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Mark is jealous that he’s not being babied anymore...or he’s a misogynist and thinks women shouldn’t be treated well(whether this would be because of or regardless of being cheated on is irrelevant).
Sounds like mark has been listening to too much Andrew Tate 😬
@@confuzed_colonizer OH MY GOD 😭😭
@@confuzed_colonizer mark reminds me of that one quote from andrew tate "if a woman cheats, leave her if a man cheats it's called exercise."
First story: OP did *nothing* wrong. Mark was a hypocrite. It sucks he was cheated on but if anything, he should be *empathising* with Gia BECAUSE they were both cheated on. Frankly, Mark needed the metaphorical smack in the face.
Second story: she had every right to. I was always raised for respecting my elders, but if everyone else was serving themselves (including older family members like MIL), there's not reason the FIL can't.
Third story: the girlfriend deserves much better❤️ if she's worried about her health and wants to do certain things for it, that is HER DECISION. It is *her body* not his - he does not get a say. It's also very hurtful that someone doing something for themselves involving their body automatically means their not loyal.. i hope this girl gets treated better❤️
Have a good day/night everyone❤️❤️❤️
Third story,
If the bf wants op to lose weight to look good for him, *he* should get buff to look good for *her*
@@Loaves_of_Cat yeah but who said looking buff
was looking good, I know for me and lots of my friends we all find it a bit intimidating!
The first story was literally when to use the "no bitches?" Meme in a nutshell
@@laurao.o me too, like the super muscular body builder type, but I get CatD's point!
"You can lose weight by dropping him" lmfaoo yes period🤣💅
"I lost 180 lbs yesterday." "What?!! in one day?" "yep dumped the boyfriend".
I’m dying at the thumbnail 😂🤣 Father-in-law really thinks he’s at Olive Garden or red lobster where the waiters and waitresses serve you.
HAHAHAHA DED
Not the Olive Garden 💀
Ok, to the op in the last story, there's nothing wrong with wanting to lose weight and indulge once in while. What ISN'T ok is a partner who tries to control your actions and outright accuses you of laziness and CHEATING when you're NOT in the wrong. If it's important to HIM that you LOOK good, how's that gonna look in marriage life? Will he keep being insecure and unsupportive, trafficking your every action that would reflect on him in some way??
Jinxie - That woman in this story could drop the equivalent weight of one person very quickly - that boyfriend.
@@jengsci8268 she could and should
Gia has such a nice supportive family..... Mark needs to get a grip honestly 🙄 idk why he's not sympathetic towards her since he got cheated on too.
Yeah like show gia some sympathy he going though the Same thing
I’m wheezing at the thumbnail, next time request payment. That way personal staff is conveyed as a luxury and charge them plenty.
HAHAHA YAAS!! The audacity of some men...
@@Kyutie. istg ima start taxing people for their audacious demands
I would have said the same thing as the OP lol just the, “Ok, then starve?” Is literally the kind of thing I would say
About the first story, I agree that it was about time he be fed the medicine he was prescribing. If you deliberately cheat on someone, any reason you provide is an excuse to be selfish. If you were unsatisfied with your current relationship, COMMUNICATE! Talk through it, solve it, and if it can't be solved, end the relationship, and _then_ you're free to pursue someone else.
If someone cheats on you it's never your fault unless you cheated on them first .
Or if abuse is involved. But those relationships are over in the victims perspective no matter how long it officially goes on for.
Me thinking of The Office
I said to myself like 8 minutes ago, “I hope Ellen’s video today is an aita today”! And I couldn’t believe it when I saw the notification!
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Respect is one thing servitude is completely different
None of them are wrong! Brother being a jerk. FIL being a jerk. And her fiancé is being a jerk! If he’s like that about her losing weight she can lose a whole lot of weight by dumping him 😂 if he’s not happy with how she looks now then she needs to get out of that relationship. Losing weight should be something she does for herself not for a man or anyone else!
I agree that losing weight should be something she does for herself. She should dump that man.
My mom has taught me to respect people, everyone, if they deserve it. This doesn't mean disrespect people until they've proven they're worthy of respect, it just means don't put up with anyone's shit because you're supposed to "respect your elders". Because guess what, sometimes elders can do or say some stupid sht, they are not always right, and sometimes their views and thoughts are outdated. This was what my own mom told me from a very young age, older ≠ wiser. Use your common sense, they're not always right.
I recently found out my ex cheated on ne. When we broke up she blamed the breakup on me so i blamed myself for why she cheated.
What you said about it not being your fault was something I really needed to hear so thank you so much
first thing I say (when someone blames me for their decisions) is to put the responsibility right back on them. "I can't even make you think better of me, how could I make you cheat on me?"
The second story reminds me so much of the men in my family. They still haven't left the ancient time.
Oh my gaaaa that father in law tho the response was hilarious " I shrugged and said you can starve I dont care"
Kyutie, thank you so much for always brightening our days even if it's with your fun commentary on enraging stories. Also your hair is adorable 😍
My mother taught my dad a lesson. My dad hates turkey but I use turkey burger in my goulash. All he ever does is complain about it but also eats it. Mom waited until my dad was really hunrey when she made dinner. She refused to let my dad eat any of the ghoulish as he said he hates turkey and complains about it so he wasn't going to be allowed to eat it. she also banned my dad from eating anything else for several hours. Every time he tried to sneak anything she would let of this growl and tell him to put it down and leave the room. Mom and I were very cruel to him by eating in front of him while saying this was one of the best ghoulish we ever had and ask him if he wanted any before getting petty saying 'oh wait you don't since you don't like turkey sorry my mistake.' He learned that dad to shut up about what meat is used. He was allow to eat about 6 hours later only for my mom to take the bowl away from him after a complainant about how the pasta was made. He learn that day not to complain that day about the food as every time he did that mom would take the food and not let him eat. He is not the type of person where food is to be on the table when he gets home, that only happens when he called from work saying that he would be out of town for a while due to his weird hours at work. We may have gone to far or may not have but he doesn't complain about turkey being used in the food anymore.
That’s a bit cruel lol I understand complaints can get annoying if they’re really repetitive but if he doesn’t like it he doesn’t have to like it, there’s always a peaceful compromise you just gotta look for it!❤️
sassbrat - Our mother used to do something like this, only in reverse. If we said we didn't like something or complained about the food, we got twice as much of it and had to eat it! That pretty much put an end to complaints to the cook! We could still politely say "I don't care for that" so she would know if we liked it or not, but we still had to eat a little bit as it was still part of the meal. We always had to at least try new things. I thank her for that now, given all the wonderful foods I can enjoy because of it. 😊 Nowadays, they don't call them picky eaters, but individuals with discerning tastes. 😆
@@Lav_Pixie2007 It worked though. We only did it maybe 3 times before he got the message. It wasn't like he didn't get to eat that day, it was just that if he complained about the food them he would have to wait to eat. Maybe it was a little cruel but he learned.
@@jengsci8268 My mom was the same way when it came to trying new things. take enough to have 2 bites to make sure you like it.
7:00 I had something similar happen to me with my brother. I made us both chili, and I dipped my food out, and left him half. I waited for a while, but he still wasn't coming. (Keep in mind, I never served him food unless it was for his birthday.)
I yelled food's done, and he said okay. Five minutes later, he comes into the kitchen, and asks where his food is. I tell him in the pot. He got huffy, saying he thought I would serve him. I went off, saying he could get off his lazy butt and serve his own food, and that I am not, and will never be his maid.
I had a similar situation, I was cooking breakfast and I suddenly felt a bout of vertigo and it was so bad I had to lie down on the kitchen floor, after a few minutes I could get myself back up again and since the food was done anyways I rushed to my room to lie down. My grandmother went to me to ask where the food was and I told her it was just in the pan but it was all cooked and she can just get her food. She huffed at me and was annoyed and scolded me about not serving it on a plate in the dining room and she didn't even notice the state I was in, this is why I don't cook for her anymore.
@@dio6586 Good on you for stopping!
A lot of people just don't know what the word no is anymore.
First story, no you're not wrong in fact you could have been harsher if you wanted to
I used to watch you when I was small, seeing your account gives me so much nostalgia! I still love your videos and I hope you have a great day!!
my dad broke the edge of our dishwasher the day before last and our mom confronted him about it and he said something like "it was like that already" or something close even though I saw him break it
like bruh it was so obvious I heard and saw and my sister heard
its easier just to be honest then to lie about it
I'm a slow learner, but people who automatically lie when someone confronts them about what they've just done (or said) (apart from that being gaslighting anyway) is that those people are cowards. And if they're cowards, they're often bullies too. Just keep that in mind. The exception to this is when a child is very timid, or a parent is yelling way too much at the child for "childish" mistakes. Then when a parent or adult says "Did you do that??" to the kid, the kid will learn to lie to avoid the unpleasant confrontation, which he/she feels unmatched to withstand. Sometimes adults don't grow out of that stage.
1st story - Mark is jealous that his sister is getting attention, and it's been diverted away from him.
I was 308lbs. I am now 175pounds. I still have a way to go to reach my ideal weight, but I am doing it for myself. So that I can see my grandchildren grow up. If you do something, do it for yourself. It makes a better result and it'll be something you'll feel more proud of than if you did it for someone else. And above all, don't give up.
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I think Mark was the reason why his ex kicked him out.
Wait wait wait... Second story! So OP INVITED them to her and her husbands house? And the FIL decided he sat at the head of the table at THEIR house? No... Just no... This is not how it's done... When you get invited you sit where the head of the house (Traditionally the husband of OP) would sit you. He is at the head, the second host (So his wife OP) sit's on the other end of the table. And at the right hand of the husband (Host 1) you get the guest of honour, if there is one. So yeah, he has no idea what he is doing he just likes to be in power... Jikes... Even my uncultured poor but knows better!
I never really understood the whole "Respect your elders" thing. I respect people who deserve respect. And if all you did was be born earlier than I was, that's... just not worthy of respect. I'm not saying I don't respect older people, just older people that deserve it. Not people like this guy.
I think it's a "hangover" from very early days, when the elders DID know whereof they spoke (Avoid that dinosaur, keep your head down when travelling between enemy territories, don't eat that plant). For survival of the clan/tribe/group, it was important that young people (who think they know everything, or are simply plain ignorant of some factor) pay attention in order to survive all the things they don't know about yet...It was more about "Elders' experience is valuable"...Just my take on it. Some cultures, usually matriarchal by the way, took into consideration all age groups/genders/persons' input on any important decisions affecting the tribe as a whole, even though the head of the family (a woman) would make the final decision. Because modern society is so disjointed; we don't rely on a group to survive, but virtual strangers to get our food to the table, there's no modern reason to "respect your elders" because we are all thrown out into society to make or break ourselves, to some degree. There are certain modifiers, mentors and influences channelling us through our lives, but we can pretty much choose who or what they are. Not so when your survival, and essentially everyone in your clan, depends on each person or child doing what is needed.
I don’t think you should respect someone who doesn’t respect you and that FIL definitely didn’t respect OP
There’s no way that I would treat someone better just because they’re old. I would be respectful to everyone but as soon as they disrespect me I wouldn’t be nice anymore.
First story=> She did the right thing. The mom shouldn't interrupt when one sibling is teaching the other the right way.
Second story=> She was awesome. The FIL is an asshole.
Third story=> DO NOT marry this guy. He's already ruining your self-esteem.
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First story its possible his gf didn't cheat on him she just couldn't get him out of her life. He looks like a person who won't get any hints and if u tell him upfront he will throw a fit. She had to go extreme to kick him out. If he is so horrible to his own sister i can't even imagine what he was like to gf.
Ellen, this is about the only time I could disagree, and agree with you. I am a retired US Army Infantry sergeant, now your neighbor, in the Philippines. When we were in the forest, at mealtime, the youngest soldier got fed first, and then went up from there, by age, of course, we had a list. The point being, is that as leaders, you always take care of your people, first and foremost. Sometimes, not often, there would be no food left for sergeants and officers. No problem, we were experienced enough to have food enough to share for ourselves Living in an Asian culture of course, he would get due deference. But in the US? He can go shit in his hat.
"ballon" in her stomach is a surgical procedure. OP wrote it like it was something she did herself. I forget what it's actually called
Hii ellen loved the video and I hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and that both of you stay healthy and coco is adorable too 💜💜💜
to that story with the fil who insisted the woman should serve him, to him saying "I won't eat anything then!" , I would have answered: "Or you could break your arm."
I feel like this would have been a bit more savage.
1st Story: OP did nothing wrong. The mom shouldn't have told OP that he/she/they should apologize to Mark. Mark owes Gia an apology.
2nd Story: OP isn't in the wrong. OP's dad is in the wrong for telling OP that she was disrespectful and should apologize to FIL (father in law). FIL should've gotten his plate himself. FIL didn't show any respect to OP. So OP doesn't have to show respect to him. FIL's view/opinion that a man should be served first is really outdated. OP isn't a maid or waitress.
3rd Story: OP should dump the guy.
First story; If you can't take being served the same things you serve others, *don't dish it out.* He's a massive hypocrite and his mom shouldn't have sided with him, unless she doesn't know the story to the full extent (I.e, she doesn't know the things he says, and thought it was a one time thing) but even then she should understand what was said and how OP just said the same thing back.
Second story; I'd have done the same. In my family, we respect our elders but serve ourselves unless we're really young, have some problems with out health or other reasons falling under these types of situations- not just because "I'm the man, I should be served by you, not have to do it myself" type of thing. Though I understand where her dad's coming from- he probably wanted to make a good impression(if this was his first time meeting that family) and thinks his daughter could have been a bit nicer but still stuck with what she said.
Third story;
For anyone confused, the balloon she's on about is a *Gastric balloon- a surgeon inserts the balloon orally and then expands it with sterile saline fluid, once it is placed in your stomach. When full, the balloon is too large to pass into the bowel and this makes you feel fuller with less food in your stomach.* You can research it better if you're really curious, but this is just the basic knowledge to help you understand. Also, why does she have to look good for him but he doesn't have to look good for her? That's a bit hypocritical if you ask me, she doesn't have to lose wait unless she wants to or a doctor says it'd be best for her health(just to limit possible health problems). She's not cheating him by not being able to lose wait fast, he's just picky and needs to suck it up. She's doing her best, but if she feels like she wants to lose wait faster- than maybe she can try different exercise (more, if she already has some) routines, I know there's a few that can really help, but they definitely take time and motivation.
The last one? I pray she didn't marry that jerk!
The story with Mark really rubs me the wrong way like men and their dumb misogynistic comments 🤦🏾♀🙄😒. It reminds me of when I was pregnant with an ex of mine and unfortunately I had a miscarriage and my step dad really had the nerve to say "It's a good thing you didn't have that baby, you would've been kicked out of this house for sure". All I could do was cry in that moment and he didn't even care. I'm so glad I was able to move out of my parent's house soon after because I've had to deal with my step dad being verbally and physically abusive to me for too many years.
I hope the last person didn't marry that guy. He's showing his true colors, and if isn't treating her right now, he won't magically start once they're married. As for the not serving the father-in-law story, I think the dad just meant the woman shouldn't have told her father-in-law he could starve. It's fine to refuse to serve him, but telling him to starve is taking it a step too far. You can shut people down without being disrespectful or mean.
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If you dish it out you better damn well be able to take it
Respecting my elders stops when they cross a line with me. Respect works both ways; you respect me, and I respect you. *THAT* is how it works. FIL is a narcissistic, entitled little so-and-so. I would have done the same thing. Or, fix him a plate of whatever _I_ put on, and throw it down at his place. Either way, he would also get a speech about how this is *MY* house, not his, so he needs to respect _ME_ in *my* house, or GTFO! I just can't stand a narcissist. And even worse are the gas lighting, "flying monkeys" that support them by accusing the _actual_ victim of being rude in defending themselves.
The story with the boyfriend who is demanding his girlfriend to lose weight is pretty disturbing if you ask me..he sounds like a controlling insecure jerk who won't actually give unconditional love to this woman even when they're married. I've gained some weight since being with my boyfriend and I too want to lose weight to be healthier and my boyfriend encourages me but never once has he demanded me to lose weight and he loves me regardless of my size and still treats me like I'm the most beautiful woman in the world and that's how relationships should be.
Mark is like, "I'm the baby, gotta love me"--but no one else deserves this treatment because HE'S the baby. And I agree with others in the comments; I wonder how he would be behaving toward Gia if she was his BROTHER rather than his sister?
I can't with the thumbnail LMAO
God men don't understand anything menopause is hard enough to deal with without trying to add weight loss on top of it...if he can't except her for who she is then he doesn't deserve her. Sounds like she got the original kind of bariatric surgery which was a balloon put in the stomach to change the amount of space.
Ohh, it's the same for me! I have a 12 year old aunt and I'm way older than her.
I have a younger “cousin” who’s actually my uncle in “titles” and I am Chinese
7:21
I have no idea how that works😐
If you want an example of when cheating is justified, watch Helluva Boss. Stolas' wife is torture. After that, watch SML and look at Brooklyn Guy's wife.
Kyutie its been a while since i’ve visited your channel and i just wanna say i rlly miss your old gaming videos! Pls make more of them❤️
Omg you’re so pretty in every video 🥺🫶 love today’s video!! They got what they deserved tbh 😩🤚 she is not a maid for that father in law
POV you were expecting coco in the intro
awww hehe
I feel so stressed for the third story person... I have tried damn near every tactic to lose weight, and when none of them worked, I felt hopeless. I was legitimately doing my best to stick with the routines and diets, but when they failed I felt like I just hadn't done it right or tried hard enough. (This led to some eating disorders, as you might imagine.) So for Person 3 to be apparently on the right track with their method, it's ESPECIALLY infuriating to hear them be called "lazy" or "weak-willed" *while they are actually doing it.*
All this is aside from the obviously problematic bf. But other commenters have already torn that asshole to shreds (heh) so I don't think I can add anything interesting to that discussion.
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Thumbnail got me😂🤣💀
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If the father in law is the bread winner, he may want to be served first as a sign of respect. It is old time-ishy but there is nothing wrong with that if he is paying for everything. Being served by only women is too old time-ishy, he needs to forget that. He is from a different time. This should have been discussed before hand. He is someone that believes that bread winners should be served first, so he is big on respect. Having the situation play out the way it did and so publicly is going to be perceived as very disrespectful and this is only going to cause problems in the future.
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4:12 I heard that people dislike the people that remind them of themselves. Maybe that's why he's acting that way. Still no excuse though.
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If the guy in the last one didn't want to be with a woman he thinks is overweight then why was he with her at all? Go find a woman who is thin if that's what you want. DUH
Idk 🤷🏻♀️ starve ? 😂
You can lose weight by dropping him. Whoooaaa!
The first story is literally the writer telling his bro *Megamind voice* no bitches?
Omg how is Coco
I love your videos^w^
I'm not sure about the respect given but if your grandparents have another child after you're born that kid will be your uncle even if your older. In my culture it's up to you wether or not you show them respect but they still have that title.
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I swear when i missed the notification I got so sad, but atleast I'm early!
✪ (っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ love your channel & love coco too!!! ✪
I like your stories. lol
But it's not even about respecting elders. The FIL was literally just saying shit cuz he wanted the FEMALES to serve him.
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Hey, I'm sorry but could you explain a little more about this titles thing?
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sorry I wasn't earlier! but hello Ellen and coco!
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@@Kyutie. It was happy tears 😉😅
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LOL Asians can really have some weird hierchy. Like a younger persons kid can be higher than you. It's so confusing. 🤣🤣🤣