9 with cash. Could be an 8, but I'm outta shape 😂
SA is the best hope for most guys sadly
@@redbeardrantswhat’s SA?
When you P4P it's just that you are not handsome enough. It's 90% genetics. It's fine if you can't do it. Whatever works for you.
If you can show verifiable receipts of you dating true 9s and 10s without paying for it, I'll eat a frog live on TH-cam
@@redbeardrantsI'd love to watch you pull a David Blaine 🐸
I’m 6-2, 200 pound bodybuilder told I’m handsome my whole life. I only smashed 9’s and 10’s in highschool. 32 now, and it’s a different game.
I get attention from women all the time, especially dimes. Problem is, once they see I drive a Toyota it’s all over.
Like he said, the young dimes around age 20 are still game for me, I have several begging me to marry them.
The older dimes in their 30’s that find more attractive, different story. At that age looks get you in the door, but they immediately looking to your money and career if you want to talk. No looks, than you need to use the lambo
in malambo... dunkey lovers
Jesusn
Bro, just stop…
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sorry ...you are wrong.....100% ....get it right Mr Tattoo Arm...................
What are sugar daddy websites???
Google it my friend
You got a SMP
What's that
@@redbeardrants se!ual market value Bruv !
This take is ridiculous. "I wEnt To the sTriP and saw BadDies" is the weakest form of empirical evidence. You literally just threw up a stat that seemed ginormous in your head
Bro. Lol. Where do you actually see 8.5+? Super exclusive and luxurious clubs, sugar daddy sites, strip clubs. That's about it.
Malls@@redbeardrants
@redbeardrants Of course you will see a concentration of them in certain establishments they're most likely to get invited or hired by businesses to bring in more customers. As for sugar sites, you have women across the spectrum on there similar to regular dating sites. Of course you'll see more of them on such sites compared to your neighborhood bar since you're seeing women from all over the city. You'll see more of everything, good and ugly. To leap from this to 95% of HOtTies are P4P is crazy.
Case… Casey…
L-l-let’s just… agree to disagree man…
Explain
Oh lmao, just noticed your user name, dying. Nearly spit out my water
Pay To Play!
Sad but true
Although I am Muslim, and sex outside marriage is a sin, but I don't even trust my future Muslim wife when it comes to everyday sex, she might use the system against me. Hence sex with 9s and 10s escorts can't easy stress. Just do the 'Mutaah(temporary marriage)' like Shiah Muslims do.